I would love to know...What is YOUR version of "How did THIS movie get made?!" Who knows, it could inspire the next episode of Paul's awesome podcast. 😹
Sidenote: i notice most content producers have a short ñittle teaser to preview a show, or the worst is an attempt at a cliffhanger, cutting off a speaker midsentence. >_
Some great ones that I love are: _Summer School,_ _Class of '84,_ _The Wizard,_ _Little Monsters,_ _Problem Child,_ _Earth Girls Are Easy,_ _Once Bitten,_ _Stay Tuned,_ _Going Overboard,_ _Man's Best Friend,_ _South Central,_ _Nothing But Trouble,_ _Funny Farm,_ _My Pet Monster,_ _Beastmaster,_ _Universal Soldier,_ _Born Losers/Billy Jack/The Trial of Billy Jack/Billy Jack Goes to Washington._
How heart wrenching has been to hear that this Paul-kid found the abusive behaviour of his stepfather “normal” and that the Child Protect. Service didn’t ask him..How well adjusted as an adult Paul is after this suffering! Admirable! Thank you Mayim for an episode that in some moments makes me cry sad tears for this kid the mom and greatmom in me want to hug far in time and space. In some way Wil Wheaton’s episode resonates here..
Thank you so much for having Paul Scheer on today's episode. Many people are able to learn so much through watching your podcast. Much love to you Mayim! ❤
In Mrs. Doubtfire, he doesn't dress as a woman to win back the mom. He dresses as a woman because the mom is not allowing him to see his kids everyday due to the divorce. And he desperately wants to see his kids every day so he dresses as a nanny so he can be around his kids. And while he does have issues with jealousy and his ex wife's new boyfriend, it's more he's jealous that he gets to be around his family and he doesn't. And in the end he doesn't win back the mom. It sounds like you didn't watch the movie to the end. Please watch it. It's a cute movie and not at all like you're presenting it to be.
Hats off to this wonderful man who learnt to grow in a great & centered person after coming from that toxic & raw environment full of abusive behaviour from his mom’s second husband. Watching this episode could be resumed in a healing way: There’s always hope! Thanks MBB team for this ! Happy Shavuot!
I’m reading it. I really like it. For some reason I love books that have to do with childhood trauma. Like The Glass Castle. I think it’s cathartic, but I also like it to be funny
You've said this before.....so I need to correct you. In Mrs. Doubtfire....HE DOESN'T WIN BACK THE MOM. They are indeed divorced at the end. You should really watch the movie. It's funny and there is not fairytale ending. It's just an ending where everyone accepts that some marriages end and families change but they're still good families.
Halfway through, don't know who this actor is, but I know I've seen him in stuff before. But, he sounds a lot like me, so relatable. From the savings of items in boxes, the not being able to speak up from himself, the way his parents protected him, but it did more damage, etc. Thanks for this episode.
I used to work with Substance Abusers and their families. It amazed me how many people would recount severe abuse in childhood. When questioned about it, they would downplay it, they'd often say things like: "I deserved it - I was a 'bad' kid." We're talking a six, seven-year old...
For many years I enjoyed watching Shannon Tweed movies on Cinemax and then purchasing her entire filmography which is over 50 movies but not so much now - great episode - Mayim your podcasts are so good for the brain 🧠🤯
Thank you for this episode! I can relate to a lot of the things he talked about. Love this conversation🧠❤️! Thank you for having him on! Love your podcast Mayim❤️
Thank you! I was and still am a people pleaser! It has been difficult to overcome, but I am improving on my ability to say how I feel and what my real opinions are, even if it is not what the other person wants to hear 🙂❤
Loved this one! Especially really liked the part about validation/ approval of our opinions or thoughts by others that Johnathan brought up! I have pretty much done this my whole life and instantly always regret that feeling after the fact. It's truly hard not to give a shit ( and do it in a way where I don't sound like a B or like an ahole) I'm working on this every day. Almost 42 and I'm just beyond tired of caring. ❤
Having suffered abuse my entire life, so bad that the psychiatrist said I really wish I could send you to this group I have, but it is survivors of the Concentration Camps. He said that was how severe the abuse was It broke me so bad I couldn't form any relationships. I have zero friends. I had an entire life that was nothing but sadness, emoty, lonely, and filled with heartache. I would not wish my life on anyone. People are truly evil. They are damaged and they torture their children because they have no power and hate the world and their life and their only outlet for their pain and mental illness is their children. It is why I promised myself I would never have a child under any circumstances. But as it turned out I was so damaged no one would spend 5 minutes with me, let alone go on a date, let alone have sex with me. Now I am old and bedridden, dying alone in a welfare apartment I am in physical pain as well as emotional pain It is a horrible life
Talk about bad movie choices! I had just gotten out of the hospital where I got my large intestine removed (ulcerative colitis) and my boyfriend chose this movie about a guy who harvests organs! Horrible! We didn’t get very far into that one 😂
56:45 in professional life, for me, it is so impossible to convince people with something that falls outside of norms. However, it happens almost every week where I understand the others' unique problems, show empathy and be so flexible just to help them solve their problems.
My childhood was traumatic by my dad abuse me and siblings and I not get out until high school my sophomore year of high school child services took us away I was in foster care for a year and came back with my mom until she passed away two years
Maybe I'm a peoplepleaser.... I want to be nice all the time. I want to be everyone's friend. But some people are only nice when you become rude yourself one time. Just why? I don't want it. It makes my skin crawl everytime. I don't know anyone who is color blind, but what an interesting topic! I know someone who doesn't have conjunctiva because he was a premature baby. He is almost blind but he can see UV light🤯 It's like a superpower🤩 (Its good to be back)
1:15:19 Virtuosity! I LOVED THAT! Mayim and Jonathan, I'm curious to know if you've seen The Boys? Great political satire, yet super powered. Crazy combo with social scenarios that hit close to home.
My husband is a very talented graphic artist, and was in the print industry for 36 years, and found out he was color blind 5 years ago during a physical. His job at times, was literally matching colors in clients logos. We couldnt believe it
In my old-fashioned religious conservative family, agency didn't exist unless you never received help of any kind from a relative. Basically, in my family, "help you" meant "to be in charge of/micromanage" you. To this day, 2 of my siblings think I should simply do what they say because I'm their "naive disabled little brother" even at 45 years old. They, on one level, think that they "should" help me, but not if I can do what I want at the same time. I'm not a mind reader, of course, but I have had the feeling for a long time now that they seem to think that the combination of them helping me and me being able to do what I please will result in me asking my siblings to commit evil acts.
Continuity error: ~Wizard of Oz, when Dorothy first meets the Scarecrow her ponytails grow longer and then they're shorter again. ~Casablanca, Rodger Ebert pointed out that Rick is standing on the train platform and wet from rain, he steps upon the train to say goodbye and his clothing is dry.
@@kate1830 Perhaps I should have said my question differently. Did he say what his abuse looked like? The word abuse has a wide net and can be anything from telling someone to shut up to breaking someone's jaw to stealing someone's money.
I would love to know...What is YOUR version of "How did THIS movie get made?!" Who knows, it could inspire the next episode of Paul's awesome podcast. 😹
Sidenote: i notice most content producers have a short ñittle teaser to preview a show, or the worst is an attempt at a cliffhanger, cutting off a speaker midsentence. >_
Some great ones that I love are: _Summer School,_ _Class of '84,_ _The Wizard,_ _Little Monsters,_ _Problem Child,_ _Earth Girls Are Easy,_ _Once Bitten,_ _Stay Tuned,_ _Going Overboard,_ _Man's Best Friend,_ _South Central,_ _Nothing But Trouble,_ _Funny Farm,_ _My Pet Monster,_ _Beastmaster,_ _Universal Soldier,_ _Born Losers/Billy Jack/The Trial of Billy Jack/Billy Jack Goes to Washington._
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Maynard James Keenan would be absolutely perfect for this show he gives such genuine insights on anything you talk about
I would love to see How THIS movie was made talk about Pet Cemetery
How heart wrenching has been to hear that this Paul-kid found the abusive behaviour of his stepfather “normal” and that the Child Protect. Service didn’t ask him..How well adjusted as an adult Paul is after this suffering! Admirable! Thank you Mayim for an episode that in some moments makes me cry sad tears for this kid the mom and greatmom in me want to hug far in time and space. In some way Wil Wheaton’s episode resonates here..
Thank you so much for having Paul Scheer on today's episode. Many people are able to learn so much through watching your podcast. Much love to you Mayim! ❤
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my childhood is also traumatic 😢 but thanks to this podcast, i learned a lot, i'll try something that will help me to be the better person
Paul is such an amazing person! Why are the most tormented souls always the best?
Really enjoyed this episode. A lot of self reflection. And ways forward after trauma.
In Mrs. Doubtfire, he doesn't dress as a woman to win back the mom. He dresses as a woman because the mom is not allowing him to see his kids everyday due to the divorce. And he desperately wants to see his kids every day so he dresses as a nanny so he can be around his kids. And while he does have issues with jealousy and his ex wife's new boyfriend, it's more he's jealous that he gets to be around his family and he doesn't. And in the end he doesn't win back the mom. It sounds like you didn't watch the movie to the end. Please watch it. It's a cute movie and not at all like you're presenting it to be.
Hats off to this wonderful man who learnt to grow in a great & centered person after coming from that toxic & raw environment full of abusive behaviour from his mom’s second husband.
Watching this episode could be resumed in a healing way: There’s always hope!
Thanks MBB team for this ! Happy Shavuot!
I never heard of this guy, but now I want to read his book. Loved the interaction between the 3 of you!
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I’m reading it. I really like it. For some reason I love books that have to do with childhood trauma. Like The Glass Castle. I think it’s cathartic, but I also like it to be funny
You've said this before.....so I need to correct you. In Mrs. Doubtfire....HE DOESN'T WIN BACK THE MOM. They are indeed divorced at the end. You should really watch the movie. It's funny and there is not fairytale ending. It's just an ending where everyone accepts that some marriages end and families change but they're still good families.
Halfway through, don't know who this actor is, but I know I've seen him in stuff before. But, he sounds a lot like me, so relatable. From the savings of items in boxes, the not being able to speak up from himself, the way his parents protected him, but it did more damage, etc. Thanks for this episode.
I used to work with Substance Abusers and their families.
It amazed me how many people would recount severe abuse in childhood. When questioned about it, they would downplay it, they'd often say things like: "I deserved it - I was a 'bad' kid."
We're talking a six, seven-year old...
That was thoroughly entertaining and informative. Thank you. Now I have another podcast to check out.
This is one of my favorite episodes.
I like how sensitive you both are are. Especially Johnathan
For many years I enjoyed watching Shannon Tweed movies on Cinemax and then purchasing her entire filmography which is over 50 movies but not so much now - great episode - Mayim your podcasts are so good for the brain 🧠🤯
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Thank you for this episode! I can relate to a lot of the things he talked about. Love this conversation🧠❤️! Thank you for having him on! Love your podcast Mayim❤️
I love Paul! The league is one of my all time favorite shows! Never knew anything about him really, but this was very eye opening
First-time listener (big fan of Paul) - your and your co-host’s questions were so good! What a great episode.
Thank you! I was and still am a people pleaser! It has been difficult to overcome, but I am improving on my ability to say how I feel and what my real opinions are, even if it is not what the other person wants to hear 🙂❤
Thanks for sharing and for being here! 🧠🫶
Good for you. I think getting older has helped me
You both are teaching your kids basic and advanced media studies! I love looking for continuity errors, means you are paying attention❤
Great episode!
Loved this one! Especially really liked the part about validation/ approval of our opinions or thoughts by others that Johnathan brought up! I have pretty much done this my whole life and instantly always regret that feeling after the fact. It's truly hard not to give a shit ( and do it in a way where I don't sound like a B or like an ahole) I'm working on this every day. Almost 42 and I'm just beyond tired of caring. ❤
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Having suffered abuse my entire life, so bad that the psychiatrist said I really wish I could send you to this group I have, but it is survivors of the Concentration Camps.
He said that was how severe the abuse was
It broke me so bad I couldn't form any relationships. I have zero friends.
I had an entire life that was nothing but sadness, emoty, lonely, and filled with heartache.
I would not wish my life on anyone.
People are truly evil.
They are damaged and they torture their children because they have no power and hate the world and their life and their only outlet for their pain and mental illness is their children.
It is why I promised myself I would never have a child under any circumstances.
But as it turned out I was so damaged no one would spend 5 minutes with me, let alone go on a date, let alone have sex with me.
Now I am old and bedridden, dying alone in a welfare apartment
I am in physical pain as well as emotional pain
It is a horrible life
Fear not. This stranger on the internet understands you. May you find peace.
May you find a bit of peace. At least at the end of your life. Warm hug from afar.
@ocsrc🙏🥰
There's a lot of A holes out here but you are not one! 😂😂 Thanks for todays show!
Talk about bad movie choices! I had just gotten out of the hospital where I got my large intestine removed (ulcerative colitis) and my boyfriend chose this movie about a guy who harvests organs! Horrible! We didn’t get very far into that one 😂
WOW!!!
Its no one else’s job to cater to your sensitivities. Its your job to emotionally regulate yourself
Incorrect
@@somethinggood-sy1ed thats why you cant explain how or why
תודה❤
חג שבועות שמח❤
56:45 in professional life, for me, it is so impossible to convince people with something that falls outside of norms. However, it happens almost every week where I understand the others' unique problems, show empathy and be so flexible just to help them solve their problems.
My childhood was traumatic by my dad abuse me and siblings and I not get out until high school my sophomore year of high school child services took us away I was in foster care for a year and came back with my mom until she passed away two years
I grew up in Alaska and we were told the Aurora Borealis (Northern Lights) are caused by solar flares.
Maybe I'm a peoplepleaser.... I want to be nice all the time. I want to be everyone's friend. But some people are only nice when you become rude yourself one time. Just why? I don't want it. It makes my skin crawl everytime.
I don't know anyone who is color blind, but what an interesting topic! I know someone who doesn't have conjunctiva because he was a premature baby. He is almost blind but he can see UV light🤯 It's like a superpower🤩
(Its good to be back)
1:15:19 Virtuosity! I LOVED THAT! Mayim and Jonathan, I'm curious to know if you've seen The Boys? Great political satire, yet super powered. Crazy combo with social scenarios that hit close to home.
Kudos to Paul for making it through to the other side.
In response to your movie question, I have to say Rambo.
My husband is a very talented graphic artist, and was in the print industry for 36 years, and found out he was color blind 5 years ago during a physical. His job at times, was literally matching colors in clients logos. We couldnt believe it
🤯
In my old-fashioned religious conservative family, agency didn't exist unless you never received help of any kind from a relative. Basically, in my family, "help you" meant "to be in charge of/micromanage" you. To this day, 2 of my siblings think I should simply do what they say because I'm their "naive disabled little brother" even at 45 years old. They, on one level, think that they "should" help me, but not if I can do what I want at the same time. I'm not a mind reader, of course, but I have had the feeling for a long time now that they seem to think that the combination of them helping me and me being able to do what I please will result in me asking my siblings to commit evil acts.
Continuity error:
~Wizard of Oz, when Dorothy first meets the Scarecrow her ponytails grow longer and then they're shorter again.
~Casablanca, Rodger Ebert pointed out that Rick is standing on the train platform and wet from rain, he steps upon the train to say goodbye and his clothing is dry.
Did he ever say what the trauma was? I was gardening while I was listening and I'm wondering if I missed something.
@@kate1830 Perhaps I should have said my question differently. Did he say what his abuse looked like? The word abuse has a wide net and can be anything from telling someone to shut up to breaking someone's jaw to stealing someone's money.
Hi Guys, struggling to find Mayim film in the UK! Any suggestions? Please, please please.
Which Mayim film?
@@snellxa67 the film she wrote and directed - As they made us.
@@orangeskythinking have you tried Amazon?
What a smart amazing lovely man
This i understand i had people who did not care about me in school mayim
fun fact though. people with color blindness can still work most forms of jobs in the medical industry.
KABOOOOOOOOM
Mayim is vegan, thanks Zeus