Yes - and i still have moments now I’ll catch myself doing it. I’ll be good for awhile then I’ll have my day or two I’m off. It’s best to recognize right away and just stop. It’s been a process of accepting feeling of insecurity is ok and just to deal with it and let it pass. Everytime i let it pass - it gets easier to not get caught up in action.
Amen! I'm with a new gal right now and she's "testing" me. I know I'm passing but would have failed miserably a couple of years ago. She called me from work and mentioned that a male client brought her a coffee. I would have stumbled on something so simple in the past, but told her that was nice and continued with the conversation.
@@927tripp So true! I wasted so much time "investigating". And for what? I used to view the entire relationship as a waste. I've come to appreciate the fact that I'm wiser now and am grateful because of it.
BTW, my heart goes out to the guy in the email. We've all been there which is why we're here on this channel. CW acknowledged that by his being vulnerable in sharing, many can benefit. I agree. Thank you.
Fellas, if you really think about it, this works both ways. When a woman likes you too much, you start taking her for granted, I don't really think about it, but it always happens. It's human nature in general. Don't let it get in your feelings, man up nut up, be stoic, enjoy the time she gives you, when she leaves all good she'll be back
I agree, humans are crap in general, that our natural state. To improve, is to know this and try to be better, to improve and to make something of ourselves, to overcome our natural instincts.
To the guy in the email - trust me bro we’ve all been there don’t beat urself up too much about it just learn from it. When it comes to someone u really like it is extremely difficult to maintain self control. The only way out of this now is being committed to bettering yourself and become the absolute best version of u, meeting new girls, losing yourself in your hobbies and putting her behind you. Prove to yourself that you are the catch and it’s her loss.
Ever since I started texting woman only once a week to make dates, I have them texting me like "I can't figure you out, you keep me on my toes ....im asking myself is he going to text is he going to call, i get told more and more that I'm unpredictable and it's making her feel crazy"
If you watch Corey Wayne video he says you only text her once a week to make a date and that's it. Then after the 3rd date when her attraction for you grows she will be reaching out to you
@@frankm3146 corey work brings out the best of the best in woman and the worst of the worst, if you followed corey advise, maybe somethin is missing that you did wrong that she said she felt that way idk only you know for sure and she is just testing you, either way she will come back if youre indifferent, then apply 7 principles to get an ex back and your good to go
This is a perfect example of how you have to APPLY what you read. He's read the book 30 times but none of that matters when you don't have self control. He literally did every single thing wrong in this situation...Come on Man!
For sure. And most of the time, one has to get into a ton of pain to realize how this behavior doesn’t work for them anymore. I’ve given CW to a bunch of my friends and they all go through a similar process. They read it a few times get cocky then get burned hard and that’s usually when they work harder at understanding and application of the material.
@@devod123 Lmao, given the book to probably 30+ people and the only person i know of whos read it was my twin brother, and he only read like half the book.. im suprised youve gotten through to people.
@@ADifferentVibe those are not really count as options then. Options mean women you actually value. Only those women will help you build emotional strength. Women who you dont give a damn about , does not add anything to your mental strength
It's ok. We've all been there. Best to the gentleman in the video. You will rebound and learn from this. You can use this as an opportunity to hone and refine your approach. NEVER NEVER NEVER put a woman on a pedestal.
Also when you don’t look at porn anymore you can make prolonged eye contact with women. You give them the signal that says “look through my soul I have nothing to hide, I’m proud of my sexuality. And I no longer have a secret life of looking at a screen in secrecy” All power to men!!❤
That happens to me when I'm bored and lost in my thoughts. You have to stop thinking and lose yourself in hobbies or with friends. You need to stop thinking about her.
This resonates with me. Corey is right. Indifference makes the difference. If you like her more than she likes you, it’s just a matter of time. You really need to get strong enough to take ‘em or leave ‘em.
Beyond anything Corey says man, you need to accept that you can't control what this girl is going to do. Just let go of the wheel and let fate take over. She's never going to forget you even if she has no desire to see you again. The only chance you have to hear from her again is if she misses you, so let her miss you. ;)
This is the best letter he has ever read. I did the exact same crap. You think once you get with her sexually she should be into you and do not have to "play games" anymore. (it took a long time to realize it isn't games, it is what you have to do to get her attracted) But what sucks for this guy is even getting it, she was still just using him and blew him off (He probably has money and she wanted a vacation). I learned exactly from this mistake you cannot double text and even send "hi" texts or pics or fun stuff to her. She has to text or call first. You think you are just being fun or casual, but all the girl sees is you reaching out AGAIN and being thirsty and chasing her. I do not think she would have contacted him again after their weekend. Whatever happened that weekend seemed to have her say I don't like him. But all he did after that was prolong the agony and made it worse.
this is the video of the year! this video is important and needed! I went through a similar thing myself a month ago. It is amazing how this happens. This video should be watched 10-15 times! Thank you!
😂😂😂 I've been following the coach's work for well over 12 years. we our a large part of the problem is that we are stubborn and sometimes lazy and procrastination as well. But I have to say this video is one of the very best that I've ever had the pleasure of watching and listening to this is facts. My brother's, I've done this many times with women. the coach is exactly 100% right. Read the book and watch the videos pay attention. Be a good student and you will have success..... Women pull this bs to purposely test you purposely....... You need to understand that and you need to become the type of man that you are comfortable with being alone 24/7 if necessary and amusing yourself entertaining yourself. You need to become the type of man. That is okay with dying alone if necessary. This is how you will wini'm not wishing this upon you. I'm just saying good luck
I just did this very thing Corey. You helped me out of 14 years of hell with a true narrccist. I finally found a thin women a few years younger. 65. I know. Ouch. Anyway I over pursued and was butt hurt when she told me one thing but did something else. Caught her not being honest. Still I was so broken and still am. Lesson learned. Back to 3% that helped me years ago. Older sucks.
These are painful lessons, but best learned when you are young. When I was younger there was no RUclips or Corey Wayne and precious little good advice in books. So we can count ourselves fortunate for having these resources nowdays. The outcome for me before I came across the work of Corey (and some others) was bad judgement in choosing partners AND a failed marriage; definitely NOT something you want to experience. Take this seriously and do the work on yourself NOW.
I’m guilty of lack of self control on many instances in the past, my theory is that you need better distractions in your life. Things and goals to pursue that occupy your time and mind while you’re waiting to hear back from her. When she pulls away, I would just stop pursuing entirely, you don’t want someone who’ll string you along like a dog on a leash thinking he’s going to the park when really he’s on the way to the vet
Currently on day 8 of not double texting a girl I had a couple amazing dates with. It’s easier when you continue to see other girls (even if you know you don’t like them as much). Thank you for this needed motivation/reminder sir Corey.
I did this until I came across your work. I came out of a long relationship and didn't know Jack. It was a bitter pill to swallow, my attitude and perception has changed since.
The guy in the email needs to stop feeling sorry for himself, learn from his mistakes by NOT doing them again. Also, listen to what Coach Corey teaches and APPLY it in his life and relationships. Also, a good amount of self-respect and personal responsibility go a long way. On top of all that a close relationship with God help bring all these elements together. It's really that simple.
There’s no shortcuts with this work. It takes tremendous repetition of both understanding and application. I’m on read number 42 because I need to step it up after making a few mistakes recently. Thanks Corey.
Oh I had this happen but she was way more into me so when I made an error and she immediately disrespected me I just flat pretended like she didn’t exist. She is now coming back to me and apologizing and doing all the pursuing. She even tried to throw other guys in my face and told her if you want them then be my guess and am out so am no longer an option to you. It works only because I see her 5 days a week but refuse to talk to her unless I need to. I don’t ask for help or questions as I will go out of my way to ask someone else for help.
Yes, and it is kinda touristy and somewhat romantic...hence the 3-day weekend there. Also, there are wineries in the area to tour...so it is a fun place to spend with your girl.
Great vid this one. All about exercising emotional self control. We've all made that mistake of not waiting though, emotions just get the better of us when you think she's perfect. As Corey says, it is totally the illusion of action !! If you are dating several women, this makes it much easier to be restrained and let them come to you. Wish i'd read the book when i was 20 :)
That video is definitely a keeper. I can definitely relate to how knowing what to do and doing it right is difficult. Women are definitely kryptonite for most men. Made all those mistakes myself despite knowing better.
It's very simple either they want you or they don't, it's definitely hard when you want them and they don't want you, but the picture is clear either way, never beg because some women will take full advantage of that and you will lose them at some point anyway
I hit my girl a while ago with the I don’t want to be your boyfriend quite yet I just need more time to get to know you and boy has that worked wonders in our relationship.
Love the quote about women, children & animals at 33:05. Whenever I'm not in the mood to do something I know I should be doing (gym, running, boxing training, something at work etc) that is the soundbite I need to immediately get my arse in gear so thank you Corey
I need to playlist this video as a stark reminder what can happen if I'm overeager. I finally landed a woman I've had my eye on for years. The timing was never right for us until now, and everything's been so far, so good. I wish I had the free time to see more than woman to keep me level and my filter in check (plus keep her on her toes)m, but it's hard as a single dad to have your "me" time.
Got the girl I wanted to have we are now dating for 9 months, because I read the book i don't know how many times but made it my daily routine to read to avoid making mistakes and help me what I needed to do until now she's in love with me, Thank you so much Corey you help me a lot I wish you all the best in life
I am in a very similar situation right now, and it only takes a few mistakes to fall into quicksand. You get into damage control mode, start over-pursuing, start feeling insecure, start reading too much into every interaction and next thing you know a girl who was totally into you is giving you the absolute bare minimum. It's not a fun place to be.
I wonder if there any coming back from this, a girl was into me but I over persue and confess my feelings, she told me to GTFO, I currently doing no contact I wonder if I can get her back
@@Cinnamon535 My experience suggests it's not worth trying. Once they've made that decision the only reason theyll circle back to you is if they dont find anything better. Stay in no contact and move on. If she does come back always remember that she dropped you in the first place
Text a girl and she don’t get back to you? she disrespects herself - you double text a girl then you disrespect yourself - listening to this dude and his needy weak actions were painful and cringeworthy - know your worth and value gents - they all circle back if you maintain frame which requires self control - Stay safe y’all.
*When one person is clearly more invested than the other, it creates an imbalance that can make the relationship feel forced or desperate. Keeping mutual interest balanced is key - when a guy stays confident and lets her naturally invest in the connection, respect and attraction grow over time.*
You can read the book a million times and you'll still screw it up. Imo, you need hundreds of real world interactions in order to internalize this shit. Unfortunate but true. 'You can't learn how to ride a bike at a seminar. ' However, Coach's advice is spot on as always 👌
I learned the hard way too, I’m 23 yrs old. I caught on it quick though, after just couple of weeks of seeing this chick is when she started to pull back. I started researching and learning about masculine and feminine dynamics and how to really properly pursue and date a woman. It has helped me take back control over my life and be comfortable with having non-contact with girls.
We’ve all been there mate but the only way to make a difference is by making a difference and implementing coaches advices. It’s truly the only way bro
If she doesn’t come back then its his learning lesson to change to be a better man for the next woman who knocks his socks off in future. Ive had a similar situation.
I watched this twice so far and it's still hard to do. Thank you for sharing. I will learn from his experiences. I hope he's in a better place now. It would be nice to hear his comeback story one day.
This video, as well as many other vids from Corey, brings out my PTSD from a previous relationship where I did everything that the author of this letter did. Corey definitely has helped rewire my brain over the years from this behaviour. While I don’t do this type of behaviour anymore… these vids help remind me why, and keep me on the right track.
Idk if it’s just me but mani enjoy your videos just as much as your book Corey kings never lower your crown never chase Replace And stay centered cheers!! 🥂
The biggest factor to help you with no contact: STOP looking back at fantasy and some good time you had. Focus on how they are treating you! This can only come with several heartbreaks sir. Never look at what they say in the moment because that will reflect on just that… THE MOMENT! Something I hear that works but you will NEVER use it until you actually BELIEVE it. What ever a woman says: Add the words “ I FEEL” to the front of it, and ….” RIGHT NOW” To the end of it. Another words… “ I HATE YOU… means: I feel I hate you right now. Also… I apply it this way. I feel I LOVE YOU right now. Buddy… be able to walk and mean it and always look at their actions!!!!!!!!! Not their words.
True I noticed I am no longer fear to lose chicks it’s more like I lose interest and I’m already talking to other women it’s crazy it’s always good to text 10-20 women at same time u start to forget who never texted back
I love your videos. I've been obsessed with your book since I mest it up with a girl I really liked which liked me by over pursing. Idk if I can fix it with her but I'm definitely follow your no contact rule as much as possible with her though I work with her, but I'm not focusing on that as much as I can. I'm focusing on practicing being playful with other girls as much as I can. I never learned how to interact with women until I read your book. It's increased my skills so much and I'm just having fun laughing and joking with women. I'm going to go at least once a week to do what your book says. I've gone onces but it was on a week day and I didn't have much luck with any girls that I saw other than talking to this hot girl who worked in hot topic. I wasn't sure though if she was just being friendly but I joked and we held eye contact a few times. Either way I enjoyed it and it's becoming thrilling slowly practicing what you teach. I just wish I had more friends who want to go out which would make it easier but Maybe going slow will only make me more bolder over time.
You have some excellent points. I bought your book and I will definitely say a lot of what you write is correct. I don’t agree with everything but I agree with many things in your book.
I feel for this guy. I get the same way. Its just repeating and changing your behavior. Im struggling but im seeing how my behavior is changing. Keep pushing cheif. Good luck
Gotta force yourself to do what Corey says. I don't care what anyone says including woman, I'm 52 years old and I know for a fact every word he says is truth. To the emailer, you must force yourself to act indifferent, not chase, all that stuff. You know what helped me, telling myself she may go away while I'm ignoring her, but she DEFINITELY will go away if I chase. Once I did that I now have the girl of my dreams, married 10 years to a gorgeous girl who happens to be a lot younger than me. Listen to Corey!!!! Force yourself!!!!!
Bro I have been there. In fact that is how I ended up reading the book and following Coach. I had done pretty good for a long time, but then I guess in my late 30s I got week. I met a girl and fell in love. I did exactly what you did and she walked. My friend had found the book and we started reading it together and now three years later things are great.
I tend to do the opposite, so much so that they are turned off thinking i have no emotions. But the fact is , i do i just am not gonna ever lose respect for myself.
don't over pursue don't over pursue don't over pursue
You need to find the right balance and not every girl is the same
Just block them
@@thetruth394 that’s such a juvenile behavior
This dude went too far. Admittedly I was shaking my head the entire video. Hopefully he smartened up.
I actually friend zone them first, eventually they break and throw themselves. Over pusuing is the worst thing you can do, as you said.
Most of us here have been through this. As long as you learn from it, it’s all good.
Yes - and i still have moments now I’ll catch myself doing it. I’ll be good for awhile then I’ll have my day or two I’m off. It’s best to recognize right away and just stop. It’s been a process of accepting feeling of insecurity is ok and just to deal with it and let it pass. Everytime i let it pass - it gets easier to not get caught up in action.
Amen! I'm with a new gal right now and she's "testing" me. I know I'm passing but would have failed miserably a couple of years ago. She called me from work and mentioned that a male client brought her a coffee. I would have stumbled on something so simple in the past, but told her that was nice and continued with the conversation.
I was just like him.
@@927tripp So true! I wasted so much time "investigating". And for what? I used to view the entire relationship as a waste. I've come to appreciate the fact that I'm wiser now and am grateful because of it.
Yeah
BTW, my heart goes out to the guy in the email. We've all been there which is why we're here on this channel. CW acknowledged that by his being vulnerable in sharing, many can benefit. I agree. Thank you.
My heart goes out to the fellow bro as well. It really sucks and can feel for him. I hope he gets this through!
For sure.😚 💯
If you chase the cat enough, it will hide under the bed and claw at you... 😾
Never chase the cat. 🐈⬛ 🐈⬛ 🐈⬛
Yes - never chase the cat. Let the cat come back
The cat can go fvck herself. She for the streets now😂
Awesome children's song btw@@chrisclow3441
Psssssst
Fellas, if you really think about it, this works both ways. When a woman likes you too much, you start taking her for granted, I don't really think about it, but it always happens. It's human nature in general. Don't let it get in your feelings, man up nut up, be stoic, enjoy the time she gives you, when she leaves all good she'll be back
You can be disciplined enough to not take her for granted and keep it good.
The difference is that men will not leave or lose his love for the woman even if they are taking her for granted.
@@DionLYAexactly
I agree, humans are crap in general, that our natural state. To improve, is to know this and try to be better, to improve and to make something of ourselves, to overcome our natural instincts.
@@DionLYA Great comment. This is so true.
To the guy in the email - trust me bro we’ve all been there don’t beat urself up too much about it just learn from it. When it comes to someone u really like it is extremely difficult to maintain self control. The only way out of this now is being committed to bettering yourself and become the absolute best version of u, meeting new girls, losing yourself in your hobbies and putting her behind you. Prove to yourself that you are the catch and it’s her loss.
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So correct, damn i goth this also.
Its so hard to do nothing but it really is the only answer. Indifference is power.
This video was brutal but extremely necessary for almost all of us
Ever since I started texting woman only once a week to make dates, I have them texting me like "I can't figure you out, you keep me on my toes ....im asking myself is he going to text is he going to call, i get told more and more that I'm unpredictable and it's making her feel crazy"
If you watch Corey Wayne video he says you only text her once a week to make a date and that's it. Then after the 3rd date when her attraction for you grows she will be reaching out to you
After my 3rd time of having sex. With a women. Didn't text back right away and she said she was being ignored and ended the relationship 🤔@frankraym
@@frankm3146 corey work brings out the best of the best in woman and the worst of the worst, if you followed corey advise, maybe somethin is missing that you did wrong that she said she felt that way idk only you know for sure and she is just testing you, either way she will come back if youre indifferent, then apply 7 principles to get an ex back and your good to go
@@frankm3146sounds like she wasn’t a good match after all
@ricky4763 lmao I'm impressed with your mental gymnastics
This is a perfect example of how you have to APPLY what you read. He's read the book 30 times but none of that matters when you don't have self control. He literally did every single thing wrong in this situation...Come on Man!
For sure. And most of the time, one has to get into a ton of pain to realize how this behavior doesn’t work for them anymore. I’ve given CW to a bunch of my friends and they all go through a similar process. They read it a few times get cocky then get burned hard and that’s usually when they work harder at understanding and application of the material.
@@devod123Precisely
@@devod123 Lmao, given the book to probably 30+ people and the only person i know of whos read it was my twin brother, and he only read like half the book.. im suprised youve gotten through to people.
@@owenhartman484 Barely. Unfortunately its impossible to dispense the quality of willingness in my experience.
@@devod123 Yep no one seems to give a fuck. Hey... more for me hahah.
Guys, the key to not being this desperate is to have multiple options. Don't put all your eggs in the same basket.
Yep if she had competition then maybe she would have different attitude. She lost respect or had Chad in background.
Lots to learn
The problem is most options out there are not worth dating. I don't want terrible options...
100%
@@ADifferentVibe those are not really count as options then. Options mean women you actually value. Only those women will help you build emotional strength. Women who you dont give a damn about , does not add anything to your mental strength
It's ok. We've all been there. Best to the gentleman in the video. You will rebound and learn from this. You can use this as an opportunity to hone and refine your approach. NEVER NEVER NEVER put a woman on a pedestal.
Also when you don’t look at porn anymore you can make prolonged eye contact with women. You give them the signal that says “look through my soul I have nothing to hide, I’m proud of my sexuality. And I no longer have a secret life of looking at a screen in secrecy” All power to men!!❤
100%
That happens to me when I'm bored and lost in my thoughts.
You have to stop thinking and lose yourself in hobbies or with friends.
You need to stop thinking about her.
This resonates with me. Corey is right. Indifference makes the difference. If you like her more than she likes you, it’s just a matter of time. You really need to get strong enough to take ‘em or leave ‘em.
Or how the Kenny rogers song says
Beyond anything Corey says man, you need to accept that you can't control what this girl is going to do. Just let go of the wheel and let fate take over. She's never going to forget you even if she has no desire to see you again. The only chance you have to hear from her again is if she misses you, so let her miss you. ;)
Facts my brother
This is the best letter he has ever read. I did the exact same crap. You think once you get with her sexually she should be into you and do not have to "play games" anymore. (it took a long time to realize it isn't games, it is what you have to do to get her attracted) But what sucks for this guy is even getting it, she was still just using him and blew him off (He probably has money and she wanted a vacation).
I learned exactly from this mistake you cannot double text and even send "hi" texts or pics or fun stuff to her. She has to text or call first. You think you are just being fun or casual, but all the girl sees is you reaching out AGAIN and being thirsty and chasing her.
I do not think she would have contacted him again after their weekend. Whatever happened that weekend seemed to have her say I don't like him. But all he did after that was prolong the agony and made it worse.
Yeah she sounds like an asshat
this is the video of the year! this video is important and needed! I went through a similar thing myself a month ago. It is amazing how this happens. This video should be watched 10-15 times! Thank you!
😂😂😂 I've been following the coach's work for well over 12 years. we our a large part of the problem is that we are stubborn and sometimes lazy and procrastination as well. But I have to say this video is one of the very best that I've ever had the pleasure of watching and listening to this is facts. My brother's,
I've done this many times with women. the coach is exactly 100% right. Read the book and watch the videos pay attention. Be a good student and you will have success..... Women pull this bs to purposely test you purposely....... You need to understand that and you need to become the type of man that you are comfortable with being alone 24/7 if necessary and amusing yourself entertaining yourself. You need to become the type of man. That is okay with dying alone if necessary. This is how you will wini'm not wishing this upon you. I'm just saying good luck
I just simply return the energy that is extended to me or less .
I just did this very thing Corey. You helped me out of 14 years of hell with a true narrccist.
I finally found a thin women a few years younger. 65. I know. Ouch. Anyway I over pursued and was butt hurt when she told me one thing but did something else. Caught her not being honest. Still I was so broken and still am. Lesson learned. Back to 3% that helped me years ago. Older sucks.
Listen to Cluster B Milkshake...it will help. Nothing is your fault, narc are worthless 😂
These are painful lessons, but best learned when you are young. When I was younger there was no RUclips or Corey Wayne and precious little good advice in books. So we can count ourselves fortunate for having these resources nowdays. The outcome for me before I came across the work of Corey (and some others) was bad judgement in choosing partners AND a failed marriage; definitely NOT something you want to experience. Take this seriously and do the work on yourself NOW.
I’m guilty of lack of self control on many instances in the past, my theory is that you need better distractions in your life. Things and goals to pursue that occupy your time and mind while you’re waiting to hear back from her. When she pulls away, I would just stop pursuing entirely, you don’t want someone who’ll string you along like a dog on a leash thinking he’s going to the park when really he’s on the way to the vet
Currently on day 8 of not double texting a girl I had a couple amazing dates with. It’s easier when you continue to see other girls (even if you know you don’t like them as much). Thank you for this needed motivation/reminder sir Corey.
What happened?
@@savking6188 I just commented this^ earlier today so still no contact lol
@@savking6188Nothing yet I just commented this above comment lol
I did this until I came across your work. I came out of a long relationship and didn't know Jack. It was a bitter pill to swallow, my attitude and perception has changed since.
The guy in the email needs to stop feeling sorry for himself, learn from his mistakes by NOT doing them again. Also, listen to what Coach Corey teaches and APPLY it in his life and relationships. Also, a good amount of self-respect and personal responsibility go a long way. On top of all that a close relationship with God help bring all these elements together. It's really that simple.
There’s no shortcuts with this work. It takes tremendous repetition of both understanding and application. I’m on read number 42 because I need to step it up after making a few mistakes recently. Thanks Corey.
Oh I had this happen but she was way more into me so when I made an error and she immediately disrespected me I just flat pretended like she didn’t exist. She is now coming back to me and apologizing and doing all the pursuing. She even tried to throw other guys in my face and told her if you want them then be my guess and am out so am no longer an option to you. It works only because I see her 5 days a week but refuse to talk to her unless I need to. I don’t ask for help or questions as I will go out of my way to ask someone else for help.
Great 🎉
Hey Coach, Solvang is west of Santa Barbara California
Yes, and it is kinda touristy and somewhat romantic...hence the 3-day weekend there. Also, there are wineries in the area to tour...so it is a fun place to spend with your girl.
@yeticusrex1661 absolutely!. Pismo Beach...Solvang....Santa Barbara
You radiate peace Coach !
Soo glad i bought his book. Almost through the first full read. I'm learning a lot about myself.
Great, keep it up bro, read it 10-15 times and practice it! Asap
This was a great news letter some of us learned from these lessons best of luck man
You gotta have more discipline, dude! That’s it. That’s all. Don’t be weak! Great closing, coach. “It’s all on you!”
Great vid this one. All about exercising emotional self control. We've all made that mistake of not waiting though, emotions just get the better of us when you think she's perfect. As Corey says, it is totally the illusion of action !! If you are dating several women, this makes it much easier to be restrained and let them come to you. Wish i'd read the book when i was 20 :)
That video is definitely a keeper. I can definitely relate to how knowing what to do and doing it right is difficult. Women are definitely kryptonite for most men. Made all those mistakes myself despite knowing better.
Nothing better than knowing what to do and doing the opposite - even when evidence shows that doing the right thing works out.
It's very simple either they want you or they don't, it's definitely hard when you want them and they don't want you, but the picture is clear either way, never beg because some women will take full advantage of that and you will lose them at some point anyway
This is better than any major tv sitcom
I hit my girl a while ago with the I don’t want to be your boyfriend quite yet I just need more time to get to know you and boy has that worked wonders in our relationship.
Love the quote about women, children & animals at 33:05. Whenever I'm not in the mood to do something I know I should be doing (gym, running, boxing training, something at work etc) that is the soundbite I need to immediately get my arse in gear so thank you Corey
I need to playlist this video as a stark reminder what can happen if I'm overeager. I finally landed a woman I've had my eye on for years. The timing was never right for us until now, and everything's been so far, so good. I wish I had the free time to see more than woman to keep me level and my filter in check (plus keep her on her toes)m, but it's hard as a single dad to have your "me" time.
Got the girl I wanted to have we are now dating for 9 months, because I read the book i don't know how many times but made it my daily routine to read to avoid making mistakes and help me what I needed to do until now she's in love with me, Thank you so much Corey you help me a lot I wish you all the best in life
I hope this guys finds peace with his actions with this girl. Lots of good info here Corey thank you.
I am in a very similar situation right now, and it only takes a few mistakes to fall into quicksand. You get into damage control mode, start over-pursuing, start feeling insecure, start reading too much into every interaction and next thing you know a girl who was totally into you is giving you the absolute bare minimum. It's not a fun place to be.
I wonder if there any coming back from this, a girl was into me but I over persue and confess my feelings, she told me to GTFO, I currently doing no contact I wonder if I can get her back
@@Cinnamon535 My experience suggests it's not worth trying. Once they've made that decision the only reason theyll circle back to you is if they dont find anything better. Stay in no contact and move on. If she does come back always remember that she dropped you in the first place
Text a girl and she don’t get back to you? she disrespects herself - you double text a girl then you disrespect yourself - listening to this dude and his needy weak actions were painful and cringeworthy - know your worth and value gents - they all circle back if you maintain frame which requires self control - Stay safe y’all.
Oh god I’m on the same path and I almost reach out and I found this video. Thanks you coach!
*When one person is clearly more invested than the other, it creates an imbalance that can make the relationship feel forced or desperate. Keeping mutual interest balanced is key - when a guy stays confident and lets her naturally invest in the connection, respect and attraction grow over time.*
this guy is capping. im on my 4th read and even i wouldn't be sending needy texts like this. this entire thing was brutal to listen to.
Coach, thank you for not taking your content and men down the polarised red pill path. There is no need for gents to really listen to anyone else
Solvang is up near santa barbara CA. Some small danish town
You can read the book a million times and you'll still screw it up. Imo, you need hundreds of real world interactions in order to internalize this shit. Unfortunate but true. 'You can't learn how to ride a bike at a seminar. ' However, Coach's advice is spot on as always 👌
I learned the hard way too, I’m 23 yrs old. I caught on it quick though, after just couple of weeks of seeing this chick is when she started to pull back. I started researching and learning about masculine and feminine dynamics and how to really properly pursue and date a woman. It has helped me take back control over my life and be comfortable with having non-contact with girls.
We NEED a Testicular Fortitude mug
We’ve all been there mate but the only way to make a difference is by making a difference and implementing coaches advices. It’s truly the only way bro
If she doesn’t come back then its his learning lesson to change to be a better man for the next woman who knocks his socks off in future.
Ive had a similar situation.
Coach is in the house
I watched this twice so far and it's still hard to do. Thank you for sharing. I will learn from his experiences. I hope he's in a better place now. It would be nice to hear his comeback story one day.
Starting to realize the reality of this subject very good video
I appreciate your focus on personal responsibility. Lots of things come at you in life, but you chose how you handle it.
Solvang is a town on the west coast, north of Santa Barbara. It’s a tourist destination w/ a Danish vibe
...the 'driving in the sand' analogy is brilliant
This video, as well as many other vids from Corey, brings out my PTSD from a previous relationship where I did everything that the author of this letter did. Corey definitely has helped rewire my brain over the years from this behaviour. While I don’t do this type of behaviour anymore… these vids help remind me why, and keep me on the right track.
Idk if it’s just me but mani enjoy your videos just as much as your book Corey kings never lower your crown never chase Replace And stay centered cheers!! 🥂
Thanks as always Corey ❤
The biggest factor to help you with no contact: STOP looking back at fantasy and some good time you had. Focus on how they are treating you! This can only come with several heartbreaks sir. Never look at what they say in the moment because that will reflect on just that… THE MOMENT!
Something I hear that works but you will NEVER use it until you actually BELIEVE it. What ever a woman says: Add the words “ I FEEL” to the front of it, and ….” RIGHT NOW”
To the end of it.
Another words… “ I HATE YOU… means: I feel I hate you right now.
Also… I apply it this way. I feel I LOVE YOU right now. Buddy… be able to walk and mean it and always look at their actions!!!!!!!!! Not their words.
Excellent work Coach!!!
World is a better place with Coach Corey in it.
God bless you Coach Corey. Your wisdom is what men need right now.
love the goofy voice of the simp...Coach is king!
32:55 you hype me up coach. Preach the fuckin TRUTH
This is the man that gets all the women! Listen to him! His advice is worth while! Listening to the Man that gets all the women you can't go wrong!
Always the best advice from you sir
Just started following, man I really like how you tell it like it is.
I’m about to listen to this book now he preaching 💯💯💯
Perception seems to improve as you get older, the fear of loss and the need to sort/fix things And we learn to separate as we get older
True I noticed I am no longer fear to lose chicks it’s more like I lose interest and I’m already talking to other women it’s crazy it’s always good to text 10-20 women at same time u start to forget who never texted back
Love the longer vids coach keep ‘em comin
Dating a girl when she doesn’t know you are coached by Corey Wayne (book and videos) is a great feeling
Solvang is in California...about an hour outside of Santa Barbara.
I love your videos. I've been obsessed with your book since I mest it up with a girl I really liked which liked me by over pursing. Idk if I can fix it with her but I'm definitely follow your no contact rule as much as possible with her though I work with her, but I'm not focusing on that as much as I can. I'm focusing on practicing being playful with other girls as much as I can. I never learned how to interact with women until I read your book. It's increased my skills so much and I'm just having fun laughing and joking with women. I'm going to go at least once a week to do what your book says. I've gone onces but it was on a week day and I didn't have much luck with any girls that I saw other than talking to this hot girl who worked in hot topic. I wasn't sure though if she was just being friendly but I joked and we held eye contact a few times. Either way I enjoyed it and it's becoming thrilling slowly practicing what you teach. I just wish I had more friends who want to go out which would make it easier but Maybe going slow will only make me more bolder over time.
Treat her like a celebrity and she will treat you like a fan every time
You have some excellent points. I bought your book and I will definitely say a lot of what you write is correct. I don’t agree with everything but I agree with many things in your book.
This is a very helpful video to watch. Thanks for the important info.
Solvang, CA is in Santa Barbara County
I feel for this guy. I get the same way. Its just repeating and changing your behavior. Im struggling but im seeing how my behavior is changing. Keep pushing cheif. Good luck
Never deal with any of their bullsh*t. Block them and move on.
Spot on coach!
I love you Corey lol just bought the book
Solvang- it's N of Santa Barbara, Ca. A Dutch Town.
Gotta force yourself to do what Corey says. I don't care what anyone says including woman, I'm 52 years old and I know for a fact every word he says is truth. To the emailer, you must force yourself to act indifferent, not chase, all that stuff. You know what helped me, telling myself she may go away while I'm ignoring her, but she DEFINITELY will go away if I chase. Once I did that I now have the girl of my dreams, married 10 years to a gorgeous girl who happens to be a lot younger than me. Listen to Corey!!!! Force yourself!!!!!
We've all been there. Learning the hard way. The hearts a bitch
Great email.. very entertaining 😂 and educational
Bro I have been there. In fact that is how I ended up reading the book and following Coach. I had done pretty good for a long time, but then I guess in my late 30s I got week. I met a girl and fell in love. I did exactly what you did and she walked. My friend had found the book and we started reading it together and now three years later things are great.
thank you for posting this Coach and Bob for sharing ! God bless
This video is classic corey wayne material. 24:14 just put the icing on the cake 😂😂
Love simp voice in this one, robot and girl voice in other videos are also great, can’t decide which I like the most
I tend to do the opposite, so much so that they are turned off thinking i have no emotions. But the fact is , i do i just am not gonna ever lose respect for myself.
Hearing these stories is like watching a a plane take a nose dive!! You know how is going to end.
This one hit close to home
Probably Slovang, CA. Wine country
Solvang, CA right outside Santa Barbara.
Always love listening in on your videos. You’re so fucking hilarious man. Very good stuff Corey 😎