The WORST Red Flag She Can Have
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When her father gets no respect, you will not get respect.
Had this same issue recently. Chick told me she HATED her father, then said I was just like him in many ways, “but you so sexy” which was odd 😬. I asked why the hate and she said “because he always thinks he’s right and so serious” 🤔
interesting
Maybe he is a bad guy though. That’s not the child’s fault. You can’t choose your family. We would all wish for a great mother and father, but not everyone gets them.
@@meteorworlds 🚨!watch out! THE NOT ALL POLICE!🚨
True true my wife hates her dad and my wife thinks she can pipe back at me all the time with attitude and disrespect
Top 5 Red Flags:
1. Daddy issues
2. Single Mom
3. High body count
4. Feminist
5. Boss babe
Boss babe is the same as ratchet girl. I’d be willing to bet that 9/10 women who have one of these major red flags has daddy issues as well. Instead of high body count, I’d add “addictions”. Things like constant thirst traps, high body count, drinking every weekend etc. put that all in one.
My X wife checks off all the boxes. For realz. 😂
High body count is just asking for hell.
My ex has all of them too. I have pity for her boyfriend.
1, 3, 4 and 5 is the factory setting in America. Some models come from police auctions with some “light mileage” and #2 mods, but they’re no longer discounted in this economy.
Single Mom to me is the #1 worst Red Flag.
Single moms are for recreational use only .. Zero commitment
alot of kids grow up and see there mother in bed with a bunch of men and the kids think thats ok behavior
At least It is one that usually can't be hidden.🤣
Not always, i had a single mom that treated me always like a king, and at same time a woman without any kids who treted me like she was the prize. Not dating a single mom just for that is stupid
Yep. Walking false dv allegations. Even though she started it. Even thought you didn’t hit her. Even though she hit you
I experienced this first hand. Dated a hot 25 year old, who's father was an alcoholic & he died when she was young. The chick was raised by her single mom. What i experienced?
Lots of disrespect, mocking behaviour, masculine energy, agressive outbursts, constant chit testing & playing games.
Other red flags.. High body count. Irresponsible drinking.. Associating with low quality female friends. LOTS of male friends.. Never apologises. It was CHAOS
Even the good fathers with no vices that paid the bills and provided structure and protection get hated in this society once they’re feminized.
How was the sex😂
Just be glad you came out relatively unscathed!
Never apologize...right into gaslighting.
Same. Divorced my ex cause she was the same. Her dad passed away when she was young and mom let her do whatever she wanted. She could not be led. I have never been so disrespected in my life.
high body count , single mom , playing games or drama .....
Last woman I hooked up with told me she had daddy issues. Told me that directly. I played it cool, we did the dirty that night. I woke up that morning and followed my normal routine. Made breakfast for us, she wasn’t thankful or cared. I never talked to her again. We see each other on occasion passing by, and I can tell the cold/ghost I gave her after that drives her wild. Sometimes the best tool in a man’s tool box is to walk away.
I've done it more times than I can count.....but I've told younger guys, let the broad dump or ghost you.....a woman scorned is a very dangerous thing
Missed that opportunity to walk away.....you walked right into it. Could be her new baby daddy😂
@@susanhaines7358 it’s been a year, I saw her a few days ago. We just pretend like we don’t know each other. I’m in the all clear with that one. Also help’s not shooting swimmers into guts. 😎
It's always the best tool. Second best tool is saying "No".
First rule u broke is sleeping over or having a women sleepover thats not your gf.. second one was cooking for a women that is not your gf..
Even Tom Brady was not enough!
then dont marry a model
@@ThatGuyOverThereWeird regrets
@@ThatGuyOverThereWeird or just don’t get married
@@ThatGuyOverThereWeird All women think they are a model.
Tom Brady sometimes seems to have the disposition of a golden retriever.
I mean, he is a world-class showdog, but he obviously lost frame.
Also Giselle had an astronomical bodycount.
Yes. Don’t bring chaos into your life.
Had 2 LTR’s with women who had BPD. Both had similar backgrounds (abuse, neglect), but the main component was abandonment. Never, ever get into an LTR with these women, it’s great at first- they put you on a pedestal and seem very normal. But, they’re survivors and they have developed a great ability to hide their mental illness. One, two years into it, you’ll start to see the signs (anger, controlling behavior, accusations of cheating, etc). In the end, they’ll do everything they accused you of and return to their “normal”, chaos. That’s their background, CHAOS - parents that left them, moved them all over the place or abandoned them. Took me two LTR’s to finally learn, sad for me, but I’m free now. I survived.
You just perfectly described my last relationship. Her parents were split and she was abused by her stepfather. She seemed pretty normal for the first 1.5 years (besides the 273947329 times she told me I could never leave her or saying that I was going to leave her) she ended up monkey branching to a colleague because she was unhappy in our relationship but never told me
I honestly feel bad for them but you can't save them. Somehow these girls are always really hot too.
My sister is a BPD monster. I haven’t had anything to do with her in 25 years. But when Amber Heard was on the witness stand it gave me chills to watch. EXACTLY the same attitude and facial expressions my sister displayed. Verbally and physically abusive nut job.
Bpd and covert narcissism present themselves quite similarly. Though bpd is more serious, and doesn’t present as often as covert narcissism does in modern America. Tough either way.
Awwww hell, BPD is the worst! It cannot be cured. I have a family member who has it. Trust me, the only solution is to go no contact. They love bringing in the drama and the cops too. Run!!!!
Red Flags:
1. Single Mom
2. Credit Card and Student Loan Debt
3. Raised without a Father
Interesting video content, My relationship of 5 years ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, I really love her so much I can’t stop thinking about her, I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of her, but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss her and just can’t stop thinking about her
its difficult to let go of someone you love, i was in a similar situation, my relationship of 12 years ended, but i couldnt just let him go i did all i could to get him back, i had to seek the help of a spiritual counselor who helped me bring him back
Amazing, how did you get a spiritual counselor, and how do i reach her?
Her name is Shelly renee white , and she is a great spiritual counselor who can bring back your ex.
Thank you for this valuable information, i just looked her up now online. impressive
Lol you scam jokers.. People ignore these comments. They are scammers pretending to get there exes back.. Ignore these fools
Being a single mom is not only a red flag, but it is a woman’s frame and would become the frame of your relationship that you cannot overpower. To accept a single mom is to forfeit your frame and to play into her. Iron Rule of Tomassi #1 Always control the frame
😂 any man entering into a Relationship turns into a simp 😂
You apparently haven’t had enough experience or took a good look that she has “just as much power” as you do 😂
It’s called you are entertaining her for P. That makes you a simp regardless because the more and longer she gives it the more you’re going to have to do for her or she closes shop and finds another simp that will
You pay an entry ticket no matter what. Anyone thinking otherwise is delusional
Rollo has to be the lamest dude I ever seen. Half his pictures and mannerisms are zesty af. Lol
Guarantees she will hit the destruct button randomly with no remorse and bounce np matter what. Leave
😊 really thats number 1? i didnt know that, i must be a black sheep and out there because my number 1 rule is: The only winning move is to not play the game
Yuck
Having male friends!! 💯
Just ended a 5 month thing after a womans 3rd attempt to water down my request...which I clearly stated right as she wanted smthin monogamous.
Never ever accept this kind of BS.
I told my young guy co-workers that if you don't have a sister or 2, you have no female friends
Wife has a lot of male friends and this play brother she always hangs out with..I talked to her about it she started crying..smh
Male friends are fine, but where I draw the line is one-on-one time. If it's just her and him talking for hours....no. I feel no need for one-on-one time with any of my female friends, because I would consider that a date. That's my girlfriend's job...
Biggest red flag
A few years ago, a young male co-worker asked for my thoughts about his situation.
He was engaged, about to go Active Duty Military and be deployed. Had just returned from a formal military function with the fiancee, there had been a contentious discussion on the trip. Girl keeps texting/talking to her mom, now the man has 2 women arguing with him.
I told him that if he wanted to know what his future wife would be like, to take a good, hard look at the mother because that was what he was going to get. Next time I saw him, he had broken up with the fiancee.
Tattoos
Student Loans
Sub-700 FICO
Her ex was "toxic"
This eliminates all.
Lol
Those are all big ones!
If all her exes are a-holes, the common denominator is *her*.
Wtf why is this so accurate
🙂 nobody is worthy
one the "really" worst : being a untreated borderline, narcissist, psychopath/sociopath , all these are in the same class of personality disorders, I met with a silent-borderline type which is harder to detect and you must be in a relationship to detect the full extent of the disorder.
Whilst they have extended time to work their evil under your nose. Guys don’t let them systematically wear you down to submission. Trust signs of danger, leave.
I don't think therapy can fix toxic behaviour in a woman. That would require taking responsibility for their own actions. Rather therapy is to make women feel better about themselves.
@rolfjohansen5376. True! I know a woman like this now passed away and I didn’t see these signs as I was totally naive to them. I sensed something was far amiss and she was a very angry woman that engaged in verbal and physical abuse. She’d kick like a child and punch on occasion. I met her father once and he was less than cordial to me and I think he was a controlling narcissist and she definitely a Borderline with NPD traits that also engaged in DID as she clicked into toddler behavior on two occasions and an unregulated emotional roller coaster of instability and rage.
If you still believe you can trust them you haven’t learned your lesson
So very true. At 60 I dont even trust female family members.
Discipline.
Women who lack discipline, be that; time keeping, health issues through lack of care, etc
100% correct. If they don't care about their own health, , or have no self awarenesd...get away .
My Top 6 Red Flags
1. Single mom. I’ve been there 3 times and I’ll never return. I learned my lesson.
2. When she tells you over and over again that she hates drama. *SPOILER!* She’s into drama.
3. When she won’t STFU up about her ex. Even worse is when she knows she talks too much about them and continues to talk about them.
4. When she critiques your life (past and/or present) but she has nothing to back up why her life is better.
5. Tattoos/piercings. If you know, you know.
6. High body count. I had an ex tell me while we were making my bed: “You know, I slept with *A LOT* of guys before I met you.” She didn’t even break eye contact or nothing. She then told me that in 3 years she slept with 30 guys. Which, by woman math it’s more like 45-60. I absolutely lost all interest in her after she said that.
you know you know, keep the frame like he says.
shes basically a street worker, shes no better than somebody working at the Red Light District, i dont know why guys cant see this? Now saying all that she might be ok for a weekend get together every once in a while, go to the beach, see a movie, spend the night, stuff like that, but keep it casual and get rid of her if she has an attitute but some of them can be cool
One of the biggest red flags that isn't mentioned enough in the manosphere: The more time a woman spends on IG, the worse partner she will be. It is a direct correlation, and there are no exceptions to the rule.
sure =)
Oh yea, bottomless pit of attention.
Good eye brother. 👍
Oh yea, bottomless pit of attention.
Good eye brother. 👍
I would say 95 % this is true
I feel they give men who haven’t really dated a lot of women great advice. I will say this, once you’ve dated a lot of women seriously it becomes easier to find the unicorn and you need to just roll thru a lot to get that one but my wife was a single mother, she had her son at 20. She left his father because he was content with living in an apartment and not doing more. She said his lack of ambition and laziness made the relationship impossible. We’ve been together 8 years, have a 3 year old daughter, I run a successful company that she really pushed me to do. “She said “we have money in the bank, we have an apartment, and if we go broke trying we can figure it out. She loyal, supportive, makes my life easier, never starts trouble or dramas and always defends me. Loss her best friend because her besties child shot me with the hose after I told him not to, I yelled at him and he cried. She took my side and they’re no longer friends. My point being, most women want to fit in with other women, they are exactly the same and pretend like they have views and brain, it doesn’t matter. Find a women that would stick by you thru thick and thin. Overall, just find the women who wants you, there’s no mold. The red flags and rules are loose guidelines until you date enough that you can see exactly what women are for you and what women emotions change with the wind
All the best to you. I agree with every word 👍
Best, also. My fiancé just moved out. We still text daily. Meeting her for breakfast Saturday. Not sure what to think or what she wants…?
Women that have trauma, parents divorced and Dad left, she went wild, all damage a normal relationship as she is always looking for someone to give her butterflys and excitement, they lack pair bonding.
they were DONE way before you ever met them, you had NO CHANCE 😅
Rich makes a great point about women having to share some blame for picking bad men - at times they act like they had nothing to do in choosing the jerk.
Men aren't exactly accepting blame for picking loser women either.
Wandering eyes is the biggest red flag for me.
My last partner had eyes for everyone and always would put it back on me for my insecurities. Regardless that it messed with my confidence and made me feel like I wasn’t enough.
Well, this is how kooky can be. Someone asked my ex wife why she divorced me and she said well after I kicked him out of the house he built and stole most of his money and his car he started behaving really erratically and angrily so that's why I divorced him Although I never behave like that before the divorce. Yeah you read it right that's the irrational minority report precrime excuses they can come up with.
100%. Mine, after 23 years of marriage, said she really was going to go thru with the divorce, despite admitting that I'd 'done everything she asked me to do (change wise etc) because "I don't believe you will keep doing the laundry list of things I've asked for in perpetuity". By this point she had her 2nd hand FIRMLY attached to her future new husband by way of a Monkey-Branching. I find it despicable that so many wives cannot have the common decency to say they want out of a marriage vs lying/cheating/stealing from the marriage &/or family. Like in boxing "Protect yourself at all times" should be the rule.
yup, It's always going to be your fault
Been there done that what is being said is true ! My ex wife was exactly the red flags that are being presented
1. High body count
2. Multiple kids different dads
3. No accountability
4. Emotional Damage !!!
I've had girlfriends like that, and one of my exwives was that as well, at the time I didnt think it was going to become such a problem
It may not be HER fault but SHE doesn't have to be YOUR problem. The woman who I recently dealt with had daddy problems, BPD, narcissistic traits etc. Her disrespect towards me was off the charts. She tried to make me codependent on her with manipulation tactics. I asked her why I would tolerate her abuse when I'm just fine on my own and don't need her or anyone else for that matter. I see through everything and was indifferent to games. It took some time before she got the message and gave up.
I dated a girl without a father, raised my only a mom. Same, dealt with disrespect, constant games and chit testing. Combative attitude. Masculine personality. Was a toxic mess with her. She was hot though
You just described my last relationship, they love codependency and if you don't accept it they will hate you for it.
If a girl has grown up seeing her mom disrespect the dad and treating him like an incompetent fool, what are the odds she is going to treat you any better?
Yes this is very important. A woman can have a good relationship with her dad because he's more like a friend to her. I knew a few women like that growing up. They hung out with their dad the way most girls would hang out with mom. But these women did NOT value masculinity or could see a man as a leader since their dad was such a weak role model.
😅 even worse what I saw was my exwife disRespecting her father when her father would come visit her, at the time it didnt occur to me that sooner or later it would be my turn, the relationship lasted 12 years, its finally over tho Thank God
The #1 red flag I look out for is bad etiquette. Bad manners is behavioral and can be observed because most of it doesn't come from her mouth. Women with bad etiquette display any red flag you're looking for in 1 date night.
In my experience, women with good etiquette are much more thoughtful and intelligent. They will mind their words and their actions and be cognizant of their surroundings. The point is that they will think of you first.
Modern women are all narcissists. There is no you. It's just about them.
This is the best comment here.
Last sentence is GOLDEN!!!
Her parents were heavy cheaters. If the dad was a cheater, she's going to cheat on you as "revenge" against men, and to avenge her mother. If the mother was a cheater she's going to cheat on you because the mother taught her cheating was the best way to punish men.
FACTS. Good point.
Her mom cheated during the marriage, mom told my daughters i was this and that. Man can do it ALL right she will still cheat.
Eight years divorced, neither daughters have been back in my house
Stay strong brother, keep doing what is right.
They will come around eventually, and when they do, tell them the truth.
Stay at it my man. I was faithful, successful, non-abusive etc for the entire 23 years of my first marriage & she, instead of saying she didn't want to be married any more, commenced to lying/cheating/stealing from me & the family... I put up with it for years 'for the kids'. BIG BIG mistake. I'd never recommend anyone staying around 'for the kids'. You are 100% right though, there's no guarantee they'll honor the vows & odds say they will bail at some point. Monkey-branching is the norm when they do step out.
Keep yourself available for your daughters when they get a clue
😒 sorry brother, alot of children alienate their fathers, and society makes fathers to be the bad parent, its really strange, at the end of the day they have to figure it out for themselves cause we are not going to be around forever
Also: love bombing, excessive swearing, loves to travel alone or with girlfriends.
I’ve learned in my 30+ years of dating that issues with a parent (especially a father) is the overall top red flag. These women are incapable of being in a healthy relationship with a good man.
Alcoholic and abusive behaviour while intoxicated biggest RED flag she could have .
Any drinking is a RED flag .
Anyone who uses the F bomb within the first say minute of speaking is presenting you with a HUGE red flag! Run!
Fuck im out
No daddy is the worst that i have ever come across. There is no respect shown or learned.
Always a guarantee dumpster fire 🔥
I dated a girl who had no father, raised by a single mom. She turned out to be disrespectful, very combative, agressive and masculine. And she had high body count with lots of male friends
I can’t agree with you on this one. Did I cry a lot when my dad died, yes. Was I sad a lot for a while? Yep. Do I know how to be respectful to a man I’d date? You better believe it.
@PinkHydrangea you're not what we mean when we say no daddy.
Rip to your father, I can only imagine the pain. I'm a father and it scares me to think that I pass early with my sons needing me.
Well thank you, and now you’ve got me curious. I appreciate your kind words. It’s scary to think that I have outlived my dad. It’s amazing what the human spirit is capable of enduring.
😅 if she doesnt have the Fear of God in her for her Father, you can forget about it, you should have seen my Grandfather LOL
I was dating a chick that one night challenged me about an outfit she was trying to wear out with friends. later than night she said "my dad used to get on me about my clothes" that told me everything I needed to know. I ended that relationship less than a month later
she fumbled the bag 😏
@@MrSamadolfo Mark Sanchez butt fumble LOL
Ok so here’s my red flag:
When a woman has to constantly assert that she’s independent, run away.
That woman is an avoidant, and will leave as soon as the relationship gets real or as soon as there is any semblance of emotional intimacy. These people are incapable of any emotional vulnerability and infact when you start being real with them, their fears of abandonment, rejection and engulfment, are triggered and they will just deactivate.
My ex’s dad left when she was two, she was raised by a nanny, completely emotionally neglected as a child, went from one bad relationship to another, and often found herself moving to another city after each toxic relationship just to get away from her exes. I treated her like a Queen and she sabotaged it within months. Because real emotional intimacy is such a trigger for them. By the way she lasted 5 years in an abusive marriage, and another 7 with a guy who was emotionally unavailable, but me, the good guy? 2 months… what a nightmare…
You cannot assume all single mom's are trouble. I met a single mom 5 years older then me and we stayed together for 32 years until her recent death from cancer. She was the love of my life!
Like rich just talked about. Women with childhood trauma. If it’s unresolved and there was no solution to that trauma, that’s another red flag you need to be aware of.
Little respect for herself, others, is #1. Weight, tats, drinking, smoking, drugs, anger, piercings, etc.This means she will Never respect her man.
Tats are a huge turnoff for me. Sadly most women have them now. I don't understand the need to look trashy.
I think you left out, diversity. I know a beautiful woman, young, slender, petite, educated blue eyes, silky long hair, awesome narrow hipped cup cake buns , sculpted to perfection. She told me her family was all crazy and she didn't associate with them.
Red Flag #1.
She was at the pub with a tall, attention seeking guy, about six foot, missing front teeth, didn't impress me as a Rhodes Scholar, ya know? Tatted up, made me think she watches too much interracial porn. She could pick n choose any successful young man in this whole area.
But, look who's she seen in public with?
Mind you, this area is like 98.7% white.
And, she has a little blonde blue eyed son.
I feel bad for the kid.
Giant fucking red flag, there.
💯 on this. My dad inherited a gold mine with my mom. I inherited a salt mine. Young and stupid, I can stick it out. 20 years later, I couldn’t. Listen to Rich on this one, he will save you years of misery. How Dad treats his daughter sets you up for how she expects you to treat her. If he was a failure, you will be expected to be the same. Even if you aren’t, she will treat you as a failure.
Not always. My Dad was a complete failure. I've been with my husband since we were 18. We're now 32. I admire his resolve to be and do better every single day. There isn't a man on this planet I have more respect for.
🙂 yes for the most part that is true, altho ive been with many GFs that grew up with a Father and all seemed to be well in their household and it didnt matter the relationship failed anyways, so dont feel bad, its the sign of the times, its just not in the cards for most no matter how knowledgable you are
High body count and single mothers... it's just so telling.
From my first hand experience over the past 4-5 years of dating in my mid-late 30’s, I’d honestly say #1 is if she’s on SSRI’s, ADHD meds, or anything like that. The last couple women I dated were on a cocktail of pills to get through the day (because they need therapy and/or are perpetually refusing to take accountability for their actions etc). Of course I didn’t know about this when things began, otherwise I would have passed, or kept things casual only. But holy cow, when they miss a couple days of meds, or drink a little too much etc. the level of crazy is unreal. Definitely something I’m screening for now, prior to meeting
Facts
holy shit this really makes sense. but how do you screen for their meds without directly asking?
@@gnarlytothemax well, I have a solid true story to tell when women ask in return “how long have you been single?” (Something I always ask within a couple messages, which 99% of the time is asked back at me). I tell them about my ex with empathy so I don’t come off like a douchebag, but make it clear that I’m over her. Surprisingly, I’ve been getting a lot of “don’t worry, I don’t fail to take my meds” OR “don’t worry, I’m not on anything besides a multivitamin.” Granted, the former is like 75%, but my angle is seeming to come off disarming enough that I’m not getting blocked and reported 😂
this is a good one. If they have to take meds just to wake up and go to sleep, big problems
100% My ex and her sisters treat their elder widower dad like absolute garbage... exactly how their mom did before succumbing to cancer.
The worst red flag she can have: notch count.
her virginity is the most valuable thing she can give a guy and she gives it away almost immediately these days like she has no other trick or trait that makes her pleasant to be around
A Red Light District Worker, samething 😊🚨
@@MrSamadolfo At least with the red light district worker, you pay her, you F. But wit dating, you pay her, you don't necessarily get to F. Might as well be with the red light district girl
@@HamsterPower26 FACTS 😎
@@MrSamadolfo Her notch is an open buffet for chads
I was the different kind of guy for my soon to be ex-wife… She could not adapt to the normal life. She was so embroiled in the trauma and drama… My silly self thought that I could fix it. But I could give her a better life, but all ended up doing is damaging me
The worst red flag by far: a woman who has had an abortion. I would like to see a show on that topic.
would be interesting
And the men who leave said woman high and dry......rearing a child alone?
@@sundancer7381 Make better choices and spend more time vetting men in your life and you would eliminate or lessen this chance
@@aheathenoutdoors4947 I see a lot of women who have become disillusioned with men - or romance. Not to sure the "easy availability" (birth control, Plan B, condoms, etc) of sex solves that many problems......
@@sundancer7381 Give it up to adoption then - d'uh...
The worst I think is single mother because there is absolutely no benefit to be had here. You will never be the priority. You can't discipline the kid. But you'll be expected to provide for both her and the kid. You'll be in the middle of the drama between her and the baby daddy. It's the equivalent of just being a beast of burden. You work for her and her kid and they get full ATM privileges.
Now I know this guy knows his shit. Described my wife and her past to a T. But story’s not over. Im learning and getting stronger and she’s learning and working on herself, but boy it’s hard work.
1. Best Friends with Ex
2. Career Woman
3. High Body Count
4. Single Mother
5. Feminist Language
6. Male Friends
7. No Father in her Life
thanks Rich.
2 Simple, but key red flags:
1) Loud talker. Never, ever date a woman whose laugh or speech dominates a room.
2) Lacks fitness. If she thinks it’s okay to not go to the gym or work out in any way, just don’t. That said, you ought to be fit yourself. If you’re not, you may not attract a quality woman who respects herself.
Good points
@@BrayoTintsAndWraps Thank you.
Daddy/mommy issues is the worst. I ignored this red flag because she convinced me she had done enough work on herself that it turned the red flag to green. When the relationship became serious her issues were triggered and she blamed me. She slept with my friend (ex friend), as a way to hurt me.
If she's working a high end job and went to college. Run!!!!
Tattooed single mom is hard no
between those red flags is 99.9% of American women
But we still take the bait 😂
Single mom
Single mom with multiple kids by different father's
Her name is Jennifer, Tammy, or Jessica
Her car is a wreck
Her house is a wreck
She has no female friend's
She has tattoos , and piercings all over
I could go on and on..... Ty
And smokes like a chimney
Thats some fun times between the sheets. Just dont give her your last name
Do NOT let your daughters hang out with other girls that are being raised by a single mother. They can be friends at school and after school, but do NOT let them sleep over night after night week after week, go there after school for hours. Don't do it. Every time my daughter spent time with the single mothers I had a fuking riot on my hands when she got home.
There may be an exception, but I haven't seen it.
To me after being married for 12 years and then getting into another relationship and it ending after 9 years, the biggest Red Flag is the ability to say sorry and admit when they are wrong. The last two relationships I've been in both women have had issues admitting when their wrong and what kills me is when they have the gull to sit there and tell me that I have a problem admitting when I'm wrong. BFS!!!!
For a second there I thought I was watching the Hobbit and one of the dwarves was talking to me...😂
Lol😂
Well said gents. 💯
Have you noticed with single mothers when they talk about there ex or the child's father , "He's always the bad guy " & she's always the victim , but as time goes by you soon pick up why he's her ex and exactly what she was doing to him to leave her in the first place. Alot have delusional expectations of fatherhood or drive him away by not having sex with him anymore, which to a man is punishment and certainly not a loving relationship anymore. Don't get me wrong, childbirth does affect a woman's sexual desire for a period of time, and men can be patient, but years and not months is a health problem for a man in the making & a lifetime of taking pills for erectile disfunction brought on by his wife is surely going to create hate & resentment for his wife and the divorce court at a later date .
Unfortunately I married a girl with daddy issues and we only lasted 3 miserable years. I never really believed the whole daddy issues thing until I noticed how my ex would treat and talk to her dad.
She would literally call her dad by his first name and I never really thought too much about it until I eventually asked her why. Then I realized daddy issues really exist because she would treat me like she treats her dad, talk condescendingly towards him, easily get mad at him, ignore him, etc etc.
Also there's a lot I later discovered about the dynamic between her mom and dad and witnessed first hand how her mom would verbally punish her dad until he would shutdown or leave.
It's too bad because my ex was hot physically 😢
Always the hot ones right ?
Same my ex was age 24 and hot.. but.. daddy issues, history of anti depressants, disrespectful, combative, doesn't follow a mans lead.. They are hot, but make terrible wives. Will often cheat on you
My ex should have been on meds and wasn’t. Actually she still won’t accept she needs meds and somehow found another sucker and remarried. Why he stays with her is something I have never understood.
This reminds me of my best friend and her sisters calling their parents by their first names. I always found it really odd.
FACTS, you described my fourth wife, it lasted 12 years, I saw it and I knew it wasn't right, I should have realized alot sooner that this was going to end eventually. It was a waste of my time and money.
Every woman i have dated had some red flags, so it was basically finding one that had minimal issues and pursuing her.The higher the value male you are, gives you choices in dating the best woman, ie those with minimal red flags.Thats been my experience,so guys work on being successful in whatever that maybe.
Having married one with daddy issues... I must agree with this 💯
And damaged women attract damaged men. Lets not forget the obvious.
Yup. It takes 2 to tango.
Freaking facts!!!! And add....masculine women attract feminine men
We are all damaged, mostly from childhood. This is why it is so important to take your time with women and allow her to reveal her issues. My ex was bi polar and was able to hide it till after the marriage. I blame myself because I did not vet her long enough. Lesson learned🤷🏻♂️
@@GBU61 if you are a human being living on the planet, you have baggage
\ damage. Step 1 to having a good life is, acknowledging\ dealing with your own baggage.
Hot women attract all men*
1. Single Mom
2.Feminist
3. High bodies
I married a woman who dad passed away when she was 10. She was the worst. She could not be led. Fights fight fights. It was a battle daily. I don't recommend it. Next time I date first question is going to be " how's your dad doing?"
Stronger influence, in anyone's life, woman or man, is the mother
#1 red flag single mom
Multiple prescriptions for every aspect of dealing with life and emotions, and excuses for taking each one of them.
If they're a part of ARE WE DATING THE SAME GUY, pages on social media.
Multiple and alternate social media identities.
Not returning generosity and consideration when it comes to miles traveled, effort extended, money spent.
Having sex, 1st date, unprotected.
Lovebombing up front and early on.
Emotional out bursts over daily life challenges or minor difficulties in navigating in general, that effect the way they communicate and treat you, when you have nothing to do with them.
Woe is me, eff all men, I'll be single forever mentalities.
Over obsession and reliance on relationship with an animal. Ie dog mom/cat mom. (Yes animals are wonderful, bright, and to be loved and shared joy with. But I've lost animals, and I've lost a parent, NO, the grief is NOT on the same level.)
Speaking ill of past partners, especially early on.
Saying I Love You, in under a month of knowing each other. You don't know anything about a person that early.
Less to be desired group of friends, or no friends at all.
Over obsession with body art and changing hair color once a month.
If they have a Breeze in their purse.
Women in general is the No.1 biggest red flag.
Why do you guys feel like you need a woman in your lives? I'm a forever bachelor and will never hand the keys of my kingdom to any woman.
Did it once. Never again.
I have a LTR woman and at times its awkward but over the years there have been occasions where shes there for me unconditionaly. So i guess thats one reason but also companionship, so we can go on holiday together etc. However i think theres pros and cons to both set ups, i could see being single can work also. No kids no pets - this probably helps
It starts with all the testosterone we have and by letting the small head control the big head. We are all guilty of overlooking the signs and then we pay the price.
The hairy lasso will pull you further than gunpowder will blow you. However, being a Sigma male can put you in good stead. Just school up on you-tube to be safe
It’s hard for me not to be boring. I work 5-6 days a week. All my free time is for casual work outs, learning day trading and things around my house. Don’t have the energy or time to socialise.
Ironically, you're doing all the right things. My life is the same right now.
does she always seem to contact you when she needs money and then disappears for a little while
If she doesnt/didnt respect her dad as head of a household growing up, move around fast
She says something mocking/disrespectful on a first date. Big red flag. The first date is where you should be 'selling yourself' like in an interview, this gives a taste of things to come
I'm gonna have to agree with you on this. I experienced this firsthand almost 3 years ago with a chick that my married friends tried to hook me up with. We went on a double date with my married friends (stupid idea), and one of her first comments to me upon meeting was mocking/disrespectful. Although the rest of that date went well, there was never a 2nd date. It's unfortunate in one way because this woman had a great bond with her dad but also a bit confusing because she was in the process of divorce from her husband when we went on this date. Very strange.
@@spacecowboy5995 I've had women complain I won't marry them even though they're still married to their ex. Bonkers 😄
Tattoos. The more, the worse.
4:02 Does that mean I don't deserve love?
No but how does it mean I'm supposed to supply you love? I didn't damage you. How does your misfortune become my debt?
If she’s ever done cocaine in the past, she’s not relationship material. It shows she’s impulsive.
Fish that out early on before you get serious with her. If she’s done cocaine, the chances of her cheating on you increase substantially.
Lol how and why? Why cocaine?
@@blackshadexlhow do you think she’s going to pay for that cocaine?? By spreading her legs for the dealer!!
Dumb comment!!! 💯
Awfully specific.
Everybody has a list of their own red flags. Everybody needs to identify the ones that are significant to them. A person should not compromise their standards. If you do, it will probably not end well. A person that has made bad choices in their past will probably effect your future if you get involved with them.
My thoughts exactly. Every guy is different and depending on his life experience, there are issues he can’t get past.
Uses words "abuse", "narcissist", "gaslighting" a lot.
The real tragedy about these issues is they just go on and on and continue in a vicious cycle. daughters of single mothers often become single mothers themselves.
It's really really unfortunate. One of my best childhood friends is going through it right now. His wife is bpd and all of the above. Yes those women deserve love... but they have to deal with their shit and not drag others into their dread.
There is a lot of things on this channel I think are off. However, this isn't one of them. This is dead on. If a woman has daddy issues, she will treat her husband as their father (in her mind) and she will punish you so she can get back at her father, again in her mind.
I speak from experience and she spoke HIGHLY about her father when I met her. She was full of it and he was a horrible man. Interestingly, a BPD/NPD woman will often times put their father on a pedestal, even though he was a loser and abuser, because they are still seeking the father's approval.
It's absolutely mind numbing to try to reason with one of these women. Forget it, you can't change these women and there is NO amount of therapy that will work.
What on this channel is off?? Everything on this channel is on
@@JohnSkyLey You made a post 4 months ago about Rich not liking animals and he was wrong. Still think everything on this channel is right, Ernie? You said it yourself.
Can you please touch on how daddy issues impact men? It’s the same red flag as their suffer from abandonment issues and lack of confidence, always trying to prove themselves and be seen as “good enough” and put alot of pressure on women to provide that long sought approval.
Whether Dad leaving is her fault or not, it's about whether she carries that baggage with her. How much blood is she letting spill over onto others. It's a big ask to make, but if a woman can truly carry that shit and not make it a point that dictates her life, then she is a real one.
It would be an interesting study to find out just how many of the OF women grew up without their father in their home or even in their life.
I think it would be very telling indeed.
I dated a very attractive single mother, her mother cheated on her father when she was 6 years old, not only that the dad vanished for 20 years without a word. My ex was a daddy’s girl, and felt deserted for years… I started a job in aviation that meant I was away 5 days at a time. It changed everything between us. Suddenly she became a nightmare, did not trust me, and that I was selfish doing my job…All the issues she had inside came to the surface.
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I was young and ignorant. My first choice to come along had 1, 4, 5. I didn't know what to make of it. NEITHER DID ALL THE MEN I COUNSELED WITH. Father, Pastor, male friends, male shrinks. All oblivious. Not until I studied the Borderline personality >40 yrs later did it finally come into focus. My bride of 30 yrs thinks I'm too hard on those men. No, I'm not. When my father was a teen these issues were in the public domain and well discussed, as they had been for the previous 400 yrs, so I discovered. Those men had no excuse not to know. I got a brief taste of men who did after I initiated the divorce. Those men had been in hiding because they were worn out from the conundrums and didn't want to stir up any backlash. Now I observe young men freely discussing it. But I fear their revulsion will have a whiplash effect. Hopefully they will pay strict attention to their predecessor's errors.
Not your fault does not mean it is not your problem! My ex had daddy issues, he had run around on her drunk mother and her first husband you guessed it ran around and I knocked her up and was stuck with a crazy loon for 9 years till I got out! Now to her credit she is a good mom and has good values but all the baggage she had made any happiness in any relationship impossible!
If she has been married more than once and it was always the guy that was the problem. Single moms are a close second.
Just dumped a single mom due to many red flags, plus she’s too extremely controlling for me as well
Good for you brother better to be alone than with a trainwreck of a woman.
@@jpro747 yea for the most part.
OMG Rich! You hit the nail on the head. Daddy issues = BPD! And a solid indicator of BPD is if she always has the feeling that something really terrible is about to happen. My answer: it is! You are about to get invited to the exit.
Daddy issues are REAL. I've known many women whose fathers abandoned their mothers, the fathers were "rolling stones", and so on. Because the women cannot punish their fathers for their irresponsible behavior, they punish the men who love them, or who want to love them.
I dated a girl without a father. Was toxic, very disrespectful, agressive and combative
It’s how they act
Can’t pre determine anything
The biggest red flag I've found is how she speaks about her ex(s). If they are all jerks, morons, idiots or assholes then either she has really crappy judgement or she is actually the problem and she is just projecting.
Now I understand how to take the lead, and it’s never been that I couldn’t. It’s simply women who want what they want and don’t care what they gotta do to get it.
I had a few good things to say but the algorithm