Why Submissive Women Are Winning in Relationships

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  • Опубликовано: 1 окт 2024
  • Join Rico Hundo as he sits down with the accomplished Christal Jordan for a compelling episode of 8 At The Table. Christal Jordan is a twenty-year veteran in community and public relations, founder of Enchanted Branding & PR, and an influential news personality with segments on Fox 5’s Good Day Atlanta and Rolling Out. She has dedicated her career to harnessing celebrity influence for community initiatives and currently serves as Executive Director at UC Asset, aiming to contribute to Atlanta's growth.
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Комментарии • 67

  • @sonnyqsoul
    @sonnyqsoul 4 месяца назад +19

    Most guys are attracted to beautiful women, but that currency only gets chicks so far. That's just highly valued on the front end. And that's something most chicks don't understand, that it takes more than just looks and sex. Most guys will trade in a 7+ for a 4 or 5 in exchange respect, feminine energy, agreeableness, peace, and a peace of mind. Those things are valued more than looks. Looks get you a seat at the table, but rarely keep you there.

    • @r.walker7986
      @r.walker7986 4 месяца назад +2

      most guys are attracted to beautiful women but beautiful women are attracted to handsome men, so most guys dont really have a shot with them unless there is something wrong with them. Also most guys may like beautiful women but they cannot handle the competition from other men so they will not even try they will pick a basic who is thankful anybody picked them and just yank-off to the beautiful mone online...

    • @sonnyqsoul
      @sonnyqsoul 4 месяца назад

      @@r.walker7986 some beautiful chicks are attracted to handsome guys, most are attracted more to money and/or fame/popularity and/or power. Many are simply attracted to a lifestyle, so if he's boring, it doesn't matter how good looking he is, she won't stay with him. A handsome guy can get beautiful chicks, but keeping them is a different story. So what matters is what's his goal. Does he just wanna go from chick to chick and have multiple experiences, or does he wanna settle down. If it's settle down, his better options range from below average to pretty.

  • @KingSando2200
    @KingSando2200 4 месяца назад +7

    I can’t lie, this wa probably theee best episode I’ve seen from 8ATT! There was no combative, argumentative, problematic debates. Everything was so articulate & modest, very straight forward & receptive. I’m an Aquarius like Rico & the way Crystal spoke to as well as with him really amazed me (unlike Erin, Amanda & Jada) who sometimes I feel attack him. I don’t agree with him 100% of the time but I also be catching their shade

    • @lewtz
      @lewtz 4 месяца назад +1

      You're surprised??? Look who "wasn't" there ......that's a damn shame but it is what it is...the younger looking one i think is just that..young and dont know any better..but Erin...looks like she just dont give a damn

  • @auntiejennysays
    @auntiejennysays 4 месяца назад +13

    Why do women call submissive, feminine women 'pick mes'?

    • @TheAustrianPainter87
      @TheAustrianPainter87 4 месяца назад +4

      Because they haven't been picked 😊

    • @jas1565
      @jas1565 4 месяца назад +1

      Lol cause a lot of you are desperate for male attention and validation.

    • @kinggandyel9339
      @kinggandyel9339 4 месяца назад +4

      To deter other women from being more qualified(for respect or admiration) than they are willing to be themselves.

    • @bigart9488
      @bigart9488 4 месяца назад +2

      😄😄 I've been saying this since that term came out: The opposite of a "pick me" is a didn't get picked!

    • @EC-yl7xk
      @EC-yl7xk 4 месяца назад +1

      @@bigart9488 A pick me is as pathetic as a simp.

  • @genovasquez8361
    @genovasquez8361 4 месяца назад +4

    In the 90s, We was flying out to Florida, New Orleans, Atlanta.
    Freaknik ie flewed out.
    Women was going to jamiaca and africa getting with guys in 90s ie how stella got her groove back
    Men was going to Brazil and the DR and an colombia back in the 90s.
    We even drove to other cities and got with other girls. Before the internet there was
    Chat Lines over the phone.
    There was always a bunch of women sleeoping with different men

  • @bigthurl5613
    @bigthurl5613 4 месяца назад +5

    Key point, "I wish I wouldn't have people being positive"...."He cheated, so you need to leave".....She held herself accountable. I gave up 10 amazing years for 1 bad stretch.

  • @grunt12no
    @grunt12no 4 месяца назад +3

    There is never full accountability and no responsibility besides assuming the female is solely a nonchalant poor victim. The little I've seen Chrisean is drinking, fighting, bipolar, destructive, and ratchet aggressive behavior with a chaotic lifestyle with glimpses of cuteness. She starts fights and over reacts. The Cookie prototype (empire) is more the attitude and reality projected and celebrated.

  • @DonDon-ge5dg
    @DonDon-ge5dg 4 месяца назад +3

    Eve 👩🏽 a 304, no hymen 🍒 no diamond 💎

  • @melissasky1028
    @melissasky1028 4 месяца назад +2

    I'm offended because she said that he was a capricorn who she had 10 amazing years with but to throw the sign away. Wtf. You love the man for 10 years, He screwed up royally, but you had a long amazing run Your words. Then said she wants denzel unbelievable I don't appreciate that . Yes im a capricorn lol.

  • @carlito513118
    @carlito513118 4 месяца назад +2

    This lady contradict herself and said delusional things.

  • @havocblue5101
    @havocblue5101 4 месяца назад +3

    Feminist propaganda

  • @visionarywriter
    @visionarywriter 4 месяца назад +1

    12:57 we are trying to make “Strangers” be the way we want them to be and it cannot EVER happen. We all have adjust to our opposite and learn to like them for who they are.

  • @melissasky1028
    @melissasky1028 4 месяца назад +1

    Men a driven by women physical appearance as much as we think. Average men that is. Rich men arent because they can get anyone they want. I dont think they care if its real or not.

  • @tonyv9510
    @tonyv9510 4 месяца назад +2

    Invest in cat and dog food gentlemen

  • @melissasky1028
    @melissasky1028 4 месяца назад +1

    Rico answered his own question. Dont stop teaching history that just incorrect, but when you do teach history... teach people the how to deal and process the information. Bp already lost there real culture now you want them to lose there history too. Thats insane.

  • @genovasquez8361
    @genovasquez8361 4 месяца назад +1

    For me to want to marry, she has to be submissive, a 9/10 or 10/10 and she has meet the other criteria of 10 things on my list i look for in a woman, otherwise she will never be my wife. looks matter. im not compromising on looks or submissiveness. MOST women are good to be sititutionship only.

  • @brotharame6066
    @brotharame6066 4 месяца назад +1

    It is always said that in Islam men can have more than one wife. What is always left out is that it's also followed by, "one is better for you if you but knew." It is hard to be just and give justice when there are more than one. With this bring the case, that man that has more than one must meet certain qualifications especially when it comes to morals, character, values etc...

  • @pro-muffins2721
    @pro-muffins2721 4 месяца назад

    Where did we learn that beauty equals money? Before they even knew what love was supposed to be it was wigs and makeup 💄 first - then how to be fake to take advantage using your beauty for money. 😅 Sadly the cycle isn’t going to stop because women don’t take accountability at all. Just ask any man.

  • @r.walker7986
    @r.walker7986 4 месяца назад +1

    Whole healthy men who women actually want (or wont live to regret dealing with) don't want women who are submissive, they want women who tell them the truth and speak up for themselves and advocate for their wants, needs, and desires.

    • @randallewebb
      @randallewebb 4 месяца назад +1

      I think we do not understand what submission is. The things you mentioned can all be done with a submissive woman.
      A submissive person is not a slave.... it is recognizing that there is order and structure .
      I find it interesting that people work jobs where they are submissive to their boss, but somehow they are clueless when it comes to applying that somewhere else.

    • @r.walker7986
      @r.walker7986 4 месяца назад

      @@randallewebb There is no reason for any adult to be submissive. Relationships are optional, we date and marry people becasue we like them, we work to survive and have food and shelter, when you work yo work for a company or people to help them out for money, none of that is comparable to a relationship. What this tells me is you want to be the boss over a person. seeing as though men are human and make decisions based on their personal tastes and emotions and insecurities, etc, a woman deferring to a man for everything or waiting for his approval etc, is a dumb idea. 9 times out of 10 a man is not going to be able to see things from the perspective of the woman, men and women do not value the same things or see the world in the same way so the woman will usually be the one who ends up not satisfied. This is all about the male ego and low ranking men who need a subservient to feel "like a man" Women need to be with men who dont need to tell them what to do to feel like me

  • @RedeemedRestored
    @RedeemedRestored 4 месяца назад

    10:18 How about he’s married and a Christian. But more importantly married

  • @maleekpate6770
    @maleekpate6770 4 месяца назад +1

    So she started off good but 30 mins in she started showing true colors … Men & especially the 80% that’s deemed Unattractive to yall women . We Don’t need TOP TIER beautiful women, we just want someone who KNOWs herself 💯 we know 90% of yall only care abt what can we provide 🤔🤷🏾‍♂️

  • @jaydenjaccin654
    @jaydenjaccin654 4 месяца назад +1

    That's amazing interview

  • @kingfabaro2705
    @kingfabaro2705 3 месяца назад

    I thank she has a decent perspective but lacks a level of objectivity and self awareness of women’s deeper issues which is hidden behind her moderate feminine accountability.

    • @kingfabaro2705
      @kingfabaro2705 3 месяца назад

      Money don’t get old and money don’t lose its attractiveness. Men are expected to provide for a life time and a women’s beauty will always fade.

    • @kingfabaro2705
      @kingfabaro2705 3 месяца назад

      Another huge problem is that she uses men as a monolith, as if men can’t be wrong or be foolish in their actions or decisions the same way that women could be wrong for the things that they do. She uses these out-of-pocket behaviors of men to try to justify her mentality instead of actually listening to what men say they want. The world is a ugly place now and men understand that on a logical level so they don’t ask for perfection, but if we demanded it and acted like we were settling the same way, women would there wouldn’t be a lot of grace or understanding given from men to women. Stop take men’s grace for genuine desire.

  • @MaYounMusic
    @MaYounMusic 4 месяца назад

    Wats so crazy is it's women out here like that. Lol she said forget about his older baby lol

  • @irreplacable1988
    @irreplacable1988 3 месяца назад

    Amazing episode

  • @Mr.Jones41
    @Mr.Jones41 4 месяца назад +2

    A true woman speaking sense… I love it!!!

  • @MichaelEBeard
    @MichaelEBeard 4 месяца назад

    The women of the '90s carried themselves like women to become wives. That isn't the case today

  • @jermainemclemorejr3555
    @jermainemclemorejr3555 4 месяца назад +1

    Best interview in a long time

  • @ReinventJones
    @ReinventJones 4 месяца назад

    9:37 Fun fact, Denzel Washington is a Capricorn

  • @boutwhatever7520
    @boutwhatever7520 4 месяца назад +2

    modern relationships is like playing poker.....
    Looks/Money gets u to the seat/partner
    but knowing how to play/submit is what keeps you in the game long enough to win it all (the ring) marriage

  • @ReinventJones
    @ReinventJones 4 месяца назад

    I don’t care for zodiac signs but a lot of people talk bad about Capricorns ♑️

    • @melissasky1028
      @melissasky1028 4 месяца назад +1

      She spoke out of both sides of her mouth tho. People speak bad about all sign. She was hurt, if this husband hurts her shell be saying the same about him

  • @genovasquez8361
    @genovasquez8361 4 месяца назад +2

    If she not 100% submissive, Never be 100% faithful to her.
    You should have atleast 10 different women if she not submissive.

  • @genovasquez8361
    @genovasquez8361 4 месяца назад

    Beautiful women fall inlove with broke.rn all the time