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When I discovered I was an INFJ I found out why I felt like I understood everyone but no one understood me, also why I can be sensitive to wrong doing, will be bitter and cut someone off but it happens down the road while I find out the reasons they wronged me first, or they redeem themselves before I get to the point of no return.
I have been through emotional, physically and mental abuse. I don't sleep well, yet I can put on my 'morning mask' and smile through. It is getting hard. I have left my 5th narcissistic relationship. #newyearsresolution . I door slam... but I care about the person who, what I know, is doing behind closed doors. At first it was me, on the floor bleeding due to abuse, but now the care shifted. I still care, and yes, I have the "jealous" side that wants to ask why was I not good enough. I take one step a day, and do it again the next day. Thing is that we need to understand what we are ALWAYS falling for ...... NARCISSIST. Much ❤ J💫
Are u sure you are an INFJ. Your observation and intuitive senses should have warned you. If that did and you ignored them that is why you found yourself in those situations. I use to ignore them too and things never went well. I learned and experienced that when I follow that sense, that warning or direction things always end well for me. As for the nightmares, try too remember them and analyze them it's your intuitive self trying to teach you something that you need to know.
Yeah, so we have a choice, be the victim or make the narcissist fall for us, we already own the ultimate "no contact" rule called the INFJ's Door Slam. I can play a narc at their own game, they all read from the same book, easy to predict their next steps...but, it's a complete waste of valuable time. Personally, I've studied a lot on Cluster B personality disorders to sharpen my discernment radar. If, when I spot a wolf in sheep's clothing, I immediately move on, as soon as I confirm my gut check with logic evidence...BAM! game over.. We are attracted to similar IQ and maturity levels, if you keep attracting immature people (narcissistic people) into your life, it's time to look at your own maturity level and improving it.
I feel like feeling the feelings of others is a curse. You don't notice the good feelings but reflect them also. But feeling the anger and sadness is sometimes difficult
I can sense world-wide catastrophes. I have a sick nagging feeling that something is wrong. I will find out as I I am having g that feeling a volcano erupted across the world, or a massive fire started, or an earthquake across the world destroyed cities. I’ve had dreams that came true. It gives me a sick feeling and there is never anything I can do about it. I don’t know who to warn it’s just that feeling something bad is happening.
As an INFJ-T, I’ve had this happen to me many, many, times. I once felt like I was taken over by the universe and I made a joke about a coworker who was a really hard worker and he was never late for work. But this one day, he was late and that’s when I made the joke, “I bet he was running over here and he passed out in the field.” (He had some heart issues and he lived across the highway where there was a field) and while most of my coworkers laughed because we could never imagine him being late. thankfully my manager actually thought that was a plausible reason and raised concern and he called his mom, and low and behold, he did indeed pass out from heat exhaustion trying to make it to work on time and I managed to save his life. But the crazy thing is… I don’t even remember saying it. Like I remember saying it, but it’s like I was hovering over my own body when I said it. I mean it wasn’t even a good joke. But that’s just one instance where I’ve been able to “predict” or “feel” when there are things going wrong with the world or someone needs help. Especially now with all this crazy chaos going on with COVID and just everything, it’s often too much input coming from all sources. It’s wild. It’s a Gift and a curse. In most instances, the only thing you can really do is just write down whatever it is you’re feeling, research it, and (if and when it does happen) find ways you can help with the aftermath of whatever it is you felt. That’s what I’ve done and while I wish I could tell someone and have them try to avoid it or take action to prepare, I think it would probably do more harm than good. If we were able to predict stuff and told someone, they’d probably laugh it off but when it actually happens, they will think you had something to do with it since “who could ever predict such a tragic or crazy event, unless they had a part in it?” I know from that day on, my coworkers looked at me as if I was an alien or some weird spooky voodoo shaman. So while it sucks to feel “helpless” in most cases and we feel like we could’ve probably prevented something from turning into pure chaos, I believe we are given these visions or feelings so WE as INFJ’s can better equip ourselves for the post effect or when the event involves us or our loved ones. I mean, it’s not like anyone would listen to us, even if we did tell them. But I do believe there will come a day when a major event happens that effects us at that time and in that instance, we can be prepared to either save our loved ones or even ourselves from a situation that will escalate out of control. It’s like that saying goes “I’ve been training for this moment.”
Why do you think you need to do something about it? I have dreams too, I analyze them to understand the meaning of why what my intuition is trying to tell me. There not always good, but they are always informative. Also daily volcanoes and massive fires occur. They are regular occurrences on our planet. Your intuition just might be telling you climate change is very real.
@@blktester I mean sure climate change is a thing but the incident with my coworker happened 15 years ago. So I don’t think it was about climate change (maybe 10%). And, Unfortunately, Ralph passed away 3 years later due to his heart condition but I was told that had no one found him within an hour from when I made the joke, he would’ve died in that field. So when it comes to universal and spiritual messages, it seems to come easier to us because of our ability to adapt to multiple energies. And yes, while we usually don’t understand the meaning behind the message or why were receiving it since it’s happened so many times, I’ve stopped asking myself “why did this happen or why me? Why am I receiving this message?” and started asking myself “how can I help guide it or improve the situation?”
Forecasting abilities are like super common sense, but without any obvious input from any obvious source, so no wonder people don't believe me if and when I try to advise , or worse, warn them of a potentially 'real' future outcome. Then, when my prediction does really happen later on, then I'm the one affected as I get depressed because I tried to help in the first place, but just get ignored or laughed at anyway...
I get very frustrated when I cannot explain to people that I suspect what is going to happen in the future , maybe in a day’s time, a week or months, even years. To me it is just so obvious. I am also worried people think I am trying to be clever or have special powers. It’s none of these things, just pure logic and reasoning from relevant past experiences.
Your statement is based off a gender study of the personality types. ENTJ is now considered to be the rarest type for women since those types are usually more male dominated traits (women = 0.01%) INFJ is the rarest type for men because they say it’s more female dominated traits (men = 0.004- 0.006%). But the INFJ as a whole is still the rarest with only being 1.5 - 1.8% of the world population. the ratio for men to women is about 0.004-6 : 0.011 - 0.012 ENTJ is about 1.8 - 2.2% of the world population with the ratio for men to women is about 0.01 - 0.012 : 0.008 - 0.01. They are close for sure though
@@themultiverseman i saw it from the frank james channel in which he explained the charts. infj isnt the rarest anymore entj is irrespective of gender. also im an infj if u were wondering. now i have doubts about mistypes and stuff changing the ratios but the new charts of myer briggs company has entj as rarest.
@@nimrarashid552 I saw It too. His statistics are from a 2018 report. These are the numbers from the 2021 report. “Here are the top 5 of the rarest personalities according to the 16 Personalities Institute: INFJ: 1.5% ENTJ: 1.8% INTJ: 2.1% ENTP: 3.2% INTP: 3.3% And these are from another version of global statistics with 2021 statistics: And another According to statistics from the Myers & Briggs Foundation, INFJ, aka introversion, intuition, sensing, and judging, is the rarest Myers-Briggs category among the 16 personality styles, accounting for only 1.5 percent of individuals who take the exam. The next uncommon types, according to the foundation, are ENTJ (1.8 percent), INTJ (2.1 percent), and ENFJ (2.5 percent). In comparison, ISFJ (13.8 percent), ESFJ (12.3 percent), and ISTJ (2.5 percent) are the most typical personality types (11.6 percent).
@@nimrarashid552 but, I’m sure as time passes, more women will start being added into the INFJ and once the male:female global ratio switches from 1.2:1 to more women, I believe INFJ’s will become second overall. But it’s still pretty amazing to me that even with the world ratio being a little bit more male dominant, the INFJ men are still only 0.004-0.006, that’s pretty wild.
@@themultiverseman yeah thats true. do u think that there are other types as males who are actually infj but due to toxic masculanity are mistyped as others. cuz u know fe has a function of blending within the crowd
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I've always said I'm a walking contradiction, way before i took a personality test.
When I discovered I was an INFJ I found out why I felt like I understood everyone but no one understood me, also why I can be sensitive to wrong doing, will be bitter and cut someone off but it happens down the road while I find out the reasons they wronged me first, or they redeem themselves before I get to the point of no return.
I once had a friend say to me " for the first time I've met a true introvert"
I LITERALLY remember EVERY detail, all INFJ’s can relate.
Thank you!
I'm actually not spontaneous, my intuition will sometimes say I should do something I wasn't planning at the time.
I have been through emotional, physically and mental abuse. I don't sleep well, yet I can put on my 'morning mask' and smile through. It is getting hard. I have left my 5th narcissistic relationship.
#newyearsresolution .
I door slam... but I care about the person who, what I know, is doing behind closed doors. At first it was me, on the floor bleeding due to abuse, but now the care shifted. I still care, and yes, I have the "jealous" side that wants to ask why was I not good enough. I take one step a day, and do it again the next day.
Thing is that we need to understand what we are ALWAYS falling for ...... NARCISSIST.
Much ❤
J💫
Thank you for sharing this! I wish you all the best on your journey!
Start watching HG TUDOR on RUclips. He is the person who has the very best information on all things Narcissist...& How to escape & heal. Good luck.
Are u sure you are an INFJ. Your observation and intuitive senses should have warned you. If that did and you ignored them that is why you found yourself in those situations. I use to ignore them too and things never went well. I learned and experienced that when I follow that sense, that warning or direction things always end well for me. As for the nightmares, try too remember them and analyze them it's your intuitive self trying to teach you something that you need to know.
Yeah, so we have a choice, be the victim or make the narcissist fall for us, we already own the ultimate "no contact" rule called the INFJ's Door Slam. I can play a narc at their own game, they all read from the same book, easy to predict their next steps...but, it's a complete waste of valuable time.
Personally, I've studied a lot on Cluster B personality disorders to sharpen my discernment radar. If, when I spot a wolf in sheep's clothing, I immediately move on, as soon as I confirm my gut check with logic evidence...BAM!
game over..
We are attracted to similar IQ and maturity levels, if you keep attracting immature people (narcissistic people) into your life, it's time to look at your own maturity level and improving it.
Thank you for making this video! It helps me understand myself better as well as what I should look for in other people!
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All these are true.I am an INFJ assertive and yes i can totally relate to these
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I feel like feeling the feelings of others is a curse. You don't notice the good feelings but reflect them also. But feeling the anger and sadness is sometimes difficult
I can sense world-wide catastrophes. I have a sick nagging feeling that something is wrong. I will find out as I I am having g that feeling a volcano erupted across the world, or a massive fire started, or an earthquake across the world destroyed cities. I’ve had dreams that came true. It gives me a sick feeling and there is never anything I can do about it. I don’t know who to warn it’s just that feeling something bad is happening.
As an INFJ-T, I’ve had this happen to me many, many, times. I once felt like I was taken over by the universe and I made a joke about a coworker who was a really hard worker and he was never late for work. But this one day, he was late and that’s when I made the joke, “I bet he was running over here and he passed out in the field.” (He had some heart issues and he lived across the highway where there was a field) and while most of my coworkers laughed because we could never imagine him being late. thankfully my manager actually thought that was a plausible reason and raised concern and he called his mom, and low and behold, he did indeed pass out from heat exhaustion trying to make it to work on time and I managed to save his life. But the crazy thing is… I don’t even remember saying it. Like I remember saying it, but it’s like I was hovering over my own body when I said it. I mean it wasn’t even a good joke. But that’s just one instance where I’ve been able to “predict” or “feel” when there are things going wrong with the world or someone needs help. Especially now with all this crazy chaos going on with COVID and just everything, it’s often too much input coming from all sources. It’s wild. It’s a Gift and a curse.
In most instances, the only thing you can really do is just write down whatever it is you’re feeling, research it, and (if and when it does happen) find ways you can help with the aftermath of whatever it is you felt. That’s what I’ve done and while I wish I could tell someone and have them try to avoid it or take action to prepare, I think it would probably do more harm than good. If we were able to predict stuff and told someone, they’d probably laugh it off but when it actually happens, they will think you had something to do with it since “who could ever predict such a tragic or crazy event, unless they had a part in it?”
I know from that day on, my coworkers looked at me as if I was an alien or some weird spooky voodoo shaman. So while it sucks to feel “helpless” in most cases and we feel like we could’ve probably prevented something from turning into pure chaos, I believe we are given these visions or feelings so WE as INFJ’s can better equip ourselves for the post effect or when the event involves us or our loved ones. I mean, it’s not like anyone would listen to us, even if we did tell them. But I do believe there will come a day when a major event happens that effects us at that time and in that instance, we can be prepared to either save our loved ones or even ourselves from a situation that will escalate out of control. It’s like that saying goes “I’ve been training for this moment.”
Why do you think you need to do something about it? I have dreams too, I analyze them to understand the meaning of why what my intuition is trying to tell me. There not always good, but they are always informative. Also daily volcanoes and massive fires occur. They are regular occurrences on our planet. Your intuition just might be telling you climate change is very real.
@@blktester I mean sure climate change is a thing but the incident with my coworker happened 15 years ago. So I don’t think it was about climate change (maybe 10%).
And, Unfortunately, Ralph passed away 3 years later due to his heart condition but I was told that had no one found him within an hour from when I made the joke, he would’ve died in that field.
So when it comes to universal and spiritual messages, it seems to come easier to us because of our ability to adapt to multiple energies. And yes, while we usually don’t understand the meaning behind the message or why were receiving it since it’s happened so many times, I’ve stopped asking myself “why did this happen or why me? Why am I receiving this message?” and started asking myself “how can I help guide it or improve the situation?”
Forecasting abilities are like super common sense, but without any obvious input from any obvious source, so no wonder people don't believe me if and when I try to advise , or worse, warn them of a potentially 'real' future outcome. Then, when my prediction does really happen later on, then I'm the one affected as I get depressed because I tried to help in the first place, but just get ignored or laughed at anyway...
I'm new to this I'm an advocate learning what on earth this means! xx
Yes I relate to all that has been said
I relate on all of it 💜
I get very frustrated when I cannot explain to people that I suspect what is going to happen in the future , maybe in a day’s time, a week or months, even years. To me it is just so obvious.
I am also worried people think I am trying to be clever or have special powers. It’s none of these things, just pure logic and reasoning from relevant past experiences.
I did not know these.. thanks anyway!
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Crazy accurate.
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I can relate to every one !😊
So very accurate.
Thank you!
I never believed you till my man came back after one year of been apart, Thank you so much #Drakhigbespellhome you are the best
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Hear that mistypes?
Video says we INFJs are "emotionally rational." Not emotionally oversensitive.
entj are the rarest now
Your statement is based off a gender study of the personality types.
ENTJ is now considered to be the rarest type for women since those types are usually more male dominated traits (women = 0.01%)
INFJ is the rarest type for men because they say it’s more female dominated traits (men = 0.004- 0.006%).
But the INFJ as a whole is still the rarest with only being 1.5 - 1.8% of the world population.
the ratio for men to women is about 0.004-6 : 0.011 - 0.012
ENTJ is about 1.8 - 2.2% of the world population with the ratio for men to women is about 0.01 - 0.012 : 0.008 - 0.01.
They are close for sure though
@@themultiverseman i saw it from the frank james channel in which he explained the charts. infj isnt the rarest anymore entj is irrespective of gender.
also im an infj if u were wondering. now i have doubts about mistypes and stuff changing the ratios but the new charts of myer briggs company has entj as rarest.
@@nimrarashid552 I saw It too. His statistics are from a 2018 report.
These are the numbers from the 2021 report.
“Here are the top 5 of the rarest personalities according to the 16 Personalities Institute:
INFJ: 1.5%
ENTJ: 1.8%
INTJ: 2.1%
ENTP: 3.2%
INTP: 3.3%
And these are from another version of global statistics with 2021 statistics:
And another
According to statistics from the Myers & Briggs Foundation, INFJ, aka introversion, intuition, sensing, and judging, is the rarest Myers-Briggs category among the 16 personality styles, accounting for only 1.5 percent of individuals who take the exam. The next uncommon types, according to the foundation, are ENTJ (1.8 percent), INTJ (2.1 percent), and ENFJ (2.5 percent). In comparison, ISFJ (13.8 percent), ESFJ (12.3 percent), and ISTJ (2.5 percent) are the most typical personality types (11.6 percent).
@@nimrarashid552 but, I’m sure as time passes, more women will start being added into the INFJ and once the male:female global ratio switches from 1.2:1 to more women, I believe INFJ’s will become second overall. But it’s still pretty amazing to me that even with the world ratio being a little bit more male dominant, the INFJ men are still only 0.004-0.006, that’s pretty wild.
@@themultiverseman yeah thats true. do u think that there are other types as males who are actually infj but due to toxic masculanity are mistyped as others. cuz u know fe has a function of blending within the crowd
If you’re unsure of how to pronounce intimacy, please look it up. Listening to you mispronounce it multiple times was distracting and annoying.
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