My arms have been flabby for a couple of decades. Then I decided to Fix. That. So everything time I wash my hands in the bathroom, I put my hands on the edge of the counter and do a few "pushups ". A few months of that and my arms are noticeably firm and slimmer.
I do weights too and really enjoy it, you can buy weighted wrist weights that you fasten with velcro and you don't even know you're doing weights, just wear them for an hour or so
Exactly.... I think after a certain age, we just need to be ok with how our bodies look; and focus on health and fitness that is age appropriate. I am 64 and still work out. I sometimes show my arms and legs and sometimes I don't. But who cares???
Thank you for taking time to make these videos! A lot of the styles that are not good for us older women is so true!! It is so nice to hear someone actually let it be known...in such that it isn't just me that doesn't like them. I have been watching your videos for the past week and i am learning so much and feeling so validated and encouraged! Thank you!! grace from hawaii
Fantastic video! I discovered your channel recently. I've watched so many of your videos and have learned so much. The information you've provided and continue to provide has answered so many questions I had about specific topics. Thanks. Very appreciated. Regards from Sydney, Australia 🥰
I personally think that sneakers are not attractive at all, except for working out in them. I do wear Birkenstock shoes but I have a very small foot. I don't think my feet look huge at all. I think people vary on what they like. Nada has her opinions and we all have our own. I think many of Nada's opinions are valid, but when I am mostly at home, I wear what is comfortable. When I go out, I still want comfort, but I consider style a bit more.
I’ve been wearing Birkenstocks for 10 years! It also helps that my feet are quite small for my height. But you may can take my Birkenstocks off my cold dead feet. 😂 Actually, I might go ahead and purchase those cobalt blue ones I’ve been eying.
I've definitely been wearing flowy over flowy😮... however, now I'm chucking my hip length cardigans for cropped structured jackets- Your styling advice makes so much sense!!! Thanks!!
Everything you said was spot on! Hoping those asymmetrical tunic (worse, in prints) fade away...the cropped white jacket is a fabulous piece. I have one from JCrew and have worn it over so many pieces. One of my best purchases ever!
Love your earrings btw. I'm 58 and have flabby arms, I also have a great collection of t-shirts that I stopped wearing because of my bingo wings. But last summer I found a great way of re-wearing my beloved Ts. I wear them under my long-sleeved denim shirt dress, leaving several top buttons undone so the graphics on the t-shirts can be seen, the dress also comes with a belt so it doesn't look shapeless. I think it's a great look that I've never seen anywhere else. Another way to wear a t-shirt is to simply wear a fitted cardigan over it and leave the buttons undone, and yes, I always tuck in sweaters and t-shirts, I am slim but I always have a tummy so my way of disguising it is with a great short jacket over my outfit, e.g. a Chanel type boucle jacket in a neutral timeless colour (navy, etc.)
@joycemorrow5840 thank you! It's La Ligne for Target. Here it is on Poshmark! www.googleadservices.com/pagead/aclk?sa=L&ai=DChcSEwjOrom0ts6EAxUtoloFHVMLBIsYABAPGgJ2dQ&ase=2&gclid=CjwKCAiA0PuuBhBsEiwAS7fsNUDcD5zyePwNGHYY1NfOQie7mBc0R15biql_Un3fdw2rlhiQFETj1RoCdEoQAvD_BwE&ohost=www.google.com&cid=CAESVuD2gJAKRD6hJvcUAiYViNy8_zq1eNBtuc28gMIJx522TDJVsqJOP31L_Aa3wFf-TJIkkY2u79IBv_Bk9BuDdXjo1I946HaKVYJMCSuv48rNuUqIHJfx&sig=AOD64_1oHnDVkKJ_CH5uE1FdAAkPy__fLg&ctype=5&q=&nis=4&ved=2ahUKEwjQ_IG0ts6EAxWPTTABHdZcBtIQ9aACKAB6BAgCECo&adurl=
I understand that lace jackets may not be stylish, but with 106 degree temps and high humidity, it is nearly impossible to wear a blazer in the heat of the summer. The lace/crochet does offer much needed ventilation. What would you recommend for sweltering climates? I love your channel!
I will do a post about this! I am in the same boat living in Florida and there are nice versions of these for sure! Just not the ones shown in the video!
A cropped sheer bomber jacket looks more modern, or a utility/ chore jacket. (I have a lightweight raincoat that looks like a safari jacket because of the rolled up tabs on the sleeves & the drawstring corded waist).
These are trendy right now and can be cute! It depends on the sweater and how it goes with the outfit. I'll do a post about these. Button up shirts are perfect though! Just make sure they are not too long or tie them at the waist!
So helpful! Thank you. I am 5'2" pear shaped. My legs are not my best feature. What skirt length/type should I wear that won't add volume to my lower half, make me look stubby, or show my thick calves?
Super helpful!! Thank you! Would you consider showing us how to fold up tops or sweaters at the hem without them falling down during the day. You showed something in a video that looked like Velcro or tape or something…. How do you do that?
Thank you 👍🏻💐 I just like my sweaters, blouses, shirts end between hip and waist, not tugged. Why? Because it might look good from front or even back, hoever nerven ever I saw anybodys profile looking good with tugged in anything. It makes the tummy area look like it is bulging, not flattering at all.
Thanks for the comment! If you don’t like the look of tucked then I would say to find sweaters that are a little shorter so they don’t hit at the low hip :)
@@NadaManley thank you Dear Nada, thinking back I found some nice inspiration in your videos already. Now that you told me, most cropped pieces should enter my wardrobe.
I totally agree. The problem is pants, because they usually don’t hit the smallest part of your waist. So you’re just highlighting a larger section of your waist. You have to be VERY slim for shirts tucked into pants to not make your waist look larger in profile. I find tucking into jeans is the worst because of the bulk of the stuff fabric and button. I tuck shirts into skirts and it works fine. Because they can be adjusted up or down to the smallest part of your waist.
I do wear all my tops and sweaters out over my tummy as I don’t know what else to do. I am very uncomfortable with it on show. I am a petite pear with a reasonable waist, size 10 tops UK but I have lower belly fat that won’t budge and I don’t like anything I wear unfortunately.
Great advice again.I agree on everything except the front tucking of sweaters.I do not really have a big tummy but jeans with their zippers layered fabric automatically add bulky my tummy from the side view and tucking will only emphasise that. If you on the other hand let the back of your sweater creep up as when you sit.you still get a bit of a waist definition even in front as it creeps up on the sides as well. Plus you get emphasis on the small of your back which everybody seems to forget by having bulkiy material covering your whole back side. Am I just imagening this?
I buy cropped sweaters or cover the outfit with a slightly longer jacket, e.g. tweed Chanel type jacket. I've also come to terms with having a little tummy, I'll never be one of those women with a flat one even though I'm slim
Thank you for really great advice but it would have been helpful to see more positive examples of great jackets and layering, stylish but comfortable shoes- imo the ones you showed are not much better than the ones you criticised. I have wide feet and bought some beautiful boots from Hobbs in the UK, their Imogen boots, both ankle and knee length are as comfortable as slippers, elegant and timeless, they have great sales too. Whenever I come across footwear that's elegant and comfortable I buy multiples
I would say i have a stronger upper body. Although my measurements for bust and hip are only 1 inch difference. I don't have big arms, but they are getting crepey at 68. I feel heavier on my top half though I am not overweight. I am only 5'1" (used to be 5'2") until menopause. I have a short torso, always had a wide ribcage which makes my bra measure larger around. I do not care for prints and wearing them on a jacket for me is tabu. It would just draw attention to the top half. I do not wear two-piece matching outfits. I would break the pieces up and wear them with something else. Can you do a video or have you already on how to measure for bra size. I have done it from other sites and bought a bra and did not like it. I need underwire for support as I am a D cup. Also, shoes are not my friend. I have had bunion surgeries in my 50's, but they are back. I just had a TKR 3 months ago and even with the low heel it is difficult to stand very long if I'm going to an event. I wear sneakers elsewhere. I so enjoy your videos and with this one I especially agree with about everything!
Tweed/boucle Chanel type jackets. I bought mine from Mango, Hobbs, Zara does them too and so does H&M. I buy them in neutral colours that will last for years and you can dress them up or down with jeans, etc.
I agree with showing your arms especially if you have attractive shoulders. I think a bit of a tan also adds to the look. (No one is inspecting your arms). lol
Yes the sweaters of thebpast were ling...I have taken to folding it up and theynlook great . I uave l8ts of thrifted h8ghbquality Ralph Lauren sweatersmin great col8rs and that is how I am wearing them today.😂
I think one of the worst styles I have seen is sleeveless sweater sets. The shell is sleeveless and cardigan is a traditional button up. What about the long knee length cardis Talbots sold about 3 years ago which were worn with a tucked blouse and slacks. I do cover arms but I also freeze. Air conditioning is frigid! Wearing a blazer in summer would burn me up. Many thanks. ❤ Neda, I can't find that short white crue jacket by Nic And Zoe anywhere. Thank you.
Good info. But wish you would put an X on don't do and a check mark for do this Or use dots red for don't do and green for do this .I am multitasking when watching and glance up get confused think that looks good but hear you are saying this is NOT good.
You're going to laugh at me, but... the black corduroy April Cornell jacket? With the pink embroidery? THAT is so painfully me that I had to go and see if you had it listed/where I could find it. That's my inoffensive statement jacket. (My more offensive statement jacket is the Handmaid's Tale x Levi's one. Which, yes, is hard for me to style on a number of levels, but I'm a fan of the show so I own it and rock it.)
Not a thing wrong with peplum jackets if you have an hourglass figure. And waist defining jackets if you have the figure for heavens sake dont hide it! I have been heavy so I get they dont fit eveyone correctly.
I keep hearing that peplums are going to be coming back soon, so I guess you could say we're just trendsetters ahead of the curve, wearing it ahead of the comeback lol.
Bolero jackets are great to hide arms...I uave a terrific body for 76 but my upper arms no. I dont wear those long boxy things they DO look old. The boleros end at my waist or more often higher to show off my hourglass waist. So many desses are sleevless adopted during the Obama administration and saving manufacturers alot of fabric so thank Michelle Obama...suddenly everything was sleeveless. I used to sew so I KNOW how much fabric sleevelessness saves. I dont need to cover my waist or hips
My arms have been flabby for a couple of decades. Then I decided to Fix. That. So everything time I wash my hands in the bathroom, I put my hands on the edge of the counter and do a few "pushups ". A few months of that and my arms are noticeably firm and slimmer.
I do weights too and really enjoy it, you can buy weighted wrist weights that you fasten with velcro and you don't even know you're doing weights, just wear them for an hour or so
Brilliant to combine two habits to multiply effects
Exactly.... I think after a certain age, we just need to be ok with how our bodies look; and focus on health and fitness that is age appropriate. I am 64 and still work out. I sometimes show my arms and legs and sometimes I don't. But who cares???
Good video, Nada. Your hair, side parted, is brilliant. It opens up your lovely face and draws attention to your glowing skin.
Love the earrings too x
Thank you for taking time to make these videos! A lot of the styles that are not good for us older women is so true!! It is so nice to hear someone actually let it be known...in such that it isn't just me that doesn't like them. I have been watching your videos for the past week and i am learning so much and feeling so validated and encouraged! Thank you!! grace from hawaii
Loved these tips! Also really, really like your hair parted on the side!! Compliments your face shape very well!
Fantastic video! I discovered your channel recently. I've watched so many of your videos and have learned so much. The information you've provided and continue to provide has answered so many questions I had about specific topics. Thanks. Very appreciated. Regards from Sydney, Australia 🥰
Hi, I’m from Adelaide 😊
Hi @dinnykelly6763 😊🌼
I personally think that Birkenstock’s are the epitome of block ugliness. They make everyone’s feet look enormous.
They are NOT my favorite at all but they have the advantage of being trendy and modern, which the other sandals don't. But I totally get that.
Totally agree with you!😅
I personally think that sneakers are not attractive at all, except for working out in them. I do wear Birkenstock shoes but I have a very small foot. I don't think my feet look huge at all. I think people vary on what they like. Nada has her opinions and we all have our own. I think many of Nada's opinions are valid, but when I am mostly at home, I wear what is comfortable. When I go out, I still want comfort, but I consider style a bit more.
I’ve been wearing Birkenstocks for 10 years! It also helps that my feet are quite small for my height. But you may can take my Birkenstocks off my cold dead feet. 😂 Actually, I might go ahead and purchase those cobalt blue ones I’ve been eying.
I’ve been wearing them for 40 years or so. Won’t give them up, they’re my style.
I've definitely been wearing flowy over flowy😮... however, now I'm chucking my hip length cardigans for cropped structured jackets- Your styling advice makes so much sense!!! Thanks!!
Everything you said was spot on! Hoping those asymmetrical tunic (worse, in prints) fade away...the cropped white jacket is a fabulous piece. I have one from JCrew and have worn it over so many pieces. One of my best purchases ever!
Love your earrings btw. I'm 58 and have flabby arms, I also have a great collection of t-shirts that I stopped wearing because of my bingo wings. But last summer I found a great way of re-wearing my beloved Ts. I wear them under my long-sleeved denim shirt dress, leaving several top buttons undone so the graphics on the t-shirts can be seen, the dress also comes with a belt so it doesn't look shapeless. I think it's a great look that I've never seen anywhere else. Another way to wear a t-shirt is to simply wear a fitted cardigan over it and leave the buttons undone, and yes, I always tuck in sweaters and t-shirts, I am slim but I always have a tummy so my way of disguising it is with a great short jacket over my outfit, e.g. a Chanel type boucle jacket in a neutral timeless colour (navy, etc.)
Love your fashion tips. Also love your sweater. Where from?
@joycemorrow5840 thank you! It's La Ligne for Target. Here it is on Poshmark! www.googleadservices.com/pagead/aclk?sa=L&ai=DChcSEwjOrom0ts6EAxUtoloFHVMLBIsYABAPGgJ2dQ&ase=2&gclid=CjwKCAiA0PuuBhBsEiwAS7fsNUDcD5zyePwNGHYY1NfOQie7mBc0R15biql_Un3fdw2rlhiQFETj1RoCdEoQAvD_BwE&ohost=www.google.com&cid=CAESVuD2gJAKRD6hJvcUAiYViNy8_zq1eNBtuc28gMIJx522TDJVsqJOP31L_Aa3wFf-TJIkkY2u79IBv_Bk9BuDdXjo1I946HaKVYJMCSuv48rNuUqIHJfx&sig=AOD64_1oHnDVkKJ_CH5uE1FdAAkPy__fLg&ctype=5&q=&nis=4&ved=2ahUKEwjQ_IG0ts6EAxWPTTABHdZcBtIQ9aACKAB6BAgCECo&adurl=
I understand that lace jackets may not be stylish, but with 106 degree temps and high humidity, it is nearly impossible to wear a blazer in the heat of the summer. The lace/crochet does offer much needed ventilation. What would you recommend for sweltering climates? I love your channel!
I will do a post about this! I am in the same boat living in Florida and there are nice versions of these for sure! Just not the ones shown in the video!
@@NadaManley Thank you so much!
A cropped sheer bomber jacket looks more modern, or a utility/ chore jacket. (I have a lightweight raincoat that looks like a safari jacket because of the rolled up tabs on the sleeves & the drawstring corded waist).
Yes, please... Im really interested in your advice for structured layering during HOT summer days. Thanks so much!❤@@NadaManley
I simply wouldn't wear a jacket at all in that case.
That Anthropologie jacket is AMAZING!!! Love love love!! ~ Beth
I knew you would love that one! I do too! OBsessed!
So I stay wearing a denim jacket to cover my arms. I even have a short sleeved one for summer 😂
Great video! Thank you. x
I learned a lot. Thanks.
I love the Naot sandal! Unfortunately this brand runs wide for me.
Your hair looks really good! Also the sweater you’re wearing is so cute. Where is it from?
What about crochet or sweater cropped jackets with short sleeves? To cover sleeveless dresses or tops? Or button-down shirts for same purpose?
These are trendy right now and can be cute! It depends on the sweater and how it goes with the outfit. I'll do a post about these. Button up shirts are perfect though! Just make sure they are not too long or tie them at the waist!
Yes! An actual jacket made of actual fabric 😂🎉!!!!!
So helpful! Thank you. I am 5'2" pear shaped. My legs are not my best feature. What skirt length/type should I wear that won't add volume to my lower half, make me look stubby, or show my thick calves?
Super helpful!! Thank you! Would you consider showing us how to fold up tops or sweaters at the hem without them falling down during the day. You showed something in a video that looked like Velcro or tape or something…. How do you do that?
the black block shoes are for the convent. lol
Yea no one wears the squares its like walking on a block of wood
Thank you 👍🏻💐 I just like my sweaters, blouses, shirts end between hip and waist, not tugged. Why? Because it might look good from front or even back, hoever nerven ever I saw anybodys profile looking good with tugged in anything. It makes the tummy area look like it is bulging, not flattering at all.
Thanks for the comment! If you don’t like the look of tucked then I would say to find sweaters that are a little shorter so they don’t hit at the low hip :)
@@NadaManley thank you Dear Nada, thinking back I found some nice inspiration in your videos already. Now that you told me, most cropped pieces should enter my wardrobe.
I totally agree. The problem is pants, because they usually don’t hit the smallest part of your waist. So you’re just highlighting a larger section of your waist. You have to be VERY slim for shirts tucked into pants to not make your waist look larger in profile. I find tucking into jeans is the worst because of the bulk of the stuff fabric and button. I tuck shirts into skirts and it works fine. Because they can be adjusted up or down to the smallest part of your waist.
I do wear all my tops and sweaters out over my tummy as I don’t know what else to do. I am very uncomfortable with it on show. I am a petite pear with a reasonable waist, size 10 tops UK but I have lower belly fat that won’t budge and I don’t like anything I wear unfortunately.
Great advice again.I agree on everything except the front tucking of sweaters.I do not really have a big tummy but jeans with their zippers layered fabric automatically add bulky my tummy from the side view and tucking will only emphasise that. If you on the other hand let the back of your sweater creep up as when you sit.you still get a bit of a waist definition even in front as it creeps up on the sides as well. Plus you get emphasis on the small of your back which everybody seems to forget by having bulkiy material covering your whole back side. Am I just imagening this?
I buy cropped sweaters or cover the outfit with a slightly longer jacket, e.g. tweed Chanel type jacket. I've also come to terms with having a little tummy, I'll never be one of those women with a flat one even though I'm slim
You said you’d link the items. I don’t see the links. ❤
Here it is! Sorry it was buried in the blog post. hueandstripe.com/catalog/306H&SZ46H?s=760344
Thank you for really great advice but it would have been helpful to see more positive examples of great jackets and layering, stylish but comfortable shoes- imo the ones you showed are not much better than the ones you criticised. I have wide feet and bought some beautiful boots from Hobbs in the UK, their Imogen boots, both ankle and knee length are as comfortable as slippers, elegant and timeless, they have great sales too. Whenever I come across footwear that's elegant and comfortable I buy multiples
I would say i have a stronger upper body. Although my measurements for bust and hip are only 1 inch difference. I don't have big arms, but they are getting crepey at 68. I feel heavier on my top half though I am not overweight. I am only 5'1" (used to be 5'2") until menopause. I have a short torso, always had a wide ribcage which makes my bra measure larger around. I do not care for prints and wearing them on a jacket for me is tabu. It would just draw attention to the top half. I do not wear two-piece matching outfits. I would break the pieces up and wear them with something else. Can you do a video or have you already on how to measure for bra size. I have done it from other sites and bought a bra and did not like it. I need underwire for support as I am a D cup. Also, shoes are not my friend. I have had bunion surgeries in my 50's, but they are back. I just had a TKR 3 months ago and even with the low heel it is difficult to stand very long if I'm going to an event. I wear sneakers elsewhere. I so enjoy your videos and with this one I especially agree with about everything!
I’m ok with my arms, but I get cold! Problem is I like short dresses because I’m petite. What kind of jacket can I wear?
Tweed/boucle Chanel type jackets. I bought mine from Mango, Hobbs, Zara does them too and so does H&M. I buy them in neutral colours that will last for years and you can dress them up or down with jeans, etc.
I agree with showing your arms especially if you have attractive shoulders. I think a bit of a tan also adds to the look. (No one is inspecting your arms). lol
Exactly!! Thanks for the comment!
I've never understood why some people are so obsessed with not showing their (upper) arms. Nobody is perfect.
What about curved hems? I find them more flattering than straight across.
Yes the sweaters of thebpast were ling...I have taken to folding it up and theynlook great . I uave l8ts of thrifted h8ghbquality Ralph Lauren sweatersmin great col8rs and that is how I am wearing them today.😂
I think one of the worst styles I have seen is sleeveless sweater sets. The shell is sleeveless and cardigan is a traditional button up. What about the long knee length cardis Talbots sold about 3 years ago which were worn with a tucked blouse and slacks. I do cover arms but I also freeze. Air conditioning is frigid! Wearing a blazer in summer would burn me up. Many thanks. ❤
Neda, I can't find that short white crue jacket by Nic And Zoe anywhere. Thank you.
Good info. But wish you would put an X on don't do and a check mark for do this Or use dots red for don't do and green for do this .I am multitasking when watching and glance up get confused think that looks good but hear you are saying this is NOT good.
You're going to laugh at me, but... the black corduroy April Cornell jacket? With the pink embroidery? THAT is so painfully me that I had to go and see if you had it listed/where I could find it. That's my inoffensive statement jacket. (My more offensive statement jacket is the Handmaid's Tale x Levi's one. Which, yes, is hard for me to style on a number of levels, but I'm a fan of the show so I own it and rock it.)
I have some beautiful Veronica beard statement jackets that I hope don’t fall into that bad statement jacket category!
@keeptheshoes6198 never! Veronica Beard is ALWAYS modern
ALL THESE SUITS U SHOWN LOOK MORE LIKE AMAN WEAR
That white jacket looks awlful
It's not you! It's the clothes! Which of these items are you wearing "wrong"
Bad Sets😂
Leggings look bad on most people. Save those for exercising.
Statement jackets show your personality. Definitely not bland.
I need comfortable shoes. Naturalizer shoes are not wide enough
TUNIC N LEGGINGS ARE FOR LIFE.
BUT FLORAL NO.
I WONT GIVE UP MY LEGGINGS ARE BUTT COVERED SHIRTS
Strips are out too. Who wears Striped clothing these days
Not a thing wrong with peplum jackets if you have an hourglass figure. And waist defining jackets if you have the figure for heavens sake dont hide it! I have been heavy so I get they dont fit eveyone correctly.
I keep hearing that peplums are going to be coming back soon, so I guess you could say we're just trendsetters ahead of the curve, wearing it ahead of the comeback lol.
You cant wear that white coat and dress outdoors in 100 plus degree weather.
THERES NOTHING WRONG WITH THE SUITS
White house black market outfit looks like a MANS CLOTHRS
😂,
Tennis shoes pratical but not fashionable especially with wide leg pants dragging on the floor. You can dress them up but you are not fooling anyone.
Bolero jackets are great to hide arms...I uave a terrific body for 76 but my upper arms no. I dont wear those long boxy things they DO look old. The boleros end at my waist or more often higher to show off my hourglass waist. So many desses are sleevless adopted during the Obama administration and saving manufacturers alot of fabric so thank Michelle Obama...suddenly everything was sleeveless. I used to sew so I KNOW how much fabric sleevelessness saves. I dont need to cover my waist or hips
Why do you repeat yourself? Just curious…🤔
Just trying to emphasize my point lol
All these cloths you shown has not been true. Youe saying its all out of style
Your talking out your head n not making any sence.