What kind of mental health facility doesn't know it has a patient involved in a relationship that is shifting from voluntary BDSM to involuntary abuse?
How the evidence was fished out of the reservoir and Elaines' body being discovered, both within days of the other was absolutely unbelievable and I can't help but think some supernatural power was involved. The persistence of the man to retrieve all he did from the awkwardness of the bridge, his "uneasy" feeling about it, the desire to take and report to the Guardi. Then the Guard had those feelings, to search the area of water, by hand, he knew this was sinister.....What else would motivate these busy men to search for somebody's bondage clobber in a remote body of water, unless Elaine was spurring them on from the spirit world? Even if her body was found, without the reservoir loot there would be NO case evidence on Dwyer. No phones or records to directly link them together and prove he murdered Elaine the very day she went missing and Dwyer's premeditation and lust to make that session of debouchary Elaines'last. RIP Elaine O'Hara, the bastard's in jail.
@@craftycriminalistwithms.z3053 without any doubt in my mind, Dwyer's lust for murder would have escalated, Elaine was his "trial run', unfortunately. His MO was to build an S & M relationship with women who had history of self harm and suicide attempts, so when they did go missing the suspicion would be they harmed themselves. The power he felt from getting away with Elaine's murder, would be short lived. He may well have had another target in sight, other than the American girl. I do believe Elaine was his first kill, thank God all the evidence lead to him and a murder conviction.
And appearently on earlier days .the dog actually brought the bones to the owner but owner ignore it untill it went missing and she found her dog near Elaine jaw bone..that's like really spooky to me
@@BrissaElodie the last bone the dog brought to the walker had clothing around it also. That's when she realised they weren't deer bones and followed the dog back through the undergrowth and found the rest of the disturbed remains. I'm so glad all this came together in a week or so of the reservoir evidence or Elaine's family would have always believed she'd committed suicide. 😪
@@fernandapartridge5174 I thought ''oh no'' when I heard of this. Surely they could not free such a person who abused women so horribly. What he did to the American girl was horrible, too...sending her a birthday card to her home address in the USA...asking she not give evidence.
@@hexxie0 A documentary said the Jury had to watch awful videos filmed by 'Graham'..it was said that they will need counselling, and many wept openly. How could he be freed only to most likely do the same to others?
Oakleaf700 I really hope not..... highly unlikely he’s going to win that appeal. One of the scariest humans I’ve ever heard of! Apparently his appeal is in December this year. I think it goes to show how deluded and out of touch with reality he is if he thinks he’s got a chance....... he’s done. I hope. Nobody who does these things should be out walking amongst us. Let’s see what happens! 👍
Appearently he was keep telling to die knowing her suicide tendency..had a ex bf who did the same telling me that I am worthless thank god ..I broke up , deleted his number and moved out.. totally can relate to her..
My Fiancé of almost 4 Years as siever BPD and depression since he was 6 (18 years now) from being R***d by his own sister for 3 years from 6 to 9 years old every week so I knew she had BPD before they even said anything about it for anyone that doesn't know or have BPD mixed with depression I see it day to day it's hell for the person who has it I see him suffer each day but he is so damn strong the amount of meds they have put him on in the past is in stupid amounts at very high dosages it's a lot worse then people think it is but it's also sad because the heard my Fiancés therapists before say they don't believe in BPD so I can understand her on a very personal level but my fiancé can understand it on the same level as her I feel so bad for her she needed help and life just kept making everything harder and harder and then that monster prayed on her and she was making progress to. 😥😓😢
It must be ao frustrating to have a family memebr with mental health issues. Every day, wondering if they're going to kill themselves.... having a party for them, and then they get upset and OD.... gosh. She didn't deserve to die, but she def needed to live in an institution or group home.
His conviction was upheld by the Supreme Court 31 July 2024.
What kind of mental health facility doesn't know it has a patient involved in a relationship that is shifting from voluntary BDSM to involuntary abuse?
What a sad and horrific story poor Elaine as if her life hadnt been filled with pain and heartache 😢 her poor family 😢
Im from dubkin and i remember this case but i never knew how they caught him..it really was down to mother nature how he was caught.great content....
I’m from Dublin but I don’t remember this considering I was 9 or 10 when it happened
Not to mention the Nokia phone that powered up after 12 months in the wilderness ❤
Poor Elaine. She was making progress in therapy but that monster preyed on her.
Thanks 👍🏿
How the evidence was fished out of the reservoir and Elaines' body being discovered, both within days of the other was absolutely unbelievable and I can't help but think some supernatural power was involved. The persistence of the man to retrieve all he did from the awkwardness of the bridge, his "uneasy" feeling about it, the desire to take and report to the Guardi. Then the Guard had those feelings, to search the area of water, by hand, he knew this was sinister.....What else would motivate these busy men to search for somebody's bondage clobber in a remote body of water, unless Elaine was spurring them on from the spirit world? Even if her body was found, without the reservoir loot there would be NO case evidence on Dwyer. No phones or records to directly link them together and prove he murdered Elaine the very day she went missing and Dwyer's premeditation and lust to make that session of debouchary Elaines'last. RIP Elaine O'Hara, the bastard's in jail.
@@craftycriminalistwithms.z3053 without any doubt in my mind, Dwyer's lust for murder would have escalated, Elaine was his "trial run', unfortunately. His MO was to build an S & M relationship with women who had history of self harm and suicide attempts, so when they did go missing the suspicion would be they harmed themselves. The power he felt from getting away with Elaine's murder, would be short lived. He may well have had another target in sight, other than the American girl. I do believe Elaine was his first kill, thank God all the evidence lead to him and a murder conviction.
Red Rum I was actually wondering was Elaine his first victim or did he kill any others previously.
And appearently on earlier days .the dog actually brought the bones to the owner but owner ignore it untill it went missing and she found her dog near Elaine jaw bone..that's like really spooky to me
@@neasacoyne2706 I was wondering the same thing..the professional way he handled it looks like he done this before..it's only this one he got caught
@@BrissaElodie the last bone the dog brought to the walker had clothing around it also. That's when she realised they weren't deer bones and followed the dog back through the undergrowth and found the rest of the disturbed remains. I'm so glad all this came together in a week or so of the reservoir evidence or Elaine's family would have always believed she'd committed suicide. 😪
Poor Elaine, I hope Graham doesn't win his appeal
Indeed. It's a very scary thought.
I really hope so too.... he’s extremely dangerous, although it’s unlikely - he’s been exposed as a total monster. Too much appalling evidence.
@@fernandapartridge5174 I thought ''oh no'' when I heard of this.
Surely they could not free such a person who abused women so horribly. What he did to the American girl was horrible, too...sending her a birthday card to her home address in the USA...asking she not give evidence.
@@hexxie0 A documentary said the Jury had to watch awful videos filmed by 'Graham'..it was said that they will need counselling, and many wept openly. How could he be freed only to most likely do the same to others?
Oakleaf700 I really hope not..... highly unlikely he’s going to win that appeal. One of the scariest humans I’ve ever heard of! Apparently his appeal is in December this year. I think it goes to show how deluded and out of touch with reality he is if he thinks he’s got a chance....... he’s done. I hope. Nobody who does these things should be out walking amongst us. Let’s see what happens! 👍
For the first time in all these cases I can kinda relate to her bc of her struggles w mental health n it's scary
Appearently he was keep telling to die knowing her suicide tendency..had a ex bf who did the same telling me that I am worthless thank god ..I broke up , deleted his number and moved out.. totally can relate to her..
@@BrissaElodie Blessings to you
My Fiancé of almost 4 Years as siever BPD and depression since he was 6 (18 years now) from being R***d by his own sister for 3 years from 6 to 9 years old every week so I knew she had BPD before they even said anything about it for anyone that doesn't know or have BPD mixed with depression I see it day to day it's hell for the person who has it I see him suffer each day but he is so damn strong the amount of meds they have put him on in the past is in stupid amounts at very high dosages it's a lot worse then people think it is but it's also sad because the heard my Fiancés therapists before say they don't believe in BPD so I can understand her on a very personal level but my fiancé can understand it on the same level as her I feel so bad for her she needed help and life just kept making everything harder and harder and then that monster prayed on her and she was making progress to. 😥😓😢
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O' Donahue deserved a raise.
Nokia, huh?
I find it hard to imagine that Elaine would've been fine with everyone in the world potentially hearing about her fetishes on the internet. :(
no such thing as closure. just sayin
It must be ao frustrating to have a family memebr with mental health issues. Every day, wondering if they're going to kill themselves.... having a party for them, and then they get upset and OD.... gosh. She didn't deserve to die, but she def needed to live in an institution or group home.
First sentence the way he said 1990 like an Irish accent was weird
50 Shades of Graham Dwyer
Ummm...apparently Elaine O'hara not the brightest bulb in the stadium.
Sick story,Elaine shared in her own murder ,she wasnt an invalid.
She had severe psychiatric difficulties. That is akin a type of invalidity. She was certainly not in the whole of her health.