Love how you showed 18:26 different ways to style an outfit and then how to elevate it. When you said as we age if we're not careful we can look more manly. That's what I have been noticing lately in women my age and I"ve consciously been trying to look feminine.
Love your videos! I am uncomfortable with any tucking, even a baby tuck..I kind of have a tummy and feel like the side view with any kind of front tuck I look poochy…therefore I am guilty of wearing my tops out. I’m 5’8”, not really overweight, just that menopausal midsection. I’d love to see a video on comfort clothes, super casual wear….I am retired and mostly at home except for multitudes of doctor appointments (near end of breast cancer journey) for which I generally wear jeans and a nice top. I’d just love to see a video on budget friendly comfort wear.
Another great vid! The worst combo that any woman can wear is a cropped/Capri pant and a tunic. I have resolved to only by full length or true ankle length pants! You give such great advice, clearly and succinctly! Thank you!
So many outfits that rely on layers for style are impractical for occasions where you are going to be indoors. I can wear a tank top if it’s under a jacket or cardigan, but certainly the jacket would have to come off indoors because it would be too hot. There goes the styling. My outfits have to allow for shedding the layers.
It depends on the indoors. When it's indoors at work, my blazer stays on. When it's indoors at home, of course the blazer comes off and if it's chilly gets replaced with a cardigan. If layers are not workable, then accesorizing with a scarf can do the job. I will use a scarf to keep my outfit interesting even if I remove a layer. Also, to add a pop of color to darker outfits. Belts and necklaces also go a long way.
You mentioned several times that women tend to lose their femininity as we age. Would you be willing to do a video explaining this idea more fully? What exactly do you mean, what causes this, how can we offset this issue without necessarily adding in ruffles and bows? I so appreciate your videos and your approach to style.
As a 65 yr old woman who went into menopause in my early 40s, your body tends to change shape & lose waist emphasis. You get a little "boxy" since you get thicker in the middle & your breasts start to sag. You just lose any roundness or curve you once had & it doesn't matter what your weight is. Your bones also compress, especially in your spine & you may lose height as well. I lost an inch. Your shoe size may change & you may need more length & width in your shoes than you once did. I do not like ruffles & bows, but I do like feminine cuts especially in tops & dresses. Curved hems, set in shoulders, dresses & tops that slightly curve in at the waist, wrap styles, etc. Fabrics with a nice drape are always a good option (nothing too stiff) Fit n flare shapes. Princess seams, bust darts, wider waist bands that lay flat, etc. Ponte knit is good for casual wear I have found (the pull on dress pants she mentioned) Almond toed shoes instead of round. It's not tthat difficult 😊 I like a longer top, but it has to hit at high hip, not completely cover my crotch & butt. I never embraced cropped pants & did not understand the whole show off your ankles thing. I personally avoid elbow length sleeves as I find them matronly.
Also if you look at older women (like 70-80++) many of them lose all the definition of their faces and you can’t really tell if they are male or female. I know what she means. I’m the same weight I was at 25 but nobody would ever confuse me for a 25 year old girl. I don’t think ruffles and bows are feminine - I think they are childish. But wearing jewelry, makeup, color, clothes that are cut for women - they all help me to feel more feminine. I know lots of women who have embraced the jeans and hoodie and sneakers lifestyle and they really look androgynous. Which is fine if that is what they want - it’s not for me though. And I don’t wear heels and rarely wear skirts or dresses except in summertime - yet I am still not invisible. Remaining visible and relevant is my goal.
@@joanne6408 yes did you think I meant I can only be relevant based on how I look? I just said my goal is to remain visible and relevant. Trust me I’m not ready for the ice floe yet.
This was great. More of these please. You’re exactly right, we are dressing in these non-modern/unflattering dress formulas and we need solutions/ideas. Thank you 🙏🏽
This is such a timely and relevant video for me right now. It really illustrates your points on styling with the right accessories and proportions. I love the before and after examples so please consider more videos like this!
I have an apple-shape, plus size body, so I want my tops to go past my waist---however, I know I don't want to wear tunic-length tops anymore either! I think the correct length of a top for me would be 28 inches, so that's what I've been looking for lately. I don't wear leggings or jeggings, thank you Nada, and I have never liked khaki pants. Newly retired, I wear jeans when I go out and "soft pants" when I'm staying home. Watching your videos has put me on the right path--thank you!
I have three brothers no sister and leaned hard into my feminity starting at age 3. It wasn't easy at times (try dressing feminine as a teenager in the 1980's!), but I managed. I never knew it would serve me in my older years. I enjoy learning from channels like this one and am constantly experimenting and improving.
Just decluttered my cropped leggings. Haven’t worn chinos in years because they never fit me right. I’m too short to find yoga pants darn it.but do have some decent pull on pants and now I know how to style them. This has probably been one of the most helpful videos I’ve watched in a while.
Hi Nada, I struggle with full length pants and where they should be hemmed to suit different shoes such as fashion sneakers (including Converse in this category), loafers, and boots. I frequently feel frumpy in straight pants with my current shoe wardrobe.
I love this type of video, so please do more outfit makeovers.I have a short pixie haircut so I always wear statement earrings to counteract the masculine feel. I think I need to shop for a more fashionable sneaker. Mine are plain white but probably too chunky.
Great video! Thanks for showing us how to fix/improve an outfit. One of the challenges I face when I am creating outfits is choosing the most appropriate shoes.
Thank you thank you! My issue right now is that I have short, wide calves, and short, wide ankles. Cropped pants and midi hemlines make it ... worse. It's hard to stay looking proportional without resorting to high heels to add some leg length, and I don't want to run around in heels all the time.
Another challenge: high waist/short torso; am not top heavy…so crew neck? V neck? Square neck? Love turtle necks for balancing top and bottom visual but have a short neck.
Another way to feminize is to wear silk scarves, even if you're wearing a sweater, jeans, and trainers. Also, bootcut jeans and slim-straight jeans are more feminine than regular straight.
Hi Nada, thank you for this video. Im having a problem looking in my closet and knowing what to keep or donate! Although im getting a lot of awesome advice from your videos, I guess im feeling a bit overwhelmed. Body shape, personal style, fashion fit, colours etc. Do I buy black pants if my hair colour is blonde? Can I wear crew necks with a large bust? Arghhhhhhh!
Another challenge: high waist/short torso; am not top heavy…so crew neck? V neck? Square neck? Love turtle necks for balancing top and bottom visual but have a short neck.
I get that! Take it one step at a time. Focus on colors first, for example, or fit. Once you get comfortable with that, move on. Creating a color palette that suits your coloring can help you determine whether black pants work on you as a blonde, but my guess is that another dark neutral (navy, charcoal or chocolate) will be better. And when possible try to show the collarbone with a large bust and go for a scoop or a V-neck. :) Would love to help you in the Reverse Closet Edit if you think that will be useful for you. nadamanley.com/bootcamp
Good video. Wouldn’t it be fun if there was a way to show an array of tops, pants, accessories, shoes and try to put the outfits together to see the effects? Wouldn’t it be a great app to photograph your closet and mix and match online by moving the pieces. No need to try them on and off and so much faster like paper dolls .
@susanbrownstein3971 I really like the StyleBook app, but another popular one is Indyx. You can add everything by category: clothes, jewelry, shoes and handbags as well and create all sorts of outfits.
@@hfhodges I was thinking the same thing. Nothing worse than running in and out of a dressing room. What’s the point of buying the trendy item if it’s only good for one season? I do like incorporating the Pantone color of the year, if you love the color. That’s trendy enough for me. Otherwise you end up looking like everyone else.
I'm 52, fit, and dress in classic silhouettes. My issue is shoes. I have bunions and strained foot ligaments from overexcercing throughout the years. I can't wear pointed shoes, heels, or sandals without an ankle strap. It is so discouraging and frustrating to find modern, supportive, comfortable, stylish flats. Help!
One thing I get stumped on: not only am I petite (5ft & 128lbs), but also very high waist/short torso. I’ve invested in some nice leather belts for my jeans and a dress, but now find belts look awful on me, amplifying short torso. A half tuck or a shorter top that falls a bit below my waist is my only option, Right?c
I have a similar proportion to you. I find that when I tuck , if I “blouse” the top out a bit over that waist band, I get the proper proportion. It’s only about an inch, but it works. I love those tops that hit at just below the waist, as you have also discovered. Before these became more widely available I would hem the tops I had to get that look. I dread the day that long tops might be the only option!
Yes, khaki pants are man pants! I remember having such a hard time trying to dress for business casual Fridays and my former boss said, just wear khaki pants and a polo shirt! I literally laughed out loud, and said I didn't want to look like a male golfer.
@ I see your point. If I was wearing boots the day I died, my son would have the obituary read, “I had the greatest mom. She died with her boots on “. Hahahaha
What are your biggest challenges when it comes to creating outfits? Let's chat about them today!
This type of video where you show us exactly how to improve the outfit formula is SO helpful. Thank you
Love how you showed 18:26 different ways to style an outfit and then how to elevate it. When you said as we age if we're not careful we can look more manly. That's what I have been noticing lately in women my age and I"ve consciously been trying to look feminine.
Love your videos! I am uncomfortable with any tucking, even a baby tuck..I kind of have a tummy and feel like the side view with any kind of front tuck I look poochy…therefore I am guilty of wearing my tops out. I’m 5’8”, not really overweight, just that menopausal midsection. I’d love to see a video on comfort clothes, super casual wear….I am retired and mostly at home except for multitudes of doctor appointments (near end of breast cancer journey) for which I generally wear jeans and a nice top. I’d just love to see a video on budget friendly comfort wear.
@@MarciaL-r1v Congratulations for being near the end of breast cancer journey!!!
Another great vid! The worst combo that any woman can wear is a cropped/Capri pant and a tunic. I have resolved to only by full length or true ankle length pants! You give such great advice, clearly and succinctly! Thank you!
So many outfits that rely on layers for style are impractical for occasions where you are going to be indoors. I can wear a tank top if it’s under a jacket or cardigan, but certainly the jacket would have to come off indoors because it would be too hot. There goes the styling. My outfits have to allow for shedding the layers.
It depends on the indoors. When it's indoors at work, my blazer stays on. When it's indoors at home, of course the blazer comes off and if it's chilly gets replaced with a cardigan. If layers are not workable, then accesorizing with a scarf can do the job. I will use a scarf to keep my outfit interesting even if I remove a layer. Also, to add a pop of color to darker outfits. Belts and necklaces also go a long way.
You mentioned several times that women tend to lose their femininity as we age. Would you be willing to do a video explaining this idea more fully? What exactly do you mean, what causes this, how can we offset this issue without necessarily adding in ruffles and bows? I so appreciate your videos and your approach to style.
As a 65 yr old woman who went into menopause in my early 40s, your body tends to change shape & lose waist emphasis. You get a little "boxy" since you get thicker in the middle & your breasts start to sag. You just lose any roundness or curve you once had & it doesn't matter what your weight is. Your bones also compress, especially in your spine & you may lose height as well. I lost an inch. Your shoe size may change & you may need more length & width in your shoes than you once did. I do not like ruffles & bows, but I do like feminine cuts especially in tops & dresses. Curved hems, set in shoulders, dresses & tops that slightly curve in at the waist, wrap styles, etc. Fabrics with a nice drape are always a good option (nothing too stiff) Fit n flare shapes. Princess seams, bust darts, wider waist bands that lay flat, etc. Ponte knit is good for casual wear I have found (the pull on dress pants she mentioned) Almond toed shoes instead of round. It's not tthat difficult 😊 I like a longer top, but it has to hit at high hip, not completely cover my crotch & butt. I never embraced cropped pants & did not understand the whole show off your ankles thing. I personally avoid elbow length sleeves as I find them matronly.
@@yensid4294 I turned into a small rectangle 😂
Also if you look at older women (like 70-80++) many of them lose all the definition of their faces and you can’t really tell if they are male or female. I know what she means. I’m the same weight I was at 25 but nobody would ever confuse me for a 25 year old girl. I don’t think ruffles and bows are feminine - I think they are childish. But wearing jewelry, makeup, color, clothes that are cut for women - they all help me to feel more feminine. I know lots of women who have embraced the jeans and hoodie and sneakers lifestyle and they really look androgynous. Which is fine if that is what they want - it’s not for me though. And I don’t wear heels and rarely wear skirts or dresses except in summertime - yet I am still not invisible. Remaining visible and relevant is my goal.
There is a lot more to being “relevant” than how you look.
@@joanne6408 yes did you think I meant I can only be relevant based on how I look? I just said my goal is to remain visible and relevant. Trust me I’m not ready for the ice floe yet.
This was great. More of these please. You’re exactly right, we are dressing in these non-modern/unflattering dress formulas and we need solutions/ideas. Thank you 🙏🏽
This is such a timely and relevant video for me right now. It really illustrates your points on styling with the right accessories and proportions. I love the before and after examples so please consider more videos like this!
I have an apple-shape, plus size body, so I want my tops to go past my waist---however, I know I don't want to wear tunic-length tops anymore either! I think the correct length of a top for me would be 28 inches, so that's what I've been looking for lately. I don't wear leggings or jeggings, thank you Nada, and I have never liked khaki pants. Newly retired, I wear jeans when I go out and "soft pants" when I'm staying home. Watching your videos has put me on the right path--thank you!
I love this video ❤. You did a great job showing how little tweaks really elevate an outfit ❤❤
Omg, I agree with you about khaki pants…I put them on and usually take them right back off…not feminine!
Great video! Super helpful and informative. Perfect examples to show how to make changes in our outfits!❤
Got the strong, busty top 😅 You opened my eyes awhile back about the boxy top and skinny pants. Thank you! ❤
Love love love the examples of lame outfits, they really help us develop an eye for what could be better
I have three brothers no sister and leaned hard into my feminity starting at age 3. It wasn't easy at times (try dressing feminine as a teenager in the 1980's!), but I managed. I never knew it would serve me in my older years. I enjoy learning from channels like this one and am constantly experimenting and improving.
I love your commentary. You're hilarious.
Just decluttered my cropped leggings. Haven’t worn chinos in years because they never fit me right. I’m too short to find yoga pants darn it.but do have some decent pull on pants and now I know how to style them. This has probably been one of the most helpful videos I’ve watched in a while.
Hi Nada, I struggle with full length pants and where they should be hemmed to suit different shoes such as fashion sneakers (including Converse in this category), loafers, and boots. I frequently feel frumpy in straight pants with my current shoe wardrobe.
I love this type of video, so please do more outfit makeovers.I have a short pixie haircut so I always wear statement earrings to counteract the masculine feel. I think I need to shop for a more fashionable sneaker. Mine are plain white but probably too chunky.
Great video! Thanks for showing us how to fix/improve an outfit. One of the challenges I face when I am creating outfits is choosing the most appropriate shoes.
Okay, I love this so much! Your reaction to those pants had me laughing out loud! Thanks for making my day, my friend!! ~Beth
One of your best videos ever. Helped me already with something I put on today. Helping us move our style from good to great is a game changer!
@@KarenKrupsaw Ditto that. I made some quick changes to what I was planning to wear, and voila! It worked.
Thank you Nada for such an informative video! It's really helped me to recognise what I've been doing wrong and more importantly how to put it right!🤗
Can you do a video of affordable accessories video….
How about ideas to put together skirts? I hardly ever wear pants I’m a girlie girl but would luv some new modern ideas
Thank you thank you! My issue right now is that I have short, wide calves, and short, wide ankles. Cropped pants and midi hemlines make it ... worse. It's hard to stay looking proportional without resorting to high heels to add some leg length, and I don't want to run around in heels all the time.
I am 5’2” and short waisted, so I need ideas on how to put my clothes together so I can not look cut in half.
Great video Nada. I'd love to find a pair of the black pants you spoke of with the last outfit. I'm 5'2. Do you have a link i could check out? Thanks!
Quince has some nice ponte knit pants that are reasonably priced.
Nada said the company is Everlane
Excellent video.
Another challenge: high waist/short torso; am not top heavy…so crew neck? V neck? Square neck? Love turtle necks for balancing top and bottom visual but have a short neck.
How does one figure out what their "colors" are? Have you done a video on this or could you? Thanks!
Excellent video, thanks a lot!
What a great video! Thank you!
What style black pants from everlane?❤️
Love this! ❤
Another way to feminize is to wear silk scarves, even if you're wearing a sweater, jeans, and trainers. Also, bootcut jeans and slim-straight jeans are more feminine than regular straight.
Good video. I saw the Adidas sambas everywhere. What are your thoughts on Adidas VL Court 3.0?
Hi Nada, thank you for this video. Im having a problem looking in my closet and knowing what to keep or donate! Although im getting a lot of awesome advice from your videos, I guess im feeling a bit overwhelmed. Body shape, personal style, fashion fit, colours etc. Do I buy black pants if my hair colour is blonde? Can I wear crew necks with a large bust? Arghhhhhhh!
Another challenge: high waist/short torso; am not top heavy…so crew neck? V neck? Square neck? Love turtle necks for balancing top and bottom visual but have a short neck.
I get that! Take it one step at a time. Focus on colors first, for example, or fit. Once you get comfortable with that, move on. Creating a color palette that suits your coloring can help you determine whether black pants work on you as a blonde, but my guess is that another dark neutral (navy, charcoal or chocolate) will be better. And when possible try to show the collarbone with a large bust and go for a scoop or a V-neck. :) Would love to help you in the Reverse Closet Edit if you think that will be useful for you. nadamanley.com/bootcamp
Good video. Wouldn’t it be fun if there was a way to show an array of tops, pants, accessories, shoes and try to put the outfits together to see the effects? Wouldn’t it be a great app to photograph your closet and mix and match online by moving the pieces. No need to try them on and off and so much faster like paper dolls .
@@susanbrownstein3971 I was thinking paper dolls of ourselves, too. Great idea.
@susanbrownstein3971 I really like the StyleBook app, but another popular one is Indyx. You can add everything by category: clothes, jewelry, shoes and handbags as well and create all sorts of outfits.
@@hfhodges I was thinking the same thing. Nothing worse than running in and out of a dressing room. What’s the point of buying the trendy item if it’s only good for one season? I do like incorporating the Pantone color of the year, if you love the color. That’s trendy enough for me. Otherwise you end up looking like everyone else.
I'm 52, fit, and dress in classic silhouettes. My issue is shoes. I have bunions and strained foot ligaments from overexcercing throughout the years. I can't wear pointed shoes, heels, or sandals without an ankle strap. It is so discouraging and frustrating to find modern, supportive, comfortable, stylish flats. Help!
Try stretchy sketchers brand shoe
One thing I get stumped on: not only am I petite (5ft & 128lbs), but also very high waist/short torso. I’ve invested in some nice leather belts for my jeans and a dress, but now find belts look awful on me, amplifying short torso. A half tuck or a shorter top that falls a bit below my waist is my only option, Right?c
I have a similar proportion to you. I find that when I tuck , if I “blouse” the top out a bit over that waist band, I get the proper proportion. It’s only about an inch, but it works. I love those tops that hit at just below the waist, as you have also discovered. Before these became more widely available I would hem the tops I had to get that look. I dread the day that long tops might be the only option!
@@denisedorsey2889 me, too! So glad cropped tops are back. They hit me just right
Yes! Khakis are man pants to me. I never feel cool 😎in those!
I despise Khaki pants. I almost spewed my water when you called them "man pants". I don't even like them on men.
Yes, khaki pants are man pants! I remember having such a hard time trying to dress for business casual Fridays and my former boss said, just wear khaki pants and a polo shirt! I literally laughed out loud, and said I didn't want to look like a male golfer.
The loafers look like a man’s golf shoe. Lol. Not for this kid.
They are not for me either, but they are in style, so that's a question of personal style. :)
@ I see your point. If I was wearing boots the day I died, my son would have the obituary read, “I had the greatest mom. She died with her boots on “. Hahahaha
UUUUUGGGHHHHH!!!!!!!!!!!!! I am the boring, ugly, outfits person in EVERRY single example! UGGHHHHH!
Are cropped pants out of style? I hate them.