how I take care of my sanity living alone

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  • Опубликовано: 23 янв 2025

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  • @TammyMai
    @TammyMai  Год назад +97

    you know how people do "a day in my life"? how about this "a day in my loft" ? 🤓
    a reminder: you are not your thoughts. your experience is valid but it does not run you 🤍 we validate, confront, and move forward with grace and love.
    and alsooo thank you to Aura for supporting me on my journey of wellbeing, self care & sleep! get started with Aura today for free & the first 500 people to use my link will also get 25% off+ free trial to the Aura membership: www.aurahealth.io/tammai

  • @Boynextdoor53
    @Boynextdoor53 Год назад +101

    Tam conveys herself so eloquently while the keeping an inviting and personable vibe throughout the entire video. She's truly an artist in her own rightful way.

  • @aezdem
    @aezdem Год назад +57

    literally definition of calmness and comfort.

  • @earthtoheysha
    @earthtoheysha Год назад +44

    Girl these videos help me a lot, I live alone and am 21, so its just a roller coaster of emotions !! I love this content!

    • @TammyMai
      @TammyMai  Год назад +9

      ahhh i feeeel you. it's all so normal, i promise. it's the experience of being human because what would we be if we were one mood all the time right? :')

  • @cheryoko
    @cheryoko Год назад +41

    The way you literally take my thoughts and make them into these videos that don't feel so heavy. I always laugh/smile at least once when watching your videos. Thank you for letting me feel seen Tam!

    • @TammyMai
      @TammyMai  Год назад +1

      haha so sweet, thank you for being here!

  • @conquerordie230
    @conquerordie230 Год назад +23

    The video quality and production on these vlog videos are top tier and doesn't go unnoticed.

  • @hxrtboy
    @hxrtboy Год назад +1

    I don't usually watch vlogs but this channel is so entertaining to me rn lol love this, the trey songs yup had me laughing for 2mins

  • @yasmin6282
    @yasmin6282 Год назад +14

    Omg my fairy godmother posted!!!!!!!!

    • @TammyMai
      @TammyMai  Год назад +5

      bibbideebobbidee boo i luv u 🥺

    • @yasmin6282
      @yasmin6282 Год назад +2

      @@TammyMai luv u more

  • @katana2k
    @katana2k Год назад +6

    I lived alone for the first time when I was 22. I think I went a little crazy, but probably I just realized how crazy I already was because I had a minute to think about it. Now I’m 35 and my mental health has been pretty good for a long time. Like 8 years? I’ve come to know and accept myself for who I am, and once you’ve done that, you can start playing to your strengths. That’s when you can really build momentum in life

  • @aishanadeem
    @aishanadeem Год назад +15

    i just recently subscribed and i’ve watched every single video
    i love the amount of comfort i feel from your vlogs, thank you for making them 💗

    • @TammyMai
      @TammyMai  Год назад +1

      hi aisha, thank you so much for being here

  • @asmaa_vlog_85
    @asmaa_vlog_85 Год назад +11

    She's literally the only person I can watch over and over again without getting bored or tired 💖 you inspire me sm w my channel 💖🥰🍓♥️♥️🥰♥️I've been waiting everyday for the video to be uploaded! I'm very happy Take care🌷🐇

    • @TammyMai
      @TammyMai  Год назад +1

      aw thank you Asma! you go this

  • @teecee7759
    @teecee7759 Год назад +11

    I’m currently living alone in my 20s and your content is just so peaceful relaxing and funny at the same time, Thankyou for this video

  • @violetgloom
    @violetgloom Год назад +7

    thank you for being so open with discussing your feelings, so many people online just try to show how great their life is and it can be very demoralizing as life is full of both ups and downs. these little reminders that you're human like the rest of us is very inspiring

  • @dravensonline
    @dravensonline Год назад +6

    been following you for a while. i remember when you first reposted a story of mine. it’s so nice to see your journey and mindset change and i hope to see you more in the future. you’re such an inspiration and i love your content.

  • @annetteyadon878
    @annetteyadon878 Год назад +3

    Living alone is not always easy but I find it relaxing most of the time and I just love your videos ❤

  • @karijenice
    @karijenice Год назад

    im such a huge believer in signs, especially in the last few days; ive been looking for my next job for a while, and it got to a point where i started to doubt myself because i was constantly waking up to rejections emails and feeling like something was wrong with me because no one wanted to hire me. until a week ago i saw a job vacancy for one of my favourite clothing stores and i got the job! everything happens for a reason

  • @avonleadacayanan1366
    @avonleadacayanan1366 Год назад +1

    I just recently discovered your videos and you’re the only RUclipsr who every single video I am paying attention 100% and not just playing it in the background.🥰🥰🥰

  • @gchristinaa
    @gchristinaa Год назад +2

    your aura is so comforting

  • @imdaeun4773
    @imdaeun4773 Год назад +2

    Got recommended a video of hers 2h ago and now I'm obsessed

  • @vioricabahov2427
    @vioricabahov2427 Год назад

    I’ve been binge watching your videos cause I’m staying at home for two weeks due to a sprained ankle. They help me feel less alone since none of my ‘friends’ have checked up on me. You feel like an older sister and you give me such a calm and comforting feeling. Thank you, you have no idea how much you are helping people like me❤️

  • @nacha9618
    @nacha9618 Год назад +2

    I related to this video on so many levels. The synchronicities make me feel so aligned and they happen ALOT. Thank you for posting. I'm about to solo travel for 3 weeks and have really started accepting that I'm in a new season of life that's alot more lonely than it was this time last year

  • @aw0752
    @aw0752 Год назад +2

    I just found your channel and omg am I obsessed. New favorite youtuber alert and your loft is gorge

  • @kashkahlo
    @kashkahlo Год назад +2

    my new fav channel💗your vibes are immaculate

  • @mahamkhan2247
    @mahamkhan2247 Год назад +2

    I came across your channel yesterday and have watched your 3 most recent videos and I instantly feel so at home with you! I love your vibe so much, you have a really comforting energy and such a sense of depth to you. Excited to watch more of you! Also, when you turned on that Elvis song I squealed, I'm such a huge fan of his music! xx

  • @chrissy2300
    @chrissy2300 Год назад +1

    i just randomly found you on my recommended, annddd girl i absolutely love your content!! your videos are so peaceful and beautiful ♡

  • @meemeelipota
    @meemeelipota Год назад

    I started writing down all my days I spent with my partner and everything that happened and my thoughts, because i didn't wanna forget about our day together, but now that i think about it, it looks like it had the involuntary effect of making me word my feelings better and improved my communication skills with my partner. because i knew what i wanted since i was writing everything down!

  • @MistyLaShay
    @MistyLaShay Год назад +1

    AHHHH LOVE YOU TAMMY 🤍🤍

  • @mirna9781
    @mirna9781 Год назад +1

    i love you and your videos😭😭🫶🏼🫶🏼🫶🏼🫶🏼

  • @almondmilk1659
    @almondmilk1659 Год назад +1

    def woke up having one of Those days and I loved this sm. didn’t want it to end :’)

  • @jessicad57
    @jessicad57 Год назад

    i've just started watching your videos and lemme tell you, you have motivated me to get up and get moving as well as to show my gratitude for everything i have around me. love your vids, please keep them coming 😍

  • @justinaragones
    @justinaragones Год назад

    Definitely on the same journey of self love and growth, and i find inner peace in that we are similar in a sense of headspace and emotionally intelligence, keep on grinding!

  • @annikalund2329
    @annikalund2329 Год назад

    Hi there, I really loved this video. Definitely saving it for when I’m having a bad day. And yes, jaazzy or lofi playlists are the best!

  • @jackmovick9116
    @jackmovick9116 Год назад

    I totally take synchronicities as a sign from my higher power. I’ve had alot since I conceived my 4th baby. I lost the last 2 in the second trimester but for this one I just knew she was a girl and would be ok. I kept seeing her name in random books and I kept getting the numbers 1111/111 not just on my phone but when I did pay’s for our employees and other random places. Things that are really out of this world. So I 100% believe in the universe trying to show us things 💗💗

  • @melissa_xm
    @melissa_xm Год назад

    gosh your videos are so pleasing

  • @antvr777
    @antvr777 Год назад

    been wanting to do a self care type of day & this was definitely my sign to do it , also shoutout elvis fr

  • @katana2k
    @katana2k Год назад +3

    Spending time alone with your thoughts is the first step towards self acceptance

  • @stormaddams3782
    @stormaddams3782 Год назад

    Omg your my new favourite vlogger I stumbled upon your videos 2 weeks ago and I can’t stop watching. It’s like you slow down time for me in a good way, I feel like I can breath for 20 minutes and then my mind starts racing again!!! I love your content and hope you the best in your journey!! Also what camera do you use the quality of your videos is amazing.

  • @Nikasio_
    @Nikasio_ Год назад

    When that mix turned purple, it blew. my. mind. Highlight of my friday lol

  • @TwinTwoTimes22
    @TwinTwoTimes22 Год назад +1

    you're soooo unique, I love itttt :)

  • @celsius2370
    @celsius2370 Год назад +1

    Those are honestly the healthiest looking plant's I've seen. Talking to them seems like it's working haha

  • @minathealtar
    @minathealtar Год назад +1

    I just made the most inhuman noise when I saw you posted😩❤️

  • @alezane4919
    @alezane4919 Год назад

    My god this video is coming at the most perfect time ❤ (moving in my first appartement rn, feels so weird)

  • @enochsuplee
    @enochsuplee Год назад

    Man.. I love this new energy in this video haha!

  • @Michovic
    @Michovic Год назад +2

    Loved this vlog so much hope you do more chit chat talking videos ❤

  • @RoxannOfficial
    @RoxannOfficial Год назад

    Honestly I have considered divine intervention. Some days really spook me but but I’m always on guard for some reason. I’m open to what may be out there and that’s been the mindset from the get go.

  • @iris_jy0
    @iris_jy0 Год назад +1

    I’m so early omggg . I love you and your vids 🥹

    • @TammyMai
      @TammyMai  Год назад +1

      hi christine! ah thank you sm

    • @iris_jy0
      @iris_jy0 Год назад +1

      @@TammyMai OMGG 🥰 I honestly binge your content because it gets me through the day. Thank you for creating amazing content, Tammy :)

  • @kimmyortega9664
    @kimmyortega9664 Год назад

    i luv your vids sm they are so relaxing and helpme gain sm prespective on life

  • @ra1nbowsugarr693
    @ra1nbowsugarr693 Год назад

    I LOVE YOUUUU💗💗💗I’m your new subscriber and I’m really grateful that I found your channel ✨✨✨

  • @cindybmb7684
    @cindybmb7684 Год назад

    i love you so much 😭😭 like i'd love to have a friend like you around me

  • @iitsmisfit
    @iitsmisfit Год назад

    I love your videos, and your skin is flawless❤️

  • @trango1658
    @trango1658 Год назад

    Loved the video tammy!! You inspire me to live my best life. Always looking forward to the next vid❤❤❤ also careful when whisking matcha, ur whisk shouldn't be scraping the bottom of your bowl like that 😉

  • @carissaedits
    @carissaedits Год назад

    this video came at the right time :’)

  • @jansonrawr
    @jansonrawr Год назад

    bae wake up new tammy vlog dropped

  • @k_k6324
    @k_k6324 Год назад

    I love your content soooo mucchhhhhh. Thank you for posting and hope you have a great day

    • @TammyMai
      @TammyMai  Год назад

      thank you 🥺 i hope you are too!

  • @KelanChase14
    @KelanChase14 Год назад

    Hi Tammy, I was wondering if you could please share the camera equipment you use for your videos ? I want to start making "DITL" content and I love the intimacy and clarity of your work!

  • @mickib381
    @mickib381 Год назад +5

    You could be in a room full,of people and still be lonely. Loneliness creeps up on all of us.

  • @zhuangxixing6755
    @zhuangxixing6755 Год назад

    Great pancake story

  • @valerieobehi7107
    @valerieobehi7107 Год назад

    It’s listening to a therapist and friend..in a good way 👍

  • @simplyellenxo95
    @simplyellenxo95 Год назад

    Yaaaaas girl new vids 😍💋💕

  • @ramonagarcia6656
    @ramonagarcia6656 Год назад

    you are so inner thoughts

  • @tnvrchw
    @tnvrchw Год назад

    love your videos

  • @alis0n.
    @alis0n. Год назад

    your house is sooo cool

  • @marccolomayt82094
    @marccolomayt82094 Год назад

    nice living alone in loft vlog ❤

  • @yanckebaxter783
    @yanckebaxter783 Год назад +1

    When is your bday ? How old are you? I know you are definitely younger than me.... I'm turning 32 years old next month lol.... But I love your videos...they are amazing and beautifully done....love your depth yet light heartedness

  • @JaniaSanders
    @JaniaSanders Год назад

    A really good podcast I would recommend is the "Just Different " podcast.

  • @csscott9803
    @csscott9803 Год назад

    Awesome vlog 😁👍

  • @tjskeyblade
    @tjskeyblade 21 день назад

    I do love to munch on pancakes in the mornings good for my tummy and grateful for my soul

  • @TheAmie1995
    @TheAmie1995 Год назад +1

    matcha and most teas have something called l-theanine so thats the reason its doesnt make your heart go crazy like caffeine haha

  • @amandanewenrosasreyes9995
    @amandanewenrosasreyes9995 Год назад

    what kind of plants do you have??? they´re so beautifulllll

  • @_rayafterhours
    @_rayafterhours Год назад

    HEYYYYY BABYYYY❤

  • @firewind3509
    @firewind3509 Год назад +1

    I wish I lived alone 😭 it’s completely unattainable financially in London

  • @sayleral
    @sayleral Год назад

    I have never seen someone rock red hair better than you

  • @asapmorgz
    @asapmorgz Год назад

    taro and ube are two different things! ube is purple yam and taro is a root vegetable

  • @urgreensoul
    @urgreensoul Год назад

    Hiiiii 😻💖 my lovely vloger💖

  • @mattiagrassi4057
    @mattiagrassi4057 Год назад +1

    I just found you and I'm already in love with you

  • @therebel15
    @therebel15 Год назад

    this video is was very nice, I like you

  • @omarioneen
    @omarioneen Год назад

    Imhereee

  • @Thatonecargirl2
    @Thatonecargirl2 Год назад

    What TV stand does she have ? Does anyone know?

  • @chacelfrances
    @chacelfrances Год назад

    ube is taro !!🤍

  • @Soyeoun
    @Soyeoun Год назад

    Everytime I watch your vids it feels like I’m talking to my own sister just that ur so far away lmao

  • @LuisRivera-jl9vx
    @LuisRivera-jl9vx Год назад

    What do you do for work?

  • @joshadewoye8012
    @joshadewoye8012 Год назад +2

    Jesus loves you ❤ keep the videos coming

  • @angeljenkim
    @angeljenkim Год назад

    Hi,babby😘😘

    • @TammyMai
      @TammyMai  Год назад

      hi amberrrr

    • @angeljenkim
      @angeljenkim Год назад

      @@TammyMai I follow you on every social media account, you're so cute, maybe I'll see you one day💚

  • @jebinbegum5734
    @jebinbegum5734 Год назад

    ❤❤

  • @DaRaunCrawford
    @DaRaunCrawford Год назад

    Yeaauhh

  • @rainelizabeth
    @rainelizabeth Год назад

    i just pretend im living in a movie so i feel like i actually needa get stuff done

  • @christinestephens37
    @christinestephens37 Год назад

    Plants are pets so give them a name. They do have life and give life.😂

  • @lexieliu5339
    @lexieliu5339 Год назад

    Earlyyyyy

  • @aishanadeem
    @aishanadeem Год назад +1

    first i think 🥹

  • @sarangh3913
    @sarangh3913 Год назад +2

    you have become my bestfriend now 😄merhaba

  • @Suzyysui
    @Suzyysui Год назад

    I really hope one day, for all of you who claim anxiety and depression, you can realize how you are choosing to walk in that. You are not your thoughts, please stop making it seem as if it’s normal for every 20 something to experience that nonsense. It is not of Yeshua, those things are of the enemy. Once you realize that, you’ll see. 💖

  • @charlystrm
    @charlystrm Год назад

    in times u feel anxiety pray to the man who died on the cross for us ask him to take it away if it dont work block me

  • @ajadegirl
    @ajadegirl Год назад

    are you an INFP?

  • @tjskeyblade
    @tjskeyblade 21 день назад

    I do love to munch on pancakes in the mornings good for my tummy and grateful for my soul I was homeschool does that coun I do have a plan. It is growing pretty well these days. I don’t know if you love this game called Batman Batman character called poison ivy or she goes by the Pamela. I’m about to explain Pamela is Pamela is a super power person who can control place a liter but Monday she’s living with her her dad and her mom her mom is taking care of Pamela but her dad seems to be insane and her mom and Sue sees that if she starts crying and I kind of hurts in anyway and peace her mom really bad and she end up going into the backyard and then Pamela decides to leave her house and goes into a goes to Bruce Williams building called Wayne in street exercise to work for him and that goes well until Bruce decide to fire her and that leads into her getting their job but then this upcoming job being start into a friend thing where she starts having more power reflected to her in the way where she open it from her school, but she becomes poison ivy and fighters I knew who I was and I already knew as well, but I didn’t know that Bruce, which is his girlfriend by the way really close by the way my best friends I could say so hilarious how things work out for people in that way I do like to drink latte but not that often so went to once in a while

  • @bazmrclo
    @bazmrclo Год назад

    I just started watching with my dinner and the "YUH" scared me I thought it came from outside 🥲 but this one hit different, been struggling getting back into a more peaceful headspace and I didnt realize that the bottom-up approach you mentioned was the reason why I was successful in the past. Thank you always for your wisdom Tam!

  • @bubbacon312
    @bubbacon312 Год назад +4

    lol funny I just left you a message on instagram but you have a shit ton of followers so u prob wont see it lmao.
    i'm pretty much saying i love your videos and i'm calling it first your getting 1M subs!! sooner than later