How to stop seeking approval from women: the shadow of the mother
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- Опубликовано: 20 окт 2024
- Are you addicted to approval from women, constantly craving validation, overthinking every text you send, or avoiding approaching women because of fear of rejection? If your relationships with women are challenging and painful, it might stem from a wound you haven’t considered before.
In this video, we dive deep into the root cause of these behaviors - the mother wound. Learn what the mother wound is, how it forms, the signs you might have it, and most importantly, how to heal it.
TIMESTAMPS
0:00: Codependency
1:55: Understanding the Root Cause
4:43: How the Mother Wound Forms
7:06: Signs of the Mother Wound
10:17: Healing the Mother Wound
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Thanks a lot for this. You basically described me and my families dynamics. I’m constantly having to set boundaries with her over and over again.
Thank you, mate !
I'm seeing great progress in healing the mother wound and codependency issues. I got a deep positive compliment from a girl from high school that I've changed a lot and she was genuinely amazed. It meant so much to me, I didnt feel like that in a looong time.
I could listen you talking about this topic for hours and still dont get tired about it. You literally describing my life, what an incredible value those videos are🙏
Wow. Thankyou, mate.
Makes a lot of sense to my experience
I'm glad, mate.
Could you recommend any podcasts on this sort of thing?
Busted Oliver 😂💪
I would say sorry ... but I'm not ;) haha
Alao important to recorgnize... Mother wounds... Not just for dudes! I had a pretty rough mom and it definitely messed stuff up for me.
It's okay to seek approval from women. Encouraged, even. Pro-social behavior is rarely a bad thing.
But when you are incapable of seeing anyone as your level equal, always above or beneath you. Well, I mean, you are just signing up for trouble, huh.
I healed my mother shadow last year, I still can't manage to connect with women.
I changed from feeling attracted girls who friendzone me to no girls at all.
weird times
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Haha thanks bro
If the only thing that is stopping You from approaching girl that looks attractive while randomly walking the street is fear of rejection, I hope that the fear always consists.
Let's keep it encouraging, mate. We've all got stuff we're working on.
@@OliverCowlishaw Just wanted to make a little critique about one of the things You mentioned as we culturally have the ''appropriate'' places where ''to make a move'' both woman-men agree upon and any unpleasant feeling in that situation is great 'your own body' indicator/signal not to do that.
Otherwise great video, hope some men reflect and find a way overcome to better them selves.
@@OliverCowlishaw I agree that safely approaching is a thing to seriously discuss and consider. A lot of women don't mind being approached, but it really depends when and where.
Father leaves family for a year to tour with his buddies, probably sleeps around...mummy goes hiking with her youth male friend and takes little boy with her as emotional leverage instead of leaving him with the grand parents. Little boy intimately witnesses mummy and male friend having sex in the tent they were sleeping in and represses this memory. Since that day he develop an unhealthy attachment issue that slowly develops into incestual fantasies about both of his demented hippie parents.
Good enough for a mummy wound? Moving on...