NRM Leaving a Legacy Part Two

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  • Опубликовано: 17 дек 2024

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  • @margaretdavidson935
    @margaretdavidson935 Год назад +27

    My best friend's husband made a self published book about his mom and dad. It told their story of meeting in a concentration camp during WW2 and surviving to get married and emigrate to Canada. He made enough copies for his siblings and all of their children so that they would know where they came from and how lucky they all are. He had one left over so he gave it to me. What an honour.

  • @dianalama1591
    @dianalama1591 Год назад +3

    Tears have been shed😢 THANKYou for sharing.

  • @joseeross7218
    @joseeross7218 Год назад +13

    I am french but I will do my best in english, please bare with me 😉I work in a non-profit organisation and we just started a new project where our trained volonteers meet seniors interested in leaving their Legacy. The volonteers meet them several times, listen to them, record them and then write their storys. We then print it and offer it to the family. It is a wonderfull expreience and people just LOVE it! Love your videos 😊

  • @ysag.1227
    @ysag.1227 Год назад +5

    I feel that the key to leaving a legacy is also knowing that less is more. I have over 20,000 photos in the cloud! Who is going to EVER look through all that? Recently I have started going through my photos and actually creating digital albums of the best moments that way they are a pleasure to look at. I may print them into actual physical albums.

    • @akontarini
      @akontarini Год назад

      ❤ the idea..
      Same here...long life does that to us...😂

    • @maryjomccallister9102
      @maryjomccallister9102 Год назад

      You'd be surprised. We have probably 10 huge boxes of photos that were our mom and dads and grandparents. Everytime we get together we sit down after the meal and go through the memories. Now we do a slide show of our digital photos with our grandkids. We share laughs and some tears at the memories.

  • @valerie718
    @valerie718 Год назад +30

    I just knew you were a girl dad! My dad also raised three daughters. Unfortunately he passed away in 2015 at the young age of 67. Your common sense approach to life and advice remind me of him. I enjoy your channel very much.

    • @valerie718
      @valerie718 Год назад +2

      @@cyber4052 Wow! How sad that your dad didn’t get to be with you all in his retirement years. I’m very grateful my parents gave us girls lots of good memories. We lived together in separate houses if you know what I mean.

    • @ethelliott5083
      @ethelliott5083 Год назад +1

      Beautiful video, thanks

    • @kzZnAT0r
      @kzZnAT0r 11 месяцев назад

      💚💚💚

  • @simply.clutterfree
    @simply.clutterfree Год назад +21

    "There are pieces of your life your kids will never know". This is so true. Especially for those who might choose not to talk about their traumatic pasts...but at least you'd have these stories. It's almost like the opposite end of a child's baby book where you record things they'd never know or remember about themselves. I'm disappointed we never thought of anything like this before my MIL suddenly passed away. I'll look into it for my FIL.

    • @akontarini
      @akontarini Год назад

      Older generations kept traumatic events to themselves...unfortunately this is my family as well...

    • @kzZnAT0r
      @kzZnAT0r 11 месяцев назад +1

      💚💚💚

    • @simply.clutterfree
      @simply.clutterfree 11 месяцев назад

      @@kzZnAT0r ❤️

  • @brentk9520
    @brentk9520 Год назад +21

    glad your channel was recommended from you tube. this is the kind of channel that really gets people thinking about what is really important in life. thanks!

  • @munirasultana2313
    @munirasultana2313 Год назад +13

    Last year, my old man passed away. The way you speak reminds me of my father... so much respect for You, Sir 💝

  • @zackbunch4268
    @zackbunch4268 Год назад +15

    I may have just shed a tear. Thank you for all you do for our family.

  • @maureenhunter11
    @maureenhunter11 Год назад +12

    What a
    Special Dad you are .

  • @andreashimer7197
    @andreashimer7197 Год назад +3

    My daughter in law gifted me storyworth. I just published my book that I will gift to my 7 grandkids. So many stories of my life that my kids did not know about me. This was such an amazing gift …. To not only me but future generations.

  • @grace.majeed
    @grace.majeed Год назад +4

    I love this idea! I think I will gift this to my parents who are in their early 60s. I would love to have something for me and my kids.

  • @sallieredman7349
    @sallieredman7349 Год назад +1

    My husband is doing it. Story worth. It’s fabulous. How I wish my grandparents had been around to do it.

  • @kaymojil7669
    @kaymojil7669 Год назад +3

    Curating your message is a gift. So many people are taken with no prior warning. As someone who spent years hunting for those nuggets, it’s a beautiful concept.

  • @helencantimagine
    @helencantimagine 8 месяцев назад

    My oldest daughter bought me a similar storytelling book, one for me and one each for her and her siblings. The storytelling is a GREAT legacy.

  • @joani2675
    @joani2675 Год назад +1

    One word that sums up this video and that is beautiful ❤️🇬🇧🇬🇧🇬🇧

  • @chuckmaddison2924
    @chuckmaddison2924 Год назад +2

    I left work at the start of the year due to injury. I'm still a few years off retirement age. I'm wondering what now. A trip to UK would be nice . Just before dad died he gave me $3000 . I asked what it was for.
    He said it was to cover my costs to go with him to UK. We never went , it would have been difficult, and I don't think the airline would have let him go. I guess the lesson in that is do it now, whatever it might be.

  • @janettebolin2991
    @janettebolin2991 Год назад +1

    I’ve seen ads for this and wondered exactly how it worked and if it was worth looking into. Thanks for sharing!

  • @Preparingforyourpassingllc
    @Preparingforyourpassingllc Год назад +4

    I’m an End of Life Doula specializing in helping people create Legacy Projects.
    We are all different and can leave Legacy Projects that are fitting for each of us in regards to our passions.

  • @jeffhogan7991
    @jeffhogan7991 Год назад +3

    Second video of yours I’ve watched now. I’m enjoying them. I just retired at 53 from 32 years of local government. I have 5 kids from 10 years to 24 years old. I’m looking at all my home videos and photos and I’m rarely in them. Lol. I started a channel a year ago for them and me…..but I’ve just been so busy still. But….. you’ve inspired me. Thanks.

  • @2006jayden
    @2006jayden Год назад +1

    Awesome idea, Thank you

  • @GiovannaSessantaSei
    @GiovannaSessantaSei Год назад +7

    Another wonderful, heartfelt episode, thank you for sharing!
    The gift you’re giving your descendants isn’t merely the journey of your life & memories, but also your perspective of the events & relationships in your role as son/Dad/Grandfather. As they mature and better understand the broader complexities and joys & struggles of family relationships, their appreciation of that perspective you’ve recorded will grow tenfold. ❤

  • @lose999
    @lose999 Год назад +3

    I choked up...this content is amazing. Thank you.

  • @LauraRodriguez-Peace
    @LauraRodriguez-Peace Год назад +4

    You had me in tears.
    Lifetime memories for you and your family.
    Thanks for sharing, Tim. 💜

  • @cinderellafan362436
    @cinderellafan362436 Год назад +1

    Amazing. Thank you for sharing! It is important for us all to remember where we came from and where we ended up and everything along the way. 😊 Some of the best memories are in the small, seemingly insignificant moments of every day. Thank you for reminding us to share our memories and create a legacy for generations to come. ❤️

  • @sandysmom100
    @sandysmom100 Год назад

    I am to writing a book ! Both my youngest adult children were diagnosed with bipolar and other mental illness ! I have been separated from their dad for 25 years . Also my daughter was born with a rare syndrome so she’s constantly sick with minor and major issues . I suffer froM crippling anxiety . I need to write it’s therapeutic !
    I also started a huge decluttering journey in 2019 seriously . Since I have to care for my daughter full time , I don’t have time to chase clutter . I can’t believe over the years how much I’ve spent over 100.000 dollars on the latest fashion ect . I feel guilty , but one has to give themself grace and room to grieve your guilty feelings .
    I like this a lot ! Trips over the years , have many memories .

  • @debjohansen7867
    @debjohansen7867 Год назад +1

    Your video left me speechless and full of reflection of my life and family. I've got a lot to think about. Thank you for sharing something so important and personal.

  • @evelynr.4151
    @evelynr.4151 Год назад +2

    Wonderful

  • @NonaMaryGrace1952
    @NonaMaryGrace1952 Год назад +2

    Your one of my favorite speakers 💕NonnaGrace 🐓

  • @nancyfahey7518
    @nancyfahey7518 Год назад

    Beautiful. Thank you.

  • @fwebster6226
    @fwebster6226 Год назад +3

    Great idea. There are some wonderful and important memories to be shared

  • @rondawallis957
    @rondawallis957 Год назад +3

    I'm getting so many excellent ideas from you! Thank you!

  • @irenecase7786
    @irenecase7786 Год назад

    Brilliant video......I shared all your emotions as you spoke about the trip to Scotland/Cambridge/London. I agree Les Miserables, terrific. 😊 🇬🇧

  • @firstmate015
    @firstmate015 Год назад

    Registered right there at the top of my need to leave our family story even before I cross over to the other side. Spirituality is of great importance, but family gives meaning to spirituality in my opinion. Just last Sunday my 34 year old granddaughter got a big ol' lesson on life that she said she would always cherish because it was direct and came as a spur of the moment conversation.

  • @sigrunasa
    @sigrunasa Год назад +5

    Thank you, thank you, thank you, that is exactly the answer to my search for a way to tell about life so far. Especially urgent I find, since my husband passed away a few years ago and there are a lot of memories that now exist in my own head only. After that happened I have felt such a strange, heavy responsibility and urge to share things about him and about me, so it will not just disappear when I leave. And as you say, we dont sit down and begin to tell stories. For sure I am going to check this out. Again, thank you for talking about things that really matter.

    • @TheNewRetiredMe
      @TheNewRetiredMe  Год назад

      I’m so glad it was especially relevant for you!

    • @kzZnAT0r
      @kzZnAT0r 11 месяцев назад

      👍🏻

  • @dianabythebeach
    @dianabythebeach Год назад

    Great video. Thanks for the link. Your next family vacation will no doubt be amazing and memorable. Only 7 months away!!
    I was in my surgeon's office early last week (post surgery) and during my appointments we always chat about family and travel. My daughter was also there. He has 4 children..one just out of college (working in DC), one in 2nd year (Vermont) one just entering (Rochester, NY) and one high schooler at home. The kids were flying home (here) and then the entire family left yesterday for a vacation to Maui. He also took his 86 year old mother. We were laughing about how he had been saving his charge card points for all the plane tickets and this was probably his most expensive family vacation ever. He was over-the-top with happiness to be taking this trip and I pray it is everything he hopes it will be. I wll find out on my next appointment. Your video validates how important it is for families to spend time away from home - even if the destination is not far. Just get away from the house to enjoy experiences together in another space. Can't be cheap or even frugal when it comes to time well spent with those we love and hold dear. ⏳️

  • @janelleespinosa6247
    @janelleespinosa6247 Год назад +9

    We leave our legacy anyway, whether it is written and produced by US is the key. LEAVE NO QUESTIONS!

  • @asinheaven
    @asinheaven Год назад +2

    I needed this today ❤

  • @susannepalzer9376
    @susannepalzer9376 Год назад +2

    Your videos are so moving. Thank you.

  • @robins_nest_
    @robins_nest_ Год назад +3

    Thoughtful.
    I just started taking a journalism class. I have been writing pages about my mother whom I lost two years ago at age 93.
    Have not really thought of writing about myself...
    -Robin

    • @TheNewRetiredMe
      @TheNewRetiredMe  Год назад +2

      Start where you are. If you have kids, I'm sure they would LOVE to hear more about your mother. I need to think about that with my own grandparents. My mom's parents died when I was about six, so I really don't know much about them. Maybe I should start interviewing my mom. Thanks for the inspiration!

    • @GoingGreenMom
      @GoingGreenMom Год назад +3

      The favorite parts of my parents passings, My Mom's funeral was full of people sharing stories of various things they had done together, and I got to know lots of stories I hadn't heard before. My Dad's funeral was the coldest day of the year (-40°F) so it was very different, but even though it wasn't as suddenly as my Mom oddly (she had been given 6 months because of breast cancer and was gone the next week, he had non-terminal chronic illness, but died to the flu and overall was gone in 3 weeks) so we had about 3 days of everyone coming to say goodbye and reminisce, so we got to hear the stories while he was still with us.

    • @akontarini
      @akontarini Год назад

      😊 it is not too late...just start. Coming from a person that wishes my parents have done

  • @michelletrevethan9945
    @michelletrevethan9945 Год назад

    Oh my, well you made me laugh and cry, good tears, I totally agree with you on leaving a legacy for your family. You will love Scotland, but I have to say, Cornwall is better, if you decide to come to Cornwall, (England), my kettle is always on and I always have homemade cake 😊 xx

  • @liz17smile
    @liz17smile Год назад

    Beautiful!

  • @npranger317
    @npranger317 Год назад +1

    Thanks for the work you do to get these moving videos out, so that they can inspire us to leave our legacy.

  • @PeacefulGirl-lf1ys
    @PeacefulGirl-lf1ys 2 месяца назад

    Neat story! Thanks for sharing!

  • @robr.830
    @robr.830 Год назад

    Thank you for making this video, Tim. It’s wonderful you’ve found a way to share parts of your life with your children you might not have otherwise done. With my grandparents and parents long deceased, there are many questions about their lives I would have loved to know, but that will never be.

    • @akontarini
      @akontarini 13 дней назад

      but we can change it for the next generation...

  • @lucindawilson5510
    @lucindawilson5510 10 месяцев назад

    enjoy Scotland safe travels

  • @patcavasin5947
    @patcavasin5947 Год назад +3

    This is a very thought provoking video....thanks for sharing and giving us some excellent suggestions.

  • @tarynsanmartino8930
    @tarynsanmartino8930 Год назад +1

    Tim, I really appreciated learning about this app. I hadn't heard about it. I loved hearing your thoughts about what the trip meant to you. The ability to leave your own writings is a valuable gift.

  • @JustMellie.
    @JustMellie. Год назад

    I've written letters to my kids, in case I go unexpectantly, and already planned and paid for my final arrangements, but you have inspired me to make some videos. I'm 68 and healthy, but you never know. Maybe I'll play my guitar and sing some silly songs, take a walk on my 3 acres and identify wild flowers, video the Great Blue Heron, the deer, the fox, the Eagles, raccoons...They will remember these things since they grew up here. Thank you for your Channel and for inspiring me!

    • @akontarini
      @akontarini Год назад +1

      such an amazing idea! love it!

    • @TheNewRetiredMe
      @TheNewRetiredMe  Год назад

      The guitar and songs would be a fantastic gift to your children!

  • @lauravasquez169
    @lauravasquez169 Год назад +2

    You had me thinking about one trip with my family. We never went anywhere far but we did spend time together. Good thing we can still make more memories with our family. ❤❤❤

    • @akontarini
      @akontarini Год назад +1

      Please do...my parents did not leave behind much of written or videos , which I wish they did but I found so much comfort in shared memories...

  • @kathrynmoir5636
    @kathrynmoir5636 Год назад +1

    You mention Kings college chapel in Aberdeen. I got married there 49 years ago this week.

    • @akontarini
      @akontarini Год назад

      It's a small world after all.

  • @hughwolfe1176
    @hughwolfe1176 Год назад +3

    Tim thank you for sharing this subject…
    I’ve been thinking on what happens to my memory as well as my photography after I’ve passed, hopefully quite a ways down the road…
    Several years ago I created a photo book containing selections from my first ten year’s of photography. There are only two copies and it’s not that I can’t find the same photos on my computer, but holding a physical book is so much more satisfying.

    • @TheNewRetiredMe
      @TheNewRetiredMe  Год назад +2

      Physical books are the best!!

    • @akontarini
      @akontarini Год назад

      I am with you on that. Holding a special physical book will never be "Out of style" for me

  • @PhilThach
    @PhilThach Год назад +2

    This was great, Tim!

  • @love.one.another
    @love.one.another Год назад +1

    Great ideas. Other ideas would be to leave a journal or notebook of helps/lessons learned to prevent your younger loved ones from making the same mistakes, like a life handbook with different topics and dividers. Also buying an Interleaved or Journaling Bible and writing all your prayers and notes in it with dates so people could see your spiritual journey. ❤🙏❤

    • @TheNewRetiredMe
      @TheNewRetiredMe  Год назад +1

      Great ideas! Thank you!

    • @love.one.another
      @love.one.another Год назад

      @@TheNewRetiredMe Yw. Cat Woods, here on RUclips is handwriting the entire Bible twice for each of her kids in the ESV Interleaved Bible. Inspiring!

  • @sandy_from_parkerlings
    @sandy_from_parkerlings Год назад

    I have to laugh... answering the questions and doing these videos is incredibly important and we're doing similar with my father, but one of my best memories of him will be catching him actively dreaming while sleeping in a chair... hilarious! He was fighting with the person in his dream which manifested as actual talking, hitting and kicking out here in the real world. It was so funny to watch and recalled a similar memory of my grandfather doing similar many years ago. Of course, these are not memories my Dad would actively recall of himself, so I like the idea of sharing that with him, so he knows the legacy of fond memories he's leaving... a feedback loop of legacy, so to speak. Catching conversations between you and your daughters/grandkids for posterity is another angle you might want to consider. Conversations lead to other stories that wouldn't be caught and captured otherwise.

  • @Nini51963
    @Nini51963 Год назад +1

    Thank you for sharing , I love hearing that there are families like yours, I grew up without a father , I love hearing travel stories, I will never get to travel out of the USA so I kinda live through others , is there any other way to have a book made that any one here knows of .I would like to gather my 94 year old aunts info but I have no idea where to start .

  • @sandywilkerson9271
    @sandywilkerson9271 Год назад +3

    How Awesome Tim, I almost cried! 😊

    • @kzZnAT0r
      @kzZnAT0r 11 месяцев назад

      ❤❤❤

  • @janeberrisford8555
    @janeberrisford8555 Год назад

    Inspirational ! So glad RUclips recommended you to me... am loving your videos x

  • @kzZnAT0r
    @kzZnAT0r Год назад

    Thank you for this video

  • @peggyparsons5003
    @peggyparsons5003 Год назад +2

    I oil paint. That's a legacy I'm leaving. I journal. I try to be positive, but there are some telling moments my boys will probably enjoy reading.. And I'm a published author who stopped for various reasons, and I've just started a book for my grandkids. Not looking to publish this one. It's just a fictional book for them to enjoy. Legacy's come in a variety of forms.

  • @kaseyfarmer8232
    @kaseyfarmer8232 10 месяцев назад

    Ive been working at filling out a book called Grandmothers journal. with questions and memories and sometimes i white out questions that dont count.,,, You have given me a few ideas of questions they might like to know... thank you ...and I'll go check out that site, sounds interesting

    • @kzZnAT0r
      @kzZnAT0r 5 месяцев назад

      ❤❤❤

  • @lillydonahoe5597
    @lillydonahoe5597 11 месяцев назад

    What a wonderful story. I am going to check out Storybook. I’m not sure about writing everything for my English major daughter, my writing skills are lacking but maybe she can forgive that…for the memories. thank you.

    • @akontarini
      @akontarini 10 месяцев назад

      💚💚💚

    • @kzZnAT0r
      @kzZnAT0r 5 месяцев назад

      ❤❤❤

  • @MsMaria990
    @MsMaria990 Год назад +1

    ❤❤❤

  • @nonelost1
    @nonelost1 Год назад

    If one of your descendants becomes a celebrity, imagine what interesting documentary fodder your videos will make for an episode of PBS’ “Finding Your Roots” many years from now!

  • @janicew6222
    @janicew6222 5 месяцев назад

  • @htas6888
    @htas6888 Год назад

    Can you make another one of these but tell what your father or your mother shared w you about their lives that really left a mark with you?

    • @TheNewRetiredMe
      @TheNewRetiredMe  Год назад +1

      I will give that some thought. Thank you!

    • @kzZnAT0r
      @kzZnAT0r 5 месяцев назад

      ❤❤❤

    • @akontarini
      @akontarini 13 дней назад

      ask and receive...Ruby will do just that in the near future!

  • @tobysmith3351
    @tobysmith3351 8 месяцев назад

    I'm thinking of creating a diary full of stories that are untrue so whoever finds it will be like "Wait, what did I just read?"

  • @shirleybenson4368
    @shirleybenson4368 Год назад

    I wish I could write or be a family storyteller.

  • @akontarini
    @akontarini Год назад

    Discipline and deligent

    • @kzZnAT0r
      @kzZnAT0r 11 месяцев назад

      👍🏻❤

  • @RattledAwakeBooks
    @RattledAwakeBooks Год назад +1

    tip: memoirs have a theme - universal message FACT: avg person sells 40 books, tops

  • @charlesmoon3644
    @charlesmoon3644 Год назад +1

    Is leaving a legacy only for people with children?

    • @akontarini
      @akontarini Год назад

      Just maybe if we extend the definition of children to include future, younger generations...

    • @kzZnAT0r
      @kzZnAT0r 11 месяцев назад

      ₙₒₚₑ! For everyone

  • @webvideofan
    @webvideofan Год назад +1

    What is your photography channel? 👍🏻

    • @TheNewRetiredMe
      @TheNewRetiredMe  Год назад +2

      The easiest way to find it is to click TimChilders.bio.link. All my sites are there.

    • @kamidsjournee
      @kamidsjournee Год назад

      Thank you for sharing your wisdom! ☺️

    • @barbaramiller5625
      @barbaramiller5625 Год назад

      Great idea Tim, I will look into it. I am a singer. I love to sing in piano bars, and with bands here in California. I live very close to the desert communities around Palm Springs. I have several piano players that I sing with when the kids gather here in the desert every year for my birthday we always go somewhere where I sit in with the band or the piano bar and we have dinner and I sing, during Covid. I took the opportunity to record a CD of all the favorite songs that I sing. I made copies and gave them to each child and grandchild. It will be a good memory of us all coming together, 😮this year we’re getting together again.I always rent a 8 bedroom House on the golf course in November and we all gather there, it’s about 10 of us. It’s a wonderful time I have children that live in 😮Arizona and I have children that live in the UK. They all flock to the desert for grandma‘s birthday and this year I turn 85 and I’m looking forward to it very much. Thank you for your wonderful RUclips channel.😢😢

    • @akontarini
      @akontarini Год назад

      ruclips.net/video/0kjqmUFJjXI/видео.html

  • @amritabhattacharyya4882
    @amritabhattacharyya4882 Год назад

    neat!

  • @GoingGreenMom
    @GoingGreenMom Год назад +1

    What were you like when you were 40. 😅 I hope my kids remember, they are 17 and 19 already and I just turned 40 in April.

  • @Good-DaySunshine
    @Good-DaySunshine Год назад +1

    🥹💖

  • @lrx54
    @lrx54 Год назад

    I watched Le Mis 3 times. I didn’t get it. I asked my son what it was about. He said “mom, people are miserable”. In the end I’ve decided that it’s a story from a liberal mind, where there is no happy ending or “moral to the story”. It’s just a play with no conclusions, direction or sense. One great song is it’s only benefit. Comments welcome.

    • @TheNewRetiredMe
      @TheNewRetiredMe  Год назад

      It is the classic story of grace (jean Val jean) overcoming legalistic dogmatism with only black and white (javer). Val Jean doesn’t know what to do when the clergy doesn’t press charges for stealing his silver. Instead, he gives Val Jean even more. So Val Jean dedicated his life to the nurture and protection of the daughter of a woman he discarded in his hubris. It overwhelms me to tears every time I see it.

    • @akontarini
      @akontarini 13 дней назад

      @@TheNewRetiredMe 🤗