Part 3 | Stages of Dementia: 6 & 7
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- Опубликовано: 15 июн 2024
- A lot of people have questions about the stages of dementia. In this video, we will talk about stages 6 & 7. If you didn't know there are 7 stages 🤯. This video will cover the final two. There's also a 3 stage model (early, middle, late) which some people prefer and for good reason.🤔. However, in this video series, we discussed the 7 stages of dementia as influenced by the Global Deterioration Scale and the Functional Assessment Staging Test (FAST). Are you ready?
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Part 1 | Stages 1-3: • Part 1 | Stages of Dem...
Part 2 | Stages 4-5: • Part 2 | Stages of Dem...
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Hi, I just watched your video . Thanks, it was very helpful and informative.
I think my husband's dementia is on stage 5. Do you think it is useful to show him this video of stages of dementia, or it's scare him and get more upset. I would appreciate to know more
Thanks
Thank you for watching@@shahlamotlagh9967!
I would say no. In my opinion, there would be no good reason to show him this video. Please let me know if you have any follow-up questions.
This explains my mother's dementia exactly you done a great job explaining it thanks so much
@@robertgriffin742 you are welcome! Thanks for watching 💜
This is my first ever RUclips comment - and you are worth it. As a lifelong educator, I am so impressed with your teaching ability. This is the most comprehensive explanation I have ever heard. And I have heard a lot! Thank you.
Aww that is very sweet of you. Thank you so much for your comment! ❤️
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I agree! She is explains very simply what to expect. Her explanation is short and concise.
This is depressing.
i cant imagine how much empathy one must have to take care of someone with dementia knowing they are slowly turning i to a human sized baby who will eventually die.
God bless all caregivers ❤️
Yes, being a dementia care partner is definitely a super tough role! It really is heartbreaking.
By far the most physically, emotionally and mentally exhausting job I have ever done
Thank you
I think my husband is on stage 6 due to his behavior
You touched on some much of what's going on in this stage
I can relate to so much the aggression lost track of time can be violent and Aggressive
I am caring for my husband with Young Onset Alzheimer’s. He was diagnosed at 55 and is now 59. He is mid stage 6 at present. I have been researching this awful disease for almost 4 years. Your video popped up tonight while I was looking at another video about Memory Care. You have done an OUTSTANDING job with this video in explaining this topic. I have not watched your other videos since we are already in mid stage 6. I am exhausted. I so want to put him in respite care just for a month 2 or 3 times a year but after a recent surgery, he had a bad experience 2 hours after coming out of surgery and anesthesia. He had to be restrained and is a retired law enforcement officer and a very big guy. I can’t imagine him going through this again. So, I’m doing my best to care for him at home. Of all the videos I have watched on this topic, yours was the most informative and succinct. Excellent job. You clearly seem to have picked the right career training!
Thank you for your kind words. I really appreciate it! Yeah surgery and anesthesia...I mean hospital stays in general, can take such a huge toll on people living with dementia.
I can definitely understand your desire to want to take a month long respite a few times a year. Maybe you could explore the option of in-home respite (possibly even through local community organization volunteers)....maybe for not as long, but he'd be cared for in a familiar place with the potential to keep a consistent routine and then you are the one who would leave the home to explore and take a break.
She explained it better than ANY video I've watched so far. Moms going through this now and it's heartbreaking. 😪 When she said a person may call u by your name but then say no the other Amy, that hit home 🏡 for me. My mom said "Where's Linda" I told her "Im right here".... mom said "No the other Linda." This video helped me so much. Thank you.
You are welcome! Stay strong 💜💙💜
Linda, my mother keeps asking and saying that her daughters aren't visiting her. She has 1, me, but she's wondering where the younger me is or the middle age me, I'm 64. She knows I'm Shelley, but is totally confused.
We moved my mom into a small retirement home with assisted living, in a private room with bathroom, when she was around stage 5. Best decision we ever made, my dad could not deal with her as he was older, and she actually thrived for another 4 years. She has now progressed rapidly to stage 7 but the home is willing to keep her there, we are with her daily and can spend time on caring for her just like you described. This also allowed her family members to still live their own lives and not get physically and emotionally burnt out. I think people underestimate the toll caregiving for a person with dementia can take, and that it is progressive and does not get better. My heart goes out to everyone who has the disease and to their caregivers to find strength to know when it’s time to move the person they love into a place that can care for them. There is no shame in that at all.
I'm glad that you all made the transition early and it proved to be beneficial. I agree, there is definitely no shame in setting up living arrangements that can best meet the needs of your person living with dementia. So many feel guilty about placing their person in a nursing home, care home, assisted living facility, or memory care facility. As you pointed out, it can often turn out to be a really good thing for everyone involved. I do, however, wish it was more affordable for people, but that's a whole other conversation.
Thanks for watching and commenting. 💜
You have described the stages of dementia better than anyone I’ve listened to! You are awesome! Thank you so much. I now think my husband is in stage 6
Thank you! I'm glad you found the video helpful in figuring out what stage your husband may be in. 💜
You have done a wonderful job explaining the stages of dementia! My mother seems to be in stage 6. I pray 🙏🏽 that she gets healed from this horrible disease!
Thank you! I'm glad your mom has you there to be a part of her journey.
You did an amazing job explaining these stages. We are presently, and unfortunately, going through stage 7, w/ our mom. The decline in eating, weight-loss, and fighting bedsores, are definitely the most challenging now. I was so proud of the fact that, although she started losing weight, I'd been able to keep bedsores at bay. But. Once she started sleeping more, it caught up w/us. Now, it's a daily, rotations game with her body, and, it is not easy, since she no longer has sufficient padding of her bony areas on her hips to fight it. You get one area healed, then another wants to break down. You feel like you're fighting windmills!!! But. I digress. Trying so hard to make sure she has the care, love & comfort that she so deserves. She certainly gave it to us, as long as she could. God bless you for all of the education you share on dementia. Your information is absolutely, invaluable!😘
Thank you so much! Yes, bed sores are such a booger even with frequent repositioning, extra pillows and padded repositioners, at a certain point, it can become really hard to keep bony prominences protected. I'm glad your mom has you to help care for you as she goes through her journey. I can tell you love and care for your mom very much! Thank you for taking the time to leave a comment! 💜
Can you give me tips and tricks, advice or anything. We are slowly entering this stage and I need to know what kinds of supplies I will need to continue to care for my mom at home.
@@antoinettebartkowicz3634 Were you asking us or Chynnadoll1999?
Thank you so much, Bre'anna. Your explanation of these Stages are much better and easier to understand than most videos I've listened to on RUclips. I could "place" my mom easily in Stage 6 based on your description and examples, and you state clearly what is "normal" or to be expected at each stage of the disease. I am going to be sure to watch all your videos on Dementia. Your time and effort to make these videos is so appreciated!
Aww you are welcome! Thank you so much for your comment 🥰
You’re breaking it down much easier than what I found others to do. Thank you. I now know what stage my husband is because of the way you’re breaking it down.
Great to hear! ❤️
My poor mom. Shes 96 and going through this now. She cries because she says everyone is gone. Shes scared and just seems so lost.
I hate seeing her like this. It is indeed the long sad goodbye ❤
It can definitely be hard to witness! I'm sorry your mom is so scared ❤
Outstanding Job! My dad seems to be in a combined stage of late 6 and early 7.
it is terribly heartbreaking to witness his decline but we are making memories.
Aww thank you! Yes, it is very heartbreaking - a very good word choice. It's definitely hard to watch, which why I think unfortunately, many people choose not to. I'm glad your hanging in there and doing your best to create joyful moments!
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Thank You for your encouragement!!! 🌹
They may be resistant at first but car trips are fun for them.
A very informative, explicit and simply worded explanation of the last two stages of dementia. The speaker’s explanations and descriptions of the progress in Stages 6 and 7 are clear, slow and well enunciated. A well presented Bambi Care Champions presentation. Thank you.
Thank you Margaret! 💜
You are incredibly good at communicating this difficult topic. Thank you!!!!
Aww thank you! You are welcome!
This is the *best* video I’ve watched to date! I really appreciate you getting straight to the point and staying on task without over explaining. Your energy is so calming, centered and humble; that also makes it so much easier to learn what you’re teaching. I can’t wait to check out your other videos!
Aww, I appreciate your kind words! Let me know if you ever have any questions!
@@BambuCare thank you ~ I will! 🥰
This is one of the most complete series that explains in detail all behaviors that come along ..
I'm glad to hear so! Let me know if you have any other questions! :)
Bre’anna you are are an awesome educator. I watched so many videos while caring for my Mom who had Alzheimers, she passed a year ago. We are now caring for my mother-n-law that has vascular dementia. You are by far the best. Thank you so much and God bless you!
So sorry for your loss! I'm glad your mother-in-law has you and your family to help care for her through her journey. Please let me know if you ever have any questions. Thanks for all you do to care for those living with dementia. 💜
Thank you so much I finally understand what is going on with my mother. I just thought she was crazy and mean. Doctors do not give a good explanation of what is going on. Again thank you.
You are welcome! Yeah some doctors really don’t give you much information to work with.
& you know some people are crazy and mean, but there’s usually more to the story! ❤️
Thanks for watching!
Thank you! From the sounds of this video …My mum is in early stage 6. My mum was diagnosed with mixed dementia 2019 at 69 years of age. I search daily for any information I can to prepare myself for what’s to come. I grieve everyday for the person I once knew…and just want to make things as comfortable as possible for however long she has with us. Thank you again, this video has been so helpful.
You are welcome! Your mom is lucky to have you as a part of your journey. It's definitely tough though. I can understand the grieving part. If you ever need more support or are looking for more information and resources you can always join us inside the Treehouse! 💜 letsbambu.com/treehouse
I feel, caring for a parent with dementia, almost like I’m learning how to take care of a newborn. Like, where’s the instruction manual? I need a roadmap to what to do care-wise at what stage. Your videos are the closest I’ve found to that.
I really appreciate you saying that!
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We also have what’s called the Treehouse which is essentially a dementia care library full of videos, podcasts, blogs, printable resources, activities, webinars, even product recommendations. ( letsbambu.com/treehouse )
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I hope this information helps 💜
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Sorry, I know that was a lot! 😬✨
Thank you for such a detailed description of the stages of dementia! You answered so many of my questions on what stage my mom is in! I now know why she acts the way she does and what to expect. It really helped me to decide what is best for her!!
You are so welcome!
You have taught me so much. Thank you so much.
The best explanation of this awful disease Ive ever seen..explained simply so easy to understand..
Thankyou for this..
Oh Bre’anna, you are a jewel! Thanks so much for these videos.
You are so welcome! 💜
Thank you for sharing. I'm so scared. I went through it with my father. Now it's my mother. I fear her death. I'm crying all the time.
It’s definitely a tough journey. If you need support as you go through your journey with your mother, feel free to join our free support community at letsbambu.com/champions ; I’m more than happy to support you the best way I can and answer any questions you have as they come up! 💜
Bless you...😊
Breanna, I finally understand the stages of alzheimer's. It's by far the best video & books that I have seen & read! Brilliant! Thank you ever so much! Continue the good work!
That’s so sweet of you! Thank you and you are welcome!
My husband is definitely in stage 6. Everything your telling us is so true. It’s getting so much harder. This is definitely the long goodbye.
💜💜💜 sending grace and peace your way!
You’ve been very helpful. I’m going through this right now with my husband. He’s in stage five right now. It’s definitely the long goodbye.
You are welcome! It can be very hard. Let me know if you ever have any questions!
My husband is in 6 & 7. I thought stage 5 was going to kill me with “the long goodbye “. You definitely coined that phrase. So hard and so bittersweet indeed. So sorry you’re having to go through it as well.
Your presentation is truly excellent. As a school psychologist during my working years I am now learning from your expertise how do better support a dear relative.
Keep up you delightful teaching style. You're the best!
Wow, that is so kind of you to say! I'm glad I can be of some help along your care journey as you support your relative! That makes me feel good!
Thank you for this video. I’m new to knowing about dementia (mom is likely 6/7 and can’t speak but is somewhat mobile and in a care home). Your voice is perfect and the way you speak to, for informative videos. You conveyed this information in a way that was pleasant/neutral enough and not in a dreary way like some dementia videos are.
You are welcome! Thank you for all the kind words it really means a lot! 💜
This is excellent! Best presenter ever. I have found many professionals in this field won't help with discussing stages. Thank you. I realize my sister is now at stage 6. She is 61, with early onset Alzheimer's. Got diagnosed August 2018 at stage 4. I'm with her 24-7, gave up work 2 years ago to care for her. Am exhausted. She's stopped being affectionate which hurts a lot.
Thank you! Yes, many find that it's not helpful or relevant because the stages are not concrete and it can vary, but I personally think it's good to have some basic knowledge about the stages. I think it can be helpful in knowing what to expect and what's typical for the progression of dementia so that people can try to prepare.
I can't imagine how tough that must be. I know finding help can be hard, especially now-a-days, but make sure you are prioritizing self-care!
I agree with Alice Lafferty you are amazing at teaching. What a gift! God bless you more and more.
Aww that’s so sweet of you to say. Comments like you all’s is what keeps me going. My podcasts are much easier to keep up with than videos, but hopefully once I get settled again, It’ll be easier to put out more videos too! :) thank you 💜
My Dad was diagnosed with Vascular Dementia in July 2022 but I think he started around 2018 with it. And now by watching this video. Thank you so much I know where my dad is at Stage 5 mid going on 6 😢 He just remembers mostly everything from the past. But has difficulty from present time. I have to tell him to take a shower, brush his teeth and shave. He fights with me cause he doesn’t want to do it and I have to go to the bathroom with him so he can wash his hands 😔 he’s 85 and my mom is 84 so me and my girlfriend who is a caregiver takes care of them. When my dad says he has to go pee he gets paper to wipe his but thinking he pooped and he didn’t 😔 He’s very repetitive saying things like where am I at and why do you got to leave and I would tell him I don’t live with you anymore and the more you tell him he doesn’t get it. Also I’ve taken him to my place lots of times and says things like I’ve never been here before who’s place is this etc.. It’s heartbreaking 💔 seeing my dad like this 😢
Thanks for sharing! It can definitely can be heartbreaking to witness. Your dad is lucky to have you to care for him as he goes through his journey though. Even you watching this video to understand more says a lot about you and shows that you care! 💜 Bambu Care ( letsbambu.com ) has tons of resources if you are ever needing more support along your journey caring for your dad - and we are always accepting requests :)
Bless you...😊
Excellent presentation. ..I'm looking after my 90 year old father with various conditions including cancer and dimentia. I think we are in Stage 6 to 7 ...the worst to deal with is the' 'let me go home' episodes😧😩
Aww thank you! Yeah, that’s definitely challenging! Maybe you will find this podcast episode helpful: Podcast Ep: "I Want to Go Home" Reasons Why + How to Respond [Dementia]
ruclips.net/video/i6JhwyKIsTI/видео.html
I recommend everywhere at the end of time for those who want a musical representation of dementia
Thank you!
@@BambuCare can cats get dementia
@@cat_the_real actually and unfortunately, yes
@@BambuCare my cat is really old and I think that he will get it
I wish i found this video a couple years ago but even now, what a HUGE help this was for me. Thank you.
Aww! Well, i'm glad you still found it helpful!
My grandmother lived with Alzheimer’s for 25 years, she remained mobile, could still feed herself and talk, she was this way until she passed at 93. I am currently caring for my 83-year-old mother who has Alzheimer’s most likely stage six, in the later stage of it. Nothing she says makes any sense, she talks all the time, especially in her sleep, she is very mobile and can feed herself. She does not sleep at night, up every hour, sometimes every half hour, she takes a 30 minute nap during the day. I don’t know how she can keep going on so little sleep! I know it’s exhausting me to try to care for her when I only get 3 to 4 hours of sleep a night because my Mom is constantly getting out of bed at night!
Yeah unfortunately, different people can progress through the course of dementia at different rates and misdiagnosis is also common when it comes to doctors identifying the right type of dementia because it is still very misunderstood (not to say this is the case, but it does happen quite often).
But, in the regards to your mother and her not sleeping much at night, there could be a number of things going on. First, has she always had trouble sleeping as an adult or is this new?, could it be a medication she’s on?, when she gets up, what is she getting up to do? When she takes a 30 minute nap during the day what time is she taking the nap? What does the rest of her day look like?
My grandmother is 94 and is somewhere between 6 and 6.5 or very early 7. Her behavior is deplorable, but only with me and my mom (which is her daughter). We are her sole caregiver's and her level of resentment is on 100. Lol Anyway, thanks for this info, as her physicians seem like we should just take each day as it comes. Your info definitely resonates. Be blessed, Queen.
Yeah unfortunately it seems to work out that way sometimes. It’s kind of like that saying “we treat the ones we love (or the ones closest to us) the worst.” It’s usually because subconsciously or even consciously we know they will put up with it more than some random person you just met and can’t trust to know how they will respond. But, of course, it can also be because our loved ones have more opportunities to rub us the wrong way because we are around them the most.
Hang in there 💜💙
Most helpful, thank you so much. I'm a caregiver of a 95 year old Alzheimer's person. I think she's in stage 6-7. Her 75 year old daughter and I take care of her at home. Exhausting, but we love her. Much Love to you. ❤️
Yes, caring for someone living with dementia can be very demanding! Stay encouraged ❤️. Even if she doesn’t say it or show it I’m sure she’s very grateful for all the nurture and care she’s getting.
This hits home. Thank you! Just learning the stages.
You are welcome! Be sure to check out our website at letsbambu.com if you are seeking more support! ❤
Thank you so much Breanna…My husband is between 6-7 you are the best to help us…it is very sad to deal with , but so grateful for the time we have left…
You are more than welcome!
Very informative. I wonder why caregivers and family often don't learn more about the disease. It makes caring for the patient so much easier to be knowledgeable.
It definitely does. I think it’s because a lot of health care professionals including doctors aren’t knowledgeable unless it’s their specialty and so they don’t set up family members with resources. It’s unfortunate. I hope to be able to do more work in the community soon
I relived my sisters stage 1-7 with her dementia as I listened to you explain the symptoms. She passed away quietly one evening. She said many times she was ready to go home
Thank you for sharing. Rest in peace to your sister ❤️
Great video information on a long journey. My husband is in stage 5 with some of 6 happening. He is at home with a palliative care team from a local hospice MainStreet company in our community.
@@annlietz-workman7837 Thank you and thank you for sharing. I'm glad your husband is able to be home with a palliative care team involved!
Good talk. Helpful. Thank you!
Thank you! The is the BEST explanation. I watched every single step of this with my father-in-law, and now my mom 2dxd with Alzheimer's and she's probably around stage five. I hate this cruel disease.
You are welcome. Sorry it took me a couple of days to respond. But, yes, it really is such a tough disease. Let me know if you have any questions or need support Holly!
The specific examples are so helpful in identifying stages. Best explanation I've heard.
Yay! I'm glad it was helpful!
Thank you for such a good and compassionate teaching.
You are welcome! 💙
Thank you so MUCH for this video
You are more than welcome!
Most informative! Thank you and I do hope to see you again at a later date!!🤗
Thank you!!
Very helpful! Your explanations are very clear. Thank you.
You are very welcome!
Wish I could give more than 1 👍 thumps up, you are a treasure and thank you tremendously for sharing your personal hands on knowledge with us!! 🙏🙏🙏
Aww that it so sweet of you to say! I’m happy to help! 💜
Wonderful video, thank you so much!
You are welcome! Thank you for watching :)
Only just found you, you have been wonderful in presenting all this information so clearly. It will help so many people to understand and deal with all the steps you've talked about. Thank you so much.
You are more than welcome!
Well done. Thank you. 🌻
You are welcome!
Very well explained! Great 😊 job!
Thank you! Glad it was helpful!
Very good explanation and presentation. Thanks
You are welcome!
Very good explanations!
Thank you!
Thank you, very clear.
You are very welcome! Glad to hear!
Thank you so much, this is the most thorough video I have come across and I really appreciate the information.
Aww you are so welcome!
I agree, this is the best description, with examples, that I've ever come across. It's helpful to recognize where they are on the dementia timeliness and to know what to expect in the next phase. Thank you.
Thank you so very much! You have made this very clear!
You're very welcome! I’m happy to hear that!
I Love this very much, of how the stages are presented. Thanks 🇦🇺❤
Glad to hear ❤️
Great job. Clear, concise and comprehensive.
Thanks! Glad to hear!
Thank you, very informative
You are so welcome!
You are a gold mine, beautiful inside and outside, you are very informative and personal I was struggling with some issues but you really helped me I'm feeling much better keep up the great work, God Bless ❤
Oh Josie your comment just made my day! Thank you so much for your kind words. I'm always here to help! Let me know if you ever have any questions or topics you would like me to address! 💜
An excellent presentation, many thanks, very informative...
You are welcome! Thank you ❤️
Very helpful, thank you.
You are welcome!
Excellent Presentation! Very Informative and Well Done! Bless You for Blessing us!
Thank you for your kind words!
Excellent information. Thank you.
You are very welcome!
Thank you so much for all the informations
You are very welcome!
This is a really clear video. Thank you for sharing this great information
You are very welcome! 💜
Your videos have helped me so much. God bless you. You are amazing!
Aww you are welcome! If you ever need a support community along your care journey you are more than welcome to join us in the Bambu Care Champions community - it’s free! We’d love to have you! 💜
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Mom has dementia and she is so mean, and she yells and kicks me out of her house after driving 2 1/2 hours to her house. She likes to yell and kick me out in front of family members!! I hate it!! My stepfather goes along with it!!! She kicked my out of the hospital because I bought her flowers from the grocery store instead of the gift shop!! The gift shop was closed, because it was a sunday!!
I responded to your other comment with this message. I try to respond to all my comments so even if you post your comment just once I will still see it :)
Message:
I'm sorry your mother is being mean to you and that your interactions with your mom and stepfather haven't been so pleasant.
There are number of reasons why your mother could be being mean to you and it would be hard as an outsider looking in to say exactly why this could be as I would have to have a better understanding of the situation and the family dynamics. There also may be some boundaries that need to be set with your stepfather, but that's a whole other situation.
Since you said she starts out nice and then becomes mean and agitated I would take note of what's happened leading up the point of her becoming that way. What triggers the change? How long are you there before things turn sour? Is it 15 minutes. Is it 30? Is it longer?
When she asks you to leave, what does she say? Does she give a reason; What is her reason? Do you acknowledge the request, say your goodbyes and just leave or do you say something else? What do you say and does this make the situation better or worse?
One thing we have to keep in mind is that when someone becomes agitated, regardless of the reason why, we can either add water to the fire or add fuel to the fire. Water will tame it out and fuel will of course make it worse.
In all cases of agitation, we always want to add water (whatever that may look like for the given situation). Water could look like acknowledging what they've said, validating their feelings, giving space, and honoring requests. Fuel would like arguing, trying to defend ourselves, pointing out the inaccuracies in what they are saying, refusing to honor requests because it doesn't make sense to us, continuing to do something another person clearly doesn't like - things that are pretty natural to do, but may not be helpful.
Also, if you want to continue to visit your mom but are worried about driving a long way just for a short visit, consider making other plans in the area. That way, your trip won't feel wasted even if the visit is short. You can still enjoy the mini road trip and make the most of it.
Well done Bre'anna. Thanks!
You are welcome! Thanks for watching!
Thank you very much . This information is very helpful.
You are welcome!
You are very authentic Bre'anna---love this video. My father is in Stage 6 and very hungry, all the time--but losing muscle mass. He has fallen several times so far without bone breaks thank goodness. The wound care is needed now, I bought bed floor pads for him. I plan to eventually rent a hospital bed when the time comes.
Aww that’s very sweet of you! I definitely strive for authenticity!
I’m glad your dad hasn’t broken anything! Falls can be tough.
Let me know if you ever have any questions.
Wishing you well on your care journey! 💜
I’m glad you mentioned your dad being hungry all the time. I’m glad my loved one is eating but I’m trying to understand this constant hunger. I don’t know if the cues to her brain isn’t letting her know that she isn’t hungry. It’s very confusing to me.
Really helpful and clear. Thank you.
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This was very informative, and well done. My mother in law is in stage 6 dementia. Plus last month she had a stroke because of her dementia. Her dementia meant she wasn't remembering to take care of herself. Pills for her AFIB. Bathing, many other things. So because of this she had a stroke. Now she's living g here as long as we can take care of her. Mostly me. It's a good thing I have experience in this field. I really appreciated your video.
I’m sorry your mom had a stroke. She’s lucky to have you to care and support her as she goes through her journey. 💜
Thanks for watching!
Thank you for explaining these different stages so well. It was very helpful and I am sharing this video with my family members
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Thank you so much for your video. You explained this better than anyone I have ever heard. God bless you,
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Very good communicator. Easy to understand. Thank you.
Thank you!!💜
Thanks for a Great presentation of the Dementia stages 6 and 7.🇦🇺🙏🌏🌍🌎❤🇱🇰
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When I found out, I invested in talking, listening and loving my Uncle, He spent all of his life learning, teaching and working. So it is painful to know that he can’t even speak anymore. He always placed a huge emphasis on having money and protecting his money and now; he doesn’t even know what money is.
After crying so much and getting depressed; the Holy Spirit told me to appreciate and thank father Yah for the 56 years that I enjoyed with him. So now I smile when I think of home and am so grateful to The Father that he allowed me to be his niece and how much I benefited as a result of listening and learning from him. I retired at 40yrs old with 5 significant degrees and have read two books a month for 30yrs. I know know that I must cherish each day that I am “clothe my right mind”.
I’m glad that the message you received from the Holy Spirit offered some guidance and solace. Your uncle is lucky to have you a part of his life!
Really informative. Good attempt. Thanks very much for your kind and simple presentation.
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Thank you very informative
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This is very practical! It is much appreciated, it shows how much direct experience you have..
Thank you! I appreciate your response!
Good information. Thank you. We are dealing with stage 5 at present. Again, thank you.
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Thank you So much !
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This series has clarified the stage my best friend is in, and it is Stage 5. I need to find a way to be with him more often and that is my current goal. TY so much for this easy to understand and valuable info!!!!
You are very welcome! I’m glad it was helpful. Thanks for being there for your friend in any way you can! 💜
Very informative and helpful.Thank you so very much.What a wonderful communication skill inside of a young professional.❤
Thank you! I’m glad it was helpful!
Well presented breanna. Learnt so much from your presentation
Thank you! So glad to hear!
Thank you.Your presentation was the most simple and understandable of anything I've seen.We have been having a hard time getting a grasp on where my mom is in terms of the different stages.This gave me a very clear sense that she is moving from stage 5 into 6 and what to be prepared for and to watch out for.
You are welcome! That's great to hear! I'm happy I was able to help 💜
thank you for a very detailed account of the 6 and 7 stages of dementia. My husband is now in stage 6 going thru 7. He is constantly exhausted and will have to sit down after a brief
situation involving simple motions like getting dressed. He has a hard time breathing and
does have a heart problem. He sleeps long hours and I wonder if I should wake him.
You are welcome! It’s not uncommon for people with dementia to sleep more as their condition progresses.
He is likely exerting more energy whether physically or cognitively (especially if the environment is overstimulating), than his body and brain are able to handle and thus finds himself fatigued and in need of sleep. One of the main reasons we recommend balancing activity and rest and adapting the environment to reduce cognitive fatigue.
Another big reason people with dementia sleep a lot is lack of stimulation and/or boredom. So it can really depend on what’s going on.
Amazing video! One of the best I have seen really explaining so much. If my Mom scored a 12 on the 1-30 MMSE test is that stage 6 please?
Aww, that's sweet! Thank you!
There is really no great consensus on the MMSE test scoring, but she would probably be moderate to severe dementia per the test which would probably be about stage 5 to 6. I honestly would go by the presentation of symptoms more so than a score of a test. So for example, if your partner mainly needs reminders to get dressed or brush her teeth or shower and can remember the names of close family members pretty well then she's more than likely at 5. If she needs extensive assistance with her daily tasks like step-by-step instruction or partial/full physical assistance and has marked difficulty with speech and is forgetful when it comes to the names of close family members then she is likely at 6. Hope that clarifies a bit.
The descriptions are very clear. I accompany my loved one to visit her doctors, but they haven't given me as good an appreciation of the stages. In addition, this video has encouraged me to let the loved one do more on her own or by the two of us together.
Yay! I'm glad to hear that!
Great job on this ❤❤❤
Thank you! ❤
Excellent thank you
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Very interesting and informative
Great to hear!
8:11 I remember my grandpa doing this in a way. My younger sister and my mom looked VERY similar as kids. So, he would call my sister my mom because she looked so much like his daughter he remembered at, like, 10 and not the 45 year old person my mom was.
Right! Definitely makes sense! Thanks for sharing
Thank you. I am researching my sisters “journey” with Lewy body dementia. Well done videos.
You are welcome. I’m proud of you for being proactive along your sister’s journey. You may find this podcast episode we did helpful regarding Lewy body dementia: anchor.fm/whatthedementia/episodes/042--Lewy-Body-Dementia--Those-Darn-Lewy-bodies-eni71b
Great información and very profetional 🙏🏻
Thank you ❤
Hi the message was so powerful to me my mum was diagnosed in June 2023 I'm taking care of her.
Thanks for the message now she's between stage 6-7 as you explained the behaviors of different staged.
Thank you for watching, I’m glad it was helpful. & thank you for sharing! 💜