9 Compliments That Make A Man's Heart Melt

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  • Опубликовано: 30 сен 2024
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    In this video, dating coach Ryan Patrick highlights 9 compliments that make a man's heart melt and discusses the male psychology you evoke within each compliment.

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  • @datingcoachryanpatrick
    @datingcoachryanpatrick  4 месяца назад +1

    *NEW SUMMER 2024*
    I now offer self-guided *online courses* to help women of ANY age and experience level CRUSH those single streets FASTER and more efficiently! 🙂
    Check out my course offerings here 👉 www.boyfriendblueprint.com/courses

  • @KatherineKosma
    @KatherineKosma 3 года назад +320

    step one: find a man who actually does whats being described in the compliments

  • @mirand0la
    @mirand0la 3 года назад +90

    True, compliments work for the RIGHT guys. I noticed that the not so nice ones will interpret a simple appreciative word like an invitation to make a pass at you or disrespect your personal space. So ladies, be careful who you're complimenting.

  • @krissyturner88
    @krissyturner88 3 года назад +66

    Compliment: I don't know why but you make me smile every time I see you. Works every time!

  • @antidote775
    @antidote775 3 года назад +123

    You know you’re falling in love when watching these videos 🙄

  • @remarkable937
    @remarkable937 3 года назад +83

    This guy I was dating wanted to get a certain car and I said without thinking, "those cars are for pretty boys" He was pissed and said, "Thanks a lot!!" But I actually saved myself by saying, "That type of car is for a Ken doll, you are an action hero" He liked that. : )

    • @remarkable937
      @remarkable937 3 года назад +11

      @@rebeccabyrne8489 I know right. I was shocked how fast I was able to come out with it lol

    • @emilydesrosiers9034
      @emilydesrosiers9034 3 года назад +4

      Smooth move! lol

    • @remarkable937
      @remarkable937 3 года назад +1

      @@emilydesrosiers9034 LOL thanks!

    • @deel699
      @deel699 3 года назад +2

      Slick 😆

  • @yellowstar409
    @yellowstar409 3 года назад +66

    I get the idea behind these compliments, but the wording I don't think I would ever use

    • @veronicaana
      @veronicaana 3 года назад +10

      Yeah they are a little weird. Especially the boy wonder one.

    • @mirand0la
      @mirand0la 3 года назад +8

      I think Ryan likes to be complimented this way. Now all we need to find is guys like Ryan, and problem solved(I'll take that).

    • @XamolNa
      @XamolNa 3 года назад +8

      I dunno. I just used the one about being femine on my bf and he loved it.

    • @94Trish
      @94Trish 3 года назад +7

      I have to admit I was laughing about some of them

    • @user-jp7hu3jh4e
      @user-jp7hu3jh4e 3 года назад

      Same.

  • @DiraMcClintock
    @DiraMcClintock 3 года назад +56

    So telling him he drives like a girl is not the right thing to say? Oops. 😆

    • @carmendomima1916
      @carmendomima1916 3 года назад +2

      🤣🤣🤣🤣 probably not

    • @Allie007able
      @Allie007able 3 года назад +1

      😆

    • @violetagrozavu
      @violetagrozavu 3 года назад +2

      Try and see what's happening! And please keep us posted 🤣🤣🤣🤣💪

    • @ojala5555
      @ojala5555 3 года назад

      😂😂😂

    • @drayke6936
      @drayke6936 3 года назад

      I tell girls they drive like girls

  • @XamolNa
    @XamolNa 3 года назад +29

    The compliments that work well for me are usually about how safe and comfortable a guy makes me feel with them

  • @isabellecorlett3510
    @isabellecorlett3510 3 года назад +32

    Will guys get all the subtle elements of these compliments? I've always found that guys never pick up on anything as a compliment unless it said in a very direct and obvious way!

    • @clia10892
      @clia10892 3 года назад +6

      I told a guy once that he was handsome and he just replied with 🙈🙈 and I asked him “Are you not used to compliments?” and then he was like “I don’t like them because I feel embarrassed and make me blush. You should save them for your future bf”
      So yeah some guys aren’t used to compliments

    • @isabellecorlett3510
      @isabellecorlett3510 3 года назад +2

      @@clia10892 yeah guys are terrible at taking compliments!! Not so nice of him to say that to you though, if he can't handle it in a nice way then he definitely didn't deserve it!

    • @clia10892
      @clia10892 3 года назад +1

      @@isabellecorlett3510 omg I know 😒 so annoying

  • @SamElle
    @SamElle 3 года назад +35

    I feel so awkward and I blush when I give a guy I like a compliment. I literally turn red so I refrain from doing it because I get so embarrassed

    • @mette1983
      @mette1983 3 года назад +3

      me too. I look like a tomato lol

    • @SamElle
      @SamElle 3 года назад +2

      @@mette1983 LOL idk how to stop myself from turning into a tomato!!!

    • @bsparkles783
      @bsparkles783 3 года назад +2

      Blush away, darlings!! It’s wonderful to hear that there are still women that haven’t become desensitized!! I still turn beet red!! Lol 😇☺️🍅🍎🍓🍒❤️

    • @monikavarro2020
      @monikavarro2020 3 года назад +1

      @Mette Anderson 🤣🤣🤣🍅

  • @bsparkles783
    @bsparkles783 3 года назад +11

    And now I’m both a little afraid and feel amazingly confident!! I’ve actually given my guy three of these almost verbatim over the last few weeks and he is well deserving!! I don’t think he’s ever had anyone look past his tough, gorgeous exterior to the amazing man beneath. Thank you for the great information that’s always engaging and fun!! 👍🏻😎😇🥳

  • @XamolNa
    @XamolNa 3 года назад +6

    One fun thing I did at Xmas was buy the Security Guards where I work a box of Cadbury HEROES. It sounds cheesy but, paired with a big genuine thank you for keeping me and my store safe, I see them every day.

  • @marinamerch
    @marinamerch 3 года назад +6

    I love how you talk! SOOOO EMPOWERING! Its like... ''you got stuff to do.'' heck yes I do. ''how to give compliments if he's deserving of it.'' heck yes cause my word and compliments are authentic and genuine. I LOVE YOUR APPROACH EEE

  • @Katherine-mo8fl
    @Katherine-mo8fl 3 года назад +8

    Simply brilliant and true! The key: Say it from the Heart, or not at all ♥️👍

  • @lynneking5365
    @lynneking5365 3 года назад +5

    so, are used a natural complement with a guy I had known for several years that I had worked with. We got together one day and there were sparks. It just happened that it was right at the beginning of the pandemic. A few months and I complimented him, and he told me “I don’t need any encouragement.“
    It was just so odd that I had to say, “next!“

  • @linnaewillis8975
    @linnaewillis8975 3 года назад +9

    I once asked this guy I liked if he was from Tennessee, because he was a ten!
    I felt kind of foolish afterwards, because I tend to say dumb things when I find someone attractive .

    • @lc4972
      @lc4972 3 года назад

      Cute. Lol. I like it...

    • @laurenspring1628
      @laurenspring1628 3 года назад +1

      Ah yes. I know this pick up line. I would love it if a guy said this to me.

    • @michellegriff13
      @michellegriff13 3 года назад

      That's cute though 😁
      I'm from Mississippi but live in CA. I've had someone tell me not to take long like the word Mississippi cause it makes them miss me. It's cheesy but cute.

    • @laurenspring1628
      @laurenspring1628 3 года назад +1

      @@michellegriff13 I live in California (which I love!) and am going to Tennessee for a month this summer (unless Covid decides to be a b*%$# and the thing I needg o go to gets cancelled), so I am low-key waiting for the jokes and puns and crap to start when I get home

    • @michellegriff13
      @michellegriff13 3 года назад

      @@laurenspring1628 😁😁😁😁
      Hopefully it will remain under moderate control and you get to visit Tennessee! Stay safe though!!!!!!

  • @smerchant1982
    @smerchant1982 3 года назад +5

    Hi Ryan, can you do a video of why a guy who is committed to his wife (he is actually very loyal to her) checks out other girls from head to toe and constantly seeks attention from ladies?

  • @countcrow
    @countcrow 3 года назад +6

    Ryan, you have great videos >>Superfan!!

  • @danisorenson8833
    @danisorenson8833 3 года назад +5

    Your videos are so amazing that I recommend them to everyone. My sister is now following you also.

  • @joymae
    @joymae 3 года назад +5

    Lol is this manipulative or just a good way to compliment them

  • @meaganschristian
    @meaganschristian 3 года назад +2

    I sent one of these to my crush on snap and he liked it, but then I took a screenshot to show my friends, and he saw that I took a screenshot of it, and now he won't answer me back.

  • @melissakaufman7904
    @melissakaufman7904 3 года назад +3

    Love these compliments! I think I’ve given similar compliments, but I like the way you add the layers. I also like how you keep it simple and light while still impactful. Now time for the right man so I can use these!

  • @ericgreen2642
    @ericgreen2642 3 года назад +2

    I really enjoy your channel, Ryan. I’m trying to figure out how to use your techniques in gay dating and relationships. Thank you for sharing your work with all of us.

  • @ginawelch6532
    @ginawelch6532 3 года назад +6

    Hes a cutie

  • @StrippedDownPodcast
    @StrippedDownPodcast 3 года назад +2

    “Why do I feel like I need to go to confessions after what we did last night 🥵😏😂” - Works like a charm

  • @lynseyash1460
    @lynseyash1460 3 года назад +3

    I tell my boyfriend he's my Knight in shining armour or he's my russian hunk

  • @TanzaniteHayley
    @TanzaniteHayley 3 года назад

    #2 I said to a man during sex: ‘I have no idea what’s going on between us but I like it’
    Straight in, promoted to gf overnight. Lol

  • @emiri7842
    @emiri7842 3 года назад +2

    Whoa bro, I just got his number today. This is to advanced. 😔🤚🏻

  • @TameraJacobs
    @TameraJacobs 3 года назад +4

    Is it bad to tell a guy "your hugs are better than chocolate"

    • @Asya-cb9ol
      @Asya-cb9ol 3 года назад

      It's not bad but i think he will laugh 😊

  • @bernadettszucs4356
    @bernadettszucs4356 3 года назад +2

    Thank You so much for these Ryan. I loved these phrases. You are awesome. 👌🧁

  • @Ashwag_arabian_rose
    @Ashwag_arabian_rose 3 года назад +2

    Amazing videos Ryan❤️🔥I always enjoyed them🥰thank you 🌹

  • @lauracarriero2774
    @lauracarriero2774 3 года назад +2

    I was waiting for this one!! I need to try these. I'll let you know how this goesss

  • @ojala5555
    @ojala5555 3 года назад +1

    There was an opera singer (who sang the role of commander in one performance) whom I told that it was pretty hard to believe that the female protagonist fell in love with an old, fat man instead of him-- the handsome, young commander. He took it as a big offence and was mad at me😄.. I should have realized at that very moment I was dealing with the biggest narcissist.

  • @XamolNa
    @XamolNa 3 года назад +1

    I don't comment much but I will do more if only to say, as a woman who has grown up surrounded by awesome men (friends too not just lovers), listen to Ryan.

  • @yuikazaki347
    @yuikazaki347 3 года назад +1

    Ryan , seriously it all started with watching and learning a lot about men and how men try manipulation and 8 months later , I'm with a really sweet man who cares a lot for me and loves me and all aspects of me

  • @TheRacqgrl769
    @TheRacqgrl769 3 года назад +1

    Once again, great tips! Will see how they land when I'm in the presence of the guy I've been talking to. Are there things we could say on the phone that are similar?

  • @SuzieWongSingapore
    @SuzieWongSingapore 3 года назад +2

    Love this !

  • @crystalplus2
    @crystalplus2 3 года назад +1

    It would be so weird and awkward to say the beginning of those statements. It would not be natural for me to talk that girly.

    • @musamustafa5669
      @musamustafa5669 3 года назад

      whatzpp him I was like this be'fore I know who can he:lp you out text him now he can solve your problem:: don't waste your time here,.....

    • @musamustafa5669
      @musamustafa5669 3 года назад

      +2349137140434

  • @laylalynn3525
    @laylalynn3525 3 года назад

    Its actually pretty easy to compliment men genuinely. I find that most men don't get compliments as much as we do. So I typically just compliment like I would to another female just frame my wording different for instance, to a another female "I love that dress where did you get it" to a man "that shirt looks realllly good on you". Tone of voice and eye contact is important. To a female "wow girl you've really been crushing it at work" to a guy "I'm so impressed".

  • @kendrar3072
    @kendrar3072 3 года назад

    Hey! The guy in Police Academy, he who is a gun-enthusiast! There is some recemblance, dont you think ? :-D

  • @lovejaycakes
    @lovejaycakes 3 года назад

    i feel because i compliment the guy i like who lives in a diff country (lol)... his love language is changing to words of affirmation haha. i've said compliment #4 to him and he loved that!

  • @starqueenlotus3755
    @starqueenlotus3755 2 года назад

    Will these compliments also work for flaky not so sure , non committed, types of guys?

  • @KrisMakeup
    @KrisMakeup 3 года назад +1

    A lot of the compliments I have given to a man embody similar essence to the 9 compliments in this video! His cool, but humble attitude...his positive effect on the way others can interact effortlessly in his presence and for the most important part of the compliments is to validate that how he makes me feel is indescribable... it is simplylove ❤️
    Something like letting him know that everytime I get to see him I can’t wait to feel the perfect hugs, in his arms 💓💓

    • @musamustafa5669
      @musamustafa5669 3 года назад

      +2349043696834

    • @musamustafa5669
      @musamustafa5669 3 года назад

      whatzpp him I was like this be'fore I know who can he:lp you out text him now he can solve your problem:: don't waste your time here,.....

  • @lalenyafraley5805
    @lalenyafraley5805 3 года назад +1

    Your videos helped me tremendously to weed out the bad apples thank you

    • @musamustafa5669
      @musamustafa5669 3 года назад

      whatzpp him I was like this be'fore I know who can he:lp you out text him now he can solve your problem:: don't waste your time here,.....

    • @musamustafa5669
      @musamustafa5669 3 года назад

      +2349043696834

  • @starqueenlotus3755
    @starqueenlotus3755 2 года назад

    I love your funny style of delivering the message across

  • @emicheng8380
    @emicheng8380 3 года назад +1

    Wednesday, April 28, 2021 12 : 46 am

    • @musamustafa5669
      @musamustafa5669 3 года назад

      whatzpp him I was like this be'fore I know who can he:lp you out text him now he can solve your problem:: don't waste your time here,......

    • @musamustafa5669
      @musamustafa5669 3 года назад

      whatzpp him I was like this be'fore I know who can he:lp you out text him now he can solve your problem:: don't waste your time here,.....

  • @Smr402
    @Smr402 3 года назад

    Please help!!! so a guy that use to work for my family business has been talking with me for 2 months, we dont meet in person because my father would kill us. He said he isnt ready for a girlfriend but still sweet talks a lot, is always texting me first (literally every day but it doesnt amount to much we just talk about our day), is sometimes sexual even though he understands i will not do anything with him... he knows i like him and he has said he is interested but when i try asking where this is going he is vague and wants me to say where i want this to go but im embarrassed so i dont say anything. Am i being strung along?

    • @NoaTheGenii31415
      @NoaTheGenii31415 3 года назад +3

      If he’s said that he’s not ready for a girlfriend yet, then believe him. Especially if he’s vague when you ask him about your relationship. Chances are that he just likes spending time with you but isn’t ready for something serious.

  • @yarntube4918
    @yarntube4918 3 года назад +1

    I like you, even though you drive a Ford....😉

    • @musamustafa5669
      @musamustafa5669 3 года назад

      whatzpp him I was like this be'fore I know who can he:lp you out text him now he can solve your problem:: don't waste your time here,.....

    • @musamustafa5669
      @musamustafa5669 3 года назад

      +2349043696834

    • @musamustafa5669
      @musamustafa5669 3 года назад

      whatzpp him I was like this be'fore I know who can he:lp you out text him now he can solve your problem:: don't waste your time here,.....

    • @musamustafa5669
      @musamustafa5669 3 года назад

      +2349043696834

  • @Virvepaulina
    @Virvepaulina 3 года назад

    This seems fake 🙈 Especially the last ones that start with "I can't believe I'm saying this, but..." that seem manipulative (just cos of the artificial setting here, I do get that they're not supposed to be dished out as such) 😏

    • @musamustafa5669
      @musamustafa5669 3 года назад

      +2349137140435

    • @musamustafa5669
      @musamustafa5669 3 года назад

      whatzpp him I was like this be'fore I know who can he:lp you out text him now he can solve your problem:: don't waste your time here,....

    • @musamustafa5669
      @musamustafa5669 3 года назад

      +2349137140435

  • @ladyfarrier5949
    @ladyfarrier5949 3 года назад

    And how many women will use these to manipulate men?...... just saying.....

    • @musamustafa5669
      @musamustafa5669 3 года назад

      whatzpp him I was like this be'fore I know who can he:lp you out text him now he can solve your problem:: don't waste your time here,.

    • @musamustafa5669
      @musamustafa5669 3 года назад

      +2349043696834

  • @azzinavalezur8682
    @azzinavalezur8682 3 года назад

    I Love your humor Sir cant Help smiling and laughing

    • @musamustafa5669
      @musamustafa5669 3 года назад

      whatzpp him I was like this be'fore I know who can he:lp you out text him now he can solve your problem:: don't waste your time here,....

    • @musamustafa5669
      @musamustafa5669 3 года назад

      +2349137140435

    • @musamustafa5669
      @musamustafa5669 3 года назад

      whatzpp him I was like this be'fore I know who can he:lp you out text him now he can solve your problem:: don't waste your time here,....

  • @Reshme77
    @Reshme77 3 года назад

    Clever 👏

  • @carlirose1802
    @carlirose1802 3 года назад +5

    Easy compliments:
    - you’re a rare find
    - I feel safe being in your arms
    - you made me smile today
    Failed compliments:
    - if he’s overly confident on his looks then anything complimenting his looks doesn’t work
    - I like how your hands are bigger then mine
    - you look so cuddly (it depends)

  • @flintfoster8010
    @flintfoster8010 3 года назад

    When ur both enbys 👁👄👁

    • @musamustafa5669
      @musamustafa5669 3 года назад

      whatzpp him I was like this be'fore I know who can he:lp you out text him now he can solve your problem:: don't waste your time here,....

    • @musamustafa5669
      @musamustafa5669 3 года назад

      whatzpp him I was like this be'fore I know who can he:lp you out text him now he can solve your problem:: don't waste your time here,....

    • @musamustafa5669
      @musamustafa5669 3 года назад

      +2349137140434

  • @viradormitchirishs.9546
    @viradormitchirishs.9546 3 года назад +2

    First

  • @Lunataari
    @Lunataari 3 года назад +3

    *Sees a guy I liked for months and tries not to be awkward after reassuring myself I’m a sexy woman for approximately 15 minutes in my mind*
    Me walking up to him: “Your hands are very large and nice. I can see you being a very successful massage therapist.”
    *silence*
    (Runs away in shame)

    • @lc4972
      @lc4972 3 года назад

      Maybe touch his hand with your finger and brush it up his arm as you walk away...?

  • @louconboy7569
    @louconboy7569 3 года назад +7

    I couldn't do it🤣🤣 treat them mean keep them keen. The nice approach hasn't worked so far for me

    • @drayke6936
      @drayke6936 3 года назад +2

      For a guy like myself the nice approach doesn't work for me

    • @lc4972
      @lc4972 3 года назад

      @@drayke6936 I'm curious. Can you explain why? And what kind of person would you consider yourself? (So you like it when a girl is mean? )

    • @drayke6936
      @drayke6936 3 года назад

      @@lc4972 don't necessarily like mean per say, I like a gal who takes what she wants no matter who she has to walk over or hurt. Just like a lot of women don't like the so called nice guys myself I don't like the nice women.

    • @lc4972
      @lc4972 3 года назад

      @@drayke6936 interesting. So what happens when you are the collateral damage? (Maybe she takes your girl...?) Does that still attract you?
      I'm not sure I can be anything other than who I am, but that concept is quite intriguing.

    • @drayke6936
      @drayke6936 3 года назад +1

      @@lc4972 that's the chance even i take. Ive always told chics I dated if you choose to go with someone else more power to ya. Just don't come back to me because it won't happen.