How to Forgive Someone? Raai Laxmi Asks Sadhguru

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  • Опубликовано: 17 янв 2025

Комментарии • 398

  • @omiejoshi73
    @omiejoshi73 5 лет назад +153

    Every single time when I watch Sadhguru, it brings a smile on my face .. life appears more precious.
    Sadhguru, rather than giving a commandment as to what is good or bad, what's right or wrong, talks about how to become a better version of self with a certain proven technology. He surely knows how to blossom people. Truly a gift to mankind...Sadhguru, I bow down to your mysticism and grace 🌺🙏

    • @manumani5577
      @manumani5577 5 лет назад +5

      absolutely correct.... following him has changed many things in me..

  • @kirubhakarans5733
    @kirubhakarans5733 5 лет назад +89

    Nicely said , I thought I am good by forgiving someone but now I realise I am the culprit in the first place to not accept someone the way they are.

  • @Liza0868
    @Liza0868 5 лет назад +23

    I am trying all the time to explain this to people: who am I to judge you? Nobody is perfect! If you can, be with them, if not, just don't complicate your life. Thank you, Sadhguru!

  • @vandanagill5285
    @vandanagill5285 5 лет назад +56

    I don't know the lady, but Sadhguru had to repeat the same thing 4 times for her to understand.Hope she got it, finally.

    • @thelifeshow-thenobschannel8151
      @thelifeshow-thenobschannel8151 5 лет назад +3

      Like the man says: some get it straight away, to others yiu have to explain it and others you have to hit over the head and still😆

    • @sakeenahm
      @sakeenahm 5 лет назад +4

      That's because it's not so simple and easy to not criminalize someone you feel has atrociously wronged you.

    • @Sage_marie_acpc
      @Sage_marie_acpc 2 года назад

      and I had to write it down, does that make me handicap? Not everyone can learn the same as you.

  • @myselfx2441
    @myselfx2441 5 лет назад +123

    This man makes me question everything. It's crazy...

    • @iamauro1114
      @iamauro1114 5 лет назад +1

      Hey ! How are you ? 😄

    • @gajenr9369
      @gajenr9369 4 года назад

      Not man. Sadguru

    • @shrayusreddy
      @shrayusreddy 3 года назад +1

      Yeah, he confuses a Lot too,
      I found the Answer
      "Meditation is the Key"

    • @ultimatezone5808
      @ultimatezone5808 3 года назад

      @@shrayusreddy i think you are new here Or might be confused of not listening as it is being said

    • @shrayusreddy
      @shrayusreddy 3 года назад +1

      @@ultimatezone5808 new to what? I been a fan of sadhguru since I found out about him a Year Ago

  • @00kidney
    @00kidney 5 лет назад +52

    Forgiving someone is the greatest form of Self-respect. Let it go and let it God. Just free your heart from bad emotions. God bless who's reading this ❤️.

    • @weepingod
      @weepingod 5 лет назад +2

      forgiving someone just means you are too lazy to retaliate

    • @putyograsseson
      @putyograsseson 5 лет назад +2

      weepingod no because retaliation never stops the cycle

    • @weepingod
      @weepingod 5 лет назад

      @@putyograsseson oh you CAN stop the cycle

    • @weepingod
      @weepingod 5 лет назад

      @Spirituality and blissful nature i will start a gofundme to hire foreign contractors for those jobs

    • @weepingod
      @weepingod 5 лет назад

      @Spirituality and blissful nature i am neither, but at some point we have to take out the trash

  • @anonymousperson3567
    @anonymousperson3567 4 года назад +5

    “Just accept people as they are, forgiveness is not necessary.” 🙏💕

  • @ece421
    @ece421 4 года назад +5

    This video actually changed my life. Six minutes of this video and sitting with it for a few weeks - I was finally able to move past the hurt and pain.

  • @emma8821
    @emma8821 5 лет назад +2

    Respect to the man for being able to deal with such people in the way he does ...

  • @jamesgraham1809
    @jamesgraham1809 5 лет назад +15

    I forgave before, and it made me feel good. There is no anger in me ever ! 💖

  • @lifehackstricks5548
    @lifehackstricks5548 5 лет назад +28

    Sadhguru you are the only one who give right explanation of things with richness that really is into our Indian Soul.. Its great to live in your era..

  • @samuelmawunganidze8231
    @samuelmawunganidze8231 5 лет назад +3

    Excellent and Reinforced my stance that “I don’t forgive another person but I do work hard to forgive myself for self inflicted mental pain - my self as Sadhguru says>”.

  • @duppykillera7902
    @duppykillera7902 5 лет назад +1

    By a person manner and how they speak you can see who they are. No need to waste peoples time with rubbish questions. The man put it so simple, my kids would of understood. Thank you kind sir for your time. Blessings

  • @sreenivas0805
    @sreenivas0805 5 лет назад +9

    Accepting the way the opposite is itself a forgiveness.

  • @mikeboy0001
    @mikeboy0001 5 лет назад +227

    She's hearing him, but not really listening 😢

    • @geetaravi7874
      @geetaravi7874 5 лет назад +17

      more like listening but not understanding at all

    • @chrono8233
      @chrono8233 5 лет назад +10

      Shes Seems nervious maybe that's why.

    • @AvantekaGVerma
      @AvantekaGVerma 5 лет назад +2

      Then you do listen

    • @SumoSuperemo
      @SumoSuperemo 5 лет назад

      She's STILL not over MSD.
      Me thinks 🤔

    • @coolzizable
      @coolzizable 4 года назад +4

      Yeah she trying to look cute.

  • @muralikalghatgi
    @muralikalghatgi 5 лет назад +1

    People are the way they are !!! And the way they are not as we wish them to be !!! Wonderfully said by sadguru.

  • @bluewaterpines8323
    @bluewaterpines8323 5 лет назад +11

    Unrealistic expectations.Thank you Our Sadhguru. 🙏🏼

  • @randeepsingh3516
    @randeepsingh3516 5 лет назад +60

    Bring this girl in BigBoss we would get to know how much she has understood. 😂😂🤣

    • @YashuCosGaming
      @YashuCosGaming 4 года назад +1

      made my day, thanks :p

    • @sag4938
      @sag4938 4 года назад +1

      Hahaha shruti now thats some imagination powers you have 😂

    • @swatibhatt5813
      @swatibhatt5813 4 года назад +1

      ROFL

  • @ajinkyabadiger2738
    @ajinkyabadiger2738 3 года назад +2

    Sadguru makes life easier, wiping out unnecessary complications and questions 🙏

  • @thejmmx1
    @thejmmx1 5 лет назад +3

    Great talk, as always. Just one thing
    I need to be forgiven for the thoughts I'm having about the peerless Raai Laxmi

  • @balajik8473
    @balajik8473 5 лет назад +15

    Thankfully I have been living like this without ever thinking about it.

  • @jessie1090
    @jessie1090 5 лет назад +3

    Having allowance and not expecting anything of others,,, 🌈✨

  • @Manes-Ancestrales
    @Manes-Ancestrales 5 лет назад +2

    Sadhguru Forever 🥰🌹💖🙏🏿👍🏿.
    If you don't criminalize you will never have the problem of forgiveness.
    Wonderful 💖

  • @heatherthomas7545
    @heatherthomas7545 5 лет назад

    This is powerful. There is a movie that illustrates this to a man whose daughter is murdered, called The Shack. Sadhguru makes it so simple and succinct though. I love his energy, his ideas, and his humor. The world is a better place because he's in it.

  • @bluemoon2139
    @bluemoon2139 5 лет назад +4

    He is already expanded so well... where are your ears lady? 🙏

  • @jirokaze6380
    @jirokaze6380 5 лет назад +30

    I wanted to forgive her for dragging it so long... wait... I should not criminalize her... Got it!

    • @danielr.8345
      @danielr.8345 4 года назад

      😂lol yes its not a crime that she dont understand what sadhguru is saying

    • @xora7490
      @xora7490 3 года назад +1

      @@danielr.8345 plus its probably the best situation bcuz it helps those even further away from the path who are watching!

  • @sunterahiyelekhraj5967
    @sunterahiyelekhraj5967 4 года назад +4

    If you are hurt and you want to forgive them then remember you are hurting your inner soul which will make you restless for your entire life... If you really want to forgive someone then please make your inner soul such that no one can hurt you ever... 🥰🥰.... Life is beautiful

    • @y_limit_yourself
      @y_limit_yourself 2 года назад

      genuine question - how can I make my inner soul “such that no one can hurt you”

  • @Ash-lq9cr
    @Ash-lq9cr 5 лет назад +1

    Beautiful answer

  • @AMARJEETKUMAR-db8vc
    @AMARJEETKUMAR-db8vc 5 лет назад +1

    I got amazed the way sadguru replied😍😍

  • @LL-sq8se
    @LL-sq8se 5 лет назад +2

    Love to Sadhguru,he is very patient,and wise!👍🙋🕊️🌟🌟🌟🌟🌟

  • @alejandrobenitezvillegas983
    @alejandrobenitezvillegas983 5 лет назад +42

    Namaskar everyone

  • @rockyraj9620
    @rockyraj9620 5 лет назад

    Simplifying our (complicated)thought process.......
    Making life easier to live...tats is Sadhguru....🙏...

  • @rinusingh7206
    @rinusingh7206 5 лет назад

    wonderfully explained .
    Namaskar Sadhguru

  • @vijaybanker7369
    @vijaybanker7369 4 года назад

    Excellent and totally different approach.
    Pranaam.

  • @AyushGupta-mv4cb
    @AyushGupta-mv4cb 5 лет назад +1

    He changes the dimension of questions.😁😁😇

  • @prateekimagine
    @prateekimagine 5 лет назад +3

    Hi Sadhguru Ji .. Pranaam

  • @manjeetsingh7164
    @manjeetsingh7164 2 года назад

    Very nice Sadhguru jee 🙏 🙏

  • @tinal9634
    @tinal9634 5 лет назад

    🌸🙏🏻😊🙏🏻🌸 I love this. Hearing him say this, it is so obvious and sensible! I think Inner Engineering enables you to see this and then you can be more gentle on other people and yourself 🌸🙏🏻😊🙏🏻🌸

  • @BrianSmith-li3zs
    @BrianSmith-li3zs 5 лет назад +5

    Gratitude and good energy to you all

  • @mr.c2485
    @mr.c2485 5 лет назад

    We all want the same thing.... soundness of mind. Problem is most aren’t willing to take responsibility for themselves. Easier to place blame on someone or something.

  • @shotsoftheday3040
    @shotsoftheday3040 5 лет назад +1

    Sadhguru rocks!!

  • @logangomez1209
    @logangomez1209 4 года назад

    I just registered for sadhguru exclusive. I'm loving the wisdom. 🙏 🙏 🙏

  • @gilluminati-2042
    @gilluminati-2042 4 года назад +1

    My man smashed that!

  • @chanchalmantri6302
    @chanchalmantri6302 4 года назад

    Great answer!

  • @linuxd
    @linuxd 5 лет назад

    Sadhguru you are making excellent points and the conversation you are having is extremely important.
    However, if it's not my only isolated mind but something of someone's doing effects my health negatively, there is a moment for higher consciousness bonds to be forgiving.

  • @notionacademy1
    @notionacademy1 5 лет назад +31

    First comment....
    Forgiveness is giving up the hope that the past could be any different. Here the past includes the situations and the people. Life doesn't go as planned? It doesn't for anyone. Move on.

  • @shanti3152
    @shanti3152 4 года назад +1

    Brilliant response, guru ji. Thank you for this wisdom. xox

  • @nithyansethumadhavanclasses
    @nithyansethumadhavanclasses 5 лет назад

    This video just came to me at the right time.....

  • @blessedbeing9993
    @blessedbeing9993 5 лет назад +1

    Very nice and peaceful listening to this wisdom🙏

  • @lifelove5053
    @lifelove5053 5 лет назад

    if there is pain inside - feel it react it
    think in yourself - not what other think
    think how you live - not how other live
    you is you - other is other - we live with us

  • @mo0nbear
    @mo0nbear 2 года назад

    So much wisdom Sadhguru 🙏🥰

  • @Sage_marie_acpc
    @Sage_marie_acpc 2 года назад

    this is so good

  • @ajaysen9355
    @ajaysen9355 4 года назад +1

    Thank u sadguru ji🙏🏻🙏🏻

  • @mallikarjunaihy9437
    @mallikarjunaihy9437 5 лет назад

    Really great Guruji, perfect your selves, then forgiveness, all foolishness, so nicely clarified ,BOWDOWN SADHGURUJI, the Mystic,

  • @blackswan2449
    @blackswan2449 3 года назад

    Thank you soooo much Sadguruji 🙏🏻
    I am just lucky that I came across this video , something was bothering me and now i am at peace 😊

  • @erinblue4043
    @erinblue4043 Год назад

    Agree with the guru, forgivness is arrogance, we are fallible human beings and can't really put ourselves in a position to judge people so we don't need to forgive because forgivness implies judgment , we need to accept people the way they are and if they are bad persons who cause issues or harm us and can't improve their behaviour then we only Need to cut them from our life as soon as possible, no Need to criminalize anyone, there's already the law to deal with criminals

  • @jamespluta113
    @jamespluta113 5 лет назад

    Your a a wonderful man . I am sad I missed you in New York Sadhguru. You make life seem simple . You remind me of the old stories of prophets ....

  • @ananttaggarwal6600
    @ananttaggarwal6600 5 лет назад

    thank you Sadhguru.. u really solved the thing that was piercing me from long.. thank u a lot

  • @nimardeep6405
    @nimardeep6405 5 лет назад

    Sadhguru apkay mjay hai , aap Ko bht Sundar Kanyan janti hai..

  • @saumitragautam8333
    @saumitragautam8333 5 лет назад +2

    Think and feel.

  • @hochangyaw4477
    @hochangyaw4477 5 лет назад

    Thank you, Sadhguru.

  • @corydude2008
    @corydude2008 5 лет назад +2

    I love u Sadhguru!!! ❣️🌹❣️

  • @marlineramlotchan4214
    @marlineramlotchan4214 5 лет назад +1

    🙏🌹Sadhguruji.. This is a lesson you are sharing not to judge. Truly great🙏

  • @rajatjain4549
    @rajatjain4549 5 лет назад

    I think sadhguru explain Forgiveness in a way which best suits today's world. But it's not a complete one. Forgiveness , word meaning contains a lot of emotions, power n corrections. If any heart touches real essence of forgiveness then it is believed that he is a powerful man where everybody wants to join him with their corrected heart n emotion as he has a power to forgive....he is more more then a warrior...

  • @LargestCollectionofSadhguru
    @LargestCollectionofSadhguru 5 лет назад

    Anger is not the absence of love. Anger broke you apart. Love and anger wrap around each other and becomes one living thing inside your heart.

  • @udayachandrika9053
    @udayachandrika9053 5 лет назад

    Thanku Sadhguru 🙏

  • @boingbryan8123
    @boingbryan8123 5 лет назад

    Tq sadhguru...

  • @ypimages
    @ypimages Год назад

    I have not yet thought of the name of this channel but it will come within a week from today.

  • @bijonkumarsil41
    @bijonkumarsil41 5 лет назад

    Namaskar Sadhguru for your wonderful explanation on how to forgive others. It is easy for those who trust that everyone around him or her has the same composition of life and SOUL. But it could be hard for those who beleive only himself.

  • @nikhilhinge7489
    @nikhilhinge7489 5 лет назад

    Thanks sir

  • @innersmilebydrsanjeevmonga9369
    @innersmilebydrsanjeevmonga9369 5 лет назад

    Satguru is great unique ultimate

  • @joshireddy9192
    @joshireddy9192 4 года назад

    Best answer I ever heard...
    No business of forgiving 😂..
    Just know in the what way the other person is best at ...cool..

  • @onemanarmy3406
    @onemanarmy3406 5 лет назад +5

    🙏😊Jai Shree Krishna 😊🙏
    1. "Knowledge(Gyan)" stabilizes the "Brain(Mastisk)".
    2. "Patience(Dharya)" stabilizes the "Mind(Maan)".
    3. "Love(Prem)" stabilizes the "Heart(Hriday)".
    4. "Dedication(Samarpan)" calms the Impulses of the Body and stabilizes the "Body(Sareer)".
    5. "Justice(Naay)" stabilizes the "Soul(Aatma)".
    When these FIVE Bases of "Dharm" becomes stable, then man/woman is filled with "Compassion(Karuna)"
    ..... It's called "DHARM"
    😊🙏Jai Shree Krishna🙏😊

  • @univuniveral9713
    @univuniveral9713 5 лет назад +1

    We forgive, but we do not forget. I will explain: if your father is a bad driver and he puts your life in danger each time you are in his car, you simply forgive him by not trying to revenge or hate him = Forgiveness. But You should never let him drive you or even get in his car = do NOT forget.

  • @Pyarilovely
    @Pyarilovely 5 лет назад +2

    500 years from now he will one day be remembered like Gautama Buddha (of course i am not comparing him to Gautam Buddha)

  • @anupampriyadarshi5341
    @anupampriyadarshi5341 5 лет назад

    Oh she is perfect!!!

  • @charlotteabel7738
    @charlotteabel7738 5 лет назад

    I love his wisdom! Thank you.
    💜🕊💜

  • @cindy.s2244
    @cindy.s2244 2 года назад

    Forgive n let go move on all are Humans we make mistakes don’t live with guilt Fr urself or others let go . And be a better human . Don’t be an emotional fool doesn’t get u anywhere .🌸

  • @maheswargopinath1960
    @maheswargopinath1960 5 лет назад

    Accept the person and situation as they are.

  • @pcalde77
    @pcalde77 5 лет назад +1

    You rock sadghuru. I love your style. F@king awesome!

  • @mithun1985
    @mithun1985 5 лет назад +1

    Sadhguru ji well said.. 🙏🙏🙏

  • @ravindersuthar3618
    @ravindersuthar3618 5 лет назад

    nice

  • @balwantraodesai9991
    @balwantraodesai9991 5 лет назад

    Thank you sadguru

  • @indiahanan
    @indiahanan 5 лет назад

    I agree!, no need to forgive if i don't criminalize people, but it doesn't mean i have to accept the ofense of others just to accept them. So i prefer to socialize just with positive people rather than negative, it's healthier.

  • @brockkumar7180
    @brockkumar7180 5 лет назад +2

    This girl is not understanding what he meant by saying the difference between me and what is mine. This is the whole idea of spritiuality , have clarity of existence, and not creating illusion out of it. Namaskaram

  • @goodgreatlife
    @goodgreatlife 5 лет назад +1

    Guru ji, thanks for everything.

  • @mr.c2485
    @mr.c2485 5 лет назад

    Forgiveness is not a means to an end. It is simply a residual effect born of self awareness.

  • @amit1234579
    @amit1234579 5 лет назад

    He just destroyed her question 😇

  • @shubhamsharma7100
    @shubhamsharma7100 5 лет назад

    Mam u r the prettiest girl i have ever seen😍😍😍😍😍😍

  • @sunwavemusicfactory5085
    @sunwavemusicfactory5085 5 лет назад +1

    Fun Fact : If you can not forgive someone...Don´t do it... but see what is most easy... to do or not to do... you will be surprised 🕉

  • @silverfoils
    @silverfoils 5 лет назад +1

    We 'criminalise' (or apportion blame to ) people who have harmed us. It's a defence mechanism to avoid future trauma. If we don't criminalise them then we set ourselves up to be abused again. Forgiveness isn't something we just muster up within ourselves. It has to be earned by the wrongdoer through restitution.

  • @arudragupta8565
    @arudragupta8565 5 лет назад +1

    Inner engineering is a must for every human on earth. Only then can we live our life consciously

    • @aimlesswanderer6734
      @aimlesswanderer6734 5 лет назад

      So true, profound wisdom everyone should utilize it to live life to the fullest.

  • @anandamyoga6566
    @anandamyoga6566 5 лет назад +1

    Pls convert in hindi this conversation. Its very important

    • @debm09
      @debm09 5 лет назад

      There is a hindi channel also where it is translated

    • @anandamyoga6566
      @anandamyoga6566 5 лет назад

      @@debm09 ok

    • @muralikalghatgi
      @muralikalghatgi 5 лет назад

      Deepak kumar ji, The translation: pehle app kisi vykti se naaraaj kyu hote hai? Aur app ki hriday me zehar rakhte hai, aur ek din us ko kshama karte hai !!! Itni complication kyu ? Pehle hi us vykti ko accept karo, jai sa hai vysa accept karo kyu ki us ko ham badal nahi karsakte hai.
      Ab ham us ko kshama kar ne ka zaroori nahi padega. Itni Asaan nahi hai, magar mumkin hai.

    • @anandamyoga6566
      @anandamyoga6566 5 лет назад

      @@muralikalghatgi very nice.thank u for the translation.

  • @janeyang7655
    @janeyang7655 5 лет назад

    True Respect 💜

  • @saumitragautam8333
    @saumitragautam8333 5 лет назад +1

    Know thyself.

  • @himanichowdhary6875
    @himanichowdhary6875 5 лет назад

    Love you Sadguru

  • @nhi......8506
    @nhi......8506 2 года назад

    Thanks sadguru . Hope my friend will accept me after that

  • @Kamtarajesh16
    @Kamtarajesh16 5 лет назад +1

    The main problem is everyone wants to change others to the way they are or else they want to forgive them..!

  • @gauravsharma3882
    @gauravsharma3882 5 лет назад

    Hads off to u guru

  • @alondraacosta-mora6504
    @alondraacosta-mora6504 4 года назад

    that makes sense