Ready to Move On.. My Divorce Story..
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- Опубликовано: 15 сен 2024
- Starting my life over at 28 i had to move in back with my parents since i got divorce, i have bills due within 30 days just documenting my life now at rock bottom and hoping someday i can make this channel in to a positive maybe even help others one day who knows lets see what happens
- Today's Video:
sorry about the sound.. hardest video i have ever done.. only told this story to 3 people in my personal life.. i've tried recording this video through out these five months but never been able to finish it the pain has been too much.. but im ready to speak out in hopes this helps someone one day and to be able to accept what happened, get closure and move on with my life..
- Only Social i use right now:
Instagram: / factoner
Hope your better these days. God Bless
Hang in there, broski. You're doing really well. man. Thanks for sharing your story. Although it was tough to talk about, I hope getting it out there helped relieve you a bit.
it did, i been scared to speak about this out loud until i had many people ask how i was able to leave my marriage, so i decided to tell my story n hope n its helps others
Hello dear.I feel your pain. Being betrayed by the person you love is a very hard thing to get over. I can understand how you feel about not wanting to be involved with anyone right now and that is pretty normal in your situation. I would like for you to remember this.....Some day, a person will come along. You may not even pay any attention to them at first. But, eventually you will be very interested. This will lead to a new life. Don't look for it, just let it happen. There is happiness in your future. God Bless.
exactly i've just been focusing on myself mentally, physically and financially, thank you
The greatest lessons are learned while we are young. So be grateful and move on; you will survive, I did as well as others. STAY STRONG!
thank u!
I am divorsed too.i feel al what you have been trouw....but you not worthless.but the people who says that to you are not kind..you will be better.peace
thank u, i am learning a lot and honestly i really do think it was for the best
Hang in there brother and thank you for sharing your story. The thought seems to be that break ups are easy for men, but that is not the case. I went through a break up and it was the hardest thing that I have ever done. I still have sadness in my heart because of it. I sense the same on your voice my friend, sadness. I pray for you my brother stay strong and move on.
My man I have to tell you this, I went thru a divorce, I did things with her that I regret I did things with her that I missed for a very long time, she was my friend, she was my wife and she was my mom but without she even realizing it she was using me and I was using her. You are better alone than been with the wrong person. I went thru drug addiction, thru losing my job and my house and now 5-6 years later I’m with a women that I never even dreamed I could ever be with, in an apartment than I couldn’t even dream about and with a job that I’m the best at and everyone recognizes me. I learned from her as much as she did with me. She did really wrong things to me that broke me psychologically big time and I still struggle with it BUT PLEASE KNOW THIS!!!! You would be ok, you are getting better day by day, this experience really going to come handy with your next girl. Be strong and love you brotha no homo :)
haha that last part, that's wat keeps me going finding stories like these man seriously thank u brotha! i was thinking b4 even looking for some1 i need to fix myself mentally n financially!! so far so good! editing new vid with really good news!!
I feel you 💯 good luck on your journey to happiness. You will get there. Stay strong🙏🏼
thank u!
You seem like a nice guy. Understand that women ride roughshod over nice guys and feel zero remorse about it. I recommend staying single for a good while because unless you learn to spot red flags, this will happen again.
yup i learned the hard way, kept ending up in a similar relationship until i learned to spot those red flags and worked on myself, thank you!
Hope you're ok and I know it can be hard for what you're going through
thank u man doing a lot better now then how i was b4
Speaking from experience, it does get better mate. You’re absolutely right when you say that you need to be alone, to be comfortable being alone. You and I are basically in the same boat, as are most of the people that have commented on here. As for the when you said you hope to one day travel the world, if you ever find yourself down here in Australia, let me know and you can come around for a BBQ Aussie style lol.
thank you!! appreciate it! Australia definitely on my list!
Stay strong, i know it's very hard to cope. Eight months ago my girlfriend of 7 years broke up with me, that i hit me hard even i end up with depression luckily i seek for help, I'm doing well with the help of therapy.. All i can say strong and don't rush for another relationship, stay strong brother.
relationship is the last thing on my mind i kno im not ready, focusing on myself n becoming independent again is my priority, thank u!
Thank you so much for sharing this brother. It takes a lot courage to do what you did & shared how you feel. Though I was never married, I to have been in a similar situation. It may seems & sound cliche and all but it will get better in time bro. We're lucky enough that we have our siblings that can get us through all the curve balls that life throws at us & be with us in situations like these. Live life and take it day at a time. It may not benow but someday, I want to see you make videos again on what you are passionate about weather it be collecting and what not but something that will make you truly happy again. You seem like a cool dude and I know you will make it through this slight set back that life brings to us every so often....You will be okay my brother.
thank u, seriously appreciate it after talking to a few people who went through similar situation n seeing them do better, big time helped me out
We humans are weak, please don’t let her behavior determine how you feel about yourself or about life. At some point you’ll find that happiness is within 🙏
thank u definitely doing a lot better now
Thanks for telling your story. Marriage is very hard. I am having a hard time now. I suspect her of maybe cheating because I have become distant due to stress and lack of her doing her part to be a team. For example, we have a joint checking account, our pay gets deposited and we take out an allowance of 150 for each of our pays. I usually save mine to buy things like tools, or pay for special events. She spends hers and more on what I think is worthless stuff like concert tickets, etc. She never has anything in savings. I usually do have savings. When money gets tight and bills need to be paid, or a vehicle repair, it has to come out of my savings. So lately I cannot save anything, sometimes I don't even take an allowance because too much is getting spent on unnecessary things. It depresses the hell out of me sometimes knowing she gets to do what she wants, and I get nothing. I hope that I can just put that aside and give her the attention like you said, and make things work because I can't see myself leaving. We just bought a house 3 years ago, I put my life savings up for improvements and equipment for the property. It would kill me, literally, to leave everything behind. We also have a 14 year old son together that I love with all my heart, and I know it would kill him inside to see me and his mother apart. He still cries when we fight. I pray that you get yourself back to normal. Thanks for the story again.
please, please, please see a marriage counselor before this cannot be fix, i understand 100% where both of you are coming from you see the future and she sees the present my ex wife and i also had this problem and made things way worse it created other issues too but i was willing to work it out until she cheated once that deed was done i couldnt continue
@@factoner We talked this morning, we are going set up counseling. Especially since we realized that our problems are affecting our son. Thank you, and God bless.
@@106pricey also talk to your son about everything together, i grew up in a home like this and it affects you all your life i hope you guys can work this out, wish you nothing but the best and happiness!
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You’re a very handsome fella 😏😏 I’m sure you’ll find someone that’s worthy of your kindness someday when you’re ready chulo
haha thank u!
A very sad generation ...
Good channel my guy
How is your recovery so far?
way better!! still in the process of the divorce but if all goes well should be done this month, finally got a good job and paying off my debt, i plan on having my own place next year, wasnt easy but slowly getting my life back
Hey Bro, hope things are better a year later for you. Ask God for help.
it's definitely a lot better.. i have a good paying job now, putting $1,000 towards my debt a month n i plan on moving out next year, i can finally say i am happy, thank you
@@factoner That is great to hear. Life has its ups and downs, just have to work thru them. Have a great rest of the year and a great 2020.
@@Ray-iz7tv thank you brotha you as well!!