Likewise. And that applies not only with your significant other but in general. I used to overshare at work, it eventually led co-workers to distance themselves from me. Also, it's important to not speak ill of anyone. I'm now more aware of how some people overshare whatever pops into their minds and engage in gossip.
Masculine drive is problem solving. If you are experiencing negative emotion then the only girl you tell is your gf/wife but without the aim of having her fix it or comfort you. That needs to be you. Once you get good at problem solving then you shouldn't have to worry about your emotions as you realise that problem solving requires stoicism and focus.
I played that stoic shit at work and with women and it makes you into a doormat thinking I was doing everything right. its only when I started to set my foot down and yell at them is when they started acting feminine and started respecting me more.
@@chuckiegravesfield3170 lol youve completely misunderstood what being stoic means. It's mastery over your emotions. It doesnt mean repress them and do whatever othets want you to do. The women might act submissive but that's because they think youre a psycho with anger issues who might beat them now. Not because your a masculine guy who can lead.
Said it once and I'll say it again they should hand out 3 % man to all young men at beginning of high school greetings from the UK corey follower of 8 years keep up the good work brother 🙏
Not gonna lie, I’d prefer if only 3% of guys knew about this stuff. Love not having any competition and having other guys pursuing the women I’m pursuing over-pursue and act perturbed 😄. Makes things easier for me.
Openness can be very attractive AS LONG AS you don't act like you need HER to solve your problems. Act like you can deal with your issues yourself. No decent woman wants an emotionless robot, but we don't want a dependent moody needy fool, either. A man who is secure in himself mentally and emotionally is extremely attractive.
Exactly, the girl I’m dating is very attracted to how open I am. She says it makes her more comfortable then she has been w anybody . There’s context to telling people your feelings
Life isn’t about just merely hooking up. clearly he wasnt enjoying her company and dint feel fulfilled by her which is the # 1 priority not giving away his most valuable gift his time by wasting his dead time with her.
Great video and advice to counter all the ideological subversion in the entertainment industry! Totally agree that the internal dialogue is meant for yourself in journaling, meditation or your inner circle - not for your lady. Reading the book is one thing. Embodying it is another.
As long as he stayed congruent with his feelings and choose to stay away from her i actually see no issues with what he did. He let her know he didnt feel the spark and thats where you choose to end it and stay masculine by staying away from her for the remainder of the 2 months he’s there. Key word is if he did that then I have respect for that. It saves both of them time and he can use that time to find someone else that gives him that spark as oppose to settle just to get a lil P. pretty scarcity mindset.
I believe if a man is confident in the way he feels And makes a line that he does not want crossed And a path he sees for the relationship and the roles of each party to make that a success then I think the woman falls in line and realizes that it will bring the right outcome. She will put her guard down to work with the man to not cross or to build
Not necessarily. Openness is attractive AS LONG AS you act like you can deal with your issues yourself and don't need her. The minute you drag her into your feelings...automatic turn off.
To an extent but not the way these dudes try to win girls hurt being the nice good guy. I don’t really have feelings though lol the army never issued me any
I don't know, a very sensitive subject. But honestly, I feel things men deal with should be attacked by us personally or expressed with close, personal friends. Only way you should be expressing yourself is if you are in a serious situation and you know you can trust her. Even then, you should keep yourself in check and not go overboard. These conversations are completely grey.
For the past 7 days I've been talking on a dating app to lots of beautiful women from all over the world : Venezuela, Brazil, Ecuador, Columbia, The Philippines, Russia, Ukraine, USA. And all have one thing in common : keep it light, fun, be polite, confident, ask for the phone number. Just ask about them, show a smile and make them feel a little special. This is what happens when you READ the book 14 times... P.S : one beauty from Brazil was already asking me to become her husband. And I'm not joking or lying ! :) No, I'm not super good looking, maybe 8, on a scale 1 to 10 .
nice story Bro, but most likely the Brasilian wanted to leave the Poverty and Criminality of her Country (as a Portuguese, i know that as a fact) they want go to Europe or USA no matter what
@@pedroribas1815 Thank you for the remark, Pedro ! I am somehow aware of that aspect. But for the moment I just play. Nothing serious. They are beautiful, but I look for one more aspect : how they are as a person. Since you have almost the same blood and culture, tell me, what do you think about brazilian girls in general ? Are they just looking for safety, are they trustworthy, is it a good or bad idea to get involved with them ? Respect !
@@marianpotcovaru1609 of course i generalised, because i know similar stories, tbh with you is very hard to detect a person intentions, you need at least months of constant contact and being together, although i also know (very rare) good females Brasilians girls... we Portuguese unfortnelly see them mostly as Sex workers ( that was a thing in Portugal a few years ago) now is illegal, but 90% where from Brasil. Is not their fault that they have difficulties, i will sugest to See the Background girl first, if the Familie are rich then is not money they are looking for. Is a very hard work, and you also need a lot of Luck... so i wish Good Luck to you
@@pedroribas1815 Thank you again ! I will talk continue to chat with her, even tough it's hard, because she doesn't speak English. She said she will learn my language a bit.. let's see if she will. There is another beautiful lady from Venezuela, she is a doctor. Told me straight that she wants to leave the country because money is not good for her. And she wants someone trustworthy. Time will tell if it's worth it. In the meantime I have other options, closer to Europe or from Europe :) Respect and God bless you !
Dude was competing with the locals in bali. Honestly there's nothing impressive about that. What would have been impressive was if he ended his 4 year dry spell in the UK. There are studies done on dating apps that show that Asian women have the highest preference for European men
I agree not doing that in the first stages of a "relationship". But what about when you are in a serious relationship? Eventually she wants to know everything about you, even how you are feeling.
Woman's perspective: the trick is not putting the burden of your feelings on HER. Like talk about them, but make it clear that you will handle them YOURSELF. The minute you give off a vibe like you need US to help you, it's very off-putting.
@@MrsRitchieBlackmore Women need to be wanted FOR WHO THEY'RE (intrinsic value) Men want to be needed FOR WHAT THEY'RE (able to do) Women don't want to feel needed as men shouldn't want to feel desired When the man is masculine and the woman is feminine is almost like a father-daughter dynamic; He wants her but doesn't need her She needs him more than she wants him
@@yash4535 Corey is the only guy I've actually heard who actually GETS how women work. The good, the bad, and the ugly. It actually amazes me sometimes how accurate he is, because 99.9% of guys are so oblivious.
Amazing. No way this dude has read your book (as many times as he stated), his actions were not backed-up by his words for starters? If you tell a woman what your intentions are, and she's good, don't switch it up and get all dramatic with her? This dude made no sense.
Don't talk about your feelings. Be masculine. "What would James Bond do". Stay simple. I understand the guy, he felt bad, the woman, the milf, she's a sweetheart.
Discuss no feelings with her. Instead, display value to her. To be honest, it's never about her. Be the best man you can possibly be at all times. Your mission ranks higher than her.
lol yea. Bali is like SEA in the sense that dating is not like it is here in the West. The guy is a decent guy, but it sounds like she was playing him from the start with the SEA "girlfriend experience" where women will fawn all over you from the start to get you to open up your wallet for them. Within a day or two they "love you" and they are pampering you because you are not like "the other men" etc. It's part of the scam for a lot of them. They know exactly what buttons to press. The hope is to use sex and attention to snag an unsuspecting foreigner. Not so much for a Visa I would guess, but mainly just the promise of money for her and her children and parents. The average unskilled wage in Bali is like $200/month!! Such huge economic disparity between women there and Western men always throws a huge red flag into any sort of dating. Western visitors are seen as rich, whether it's actually true or not. All the crying and stuff was her just putting on a good show. No doubt she goes from 0 to 100 within a couple of days with other guys as well.
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The fact that she was thrown off by not getting treated like trash is very telling.
I've learned that over sharing things and feelings has caused me lot of problems. I'm now very careful about what i share with everyone I meet.
Me too.
U just got the wrong ones.
Likewise. And that applies not only with your significant other but in general. I used to overshare at work, it eventually led co-workers to distance themselves from me. Also, it's important to not speak ill of anyone. I'm now more aware of how some people overshare whatever pops into their minds and engage in gossip.
Men that overshare and has verbal diahree has major issues...stay away.
Masculine drive is problem solving. If you are experiencing negative emotion then the only girl you tell is your gf/wife but without the aim of having her fix it or comfort you. That needs to be you. Once you get good at problem solving then you shouldn't have to worry about your emotions as you realise that problem solving requires stoicism and focus.
I played that stoic shit at work and with women and it makes you into a doormat thinking I was doing everything right. its only when I started to set my foot down and yell at them is when they started acting feminine and started respecting me more.
@@chuckiegravesfield3170 lol youve completely misunderstood what being stoic means. It's mastery over your emotions. It doesnt mean repress them and do whatever othets want you to do. The women might act submissive but that's because they think youre a psycho with anger issues who might beat them now. Not because your a masculine guy who can lead.
Every time I tell them feelings,I regret it later
Nah u would regret if u didn't.
Said it once and I'll say it again they should hand out 3 % man to all young men at beginning of high school greetings from the UK corey
follower of 8 years keep up the good work brother 🙏
Not gonna lie, I’d prefer if only 3% of guys knew about this stuff. Love not having any competition and having other guys pursuing the women I’m pursuing over-pursue and act perturbed 😄. Makes things easier for me.
That would have made my life so much better...
Openness can be very attractive AS LONG AS you don't act like you need HER to solve your problems. Act like you can deal with your issues yourself. No decent woman wants an emotionless robot, but we don't want a dependent moody needy fool, either. A man who is secure in himself mentally and emotionally is extremely attractive.
Exactly, the girl I’m dating is very attracted to how open I am. She says it makes her more comfortable then she has been w anybody . There’s context to telling people your feelings
It's like not being needy but letting her know you fw her yfm? And you said it yourself from a woman's perspective.
I'm open with my issues, but I also talk about what I have done or plan on doing to remedy my issues instead of wallowing in self-pity.
Life isn’t about just merely hooking up. clearly he wasnt enjoying her company and dint feel fulfilled by her which is the # 1 priority not giving away his most valuable gift his time by wasting his dead time with her.
Being open is important. But she's not your therapist
Exactly. Openness is great and shows confidence. The trick is not acting like you need HER to solve your problems or deal with your emotions.
Great video and advice to counter all the ideological subversion in the entertainment industry! Totally agree that the internal dialogue is meant for yourself in journaling, meditation or your inner circle - not for your lady. Reading the book is one thing. Embodying it is another.
As long as he stayed congruent with his feelings and choose to stay away from her i actually see no issues with what he did. He let her know he didnt feel the spark and thats where you choose to end it and stay masculine by staying away from her for the remainder of the 2 months he’s there. Key word is if he did that then I have respect for that. It saves both of them time and he can use that time to find someone else that gives him that spark as oppose to settle just to get a lil P. pretty scarcity mindset.
I believe if a man is confident in the way he feels
And makes a line that he does not want crossed
And a path he sees for the relationship and the roles of each party to make that a success then I think the woman falls in line and realizes that it will bring the right outcome. She will put her guard down to work with the man to not cross or to build
men need to remain stoic at all times
Not necessarily. Openness is attractive AS LONG AS you act like you can deal with your issues yourself and don't need her. The minute you drag her into your feelings...automatic turn off.
Good god, I pity you.
Can’t wait to save this book for when I have a son and I get to give it to him
If you wanna see her attraction fade within minutes go right ahead
FACTS
It's sad. Women claim they want men to open up with their emotions but as soon as we do, they hate it and the attraction dies.
Woo first! Hey Coach!
Don't ever, no matter how close you get. Unless you want to get burned. Women hate it when men get emotional.
Liked the old backdrop better! The videos now look a little too dark compared to the former ones. However, your content hasn't changed!
To an extent but not the way these dudes try to win girls hurt being the nice good guy. I don’t really have feelings though lol the army never issued me any
Damn Cory I haven't seen you upload in forever! Good to see you still trying to help out troubled men!!
Hell no we don't, lol.
I don't know, a very sensitive subject. But honestly, I feel things men deal with should be attacked by us personally or expressed with close, personal friends. Only way you should be expressing yourself is if you are in a serious situation and you know you can trust her. Even then, you should keep yourself in check and not go overboard. These conversations are completely grey.
well putted. No reason to hang on if not interested. Both needs to move on and do what they need to do.
Vital information, Coach. 💪🏾
For the past 7 days I've been talking on a dating app to lots of beautiful women from all over the world : Venezuela, Brazil, Ecuador, Columbia, The Philippines, Russia, Ukraine, USA.
And all have one thing in common : keep it light, fun, be polite, confident, ask for the phone number. Just ask about them, show a smile and make them feel a little special.
This is what happens when you READ the book 14 times...
P.S : one beauty from Brazil was already asking me to become her husband. And I'm not joking or lying ! :) No, I'm not super good looking, maybe 8, on a scale 1 to 10 .
nice story Bro, but most likely the Brasilian wanted to leave the Poverty and Criminality of her Country (as a Portuguese, i know that as a fact) they want go to Europe or USA no matter what
@@pedroribas1815 Thank you for the remark, Pedro !
I am somehow aware of that aspect. But for the moment I just play. Nothing serious. They are beautiful, but I look for one more aspect : how they are as a person.
Since you have almost the same blood and culture, tell me, what do you think about brazilian girls in general ? Are they just looking for safety, are they trustworthy, is it a good or bad idea to get involved with them ?
Respect !
@@marianpotcovaru1609 of course i generalised, because i know similar stories, tbh with you is very hard to detect a person intentions, you need at least months of constant contact and being together, although i also know (very rare) good females Brasilians girls... we Portuguese unfortnelly see them mostly as Sex workers ( that was a thing in Portugal a few years ago) now is illegal, but 90% where from Brasil. Is not their fault that they have difficulties, i will sugest to See the Background girl first, if the Familie are rich then is not money they are looking for. Is a very hard work, and you also need a lot of Luck... so i wish Good Luck to you
@@pedroribas1815 Thank you again !
I will talk continue to chat with her, even tough it's hard, because she doesn't speak English. She said she will learn my language a bit.. let's see if she will. There is another beautiful lady from Venezuela, she is a doctor. Told me straight that she wants to leave the country because money is not good for her. And she wants someone trustworthy.
Time will tell if it's worth it. In the meantime I have other options, closer to Europe or from Europe :)
Respect and God bless you !
Dude was competing with the locals in bali. Honestly there's nothing impressive about that. What would have been impressive was if he ended his 4 year dry spell in the UK. There are studies done on dating apps that show that Asian women have the highest preference for European men
Asian women are often better looking than British women with busted teeth.
38yr old women of course you are going to lose sexual interest in her 🤦
"Beyyyduh" in my JLP voice
Women will tell you that you should but in reality it gives them the ick
I agree not doing that in the first stages of a "relationship". But what about when you are in a serious relationship? Eventually she wants to know everything about you, even how you are feeling.
Woman's perspective: the trick is not putting the burden of your feelings on HER. Like talk about them, but make it clear that you will handle them YOURSELF. The minute you give off a vibe like you need US to help you, it's very off-putting.
@@MrsRitchieBlackmore that's what Corey also says. Thanks for the perspective.
@@MrsRitchieBlackmore Women need to be wanted FOR WHO THEY'RE (intrinsic value)
Men want to be needed FOR WHAT THEY'RE (able to do)
Women don't want to feel needed as men shouldn't want to feel desired
When the man is masculine and the woman is feminine is almost like a father-daughter dynamic;
He wants her but doesn't need her
She needs him more than she wants him
@@yash4535 Corey is the only guy I've actually heard who actually GETS how women work. The good, the bad, and the ugly. It actually amazes me sometimes how accurate he is, because 99.9% of guys are so oblivious.
@@ace9848 Really well put and so true!! 👏 👌
Coach my performance in bed is still not good. I have followed your advice. Any advice would be appreciated Thanks
Amazing. No way this dude has read your book (as many times as he stated), his actions were not backed-up by his words for starters? If you tell a woman what your intentions are, and she's good, don't switch it up and get all dramatic with her? This dude made no sense.
Don't talk about your feelings. Be masculine. "What would James Bond do". Stay simple. I understand the guy, he felt bad, the woman, the milf, she's a sweetheart.
She sounds like a 304. Hopefully he got tested when he got home.
What type of feelings should be discussed with women and which shouldn’t? Speaking of when you’re already in a relationship.
Same concept. Is it going to make you more attractive or less attractive in her eyes? Depends on the girl, too.
Discuss no feelings with her. Instead, display value to her. To be honest, it's never about her. Be the best man you can possibly be at all times. Your mission ranks higher than her.
Take a shot everyone he says congruent and you too will have the courage to ask that girl out.
Never tell a woman your true feelings she will use it against you later
Don’t tell women shit! They will use it against you later on
No. No they don’t. Next question.
It don't count if you end your dry spell on outside the country women
3rd
She wants visa, this is not a win.
lol yea. Bali is like SEA in the sense that dating is not like it is here in the West. The guy is a decent guy, but it sounds like she was playing him from the start with the SEA "girlfriend experience" where women will fawn all over you from the start to get you to open up your wallet for them. Within a day or two they "love you" and they are pampering you because you are not like "the other men" etc. It's part of the scam for a lot of them. They know exactly what buttons to press. The hope is to use sex and attention to snag an unsuspecting foreigner. Not so much for a Visa I would guess, but mainly just the promise of money for her and her children and parents. The average unskilled wage in Bali is like $200/month!! Such huge economic disparity between women there and Western men always throws a huge red flag into any sort of dating. Western visitors are seen as rich, whether it's actually true or not. All the crying and stuff was her just putting on a good show. No doubt she goes from 0 to 100 within a couple of days with other guys as well.
No!bury them be a man😂😂😂