The SECRET to be FEARLESS | Buddhist Philosophy | Watch if you’re scared to Fail in LIFE!

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  • Опубликовано: 25 окт 2024

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  • @simmygoraya6060
    @simmygoraya6060  6 месяцев назад +77

    Hi guys, this is my personal favourite video so far, I have started consulting my fears rather than trying to get rid of it and this little concept really makes me feel powerful and puts things in perspective! Hope it helps you the same way, looking forward to your comments! Would love to hear your thoughts on this too! Let’s all make fear our bodyguard!

    • @preeti_singh_bais
      @preeti_singh_bais 6 месяцев назад +2

      Very helpful. Thank you ✨

    • @kcmwings
      @kcmwings 6 месяцев назад

      ❤❤

    • @moonbean11111
      @moonbean11111 6 месяцев назад

      Very very helpfull diiii❤❤😢😢😢😢😢😢😢

    • @soniyachaudhary112
      @soniyachaudhary112 6 месяцев назад

      I did same ...I have intention so many tyms but I ignored and ruin my life ...ko mei sochtihu kyhai kse hai lyf aap serusly bahut clear un baaton ko clear krdete ho mam sister ...apki conversation milujhe bahut help krraihai...Jane anjane jse bhi bahut helpful Jo koi nhi smjha pta even mei Jo thi vo bhi nhi Rahi log pgl or khdetehain jb bhi kisi se discuss krti rhihu

    • @Roughnotebook00
      @Roughnotebook00 4 месяца назад

      Me: really really very helpful.
      My fear: I am not able to digest these things😏.-
      -
      - {(Because I am still possessed by fear. And I am not able to separate fear/bodyguard and Raja Rani.)
      It will happen.
      It will take some time.
      It will happen like it happened after watching the first two videos.
      eye opening slowly slowly.
      I was living in hidden anxiety for so many days. Till now I have not even found out whether I am who I am or it is my anxiety/fear😮. But now I have to come out. Earlier I wanted to tear the chest of the fear dominating me from inside and come out as an angry, confident, patient, determined person. और उसके छाती पर पैर रख कर उसे ऐसी आंख दिखाऊ की वो डर खुद डर जाए😤। But😮‍💨 I always lacked strength for that😢. The trick of Raja Rani and Bodyguard is way simpler and also less effort😧😟😧🥲🥲Why did I not know this earlier. How many years of life have I wasted. But now; not anymore.😎}

  • @PrishitaAggarwal
    @PrishitaAggarwal День назад

    Ma'am, I have never, in my entire life commented on a youtube video. Few minutes back, I was just contemplating about my future and a thought scared me. I immediately got reminded of your words that fear is your bodyguard. I journalled my thoughts and realised what my fear is trying to tell me. I thanked my fear in the end because I am now more aware and alert that what I need to be careful about. Ma'am, thank you, thank you, thank you so much for sharing and making videos. I hope you continue to share and impact the lives of people. You are indeed a blessing. Thank you so much.

  • @aishwaryapandey7405
    @aishwaryapandey7405 6 месяцев назад +20

    "i am the queen and fear is my personal bodyguard/consultant"🙌🙌omg such a magical line

  • @Doctor.ac6
    @Doctor.ac6 3 месяца назад +5

    Listening to all your 5 videos i realised i used to be the same since childhood till the age of 22. Always overthinking putting focus on every feeling every thought, i started writing everything down since the age of 12 till 22 but that didn't helped insted made it worse, in clg i tried to make my relationship worked but that didn't i was so stuck couldn't leave the guy. It was much later around 23-24 when i finally realised to just slow down the thinking a Little n We need not to think about everything and sometime just go with the flow, this helped. Relax calm yourself down bc every feeling isn't a fact. So just let that go. This helped me a lot now in 24 and in a much much better situation now bc i started focusing only on the good. AND ONCE YOU CONSCIOUSLY TRY TO SLOW DOWN YOUR THINKING THE THOUGHTS COMING TO YOUR MIND WILL SLOW DOWN

  • @eymanamanbaloch4917
    @eymanamanbaloch4917 6 месяцев назад +5

    Simmyy this was like a therapy session, honestly ❤️ I've never watched videos like these because they were always boring with so much serious talk! From your perspective, you might not have had many experiences, but for a 20-year-old like me (or maybe younger ones out here or maybe older but less experienced), it's totally a delight to watch you and learn from you! You were great when you were creating makeup beauty content, and you are great now too; it's more vulnerable and relatable ❤️🙏 Believe me, it's the best! Please don't stop; we, as your little learners, need you.

  • @taniyagaur9930
    @taniyagaur9930 6 месяцев назад +17

    You know what simmy I’ve been following you from years now and the best part is you did not give up. There’s nothing wrong with trying new things and exploring. We as your followers and aundiance is VERY PROUD OF YOU. You’ve always been very candid and amazing! Keep going. ✨

  • @niraja-y9d
    @niraja-y9d 6 дней назад

    Truly sis❤what you told exactly i feel like my past experiences. Some times I am so anxious, fear that become normal for me. Nice video.

  • @tahoor6814
    @tahoor6814 2 месяца назад +3

    hey ! i dont comment much on videos but today i had to because literally something compelled me to . i discovered your channel today only and i have already watched 4 videos from this playlist. i must say you are doing a really veryy verryy great job . your words seem like magic. it doesn't seem like a nonsense motivational speech which seems impractical to apply in real life . instead everything feels so natural and useful . you are really helping people like me who are struggling with figuring out stuff. i appreciate everything you are doing...looking forward for more such content..thanks❤

  • @shubhambaviskar18
    @shubhambaviskar18 6 месяцев назад +15

    What a unique perspective towards fear. I have never seen a practical concept like this. I'm feeling so light after watching this video I'm gonna apply this concept as much as possible from now. Thank you so much, Simmy for providing massive value through your content❤

  • @anshikamikasa
    @anshikamikasa 6 месяцев назад +38

    Need more videos on mental health issues ❤u support well

  • @beingbest6304
    @beingbest6304 5 месяцев назад +4

    i though i will listen someone so sincerely for 25 minutes without any kind of editing and transition,really grateful for this persepective of fear is my best friend

  • @vaishalisaini2797
    @vaishalisaini2797 6 месяцев назад +11

    Even if you don't have experience of 50 years, but your perspectives on these little but significant part of life (like fear - everyone tries to ignore it instead of handle it constructively and then it overpower us for rest of life) are just amazing.... ❤❤❤ . Please continue to share your thoughts and experiences

  • @itsfariyabanu
    @itsfariyabanu 6 месяцев назад +4

    Honestly maine jab thumbnail deka toh I was like ok I might learn some strategies or tricks to overcome fear and anxiety, but jab video deka I felt like yeh toh mere words Bol Rahi hai, literally it was so simple to understand and relate to whatever you were saying and the take-home from this video was: your fear and anxiety is your guiding power, don't suppress it or don't be afraid of it instead sit with it and understand what it's trying to say. Thanks for this video. Lovely lesson shared!!

  • @poojabhardwaj861
    @poojabhardwaj861 6 месяцев назад +8

    Needed it so much. Thank you, nobody explained it better. ❤

  • @shobhu60
    @shobhu60 23 дня назад

    You are so genuine .... love listening real experience... so refreshing....❤

  • @ShakeelAhmad-qj5rm
    @ShakeelAhmad-qj5rm 26 дней назад

    We always want one person to listen & support us but never find such person and it’s only me to listen to oneself and understand an do the right thing to counter fears

  • @dr.sampadakhair6596
    @dr.sampadakhair6596 6 месяцев назад +3

    great one , thank you for sharing this perspective . when you said , you do not know if this is even going to affect to anywhere in future makes me think ,how beautiful our journey is of knowing certain things and learning new things .

  • @DurgaRoy-uh6hq
    @DurgaRoy-uh6hq 4 месяца назад +1

    the elder sister i always manifested to have but never had and i now i'm in tears thank u simmy didu god bless u,apki saari mannate poori ho jaye mai roz baba ji se pray karungi

  • @simrankaur6120
    @simrankaur6120 5 дней назад

    Amazing video Simmy. i am binge watching this series of yours and this one is my favourite till now. amazing view on the concept fear, i didnt know ki itna easy tha fear ko tackle krna because i used to actually get so shaken up and anxious and let overpowered me. cant wait to watch the remaining videos.
    i too love deep coversations, but no one is there to actually sit and have some with me. i think i will consider you my friend in relating to such deep conversations. loads of love!. Keep up doing the good work.

  • @lunallena3245
    @lunallena3245 6 месяцев назад +11

    Fear alarm is ringing loudly in my stomach, chest and even my entire body.And now I'm paralyzed to make any decision. I feel very low.

  • @merikahani_123
    @merikahani_123 Месяц назад

    Be there with me always dear. Your thoughts and thinking process is almost similar as mine. Love you ❤

  • @anshitaarora5967
    @anshitaarora5967 6 месяцев назад +6

    hey, just wanted to let you know i have been following you since 2 years and i have also watched your beauty content and i just want to say keep going , you are doing great and forget about what people will say and just do you , we are with you !

  • @AKSchannal
    @AKSchannal 6 месяцев назад +3

    For me fear is like
    Ego protecting himself from changing current situation

  • @glam-girls84
    @glam-girls84 13 дней назад

    i totally agree with your talks ,i m fully relatable with you

  • @riyamondal4609
    @riyamondal4609 5 месяцев назад +2

    This video is what I need right now, thank you for putting this video online😊

  • @arushiarora5354
    @arushiarora5354 6 месяцев назад +5

    Came across this video at the right time! Thank you for sharing this perspective❤

  • @walkersrish1179
    @walkersrish1179 6 месяцев назад +2

    My God. This is such a LIFE CHANGING perspective ❤️

  • @sampurna659
    @sampurna659 6 месяцев назад

    Please continue this format. You are gifted when it comes to simplifying complex ideas and adding your perspective to it. These videos are surely helping a ton of viewers. You are made for this.

  • @LivingwithDia
    @LivingwithDia 2 месяца назад

    These days i am on vacation and you have become my bestie. Hooked on your videos non stop. 🎉

  • @ShankarnarayanBhattacharjee
    @ShankarnarayanBhattacharjee 6 месяцев назад +1

    You are so beautiful. I really connect with your deep thinking and perspective on life. I hope you find an amazing guy who will cherish every moment with you.

  • @ashishpits23
    @ashishpits23 2 месяца назад

    Simmy The Philosopher ....Very Introspective !!!

  • @SHUBHAMZONES
    @SHUBHAMZONES 2 дня назад

    Your videos help me a lot thankyou so much 🥺🥺 can you please make a video on clear mind or how to take decision in your life please 🙏

  • @shreyakamble6933
    @shreyakamble6933 6 месяцев назад +1

    This is exactly what I wanted to hear! Thank you so very much ❤

  • @coco-kuki
    @coco-kuki 6 месяцев назад

    Hey Simmy! I want to let you know that I couldn't connect with any other video the way I did with this one. I always wanted to start something similar but couldn't because of that 'Fear of the unknown'. Thank you for being you and the strength I got from your words and perspective is unexplainable ❤ I wish you the best.

  • @radhikamalvi2621
    @radhikamalvi2621 6 месяцев назад +3

    Please make this kind of content... It's really helpful 😢... Too much needed😊...,. Thank you so so muchhh ❤❤❤❤❤❤..... From entire heart 💕💕

  • @hobitahs
    @hobitahs 6 месяцев назад

    I have never commented ever on you tube it's first time . I am so happy to see what you are speaking. I myself have gone through the similar phase in my life and I totally relate with you . Keep up your work . Today I feel like I am not the only one who went through it . And honestly even though it was hard but it was a blessing in disguise. It makes you know yourself so deeply .

  • @ManishaSharma-yj2lq
    @ManishaSharma-yj2lq 6 месяцев назад

    Believe me these kind of videos will help people a lot
    You serving people in most noble way with these kind of videos
    I'm coming to you channel from nowhere has overviewed your channel and these type of recent videos you are uploading are best even if you are not getting the views believe me you will serving people through these kind of videos even if you are dead

  • @neetupanwar4038
    @neetupanwar4038 6 месяцев назад

    Hello simmy …. I have been following you since 4-5 years … and its always so pleasant to listen to you about what so ever u talk … the most genuine person i have come across in youtube ……❤

  • @Pavithra_cs
    @Pavithra_cs 3 месяца назад

    i liked the perspective of seeing fear as my bodygouurd❤.. it's helping to know my self worth.. thankyou ❤❤

  • @garrypatel7141
    @garrypatel7141 6 месяцев назад +2

    Wow so beautifully explained, it literally felt like a therapy…!!! ✨

  • @VanshikaChoudhary-ui8el
    @VanshikaChoudhary-ui8el 6 месяцев назад +1

    please contiue putting out such insightful videos .love u for this simmy

  • @meghabaresa5585
    @meghabaresa5585 4 месяца назад

    This video is really eye opening for me...thank youu soo much for this video...now me bhi nhi bhulungi ye kbhi bhi...❤love youu

  • @GenitaminNani
    @GenitaminNani 5 месяцев назад

    U r my podcast dd ur perspective for fear is amazing and I'll have it n revise it whenever i feel fear of attempt new things.
    Fear is my guard he is alarming me I shall listen and check pro's n concq n decide what 2 do

  • @RituSharma-vc8px
    @RituSharma-vc8px 6 месяцев назад

    The database example is my favorite part.. It makes so much sense❤

  • @archanatoppo9664
    @archanatoppo9664 6 месяцев назад +1

    Video is amazing as always simmy...you are a great story teller. One suggestion ...there are certain irrational fears too which make absolutely no sense and chain us

  • @faltuCoder35
    @faltuCoder35 Месяц назад

    I love your storytelling ❤

  • @MANU-j3b
    @MANU-j3b 2 месяца назад

    Such genuine content with good vibes. Glad paying bills for the internet. 😇❤️

  • @anjali_pagar55977
    @anjali_pagar55977 6 месяцев назад +2

    This video was an eye opener!! ❤

  • @qween7ll7.
    @qween7ll7. 6 месяцев назад +2

    ❤❤❤❤ thank you for sharing all this, the type of videos you are making now are helping me a lot, like I have someone to guide me as an elder sister I feel calm after watching your videos

  • @Ranjeet_Sir777
    @Ranjeet_Sir777 2 месяца назад

    Glad to see this video. Whatever comments I shared with you till now, I am satisfied that I made a logical expression of your personality. Yes, I would stick to my previous comments. You are a seeker, a person on a journey of self exploration. Here, in the context of this video, I would like to share with you a video of a well-known psychologist from Pune. She is also a doctor her medical background helped her to analyse this emotion called FEAR in a more logical & physiological way. Although, the video is in both English & Marathi you can understand it and surely it will give you many insights. As you mentioned that one single line " fear is our bodyguard" created a shift in your perspective. That video has two part, in the second part she has shared many useful techniques that help an invidual to practically apply those techniques and deal with anxiety. As people want practical solutions not lectures from any motivational speaker. I am sure you will be happy to watch those videos.

  • @rajaniyadav5681
    @rajaniyadav5681 2 месяца назад

    Hey, it's amazing. Really a great perspective to look at fear.❤

  • @anmol8735
    @anmol8735 6 месяцев назад

    very cute diii...hum kitna bhagte rehte hain.....aapne sahi bola fear humara bodyguard hai....thankuu diii lots of love

  • @mansisamsung6689
    @mansisamsung6689 6 месяцев назад

    This has been one of the most amazing video on internet. Though many people discussed the same topic but the way you conveyed the same message is very relatable and amazing
    Thanks Simmy
    Keep making these kinda of videos,these are amazing ,don't ever STOP
    One tip-
    Never put this kinda background music
    And secondly don't run for numbers and likes for these kinda of video's as even if your bringing 1000 people life changed it's a huge impact over the world

  • @TheShiprasrivas
    @TheShiprasrivas 3 месяца назад

    I came across your account and I feel so good to see this vedio. Needed it so much ❤

  • @tanishaa1045
    @tanishaa1045 6 месяцев назад +1

    Your videos are truly helping me somewhere 💟🥺
    Just a suggestion please don't put background music your words are so enough to make a change for thoughts 🙃

  • @ankitakarn6273
    @ankitakarn6273 6 месяцев назад

    I really needed this today and would love to see your other videos like this where you will share your perspective.. justt keep going and I am eure it will be impacting the life of others in a good way..
    Thankyou ❤

  • @TheGirlBeDoodlin
    @TheGirlBeDoodlin 4 месяца назад +1

    Thankyou so much for sharing ..we do need a guiding sister❤

  • @Simrann_simran
    @Simrann_simran 6 месяцев назад +1

    😲.... What a life changing concept❤

  • @shobhabangari8021
    @shobhabangari8021 6 месяцев назад

    Ye line mene bhut bar suni h ki fear tumse bda nhi h tu fear se bde ho pr is line ka kbhi actual matlb mujhe smjh nhi aya pr apne aj explain Kiya to acha lga thank you ❤

  • @gourikrishna9999
    @gourikrishna9999 6 месяцев назад +1

    I would like to share something that my therapist told me, I have this habit of catestrophise everything, so, she said okay, go ahead and do it, but also imagine you dealing with the worst outcome of your decisions. Bcz you have done that in your past.

  • @arjunchandra4589
    @arjunchandra4589 6 месяцев назад

    Fear management depends on individual's life, work etc, but always be a king or queen to the fear, if you make fear the king or queen then it will engulf you, you wont be able to differenciate fake alarm and true alarm produced by your fear for your entire life. Always keep your fear under control, keep your fear safe, dont loose it, because "fear of wasting our life is what makes us go towards the light".

  • @365WordsofWisdom
    @365WordsofWisdom Месяц назад

    Has Simmy moved out of Mumbai? Coz her background is damnnn pretty and calming, giving beautiful South Indian vibes

  • @moonbean11111
    @moonbean11111 6 месяцев назад

    ❤❤❤❤ this video helped me i will change my perspective . Will try to adapt this and this concept actually is very soothing in itself that fear is my bodyguard and its there to help me thankyou simmy di you have alwaya been my fav bug sister in giving amazing life advices to this 24 yr old thankyou

  • @manishabaliyarsingh7952
    @manishabaliyarsingh7952 6 месяцев назад

    Totally understand you and I can see myself in you 😊. Appreciate you ❤

  • @peace252
    @peace252 6 месяцев назад +2

    Make fear ur bodyguard 🙌♥️

  • @nilangisadrekar9523
    @nilangisadrekar9523 23 дня назад

    Really helpful,Thank you😊

  • @anchalprajapati5955
    @anchalprajapati5955 6 месяцев назад

    and again simmi di u changed my perspective to see myself around my bodygaurd(fear) .

  • @SakshiYadav-c6v
    @SakshiYadav-c6v 6 месяцев назад

    Keep on making such content it’s really good simmy

  • @poojakewat7777
    @poojakewat7777 6 месяцев назад

    Really helpful and loved this .....plz go ahead with these type of content. Love you di ❤

  • @farodap7203
    @farodap7203 6 месяцев назад

    I like your this type of content ❤. please carry on in this field.i will wait for your every upcoming videos eagerly 🌻

  • @visheshgupta4990
    @visheshgupta4990 6 месяцев назад

    Simmy yarr , you are like a antaryami now , I recently subscribed you by watching your first video and now this is the second video , which is very valuable that is what I was looking for , Thanks for being a therapist through this vide , a very unique and valuable perspective which has the power to heal ❤🙌

  • @dr.sonaldwivedi3419
    @dr.sonaldwivedi3419 6 месяцев назад +2

    i so understand this...i have had really terrible experience wrt marriage and adjusting in my in laws place..n my triggers are at peak now.. so m not even kidding when i hear what ur saying simmy... but still this solution doesn't work for me.. im still struggling..

  • @deepanshusahu4174
    @deepanshusahu4174 3 месяца назад

    Kudos to this Video👍👍👍👍👍Keep continuing making such type of videos.

  • @navya0412
    @navya0412 6 месяцев назад

    Yaa this is absolutely true simmy when i was in on and off relationship with my ex, the fear reallyy became physical that i started shivering, my palms sweat, my chest hurts while receiving a call from him and now just thinking about him makes me feel all those things

  • @harshitamoryani1299
    @harshitamoryani1299 6 месяцев назад

    Hey di this is the first video I watched on your channel and now love to listen you, you changed my perspective also thank you ☺️

  • @AmitSharma-xb5ww
    @AmitSharma-xb5ww 3 месяца назад

    Simmy bro way you express thought fantastic, aapko sun kr thinking perspective change ho jata hai 👏

  • @rakhirajput1509
    @rakhirajput1509 6 месяцев назад +1

    Best video ever
    Keep it up

  • @Deepika1295
    @Deepika1295 6 месяцев назад

    Hey Simmy, I'm new to your channel and I really enjoy this type of video content. Please continue making these kinds of videos, I'm considering subscribing to your channel! ❤️

  • @vatsalyaofficial02
    @vatsalyaofficial02 5 дней назад

    Soooo great talk 15:31

  • @patil....-05
    @patil....-05 6 месяцев назад

    Its really an amazing perspective!!❤
    Loved it❤

  • @LittleArtistRainbowclub
    @LittleArtistRainbowclub 3 месяца назад

    Truly loving your new series❤ please make videos on relationships

  • @supriyasarkar1727
    @supriyasarkar1727 6 месяцев назад

    We all need big sissy like you 😍 lots of love 💕

  • @shivani1244
    @shivani1244 6 месяцев назад +1

    Man i cried 30 mins over fear , i get this video in suggestion

  • @vikkysharma4978
    @vikkysharma4978 6 месяцев назад

    Hey queen iam yours little brother and also your trust worthy Bodyguard ❤ love you : )

  • @nayanaparmesh5343
    @nayanaparmesh5343 6 месяцев назад

    Fear is your bodyguard who alarms you about the danger
    You are queen /king of your life

  • @Deathpenalty229
    @Deathpenalty229 6 месяцев назад

    Thankyou soo much didi I really need this, lots of love to you ❤❤❤❤

  • @Annie-yw8zk
    @Annie-yw8zk 5 месяцев назад

    We need more stuffs on this topic

  • @fatimaaliAli-e3b
    @fatimaaliAli-e3b 5 месяцев назад

    that what my grandmother say :"kabhi kese dar ya cheez ko khud pr sawar nh karte us pr khud sawar hote ha " so things getting easy

  • @merylfreedadcruz6317
    @merylfreedadcruz6317 6 месяцев назад

    beautiful video!! More power to you!

  • @rajatjaryal4417
    @rajatjaryal4417 6 месяцев назад

    Best explanation of fear ever ...

  • @firvik03
    @firvik03 6 месяцев назад

    Simmy its so helpfull and so easy to understand, and the concept ❤

  • @PrishitaAggarwal
    @PrishitaAggarwal День назад

    Thank you

  • @balwinderdass2734
    @balwinderdass2734 6 месяцев назад

    Eh kuri diya video dekh k bnda khus ho jnda funny ji kuri aw eh 😂nyccccc

  • @nishapillai6173
    @nishapillai6173 6 месяцев назад

    This was a great perspective.. well said..
    Sometimes you agree to your fear alarm but it's difficult to take that difficult step. How to go ahead with that phase?

  • @CobraAnkit
    @CobraAnkit 6 месяцев назад +1

    please make a video on how to ask a woman for a date without being direct.

  • @aditisharma545
    @aditisharma545 6 месяцев назад

    Yar ap hmesha best bnate ho chize but apne apni video private kyun ki h yar it's just awesome videos 🔥💓 aur kabhi kabhi lgta hai ki ye hr human ki khani hai bs koi smjhane vala n hota and you do it ....🔥🔥💞

  • @deepshikhaminia3462
    @deepshikhaminia3462 6 месяцев назад

    Wowww... what a life changing concept..❤

  • @CandidlySAHA
    @CandidlySAHA 6 месяцев назад

    Simmi di pls keep making these kind of videos ❤I really need this in my life.

  • @rashi4624
    @rashi4624 6 месяцев назад

    thankyou for putting this out simmy

  • @aditigupta7042
    @aditigupta7042 6 месяцев назад

    Thanks for explaining this so beautifully 😍 amazing 👏