But, there's an old saying which means.. if a theif disguised like a monk and pretends kindness in front of people, over time he doesn't have to pretend anymore.. as He it slowly becomes his nature... Authenticity comes with practice.
if you are in between friendzone, family no need to act like this but in BUISNESS or WORK about some minutes or interview you need to act like this... it might decide many things
But sometimes other people wouldn't understand they will judge u if u are with friends or anyone who can understand its ok but if u are at any business meeting or interview u have to show how calm and control u are so u don't show other businessmen or interviewer that u are weak and yes i do understand that we are imperfect we will show emotions but in certain place u cannot show ur imperfections or else u will taken advantage of it in certain situations or they will judge u no matter what 😌
Nothing required ..if u hv knowledge that is enough ..no drama.😊 Be simple n how much u hv knowledge that matters..people ll listen u even if u not wearing coat 😊
The more you try to learn body posture and expression the more you become self conscious and self aware and you start losing confidence which will be visible in body language It's better to just be relax and be your real honest self confidence will come automatically
First one is considered more elite !! Crossing legs is not considered elegant . (Just an observation from few personality development sessions from different fields ).
@@shinjinisrivastava8157 I don't know if it's just me but I have been taught again and again that crossing legs like that is a disrespectful to the one infront ...... I have been scolded in school twice 😅 ......I would choose to be polite rather than confident
Yes....this is actually what you need to command respect. It sends the message that you can be trusted and relied upon to deliver a specific task due to your apparent confidence....others might not like it but that's how the world is...appearance comes first
Can u tell me just one thing sis that is it fixed that girls will get periods on last dates of the month...I mean is it something kinda fixed or what's it?
@@SteveRogers... No it's not same for everyone , for some girls they get their periods exact day of last time(so rare ), for some girls they get 1 to 5 days late or 1 to 5 days fast , for some people they won't even can istimate when their periods will come , it's all about the hormones , simply for me it changes every month
In india, we consider it is an another form disrespect towards others if you are sitting in a chair by placing your leg over your another leg (like she did ) when a person who is elder than you sitting besides you 😊
I love the grounded reality of this channel!!! Retirement took a toll on my finances, but with my involvement in the digital market, $27,000 weekly returns has been life changing. AWESOME GOD
Only God knows how much grateful i am. After so much struggles I now own a new house and my family is happy once again everything is finally falling into place!!
Wow...I know her too she is a licensed broker and a FINRA agent she is popular in US and Canada she is really amazing woman with good skills and experience.
No, one should avoid crossed legs while sitting it creates a perception of being closed off or less confidence. Though there is no hard and fast rule but open posture is associated with confidence and approachability.
Maybe the impression or gestures (conveying different body languages/ signals) change for from time to time. "Ladies don't cross their legs" ....most comman sentence to listen in grooming classes. Then there is clarification or denial ...."of course they do if they are wearing pants or knee length skirts". So to cross legs or not is the option or question!?!....But you whatever circumstances you should be comfortable wherever you are and whatever you are wearing, above all most important is be Confident and Comfortable whatever Position and Posture you adapt!! P:S: Sitting in a position which is not comfortable may make you look nervous or conscious.
I really like all these videos🙂 Can we also see a video how to sit in a chair that’s too big? I struggle with deep chairs because I can only sit half way back sometimes and my feet won’t touch the ground lol How do I make these situations look graceful?🤔
So you want me to behave like an AI Robot😂 Common not all situations can give you a chance to be cool, slow and settled...Go according to the situation 👍🏻
My inner thinking when I'm feeling shaky is think you're a robot. Slow, calm, cool. Emotionless. So yes, we want to be like robots bcs acting like a scared deer in headlights is beta asf
Funny enough looking rushed feels confident for me. Personally I feel confidence shows from your facial expression and your eyes, I read it from there.
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Im an interview they made me wait 20 minutes! At that point I didn’t even want that job anymore. So I went to the bathroom to make them wait for me. 😊 They didn’t have anything prepared and didn’t ask me if I had any questions for them because I did.
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It's not free
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Just be authentic. The world lacks authenticity and kindness. Let's change it.
360 likes and no comment?? Lemme change that😅
Impossible
But, there's an old saying which means.. if a theif disguised like a monk and pretends kindness in front of people, over time he doesn't have to pretend anymore.. as He it slowly becomes his nature... Authenticity comes with practice.
Yes, authenticity can be clearly seen once we are our homes. 😂😂😂
The world chases after perfection and wants to go for the best option available.
Great 🎉
The right one came for a job interview.. left one is the Boss 😂😂😂
Nah fr 😂
Nice onee😂😂😂
😂
😅😅
In my school folding legs was the sign of disrespect
Wtf why
@@InactiveTwig because ot shows u r dominating the other person sitting in front of u
Yes
Same
Same bro 😢
Why youtube suggested this when i search for a video for exam preparation 😅
Ho gye na distract 💀🤣
Padhlo Guys😂
🤷🏽♀️ I’m asking the same . I’m here for calculus 🤦🏽♀️😅
😅😅😅
Exactly 😅
Same😂
Exactly, I'm here for question tags and short response😅
Everybody is different and behaves differently in different situations
But everybody is judged on the way they behave
Correct 💯
Fact
@@abikrsen3205behaviour and body language both are different things even a watch man had a better body language than his fatty baldy sucessful boss
But then why to Judge!!!! 😂
Be urself.. Don't live a fake life.. Be happy..be comfortable..confidence will come automatically
Well said🎉
if you are in between friendzone, family no need to act like this but in BUISNESS or WORK about some minutes or interview you need to act like this...
it might decide many things
Lol😂
Boss be like:You have to maintain hierarchy of our organization this is not your place....understand(bsdk)
Super 🎉
To be honest, they both look confident.
Bro i think the world is making every step we make harder 😂
😂😂😂 could be true
when your crush is Infront of you... your powerful body language becomes shakaboom💥💀
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Its okay to be tensed...We are humans with imperfections
But sometimes other people wouldn't understand they will judge u if u are with friends or anyone who can understand its ok but if u are at any business meeting or interview u have to show how calm and control u are so u don't show other businessmen or interviewer that u are weak and yes i do understand that we are imperfect we will show emotions but in certain place u cannot show ur imperfections or else u will taken advantage of it in certain situations or they will judge u no matter what 😌
@@palashjana1214good explanation 👌😅
@@xninja2369 oh
@@palashjana1214 not joking
@@xninja2369 ok 👌
If someone nervous and tensed doesn't mean that they don't fit a job they are just dedicated people they give their 💯 in job
But if they want to clear interview...then they should have confidence and power body language....
If I do this in front of my parents they think I am lazy
😂😂😂😂
Right Ghost
Yes
😂😂
When you have confidence in mind , it automatically shows up in your gestures .
I just came here to say that .....😅
Underrated comment
Good I also feel this I have not good personality but everyone gazed me because I m honest and best in my mind
Exactly, all this videos about posting and what not, are going to make this worst for shy people.
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Rather than being authentic be yourself. Kindness is the purest gesture.
@@amoxzi aann aann... I guess you missed it out.. authenticity is being factual but it can even be stressful.
dude get a dictionary and look what authenticity means @@suparnamallick39
being authentic means being yourself 😉 authenticity is not pretending to be someone alse.
Confidence needs to be in mind..
Confident people seem confident even in hurry💫
Left girl describing me perfectly
Pov- Arrogance is confidence these days 😂
True😞
PoV -Aroogance is more likeable than grace hence u disapproved the lady like behavior in the video
Nothing required ..if u hv knowledge that is enough ..no drama.😊 Be simple n how much u hv knowledge that matters..people ll listen u even if u not wearing coat 😊
Dumbest shit I've read, koi ni, abhi bollywood ki Duniya se bahar aane do.
The more you try to learn body posture and expression the more you become self conscious and self aware and you start losing confidence which will be visible in body language
It's better to just be relax and be your real honest self confidence will come automatically
Pov:you searched linear inequalities and got this 😂😂.
Somehow I prefer the first it looks more natural and humble
ofcourse how you would like to be a discipline person.
First one is considered more elite !! Crossing legs is not considered elegant . (Just an observation from few personality development sessions from different fields ).
Yes that first one looks natural , the second one looks good but looks very artifical and rude
Yes, 2nd one is considered disrespect in front of elders.
@@shinjinisrivastava8157 I don't know if it's just me but I have been taught again and again that crossing legs like that is a disrespectful to the one infront ...... I have been scolded in school twice 😅 ......I would choose to be polite rather than confident
I rewatched this like 5x - this is great 👏🏼
❤️
agreed 🤝
got job or still sitting ?
It's pity that you find this crap useful lol
It depends on the situation. We all r human being. Both behaviour are depending on situations personal.
*"Remember that we are imperfectly perfect "*
Guys!!! she took tips from the sharks in shark tank 😂😂
Slow and controlled movement is me when i don't feel doing anything
When i m upset 😭😂😂
😂😂 true ,,
The inner confidence is differ doesnt depend on the posture or gesture it’s the gut in urself built that rather trying to act or to show case 😂
Confidence comes automatically from your true nature it is too good to ignore when it is authentic and is contagious
I love the way how the wrong one vanished at the end
YES!!!
You give us so much helpful information in these bite sized videos that it is hard to believe. Amazing job!! 💜
am i the only one who loved the first one !!
I don't need to cross my legs to exude confidence. I went to a missionary school and I wasn't taught that crossing legs shows you have confidence.
Bro but i searched for statistics class 10 one shot lecture😭
Don't need to be perfect...just need to be genuine
Please make more videos like this.....this is really very helpfull for introvert ♥️
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Yes....this is actually what you need to command respect. It sends the message that you can be trusted and relied upon to deliver a specific task due to your apparent confidence....others might not like it but that's how the world is...appearance comes first
The slow and controlled is me on my periods , and the other one is me on my normal days 😂😂
Sooo truee yyrr
@@vartikasharma569 exactly 💯
Can u tell me just one thing sis that is it fixed that girls will get periods on last dates of the month...I mean is it something kinda fixed or what's it?
@@SteveRogers... No it's not same for everyone , for some girls they get their periods exact day of last time(so rare ), for some girls they get 1 to 5 days late or 1 to 5 days fast , for some people they won't even can istimate when their periods will come , it's all about the hormones , simply for me it changes every month
@@charitha_3278Tu aisa kar ek dhol le aur sheher bhar me apne periods ka gaana gaa jake
the fact that she wasn't wearing a wrist watch is hilarious 😂
funny how you feel hilarious at very normal things.... good for you!
In india, we consider it is an another form disrespect towards others if you are sitting in a chair by placing your leg over your another leg (like she did ) when a person who is elder than you sitting besides you 😊
how I can I become an Indian citizen and give up U.S citizenship?
@@youknowkbbaby😂marry an Indian
@@youknowkbbaby 😂😂 especially in India women with half dress fold their legs because not to expose their private part😂😂
bro which India? I've never heard this in my entire life 💀
@@honeytanu5580 It is a common practice in South India. We expresses respect and value towards to someone as we in this kind of situation
This is great! I love the split so you can see both versions at the same time
Every person sits differently
U are rockin that blue suit Sonya!!!
In reels - Wow, very controlled and calm personality.
In real - why i am acting like robot to impress others and giving pain my body by holding air.
And thats how i missed my school bus......😅
I love the grounded reality of this channel!!!
Retirement took a toll on my finances, but with my involvement in the digital market, $27,000 weekly returns has been life changing. AWESOME GOD
Only God knows how much grateful i am. After so much struggles I now own a new house and my family is happy once again everything is finally falling into place!!
Wow that's huge, how do you make that much monthly?
I'm 37 and have been looking for ways to be successful, please how??
I remember giving her my first savings $20,000 and she opened a brokerage account for me it turned out to be the best thing that ever happened to me.
Wow...I know her too she is a licensed broker and a FINRA agent she is popular in
US and Canada she is really amazing woman with good skills and experience.
No, one should avoid crossed legs while sitting it creates a perception of being closed off or less confidence. Though there is no hard and fast rule but open posture is associated with confidence and approachability.
Depends. Crossed legs with the top knee ponted towards you and shaking the foot up and down is a sign they fancy you
First one is the clumsy secretary
And second one is the cold boss
In asian dramas 😂
The confidence it takes to see a watch even when you don't have one.😂
Maybe the impression or gestures (conveying different body languages/ signals) change for from time to time.
"Ladies don't cross their legs" ....most comman sentence to listen in grooming classes.
Then there is clarification or denial ...."of course they do if they are wearing pants or knee length skirts".
So to cross legs or not is the option or question!?!....But you whatever circumstances you should be comfortable wherever you are and whatever you are wearing, above all most important is be Confident and Comfortable whatever Position and Posture you adapt!!
P:S: Sitting in a position which is not comfortable may make you look nervous or conscious.
I really like all these videos🙂
Can we also see a video how to sit in a chair that’s too big? I struggle with deep chairs because I can only sit half way back sometimes and my feet won’t touch the ground lol How do I make these situations look graceful?🤔
Very helpful
It's very helpful for my dance career
I learned slo-mo dance style by this method
Now I move in 0.25 speed
Once a wise man said it doesn't matter how you look but how you preserve things and others more important shorts like this miss guide 😊❤
We don't notice that much😅 both are equal
Yes yes we need more such videos
When she disappeared at the end I felt that
Right side is me before having tea and left side after tea
Yes .. more videos please 😊
Love it Sonya!❤
*I never knew that my body language was confident...and the ones I adored were jerky 😂😂*
You don't need any body language because your body itself is perfect 👌👌😛
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Yes
@@andromeda8567what?
But the body language on the left is more human, natural, less arrogant, less sneering and way more cute.
Yeah..but that's sign of lots of social anxiety and no peace..body with a calm mind doesn't panic or move much
Princess Katherine isn’t allowed to cross her legs but always exudes confidence
I have learnt to make a correction in my self..change my body language nd movements
So you want me to behave like an AI Robot😂 Common not all situations can give you a chance to be cool, slow and settled...Go according to the situation 👍🏻
My inner thinking when I'm feeling shaky is think you're a robot. Slow, calm, cool. Emotionless. So yes, we want to be like robots bcs acting like a scared deer in headlights is beta asf
Friend : what are you learning nowadays?
Me : I am learning to sit...
Wow..thanks! Never gave it a thought.
But will be mindful!
step 1 don’t wear a crop top to a business meeting
I just unrecommended the channel. 2 mins of my life I'm never getting back.
Idk why but I'm the left one in tense situation, I think that everybody is looking at me nd I get nervous about my looks.
Just be confident at all time all that happens naturally 💕
Funny enough looking rushed feels confident for me. Personally I feel confidence shows from your facial expression and your eyes, I read it from there.
They both are looking very confident
No confidence nor nothing,,live in urs own way,just beautiful ❤❤❤
The first sitting style is also good
Yes! But sometimes I'm too much slow, really need to have balance. But graceful control is really lovely like your example
Yes we want more videos to built confidence please make video to built confidence on the stage means stage fear
Maine english ka chapter search kiya tha , and i got this lady😅😂
I do this when anxious. You better don't come in front of me like this when showing confidence has a role to play... lol
The 1st one is the goal for me😊
Pov : u search class 12 English chapters and got this 🙂
Preening & posturing is a sure fire way to get hated on
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Video : 🚶♀️👩❤️💋👩👯♀️
Sir mujhe english bilkul samjh nhin aati...yaad bhi nhi hoti😖😖😖😣😣
but padhana padega n...jab subject hai to......thank you sir nice class.....
.....................😊😊😊..........
This woman is perfect in every way😍🤩🥰🤗
the left girl’s movements were so rushed and jerky that she disappeared 💀
This is brilliant! It's a YES from me 👍🏽
Me too i was searching videos to 😂revise for the exam
Love the way you conveyed it ❤
Boss be like ..
Main focus on their two big goal 😅😂
SO BEAUTIFUL 😊
I never found the folding legs in upsc interview 😂
My position & posture is second one always but i don't look up if that's a crowded place 😬
23 million views for a short video abnout body language??? Wow...the power of a beautiful woman
The first position is the best 😂
Im an interview they made me wait 20 minutes! At that point I didn’t even want that job anymore. So I went to the bathroom to make them wait for me. 😊 They didn’t have anything prepared and didn’t ask me if I had any questions for them because I did.
There is a difference between active mind and sleeping mind😅
Everyone noticed body language
But I noticed that she was watching time in bracelet 😂😂
To me, the first one looks confident and together, and the second one looks snooty.
Its the right breadts that imstill confidence!