The husband needs to accept that he is not an abandoned child anymore, he is an adult, with a family to whom he has obligations. The husband should have been distant with his mother, and he should have made her work to get back in his life. Instead he is acting like a child hoping mommy won't abandon him again. When choosing to be there for someone your wife of 9 years who has been there for you that entire time should always be more important then a woman who abandoned you as a child.
NTA. OP and the baby need to be his priority. Especially right now since the baby is sick. His mother is not only an adult, she abandoned him. It's very sad, and, yes, he needs to see a therapist.
2:45 And even if his mother wouldn't have support there, tough luck, shouldn't have abandoned your child then. 5:45 No, his mother is attacking his family, the course of action should be clear. 5:00 And because he refuses to get his act together and be responsible, no one wanted him except the foster care girl. 5:25 No, she just ignored the red flags. 10:20 That's garbage. 13:32 And that's why you need a "stay away from your parents / only communicate in writing over me / my email account, or I get everything in a divorce"-clause in the prenup if there are issues with your spouses parents.
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The husband needs to accept that he is not an abandoned child anymore, he is an adult, with a family to whom he has obligations. The husband should have been distant with his mother, and he should have made her work to get back in his life. Instead he is acting like a child hoping mommy won't abandon him again. When choosing to be there for someone your wife of 9 years who has been there for you that entire time should always be more important then a woman who abandoned you as a child.
He also shouldn't be the slave of his evil mother, rather cut contact.
NTA. OP and the baby need to be his priority. Especially right now since the baby is sick. His mother is not only an adult, she abandoned him. It's very sad, and, yes, he needs to see a therapist.
Having a child with my wife, I would never leave our sick child for my relatives. This is wrong on many levels!
Not even for a normal relative but for his evil mother who attacks his family and abandoned him as a child.
2:45 And even if his mother wouldn't have support there, tough luck, shouldn't have abandoned your child then. 5:45 No, his mother is attacking his family, the course of action should be clear.
5:00 And because he refuses to get his act together and be responsible, no one wanted him except the foster care girl. 5:25 No, she just ignored the red flags. 10:20 That's garbage.
13:32 And that's why you need a "stay away from your parents / only communicate in writing over me / my email account, or I get everything in a divorce"-clause in the prenup if there are issues with your spouses parents.
Update?
I don't care for the comments I care for the story and the update which never got.
Is there no update in the video?
It was a good story but there were just entirely way too many comments