It's truly said that "the next generation is going to have the best parents ever to exist." It's because we understand what it is to hear the taunts and still, we smile like it didn't hurt.
That isn't it dude next generation might be lucky but parents do understand everything but they don't express it cause they think it to be very normal..Ik not every parent is like this but they are really protective of their children cause they know the world better than us..
@@swarnasharma226 that's true but we can't guarantee to be an ideal parent cause once our parents also dreamt of that.. it's just situation and society because they don't us to be in danger..and everyone has right to express...I respect your opinion mate 🦋we could be better but for that we need to learn from our parents too✨
@@yoongislostsister4714 yeah absolutely right. Everyone of us learn something from our parents. But I'm just saying that we'll be the best parents cuz' we are the most f-ed up generation to ever have existed. Some of the kids go in depression, but their parents don't know that. Like me, I have severe anxiety issues, but my parents do not know about that. Why you say? Cuz' they never asked me. But still I respect them. Whenever we answer their questions, they say that we are talking back to them. Like people say "Oh look at the Alphas, they are the future of our country. Look at the Millenials, they are so mature and smart." But when someone asks what about Gen-Z? People say " Oh, they are just a bunch of teenagers who have lost their way. They are just so immature." No one can accept us, expect our own generation. That's what I'm trynna say. I am not trying to shade our parents. I respect them more than anyone. But I am just saying that we have heard the most bad comments. That's the bitter reality of our generation. 🙂🙂
@@swarnasharma226 yes what you said is exactly true and I know your not disrespectful towards your parents..cause sometime I too face that like panic attacks, feeling low.. actually our parents never got the freedom to express themselves...as you people think we are immature... actually we're in our way to be fully mature and that's my personal opinion... As we know...we go through heavy anger issues and anger is the worst way to express ourselves..we could be better cause whatever we try our kids will be worse than us...even if we give them the freedom they deserve,they will still ask more and more cause they will be one step ahead of us..we could be better than our parents but we can't be the best for upcoming generation...we can avoid this only by following our values and morals only that we get from our elders... Hope I didn't offend anyone🙂
The harsh reality is that a child who feels misunderstood by their parents may become either a victim of their circumstances or a criminal whose behavior spirals out of control....
What they also fail to realize how painful it is to hear them saying harsh things to you-(my mother recently told me that she no longer trusts me, even tho i've never cheated on her)-because it comes from the person we care about the most💔
Strict parents think they are doing a good job but we are just learning to hide things Edit-thankss❤for the likes guyyss it made me feel i am not alone 🤝
Next generation is really Lucky. They will meet very understanding parents. Let's make a promise to everyone. You will not allow your future children to be raised the way you were raised.
So true... I hate when my parents always misunderstands everything... specially when they get angry at everything I do.. although it's for their own good... They never show a sign of compassion
it won't actually...Bc let me say...Humanity is destroyed a bit plus parents need to be strict at some point or the child will do anything they do without knowing to do the right thing
You forgot "if we just stare at you when your yelling at us, it's because we are to scared to talk or do anything else because when you yell at us, that is mental trauma"
True😢 If we cry for those words or ask them not to speak like that, they will just say us to be strong and not act like a small child and that we should not speak back to them.
That is actually so true for me.... Like you call me a disappointment for getting 60% in my exam and i'm supposed to act like i never put so much effort into a simple "good job" and this happens.like i'm not supposed to be sad.they just said the truth
I got 60% in math and they said “I can’t believe how little effort you put into this! Study more” I already study hard a lot. I even cried because of just a sentence, they don’t know how much effort we put, how much we cry, how much hard work we do. I just learned that when I have a kid. I won’t put pressure in to them, I will teach them how they will enjoy it and how they will like it. This generations parents will be the best❤
@@Hareem_Rahemeenwhen you will grow up you will found out it really was a peace of cake it's this phone and social media which destroyed this generation todays kids are too weak like tooo sensitive
As a mother,I will never treat my daughter like other parents. If they want to play,they can If they need some privacy or help,I will let them have a privacy and I will help them Lastly,I don’t force my kids to do anything that I through
Our parents think they can really understand us ( as they’ve past the days we’re having) Le this generation: overthinking, depression, stress,anger issues , crying often ,noticing everything but act like nothing- in a young age🙂Haha I really appreciate how strong we are getting 💖🙂
Get a 9 to 5 job, move out of your home, stand on your own feet. All depression anxiety will run away. Lying in your cozy room and talking about difficulties is a luxury your parents didn't have, that's what you call being strong.
what is your age if you are 18+ than listen up and if you are under 18 then i don't know if you are having a bad dayy but still read this comment whole okay, well i think so you are very luck that you didnt get parents that when you answer there question or show your opinion to them the say you talking back and also i don't think so that u have felt that pain when you don't reach to their expectations but still you hide your pain behind your smile, and and and and parents and adults think that we teenagers don't care about their feelings well it is the complete opposite you guys cant understand our feeling i know it is hard to go outside and earn but trust me we are also tired hiding the pain, studying day and night to reach parents expectations and even some teenagers have society pressure, what will neighbors think, what will my teachers think, WHAT WILL MY PARENTS THINK, atlast the go in to depression but still studying , hiding the pain, killing the emotions. and the thing you are talking about working there are still teenagers that study and work at the same time and im one of them @@xerXes001 we know how hard ever parents work nonstop 24 hours, without sleep, worrying for our future (atleast i know)
@@xerXes001 The thing is they won't run away. Instead they will just get hidden under the physical stress you give yourself. And that stress pressing the mental pressure will come out as anger/frustration/anxiety and what not. Try educating yourself about mental health though
Oh! I’m so sorry! I think it’s sweet to see one’s kid laughing at their phone. It means they are happy! As long as they aren’t doing it in a disrespectful way, I think it’s sweet! 🤗 to you
another one is that parents don’t normally love their first born and especially if ur the middle child it hurts inside when they say ur a big sis! like i never wanted to be one.. never never ever..
A dad is someone who wants to catch me before I fall but instead picks me up, brushes me off, and let's me try again. A dad is someone who wants to keep myself from making mistakes but instead let's me find my own way, even though his hearts breaks in silence when I get hurt. A dad is someone who comforts me when I cry, scolds me when I break the rules, shines with pride when I succeed, and has faith in me when I fail❤ A mother is a strong protector, providing unconditional love and support, A mother is a teacher, imparting wisdom and life lessons, A mother is a nurturer, caring for the physical and emotional needs of her children, A mother is a role model, inspiring her children to be their best, A mother is a confidante, providing a listening ear and nonjudgmental advice, A mother is a best friend, always there for her children no matter what❤
The talking back one is really true. 😢 When i try to reply them simply when they scold me,they take it as an insult and say that you have changed and you are not like before.Learn some manners And i am so tired of hearing all this again and again 😭
As a parent I totally understand that other parents have a great fear of their children becoming them instead of better than them so they freak out at every little thing because they just want the best for you but suck at communication. I hope when my son is older we can talk about things and I’m not going to take out my bad choices on him.
My parents told me this "you're grandparents are strict, we know it doesn't feel good... That's why we won't be strict to you" i forgot the exact quote but it's like that. And i think every parents needs to be like that, if you know something is bad/doesn't feel good, don't do that to your kids, they will see you as a bad parents and might go rouge.
I half agree with you and half disagree with you because parents shouldn't be this much doubtfull on kids not every kid is bad also disagree because nobody can be trusted fully in this world yk.....🙂
Just nod if that's the case or if they say "don't you have a mouth?" say 'yes' but with a low tone oh and put on an ashamed expression That's how I used to do it as a kid I used to actually feel ashamed though never Angry towards them I guess I was a weird child since everyone here seems to agree with the video
Once I replied my dad questions and I feel satisfied and then I am replying every questions in a rude way and my dad feel very bad he didn't talk with me friendly after that And after some months my dad died bcoz of diabetes and then I realized why should I reply my father questions so, its a hard punishment he gave me he leave me alone 😭😭 So, guys that is not necessary giving all reply to your parents for satisfaction so, listen and be with them like a friends 🙏🙏
Quite relatable,they understand that child is hiding something,they understand that the child is lying but why on the earth they can't understand what is going on inside the child,how depressed the child is, how vulnerable and pathetic the child feels,how low the child feels when their own parents can't understand their state of mind,just because child keep all the frustration inside and act normal doesn't mean that the child is normal and when the frustration comes out in form of replies they consider it as an insult
@@sagarikadey4400some parents don't understand the children but the children know that somewhere or the other parents are also suffering from the burden of work and all. The children don't want to hurt their parents and they continue to hide their feelings. Or they know that once they talk to their parents, parents will only say that - you're too young to be depressed go and study And all its just too heart' breaking ❤
@@vineetasingh2331Yes! Due to that very one reason, I keep my fucking mouth shut😑😶 when they find out we're struggling for something so small, they advice us so much that it hurts so much, deeply stinging the heart & giving nothing but pain whenever we remember that, than an actual physical pain
Laughing while looking at phone = Bf/gf (In a relationship) Closing door = Suicidal thoughts Talking back = Bad kid/ in a bad company (of friends ) Doesn't reply back = confirm, you were lying/ u are worng! (Even if you were right) :) edit : ig this is actually what our parents thinks
A mother is a strong protector, providing unconditional love and support, A mother is a teacher, imparting wisdom and life lessons, A mother is a nurturer, caring for the physical and emotional needs of her children, A mother is a role model, inspiring her children to be their best, A mother is a confidante, providing a listening ear and nonjudgmental advice, A mother is a best friend, always there for her children no matter what❤ A dad is someone who wants to catch me before I fall but instead picks me up, brushes me off, and let's me try again. A dad is someone who wants to keep myself from making mistakes but instead let's me find my own way, even though his hearts breaks in silence when I get hurt. A dad is someone who comforts me when I cry, scolds me when I break the rules, shines with pride when I succeed, and has faith in me when I fail❤
they can't understand us.... even they don't trust they just thinks that we are talking anybody on phone whenever we are on phone and thats very heartbreaking for me... i jus cry bcz of my mom ...
Yeah cause they are from different period of time and we are from different....I really wanna show this video to them but then they would take it as an standing above them😥😥💔
It's true that "the next generation will have the best parents to ever exist". It's cause we know what it feels like to hear taunts constantly about everything we do and have to answer so many questions for them to believe us. And then they say "you're a kid, you don't have stress or depression" 😢😢 Edit: Spelling correction
They also don’t understand that some games we can’t pause so if it’s time for dinner or something they’ll say something like “pause your game! Dinner time,” so then we’ll say “I can’t pause the game though! Let me finish the round” and then parents will say “Pause it or I’ll take your phone away!” Well that’s at least what my parents would do. Is this relatable to anyone else?
It's the right thing to do. I quit the ranked games so many times. if there's only 2-3 minutes left in the game, I inform my parents. They don't say anything because they know I will complete the game in 2-3 minutes. It's all about how you convey your message. Edit: But yeah, I agree. They don't understand that the game is not a time waste. I play games because I don't have good friends, or in other words, I feel completely disconnected from this world and need some time to enjoy.(if someone just wanted to reply, 'Bro, you can find good friends,' I am already a deeply heartbroken person who hates almost the whole world to that extent, had the thought in my mind that more than the danger of COVID, other issues come into the market. I know it's not a good thought, but just saying.)
Parents do these knowing what they are doing, Yet they ask us 'what is wrong with you' and other things 'You have the answer in your hands' That’s the only possible answer
Yea, Parents always keep scolding the moment we answer them to explain the real truth but they're like I'm your Dad and you don't have the right to talk to me or say anything ☹️.
@@Grumpy_Movies same happens to me too, they don't even wanna listen to the real truth .. and if they catch me using the phone even for a sec, they would literally create a big drama about it, scolding me badly and would give me death threats of taking away my phone
Hey everyone, I am just sharing what happened till today. I am a jee aspirant 2026 and my parents always want me to wake up at 4 am and study 14-16 hrs daily, they don't even care that I come from the Institute or they don't even ask about how's the test Or how are you studying. Even I scored 93.40 in 10 boards, they didn't appreciate me. Infant they wanted more percentage. They never understood what I faced or what am I facing, they just want more and more from me Even if I tell them about my feelings, they say speak politely or don't shout, like you want to listen also but also want not to listen. I wrote a lot I guess, but if I write everything, it will never end
Hi didi! First of all congrats for ur nice marks..! Im in 10th grade now and u know nobody supports me even teachers also...like you know I always had to believe in self confidence, which is very emotional for me..Like all my frnds have torn jeans, and they all travel somewhere to holidays. But, I have not gone in flight also.I My face would change in the first day of school as my frnds would day i went to this place or that place.. Even my dream is to be an IITian,, me to score good marks pls didi give some tips for all subjects so atleast in that way i will be happy.
They also don't really understand that nowadays teens are literally pressured with so many things, and the parents never come out as someone who can help them
When u talk back, they take it as an insult but that's how a conversation works
Bitter but true 🫠
Exactly
@@J-hope_luv-er hmm🫣
Not in every situation... But when you justify yourself for your wrong doings even, then they take it as insult and not everytime....
Ikr is annoying
They are quick in catching their kids in a relationship but won't have any single hint about their kids being in depression
True
So true😢
U r not special. They overcame it and worse. So can u. Start working on urself. There’s no free lunch
Damn true
True 😢
"When a child is abused by this parents, they don't stop loving their parents, they stop loving themselves"
Reality hurts so hard.
Nah i dont love those bitches but i sometimes dont like myself that is all working on loving it fully though
Yes😢
Yes
Yes trying so much to fit in
"Every child deserves a parent, but not every parent deserves a child"......... 💔
*Answering the question isn't talking back*
*I feel you girl 🙂*
I'm laughing at this after my mom yelled at me "ARE YOU STUPID?!" and I replied with "If I am you're the one who taught me"
Same
@@UrLocalMacaronitrue
Same
same
It's truly said that "the next generation is going to have the best parents ever to exist." It's because we understand what it is to hear the taunts and still, we smile like it didn't hurt.
That isn't it dude next generation might be lucky but parents do understand everything but they don't express it cause they think it to be very normal..Ik not every parent is like this but they are really protective of their children cause they know the world better than us..
@@yoongislostsister4714 Exactly the problem is that they don't express it. Our generation is open and we can talk about literally everything freely.
@@swarnasharma226 that's true but we can't guarantee to be an ideal parent cause once our parents also dreamt of that.. it's just situation and society because they don't us to be in danger..and everyone has right to express...I respect your opinion mate 🦋we could be better but for that we need to learn from our parents too✨
@@yoongislostsister4714 yeah absolutely right. Everyone of us learn something from our parents. But I'm just saying that we'll be the best parents cuz' we are the most f-ed up generation to ever have existed. Some of the kids go in depression, but their parents don't know that. Like me, I have severe anxiety issues, but my parents do not know about that. Why you say? Cuz' they never asked me. But still I respect them. Whenever we answer their questions, they say that we are talking back to them. Like people say "Oh look at the Alphas, they are the future of our country. Look at the Millenials, they are so mature and smart." But when someone asks what about Gen-Z? People say " Oh, they are just a bunch of teenagers who have lost their way. They are just so immature." No one can accept us, expect our own generation. That's what I'm trynna say. I am not trying to shade our parents. I respect them more than anyone. But I am just saying that we have heard the most bad comments. That's the bitter reality of our generation. 🙂🙂
@@swarnasharma226 yes what you said is exactly true and I know your not disrespectful towards your parents..cause sometime I too face that like panic attacks, feeling low.. actually our parents never got the freedom to express themselves...as you people think we are immature... actually we're in our way to be fully mature and that's my personal opinion...
As we know...we go through heavy anger issues and anger is the worst way to express ourselves..we could be better cause whatever we try our kids will be worse than us...even if we give them the freedom they deserve,they will still ask more and more cause they will be one step ahead of us..we could be better than our parents but we can't be the best for upcoming generation...we can avoid this only by following our values and morals only that we get from our elders...
Hope I didn't offend anyone🙂
The harsh reality is that a child who feels misunderstood by their parents may become either a victim of their circumstances or a criminal whose behavior spirals out of control....
What they also fail to realize how painful it is to hear them saying harsh things to you-(my mother recently told me that she no longer trusts me, even tho i've never cheated on her)-because it comes from the person we care about the most💔
Wdym cheated
That's why I'm running away
@@Lovely-r7s am guessing what they meant to say was that: they never did anything bad or something that would make their mom loose trust
@@randomskyedit oh kk
Same 😢 my mom said that she hates me 😢😢
Future children are lucky than us 💀
U r actually rytt😢❤
Your right 😞
No they will be unlucky, no one to cook for them, no one to pay attention.. There will be money but no time. I really hope we watch our actions😢
@@tara_userthat is happening with me 😔
I guess we're last gen with strict parents
Strict parents think they are doing a good job but we are just learning to
hide things
Edit-thankss❤for the likes guyyss it made me feel i am not alone 🤝
💯 true
Right
You know today is my result and i am really worried they are going to be mad at me if i didn't pass but thankfully i passed
True 😢
What's the guarantee that we'll not behave like them when our time will come?
"Answering your question doesn't mean talking back " hits really really hard
Next generation is really Lucky.
They will meet very understanding parents.
Let's make a promise to everyone. You will not allow your future children to be raised the way you were raised.
Yes👍
Promise
THE MAIN POINT:
parents forget they were child too
EDIT:i am not telling that all parents are like this .ok?..don't misunderstand me..
So true
Yeah, but my parents just say "atleast I was a better kid than you! I'd always listen to my parents."
And I feel really sad after they say that 😔
@@AstxxriaI know🙁
They remember
So they don't want us to repeat the same mistake
@@Astxxria
grandma :
🤨🤨
For all the depressed teenager, "I know that your life is really bad but I will surely pray for you and I promise everything will be alright"
Thank you
Thanks I will also pray for you wish you can get anything you want
Tysm !🥺💖
Tysm!😊
thank u soo much
When I laugh at my phone my parents thinks I’m talking to boys💀💀
💀💀🙏🏻
Ofc they think of that
My sister also laugh at phone
My mom thinks I watch BTS
and calls me bitch, prostitute etc.😢
So true... I hate when my parents always misunderstands everything... specially when they get angry at everything I do.. although it's for their own good... They never show a sign of compassion
BECAUSE OF THESE THINGS....OUR GENERATION WILL BECOME THE BEST PARENTS EVER 🦋💜
yes probably
@@Mxxn_Hearts yeah 👍🏻
@@hezlin_bangtanOMGG are you an army? I’m am an army
it won't actually...Bc let me say...Humanity is destroyed a bit plus parents need to be strict at some point or the child will do anything they do without knowing to do the right thing
@@GalaxyTheAstronaut300 yeess... BTW who is your bias??
The last was 💯 TRUE.... Answering ur question is not talking back😢
True
Soooo true
Answering your question with an attitude and being cocky like she's pissed at the world.😢
Same
I agree 😮
POV : Internet makes you happier than people do off of your device.
Real
You forgot "if we just stare at you when your yelling at us, it's because we are to scared to talk or do anything else because when you yell at us, that is mental trauma"
One more thing
"Ignoring their bad words doesn't mean we are having attitude towards them"😢
It's true tho 😢
True😢 If we cry for those words or ask them not to speak like that, they will just say us to be strong and not act like a small child and that we should not speak back to them.
The last one is the most relatable 😞
"Answering your questions is not taking back"
Like wtf u want me to stay quiet?
Yaa right
Meri mummy aise hi samjhti hai ☹️
Maybe they don't understand sometimes, but their intentions are never wrong. Everything they do is for us and we gotta understand that.
In my case , it's like there's no relation between me and parents but an argument competition .
See there's a huge difference between strict parents and toxic parents
Correct 💯
I agree-//
But how to identify if you have toxic or strict and caring parents?
Also....I can't stop crying automatically they act like we can turn off our emotions
Yeah😢😢
That is actually so true for me....
Like you call me a disappointment for getting 60% in my exam and i'm supposed to act like i never put so much effort into a simple "good job" and this happens.like i'm not supposed to be sad.they just said the truth
yes they just think that we are very bad and stupid.We cannot do nothing😭
“Quit crying before I give you a reason to cry!” Is something my dad says to me
I try my best not to cry.. But I can't help But sniff.. And They still get mad..
I got 60% in math and they said “I can’t believe how little effort you put into this! Study more” I already study hard a lot. I even cried because of just a sentence, they don’t know how much effort we put, how much we cry, how much hard work we do. I just learned that when I have a kid. I won’t put pressure in to them, I will teach them how they will enjoy it and how they will like it. This generations parents will be the best❤
It's even more worse when you know that they can be gentle and caring but… they just don't understand
They also don't even know wht kind of heartbreaks and frustration we teens go through these days..
Yes
Fr
frrrr T-T
my mom and dad both think that everything we deal with is peace of cake (-_-)
@@Hareem_Rahemeen fr
@@Hareem_Rahemeenwhen you will grow up you will found out it really was a peace of cake it's this phone and social media which destroyed this generation todays kids are too weak like tooo sensitive
As a mother,I will never treat my daughter like other parents.
If they want to play,they can
If they need some privacy or help,I will let them have a privacy and I will help them
Lastly,I don’t force my kids to do anything that I through
ur a mom and having a K-pop profile?
@@lakesharts My daughter and her siblings is the one who put Han Jisung pic bcuz they also like Stray Kids 😊
same
@@Kazumi8009 oh ok i am so sorry for my misunderstanding
@@lakesharts Is ok😊❤️
Just because you're here doesn't mean you are loved even by your family.
-My Friend💔
answering ur question isn't talking back made me crying 😢😢
Our parents think they can really understand us ( as they’ve past the days we’re having)
Le this generation: overthinking, depression, stress,anger issues , crying often ,noticing everything but act like nothing- in a young age🙂Haha I really appreciate how strong we are getting 💖🙂
😂😂😂😂 yeah true
Sad but true
Get a 9 to 5 job, move out of your home, stand on your own feet. All depression anxiety will run away. Lying in your cozy room and talking about difficulties is a luxury your parents didn't have, that's what you call being strong.
what is your age if you are 18+ than listen up and if you are under 18 then i don't know if you are having a bad dayy but still read this comment whole
okay, well i think so you are very luck that you didnt get parents that when you answer there question or show your opinion to them the say you talking back
and also i don't think so that u have felt that pain when you don't reach to their expectations but still you hide your pain behind your smile, and and and and parents and adults think that we teenagers don't care about their feelings
well it is the complete opposite you guys cant understand our feeling i know it is hard to go outside and earn but trust me we are also tired hiding the pain, studying day and night to reach parents expectations and even some teenagers have society pressure, what will neighbors think, what will my teachers think, WHAT WILL MY PARENTS THINK, atlast the go in to depression but still studying , hiding the pain, killing the emotions. and the thing you are talking about working there are still teenagers that study and work at the same time and im one of them @@xerXes001 we know how hard ever parents work nonstop 24 hours, without sleep, worrying for our future (atleast i know)
@@xerXes001 The thing is they won't run away. Instead they will just get hidden under the physical stress you give yourself. And that stress pressing the mental pressure will come out as anger/frustration/anxiety and what not. Try educating yourself about mental health though
"Laughing at my phone doesn't mean I,m bad" It hurts me 💔💀
😂waah ,
@Aadarsh_baalak 😂😂😂
"hearts"
Your hearts hurts me much than the video 😅😅😅😂😂
Oh! I’m so sorry! I think it’s sweet to see one’s kid laughing at their phone. It means they are happy! As long as they aren’t doing it in a disrespectful way, I think it’s sweet! 🤗 to you
True,fully relatable to mee my parents ever ask this to mee😢
True❤......
Future child are lucky than us......
i
Today's generation Parents have no difference than 1900's Britishers.....😢😢
Still better than coming generation parents
Next generation will have the best parents
Ye kuch jyada bhavnao Mein beh gye aap 😅Britishers ke julmon ke aage mughals bhi fail hain Kaththorta mein 😓
Is generation ke parents ko agar Britishers ki tarah samajhe to purana zamana mein to aur strict hua karte the unka kya
I sent this to my mom and she said "Wait till I come home"💀
💀💀💀
😂😂😂 i dk should i take it as joke or what... Same prb 😶😶
buddy be careful 💀
bro same , i rlly thought she will understand me better .WELP
U ok bro.?
Forget answering questions, ASKING questions is talking back
my mum tells me off for always "having the last word" but her telling me off for it is literally her having the last word.
The last phrase is the greatest truth in life
Ik
Nobody understands how childrens feel but there goes my bffs always supporting and caring for me.❤
Same
Literally same
Same
Actually
Same❤
The best way to forget my problem is being stanning BTS 💜 they told me to be strong in my life 😔
What parents don’t understand:
“Things parents don’t understand” 😭🤣☠️
Next generation will have the most understanding Parents....for sure...
Edit: Mom I'm famous!!!
Thank you so much for the likes
Yes💯
Yes ❤❤
Obviously we will as there parents 😅😅😊😊
Ikr
True bc we are the parents 😂😂❤
It's Cruel Thing Ever,,, that our Lovable Parents Doubt Us😢😢😊
It kills me inside bro !! 😢
another one is that parents don’t normally love their first born and especially if ur the middle child it hurts inside when they say ur a big sis! like i never wanted to be one.. never never ever..
A dad is someone who wants to catch me before I fall but instead picks me up, brushes me off, and let's me try again. A dad is someone who wants to keep myself from making mistakes but instead let's me find my own way, even though his hearts breaks in silence when I get hurt. A dad is someone who comforts me when I cry, scolds me when I break the rules, shines with pride when I succeed, and has faith in me when I fail❤ A mother is a strong protector, providing unconditional love and support, A mother is a teacher, imparting wisdom and life lessons, A mother is a nurturer, caring for the physical and emotional needs of her children, A mother is a role model, inspiring her children to be their best, A mother is a confidante, providing a listening ear and nonjudgmental advice, A mother is a best friend, always there for her children no matter what❤
Exactly, my parents really need to understand these things.😭💜🤗
they felt the same thing 💀
@@mohchamohcha9088 What do you mean? 🤔
Respect your parents children
If they didn't understand you you would be on the street
@@netroja I never said that I don't respect.
The talking back one is really true. 😢
When i try to reply them simply when they scold me,they take it as an insult and say that you have changed and you are not like before.Learn some manners
And i am so tired of hearing all this again and again 😭
I feel you☹️
I feel u badly
As a parent I totally understand that other parents have a great fear of their children becoming them instead of better than them so they freak out at every little thing because they just want the best for you but suck at communication. I hope when my son is older we can talk about things and I’m not going to take out my bad choices on him.
My parents told me this "you're grandparents are strict, we know it doesn't feel good... That's why we won't be strict to you" i forgot the exact quote but it's like that. And i think every parents needs to be like that, if you know something is bad/doesn't feel good, don't do that to your kids, they will see you as a bad parents and might go rouge.
Exactly that hurts so much sometimes they don't trust their own child 🙄
sometimes be lucky you even have a parent
@@mohchamohcha9088 when did I said im not lucky please stop saying that 🙂
mjy lga just mry e asy hn parents
I half agree with you and half disagree with you because parents shouldn't be this much doubtfull on kids not every kid is bad also disagree because nobody can be trusted fully in this world yk.....🙂
@@Lunarglimpses I only trust.......who do I trust again oh yeah no one can be trusted in now a days not even your own bf 🙂
Dad: “do you understand??!”
Me: “yea…”
Dad: “YOU DARE TALK BACK”
This is true in my case
True
Just nod if that's the case or if they say "don't you have a mouth?" say 'yes' but with a low tone oh and put on an ashamed expression
That's how I used to do it as a kid
I used to actually feel ashamed though never Angry towards them I guess I was a weird child since everyone here seems to agree with the video
@@jellysaur1234that’s respect 👍
Something many of us lack
Once I replied my dad questions and I feel satisfied and then I am replying every questions in a rude way and my dad feel very bad he didn't talk with me friendly after that
And after some months my dad died bcoz of diabetes and then I realized why should I reply my father questions so, its a hard punishment he gave me he leave me alone 😭😭
So, guys that is not necessary giving all reply to your parents for satisfaction so, listen and be with them like a friends 🙏🙏
"Laughing at my phone doesn't mean i'm bad " it's really really soo true😢😢😢😢😢😢💔💔💔💔 why can't our parents get that😢
They really need to understand the last one for sure ..
Quite relatable,they understand that child is hiding something,they understand that the child is lying but why on the earth they can't understand what is going on inside the child,how depressed the child is, how vulnerable and pathetic the child feels,how low the child feels when their own parents can't understand their state of mind,just because child keep all the frustration inside and act normal doesn't mean that the child is normal and when the frustration comes out in form of replies they consider it as an insult
or why they're hiding it in the first place
What's the need to hide it in the first place? They can't read your mind right? So better speak up
@@sagarikadey4400some parents don't understand the children but the children know that somewhere or the other parents are also suffering from the burden of work and all. The children don't want to hurt their parents and they continue to hide their feelings.
Or they know that once they talk to their parents, parents will only say that - you're too young to be depressed go and study
And all its just too heart' breaking ❤
@@vineetasingh2331Yes! Due to that very one reason, I keep my fucking mouth shut😑😶 when they find out we're struggling for something so small, they advice us so much that it hurts so much, deeply stinging the heart & giving nothing but pain whenever we remember that, than an actual physical pain
Laughing while looking at phone = Bf/gf (In a relationship)
Closing door = Suicidal thoughts
Talking back = Bad kid/ in a bad company (of friends )
Doesn't reply back = confirm, you were lying/ u are worng! (Even if you were right)
:)
edit : ig this is actually what our parents thinks
they just love you and want you to be safe
fr
Same 😢
@@mohchamohcha9088not in all cases
@@CutieARMY123in that way, I guess you are adopted
A mother is a strong protector, providing unconditional love and support, A mother is a teacher, imparting wisdom and life lessons, A mother is a nurturer, caring for the physical and emotional needs of her children, A mother is a role model, inspiring her children to be their best, A mother is a confidante, providing a listening ear and nonjudgmental advice, A mother is a best friend, always there for her children no matter what❤ A dad is someone who wants to catch me before I fall but instead picks me up, brushes me off, and let's me try again. A dad is someone who wants to keep myself from making mistakes but instead let's me find my own way, even though his hearts breaks in silence when I get hurt. A dad is someone who comforts me when I cry, scolds me when I break the rules, shines with pride when I succeed, and has faith in me when I fail❤
they can't understand us.... even they don't trust they just thinks that we are talking anybody on phone whenever we are on phone and thats very heartbreaking for me... i jus cry bcz of my mom ...
You forgot..their smile always doesn't say that they are happy 😊💔
That’s deep but true💀
Taking my phone away ain't gonna make me an angel, it's just going to make me mad at them and frustrated.
When we talk back to our parents they mostly say “Watch your mouth" Almost every parent💔
This Sh!t is why I feel more safe around my friends.
They don't understand us , and we don't understand them🤷🏻♀️
Innit my dad was like that but when they leave u that’s the only thing u will remember of em 😢
Yeah cause they are from different period of time and we are from different....I really wanna show this video to them but then they would take it as an standing above them😥😥💔
@@farkhandabibi445 oh well that’s just life there’s nope we can do
@@farkhandabibi445 it’s heart breaking 💔 it’s not fair and not right
Another one is ✨I DONT WANNA SING OR DANCE INFRONT OF YALL✨
Your brother like me will always understand...💀🖤
Radhe radhe...🕉️
The worst one is that they always compare u and tell u to be like others more 😢
Our future kids are so lucky to have us as an understanding parents tbh!
And Yes they have more divorced parents too💀
They'll have understanding parents who have no time for em😂
Sahi bola
😊😊
Our parents were once kids too 💀
Yeah you are right 🥺 Parents don't understand these things 😭
they just want you to be safe and they also just loove you 😢
@@mohchamohcha9088 I know they love me but never listen to me and Sometimes also hurt me by their hurtful words 💔😭
never know that a single word can destroy your kid heart but now when someone hurt me i smile and my heart cries
The truth is that some parents like being angry. Those types of parents would use the old "set them up and knock them down" routine.
It's true that "the next generation will have the best parents to ever exist". It's cause we know what it feels like to hear taunts constantly about everything we do and have to answer so many questions for them to believe us. And then they say "you're a kid, you don't have stress or depression" 😢😢
Edit: Spelling correction
Bro just explained my entire life in 20 seconds-
Im 19,Thank god , i have very good parents.. although my parents arent educated at all but their hearts are so pure and always thrive to educate me.
It hurts and annoying when you talk back to say the truth they will not care about it...💔
"Taking our phone/device does not affect us"
* me having a full-on breakdown if my mom takes my phone away *
So true
lol me to I want to leave the bro I be like I’m Bette me off out of here
They think if they'll take our phone we will study day and night but it doesn't make any sense
I too go mad but i find more ways to waste time😂
@@manya_j1307 HAHA TRUEE THOO
They think we will learn our lesson when they take away our phones that’s what they mean. It doesn’t mean that you won’t be like crying or sad.
They also don’t understand that some games we can’t pause so if it’s time for dinner or something they’ll say something like “pause your game! Dinner time,” so then we’ll say “I can’t pause the game though! Let me finish the round” and then parents will say “Pause it or I’ll take your phone away!” Well that’s at least what my parents would do. Is this relatable to anyone else?
Yes but they are right bro!
Very relatable for me 😢😭
same , but they're our parents and its the right thing to doo
It's the right thing to do. I quit the ranked games so many times. if there's only 2-3 minutes left in the game, I inform my parents. They don't say anything because they know I will complete the game in 2-3 minutes. It's all about how you convey your message.
Edit: But yeah, I agree. They don't understand that the game is not a time waste. I play games because I don't have good friends, or in other words, I feel completely disconnected from this world and need some time to enjoy.(if someone just wanted to reply, 'Bro, you can find good friends,' I am already a deeply heartbroken person who hates almost the whole world to that extent, had the thought in my mind that more than the danger of COVID, other issues come into the market. I know it's not a good thought, but just saying.)
@@raj_patel bro same here , I don't have any good friend in this world too and I feel so good when I make friends in games 🙃
Parents do these knowing what they are doing,
Yet they ask us 'what is wrong with you' and other things
'You have the answer in your hands'
That’s the only possible answer
My parents understand this well, unlike some people they actually respect our boundaries
Future kids will be so much luckier than us ngl 😢
Be happy because if you're treated like this by your parents then that means you'll never treat your children the same
When the only way to not let them catch u crying and call u weak is to pretend you have a runny nose 😢
My mother still think that I'm chatting with others while video call with her disconnect because of low wifi. She's always like that.
When we answer back to their questions, they think we are insulting them.
Yea, Parents always keep scolding the moment we answer them to explain the real truth but they're like I'm your Dad and you don't have the right to talk to me or say anything ☹️.
It always happens with me
Dad's apna dad hona itni baar bolte hain ki lagta hai dads ko to apne dad hone pe yakeen hi nahi hota. Hona ye chahiye tha ki ve khud paida karte.
Same thing always happens to me😢
Same
@@Grumpy_Movies same happens to me too, they don't even wanna listen to the real truth .. and if they catch me using the phone even for a sec, they would literally create a big drama about it, scolding me badly and would give me death threats of taking away my phone
I subscribed you bcz I love your motivation
“Laughing at your phone doesn’t mean you’re bad” too real but recently my parents will say”what’s so funny?” While slightly laughting
"Closing doors doesn't mean we are hiding something" felt hard 😢
Edit- thanks for 180 likes ✨
Yea
When I close my door it's because I'm mad at them or hurt by them.....😔😥
@@user-no.name47382 exactly!
Yea
Yes
Comparing isn’t encouraging
I NEED parents to understand that.
Hey everyone, I am just sharing what happened till today. I am a jee aspirant 2026 and my parents always want me to wake up at 4 am and study 14-16 hrs daily, they don't even care that I come from the Institute or they don't even ask about how's the test Or how are you studying.
Even I scored 93.40 in 10 boards, they didn't appreciate me. Infant they wanted more percentage. They never understood what I faced or what am I facing, they just want more and more from me
Even if I tell them about my feelings, they say speak politely or don't shout, like you want to listen also but also want not to listen.
I wrote a lot I guess, but if I write everything, it will never end
Hi didi! First of all congrats for ur nice marks..! Im in 10th grade now and u know nobody supports me even teachers also...like you know I always had to believe in self confidence, which is very emotional for me..Like all my frnds have torn jeans, and they all travel somewhere to holidays. But, I have not gone in flight also.I My face would change in the first day of school as my frnds would day i went to this place or that place.. Even my dream is to be an IITian,, me to score good marks pls didi give some tips for all subjects so atleast in that way i will be happy.
Yes, I hide something by closing the door.. My feelings, my emotions, my tears 😭💔🥀
Them: you'll understand when you are a parent
True WHHAHHAHHA
may b that true
It is true though. You guys need to learn to look at others' problems and not just your own and be respectful to everyone.
We will not be sooooooooo intense for them
They are right lol, they clearly want the best for you..
kids these days have gotten so sensitive smh
When I will become a parent I am going to understand these things 😌
Well we need more parents like u
@@cherry_45_ fr
I need you as my parents 😢😢
@@-leeknowsairfrier be grateful yaar...your parents love you so much 😊💜
Me tooo
They also dont understand that we cant just stop crying٫ we force ourselves to stop crying..
They also don't really understand that nowadays teens are literally pressured with so many things, and the parents never come out as someone who can help them
Yeah and there's another one:-
If we aren't reading loudly that doesn't
mean that we aren't studying 😢
It's true
Exactly 💯
So true
You told my problem😂
They don't feel how stressed and tired we are like this is so relatable 😖
u r right 💔💔
U r right 💔💔💔
Cringe genz
@@SatyaSworup-uu1fm I ain't cringe like green screen kids 🙃
Answering your question back it hits so heard 😣
i’m so sorry if ur parents are like this