So they were financially struggling due to sudden unforeseen expenses and she could suddenly find 2k to spend on a selfish self centered trip but not to help with the bills so much so OP had to sells some of his prized collections to keep them afloat. If I were Op I’d stay home can’t get the money back anyways so why be miserable and have his fear and anxiety triggered by flying. I would go further and make sure she never ever receives so much a rebate gift card from me till debts are paid off. Her birthday will picking activities the kids want to do that they like.
He has a fear a flying and never said they don’t travel but that he doesn’t like to but the still do cruises and roads trips etc. it’s self serving and manipulative of her to say that she planning a trip to Cancun for his birthday something she knows he wouldn’t want to do, a place he’d never travel to given his fear of flying all because she wants to do what she wants.
Around 2000$ so you don’t have to watch the whole vid if you don’t want
Thanks.
And she sold her stock for only 2000$ !?
Like don't she have savings
So they were financially struggling due to sudden unforeseen expenses and she could suddenly find 2k to spend on a selfish self centered trip but not to help with the bills so much so OP had to sells some of his prized collections to keep them afloat. If I were Op I’d stay home can’t get the money back anyways so why be miserable and have his fear and anxiety triggered by flying. I would go further and make sure she never ever receives so much a rebate gift card from me till debts are paid off. Her birthday will picking activities the kids want to do that they like.
NTA he didn't want to go and doesn't live traveling
I'm sorry op might not like to travel but he should do it once in a while for his wife
He has a fear a flying and never said they don’t travel but that he doesn’t like to but the still do cruises and roads trips etc. it’s self serving and manipulative of her to say that she planning a trip to Cancun for his birthday something she knows he wouldn’t want to do, a place he’d never travel to given his fear of flying all because she wants to do what she wants.
She has friends, she can travel with them. I travel solo A LOT. there are groups for this too! She's selfish