So sad. The dude is beating himself up like he was the problem when, in fact, he is dealing with a low quality woman. He seems like he has a pure heart, and he definitely deserves better than that.
@@DavidCartmellDJCartmell Going through something similar right now two years of someone breaking trust by talking to other men when the boundary got placed silly me was believing her everytime and now I've pulled out all the way she is crawling back and trying to say anything she can. But she did before and she still went and hung out with a guy just this week so it's pretty fresh not to mention she had a DV at my place. We have so much passion. She just has issues. So hard sometimes and she's 7 years younger than me.
The most important quality for a man is loyalty. You can enforce healthy boundaries but that might not apply for her. This is why vetting is crucial Gents !
If they keep testing your boundaries it’s not worth it. One boundary that I’ve instilled is, you can have my attention or other men’s attention, not both.
The best boundary to set. I broke up with a woman a couple of months ago for the same reason. If your attention isn’t sufficient sooner or later she’s going to be in another man’s arms or she probably already is swinging between the two of you or in some cases multiple men.
My ex of 9 months, kept testing my boundaries every 2-3 weeks, got so tired of it. Always drama, arguments, her being combative. In the end I had to dump her.
Going through something similar right now two years of someone breaking trust by talking to other men when the boundary got placed silly me was believing her everytime and now I've pulled out all the way she is crawling back and trying to say anything she can. But she did before and she still went and hung out with a guy just this week so it's pretty fresh not to mention she had a DV at my place. We have so much passion. She just has issues. So hard sometimes and she's 7 years younger than me.
Not to mention she did once leave me for a guy but came back. I think she's a product of my past and that happens too I'm accelerating with my life too fast for her and I've gotten healthy and I'm also a mentor so I'm like hay I cant lead by example if I'm staying in something toxic. She's going to therapy and stuff now in hopes for the future but you know.
Corey - I appreciate that many of your videos these days that you mention that no matter how well you apply the principles of 3% man, if she is broken, has no integrity, loves/wants/needs lots of male orbiters, that kind of woman will if not happy, will cheat. Your early videos didn’t really say that. The reality is there are so many of those types. However if you apply 3% principles when you meet one like that, YOU WONT WANT TO BE WITH ONE OF THOSE. Implement the principles now, and always.
Went through something like this very similar, but it took me 2 yrs to realize I had to leave her. Thank god I learned that lesson at 22 yrs old and to reading Corey’s book right after the breakup really changed my mentality. I’m 25 now have a way better girlfriend and she’s chasing me and stalking my socials. ✌🏻the train has left the station
1:45 if she’s talking to other men, no point in setting a boundary with her. There should be the boundary already and if she crosses it you just leave. If she’s talking to another man, don’t tell her not to, just leave her. She has shown you her character through her actions and would continue doing what she was doing if you didn’t stop her.
Poor guy is still ignoring reality when he called her "genuine", probably because she's very attractive. She clearly isn't loyal and that won't change, you can't shape her into being something that she's not.... it's delusional. Treat her as a play mate only if she wants to come round and have fun, but don't entertain any further dates. Start dating others who have more integrity.
thanks coach. i can relate🙃 For my case, she went and danced inappropriately with her ex in a club who she has been in touch with over text since the time they broke up and so, i left her. she used to yell at me over no real issue
This is why you have to plant a thought in her mind early on it was never your idea why you two are seeing each other or in a relationship. You just gave her permission to be in this position with you. Once you established that frame and keep it while you are still interacting with her, you are less likely to be cheated on, or maybe never. All women are nasty. As soon as a chick senses you are more romantic than her, it's only a matter of time before she starts throwing shit tests to you from all angles, then drop you for another dude. Let women chase you and keep them at arms length.
Had the same thing happen to me 4 months ago I was dating somebody that said they where loyal to me but turns out she was cheating on me the whole time the way I found out who she really was is when I broke up with her because my gut was telling me she wasn’t the right one and turns out I was right she was cheating on me with other dudes and then after we broke up immediately started another relationship but thank god I opened my eyes now am just trying to upgrade my character.
Whatever happened to walking away and meaning it…if someone violates your boundaries and you dump them, why continue seeing them? That woman saw him as weak, which is why she tried to friend zone him or pull away instead of being intimate still. He can’t walk away from her and she’s knows that now 😂
I wouldn't keep spending time with her. Double back a time or two could be ok. But having a conversation where she's trying to get back in a relationship seems like it's a time to go before she starts plotting revenge.
My current girlfriend is addicted to social media. Prefers to have male friends.. is Often combative, argumentive. Has disrespted me a couple of times, which forced me to walk away, but she came pleading back. She was raised by a single mom, no father in her life. Has a high body count of 12 men by age 24... She was on anti depressants a little while back. .. I need to walk.. Its hard being with someone with a bad attitude, combative and argumentive.
@RonInTheUSA222 Thanks for advice. I already moved on, because she doesn't recognise that there is any issues. She never apologises therfore doesn't accept any type of accountability and the bad attitude continued from her, even though I expressed my concerns to her several.. Therapy and overcoming issues can only take place, if the person is willing to recognise there behaviour is not good. Also she was pushing to have a child with me, which felt like could end up a TRAP for me long term. I would be tied to someone for 18 years or more who is unhinged and volatile.
It's really clear that this woman obviously doesn't love, respect or give a crap about this guy. She's a total 304!! But good for this guy on having self-respect for himself!!
Not worth the hassle man. Chicks like this can’t be trusted even as friends with benefits. Bottom line is you emotionally went to a place where you felt she could be long term material so trying to downgrade her to FWB will always feel like it’s lacking and since you can’t trust her those emotions will always be there. The best case scenario with FWB is when you know it won’t be more than that very early on and you never entertain going further with a woman. As long as you’re both on the same page it can be great and mutually beneficial. Your best bet is to pull the rip cord and never look back. Lick your wounds, learn from your mistakes with this one and never do it again. All a part of the growth process. Being tough on yourself at first is good as long as it stops once you realize how you can improve. After that it’s just self torture. She’s not worth the time or energy trust me. Keep it movin pal. You’re MUCH better off in the long run. But she will always be who she is. Untrustworthy. Just feel sorry for the fella that’s gonna inherit that hot mess next 😂. Coach Wayne saves another one ✅
Man so dig this I went out on my first date yesterday but she almost flaked last minute because I didn’t “call to confirm earlier in the morning”. I just kept telling her we’re still there at 8pm and she said she was thinking about rescheduling after Saturday cause I caught her “off guard”. She later said she hadn’t dated in 8 years and her friends told her the guy has to call to confirm. Basically I said I’m a man of my word and I scheduled the date because I wanted to see her. I then told her we could do 9pm that same night. Eventually she agreed but later on during the date she halfway jokingly said that I was the problem cause I should’ve called to confirm. She also said “I forced her to come out and made her feel bad” which forcing her out simply isn’t true keep in mind I never met this girl in person before. Before the date she said she might be late beforehand I asked her not to be cause I wasn’t sure if late meant 40 mins late. Ironically I ended up being the one who was 10 mins late (got caught in traffic meeting her halfway). Idk I went for the kiss at the end of the date I offered to go to another venue she decline said she had work to do. I didn’t really feel any type of way about the girl. Might go out on another date tho I’m 24 shes 28. She also had on her online dating bio she wants kids which skeeves me out. I had opportunities in my earlier twenties to see girls but I was always picky cause I viewed myself as modestly attractive. Now that I’m older I figured I should just try to get some experience in. I should probably read the book again but I’m also in the process of starting a furniture business run off Facebook but it’s been kind of slow. Idk what my future holds and so much has changed in the past 4 or 5 years I’m gonna wink and soon I’ll be 30. lol
Dude, don’t beat yourself up. Coach did a video a couple years ago of a very similar situation I was in. Followed the book and moved on. I know what you’re thinking. These girls never change. The next guy won’t change her either. The girl from my video still tries to get ahold of me whether she has a boyfriend or not. I’m sure I’m not the only guy she’s messaging while in relationships. Don’t even waste your time hooking up. Just move on.
Just seem like you’re talk to me..I found my self dating a hookup girl and she seem genuine with all the love and care but I still find her being a liar and I can’t trust her anymore..I think I should call it a quit before I go deep into the relationship with her..the lies really make me feel she isn’t ready to cut off from her old ways.
Because you don't have other options maintaining your attention elsewhere. Harness that pain and convert it to motivation - Hit the gym, read the book, mingle, apply the principles of the book, hang out, have fun, hook up, rinse and repeat until better shows up.
7:19 That really really really really deserved a "Come on man!" He's talking about a date??? Jeesh. Coreys trying to help the guy get what he wants but a casual sex relationship with a cheater is not worth it at all. I don't care how horny you are, there's a lot of mental pressure that comes with that even if successful. Just move on.
I have a question why many men are so insecure? I once knew a guy who broke up with this woman after he found out she had an Onlyfans account. What's wrong with her having an Onlyfans account?
My problem is I never set the boundaries in the first place. She use to have guys send her inappropriate pictures. Then I told her why are u still talking when we are in a relationship now. She got rid of them. This time I set my boundaries. So far we are good. We been to together for 3 years. First year I felt it was bullshit until I saw the text messages and DMs. The last 2 years has been great. No BS she show lots of love. Cooks clean and puts me first. But still I feel the first year was full of shit. And this moment it’s like I waiting for her to f@ck up, although she being the best GF to me. Maybe she knows i would walk if she does screw up again. Again will see how things go. I’ll update ya. I just know I’ve been applying Corey book into this. I guess that s why she is being lovely doubly to me, but sometimes I have doubts. Because women are women and it’s human nature.
Very similar kind of thing happened with me we dated for a month(and even kissed), and on valentine's she adds some story at another guy's house cooking. After a week i removed her from my Instagram and i told her I only date exclusive not some disloyal, she said she isn't seeing anyone. So I try adding her back on insta and she doesn't accept and says maybe we shouldn't see each other anymore and now im feeling I'm at fault. We see each other at work and she tries to give me mixed signals to talk to her but I ignore her and I'll stop working there. What do you guys think should I have done?
So sad. The dude is beating himself up like he was the problem when, in fact, he is dealing with a low quality woman. He seems like he has a pure heart, and he definitely deserves better than that.
It never helps when you’re emotionally invested in someone who isn’t suitable. It’s sad and I’ve been there myself I sympathise wholeheartedly.
most american women are low quality........
@@DavidCartmellDJCartmell yup...me too...100%
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Going through something similar right now two years of someone breaking trust by talking to other men when the boundary got placed silly me was believing her everytime and now I've pulled out all the way she is crawling back and trying to say anything she can. But she did before and she still went and hung out with a guy just this week so it's pretty fresh not to mention she had a DV at my place. We have so much passion. She just has issues. So hard sometimes and she's 7 years younger than me.
The most important quality for a man is loyalty. You can enforce healthy boundaries but that might not apply for her. This is why vetting is crucial Gents !
If they keep testing your boundaries it’s not worth it. One boundary that I’ve instilled is, you can have my attention or other men’s attention, not both.
The best boundary to set. I broke up with a woman a couple of months ago for the same reason. If your attention isn’t sufficient sooner or later she’s going to be in another man’s arms or she probably already is swinging between the two of you or in some cases multiple men.
My ex of 9 months, kept testing my boundaries every 2-3 weeks, got so tired of it. Always drama, arguments, her being combative. In the end I had to dump her.
Going through something similar right now two years of someone breaking trust by talking to other men when the boundary got placed silly me was believing her everytime and now I've pulled out all the way she is crawling back and trying to say anything she can. But she did before and she still went and hung out with a guy just this week so it's pretty fresh not to mention she had a DV at my place. We have so much passion. She just has issues. So hard sometimes and she's 7 years younger than me.
Not to mention she did once leave me for a guy but came back. I think she's a product of my past and that happens too I'm accelerating with my life too fast for her and I've gotten healthy and I'm also a mentor so I'm like hay I cant lead by example if I'm staying in something toxic.
She's going to therapy and stuff now in hopes for the future but you know.
Without loyalty, there is no relationship.
Corey - I appreciate that many of your videos these days that you mention that no matter how well you apply the principles of 3% man, if she is broken, has no integrity, loves/wants/needs lots of male orbiters, that kind of woman will if not happy, will cheat. Your early videos didn’t really say that. The reality is there are so many of those types. However if you apply 3% principles when you meet one like that, YOU WONT WANT TO BE WITH ONE OF THOSE. Implement the principles now, and always.
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"Dont burn bridges, blow them up. Never go back." Thats a quote ive heard and seems to apply to the situation.
Went through something like this very similar, but it took me 2 yrs to realize I had to leave her. Thank god I learned that lesson at 22 yrs old and to reading Corey’s book right after the breakup really changed my mentality. I’m 25 now have a way better girlfriend and she’s chasing me and stalking my socials. ✌🏻the train has left the station
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1:45 if she’s talking to other men, no point in setting a boundary with her. There should be the boundary already and if she crosses it you just leave. If she’s talking to another man, don’t tell her not to, just leave her. She has shown you her character through her actions and would continue doing what she was doing if you didn’t stop her.
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Poor guy is still ignoring reality when he called her "genuine", probably because she's very attractive. She clearly isn't loyal and that won't change, you can't shape her into being something that she's not.... it's delusional. Treat her as a play mate only if she wants to come round and have fun, but don't entertain any further dates. Start dating others who have more integrity.
thanks coach. i can relate🙃 For my case, she went and danced inappropriately with her ex in a club who she has been in touch with over text since the time they broke up and so, i left her. she used to yell at me over no real issue
💯👏👍
This is why you have to plant a thought in her mind early on it was never your idea why you two are seeing each other or in a relationship. You just gave her permission to be in this position with you. Once you established that frame and keep it while you are still interacting with her, you are less likely to be cheated on, or maybe never. All women are nasty. As soon as a chick senses you are more romantic than her, it's only a matter of time before she starts throwing shit tests to you from all angles, then drop you for another dude. Let women chase you and keep them at arms length.
Keep them accountable
Had the same thing happen to me 4 months ago I was dating somebody that said they where loyal to me but turns out she was cheating on me the whole time the way I found out who she really was is when I broke up with her because my gut was telling me she wasn’t the right one and turns out I was right she was cheating on me with other dudes and then after we broke up immediately started another relationship but thank god I opened my eyes now am just trying to upgrade my character.
Whatever happened to walking away and meaning it…if someone violates your boundaries and you dump them, why continue seeing them? That woman saw him as weak, which is why she tried to friend zone him or pull away instead of being intimate still. He can’t walk away from her and she’s knows that now 😂
I wouldn't keep spending time with her. Double back a time or two could be ok. But having a conversation where she's trying to get back in a relationship seems like it's a time to go before she starts plotting revenge.
My current girlfriend is addicted to social media. Prefers to have male friends.. is Often combative, argumentive. Has disrespted me a couple of times, which forced me to walk away, but she came pleading back. She was raised by a single mom, no father in her life. Has a high body count of 12 men by age 24... She was on anti depressants a little while back. .. I need to walk.. Its hard being with someone with a bad attitude, combative and argumentive.
@RonInTheUSA222 Thanks for advice. I already moved on, because she doesn't recognise that there is any issues. She never apologises therfore doesn't accept any type of accountability and the bad attitude continued from her, even though I expressed my concerns to her several.. Therapy and overcoming issues can only take place, if the person is willing to recognise there behaviour is not good. Also she was pushing to have a child with me, which felt like could end up a TRAP for me long term. I would be tied to someone for 18 years or more who is unhinged and volatile.
It's really clear that this woman obviously doesn't love, respect or give a crap about this guy. She's a total 304!! But good for this guy on having self-respect for himself!!
Walk away. Work on yourself. Let her know its not accepted.
Not worth the hassle man. Chicks like this can’t be trusted even as friends with benefits. Bottom line is you emotionally went to a place where you felt she could be long term material so trying to downgrade her to FWB will always feel like it’s lacking and since you can’t trust her those emotions will always be there. The best case scenario with FWB is when you know it won’t be more than that very early on and you never entertain going further with a woman. As long as you’re both on the same page it can be great and mutually beneficial. Your best bet is to pull the rip cord and never look back. Lick your wounds, learn from your mistakes with this one and never do it again. All a part of the growth process. Being tough on yourself at first is good as long as it stops once you realize how you can improve. After that it’s just self torture. She’s not worth the time or energy trust me. Keep it movin pal. You’re MUCH better off in the long run. But she will always be who she is. Untrustworthy. Just feel sorry for the fella that’s gonna inherit that hot mess next 😂. Coach Wayne saves another one ✅
Corey you gotta read the book 10-15 times
Man so dig this I went out on my first date yesterday but she almost flaked last minute because I didn’t “call to confirm earlier in the morning”. I just kept telling her we’re still there at 8pm and she said she was thinking about rescheduling after Saturday cause I caught her “off guard”. She later said she hadn’t dated in 8 years and her friends told her the guy has to call to confirm. Basically I said I’m a man of my word and I scheduled the date because I wanted to see her. I then told her we could do 9pm that same night. Eventually she agreed but later on during the date she halfway jokingly said that I was the problem cause I should’ve called to confirm. She also said “I forced her to come out and made her feel bad” which forcing her out simply isn’t true keep in mind I never met this girl in person before. Before the date she said she might be late beforehand I asked her not to be cause I wasn’t sure if late meant 40 mins late. Ironically I ended up being the one who was 10 mins late (got caught in traffic meeting her halfway). Idk I went for the kiss at the end of the date I offered to go to another venue she decline said she had work to do. I didn’t really feel any type of way about the girl. Might go out on another date tho I’m 24 shes 28. She also had on her online dating bio she wants kids which skeeves me out. I had opportunities in my earlier twenties to see girls but I was always picky cause I viewed myself as modestly attractive. Now that I’m older I figured I should just try to get some experience in. I should probably read the book again but I’m also in the process of starting a furniture business run off Facebook but it’s been kind of slow. Idk what my future holds and so much has changed in the past 4 or 5 years I’m gonna wink and soon I’ll be 30. lol
28 times? This dude should be at the "able to give a seminar" level. I think our friend writing in is full of shit haha
Corey Wayne with the best advice - Thanks man, I appreciate ya! 😎
Dude, don’t beat yourself up. Coach did a video a couple years ago of a very similar situation I was in. Followed the book and moved on. I know what you’re thinking. These girls never change. The next guy won’t change her either. The girl from my video still tries to get ahold of me whether she has a boyfriend or not. I’m sure I’m not the only guy she’s messaging while in relationships. Don’t even waste your time hooking up. Just move on.
Do you want to meet my kids? Me- I think we should see other ppl
28 times!! That's awesome
Imagine reading a book 28 times and still having no clue😂 bro wake up
28 times of reading the book and he’s still asking about this bullsh**
Just did this last night. Male orbiters and lying. Be the alpha and set boundaries.
Same here. Will leave her tomorrow.
28 times, I think that's starting to become a joke
Just seem like you’re talk to me..I found my self dating a hookup girl and she seem genuine with all the love and care but I still find her being a liar and I can’t trust her anymore..I think I should call it a quit before I go deep into the relationship with her..the lies really make me feel she isn’t ready to cut off from her old ways.
She belongs to the streeeeeeetzzzss
Maaaan, just as i was thinking about doing the same. Wtf.
Why do I feel so bad after dumping her?
Because you don't have other options maintaining your attention elsewhere. Harness that pain and convert it to motivation - Hit the gym, read the book, mingle, apply the principles of the book, hang out, have fun, hook up, rinse and repeat until better shows up.
I don't know why I think I will never find someone like her bcoz this girl did everything for me and never disrespected @@andreasi2433
7:19
That really really really really deserved a "Come on man!" He's talking about a date??? Jeesh. Coreys trying to help the guy get what he wants but a casual sex relationship with a cheater is not worth it at all. I don't care how horny you are, there's a lot of mental pressure that comes with that even if successful. Just move on.
9:00 - 9:06...NAILED IT
how about the other way around, men to women. Is it the same?
I have a question why many men are so insecure? I once knew a guy who broke up with this woman after he found out she had an Onlyfans account. What's wrong with her having an Onlyfans account?
Is this a troll post?
My problem is I never set the boundaries in the first place.
She use to have guys send her inappropriate pictures. Then I told her why are u still talking when we are in a relationship now.
She got rid of them. This time I set my boundaries. So far we are good. We been to together for 3 years. First year I felt it was bullshit until I saw the text messages and DMs. The last 2 years has been great. No BS she show lots of love. Cooks clean and puts me first.
But still I feel the first year was full of shit. And this moment it’s like I waiting for her to f@ck up, although she being the best GF to me.
Maybe she knows i would walk if she does screw up again.
Again will see how things go. I’ll update ya. I just know I’ve been applying Corey book into this. I guess that s why she is being lovely doubly to me, but sometimes I have doubts. Because women are women and it’s human nature.
My first 8 months with ex, she had loads of male friends, arguing with me, being combative, disrespected me. I had to Walk Away for good in the end
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Very similar kind of thing happened with me we dated for a month(and even kissed), and on valentine's she adds some story at another guy's house cooking. After a week i removed her from my Instagram and i told her I only date exclusive not some disloyal, she said she isn't seeing anyone. So I try adding her back on insta and she doesn't accept and says maybe we shouldn't see each other anymore and now im feeling I'm at fault. We see each other at work and she tries to give me mixed signals to talk to her but I ignore her and I'll stop working there. What do you guys think should I have done?
Move on. And don’t date coworkers no more or if they work at the same place.
This is why should never date anyone at the work place, most of the time doesn't end well.
She tryna throw the shame and guilt card on you. Don’t fall for that shit. She don’t want you, move along bro trust
@RonInTheUSA222which is so stupid. Extremely