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I’m watching this now. But PACK AND KIM, you do realize, THIS RIGHT HERE, will save lives in your country right? There are LGBT in Korea that hide their faces from fear. This could change their lives. YOU 2 ARE PIONEERS! #MANGOCOUPLEFOREVER #PROUDOFYOU #LOVEYOU
I wish you both real happiness and long life together. I hope one day every country recognizes this anomaly of discriminating among people of same gender and recognize by giving equal rights to such couples who want to live in love and harmony. The best part was the ready acceptance by your parents. And it made me teary eyed too. Love and blessings always. ❤️❤️🫂🫂🎉🎉
It really got me when you asked what to do to get it approved and the woman that was helping you said “you need to change the law”. It wasn’t too long ago when no countries recognized same sex marriage and now over 38 countries recognize same sex marriages! I fully believe you won’t have to wait too much longer for the government to accept your relationship as legitimate. The work you are doing here on RUclips is helping so many people. Congratulations on 10 years!
As a foreigner and gay man living in Korea, I also have your same feeling about wanting to marry whilst living here and be legally recognised as well. It it possible for me to get married in my embassy but then it is only recognised by my country and not here in Korea. I hope Korea and the rest of the world catches up eventually to allowing same-sex marriage and its legal recognition around the world. love to you both congrats for 10 years
And there is me, a old woman in Germany, sitting here and crying because of your tears. I hope your laws will changed quickly and you get the legal marriage you deserve. And for the time beeing please just be happy, release on each other and life your live peacefully together. ❤
Older lady from Bonnie Scotland sending you prayers. It's the brave actions of ordinary citizens like yourselves that changes not only the laws of the land whatever land you call home but the attitude of your fellow citizens. Be brave be strong be yourselves but most of all be happy my young brothers in faith Amen🙏
영상 보고 많이 감동 받았습니다. 저도 팩님이랑 동갑인데, 연애 이상은 아예 생각도 안해본 것 같아요 계속 돈벌기 바빴는데 사랑하는 사람과 법적으로 인정받고, 아이도 키우고 싶다는 생각을 슬슬 하게 되네요 생각만 하지 않고 실천하시는데에 많이 감명 받았습니다. 여러분의 일상이 많은 사람에게 감동을 주고, 선한 영향력을 주고 있습니다 비록 불수리 되어도, 이런 사례가 하나하나 쌓이면 우리 나라도 언젠가 바뀌게 될거라고 생각합니다...! 혼인신고 정말 축하드리고, 언제나 행복하세요!
Congratulations Kim and Pack. I can't wait for the day that Korea recognizes you legally as a couple. Keep fighting this good fight. Now I'll get a tissue and wipe away my tears of happiness for both of you.
62세 할머니에요. 두분 사랑 이성간의 그 어떤사랑 보다 절대 뒤지지 않습니다. 그리고 두분을 응원 하시는 부모님도 너무 멋지신 분들 이네요. 남의 눈이나 세상의 잣대보다는 내자식이 행복하기를 간절히 바라시고 지지 해주시는 모습에 존경심마저 들었습니다 오래 오래. 행복 하세요 항상 따듯한 마음으로 응원 합니다 ~^^
Pack, you and Kim persevered. The lady at the last office seemed sympathetic and agreed that your application is IN THE SYSTEM, but you must just wait for the law to change. Kim offered a note of optimism where some companies are respecting the receipt as though they are a couple. 10 years together is almost unbelievable! Congratulations, and yes, let the tears flow!
저도 제 오랜 여자친구와 늘 이런 순간을 꿈꿔요! 아직 가족에게조차 말하지 못했지만 그래서 더더욱 영상을 보고 같이 눈물이 났네요ㅠㅠ 근 시일내에 성별과 상관 없이 사랑은 그저 사랑으로, 법적 효력이 있길 꼭 바라며 10주년의 발자국을 찍어주셔서 고맙고 축하드려요🎉🎉🎉❤❤❤
Such love. I feel s honored that you two have chosen to share this experience with your RUclips family. You are such precious people. Being able to get married legally has its own challenges. I was blessed to witness my friends, Kevin and Karl get married a few years ago. Kevin was a retired US Air Force officer. A couple of years ago Kevin passed away and Karl is a widower. Kevin had to designate Karl as his beneficiary for the annuity from the military but life went on and he forgot. Now Karl is fighting to receive survivor benefits. Remember to have everything that your country allows, signed and filed in whatever procedure South Korea requires. You deserve all of the love and support in this world. I bow to you both. Sincerely, Grandma Sandra Claus, Colorado, USA.💔🤟🌺
Omg Crying with You I hope really soon Korea and other countries allow same sex marriages And everyone gets the rights to marry the person they love the same as heterosexual couples, I’ve been watching You 2 for a long time And I think the way you stand up for the lgbtq plus community is amazing Amazing Men ❤❤❤❤
두분의 사랑을 응원합니다. 앞으로 진짜 법이 바뀔꺼라 생각합니다. 옛날엔 남녀라도 동성동본이면 결혼 할 수 없었는데 법이 바꼈고, 자녀들이 아빠 성만 따랐는데 요즘은 엄마 성으로도 할 수 있잖아요. 두분 너무 축하드려요. 한치 앞을 모르는 세상 더 많이 사랑하시고, 더많이 아껴 주시고 오래오래 행복하세요. 그리고 예쁜 자녀도 꼭 만나길 바래요.🎉🎉
Congratulations, you boys are the best. This is a new beginning but, I must say the silent to quiet conversation in the car is so normal on an especially significant day, straight or rainbow. We all do it to some degree. Nervous tension from 8.25am to the 'non acceptance' then the tears. You have done it as far as you can legally so Happy Anniversary to you both.
아 진짜 감동ㅠ 부모님들 다 너무 좋으시고...제가 다 감사하네요 전 남매 키우면서 일찌감치 얘기 해둔게 이성, 동성 상관 없으니 나중에 이 사람과 사귀거나 결혼 원할 때 고민 말고 얘기하랬거든요 그 땐 오히려 애들이 싫어했지만😂 전 그렇게 미리 든든한 조력자이자 이해자라고 못 박았어요 그냥 살아도 힘든 세상인데 부모만큼은 온전히 내 편이라고 믿길 바랐거든요 두 분 부모님, 누나도 그런 마음이신 것 같아서 뭉클해요 법적으로도 효력있는 부부되시길, 진심으로 바라고 응원합니다!
I am so proud of you both for having the courage to go forward with this knowing the outdated laws in Korea. In my mind you are already married and I wish I could vote to change your laws to eliminate discrimination. I don't understand why others feel threatened by the love of others. I look forward to your wedding ceremony! Congratulations!
@@랑리스테 헌법 제36조의 1항의 문언을 혼인이 남성과 여성의 결합으로만 이루어져야 함을 의미한다고 해석할 수 없습니다. 해당 문언의 기술 취지가 "평등"에 중점이 있기 때문이고, 학계나 실무가들 사이에서 헌법 제36조 1항을 선생님과 같이 해석해서는 결코 안된다는 주장이 다수 있습니다. 더불어 법률가라면 아시겠지만 해석방법론에는 다양한 접근방식이 있습니다. 헌법 제36조의 1항은 동성간 법적 결합을 인정하는데 걸림돌이 될 수 없고 오히려 보다 평등한 결혼 공동체를 구성해함이 헌법 정신임을 입증하고 있습니다.
Living in a country where same sex marriage is illegal , having the courage of your convictions and love for each other shows how much courage you 2 have , the pressure of which showing in your tears of relief . Congratulations to you both and i hope that south korea , being such an advancing country globally , can review its policy and welcome your marriage , we did it in the UK and so can south korea . Good luck guys , u r a beautiful couple 💋💋❤❤
Im in the USA but, I cried through this whole video. Im a straight woman been married for 21 years almost 22 years but, I have 3 kids that are queer. I can't immagine a world where they couldnt marry who they wanted legally. I hope and wish so much for you guys one day very soon you can have a big PROUD GAY FABULOUS WEDDING in front of your closest friends and family and whoever supports your relationship. All I know is I love you guys and I am so sorry you have to go through all of this to have and be with who you want. Im super glad you guys found your person in this crazy place we call life though cause its not easy and we all need someone. Much love from Illinois😘😘😘❤❤🫶🫶🫶🫶
두분 10주년 축하합니다🎉 또 한걸음 나아가셨네요 ! 지금 당장의 결과는 얻기 어렵더라도 정말 정말 큰 의미 있는일을 하신거라 생각해요! 그래도 이런 노력들이 모여서 좀 더 좋은 세상을 만드는거라 생각합니다~두분 멋져요 장해요! 토닥토닥😊 이번에 저희 큰아이 시험끝나면 아이들과 함께< 모든패밀리> 보고 얘기나눠보려고 해요 더불어 살아가는 세상❤ 어떤 형태이건 모든 가족을, 연인을 응원합니다!
Whew! I needed that morning cry! 😭 Congratulations to one of the most amazing couples! Praying that one day soon your marriage will be legally recognized in SK! Thank you for sharing this journey with us and always know there are so many people around the world supporting you both! Sending hugs!! 🤗🫶❤🧡💛💚💙💜
동성애자분돌 협오했었는데 요즘 유튜브에 많이... 시청해보니까 오히려 이성애보다 더 진심이고 예쁜사랑 같아요 특히 두 부부님들 부모님께도 허락받고 십년이면 짧은시간도 아닌데 혼인신고까지 하셨다니 정말 예쁘고 감동입니다 부디 검은머리 파뿌리되도록 변함없이 자~~~사셔서 전설이 되어 주시기를....부럽기도 하네요 행복하세요~~~^^
헤테로커플에서 결혼 혼인신고 이렇게 순조롭게 한 제가 이걸보면서 마음이 너무 아파서 눈물이 나네요.. 미안함 마음도 들고요. 동성커플이라는 이유하나로 국가의 보호를 받지못하는모습도 헤테로커플이였으면 바로 받을 수 있는 종이한장뿐인 혼인신고서도 허락이 안된다는 것에 속상함과 동시에 국가에 대한 분노도 생기네요... ㅠㅠ 저는 언제나 망원댁을 응원하고 함께 동행할거에요!!!
I have been following you guys for some years now, and really this video brings me so many emotions… you both deserve all the happiness in this world and it makes me so happy that you guys took the courage to register your marriage, I really hope it can be processed one day. You are really changing the lgbtq+ community in korea for the best! I am so proud of you and to be your fan! I hope for same sex marriage legalization in Korea to be accepted soon 🥺. 망고 커플의 팬이라는 것이 자랑스럽습니다. 좋은 일만 가득하길 바랍니다 ❤️
A big Bravo for the successful registration of your wedding. You show unimaginable courage, I wipe my tears hoping that this is only the beginning and that many other LBGT+ couples will do the same. After Thailand we will surely see Korea pass a new law for this third millennium. We embrace you and congratulate you for these ten years of common life to share joys and difficulties. 👨🏻❤👨🏻
Congratulations Pack and Kim. The courage you have shown through your vlogs over the years is inspiring. I hope your courage will inspire the change needed in your country to accept your marriage as equal. I wish you health and happiness in the years to come.
Congratulations to you both! 10 years wow... This moment will mark you both as pioneers in your country who drove the need for change and acceptance. Your legacy continues to bless you and prospers everything you two touch. ❤ 🙏🏾
Let’s all push for a future where we can all love and be treated equally! No matter your orientation you should be passionate in your want for equality 🤍 drive is what makes change! And hopefully Korea will follow in Thailand’s footsteps soon
I am so proud of the two of you. Well done for finding the courage to do this. I fully support your decision and hope it will not be too long before Korea sees the light and realises Love is Love . I know not having the legal protection and the formal documentation must be heart breaking, but to me you will always be husband and husband 👨❤💋👨. I look forward to the day you are truly recognised by your country and hopefully get to start a family. Until then I stand with you and if you need us (your supporting and loving community) we are here for you no matter what - just ask. We love you both. Congratulations on this very special day. 🥰
Firstly CONGRATULATIONS 🎉🎉🎉 Secondly hang in there boys, Thailand has recognised same sex marriage, I think it just has to go to the King before it is law, Hopefully Korea will be next. Keep up the fight ❤ we all love you
Courage !! Congratulations to the Kim and Park for your marriage !! I am sure it wasn't easy but you both have confirmed your love for each other . It might be seen as a personal victory but message goes far beyond. You have shown your fellow countrymen and the world that love comes in different forms. You have proven gay love is just like any other love. No more and no less. Marriage is for two persons who want to share their lives together and you both have shown us (global us) it is possible !! Congras and thank you !! All the best to you both !!!
I wanted to wait with my commentary until I've seen the second part. I have now done so and can now comment. First and most importantly, congratulations. Even if your marriage can't be officially registered because the law doesn't allow it, I am so proud of you and happy for you. You are two amazing and wonderful people who love each other with heart and soul. I love your couple videos so much because you are an authentic couple who occasionally give an insight into your everyday life. No acting and pretending. Just two men who have been a couple for 10 years now and still love each other very much, even if there are arguments now and then. I hope you grow old together and continue to love each other so sincerely. Here in Germany, same-sex couples have been allowed to marry legally for a few years now. I was so happy for the LGBTQ+ community that it even brought tears to my eyes. I wish for you and all the same-sex couples in Korea and all over the world that the law will finally change in your favor. After all, same-sex couples are nothing more than two people who love each other so much that they want to get married. No one should be forbidden to do so. Because love is love! And what could be more important than that? Best wishes to you both.
10주년 축하드리고 혼인신고 하신 것도 정말 축하드려요🎉🎉🎉(두 분 기념일마다 투닥이는 거 진짜 넘 웃겨요,,,😂) 혼인신고 하는 과정 자체는 상상했던 것보다 평화(?)로웠지만 법대로, 절차대로 라는 이름 아래 순식간에 불수리 처리되는 거에 순간 무력감을 느껴서 저도 눈물이😢 그럼에도 불구하고 10주년인 오늘 새로운 변화의 점을 선명하게! 무지개빛으로 찍은 이 순간이 두 분을 법의 테두리 안에서 보호 받을 수 있는 가족이 되는 순간으로 꼭 데려다 놓을 것이라 생각해요! 킴님이 퀴퍼에서 말했던 그 퍼즐조각! 끝까지 맞춰가요~~~~❤🎉🎉🎉 망원댁 부부👬🏻 화이팅!!!!!!
미국에서 20년넘게 살고있는 한국아줌마예요. 제가 현재 살고 있는 시애틀은 동성결혼합법화가 된지 12년정도가 됬어요. 미국도 동성애자들의 길고 치열한 사투끝에 동성결혼이 합법화됬고 지금은 이성애자도 동성애자도 양성애자도 무성애자도 범성애자도 그냥 다 법적인 혜택을 똑같이 받으며 개개인의 주관적인 생각이나 믿음과 별개로 법적인 제도의 혜택인에 서로 다같이 조화롭게 살고 있어요. 동성부부의 입양도 가능하고요. 그냥 다양한 형태의 부부와 가족형태가 더불어 다같이 살아가요. 제 오랜 직장의 상사도 게이였고 제 남편의 가장 친한 직장 동료도 스무살 차이나는 게이였고. 제 남편은 그 게이동료를 아들처럼 친구처럼 대해줬어요. 한국은 아직도 많이 보수적이고 사실 한국은 보수적이라가보단 나와 다른거를 포용하지 못하는 사회라는게 더 맞는 분석일겁니다. 나와 다른 성정체성뿐 아니라 나와 다른 생각, 나와 다른 정치관, 나와 다른 가치관 기타등등 나와 다른 무언가를 포용하고 관용하는 사회가 아니죠. 너무 오랜동안 좁은 땅에서 같은 민족끼리만 살아와서 다양한 인종 종교 가치관을 가진 아민자들이 모여살기 시작한 미국과는 사고방식자체가 다를수밖에 없구요 보수적인건 미국도 꽤나보수적인 사람들이.많이 사는 나라인데 미국과 한국의 차아점이라면 나와 다른것에 대한 관용과 포용성에 대한 교육의 부재일겁니다. 미국도 종교관때문에 동성애를 싫어하는 사람들 꽤 많습니다. 다만 그런 미국인들조차 기본적인 생각은 동성애자들도 이성애자들이 누리는 행복을 추구할 권리 (결혼이나 입양 기타등등)는 보호받아야 맞는거다란 평등의식을 가지고 있다는게 한국과 다른거죠. 한국은 성정체성뿐 아니라 정치 사회 가치관 생각등 거의 모든 분야에서 주류에 속하지 않으면 짓밟아 없애거나 주류에 맞게 만들어야한다는 사고가 팽배한 사회구요. 다름과 다양성을 포용하지 못하는 사회죠. 저랑 남편은 너무 쉽게 몇분만에 끝낸 혼인신고를 님들이 수락받지 못한다는 느낌이 어떤건지 전 다 이해하진 못하겠지만 제가 그 입장이라도 참 서러울거 같아요. 10년이나 같이 산 사실혼 관계의 두 사람이 부부가 아니면 뭘까? 이런 부부가 왜 법적으로 보호받지 못하나? 하는 많은 생각이 듭니다. 결론만 말씀드리자면, 미국의 동성애자들처럼 한국의 동성애자분들이 피튀기는 사투를 벌여 원하는 결과를 이끌어내는 방법밖엔 없다고 말씀드릴수밖에 없네요. 이성애자들은 성정체성문제에 있어선 사회 기득권자들이고 역사상 기득권자들은 절대 피기득권자들을 대신해서 먼저 나서서 싸워주진 않기때문입니다. 한때 투표권도 없었던 여성들이 피튀기게 싸워서 여권신장도 해결해야했듯이 피기득권자는 본인들이 원하는게 있으면 기득권자들에 맞서 싸우고 투쟁해서 원하는걸 쟁취하는거밖엔 방법이 없어요. 역사상 늘 그래왔어요. 인생은 결국 그 누구도 내 대신 내 이익을 위해 싸워주지 않으니까요. 제가 할수 있는건 모든 동성애자분들에게 응원과 지지를 보내는것뿐입니다..전 그 누구도 사적인 공간에서 누가 누구와 어떻게 사랑을 나누건 비난할수도 판단할수도 없다고 생각합니다. 사람이 누군가를 사랑한다는게 누구에게도 비난 받을 일은 아니라고 생각합니다. 인생 생각보다 많이 짧아요. 그 짧은 시간에 부디 두분이 많이 사랑하고 아끼며 이성애자들 보다 더 행복하고 즐겁게 사세요. 그리고 시간이 좀 더 지나면 한국도 동성결혼 합법화가 되는 날이 꼭 올거라고 믿습니다.
정성껏 써주신 긴 글일 읽는데 마지막에는 눈물이 그렁그렁 맺히네요ㅎㅎ 사실 전 지금도 너무 행복하고 모든 것들이 다 잘될거라 믿으며 살고있답니다ㅎㅎ 동성애 이성애를 떠나서 사랑하는 가족들과 사랑하는 배우자와 행복하게 사는 사는것만한 복이 없다고 생각합니다~ㅎㅎ 아마 글쓴이 분도 무척이나 행복한 삶을 사시는 분이라거 느껴졌어요!!ㅎㅎ 감사합니다 오늘도 행복한 하루 보내셧길 바랍니다❤️❤️❤️
You two are part of making the world better, one step at a time. We are all so proud of you! 💜 Your actions, no matter how small or big they might seem to you or others, are changing the world. Never forget that💜💜
You guys made me cry too🤧 but this is tears of happyness 😊♥️first of all hearty congratulations for your 10th anniversary and happily married ever after ❤ yes we also feel sad that Korean law didn't register same-sex marriage yet..even though you guys did your best for eachother ❤❤we are so happy for that ❤i wish both of you to stay happily everafter together ❤❤Love from Nepal ❤❤
Though you already anticipated the outcome but still hoping it will be positive. So thus the saying goes. Keep your hopes high but keep your expectation low. It a cushion for a negative results. But a Big Congratulations to both of you. Happy 10th year Anniversary and Happy to registering your Marriage. Damn I need to stop slicing onions. Sobbing with you.
Wow! What an emotional day and really quite moved that you shared that with us. I've already given my congratulations on your 10th anniversary but happy to say it again. So good that you met a nice lady at the registration office. Wishing that before too long we can celebrate your official marriage. Meanwhile as you said, in your hearts you are already married and that is a wonderful thing to know. Hugs and love from the UK. D xx
This is the first video of yours I have watched. And I plan on watching many more. I am a 57 year old Caucasian straight woman in the US, but I cannot wait for the day when ALL people who love each other, no matter what gender, identity, or arrangement, or country, can get legally married in any country and be recognized in any country. I cannot wait for the day when all of this is a non-issue and no one even has to think twice about getting married to whomever they love.
Congratulations on having the courage to go through this process knowing the legal complications you face and for having families who support you. This certainly makes your 10th anniversary most memorable. May the day soon arrive when Korea formally recognizes marriage equality! God bless you in every way! ❤❤
I am so proud of your boldness, and also of your parents who come from a generation where it is not at all obvious to accept you as you are (but as they should !), which really means how much they love you - openly and without conditions❣🏳🌈
CONGRATULATIONS! Yes, I’m officially dehydrated from all the crying I’ve done watching your videos. Your tears and ambivalent feelings are certainly understandable. This was a bittersweet day. The joy of your commitment , the nervousness of courageously proclaiming your love knowing it would be rejected, and the reality of the rejection caused such pressure to build inside both of you. You needed the release. My son is also gay, and although we live in the US, his religion does not allow same sex relationships, let alone marriage. My heart breaks for him knowing that he is unable to even dream of having what you have. You are brave and true pioneers in the quest for LGBTQ rights in Korea. You have wonderful parents and family which explains why you are able to love so deeply. I loved the messages from your friends as well. And you’re right…this is not over, it’s just the beginning! ❤
"Um casamento feliz se constrói com muito amor, carinho e compreensão. Que esses sentimentos estejam sempre presentes em suas vidas.” “Que esta nova etapa da vida seja repleta de realizações.” “O casamento é mais que um compromisso para toda vida, ele é a mais bela missão do amor.” Parabéns aos dois! Aguardando que todos os países possam aceitar que todos somos iguais! ❤
im not crying your crying 🥹 both of you deserve the world congratulations and I hope that the law will be changed soon but as I'm sure you know the love between you is remarkable and so inspiring and will hopefully spark a change. its of love keep fighting ❤❤
Pack and Kim! Congrats on this big step!!! It is sad that your country doesn't recognize your union, but you have so many mangos who do !!! This was such a touching video in so many ways! Was also great to see Hansol and the other familiar faces who have been visitors on your channel!!! We must keep fighting the good fight!! Love you guys!!! ❤️❤️❤️🎉🎉🎉🫰🫰🫰
My heart is reaching out to you 2 brave heros! You have accomplished so many mile stones in your life! You will get stronger and more powerful. The more people supports you from all over the world. Heads up dont't give in and up. 😘🏳🌈🏳🌈🏳🌈Look what Thailand achieved this year. We love and supports you with all our love.
Thank you for sharing such a beautiful moment that made me cry with you both. Your courage should be applauded, and I infinitely support and cheer for you both from here.❤
Congratulations! This is such a meaningful step, not only for you as a couple, but for everyone you share your lives with. Change and equality only happen when courageous people from marginalized communities take steps to make it happen. With more couples registering despite the rejection, with people like you, who show in your videos that you are no different from other spouses, with more people publicly showing support for same-sex marriage and more same-sex relationship themes coming out in the entertainment industry as it has been in recent years, I think change is inevitable. You are an important part of this wave of social enlightenment that is already working to make this world a better place. Love you guys! And I just have to say that Pack's parents are the best. Your marriage registration was something that they both expected and supported. 💕
😢 I cried with you both. Hopefully one day you will be able to get your wish. The barriers you are facing may not be in your favor but it will happen and you can a civil union for 10 years. Marriage is more than an application or certificate of a union. It is the love, understanding, and respect you all have for each other. Both of you are wonderful, beautiful souls, and that application/certification of a paper will not define your true love you share. With that being said, I pronounce you husband and husband in the eyes of all that have watched you on RUclips and in front of the loved ones that love you for, you. May you continue to have many more stunning years together filled with love, understanding, and support for as long as you all may live. 👨❤️👨🏳️🌈👨❤️💋👨
Congratulations to you! I cried watching your video, especially the love and support from your parents. That is such a treasure. Many blessings for your future and may you soon be able to have a legally recognized marriage🩵
The whole video is so heartwarming from them deciding to register their marriage on their 10th anniversary to parents being so understanding and accepting to the worker in the registration office(she seem kind) . Hope the law gets soon in favor of LGBTQ 🤞
I loved this so much, but also understand your mixed feelings. It takes real courage to walk into a situation where you know you will be rejected, and hold your heads up high. And for what it’s worth, you are married, in all the most important ways. I wish that Korea will recognize your relationship soon, at least in the form of some kind of civil partnership. And in the meantime, maybe you could plan a trip to a country with gay marriage and get something official done, so your relationship will be recognized in many countries, even if not in the one you value most. Big love to you both xxx
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Congratulations ❤❤
Congratulations. I was crying with you. All the best for the future.
I’m watching this now. But PACK AND KIM, you do realize, THIS RIGHT HERE, will save lives in your country right? There are LGBT in Korea that hide their faces from fear. This could change their lives. YOU 2 ARE PIONEERS! #MANGOCOUPLEFOREVER #PROUDOFYOU #LOVEYOU
Pioneers indeed. I hope their names go down in Korean History of LGBTQ+ Rights.
망고커플 사랑해❤ 오래오래 행복하자~~!!!
응원 너무너무 고마융..ㅠ.ㅠ 알랍 엔조이커플❤️
Be happy that matters the most ❤❤
I wish you both real happiness and long life together. I hope one day every country recognizes this anomaly of discriminating among people of same gender and recognize by giving equal rights to such couples who want to live in love and harmony. The best part was the ready acceptance by your parents. And it made me teary eyed too. Love and blessings always. ❤️❤️🫂🫂🎉🎉
It really got me when you asked what to do to get it approved and the woman that was helping you said “you need to change the law”. It wasn’t too long ago when no countries recognized same sex marriage and now over 38 countries recognize same sex marriages! I fully believe you won’t have to wait too much longer for the government to accept your relationship as legitimate. The work you are doing here on RUclips is helping so many people.
Congratulations on 10 years!
As a foreigner and gay man living in Korea, I also have your same feeling about wanting to marry whilst living here and be legally recognised as well. It it possible for me to get married in my embassy but then it is only recognised by my country and not here in Korea. I hope Korea and the rest of the world catches up eventually to allowing same-sex marriage and its legal recognition around the world. love to you both congrats for 10 years
And there is me, a old woman in Germany, sitting here and crying because of your tears. I hope your laws will changed quickly and you get the legal marriage you deserve.
And for the time beeing please just be happy, release on each other and life your live peacefully together. ❤
Old lady in Australia doing the same thing - it's heartbreaking !
Old lady in South Africa, doing just the same! 😭
This old lady from Cali doing the same 😢 Be happy and love each other forever 💙💙
Older lady from Bonnie Scotland sending you prayers. It's the brave actions of ordinary citizens like yourselves that changes not only the laws of the land whatever land you call home but the attitude of your fellow citizens.
Be brave be strong be yourselves but most of all be happy my young brothers in faith
Amen🙏
This old lady in the US… equality to all! ❤
62세 할머니.아줌마 입니다 종종 즐겁게 보고 있어요 세상에는 행복의의미를 두는것은 다 다른것 같아요 행복하다면 무조건 환영합니다 때론 이해 못하는 사람도 있지만 저는 응원합니다
ㅠㅠ 너무 감동입니다 이렇게 댓글로 응원까지 해주시니😭❤️❤️
@@mango.couple전 고1 남학생입니다. 두 분이 행복하시길 빕니다! 응원합니다!
노망😮
안녕하세요, 이제 10년차 레즈비언 커플입니다 ☺️ 하... 저희도 다음주에 혼인신고 하러 가는데 불수리 통지서를 받게 될 그 마음이 걱정이기도 하고 설레이기도 하네요 ㅎㅎ 그치만 망고부부도 저희도, 언젠가는 머지않아 혼인이 인정되지 않을까 하는 마음으로 하는거니까!! 두분도 진심으로 축하드리구요 ❤ 저희도! 용기내어 혼인신고 하고 오겠습니다 ㅎㅎ 화이팅이에요 🎉🎉 축하해요 ~~
감사합니당💕💕 부디 잘 하고 오셨기를....!!! 수리되는 그날을 위해서 함께 화이팅팅💕💕💕💕
영상 보고 많이 감동 받았습니다.
저도 팩님이랑 동갑인데, 연애 이상은 아예 생각도 안해본 것 같아요
계속 돈벌기 바빴는데 사랑하는 사람과 법적으로 인정받고, 아이도 키우고 싶다는 생각을 슬슬 하게 되네요
생각만 하지 않고 실천하시는데에 많이 감명 받았습니다.
여러분의 일상이 많은 사람에게 감동을 주고, 선한 영향력을 주고 있습니다
비록 불수리 되어도, 이런 사례가 하나하나 쌓이면 우리 나라도 언젠가 바뀌게 될거라고 생각합니다...!
혼인신고 정말 축하드리고, 언제나 행복하세요!
꿈꾸고 계속 두드리면 결국엔 이루어질겁니다~!
어떤 식으로든요~!!ㅎㅎ 댓글 정말 큰 힘이 됐어요
감사해요🥹🥹❤️❤️
Congratulations Kim and Pack. I can't wait for the day that Korea recognizes you legally as a couple. Keep fighting this good fight. Now I'll get a tissue and wipe away my tears of happiness for both of you.
62세 할머니에요.
두분 사랑 이성간의 그 어떤사랑 보다 절대 뒤지지 않습니다.
그리고 두분을 응원 하시는 부모님도 너무 멋지신 분들 이네요.
남의 눈이나 세상의 잣대보다는 내자식이 행복하기를 간절히 바라시고 지지 해주시는 모습에 존경심마저 들었습니다
오래 오래. 행복 하세요
항상 따듯한 마음으로 응원 합니다 ~^^
너무 감사해요 ㅠㅠ
그냥 62세 할머니라고 소개하셨지만 어떤 삶을 살아오셨는지 궁금할 정도로 따뜻한 마음과 열린 시각을 지니신 것 같아요!! 저도 응원하고 사랑합니다🥹🥹❤️❤️❤️
으악~~~~
답글 감사해요~^^
너무 행복 하네요.
항상 건강 하시고 좋은일만 있으시길 기도 합니닷~^^
Pack, you and Kim persevered. The lady at the last office seemed sympathetic and agreed that your application is IN THE SYSTEM, but you must just wait for the law to change. Kim offered a note of optimism where some companies are respecting the receipt as though they are a couple. 10 years together is almost unbelievable! Congratulations, and yes, let the tears flow!
저도 제 오랜 여자친구와 늘 이런 순간을 꿈꿔요! 아직 가족에게조차 말하지 못했지만 그래서 더더욱 영상을 보고 같이 눈물이 났네요ㅠㅠ 근 시일내에 성별과 상관 없이 사랑은 그저 사랑으로, 법적 효력이 있길 꼭 바라며 10주년의 발자국을 찍어주셔서 고맙고 축하드려요🎉🎉🎉❤❤❤
꼭 여자친구분과 원하시는대로 되실거라 믿어요❤️❤️❤️❤️
왜이리 눈물이 나죠
세금내고 누구보다 열심히 성실히 살고있음에도 법의 테두리안에 소속되지 못하는 소외감...
두분의 용기에 감사드리고 항상 응원할게요 결혼 축하드려요
감사해요🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰
Such love. I feel s honored that you two have chosen to share this experience with your RUclips family. You are such precious people. Being able to get married legally has its own challenges. I was blessed to witness my friends, Kevin and Karl get married a few years ago. Kevin was a retired US Air Force officer. A couple of years ago Kevin passed away and Karl is a widower. Kevin had to designate Karl as his beneficiary for the annuity from the military but life went on and he forgot. Now Karl is fighting to receive survivor benefits. Remember to have everything that your country allows, signed and filed in whatever procedure South Korea requires. You deserve all of the love and support in this world. I bow to you both.
Sincerely,
Grandma Sandra Claus, Colorado, USA.💔🤟🌺
Omg Crying with You I hope really soon Korea and other countries allow same sex marriages And everyone gets the rights to marry the person they love the same as heterosexual couples, I’ve been watching You 2 for a long time And I think the way you stand up for the lgbtq plus community is amazing Amazing Men ❤❤❤❤
두분의 사랑을 응원합니다.
앞으로 진짜 법이 바뀔꺼라 생각합니다.
옛날엔 남녀라도 동성동본이면 결혼 할 수 없었는데 법이 바꼈고, 자녀들이 아빠 성만 따랐는데 요즘은 엄마 성으로도 할 수 있잖아요. 두분 너무 축하드려요. 한치 앞을 모르는 세상 더 많이 사랑하시고, 더많이 아껴 주시고 오래오래 행복하세요.
그리고 예쁜 자녀도 꼭 만나길 바래요.🎉🎉
감사해요💕💕 동성동본 바꼈듯이 동성혼도 하루빨리...!:)
눈물이 납니다.. 그래도 부럽습니다.. '증인'
ㅠㅠ감사합니당❤️❤️❤️
Congratulations, you boys are the best. This is a new beginning but, I must say the silent to quiet conversation in the car is so normal on an especially significant day, straight or rainbow. We all do it to some degree. Nervous tension from 8.25am to the 'non acceptance' then the tears. You have done it as far as you can legally so Happy Anniversary to you both.
PS I watched twice, so proud.
아 진짜 감동ㅠ 부모님들 다 너무 좋으시고...제가 다 감사하네요 전 남매 키우면서 일찌감치 얘기 해둔게 이성, 동성 상관 없으니 나중에 이 사람과 사귀거나 결혼 원할 때 고민 말고 얘기하랬거든요 그 땐 오히려 애들이 싫어했지만😂 전 그렇게 미리 든든한 조력자이자 이해자라고 못 박았어요 그냥 살아도 힘든 세상인데 부모만큼은 온전히 내 편이라고 믿길 바랐거든요
두 분 부모님, 누나도 그런 마음이신 것 같아서 뭉클해요
법적으로도 효력있는 부부되시길, 진심으로 바라고 응원합니다!
너무 이상적인 부모님의 모습 같아 제가 다 감사하네요..😭😭❤️❤️❤️❤️ 최곱니다❤️❤️❤️이렇게 댓글로 공유해주셔서 감사해요
영상도 눈물 나는데 님의 댓글에도 눈물나네요~최상급 자녀 축복 부모님인듯 합니다~님의 자손들은 어떤 삶을 살든 안정된 정서로 잘사리라 믿습니다~
사람이 사람을 좋아하는데 ㅜㅜ 인정받아서 당당히 다닐 그날이 꼭 오길 빌어요^^
감사해용💕💕 망고들 최고최고🌈🌈
I am so proud of you both for having the courage to go forward with this knowing the outdated laws in Korea. In my mind you are already married and I wish I could vote to change your laws to eliminate discrimination. I don't understand why others feel threatened by the love of others. I look forward to your wedding ceremony! Congratulations!
현행 민법에는 그 어디에도 동성 간 혼인을 금한다는 구절이 없습니다. 다만 그럼에도 동성 간의 혼인을 인정할 수 없다는 태도인거죠. 세상은 느리지만 바뀌고 있습니다. 멀지 않은 시일에 동성 간의 혼인이 법의 테두리에서 인정받을 수 있는 날이 오리라고 확신합니다.
그때까지 용기내요 여러분
Nunca desistir do sonho de vcs dois pra mim vcs são maravilhosos casal perfeito ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤ abençoado por Deus 👏
헌법 36조 1항 혼인과 가족생활은 개인의 존엄과 “양성”의 평등을 기초로 성립되고 유지되어야 하며, 국가는 이를 보장한다.
@@랑리스테 헌법 제36조의 1항의 문언을 혼인이 남성과 여성의 결합으로만 이루어져야 함을 의미한다고 해석할 수 없습니다. 해당 문언의 기술 취지가 "평등"에 중점이 있기 때문이고, 학계나 실무가들 사이에서 헌법 제36조 1항을 선생님과 같이 해석해서는 결코 안된다는 주장이 다수 있습니다. 더불어 법률가라면 아시겠지만 해석방법론에는 다양한 접근방식이 있습니다. 헌법 제36조의 1항은 동성간 법적 결합을 인정하는데 걸림돌이 될 수 없고 오히려 보다 평등한 결혼 공동체를 구성해함이 헌법 정신임을 입증하고 있습니다.
둘다 좋은가정에서 잘 자랐네요
모든 패밀리로 유투브채널 알게 되었어요! 10주년 축하드리고 혼인신고도 축하드립니다 :)
반가워요🥹🥹 감시합니당❤️❤️
내심 같이 긴장하며 봤는데 직원분이 너무 좋고 친절하시네요ㅎㅎ 얼른 법이 바뀌는날이 오길!!!! 그날이오면 저도 이 영상 생각나서 너무 기쁜날이 될것 같아요
하루빨리 그날이 오길...!🙏🌈🌈🌈
Living in a country where same sex marriage is illegal , having the courage of your convictions and love for each other shows how much courage you 2 have , the pressure of which showing in your tears of relief . Congratulations to you both and i hope that south korea , being such an advancing country globally , can review its policy and welcome your marriage , we did it in the UK and so can south korea . Good luck guys , u r a beautiful couple 💋💋❤❤
57세 아줌마 입니다~
두분이 서로의 행복이라면 그건 당연한 거예요~너무 행복해 보여 보기 좋네요
축하해요 행복하세요♡♡
감사합니당🥹🥹🥹🌈🌈🌈
Im in the USA but, I cried through this whole video. Im a straight woman been married for 21 years almost 22 years but, I have 3 kids that are queer. I can't immagine a world where they couldnt marry who they wanted legally. I hope and wish so much for you guys one day very soon you can have a big PROUD GAY FABULOUS WEDDING in front of your closest friends and family and whoever supports your relationship. All I know is I love you guys and I am so sorry you have to go through all of this to have and be with who you want. Im super glad you guys found your person in this crazy place we call life though cause its not easy and we all need someone. Much love from Illinois😘😘😘❤❤🫶🫶🫶🫶
This is so powerful and beautiful. I'm crying with you.
Me too crying....
Same here 😢😢😢
두분 10주년 축하합니다🎉 또 한걸음 나아가셨네요 ! 지금 당장의 결과는 얻기 어렵더라도 정말 정말 큰 의미 있는일을 하신거라 생각해요! 그래도 이런 노력들이 모여서 좀 더 좋은 세상을 만드는거라 생각합니다~두분 멋져요 장해요! 토닥토닥😊
이번에 저희 큰아이 시험끝나면 아이들과 함께< 모든패밀리> 보고 얘기나눠보려고 해요 더불어 살아가는 세상❤ 어떤 형태이건 모든 가족을, 연인을 응원합니다!
감사합니다🥹🥹💕 어떤 형태든 모든 가족을 응원하는 세상!!!:)🌈🌈
You are absolutely changing the world for the better and your parents should be so proud. I know everyone here is. Congratulations.
18:50 - 안타깝게도 저는 두 분을 안아드리지 못했습니다. 울지 마세요. 한국에서도 세상이 바뀔 겁니다.
💕💕💕💕💕
Whew! I needed that morning cry! 😭 Congratulations to one of the most amazing couples! Praying that one day soon your marriage will be legally recognized in SK! Thank you for sharing this journey with us and always know there are so many people around the world supporting you both! Sending hugs!! 🤗🫶❤🧡💛💚💙💜
Thanks a lot💕💕💕🙏
동성애자분돌 협오했었는데 요즘 유튜브에 많이... 시청해보니까 오히려 이성애보다 더 진심이고 예쁜사랑 같아요 특히 두 부부님들 부모님께도 허락받고 십년이면 짧은시간도 아닌데 혼인신고까지 하셨다니 정말 예쁘고 감동입니다 부디 검은머리 파뿌리되도록 변함없이 자~~~사셔서 전설이 되어 주시기를....부럽기도 하네요 행복하세요~~~^^
감사해용💕💕💕 자주자주 만나요🎵
헤테로커플에서 결혼 혼인신고 이렇게 순조롭게 한 제가 이걸보면서 마음이 너무 아파서 눈물이 나네요.. 미안함 마음도 들고요.
동성커플이라는 이유하나로 국가의 보호를 받지못하는모습도 헤테로커플이였으면 바로 받을 수 있는 종이한장뿐인 혼인신고서도 허락이 안된다는 것에 속상함과 동시에 국가에 대한 분노도 생기네요... ㅠㅠ
저는 언제나 망원댁을 응원하고 함께 동행할거에요!!!
🥹🥹🥹 감동감동 ㅠㅠ 감사해요💕💕💕💕💕
우리나라도 인식이 조금씩 바뀌는 중인거 같아요!! 드라마나 영화에 동성에 대한 내용도 많아지고.. 원래는 거의 다른나라밖에 없었는데..
마자여!! 웨이브에 모든패밀리도 나오고...!💕💕💕
I have been following you guys for some years now, and really this video brings me so many emotions… you both deserve all the happiness in this world and it makes me so happy that you guys took the courage to register your marriage, I really hope it can be processed one day. You are really changing the lgbtq+ community in korea for the best! I am so proud of you and to be your fan! I hope for same sex marriage legalization in Korea to be accepted soon 🥺. 망고 커플의 팬이라는 것이 자랑스럽습니다. 좋은 일만 가득하길 바랍니다 ❤️
정말정말 고마워요❤️❤️
양가 부모님이 쿨하시게 허락을 하시네요 부모님이 대단하시네요 반대가 심할수도 있는데
ㅎㅎㅎ부모님은 저희가 앞으로 잘 살아가는데 도음 되는거리면 뭐든 해라 주의라서요..ㅎㅎㅎ
@@mango.couple 멋있으시네요 ~~^^
축하드려요🎉 눈물 흘리며 봤어요.. ㅠㅠ 멋진 두 분 항상 행복하시길 ❤❤
감사드려여...🥹🥹🥹🙏
A big Bravo for the successful registration of your wedding. You show unimaginable courage, I wipe my tears hoping that this is only the beginning and that many other LBGT+ couples will do the same. After Thailand we will surely see Korea pass a new law for this third millennium.
We embrace you and congratulate you for these ten years of common life to share joys and difficulties. 👨🏻❤👨🏻
Thank you so much❤️❤️
Congratulations Pack and Kim.
The courage you have shown through your vlogs over the years is inspiring. I hope your courage will inspire the change needed in your country to accept your marriage as equal.
I wish you health and happiness in the years to come.
Congratulations to you both! 10 years wow... This moment will mark you both as pioneers in your country who drove the need for change and acceptance. Your legacy continues to bless you and prospers everything you two touch. ❤ 🙏🏾
Let’s all push for a future where we can all love and be treated equally! No matter your orientation you should be passionate in your want for equality 🤍 drive is what makes change! And hopefully Korea will follow in Thailand’s footsteps soon
I am so proud of the two of you. Well done for finding the courage to do this. I fully support your decision and hope it will not be too long before Korea sees the light and realises Love is Love . I know not having the legal protection and the formal documentation must be heart breaking, but to me you will always be husband and husband 👨❤💋👨. I look forward to the day you are truly recognised by your country and hopefully get to start a family. Until then I stand with you and if you need us (your supporting and loving community) we are here for you no matter what - just ask. We love you both. Congratulations on this very special day. 🥰
*I pray for marriage equality in South Korea. 🥰 This made me cry. I LOVE you guys and pray for equality. ♥️LOVE 🟰LOVE🏳️🌈*
내나이
50중반을 향해 달려가는대 우리때는 상상할 수 없던 멋진일들울 하시네요 조금더ㅜ시간이
지나면 법적으로 동성부부가 될 수 있을거라봅니다 고생하셧구요 행복하세요
넘 감사해요...🥹🥹🥹💕
지나가는 40살 아줌마요~
두분 인상도 선하시구 착하신거 같아요
우리나라 인식이 빨리 개선되었으면 좋겠어요
두분 이쁜사랑 하시구 꽃길만 걸으세요!!!
감사합니다🥹🥹❤️❤️❤️최고최고❤️❤️❤️
여러분 이제 동성커플도 피부양자 등록 가능하다고 법으로 인정 받았어요. 동성이든 이성이든 사랑하는 분이랑 오래오래 행복하게 사셨으면 해요
감사해요💕💕 넘 의미있는 판결....🌈🌈
울면서 봤어요 혼인신고 촉하드리고 함께 세상을 조금씩 바꿔봐요!
감사해용🌈🌈 차츰차츰 변화하는 세상...!:)
Firstly CONGRATULATIONS 🎉🎉🎉 Secondly hang in there boys, Thailand has recognised same sex marriage, I think it just has to go to the King before it is law, Hopefully Korea will be next. Keep up the fight ❤ we all love you
존재 자체가 운동이다 형들!!!! 너무 축하하고 늘 응원해❤❤❤❤❤❤
거마워💕💕💕💕💕
It is "the beginning," beginning of change, courage, and a step forward. Congratulations! ❤ wishing you continued happiness.
Courage !! Congratulations to the Kim and Park for your marriage !! I am sure it wasn't easy but you both have confirmed your love for each other . It might be seen as a personal victory but message goes far beyond. You have shown your fellow countrymen and the world that love comes in different forms. You have proven gay love is just like any other love. No more and no less. Marriage is for two persons who want to share their lives together and you both have shown us (global us) it is possible !! Congras and thank you !! All the best to you both !!!
I wish you both alot of happiness... Wish the law changes soon and many more couple like you both get the chance to be happy
혼인신고 축하드리고 망고커플 오래오래 행복하세요!!🎉🎉🎉🎉❤❤❤❤
감사해요😭😭❤️
I wanted to wait with my commentary until I've seen the second part. I have now done so and can now comment. First and most importantly, congratulations. Even if your marriage can't be officially registered because the law doesn't allow it, I am so proud of you and happy for you. You are two amazing and wonderful people who love each other with heart and soul. I love your couple videos so much because you are an authentic couple who occasionally give an insight into your everyday life. No acting and pretending. Just two men who have been a couple for 10 years now and still love each other very much, even if there are arguments now and then. I hope you grow old together and continue to love each other so sincerely.
Here in Germany, same-sex couples have been allowed to marry legally for a few years now. I was so happy for the LGBTQ+ community that it even brought tears to my eyes. I wish for you and all the same-sex couples in Korea and all over the world that the law will finally change in your favor. After all, same-sex couples are nothing more than two people who love each other so much that they want to get married. No one should be forbidden to do so. Because love is love! And what could be more important than that? Best wishes to you both.
구청직원분 친절히 응대해주셔서 감가합니다
넘 감사했던 구청 직원분...!🥰
10주년 축하드리고 혼인신고 하신 것도 정말 축하드려요🎉🎉🎉(두 분 기념일마다 투닥이는
거 진짜 넘 웃겨요,,,😂)
혼인신고 하는 과정 자체는 상상했던 것보다 평화(?)로웠지만 법대로, 절차대로 라는 이름 아래 순식간에 불수리 처리되는 거에 순간 무력감을 느껴서 저도 눈물이😢 그럼에도 불구하고 10주년인 오늘 새로운 변화의 점을 선명하게! 무지개빛으로 찍은 이 순간이 두 분을 법의 테두리 안에서 보호 받을 수 있는 가족이 되는 순간으로 꼭 데려다 놓을 것이라 생각해요!
킴님이 퀴퍼에서 말했던 그 퍼즐조각! 끝까지
맞춰가요~~~~❤🎉🎉🎉 망원댁 부부👬🏻 화이팅!!!!!!
퀴퍼 퍼즐조각 이야기 기억해주시다니.. 뭉클🥹 마지막 조각까지...!🌈🌈🌈
미국에서 20년넘게 살고있는 한국아줌마예요. 제가 현재 살고 있는 시애틀은 동성결혼합법화가 된지 12년정도가 됬어요. 미국도 동성애자들의 길고 치열한 사투끝에 동성결혼이 합법화됬고 지금은 이성애자도 동성애자도 양성애자도 무성애자도 범성애자도 그냥 다 법적인 혜택을 똑같이 받으며 개개인의 주관적인 생각이나 믿음과 별개로 법적인 제도의 혜택인에 서로 다같이 조화롭게 살고 있어요. 동성부부의 입양도 가능하고요. 그냥 다양한 형태의 부부와 가족형태가 더불어 다같이 살아가요. 제 오랜 직장의 상사도 게이였고 제 남편의 가장 친한 직장 동료도 스무살 차이나는 게이였고. 제 남편은 그 게이동료를 아들처럼 친구처럼 대해줬어요. 한국은 아직도 많이 보수적이고 사실 한국은 보수적이라가보단 나와 다른거를 포용하지 못하는 사회라는게 더 맞는 분석일겁니다. 나와 다른 성정체성뿐 아니라 나와 다른 생각, 나와 다른 정치관, 나와 다른 가치관 기타등등 나와 다른 무언가를 포용하고 관용하는 사회가 아니죠. 너무 오랜동안 좁은 땅에서 같은 민족끼리만 살아와서 다양한 인종 종교 가치관을 가진 아민자들이 모여살기 시작한 미국과는 사고방식자체가 다를수밖에 없구요
보수적인건 미국도 꽤나보수적인 사람들이.많이 사는 나라인데 미국과 한국의 차아점이라면 나와 다른것에 대한 관용과 포용성에 대한 교육의 부재일겁니다. 미국도 종교관때문에 동성애를 싫어하는 사람들 꽤 많습니다. 다만 그런 미국인들조차 기본적인 생각은 동성애자들도 이성애자들이 누리는 행복을 추구할 권리 (결혼이나 입양 기타등등)는 보호받아야 맞는거다란 평등의식을 가지고 있다는게 한국과 다른거죠. 한국은 성정체성뿐 아니라 정치 사회 가치관 생각등 거의 모든 분야에서 주류에 속하지 않으면 짓밟아 없애거나 주류에 맞게 만들어야한다는 사고가 팽배한 사회구요. 다름과 다양성을 포용하지 못하는 사회죠.
저랑 남편은 너무 쉽게 몇분만에 끝낸 혼인신고를 님들이 수락받지 못한다는 느낌이 어떤건지 전 다 이해하진 못하겠지만 제가 그 입장이라도 참 서러울거 같아요. 10년이나 같이 산 사실혼 관계의 두 사람이 부부가 아니면 뭘까? 이런 부부가 왜 법적으로 보호받지 못하나? 하는 많은 생각이 듭니다. 결론만 말씀드리자면, 미국의 동성애자들처럼 한국의 동성애자분들이 피튀기는 사투를 벌여 원하는 결과를 이끌어내는 방법밖엔 없다고 말씀드릴수밖에 없네요. 이성애자들은 성정체성문제에 있어선 사회 기득권자들이고 역사상 기득권자들은 절대 피기득권자들을 대신해서 먼저 나서서 싸워주진 않기때문입니다. 한때 투표권도 없었던 여성들이 피튀기게 싸워서 여권신장도 해결해야했듯이 피기득권자는 본인들이 원하는게 있으면 기득권자들에 맞서 싸우고 투쟁해서 원하는걸 쟁취하는거밖엔 방법이 없어요. 역사상 늘 그래왔어요. 인생은 결국 그 누구도 내 대신 내 이익을 위해 싸워주지 않으니까요.
제가 할수 있는건 모든 동성애자분들에게 응원과 지지를 보내는것뿐입니다..전 그 누구도 사적인 공간에서 누가 누구와 어떻게 사랑을 나누건 비난할수도 판단할수도 없다고 생각합니다. 사람이 누군가를 사랑한다는게 누구에게도 비난 받을 일은 아니라고 생각합니다. 인생 생각보다 많이 짧아요. 그 짧은 시간에 부디 두분이 많이 사랑하고 아끼며 이성애자들 보다 더 행복하고 즐겁게 사세요. 그리고 시간이 좀 더 지나면 한국도 동성결혼 합법화가 되는 날이 꼭 올거라고 믿습니다.
정성껏 써주신 긴 글일 읽는데 마지막에는 눈물이 그렁그렁 맺히네요ㅎㅎ 사실 전 지금도 너무 행복하고 모든 것들이 다 잘될거라 믿으며 살고있답니다ㅎㅎ
동성애 이성애를 떠나서 사랑하는 가족들과 사랑하는 배우자와 행복하게 사는 사는것만한 복이 없다고 생각합니다~ㅎㅎ
아마 글쓴이 분도 무척이나 행복한 삶을 사시는 분이라거 느껴졌어요!!ㅎㅎ 감사합니다 오늘도 행복한 하루 보내셧길 바랍니다❤️❤️❤️
망고커플 혼인신고 진심으로
추카추카 드려요^^
감사해요💕💕💕💕
You two are part of making the world better, one step at a time. We are all so proud of you! 💜 Your actions, no matter how small or big they might seem to you or others, are changing the world. Never forget that💜💜
망원댁 부부의 작은 두드림이 큰 변화의 시작이 되길 기도 합니다. 감사합니다.
감사해요...! 하루빨리 수리가 될 수 있기를...!💕
You guys made me cry too🤧 but this is tears of happyness 😊♥️first of all hearty congratulations for your 10th anniversary and happily married ever after ❤ yes we also feel sad that Korean law didn't register same-sex marriage yet..even though you guys did your best for eachother ❤❤we are so happy for that ❤i wish both of you to stay happily everafter together ❤❤Love from Nepal ❤❤
Though you already anticipated the outcome but still hoping it will be positive. So thus the saying goes. Keep your hopes high but keep your expectation low. It a cushion for a negative results. But a Big Congratulations to both of you. Happy 10th year Anniversary and Happy to registering your Marriage. Damn I need to stop slicing onions. Sobbing with you.
Wow! What an emotional day and really quite moved that you shared that with us.
I've already given my congratulations on your 10th anniversary but happy to say it again.
So good that you met a nice lady at the registration office.
Wishing that before too long we can celebrate your official marriage. Meanwhile as you said, in your hearts you are already married and that is a wonderful thing to know. Hugs and love from the UK. D xx
시작은 작은 걸음이었지만 정말 행복한 결과로 올꺼라고 믿어요 그날까지 행복하게 건강하게 !!!!!!화이팅❤
한걸음 한걸음씩...!:) 화이팅💕💕💕🌈
This is the first video of yours I have watched. And I plan on watching many more. I am a 57 year old Caucasian straight woman in the US, but I cannot wait for the day when ALL people who love each other, no matter what gender, identity, or arrangement, or country, can get legally married in any country and be recognized in any country. I cannot wait for the day when all of this is a non-issue and no one even has to think twice about getting married to whomever they love.
You both are already married in my eye❤❤congratulations🎉
Congratulations on having the courage to go through this process knowing the legal complications you face and for having families who support you. This certainly makes your 10th anniversary most memorable. May the day soon arrive when Korea formally recognizes marriage equality! God bless you in every way! ❤❤
Felicidades..este es el comienzo de una historia unica!!..cuidense, y sean felices
. estoy feliz por ustedes
I am so proud of your boldness, and also of your parents who come from a generation where it is not at all obvious to accept you as you are (but as they should !), which really means how much they love you - openly and without conditions❣🏳🌈
I'm so happy for you! Congratulations on registering your marriage and happy 10th anniversary!!
Thank you so much…🥹🥹❤️👀
CONGRATULATIONS! Yes, I’m officially dehydrated from all the crying I’ve done watching your videos. Your tears and ambivalent feelings are certainly understandable. This was a bittersweet day. The joy of your commitment , the nervousness of courageously proclaiming your love knowing it would be rejected, and the reality of the rejection caused such pressure to build inside both of you. You needed the release. My son is also gay, and although we live in the US, his religion does not allow same sex relationships, let alone marriage. My heart breaks for him knowing that he is unable to even dream of having what you have. You are brave and true pioneers in the quest for LGBTQ rights in Korea. You have wonderful parents and family which explains why you are able to love so deeply. I loved the messages from your friends as well. And you’re right…this is not over, it’s just the beginning! ❤
"Um casamento feliz se constrói com muito amor, carinho e compreensão. Que esses sentimentos estejam sempre presentes em suas vidas.” “Que esta nova etapa da vida seja repleta de realizações.” “O casamento é mais que um compromisso para toda vida, ele é a mais bela missão do amor.” Parabéns aos dois! Aguardando que todos os países possam aceitar que todos somos iguais! ❤
멋지고 응원합니다. 처음 댓글 남겨요! ❤
감사해용💕💕💕 자주자주 댓글로 만나요 망고💕💕
im not crying your crying 🥹 both of you deserve the world congratulations and I hope that the law will be changed soon but as I'm sure you know the love between you is remarkable and so inspiring and will hopefully spark a change. its of love keep fighting ❤❤
망고커플님 가족분들처럼 응원해줄 수 있는 그런 사람 되고 싶어요😊 10주년 축하합니다🎉
감사해요!!🥹🥹❤️❤️❤️❤️
망고커플 10주년에, 혼인신고까지 축하해요! 백년해로하시길!
감사해여!! 백년해로 평생해로💕💕🌈
Pack and Kim! Congrats on this big step!!! It is sad that your country doesn't recognize your union, but you have so many mangos who do !!! This was such a touching video in so many ways! Was also great to see Hansol and the other familiar faces who have been visitors on your channel!!! We must keep fighting the good fight!! Love you guys!!! ❤️❤️❤️🎉🎉🎉🫰🫰🫰
사랑하는 마음을 어찌 할 수 없는 거잖아요~ 무튼 축하드리고 행복하세요~
감사해요💕💕💕💕 화이팅팅 함께 행복해요!!!:)
My heart is reaching out to you 2 brave heros! You have accomplished so many mile stones in your life! You will get stronger and more powerful. The more people supports you from all over the world. Heads up dont't give in and up. 😘🏳🌈🏳🌈🏳🌈Look what Thailand achieved this year. We love and supports you with all our love.
당신 부모님이 좋은 사람들 ❤
맞아요!!
Thank you for sharing such a beautiful moment that made me cry with you both. Your courage should be applauded, and I infinitely support and cheer for you both from here.❤
Loved this And wish them the best and happiest life together!!❤❤❤
Congratulations! This is such a meaningful step, not only for you as a couple, but for everyone you share your lives with. Change and equality only happen when courageous people from marginalized communities take steps to make it happen. With more couples registering despite the rejection, with people like you, who show in your videos that you are no different from other spouses, with more people publicly showing support for same-sex marriage and more same-sex relationship themes coming out in the entertainment industry as it has been in recent years, I think change is inevitable. You are an important part of this wave of social enlightenment that is already working to make this world a better place. Love you guys! And I just have to say that Pack's parents are the best. Your marriage registration was something that they both expected and supported. 💕
Thanks💕💕💕😍
영상은 알림 뜰때마다 잘보는데 댓글은 정말 정말 오랜만에 올리네요~~~^^ 🎉🎉🎉축하 축하 드려요. 또 한걸음 나아가시는 모습에 항상 응원하고 사랑합니다:) 더 행복하고 기쁜소식 한걸음앞에 소식도 덩달아 기다릴거에요*.*😊 웃음가득 행복소식도 가득하시길 응원해요😊
댓글 너무나 큰 힘이 됩니다~!!!
앞으로도 함께해주세요🥹🥹❤️
😢 I cried with you both. Hopefully one day you will be able to get your wish. The barriers you are facing may not be in your favor but it will happen and you can a civil union for 10 years. Marriage is more than an application or certificate of a union. It is the love, understanding, and respect you all have for each other. Both of you are wonderful, beautiful souls, and that application/certification of a paper will not define your true love you share. With that being said, I pronounce you husband and husband in the eyes of all that have watched you on RUclips and in front of the loved ones that love you for, you. May you continue to have many more stunning years together filled with love, understanding, and support for as long as you all may live. 👨❤️👨🏳️🌈👨❤️💋👨
I wish that you happiness and a good life
I hope in the future gay rights are more expanded upon and marriage is possible
Love from India❤
Congratulations Kim and Pack. I've been rooting for you and I'm so happy for you both. Long life and happiness ❤
브라보 여러분, 우리는 당신을 매우 사랑하고 당신을 위해 행복합니다. 인생이 당신에게 좋은 일만 가져다주기를 바랍니다. 스위스에서 인사드립니다.🤗😘🤗
감사합니다🥹🥹❤️❤️
Congratulations to you! I cried watching your video, especially the love and support from your parents. That is such a treasure. Many blessings for your future and may you soon be able to have a legally recognized marriage🩵
22:37 망원댁 최연소 아기 출연이네요 ㅋㅋ 아고이뽀라 💓💓
킴💓팩 10주년 축하드리구요 지금처럼 쭉쭉쭉 행복하세요~~~🎉🎉
넘 귀엽죵ㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋ 감사해용 망고들도 함께 해피💕🌈🌈🌈
The whole video is so heartwarming from them deciding to register their marriage on their 10th anniversary to parents being so understanding and accepting to the worker in the registration office(she seem kind) . Hope the law gets soon in favor of LGBTQ 🤞
이제 시작이네요 열심히 응원할게요 축하드려요🥰
이제 시작이다!!!:) 감사해용!! 함께 화이팅🌈🌈
I loved this so much, but also understand your mixed feelings. It takes real courage to walk into a situation where you know you will be rejected, and hold your heads up high. And for what it’s worth, you are married, in all the most important ways. I wish that Korea will recognize your relationship soon, at least in the form of some kind of civil partnership. And in the meantime, maybe you could plan a trip to a country with gay marriage and get something official done, so your relationship will be recognized in many countries, even if not in the one you value most. Big love to you both xxx
저 접수증 하나 받는데도
참 오랜 시간이 걸렸네요..
태국 등 다른 나라들 처럼
우리 나라도 하루 빨리 동성결혼
법제화가 되기를 바랍니다
고생 많으셨어요☺️
동성혼 법제화 가즈아!!!:)
Hopefully acts like yours keep raising awareness and easing the path for legalization.
축하드려요! 꼭 수리되는 날이 하루빨리 오기를 바랍니다!
수리수리 가즈아~!!!🌈🌈
The marriage registeration that u both guys have done not only an inspirition but a hope for the people like me....thank u being a hope for us