@user-pz8ek9qb8j bratha whyyyy China Burma and the west doesn't want us Muslims 😭😭😭 it's not like we hijack planes or bomb their infrastructure or kidnapp them
I wonder how many of these parents were abusive or neglectful of their children. I am glad there are people there to take care of them without asking questions.
its horrible but ya that will be a factor. my mother was amazing i take great care of her. somehow responsibility for my elderly aunts and uncles has been implied to be my responsibility when thier own kids are horribly neglectful and selfish. the whole group of them are often horrible people so no I am openly refusing responsibility for anybody but my parents. btw i helped care for my elderly grandparents years ago, and these same aunts and uncles refused to help their own parents during that time. zero guilt here.
My cousin was an amazing wife and mother. Her husband abandoned her and moved across the country because it cost too much and was too stressful to take care of her after her accident that paralyzed her. The kids grew up without much of a bond to her(they were 4 and 6 at the time). They bonded more with their step mom . They don’t take care of my cousin and rarely visit. Glad your mom got to continue being a great mom and glad u will return the favor 💕
While abandoning their parents, they didn't care about their properties as well. Instead they kicked their parents out of their own homes. They israeled their parents.
It is due to sick so called modern people, who are leaving there culture to become "like west" but end up being Nothing. The Traditional people respect there elders but not they
@@ahappilydrunkpuppy8961 I guess what I am trying to say is no matter what the situation was even if the dad was horrible and deserves punishment, nobody should be abandoned like this. Not like that.
My suggestion : please provide the names of these organisations and their locations, so that if someone wants to approach them for donations or shelter can do so
The saddest part is women get aid from government but Men are left behind.. no aid from government.. the gender biasness has shifted to women who enjoys the privileges but men are left behind 😢😢
@@cutthechicken194That would make the children just as bad because now they're doing it. Break the cycle. Isn't this earth school experiment about breaking the generational curses? Two wrongs don't make a right. My bio mom was extremely toxic and hateful but she got sick I was still there for her. Break the cycle and generational curses or it'll continue.
@ammitthedevourerofsouls "Breaking the Cycle " applies to future generations. Meaning not mistreating Your children. It about looking forward NOT looking backwards
I’m so sad to see this happening, people are forgetting that all people are going to be old age and one day they’ll be treated like what they treated their parents. This is not only about finances but humanity, compassion and human beings.
Well maybe you should do your best to be healthy AND have money. Have money to pay for housing and treatment and this wouldn’t be an issue. Treat your children better. This is not about becoming old, this is you all thinking you deserve something when in reality you don’t deserve anything.
@ahappilydrunkpuppy8961 Yes. Everyone is supposed to have everything figured out. Forget life circumstances, losing your job, housefire, natural disaster, etc. Bro has no empathy. No amount of money can save anyone from something like dementia, cancer or a near fatal car accident like that man at 1:48. Guarantee you that these people had taken care of their kids. Their kids just don't care. It's sad
@@hermesmcclintok that's an extremely victim blaming take. Sounds like someone who has the privilege of having their basic needs met, but no compassion for those who don't.
@hermesmcclintok let's see how you fare after being abandoned and never kowing when or if family is coming back, no job no money no car. *Maybe* you have all of your limbs, hearing, and vision if youre lucky, but that's it
Maybe some of these parents were abusive. Maybe some don't have children. Maybe some of the children are also mentally or physically unable to help. There is definitely more to consider. Additionally the government needs to provide affordable options.
I live in the UK, and while the situation here is far from the one shown in this video piece, the very young and the old are still treated with contempt. I'm afraid in the coming years, senior citizens will experience the same 'death in poverty' as the elderly are now in India.
Nursing homes are like homeless shelters for the elderly. Their kids never visit, don't want to pay the nursing home for extra care, only come to siphon money out of their parents and relatives and pray for them to die, so they can finally inherit their wealth.
I WILL NEVER leave my parents like that. I am not and probably won't be rich BUT at minimum i will convert my future garage to a nany flat or build one in the back. They will ALWAYS have a home. Its not much but it'll have all the necessities. We do this today with my grandparents. My concern is they are divorced😅 they may find themselves in the same studio nany flat cuz i aint rich ☺️🤝
Government welfare is never supposed to be consistent. A few hard working members of a close knit family will stop helping other family members. Hence the weakest links need to be trained to contribute instead of just watching too much telly at home. Too much sedentary living is a curse!
India is a strange place. They hate each other. They hate the dark skinned people,hate the old,hate women and different religions. China would never allow this. The kids would be blasted and shamed
I think to myself, this man at 2:13 was once loved by HIS parents, clothed and sheltered. Imagine those same parents looking down on that same little boy, wondering the streets alone, scared and hungry...
Same with my parents, especially my mother who was abused by her own father and could have continued the cycle but she chose to be better. Thou now bedridden she still finds ways to help me and my husband.
@@everythingisfine9988Exactly, they might have been abusive parents or perhaps they raised spoiled selfish narcissistic kids so yeah, you get what you give most of the time.
@janetownley No need to be afraid if you behave well, keep an actionable plan, & don't fight change. Stay humble and know that you need to constantly learn. Never stop learning.
@@everythingisfine9988exactly. I think the people who feel bad or are crying are people who treated their children terribly and see their own future. They see what they got coming.
Right. If their own kids don't want to take care of them, then that say alot about their parenting skills. They must have been horrible to their children
Sometimes children don't want to take care of them because,they consider their parents a burden,this most of the times happens because their wives don't want to take care of their in laws and consider them as burden,they want their husband only to spend money on them. And yes,Kids are guaranteed to take care of their parents, if you can eat from them,you are expected to take care of them
@@captain4595 "if you can eat from them you are expected to take care of them" But how about this "if you brought us into life in this country of struggles then you are expected to feed us"
Depends on what type of parents they were. I have friends who were abused and used by their parents. If they were bad to you when you were young and vulnerable, elderly parents shouldn’t expect to be cared for by their kids.
@@MONEYAINTATHANG100 someone who is supposed to love you and treat you better than anyone else in the world and doesn’t aka your parents, deserve to rot in old age if they abused you. Parental love is the paradigm for self love and the foundation for all relationships. If your parents botch that, then you owe them nothing. Perhaps some of these elderly parents are meeting the karmic consequences of being g terrible parents. It is not fair to assume that their children did something wrong.
But they're not being " abandoned" by their children; homeless American seniors whom I have seen interviewed either have no children or prefer not to burden them. Some have dysfunctional histories which and have led to their adult children being homeless too or financially incapable of helping their parents. Yes estrangement is also sometimes an issue but never have I heard of a case in which grown children dump their elderly parents on the side of a road. The literal abandonment of Indian elders by their adult children depicted in this video is obscene and unfathomable to me.
@@8ofwands300 these parents should have their own money and home and shouldnt be relying on their children as some kind of safety net. This is exactly what breeds poverty. No financial responsibility or planning. Just doing whatever and expecting to be cared by their children. The rich and wealthy have stuff to PASS down to their children. The poor always expect free stuff and labor from others instead of thinking and planning ahead and using their kids as a means of stability and retirement.
@@ahappilydrunkpuppy8961 you must not know anything about Hindu culture. You sound like you have the morality of a hyena. Yet, let me guess, you're " Xtian"...?
Never seen a reporter or anybody in this world ever asking a 6 or 7 year old child, or a teenager, growing up in an abusive household about their traumatic experiences, which are coming from their elders, their parents on regular basis, to help gauge the extent of damage on their still growing up little brains, the still growing and expanding neural circuitry and structure, the emotional body and their senses, which is going to impact significantly their functioning and get them struggling in the society later on. Never seen it. Also never seen the same child going to the police station and complaining about their parent's abusive behaviors, physical and verbal abuse, towards each other or towards the child. Nobody seen it probably. And just because nobody seen it does not mean that no child is living in an abusive and trauma inducing household. It happens in silence in varying degrees, across the society, and to which the outside world is oblivious, and that state of oblivion there is by choice. Such children suffer for years and decades, and their suffering often fails to find a voice. Real life recent example: A man in his 60s, with adult children who are doing well and living all together, committed suicide last year. That man's mother is still living. And that mother's second son, who was in his 50s, died by alcohol over consumption, and the third son, whom I have met and known who wouldn't care for his health, died by heart attack in the beginning of this year. That mother is very narcissistic and cruel and she's still alive, currently living with her daughter.
That doesn't negate the need for social programs. Even incarcerated people with convictions for violent crimes have rights. It isn't about the merit of the individual
I don't like my parents that much either. I was heavily neglected and abandoned by them when i needed their help the most. I'm critically depressed yet i have no one to help me out. I'll always remember the way they treated me
A lot of people can relate to your situation. But best thing to do is to let go of the negativity. Channel it into something positive so that, if you have or decide to have kids, you will treat them better than the way you were treated.
I know, and I'm sure lots of us can relate with you. But when we were born and couldn't take care of ourselves, feed ourselves, clean after ourselves, our parents did help take care of us and made sure we survived through infancy .
If you dislike your parents, then set yourself apart from them. Don't become them. Become a better person, and do not throw them out to die, that is evil. Please.
They r allot Less than 2-3% in R & D, their investment in edu & healthcare is a joke. They want to end all govt jobs cuz they “don’t have money to pay salaries” expecting investments in social programs would be too much! Major investments only in defense..in this era only a handful nations(ultra rich) r pro life.
They r allot Less than 2-3% in R & D, their investment in edu & healthcare is a joke. They want to end all govt jobs cuz they “don’t have money to pay salaries” expecting investments in social programs would be too much! Major investments only in defense..in this era only a handful nations(ultra rich) r pro life.
They r allot Less than 2-3% in R & D, their investment in edu & healthcare is a joke. They want to end all govt jobs cuz they “don’t have money to pay salaries” expecting investments in social programs would be too much! Major investments only in defense..in this era only a handful nations(ultra rich) r pro life.
My dad was always very strict and gave me much bitterness and tears but I never thought of leaving him when he got sick. I was by his side and nursed him. He was too proud to be tender to me but the last time he saw me go I could see that he loved me in his eyes. It's an awful thing to leave a parent, even if they don't deserve it.
@@joannaheart8167 thats you. I have no problem getting away and staying away from abusers. Since they abused, they can figure out on their own how to survive.
I’m the opposite. My father was abusive and cheater. I’d have left him in a nursing home if he had lived that long. My mother was very kind and I would have cared for her had she lived that long. My parents both died young-ish.
Parents need to start preparing for their futures better. People want to bash the children...But I noticed alot of baby boomers try to manipulate and pacify their kids and want their kids to take care of them when they get older. When Baby boomers parents never looked at them as some crutch the could use in the future. My Grandparents generation were independent and didn't look to be taken care of until they absolutely needed it. I think kids feel compelled to abandon their parents because parents can be narcissistic. I love my parents, but they need to realize I have my own life to live...Just like they have lived their lives. These parents needed to be investing in their future and retirement plans instead of trying to make their kids their retirement plan.
I hear you and that's a legitimate argument but the problem is young people don't have jobs in India so they don't have enough spare capacity to take care of everybody else
Na that is an excuse. My parents gave me their all. Best believe I got them on the back nine. No excuses. You don’t do it out of obligation, you do it out of love. WTH? Why does this need an explanation? That’s the problem with so many people. To freaking selfish.
@@latymzIt is selfish of breeders to expect their breeding results, who never asked to be here, to be slaves to them in their older years. Breeding results owe nothing to their breeders, who forced them to live in this world full of horrors for their own personal pleasure/benefit.
As a Mexican American, one of the best things I like about my culture that I love is the loyalty we have as a close knit family. Someone is always checking in with you. We bring our oldest to live with us or ensure they are close by and bring by food if mobility is hard. I cannot image abandoning my pet let alone my father. It just doesn’t compute with me or many other within our culture. Great job at orgs stepping in!
I had a bad relationship with my dad, but I would never have left him on the street, lying that I’d come back. That’s what people do to dogs and cats - that’s bad enough, but for a parent who took care of you all of those years basic care at least is owed.
@@ahmadahmed214 Cats can be loyal and they do suffer when their family is taken away. Cats are more social than you think. You never had a cat. Besides they need someone to feed them. They are still domestic animals fed by hand all their lives. Specially indoor cats. Either way pets shouldn't be abandoned. Bad and toxic people, is another story.
Great job done by these people to help these elderly. BUT... Parents should not forget the consequences of treating their children badly. If you treat them badly during childhood, they will resent you and are more likely to abandon you. There are two sides to every story.
@@everythingisfine9988You're assuming all these elders were bad people. The reality is maybe they just had children who didn't want to take care of them.
Facts: Indian government only grants monthly money aid to only women in India.. Men are left behind as inferior human being who perish on the streets with food or care 😢😢 Rip gender biasness..
@@cesarreyes809 The reality is, is that it's a mixture of both and many other things and we should try not to speak for other people's experiences or choices.
👀👀 This is why it's extremely Important to have a plan for when you're old. I'm a 34 unmarried woman and I'm currently building my own house. I bought another plot of land to build rental property to feed me when I'm retired. I don't want kids because I can't afford them and I don't want to be working well into my 50's. I'm not married as well because that too is just as expensive. I'll enjoy dating, I'll enjoy my friend's and sibblings kids. It's the best of both worlds without the monetary commitment 😅😁
I visited a nearby ashram similar to this one where they take care of the elderly people who were abandoned and they also take care of orphaned children who are mentally ill. We went there to donate money and food because it was my Sister's birthday and I was traumatised because of the horrible mental conditions they were in. That's when I realised that I should'nt be donating just because its a occasion for my sister.. we need to help these parents who gave birth to monsters in disguise.
@@sudhakar7889Why would you hope for such an absurd thing here, that is financial well being of an abuser, instead of empathizing with and hoping for the well being of the victim who shared very personal experience of being abused by the father whose sole responsibility was to take care mentally, emotionally and physically? Your response is lacking sense and meaning both absolutely.
@@sudhakar7889Somebody who torture you mentally and emotionally, there you don't go and "hope" for their financial well being. Such response from people would be another nightmare for the victims who were abused for years and decades.
Honor your Father and Mother. No one said it was going to be easy. My heart breaks for this extremely fragile population. What is in kids hearts? Your parents took care of you when you were young and vulnerable. This is beyond comprehension. These people are doing Gods work. Thank you.
my rich uncle in india left my grandmother in a village and didn't care for her welfare... its mostly a trend in india that growing, i believe indians in western countries still hold value to their elders
This breaks my heart. As someone that will have to take care of her parents in the future, it is going to be an honor to care for them. I hope that these families are reunited again.
The holy city of Vrindavan in India is also home to most abandoned women/widows. This has been going on before urbanisation, globalisation etc...😕 The famous filmmaker Deepa Mehta has a film on that "practice"...
@avi2125 The older generation taught the younger generation to not hold women to a high regard. The men treated their daughters as second class citizen with little to NO education.
My father-in-law used to regularly sxually abuse my wife when she was a minor. After reaching adulthood, we married and she was able to escape from the abuse forever. Now that person is old and there is nobody to look after him. If he had never abused my wife when she was a child, we would've looked after him but since that was never the case, a big NO from our side.
That is so sad. Unfortunately, it is happening in a different way in the United States. More and more elderly are being thrown out of their homes and apartments due to rises in cost.
Surprised by the number of comments immediately questioning what abuse the parents may have committed to be treated like that. Two wrongs don’t make a right. Abandoning parents who can’t fend for themselves is just as cruel as abandoning a child.
This is new India for you. New generation don't care about their parents they only care about themselves, no one else. The life you come to know is gone. This is new India for you
The entire world has changed - everyone is worked like a dog with no time to breathe never mind provide round the clock care for elderly parents who need specialist care and medical attention. If society and prices enabled someone to stay at home and keep house maybe things would be different.
My dad was sickly and wheelchair bound before he died. but i would give anything to have him back in my life. I can't imagine abandoning the parents that loved and raised you.
I know my relatives with 3-4 kids and still parents living alone in their old age and sickness. I understand why in developed nations people don't like to have children anymore and even if they have they don't expect anything from their children like to take care of them. They just go to old age homes if they need it with their own savings
That's absolutely right.. here people think kids r asset bt forget they don't ask to born here you birth them nd put them into poverty later cry when they treat you same
@@rikimuoi6132in other words u want to say poor or low income ppl don't deserve to have a family , only rich ppl deserve it and so u admire their lifestyle , their weddings, etc the parents sir didn't leave the kids without shelter atleast! Someday visit a nearby village see how terribly weak father cycling his kid to the govt schools they do what they can
The story of the blind father whose sons just abandoned him is so depressing to hear. Lying and leaving a blind father in a different city with no money to beg for food is as cowardly and low as it gets. At least have the courage to have an honest conversation.
I can. They are old and can’t afford their old house and asking me if they can live with me or pay cheap rent with me. I’ve been ignoring them, winter is coming and I hope they freeze. What goes around comes around.
@@ahappilydrunkpuppy8961 you need to go heal and let go of the hate because you may thibk you’re winning but if you let hate consume you You’re actually losing
@@meihuangha it actually isnt consuming me. Im doing just fine. Im able to pay for AC/Heating because I didnt spend my time abusing my children and chose to better my life. Tell abusers to go heal their inner selves and what not.
I honestly feel sad about for the blind guy. I wish we knew the child's side. You'll be surprised how many abusive thrive on pity only to secretly treat their own blood horribly.
Watching this video from Pakistan & the situation is the same here as well. I also worked as a Doctor/G.P for 3 months for an institution which housed elderly/widowed women & it was sad to see their state.Some women were highly educated & worked their whole lives while others were brought into the city from villages by their kids but later on abandoned by their own children. Lastly,correct me if i'm wrong but i read some where that...Gandhi was once invited to cut a ribbon on an entrance to a Old Shelter Home & there he said...i wish i can cut a ribbon on the closing of these Old Shelter Home rather then opening of them.
Should not be happening in a practising Muslim society. In the Quran Allah says obey your parents even if they are non-Muslim (unless they ask you to do something shirk or haram).
We call that aged care. It’s sad that families no longer stay together and home. I’ve cared for my mother for 4 years keeping her in her own home. She did it for her parents both dying in their home comfortably. It’s a sad world now.
that type of mentality wont get you anywhere in life, think for your self, there is an old saying which goes like 2 wrongs dont make a right. there is always a 3rd option. you just have to be the bigger person in the room.
@@ahappilydrunkpuppy8961 if it werent for those parents, you woudnt have gotten a chance in life, im not a parent my self either, and these kids who left there parents out are grown adults them self, i fail to see the point you are trying to make.
Treat your child well, but also with sensible discipline. They will not leave you. I have heard lots of stories of awful Indian parents mainly awful to their daughters. Their sons are often spoiled so they leave them without a care.
Average number of children per woman in India is less than 2.1 currently. i.e. replacement level. Only reason population number is rising now is because the elderly are living longer, and the infant mortality is significantly lower.
@@mth469 that's true today. But when the people in this video were having kids, stats were completely different. No one should have to go through what they're going through, but you can't deny that their generation is responsible for the population problem we have today.
Some bad event are cause by karma. Some is just bad people. Having children does not mean automatically have their love and care later. Some children are selfish and care for their family once they grow up and ignore the work their parents work to raise them. Giving love does not mean will receiving love.
@@mth469That stats and all is incorrect and brainwashing people to procreate more. India has everywhere more than necessary population, in fact our entire country is overpopulated. There is one RUclipsr who expose this.
Something was seriously wrong this elderly man was wandering around begging for food for multiple days and no one helped him. Breaks my heart this is just horrific, people in India only care for their families but not others. If you don't have a family to care for you no one will, I do not know how the people who walked past this man begging could sleep at night.
How do you even assume this rich family is not supporting the poor and the sentiment beings. Your jealousy and stupidity are shown through your comments. What are you doing in your capacity? Have you helped others? First, charity begins at home. Then you can point out other's faults
We Native Americans may be poor, but we never abandon our Elders, they are Treasures to us, Guardians to our past who hand their knowledge to the next generation. When a society abandons their Elders, it collapse is not far behind 😔
Probably your elders were kind, wise and taught and guided you well. Some parents are unspeakably and horrendously abusive. I don't think anyone should tolerate abuse even if it's from a parent.
There's no discussion in this video as to why there is a percentage of people abandoning their parents, their grandparents etc. For instance, the gentleman who was left at the hospital by his sons and abandoned. Did anyone ask them why they did that? Is it simply a matter that no one can afford medical care in India, that no one can afford to take care of their elderly?
It's a bit different in my life. My old parents treated me bad after my back injuries. They only love 2 daughters which are able to get money from job. Me and younger sister and the oldest sister is left out.
To lose your child's love and affection maybe you have done something wrong to them? Maybe they were abusive to their children and therefore they no longer needed to feel obligated to care about their parents? Who knows, as sad as it seems there are 2 sides to the story
@@captain4595 That may be the case for SOME but not MILLIONS, don't blame every problem on the woman, India is still a very patriarchal society so if the son abandoned his own parents/parent because of his wife, then that's HIS decision he is an adult and supposedly "the man of the household".
I WILL NEVER leave my parents like that. I am not and probably won't be rich BUT at minimum i will convert my future garage to a nany flat or build one in the back. They will ALWAYS have a home. Its not much but it'll have all the necessities. We do this today with my grandparents. My concern is they are divorced😅 they may find themselves in the same studio nany flat cuz i aint rich ☺️🤝
Nah don't listen to the people above, the truth is indian families are very toxic and trust me when I say old people are not saints they litter, throw waste anywhere they stand and never follow the laws and are extremely corrupt.
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This made me so sad. Maybe this should be shown to young couples to teach them not to have too many children. One or two to whom they teach what respect and care is really about. My deepest thanks and respect to all you compassionate souls who are working to remedy this situation for the betterment of all. 🙏🏼 🙏🏼
The abandonment of veracity is a big issue, too... In fact, the implication that millions In the American elderly population are being dropped off in public places without a dime seems disingenuous. I'm not implying that elderly welfare in the US isn't a great concern. Hyperbole notwithstanding, it doesn't begin to compare to the reality in India.
In the US, children aren't dropping off their elderly parents under bridges just yet. Let's hope it doesn't happen. However, there is neglect of parents.
@@kristinab1078 In the US, most people do not even take care of their parent. The assumption is the govt will take care of them. Now if the economy crashes with all the insane 35 trillion of debt and growing, who knows what type of world awaits.
Vast majority of Indians take care of their elderly parents. I'm willing to bet its way more than what western children do -- and that's despite considerable wealth. Take away that wealth and find out what reality would be.
Here in Dimapur ,Nagaland, every week unidentified non local dead is body is found. And no one used to claim the body. It's like, their family just left them in any place in Dimapur to let them die. Saddening.
@@Sernivalwas a nerve struck or something? It goes both ways obviously, but just because one side of a bigger issue was mentioned doesn’t mean the other half isn’t any less important 😬
Perhaps the question that should be asked is how many of these parents neglected or abused (psychologically, physically, etc.) their children to such an extent that the children abandon them or put them in home.
My respect to these people taking care of the elderly abandoned by their families.
It's not a respect bro it's just a duty of a son born to his mother❤
As long as they are using their own money.
Sometimes they have to. Proper elderly homes are needed in India
SAAR DROPPING OFF ELDERS IS OUR ANCIENT HINDU KULTURE 😊🕉🇮🇳 PLZ RESPECT OUR 2478649BILLION OLD RICH KULTURE SAR
@user-pz8ek9qb8j bratha whyyyy China Burma and the west doesn't want us Muslims 😭😭😭 it's not like we hijack planes or bomb their infrastructure or kidnapp them
I wonder how many of these parents were abusive or neglectful of their children. I am glad there are people there to take care of them without asking questions.
its horrible but ya that will be a factor. my mother was amazing i take great care of her. somehow responsibility for my elderly aunts and uncles has been implied to be my responsibility when thier own kids are horribly neglectful and selfish. the whole group of them are often horrible people so no I am openly refusing responsibility for anybody but my parents. btw i helped care for my elderly grandparents years ago, and these same aunts and uncles refused to help their own parents during that time. zero guilt here.
My cousin was an amazing wife and mother. Her husband abandoned her and moved across the country because it cost too much and was too stressful to take care of her after her accident that paralyzed her. The kids grew up without much of a bond to her(they were 4 and 6 at the time). They bonded more with their step mom . They don’t take care of my cousin and rarely visit. Glad your mom got to continue being a great mom and glad u will return the favor 💕
Yup
While abandoning their parents, they didn't care about their properties as well. Instead they kicked their parents out of their own homes. They israeled their parents.
@@fahadashrafofficial More like they Palestined their parents
You can tell how well a society functions by how it treats its weakest members.
It is due to sick so called modern people, who are leaving there culture to become "like west" but end up being Nothing. The Traditional people respect there elders but not they
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I cried my eyes out over the mans whose sons dropped him off and never came back. I hope he finds the peace he deserves.
Whatever that’s family’s story is I hope the son sees this and feels something.
@@ec5318what should the son feel exactly?
@@ahappilydrunkpuppy8961 I guess what I am trying to say is no matter what the situation was even if the dad was horrible and deserves punishment, nobody should be abandoned like this. Not like that.
@@ec5318That's how I feel. I have the most toxic relations. But my parents will always have their living needs covered.
The sons might be trying to keep their jobs. At least they got him help. I hope they can send him a message somehow.
My suggestion : please provide the names of these organisations and their locations, so that if someone wants to approach them for donations or shelter can do so
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Try this in China and you would be shamed into oblivion. You do this to your own parents.
The saddest part is women get aid from government but Men are left behind.. no aid from government.. the gender biasness has shifted to women who enjoys the privileges but men are left behind 😢😢
Yes! I want to donate too idk if its possible from the US
The man blinded in he accident broke my heart.
Such a selfish and vile act to abandon your father😢
Don't jump to conclusions. You don't know the children side. Maybe he was a bad father
@@cutthechicken194That would make the children just as bad because now they're doing it. Break the cycle. Isn't this earth school experiment about breaking the generational curses? Two wrongs don't make a right. My bio mom was extremely toxic and hateful but she got sick I was still there for her. Break the cycle and generational curses or it'll continue.
@@ammitthedevourerofsouls breaking the cycle applies to the next generation not the previous. People virtually always become set in their ways
@ammitthedevourerofsouls "Breaking the Cycle " applies to future generations. Meaning not mistreating Your children.
It about looking forward NOT looking backwards
that's de closest to being a 1st World Country 😂🤣
I’m so sad to see this happening, people are forgetting that all people are going to be old age and one day they’ll be treated like what they treated their parents. This is not only about finances but humanity, compassion and human beings.
It is happening everywhere. It is aggravated by the huge cost of medical treatment and housing.
Well maybe you should do your best to be healthy AND have money. Have money to pay for housing and treatment and this wouldn’t be an issue. Treat your children better.
This is not about becoming old, this is you all thinking you deserve something when in reality you don’t deserve anything.
They're gonna be treated like how they treat their kids.
Not if you die before then.
@ahappilydrunkpuppy8961 Yes. Everyone is supposed to have everything figured out. Forget life circumstances, losing your job, housefire, natural disaster, etc. Bro has no empathy. No amount of money can save anyone from something like dementia, cancer or a near fatal car accident like that man at 1:48. Guarantee you that these people had taken care of their kids. Their kids just don't care. It's sad
Worldwide elderly people are lonely... Lots of people are lonely... It's a sad world with lots of artificial 'fun'....
@@Operator_68 Why?
Be mindful of your elderly neighbors. Give assistance when you can, even in small ways. It makes a difference to them and you.
Lots of artificial pain. All of it actually. You aren't sad. You just think you are.
@@hermesmcclintok that's an extremely victim blaming take. Sounds like someone who has the privilege of having their basic needs met, but no compassion for those who don't.
@hermesmcclintok let's see how you fare after being abandoned and never kowing when or if family is coming back, no job no money no car. *Maybe* you have all of your limbs, hearing, and vision if youre lucky, but that's it
Maybe some of these parents were abusive. Maybe some don't have children. Maybe some of the children are also mentally or physically unable to help. There is definitely more to consider. Additionally the government needs to provide affordable options.
Or maybe their parents helped ushered in the truly messed up world the youth live in now.
Sometimes it all about getting what they deserve.
Even if parents are abusive, still their child don't have right to throw them... Better atleast leave parents house
Could also be because the country is poor.
They weren’t abusive, Indians have no gratitude, they are selfish
Maybe their children don’t make enough to support them.
I live in the UK, and while the situation here is far from the one shown in this video piece, the very young and the old are still treated with contempt. I'm afraid in the coming years, senior citizens will experience the same 'death in poverty' as the elderly are now in India.
Nursing homes are like homeless shelters for the elderly. Their kids never visit, don't want to pay the nursing home for extra care, only come to siphon money out of their parents and relatives and pray for them to die, so they can finally inherit their wealth.
I WILL NEVER leave my parents like that. I am not and probably won't be rich BUT at minimum i will convert my future garage to a nany flat or build one in the back. They will ALWAYS have a home. Its not much but it'll have all the necessities. We do this today with my grandparents. My concern is they are divorced😅 they may find themselves in the same studio nany flat cuz i aint rich ☺️🤝
Government welfare is never supposed to be consistent. A few hard working members of a close knit family will stop helping other family members. Hence the weakest links need to be trained to contribute instead of just watching too much telly at home. Too much sedentary living is a curse!
India is a strange place. They hate each other. They hate the dark skinned people,hate the old,hate women and different religions. China would never allow this. The kids would be blasted and shamed
I thought you guys drop parents in care homes ?
I think to myself, this man at 2:13 was once loved by HIS parents, clothed and sheltered. Imagine those same parents looking down on that same little boy, wondering the streets alone, scared and hungry...
My parents were never a burden but a blessing. I helped to take care of them until they took their last breath.
All praises to you ❤
Same with my parents, especially my mother who was abused by her own father and could have continued the cycle but she chose to be better. Thou now bedridden she still finds ways to help me and my husband.
Same here. They’re staying with us even our grandparents thats how its always been in our family
Not everyone has such parents
Blessed 🙏🏻
This is absolutely terrifying
Treat your children respectfully and this is an easy situation to avoid
@@everythingisfine9988Exactly, they might have been abusive parents or perhaps they raised spoiled selfish narcissistic kids so yeah, you get what you give most of the time.
@janetownley No need to be afraid if you behave well, keep an actionable plan, & don't fight change.
Stay humble and know that you need to constantly learn. Never stop learning.
@@everythingisfine9988exactly. I think the people who feel bad or are crying are people who treated their children terribly and see their own future. They see what they got coming.
@@lemon1657 That's very judgemental
Children are not guaranteed to take care of their parents. Some children don’t want to because of the way their parents treated them.
Right.
If their own kids don't want to take care of them, then that say alot about their parenting skills.
They must have been horrible to their children
How disgraceful
Sometimes children don't want to take care of them because,they consider their parents a burden,this most of the times happens because their wives don't want to take care of their in laws and consider them as burden,they want their husband only to spend money on them.
And yes,Kids are guaranteed to take care of their parents, if you can eat from them,you are expected to take care of them
@@captain4595 "if you can eat from them you are expected to take care of them"
But how about this "if you brought us into life in this country of struggles then you are expected to feed us"
Is India that abusive? Parents mistreating their kids, and then kids mistreating their parents later in life?
Depends on what type of parents they were. I have friends who were abused and used by their parents. If they were bad to you when you were young and vulnerable, elderly parents shouldn’t expect to be cared for by their kids.
ouch
@@MONEYAINTATHANG100 someone who is supposed to love you and treat you better than anyone else in the world and doesn’t aka your parents, deserve to rot in old age if they abused you. Parental love is the paradigm for self love and the foundation for all relationships. If your parents botch that, then you owe them nothing. Perhaps some of these elderly parents are meeting the karmic consequences of being g terrible parents. It is not fair to assume that their children did something wrong.
Exactly!!!!!
Even in the U.S. nearly half of all homeless people are 55 and older and it's only projected to increase.
The Gray Tsunami as it's called.
But they're not being " abandoned" by their children; homeless American seniors whom I have seen interviewed either have no children or prefer not to burden them. Some have dysfunctional histories which and have led to their adult children being homeless too or financially incapable of helping their parents. Yes estrangement is also sometimes an issue but never have I heard of a case in which grown children dump their elderly parents on the side of a road. The literal abandonment of Indian elders by their adult children depicted in this video is obscene and unfathomable to me.
@@AshleyBaxter-m6c sounds like people should be saving for retirement and not using kids as a plan for retirement. Self inflicted homelessness.
@@8ofwands300 these parents should have their own money and home and shouldnt be relying on their children as some kind of safety net. This is exactly what breeds poverty. No financial responsibility or planning. Just doing whatever and expecting to be cared by their children. The rich and wealthy have stuff to PASS down to their children. The poor always expect free stuff and labor from others instead of thinking and planning ahead and using their kids as a means of stability and retirement.
@@ahappilydrunkpuppy8961 you must not know anything about Hindu culture. You sound like you have the morality of a hyena. Yet, let me guess, you're " Xtian"...?
Never seen a reporter or anybody in this world ever asking a 6 or 7 year old child, or a teenager, growing up in an abusive household about their traumatic experiences, which are coming from their elders, their parents on regular basis, to help gauge the extent of damage on their still growing up little brains, the still growing and expanding neural circuitry and structure, the emotional body and their senses, which is going to impact significantly their functioning and get them struggling in the society later on.
Never seen it. Also never seen the same child going to the police station and complaining about their parent's abusive behaviors, physical and verbal abuse, towards each other or towards the child.
Nobody seen it probably. And just because nobody seen it does not mean that no child is living in an abusive and trauma inducing household. It happens in silence in varying degrees, across the society, and to which the outside world is oblivious, and that state of oblivion there is by choice. Such children suffer for years and decades, and their suffering often fails to find a voice.
Real life recent example:
A man in his 60s, with adult children who are doing well and living all together, committed suicide last year. That man's mother is still living. And that mother's second son, who was in his 50s, died by alcohol over consumption, and the third son, whom I have met and known who wouldn't care for his health, died by heart attack in the beginning of this year. That mother is very narcissistic and cruel and she's still alive, currently living with her daughter.
some people in these comments may not realize some of these "old people" could've potentially been their child's tormenters, or abusers.
Look at the comments again.
@@buttarain27 exactly why I said "some".
Its become a fashion to claim victimhood. Injustice and perceived injustice are two different things.
That doesn't negate the need for social programs. Even incarcerated people with convictions for violent crimes have rights. It isn't about the merit of the individual
@@jayfalcon-rw3qc Which is why I'm talking about THE PEOPLE in the COMMENTS, not the video.
I don't like my parents that much either. I was heavily neglected and abandoned by them when i needed their help the most. I'm critically depressed yet i have no one to help me out. I'll always remember the way they treated me
A lot of people can relate to your situation. But best thing to do is to let go of the negativity. Channel it into something positive so that, if you have or decide to have kids, you will treat them better than the way you were treated.
I know, and I'm sure lots of us can relate with you. But when we were born and couldn't take care of ourselves, feed ourselves, clean after ourselves, our parents did help take care of us and made sure we survived through infancy .
If you dislike your parents, then set yourself apart from them. Don't become them. Become a better person, and do not throw them out to die, that is evil. Please.
if you forgave them,
it would put you miles ahead
in your spiritual growth.
rising above adversity
is something few can achieve.
@@shubhnamdeo2865 you don't know parents side of the story lot of children blame parents for discipling them.
Investment in social programs for the most vulnerable in society is a must of any government.
They r allot Less than 2-3% in R & D, their investment in edu & healthcare is a joke. They want to end all govt jobs cuz they “don’t have money to pay salaries” expecting investments in social programs would be too much! Major investments only in defense..in this era only a handful nations(ultra rich) r pro life.
They r allot Less than 2-3% in R & D, their investment in edu & healthcare is a joke. They want to end all govt jobs cuz they “don’t have money to pay salaries” expecting investments in social programs would be too much! Major investments only in defense..in this era only a handful nations(ultra rich) r pro life.
They r allot Less than 2-3% in R & D, their investment in edu & healthcare is a joke. They want to end all govt jobs cuz they “don’t have money to pay salaries” expecting investments in social programs would be too much! Major investments only in defense..in this era only a handful nations(ultra rich) r pro life.
The Modi government is implementing it, but it is all about educating the public about what kind of benefits they can get. It is the culture too.
@@MG23418 India's government doesn't invest efficiently nearly as much as it should in social programs; the proof is in the pudding.
My dad was always very strict and gave me much bitterness and tears but I never thought of leaving him when he got sick. I was by his side and nursed him. He was too proud to be tender to me but the last time he saw me go I could see that he loved me in his eyes. It's an awful thing to leave a parent, even if they don't deserve it.
You sound like a terrific person. Your dad got lucky.
You being a push over is your own choice but the rest of us are allowed to care about ourselves if we want to
@@joannaheart8167 thats you. I have no problem getting away and staying away from abusers. Since they abused, they can figure out on their own how to survive.
I’m the opposite. My father was abusive and cheater. I’d have left him in a nursing home if he had lived that long. My mother was very kind and I would have cared for her had she lived that long. My parents both died young-ish.
@@ahappilydrunkpuppy8961SAME!
Parents need to start preparing for their futures better. People want to bash the children...But I noticed alot of baby boomers try to manipulate and pacify their kids and want their kids to take care of them when they get older. When Baby boomers parents never looked at them as some crutch the could use in the future. My Grandparents generation were independent and didn't look to be taken care of until they absolutely needed it. I think kids feel compelled to abandon their parents because parents can be narcissistic. I love my parents, but they need to realize I have my own life to live...Just like they have lived their lives. These parents needed to be investing in their future and retirement plans instead of trying to make their kids their retirement plan.
I hear you and that's a legitimate argument but the problem is young people don't have jobs in India so they don't have enough spare capacity to take care of everybody else
Na that is an excuse. My parents gave me their all. Best believe I got them on the back nine. No excuses. You don’t do it out of obligation, you do it out of love. WTH? Why does this need an explanation? That’s the problem with so many people. To freaking selfish.
@@latymzIt is selfish of breeders to expect their breeding results, who never asked to be here, to be slaves to them in their older years. Breeding results owe nothing to their breeders, who forced them to live in this world full of horrors for their own personal pleasure/benefit.
How’s your retirement plan going? Saved anything yet?
As a Mexican American, one of the best things I like about my culture that I love is the loyalty we have as a close knit family. Someone is always checking in with you. We bring our oldest to live with us or ensure they are close by and bring by food if mobility is hard. I cannot image abandoning my pet let alone my father. It just doesn’t compute with me or many other within our culture. Great job at orgs stepping in!
Almost made me cry. 😢 I feel sorry for them, society should care for the elderly.
I had a bad relationship with my dad, but I would never have left him on the street, lying that I’d come back. That’s what people do to dogs and cats - that’s bad enough, but for a parent who took care of you all of those years basic care at least is owed.
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Should not be done with cats and dogs as well.
A cat is fine. No one owns a cat. They are temporary visitors, but dogs, on the other hand, are a different story.
What are you talking about? Go away
@@ahmadahmed214 Cats can be loyal and they do suffer when their family is taken away. Cats are more social than you think. You never had a cat. Besides they need someone to feed them. They are still domestic animals fed by hand all their lives. Specially indoor cats. Either way pets shouldn't be abandoned. Bad and toxic people, is another story.
Great job done by these people to help these elderly. BUT...
Parents should not forget the consequences of treating their children badly. If you treat them badly during childhood, they will resent you and are more likely to abandon you. There are two sides to every story.
In all fairness; lots of people take care of their elderly parents in India.
How absolutely heartbreaking. The elder should be cared for and loved. I could never abandon my parent like this. This shattered my heart.
That statement tells me one very significant thing about you. You did NOT come from a broken home
@@everythingisfine9988You're assuming all these elders were bad people. The reality is maybe they just had children who didn't want to take care of them.
Facts: Indian government only grants monthly money aid to only women in India.. Men are left behind as inferior human being who perish on the streets with food or care 😢😢 Rip gender biasness..
@@cesarreyes809 The reality is, is that it's a mixture of both and many other things and we should try not to speak for other people's experiences or choices.
👀👀 This is why it's extremely Important to have a plan for when you're old. I'm a 34 unmarried woman and I'm currently building my own house. I bought another plot of land to build rental property to feed me when I'm retired. I don't want kids because I can't afford them and I don't want to be working well into my 50's. I'm not married as well because that too is just as expensive. I'll enjoy dating, I'll enjoy my friend's and sibblings kids. It's the best of both worlds without the monetary commitment 😅😁
Great sister. 👍🏻👍🏻. Are you living in india?
Marriage is like a cheat code for finances…it’s the only reason I really envy married couples.
Abandonment totally and solemnly depends on how the parents or parent treat the child in question.
TRUTH
I visited a nearby ashram similar to this one where they take care of the elderly people who were abandoned and they also take care of orphaned children who are mentally ill. We went there to donate money and food because it was my Sister's birthday and I was traumatised because of the horrible mental conditions they were in. That's when I realised that I should'nt be donating just because its a occasion for my sister.. we need to help these parents who gave birth to monsters in disguise.
I cannot wait to abandon my abusive nightmare of a father
I hope he's financially well.
@@sudhakar7889Why would you hope for such an absurd thing here, that is financial well being of an abuser, instead of empathizing with and hoping for the well being of the victim who shared very personal experience of being abused by the father whose sole responsibility was to take care mentally, emotionally and physically? Your response is lacking sense and meaning both absolutely.
@@sudhakar7889Somebody who torture you mentally and emotionally, there you don't go and "hope" for their financial well being. Such response from people would be another nightmare for the victims who were abused for years and decades.
I completely understand.
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Honor your Father and Mother. No one said it was going to be easy. My heart breaks for this extremely fragile population. What is in kids hearts? Your parents took care of you when you were young and vulnerable. This is beyond comprehension. These people are doing Gods work. Thank you.
my rich uncle in india left my grandmother in a village and didn't care for her welfare... its mostly a trend in india that growing, i believe indians in western countries still hold value to their elders
This breaks my heart. As someone that will have to take care of her parents in the future, it is going to be an honor to care for them. I hope that these families are reunited again.
I can never understand how people can abandon their parents.
I would give anything to see my parents again 💔
You've clearly never been in an abusive family
The holy city of Vrindavan in India is also home to most abandoned women/widows. This has been going on before urbanisation, globalisation etc...😕
The famous filmmaker Deepa Mehta has a film on that "practice"...
Thank you! I was searching for that movie.
There is no such thing as a daily free lunch. All pandits in India are not the simple minded ones of our great grandparents generation!
@avi2125 The older generation taught the younger generation to not hold women to a high regard.
The men treated their daughters as second class citizen with little to NO education.
My father-in-law used to regularly sxually abuse my wife when she was a minor. After reaching adulthood, we married and she was able to escape from the abuse forever. Now that person is old and there is nobody to look after him. If he had never abused my wife when she was a child, we would've looked after him but since that was never the case, a big NO from our side.
What a great work by these super real heroes to protect elderly. Thank you 🙏🏾
That is so sad. Unfortunately, it is happening in a different way in the United States. More and more elderly are being thrown out of their homes and apartments due to rises in cost.
Thank you all the kind people! Humanity is in the urgent need of kind people. 🙏 🙏
Surprised by the number of comments immediately questioning what abuse the parents may have committed to be treated like that. Two wrongs don’t make a right. Abandoning parents who can’t fend for themselves is just as cruel as abandoning a child.
This is new India for you. New generation don't care about their parents they only care about themselves, no one else. The life you come to know is gone. This is new India for you
New India? This always was norm in USA
@@lilacghoste8366but this was not in Indian culture, but now these things are popping out from nowhere
The entire world has changed - everyone is worked like a dog with no time to breathe never mind provide round the clock care for elderly parents who need specialist care and medical attention. If society and prices enabled someone to stay at home and keep house maybe things would be different.
@@Inderjit-db6cw why should they? Stop burdening the younger generations with your problems and let them live their own lives.
@ahappilydrunkpuppy8961 you will see when the time comes.
My dad was sickly and wheelchair bound before he died. but i would give anything to have him back in my life. I can't imagine abandoning the parents that loved and raised you.
You were lucky to have a decent father. Indian parents are often awful to their daughters. I do not blame the daughters for leaving them.
I know my relatives with 3-4 kids and still parents living alone in their old age and sickness. I understand why in developed nations people don't like to have children anymore and even if they have they don't expect anything from their children like to take care of them. They just go to old age homes if they need it with their own savings
That's absolutely right.. here people think kids r asset bt forget they don't ask to born here you birth them nd put them into poverty later cry when they treat you same
@@rikimuoi6132in other words u want to say poor or low income ppl don't deserve to have a family , only rich ppl deserve it and so u admire their lifestyle , their weddings, etc the parents sir didn't leave the kids without shelter atleast! Someday visit a nearby village see how terribly weak father cycling his kid to the govt schools they do what they can
@rikimuoi6132 found the woke lefty and natalist.
@@ArshadIqbal-d2ghe is woke lefty
WT duck is a lefty?@@bestvideos35
The story of the blind father whose sons just abandoned him is so depressing to hear. Lying and leaving a blind father in a different city with no money to beg for food is as cowardly and low as it gets. At least have the courage to have an honest conversation.
I can't imagine my life without my mother 😢😢 yes she is irritating but abandoning is horrifying
I can. They are old and can’t afford their old house and asking me if they can live with me or pay cheap rent with me. I’ve been ignoring them, winter is coming and I hope they freeze. What goes around comes around.
@@ahappilydrunkpuppy8961 you need to go heal and let go of the hate because you may thibk you’re winning but if you let hate consume you
You’re actually losing
@@meihuangha it actually isnt consuming me. Im doing just fine. Im able to pay for AC/Heating because I didnt spend my time abusing my children and chose to better my life. Tell abusers to go heal their inner selves and what not.
Bro make peace with your parents.
What if your future kids do that to you?
I honestly feel sad about for the blind guy. I wish we knew the child's side. You'll be surprised how many abusive thrive on pity only to secretly treat their own blood horribly.
That is so sad
I can't even. I can't fathom doing this to anyone, my parents were far from perfect but they tried their hardest. This is just shattering
Watching this video from Pakistan & the situation is the same here as well.
I also worked as a Doctor/G.P for 3 months for an institution which housed elderly/widowed women & it was sad to see their state.Some women were highly educated & worked their whole lives while others were brought into the city from villages by their kids but later on abandoned by their own children.
Lastly,correct me if i'm wrong but i read some where that...Gandhi was once invited to cut a ribbon on an entrance to a Old Shelter Home & there he said...i wish i can cut a ribbon on the closing of these Old Shelter Home rather then opening of them.
Situations in the west is same but india get them clicks.
Should not be happening in a practising Muslim society. In the Quran Allah says obey your parents even if they are non-Muslim (unless they ask you to do something shirk or haram).
No , shut up
@@Schrodinger-pk5wsno , he is lying
Bro this has me in freaking tears bro...i couldn't imagine leaving my parents like that.
I can't criticize people whose parents didn't take care of their kids well so the children do the same to their parents karma
We call that aged care. It’s sad that families no longer stay together and home. I’ve cared for my mother for 4 years keeping her in her own home. She did it for her parents both dying in their home comfortably. It’s a sad world now.
Karma is real.....what goes around comes around......Hats off to these people taking care of elderly in their final years............. 💚🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
I cared for my frail mother for 14 years as best I could. This is shameful.
I wonder how many of these abandoned elderly parents were abusive monsters to their kids in their younger years
exactly, maybe some had daughters they treated terribly
that type of mentality wont get you anywhere in life, think for your self, there is an old saying which goes like 2 wrongs dont make a right. there is always a 3rd option. you just have to be the bigger person in the room.
There is also a saying what goes around comes around and its hard to find a truer saying
@@notepicon2215 always telling children to be the bigger person but never the adults. How telling.
@@ahappilydrunkpuppy8961 if it werent for those parents, you woudnt have gotten a chance in life, im not a parent my self either, and these kids who left there parents out are grown adults them self, i fail to see the point you are trying to make.
Treat your child well, but also with sensible discipline. They will not leave you. I have heard lots of stories of awful Indian parents mainly awful to their daughters. Their sons are often spoiled so they leave them without a care.
Sons don’t tend to care but daughters do.
Even though sons have a higher ranking than daughters
🎉USE BIRTH CONTROL!!! DON’T TREAT YOUR KIDS BADLY. And, DON’T SPOIL THEM EITHER!!! 🎉
Average number of children per woman in India is less than 2.1 currently.
i.e. replacement level.
Only reason population number is rising now is because the elderly are living longer, and the infant mortality is significantly lower.
@@mth469 that's true today. But when the people in this video were having kids, stats were completely different. No one should have to go through what they're going through, but you can't deny that their generation is responsible for the population problem we have today.
Some bad event are cause by karma. Some is just bad people. Having children does not mean automatically have their love and care later. Some children are selfish and care for their family once they grow up and ignore the work their parents work to raise them. Giving love does not mean will receiving love.
@@mth469That stats and all is incorrect and brainwashing people to procreate more. India has everywhere more than necessary population, in fact our entire country is overpopulated. There is one RUclipsr who expose this.
Something was seriously wrong this elderly man was wandering around begging for food for multiple days and no one helped him. Breaks my heart this is just horrific, people in India only care for their families but not others. If you don't have a family to care for you no one will, I do not know how the people who walked past this man begging could sleep at night.
This is so sad. I would never wish upon anyone this tragic fate. I pray that they find a way out of their circumstances.
Don’t abuse your children.
I bet the wedding of the richest son in India made a difference
Rich respects there elders but the so called "Modern people" don't
How do you even assume this rich family is not supporting the poor and the sentiment beings. Your jealousy and stupidity are shown through your comments. What are you doing in your capacity? Have you helped others? First, charity begins at home. Then you can point out other's faults
You try and become rich and help these people..what u say....why blame others....
Jealous huh?😂
Just dropping some random irrelevant fact ...
It's so heartbreaking. The elder inside the ambulance looked so frightened😞
I would die for my parents i just dont understand why
The first gentleman reminds me of my dearly departed grandpa. Even if my parent wasn’t kind, I wouldn’t leave them in the street.
This is so sad. No matter how hard our life is.dont forget to take care our lovely parents
We Native Americans may be poor, but we never abandon our Elders, they are Treasures to us, Guardians to our past who hand their knowledge to the next generation. When a society abandons their Elders, it collapse is not far behind 😔
Probably your elders were kind, wise and taught and guided you well. Some parents are unspeakably and horrendously abusive. I don't think anyone should tolerate abuse even if it's from a parent.
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There's no discussion in this video as to why there is a percentage of people abandoning their parents, their grandparents etc.
For instance, the gentleman who was left at the hospital by his sons and abandoned. Did anyone ask them why they did that?
Is it simply a matter that no one can afford medical care in India, that no one can afford to take care of their elderly?
Watch it again, they said it’s because the family is poor. They left their father so they wouldn’t have to pay the medical fees.
It's a bit different in my life. My old parents treated me bad after my back injuries. They only love 2 daughters which are able to get money from job. Me and younger sister and the oldest sister is left out.
Sorry to hear.
How were you left out?
To lose your child's love and affection maybe you have done something wrong to them? Maybe they were abusive to their children and therefore they no longer needed to feel obligated to care about their parents? Who knows, as sad as it seems there are 2 sides to the story
So sad ,India have so many millionaires and billionaires they should help with charity money for this shelters for elderly people….
Usually it's the duty of kids to look after their parents,but some of their selfish wife don't want so
@@captain4595 That may be the case for SOME but not MILLIONS, don't blame every problem on the woman, India is still a very patriarchal society so if the son abandoned his own parents/parent because of his wife, then that's HIS decision he is an adult and supposedly "the man of the household".
@@captain4595Daughters-in-law aren't usually treated well in India, so your theory is unlikely.
@@emem2863 You live in India?
@@emem2863 You American barely know about your own country and Somehow have this audacity to lecture me about my own country
Such a heartbreaking video😢😢😢 I hope they are safe now😢😢😢
Have kids they say. They will care for you when you are old they say
Don't depend on kids.. kids have different lifestyle so don't think someone will care for you
@@rikimuoi6132, they should've taken abortion.
When they had you.
That argument about having kids to have someone look after you in itself is the most absurd one. Absolutely selfish argument.
@@timidsore7933 Yeah, but it the top argument given in India to have kids. That and continuing your 'lineage'
I WILL NEVER leave my parents like that. I am not and probably won't be rich BUT at minimum i will convert my future garage to a nany flat or build one in the back. They will ALWAYS have a home. Its not much but it'll have all the necessities. We do this today with my grandparents. My concern is they are divorced😅 they may find themselves in the same studio nany flat cuz i aint rich ☺️🤝
Cant imagine abandoning my parents, this video breaks my heart.
This is so sad considering I thought that Indians were tight knit as families.
They are but even if 0.01 percent do it its a big number...
With the rise of western culture in india ( modern day slavery ) it was destined to happen. Family values are dead now
Its India...even small percentage of whole population is pretty big number
Nah don't listen to the people above, the truth is indian families are very toxic and trust me when I say old people are not saints they litter, throw waste anywhere they stand and never follow the laws and are extremely corrupt.
Breeding results owe NOTHING to their breeders. Especially if their breeders bred them in a life where they'll be poor/in a bad situation
Name chekcs out
Vegans are the most predictably disgusting people on the planet.
I can accurately guess all of your beleids.
You’re an atheist. You’re a feminist. You’re LGBTQIA+. You’re. pro Abortion. You’re Pro jmmigration. You’re anti-gun. You’re childfree
Lol. You know i’m right.
Don’t you think its a problem when someone can summarise your whole brain in a single comment?
wake up Buffoon
It makes you wonder how they treated those around them in their youth when they are abandoned in the elder years
This made me so sad. Maybe this should be shown to young couples to teach them not to have too many children. One or two to whom they teach what respect and care is really about. My deepest thanks and respect to all you compassionate souls who are working to remedy this situation for the betterment of all. 🙏🏼 🙏🏼
🤔Thanks to these angels for taking care of the least & the lost!😢
Very sad!
Great article. I’m glad this organization is helping these people❤❤❤❤
Turns out if you mistreat your children they'll abandon you!
2:40 Their children owe them NOTHING.
So heartbreaking it's been going on in the US for a long time
The abandonment of veracity is a big issue, too...
In fact, the implication that millions
In the American elderly population are being dropped off in public places without a dime seems disingenuous.
I'm not implying that elderly welfare in the US isn't a great concern. Hyperbole notwithstanding, it doesn't begin to compare to the reality in India.
@@mortalclown3812 Janncoons is correct. The Elderly are indeedthe fastest growing segment of our homeless population in the US.
In the US, children aren't dropping off their elderly parents under bridges just yet. Let's hope it doesn't happen. However, there is neglect of parents.
@@kristinab1078 You can look it up -- the elderly are now the fastest growing segment of our homeless population.
@@kristinab1078
In the US, most people do not even take care of their parent.
The assumption is the govt will take care of them.
Now if the economy crashes with all the insane 35 trillion of debt and growing, who knows what type of world awaits.
Great respect for these people.
Maybe treat your children right next karmic time around 🤷🏻♀️
you can blame them if it makes you feel better, truth is most of these elderly were abandoned just for becoming inconvenient.
That can also be the issue!
It depends on what is the definition of right in your dictionary.
Lets not be cynical
@@user-eo1sv5kn4i That should tell you something about the types of kids they raised.
Pretty sure this is getting common worldwide as the older population growing and birth rate declining.
India get them clicks western kid adandone their parent at a far higher rate then india.
Salt of the earth people helping these people
If another Indian says he is great and lives in a great country, i will show them this
Every country have this issue.
😅. But as another comment stated, all countries have issues. In India we have too many...🤔
@@avi2125the more success the more stress 😬
Vast majority of Indians take care of their elderly parents.
I'm willing to bet its way more than what western children do -- and that's despite considerable wealth.
Take away that wealth and find out what reality would be.
@@mth469because young western people want to travel and they don’t have time to take care of them
Here in Dimapur ,Nagaland, every week unidentified non local dead is body is found. And no one used to claim the body. It's like, their family just left them in any place in Dimapur to let them die. Saddening.
They left their parents forever and here I'm who can't live a day without Mom. 🥺
Oh no abusers and traumatizers get what they get😢
Im sure their kids didn't abandon them for no reason.
Im sure they were not the best parents😅
Exactly. Nobody ever mentions this. I've cut off my mum and her old age is not my issue anymore because she didn't care about me and abused me
Children are also abandoned by parents, you can project your issues somewhere else
@@Sernivalwas a nerve struck or something? It goes both ways obviously, but just because one side of a bigger issue was mentioned doesn’t mean the other half isn’t any less important 😬
Children sometimes do heinous things but parents still love them.
I agree. There’s always two sides to a coin, but who knows.
That blind guy: 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
I believe in karma. If you're treating your parents this way, you'd be treated the same way by your children one day.
तीन जगह मजदूरी करता हूं पर अपने अम्मी अब्बू को सर आंखों पर बिठाया है. अल्लाह सबको हिदायत दे अपने मा बाप को इज्जत देने की😢🤲🏻
The people who abandoned their parents probably hate them for some reason.
Abuse?
Mindset of an Indian is to make quick Rupee. No compassion at all.
Perhaps the question that should be asked is how many of these parents neglected or abused (psychologically, physically, etc.) their children to such an extent that the children abandon them or put them in home.