Enneagram: Defense Strategy Type 2

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  • Опубликовано: 10 фев 2025
  • Discover the fascinating defense mechanism of Enneagram Type Twos with Dr. Tom in this insightful video. Learn about the challenges and encouragements faced by Type Twos, and how their repression defense strategy can impact their relationships. If you want to understand more about yourself or your loved ones, this video is a must-watch. Don't forget to subscribe for more Enneagram insights!
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Комментарии • 22

  • @IVIIIVII78
    @IVIIIVII78 11 месяцев назад +5

    we hurt ourselves by repressing our needs and wants and we self-sabotage the very relationships we give ourselves up for. we literally give ourselves up and expect others to see our sacrifice. if they don't, wait for the passive aggressive and flat out cruel behavior. oh boy can we become mean and in the end we feel guilty and worthless for losing our minds and acting out.
    having firm boundaries is key. also stay away from pushy, selfish people.

  • @claudiaalvarenga1283
    @claudiaalvarenga1283 11 месяцев назад +3

    From a 2 Thank you you are spot on so grateful for your ministry

    • @twlahue
      @twlahue  11 месяцев назад

      Thanks

  • @tinyfacemcgee9211
    @tinyfacemcgee9211 2 месяца назад

    I just got all your free ebooks! Thank you! When I’m out of reflexology school in June I want to study in your coaching program! You are the best💕💕💕💕💕💕

  • @margaretjudice8944
    @margaretjudice8944 11 месяцев назад +3

    Great video! I'm a 2 and the Disease to please was a good book. Great advice! Thank you for sharing!

    • @twlahue
      @twlahue  11 месяцев назад

      Thanks

  • @florianewu1886
    @florianewu1886 11 месяцев назад +2

    So a type #2, so accurate!!! LOL... So helpful to recognize when I go to the stress vs. the growth types. Ty!

    • @twlahue
      @twlahue  11 месяцев назад

      Awesome

  • @johanetalicekriel1362
    @johanetalicekriel1362 8 месяцев назад +1

    Very insightful, thanks. 🙏 And oof, I've said so many times to my therapist that I feel like both the bus and the bus driver - just catering to everyone's needs till I break down by the side of the road in a very messy way. Sincerely thank you for always being gentle with explaining 2s pride and "manipulation"; we really do fall into shame so fast. 💗 I'll try the "punchiness" and the books, thanks. 💪

    • @johanetalicekriel1362
      @johanetalicekriel1362 8 месяцев назад

      PS My SO is a 5 and was literally just telling me about how the Towers of Silence are struggling because the vultures are dying from the ibuprofen they're ingesting from cattle and human corpses. This was just after dinner with our 2 pre-schoolers in the room. 😂🎶Can you feel the love tonight? 🎶😉

    • @twlahue
      @twlahue  7 месяцев назад

      Sounds like you're running a whole bus service, don't forget to make a stop for yourself! 😄

  • @Edison.7709
    @Edison.7709 11 месяцев назад

    I currently teach a 7 week course called spiritual DNA. Through this course we take 4 assessments to learn your spiritual DNA. The enneagram is one of the assessments. I am so thankful for your videos and always advise my class to watch your videos if they want a deeper dive into their type. Thank you for sharing your knowledge with us.

    • @twlahue
      @twlahue  11 месяцев назад

      That is great, thanks

  • @ohtoobeetall
    @ohtoobeetall 8 месяцев назад

    I’m a Two. Another piece of repression is that there is soooo much need there, soooo much difficult emotion, sometimes I can’t cope with how painful it is. And if I ask someone to sit with me in the painful process, it’s emotionally devastating if they don’t show up for me.

    • @twlahue
      @twlahue  8 месяцев назад

      Right.

  • @lebenergy247
    @lebenergy247 11 месяцев назад +1

    This is very helpful news and information

    • @twlahue
      @twlahue  11 месяцев назад +1

      Thanks.

  • @adaccardo7702
    @adaccardo7702 11 месяцев назад +1

    My wing is “ not detectable “. Changes🤷‍♀️ But I would like to know how all the types handle trauma and if your own enneagram is shaped from it.

    • @adaccardo7702
      @adaccardo7702 11 месяцев назад

      I take time for myself now. Putting it in action is easier when I help others

  • @ilovearashiandalanladd6922
    @ilovearashiandalanladd6922 11 месяцев назад

    Please keep doing the defence strategy videos for the rest of the enneagrams :)

    • @twlahue
      @twlahue  11 месяцев назад

      Will do.