Yep! He's too insecure to wear glasses and his teeth don't look very good - that's why he unsulted that guy for wearing glasses and 'smiling too much'.
A girl i know through a chat actually answered to similar question in a similar way, and even sent the douchebag pictures. It didn't work out and she came very sad about her body. So the problem is some girls feel so insecure about their body that they think that it's actually valid question and that they deserve be treated this way. I wish it was only his fantasy, and all girls would just send such guys to hell
Like damn, sorry we just want to see stuff clearly. Can y'all imagine just telling your date after they say to ditch your glasses, "Okay, hope you can drive then; because I can't drive anywhere without my glasses, unless you want me to commit several traffic violations."
As another person who wears glasses I can confirm that I only wear them so that I can get rejected. Definitely not because I need to see haha that’d just be weird!
@@shrimpshufflr7745if you're going to call someone else illiterate you should spell check your own reply. And I'm pretty sure they were asking which livestream, I'm sure this guy has loads and no one has time to go checking all of them.
"I am a male stripper!" and "I take clothes off other people" makes me wonder if this guy knows even what a stripper is. If you as a stripper start undressing random people on the place where you work, you would get fired and probably arrested for assault.
this guy set the bar so low that i was pleasantly surprised the tiktok about a girl who doesn't drink didn't end in him telling guys to try and find ways to pressure a woman into drinking
I was about to comment this, he seems absolutely the type to go for the "Cmon, a small glass won't hurt I have this great wine, I promise I'm not trying to get you drunk etc" angle. I did feel a little embarrassed that his status rose in my eyes quite a bit after he did that. Still a weird creep.
I love how he, even in those very obviously scripted scenarios, somehow manages to come off THAT creepy and weird. Just imagine him in those situations with real women who don't know him big oooof
@@mikochaos6310 probably because in these guy's mind any woman that reacts to this with "ew wtf stay away from me" is actually just poisoned by feminism
someone asked him in the comments on his tiktok and he answered, “well since you asked so nicely…” and explained something about having a stiff neck or something to that effect. he can’t bend it down i think.
@@autumneleaves It's not about him bending his neck, even if he had to hold it in front of him he wouldn't need to hold it THAT close to his face. Plus the expression he makes while reading looks like he's struggling/his head might hurt, which would be what happens when you force yourself to read without your needed glasses.
I think he's trying to keep a composed face and is very insecure about having a second chin happen if he looks down. Maybe the camera was linked to his phone so he could make sure he wasn't moving because he clearly has issues moving his body around.
I can’t believe how sheltered and entitled this man is that he can’t possibly comprehend why a girl might be uncomfortable going on a date with a stranger after dark... Just the height of male privilege 🤦♀️
I don't know if it's so much sheltered, as it is trying to make women feel stupid and/or ashamed to have a boundary... so she'll drop the boundary. It definitely is entitled, tho.
It weird to be that afraid... There are tons of well lit public places to go on dates after dark...most ppl have to work and they dont get time during the day to date... its super negative of you to push this fear mongering bullshit... most abuse happens from friends, partners and family... not all dudes are gonna attack women, its a tiny %... and gurls wonder why men guarded all the time??
@@domm5715 tiny % lmfao. You know what dudes are the type to attack women? The type trying to meet with them late at night and then don't take no for an answer
I mean think about it: if they actually helped the people who watch them, then their audience would quickly get into relationships and they would stop watching him for advice because they wouldn't need him anymore. Incel influencers have to keep their audience miserable, otherwise they will lose that audience. That's their business model.
I think that the worst part about these “dating coach” tiktok pages is that they have a decent following of men who would actually do stuff like this, and as a woman, it makes me scared for my safety. Also, I think that having emotions, and actually showing those emotions is a manly thing to do. 6.9k likes. Nice.
Well if the last sentence is true then lemme ask you a question. I’ve been friends with a colleague for about 2 and a half years now, and I previously had asked her out about six months after we met (she declined). However, 2 years later we’re pretty much best friends and she knows everything about my life, including the toxic people I’ve dated and most of the details of that. I’ve basically shown her who I am. I want to wait another half a year before I make a move again (If I do choose to). However, tbh with all the toxic girls I’ve ended up dating, I’m not sure if after I opened myself up completely that she would consider me. What would you think? Again she knows how I was heartbroken by a previous girlfriend who I was in love with and had trauma from how toxic it was, and how my last girlfriend was a neglectful jackass, but also how I acted very good in those relationships, and how (at least in my and her perspective) I was a good boyfriend (she literally commented to me “man I wish I’d find a guy who’d talk so good about me behind my back”)
@@Uvuv6969 well its either she is afraid and doesn't want to hurt you like your exes or she just sees you as a friend and that's fine , know matter how amazing someone is, if they don't fall in love with you its okay . I hope you move on if she unfortunately reject you since you can't force someone to love you :)
@@Uvuv6969 I think there's nothing to worry about, I don't think your history of being open with her is something that would make her uninterested. If anything, you guys have a head start on a stable foundation of sharing/trust.
@@unicorngirl237 well yeah I mean I asked her out two years ago so it’s clear that there’s a good chance she still won’t want to go out with me, which clearly there’s nothing I can really do about that. I will say on pine apples comment that I am one of the very few people she trusts, so you’re probably right.
I’ve learned that when men like him say a woman is being passive aggressive, they actually mean that shes making them uncomfortable by calling them out in their bs😅
or just being upset when they talk to him, its like he doesn't think women should show any emotion when they speak to him about, oh ya know, treating women like shit
that’s how men and incidentally right wingers argue. they say something totally uncalled for and inappropriate and when met with a very warranted upset response, u are crazy and triggered. it’s so bonkers to me that i just don’t engage anymore. it doesn’t matter what u do or say they aren’t hearing u they’re just waiting for their turn to criticize you personally and not ur argument or anything u said.
literally everything he criticized about that dude’s profile is what makes him attractive. I love guys who are clean shaven, have a good smile, wear glasses, etc.
@Vanta i assure u that it's definitely ain't minority. since i would be more likely to go on a date with someone who has a safe and positive vibe than someone who gets pressed over the preference of meeting up in daylight. Red flags r everywhere on this man, no woman would like that
That hallway scenario was insane. Just power walk to practically chase down a lone woman and suddenly appear right next to her. Excellent advice. Will absolutely set you in good stead for a great conversation and not at all induce panic.
@@wiyebonrostro6507 sure i guess but regardless doing what he did is a good way to get pepper sprayed in the eyes. basically just don't suddenly approach women with no one around in a closed space
2:30 IMMEDIATELY a no from me as a woman. One of the single most frightening experiences I've had with a man was him approaching me from behind while I was walking and only making me aware of his presence when he was right next to me This was on a side street when it was dusky and no one else was around Genuine advice for men: Don't do that shit
@@SaintShion i feel like it’s not an ick, it’s genuinely terrifying. an ick is when a date like chews w his mouth open or wont stop showing you snowboarding vids or smth lol
I have habit of getting irritationally angry when i got startled, and im sure im not the only one. Dude have high chance to get punched in the face if he keep doing that.
Seriously, great way to put a person into fight/flight, regardless of gender. I don't think a lot of men would be comfortable with someone just _appearing_ beside them. Sure maybe you'd hear their footsteps, but if you did hear someone running up behind you (which isn't guaranteed, do not assume the other person has heard you unless they turn to look), it would still be unsettling. Especially given how the space between her and the wall was fairly tight, no matter how he did that he was going to invade her personal space. I second the advice of: just don't
I've accidentally gone on a date with a few of them. I pretty much faked emergencies and bailed on them. Some are a safety risk like one of my exes that freaking stalked me.
Luckily for any girl he tries pursuing, there is PLENTY of evidence online about how much of a douchebag he is. Some predatory guys are smart enough NOT to publicize it.
It's funny, because dating coaches are supposed to know how to be charismatic and attractive, but I think this guy has perfected the art of the exact opposite. I look at him, I listen to him for a few seconds, and I get an overwhelming feeling that he's someone I don't want to have anything to do with.
I can't believe he tore that guy on tinder to shreds, despite the fact that: he's alone in almost all of his photos (meaning he's comfortable in his own company, probably will actually talk to you instead of at you/ignore you), every photo has a different setting (meaning he either travels for work [well off financially or can budget] or he frequents the outdoors/local area rather his room/basement/bar), he's smiling in every photo (probably means he's an optimistic person, and probably a blast to hang out with) and also dog. Can't believe the most unattractive man tried to roast the most attractive man on tinder
I would much rather go out with the guy with a genuine smile and a kind face who takes selfies with his mom than this creepy ear grabber who is chasing women down hallways...
Too bad your advice isn't helpful as the guy made a reddit post seeking help because he wasn't getting any matches on dating apps. This is why men need to ignore female dating advice as you have no clue what it takes for a man to attract women.
@@4evahodlingdoge226 i cant tell if this is a satire or not but if its not then good lord i cant believe ur a real person 😭 so what ur saying is u want a women, but doesnt listen to what a women want. and instead u listen to a man because apparently they know what women want?
It must be exhausting to be this hyperfocused on dating. There's nothing wrong with wanting to be in a relationship, but to make it your entire personality? Chill out dude
It’s his job! As for other men who obsess over it, it’s like starving. If you have no food it’s all you’re going to think about until you get satisfied and then you can move on
When he was doing the segment where he was asking the woman about her job I naively thought that the criticism he was going for was that most of the questions he was asking were yes or no questions rather than open ended ones that can actually start a conversation and help you get to know someone...but no, the criticism was that he didn't make a joke about being a male stripper :/
I thought that he might also give the tip that talking about yourself a little can open people up to talk about themselves because they feel less vulnerable when they know more about you but yeah no that wasn’t it either :(
also when he made the male stripper joke didn't he say he takes clothes off people? "you take money off people, I take clothes off people" or something like that? I don't think he's a very good stripper either
@@graciespaceycakes3714 He meant he takes other people's clothes off, yes, but he phrased it poorly so it sounds like he takes his own clothes off. Which is somewhat funnier, honestly.
“Take of the glasses take off the smile” do you think a girl would love a guy who look’s like hes ready to kill her? Or do you think she would go for a guy who’s nice and looks caring.
Thete is difference between being attractive in real life and being attractive in dating apps. In person personality matters but on dating apps looks are everything. The guy looks nice if you met nice in person but on dating apps there is nothing particularly striking about him for girls to accept him on a dating app. Alex's advice was quite good when it comes to getting more Tinder matches.
@@randomhuman2595 No, not really, I think you're overselling how attractive anyone thinks men like these are, I think the most love they've ever gotten is from other men with an equal amount of insecurity Mugshots aren't attractive, demanding and entitled personalities aren't attractive, you might as well stop yourself from falling into that lie if you still have the chance
The guy who "smiled too much" seemed sweet! My first thought was "hes cute, nice having a guy who can enjoy life" Too the constant smilers: keep spreading your happiness! ♡
The guy he tore to shreds for smiling too much is literally my type. Clean shaven, glasses, dog-lover, and generally a happy person. I feel sorry for this guy who thinks that a scary looking tiktoker is going to get him a date when he literally just needs to get off dating sites and find girls elsewhere that aren't looking for the stereotypical Alpha male with facial hair, bulky bodies, and brooding personalities.
with one of the worst openings ever, the phrase "ruin you" used like that makes me feel like physically gagging every time I hear it. Very few things you could say that would turn me off dating or hooking up with you faster than that. 🤢
Needy would be those 4 text messages sent within minutes to hours after each other. Theyre literally spread out over a few weeks which is the difference
@@lanikinlywalker4596 Good point! Now that you mention it, needy isn’t quite the right word, so he’s right about it being persistent instead of needy. But sending the same thing over and over feels kinda stubborn and childish. It wouldn’t have been bad advice if he at least switched things up, known when to stop, and said something less weird than… whatever that was
@@axuwu6939 Who's to say he wasn't just trolling at that point. The reality is, online dating is a dumpster fire the majority of the time and men and women alike are toxic on those platforms. I know this will be anecdotal but I wasn't getting any success with dates until I followed Alex's advice. I went from 0 dates in months of trying to dates consistently every week, so for me it's hard to argue against the results
@@IsaacLungu This is what happens when patriarchy has normalized the monsters it creates a la "beauty & the beast" that most wom3n were blind to all the Frankenstein m3n.
He seems slow too..like he's mentally disabled. Men have such low intelligence in general due to all the violence they encounter from the patriarchal order they are subjugated under especially starting with circumcision as babies, they are more like blindly obedient rage monsters to patriarchal drivel.
I still can't believe that these men don't realize women dont want a man they just met to suddenly grab them or sneak up on them. Like how hard is it to realize that every woman has things they like about men but number 1 is always "will not fucking murder me"
@@ralphwilsin thank u 🙏. As a certified woman; I would say to seek out those you have something in common with (like a hobby or political views idk) so they can become familiar with you. And personally, I am always attracted to people that have a nice style and carry themselves with confidence. I know it’s really basic advice but that’s what I would say without knowing anything about you personally haha
@@ralphwilsin Honestly be nice and understanding. But yeah I would def agree with the confidence part, we like men who know who they are tho without being an ass. If that makes sense. Personally I'm super attracted to eye contact, so if you find someone attractive look AT them and try to find their EYES, then a soft smile. Not too long tho, we don't want to be creepy. If it doesn't work the first time, I'd say try one or two more times. If she smiles back I'd say you can approach her. The most important part tho is to check the vibe.
Not proud to say after a hard breakup I ended up in this pipeline of garbage and actually believed this dude for an uncomfortable amount of time before I actually healed and came to my senses. Glad I eventually ended up on the side of YT that calls ppl like this out
glad we got you back on the sane side of things! we've all been in dark places, and it can be a learning experience as long as you can look back from a distance later. hope you find a special someone soon if you haven't already~
I got anxiety whenever he approached her. I've been with my partner for 13 years but it still bring me triggers when guys approach like he did. Like don't touch or get close without consent. He gives me the creeps.
The way he looks through her as he talks to her too, thinking only of how to get laid. I hate that so fucking much. Dead giveaway for why they're asking dumbass questions, regardless of if you touch you.
As someone who has dealt with and witnessed/intervened in a lot of these kinds of interactions (men leaning too close to say something right in your ear, approaching you from behind and asking for your number, moving too quickly and attempting to touch you/invade your space, etc.) I promise 9 times out of 10 this won’t be taken well. And unfortunately in one of these many instances, I was followed by a man who didn’t like that his awful and self-serving tactics didn’t work and I had to take out a self defense weapon and warn him not to follow me. Men who see these videos really do think it works and it actively puts women in very uncomfortable and potentially dangerous situations.
What type of self defense weapon was it? I’m thinking of getting one for myself but I don’t know what would be the best to buy and actually work in dissuading men from trying anything
@@humantoon I had a knife/switch blade that I held up very clearly for him to see. I also had raised my voice when I told him not to follow me, as we were in a busier part of town (at night, though, so it’s still good to be cautious) I can’t guarantee this would have worked if we weren’t within earshot of other people, but he seemed to immediately back off when I switched the blade out for him to see
@@humantoon I also carry pepper spray alongside the knife as a first resort! The knife was just what I had on hand at the time. Pepper spray will probably work better to keep someone from getting too close to you. Tasers also work well if you’re forced at close range with the assailant
"Throw away the glasses", he says mockingly, while holding the phone about 3 inches from his face because he clearly needs glasses himself, but is too "alpha" to wear them.
"I think there's a reason that all of chat is saying you're being passive aggressive" Like yeah, the reason is that you intentionally cultivate an audience of dudes who are exactly like you Also this dude's resting expression is "some nobleman's leering predatory failson in a medieval horror movie"
I feel like he is the kind of person it is hard not to get annoyed with, if you are talking with them about a topic that you are informed about (women for example) because he is obviously ignorant about it. It is like having a debate with a piece of toast, but the toast is trying to shame you and also saying that it knows more about humans than u because it's predecessor was eaten by one...
"you wanna be persistent and not needy, show no emotions really be stoic and dont give a fuck" *texts 4 times days apart without answer the same creepy line over and over* what a BEAST
yeah you're right. why don't you show us how it's done@@Luzgoishzre? tell me did you lose your virginity to imaginary hentai characters or a blow up doll?
Watcha wanna bet that's his go-to response whenever someone politely disagrees with him? "You're being nice enough, but this conversation still feels confrontational and icky. Obviously this is your fault."
@@onemore4567 I think it's more that he's so lacking in self-awareness his genuine responses are somewhat divorced from reality, but . . . I don't know. Maybe there's more overlap than we realize.
8:48 this part of the tiktok actually infuriated me, because you’re asking them to strip everything about themselves, and become someone who they aren’t, just so they can get unholy with a woman
Exactly! Like fuck preferences I guess. Fuck expressing yourself the way that makes you feel confident and happy. I guess everyone needs to be carbon copies of each other. And Jesus, the way the guy said “he needs to stop smiling so *damn* much in these photos” was so fucking bitter. Why is he getting so offended over a smile?
@@SaimDI I guess my question is, why would any man be interested in getting with a woman who does not like seeing him smile? If a woman thinks you are ugly or weak for being happy and joyful and kind, why are you willing to bend over backward to be something you're not just to stick your dick in her? That doesn't show a whole lot of self-respect, in my opinion
I got an ad before this by that one female dating coach and the first line was “Don’t be nice to women.” Ah yes. Thank you for that advice. Ah did I’m mention that I’m gay too so I have no clue why RUclips thinks these adds are what I want.
I love how it's like playfully just ask "you're not a secret fatty are you?" If someone asked me that I would definitely be like "I'm very obviously a open fatty" Also I love how he's scripted for her to answer that finance is just the easiest job
Asking that is just negging. It's like saying "your nose isn't that big irl, is it?" like, if you wanna find out a girl's weight, just ask for a full body pic. Many people like "thicc chicks", it's not the 90s where all the clothes were made for an alien species which didn't have the ability to gain fat. By saying "you're not a fatty, are you" you're saying "I only have sex with girls who fit a stereotype most men tailor their preferences to so I can show you off as one of the girls I scored".
@@toxihex876 I mean, people do to have "types", so I'm not going to agree that not being into fatter people is bad or whatever (as long as you keep it to yourself and don't insult people about their body type), it's just personal preference. But you can generally tell someone's build just by looking at their face, so he likely already knows the answer. If he knows the answer, you can safely assume he's not really asking to get the answer. The other thing here is that's an extraordinarily rude thing to ask, and even if there were a polite way to ask it, this ain't it, chief.
@@trianglemoebius It can be quite difficult to tell sometimes. If someone doesnt have body pics then one might assume theyre hiding something but they could also just not have any body pics (professional reasons or whatever). If shes offended and unmatches then she was either fat or she isnt someone youd vide with anyway
I love how the newer version of 'a twinge of cringe' sounds like an old and wise woman trying to teach us about the horrible terrible horrors of this world
@@Lex_brooke Chad Chad seems to record each video's title card individually, but she's saying it differently now than she was before. Previously she was styling it in a high pitched voice.
@@Lex_brooke oh is it different in every video? i just remember there being the really high pitched 'twinge of cringe' in older videos, but maybe im wrong
this is why i’ve always advised to young guys to never listen to the advice of a mid-30 year old “dating coach,” who’s longest relationship was probably half a year. the best type of people to learn about dating women is well… women! take advice from your friends, family, close-coworkers, etc. and literally see the difference in successfully getting more dates and longer/happier relationships when you’re not just a meat suit that only communicates with pick-up lines to hopefully get action, but a actual human with personality, hobbies, and having actual interest with your date as a person.
Women aren’t magical light beings who always give perfect advice. They’re flawed human beings with perspectives limited by their life experiences, just like men. If you want to sleep around as a straight man, the perspectives of other straight men who have slept around are going to give much more valuable insight than that of, say, a woman who married her highschool sweetheart. There’s also the fact that women are all different and have varying preferences (also according to the time in their life and period cycle). What this man does well is cast a wide net and then hone in on the subset of women who like macho, domineering men. That’s why I think that Chad Chad’s suggestion that this guy couldn’t have got positive responses from his messages are wishful thinking, unfortunately. The fact that he would turn off most women immediately won’t prevent him from sleeping around as long as he successfully triples down on the ones who are receptive.
Okay wait 2:48 this is topical Yesterday I, a 27yo woman was walking alone and a salesdude my age followed me and forced me into a convo. I was uncomfy but I tried to be really nice. He was asking questions like where I worked and where I lived where I refused to answer. At the end he said he wanted to keep in touch, I asked for his business card in hopes it'd be enough and never get back in touch but he insisted. I said I wasn't comfy giving out my number and he insisted for my insta. My insta is private so I gave it to him so I didn't have to accept. He then says he doesn't want to speak business though and i'm visibly uncomfortable. He asked me to go for coffee and I said my boyfriend wouldn't like that. He starts laughing and says "Your boyfriend doesn't need to know" I got out of the convo asap and then called my boyfriend from the grocery store bathroom crying telling him what happened and he offered to drive an hour over in middle of his stuff to come get me (ofc I got someone else to get me who was closer) It was awful. Don't do this please.
I'm sorry that happened to you! It's really awful when you're trying to be polite and the other person keeps pushing your boundaries and being horrible and disrespectful. It's scary because you end up feeling cornered because none of the available options seem safe. I would've felt really unsafe in that situation. It's really predatory behavior. I'm glad there are people in your life who were able to give you support after that incident.
Had someone like that on the bus trying to get my snapchat insisting we could be "friends" by basically trapping me in the window seat and keep persisting despite me repeatedly turning him down and having headphones on (which SHOULD be the universal sign of "dont fucking talk to me"). How i had to resist the urge to shove him out of the seat and yell "fuck off". Seriously. Dont corner people and trap them in conversation with you. There was another guy on the bus tho (separate occasion) who switched seat next to me and asked for my social media but was very polite, accepted it without any fuss when i said i wasnt comfortable giving it out to strangers, moved back to his seat when the conversation was over and stayed there until it was his stop. Be like this guy, not the former.
Ah see, I would have told him to piss off before I stain the pavement with whatever brain matter he has left, in his most likely empty skull. Ya gotta be direct with those idiots.
Great video, my relationship of 5 years ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, Really love her so much, i can’t stop thinking about her. I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated because i literally can't envision my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of her but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss her and just can’t stop thinking about her.
Your feelings are understandable, It's always difficult to let go of someone you love, i was in a similar situation when my wife of 12 years left me, i couldn't just let her go. I did all I could to get her back, I had to seek the help of a spiritual adviser who helped me bring her back.
Spiritual Advisor? Bro this is a scam in my opinion. If it works for you great, but Honestly there is no way to get over heartbreak. You learn to live with the pain & it diminishes over time.
God I'm so obsessed with Chad Chad, she's quickly becoming one of the best commentary channels on here. I love her humor and use of sketches. I hope she takes over the entirety of RUclips.
When I watch a video from a successful RUclipsr I like to go back to their first video and see where they came from. Usually it’s several years old and has a bunch of editing errors and they haven’t settled on a specific style of performing, which is absolutely understandable. With Chad Chad I see the same thing but she only started a year ago! She’s progressed so much in such a small span of time and is already getting millions of views! I can only fathom what she’ll be like in 5 years time, how her style-which is already incredible-will have improved and elevated her content.
Your claps made me laugh, I just imagine this guy pouncing on random women like a fucking Jaguar and you come in like “SWIPER NO SWIPING” and he’s like “awwww MAN” and leaves lmao
"I'm a male stripper. I take clothes off people." ... Uh....it's been a minute since I've been in a strip club, but last I was there the strippers weren't taking clothes off OTHER people......... Did that change? Is this a covid thing?
I think he was attempting to make a "FBI: Female Boob Inspector" type of joke, except his delivery is absolutely abysmal, so it ended up sounding like he just doesn't know what a stripper is.
Craziest thing is beta male who smiles too much and has to take off glasses is more attractive than the video guy I don't even mean personality I mean just from looks alone lol
I can't stand these cringey dating coaches their so full of themselves🤢, n they couldn't get a date if they were locked in a room full of thirsty ladies !😂, great video thanks!😜💜✌️
8:43 He’s literally telling this guy to LOOK LIKE HIM. That guy in the profile he’s roasting is SO DAMN CUTE HES PERFECT and this guy (who looks like he’d growl at me in a grocery store) is like NAH LOOK LIKE ME. I can’t right now
IKR?? It's so weird that straight single men is the one talking about what women want and how to get women. Honestly it's hard to believe that man who hat3s women actually have a logical reason outside of "I'm bitter that women don't date me" because I never seen a gay person who resents women as much as starlight men do
This is actually something an old saying was partly referring to, it goes “Those who can do, those who can’t teach”. It’s not necessarily derogatory or meant to be negative, it’s just that a professor might be better at teaching architecture and engineering rather than building something like the Burj Khalifa skyscraper in Dubai…🤔😏😊
I love his advice for the guy who's "never going to get any dates", because I know for a fact that the guys who he would approve of, are the guys I would vomit in my mouth over. I'm exaggerating, obv, but I hate guys who are too serious. Massive turn off. Do not talk to me. Granted, online dating doesn't work for me period because everyone looks fake as shit, but that guy who was "smiling too much" and giving "massive nice guy vibes" would actually stand a chance. Unlike this guy, who's chance is so low, its negative somehow. In that, despite being a straight woman, I would rather date another woman then him.
Right? That guy looked cute and happy! In my opinion he was doing everything right, because those pics make him look like a happy, active, well adjusted person who has hobbies and a cute pet. And I’ll never understand the argument against smiling. A guys smile has always been among the first things I notice (that and the eyes). Besides what kind of sociopath doesn’t like a genuine smile? That guy looked like he was having fun, how is that bad or unmanly? In my opinion, it’s actually a very attractive thing, because, and I’m about to drop a HUGE secret here… humans generally want to be around people who seem fun! Who would have thought, right? And, y’a know, women are humans. Honestly the whole dating coach industry would crumble if all men could wrap their minds around that simple fact.
I’m just gonna repeat what others already said but that guy is really handsome and also looks great in glasses lol, like what was this man even talking about getting rid of glasses and not smiling, the pictures were great
Yeah ngl that profile he showed was highkey super attractive to me. Guys who seem like geniunely nice and normal are hotter to me than any "alpha chad" could ever be lol
omg, A week or so ago a man approached me on the street and told me he had to stop me because apparently I'm just so beautiful wearing sweat pants and a hoodie and now I'm wondering if he got his awful pickup line from these fools. He must have been so confused when I rolled my eyes and said okay bye, before walking away. Scary thing was, I was on a path where you could walk either back or to the front and he walked back again! that guy seriously thought I would be flattered by him following me in a nearly empty pathway so he could interrupt me vibing to music.
this guy can't be the only one recommending that. the other day i had someone interrupt me on my way to the grocery store with earbuds in, he "just had to tell me" i looked cute or something but then tried to continue the conversation, find out my name--like, so the thing about just wanting to compliment me was clearly false. you have to wonder how many women they've done this to and how many have given their number or whatever. i have a guess.
@@davidsolimene5367 sweetheart, approaching and following are WAY different. The person who commented this, clearly WAS NOT interested in the guy's attention. If she had been, it would be okay. But she wasn't, so it wasn't approaching but following and that shit it scary
7:55 the saddest and creepiest part of the video for me… the lack of empathy of this man is to the point of playing that comment « for jokes » because he genuinely cannot understand what she meant… thanks for the video chad chad, at least you made fun of him :’)
It's really the creepiest thing- Like imagine telling someone that you don't feel comfortable in a dimly lit, mostly empty area with someone you don't really know, and their response is "heheh, anyways!"
@@off6848 1. His delivery was awful, which is why so many people don't get that he was attempting a joke. 2. The joke is akin to the "I'm an FBI agent: a Female Boob Inspector," except even that is more clever. 3. The joke doesn't make sense because male strippers exist, and they are exactly the same as female strippers, except they're male. So saying, "I'm a male stripper, I strip clothes off people" sounds nonsensical and stupid.
I'm ashamed of men who think they're "alpha" and disappointed that they exist. I don't think I've met any women who haven't had a negative (and often traumatic) experience with one of these a-holes. Love this channel btw.
I pity the women who are forced to interact with him 💀 honestly the tinder profile with the glasses, dog and no beard probably gets more matches than him cause he seems like a genuine and nice person
@@gvd72 and he gets really bad advice. I feel sorry for the men who listen to fresh and fit and shit like misogynist pick up artists, that know nothing about women and can’t find a good woman. Tinder is not a place where you will find a high value, quality partner anyway.
Idk how telling a women she's being passive aggressive isn't the most snowflake triggered thing to say. In those clips of him "debating" he sounds like a big baby and of course these debates are in his safe space of his youtube channel where most of the live comments support his arguments. Honestly, judging by the thumbnail titles, he just wants to look like a galaxy brain alpha telling off the triggered feminist. It's pointless to engage with that nonsense. It should had left to rot back in 2016. It's hilarious people still use unironically words like red pill, blue pill, triggered, SJWs, ect this day and age. It's so childish.
It's been like 6 years since the stupid "triggered SJW compilation get owned by facts and logic!1!!" era and I can't believe some people never grew out of it. It's so cringy and embarassing it makes me die inside
We can't get upset or we're raging bitches. We can't be level headed or we're passive aggressive. I'm starting to think that MAYBE they just don't want to hear us talk. 🤔
Nothing gets me drier than hearing someone unironically use "SJW" or "Snowflake" in the present day. Most of the time they even act exactly like the people they hate, getting "triggered" over the smallest things. It's insane. And they say us women are emotional when these men constantly look like they're about to pop a blood vessel any moment now.
it’s so amazing to see a youtuber sharing about the struggles of being a chad… chad chad, your sacrifices do not go unseen on how hard it must be to have everybody constantly wanting to date you #JUSTICEFORCHADCHAD
My man somehow found the only woman in the literal backrooms and still couldn't up his self awareness enough to come off as someone who isn't an actual serial killer
He is the mike monsters out to get her. That's how they lure you in, through language that sounds human and then they snatch you. This girl needs to leave quick.
“stop smiling so damn much” one of the reasons i deleted tinder was the amount of dead faced empty eyed selfies. it freaked me the fk out and makes them all look so scary god damn. like are you human? 😭
Doesn’t that make his advice more valid then, if he has deficient looks but still does well? Do you really think a very handsome man is in a position to give advice to average men. Think about it… kinda funny though
Never thought of it that way cus I'm too busy trying to not be a total creep like these pickup artist dumpster fires lololol. But yes sir you are absolutely correct lol.
Except that it does the opposite by making us avoid the fuck out of all of y’all. 😂 Men like this dude ARE the danger in ‘stranger danger’, and keep us from ever wanting to talk to dudes in the wild.
@@soyborne.bornmadeandundone1342 if you genuinely take every single piece of advice from that guy to heart, BUT pretend it's Opposite Day... it might just work !
They make it so complicated. Have a life you like, get to know women because you like spending time with them, ask a woman on a date because you enjoy her company, not because you want something. The rest is a numbers game.
I thought this said “tiktok dating cockroaches need to be stopped” As you can imagine, I am immensely disappointed to learn that this video was not, in fact, about cockroaches dating each other.
Your first impression was pretty close though. It's about a human-sized cockroach giving the worst possible advise in the most condescending tone ever.
I love these Alpha type videos. They are genuinely a public service because they keep teaching men how to completely telegraph that they are the kind of guy I don't want to meet. It's so helpful to have men out in the world teaching other men new and unique ways to get blocked. 😂
6:20 Gosh... why is he talking and leaning on the girl... dude you alright? you forgot how to stand? Shivers. Why his pose is always so awkward? I don't even think is shyness... It's like standing in front of a creature you don't know how to approach... ooooooohhh I got it!
I literally met my husband on tinder and the entire reason I swiped right on him was because of one of pictures in which he had a huge beautiful smile and glasses on. So. 😬
@@nez365 those are the type you wouldn’t want to be with also. As a women who gets attention idk also being on dating apps just seems like you’re doing too much
i just find it hilarious and sad how obvious these dudes desperately try to hide the misery and emptiness of their lives. It's sadder how 15-20 year old children who watch them don't notice because they don't know what a depressed alcoholic gaze looks like.
6:12 this whole conversation makes my skin crawl 😭 she’s an actor and still seems uncomfortable. The way he breaths in her face, talking like 4 inches away and keeps rocking back and fourth like a nervous child. He just seems like he doesn’t have social skills and he’s masking it very poorly. Wtf is this body language
i had a roommate (only for like 3 days because the guy was such a terrible person) and i tried to take him out to show him the neighborhood and stuff and the guy was literally tryna pick up every single chick that walked past us. it was so embarrassing but thankfully that fool ended up getting kicked out because the guy was obviously psycho
It's like he does these quick motions to make the people he's trying to get with to think he's about to assault them or something to keep them on their toes. Why is he sneaking behind people in a narrow hallway?
i just realized i have a new crush and was feeling kinda self-conscious about my social skills but seeing this cheered me up. while also making me lose faith in humanity, but i'm trying to focus on the positives
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That dude needs glasses but is too ashamed to wear them
source: how close his phone is to his face
That’s what I kept thinking the whole time. Get contacts you freaking weirdo and stop trying to talk to women, even in fake scenarios!
I kept thinking he was using the phone as a mic at first. Poor guy too alpha to see
Yep! He's too insecure to wear glasses and his teeth don't look very good - that's why he unsulted that guy for wearing glasses and 'smiling too much'.
@zer0 honestly, I hope so with the way he treats women
@@Teefs001 "too alpha to see" hahaha
him thinking that texting a woman "you're not a secret fatty are you?" and getting a good reaction is even remotely believable is INSANE
fr like he’s such a loser he can’t even get negging right lmao
honestly, not even skinny women would react well cause it's a red flag the size of a country
@@lollybowser Yeah exactly, that's just not something you say about a person.
@@lollybowser Right?! If that's their line they've lost before the starting gate even opened.
A girl i know through a chat actually answered to similar question in a similar way, and even sent the douchebag pictures. It didn't work out and she came very sad about her body. So the problem is some girls feel so insecure about their body that they think that it's actually valid question and that they deserve be treated this way. I wish it was only his fantasy, and all girls would just send such guys to hell
As someone who wears glasses I can confirm we only wear them so that we can get rejected on tinder
lmaoooo
i second for this
Like damn, sorry we just want to see stuff clearly. Can y'all imagine just telling your date after they say to ditch your glasses, "Okay, hope you can drive then; because I can't drive anywhere without my glasses, unless you want me to commit several traffic violations."
As another person who wears glasses I can confirm that I only wear them so that I can get rejected. Definitely not because I need to see haha that’d just be weird!
@@DarkFleurofIra "would you mind reading the menu to me i cant see it without my glasses"
He admitted on his livestream that he has been banned from all the dating apps from last year and has barely gone on any dates. Wow shocker
I love your pfp
sauce?
@@RaYYTraYY His livestream are you illiteracy? These are on public websites its not hard to find 😭
@@shrimpshufflr7745 the irony of “are you illiteracy”
@@shrimpshufflr7745if you're going to call someone else illiterate you should spell check your own reply. And I'm pretty sure they were asking which livestream, I'm sure this guy has loads and no one has time to go checking all of them.
This dude wasn't a Twinge of Cringe, he was a Full Measure of Displeasure.
This comment is underrated, that was actually pretty good word play
Amazing
Wow
that is..confusingly clever.
yep
"I am a male stripper!" and "I take clothes off other people" makes me wonder if this guy knows even what a stripper is. If you as a stripper start undressing random people on the place where you work, you would get fired and probably arrested for assault.
I think that's more than a stripper
Да. You’re right.
@@_se3_thru9h_9 Русский?
LMAO I am losing it rn I didn't even catch that 💀
@@LickVIP ewwww
The fact he grabbed some random, ordinary guy's Tinder to make fun of him in front of his impressionable audience makes my blood boil. That poor dude.
Honestly! And that guy was not bad looking at alllll. If anything he’s better looking than the “dating coach”.
That guy looked really cute and handsome, far more appealing than the coach who looks like someone from a stock photo.
I genuinely don't see anything wrong with the Tinder dude. He's cute and attractive.
I love that he was mad that the tinder dude was happy. Little jealous perhaps lol
He’s jealous that guy is alpha enough to just use the glasses he clearly needs
“I’m a male stripper, I take clothes off of other people”
Sir… Aren’t you supposed to take YOUR clothes off?? What you’re doing sounds like a crime.
Do NOT let bro interact with a lil kid
He's a male stripper. As in he strips males.
no no, he’s a male stripper. he strips males.
I’m a cashier I take money from the cash register and put it in my pocket
Sounds like a shoplifter
this guy set the bar so low that i was pleasantly surprised the tiktok about a girl who doesn't drink didn't end in him telling guys to try and find ways to pressure a woman into drinking
Same. I thought for sure his next line would be ...AnD thEn YOu WreSTLe HeR tO The GrounD aND FORCE FEED HER
I was about to comment this, he seems absolutely the type to go for the "Cmon, a small glass won't hurt I have this great wine, I promise I'm not trying to get you drunk etc" angle. I did feel a little embarrassed that his status rose in my eyes quite a bit after he did that. Still a weird creep.
I SWEAR. I was somehow GLAD he did not ask people to secretly add alcohol to the tea/coffee. Like....
The fact that him NOT trying to entice her to drink is the surprising part is the saddest thing.
No joke that caught me off guard lol
I love how he, even in those very obviously scripted scenarios, somehow manages to come off THAT creepy and weird. Just imagine him in those situations with real women who don't know him big oooof
Yeah...this guy is somehow making *me* feel uncomfortable, and I'm a guy, living on a different continent.
666th liek oml
To attract women, be creppy....
Its wild that there's dudes who watch his stuff and don't see how awkward and uncomfortable it would be to behave that way
@@mikochaos6310 probably because in these guy's mind any woman that reacts to this with "ew wtf stay away from me" is actually just poisoned by feminism
Do you see how close he's holding his phone to his face? Clearly, he took his own advice and ditched his very necessary glasses.
someone asked him in the comments on his tiktok and he answered, “well since you asked so nicely…” and explained something about having a stiff neck or something to that effect. he can’t bend it down i think.
@@autumneleaves It's not about him bending his neck, even if he had to hold it in front of him he wouldn't need to hold it THAT close to his face. Plus the expression he makes while reading looks like he's struggling/his head might hurt, which would be what happens when you force yourself to read without your needed glasses.
I was gonna comment this exact same thing. It has been bugging me 😂
I think he's trying to keep a composed face and is very insecure about having a second chin happen if he looks down. Maybe the camera was linked to his phone so he could make sure he wasn't moving because he clearly has issues moving his body around.
Yea I can’t stop noticing the phone soo close to his face lol
"Your glasses are ugly, get rid of them."
**holds phone 6 inches from face to read**
Probably doesn't want to admit in his "alphaness" that he needs glasses.
That’s more like 3 inches, I know that guys aren’t supposed to mention how long something actually is but mannn he *short sited* .
Being able to see is for women
@@d.l.claxton9421real men navigate their environment entirely through intuition
It's alpha male to not know who the person standing 5 feet away that you've known your whole life is
I can’t believe how sheltered and entitled this man is that he can’t possibly comprehend why a girl might be uncomfortable going on a date with a stranger after dark... Just the height of male privilege 🤦♀️
Some of these men... sorry, "men", need to be reincarnated as a woman 😅
I don't know if it's so much sheltered, as it is trying to make women feel stupid and/or ashamed to have a boundary... so she'll drop the boundary. It definitely is entitled, tho.
@@edricawebb1578 exactly!
It weird to be that afraid... There are tons of well lit public places to go on dates after dark...most ppl have to work and they dont get time during the day to date... its super negative of you to push this fear mongering bullshit... most abuse happens from friends, partners and family... not all dudes are gonna attack women, its a tiny %... and gurls wonder why men guarded all the time??
@@domm5715 tiny % lmfao. You know what dudes are the type to attack women? The type trying to meet with them late at night and then don't take no for an answer
The fact that these dating channels have helped so many people into doing the exact opposite
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elaborate conspiracy by divorce lawyers to ruin relationships
right
yeah , these vids shoul be used as What Not To Do
I mean think about it: if they actually helped the people who watch them, then their audience would quickly get into relationships and they would stop watching him for advice because they wouldn't need him anymore. Incel influencers have to keep their audience miserable, otherwise they will lose that audience. That's their business model.
I think that the worst part about these “dating coach” tiktok pages is that they have a decent following of men who would actually do stuff like this, and as a woman, it makes me scared for my safety. Also, I think that having emotions, and actually showing those emotions is a manly thing to do.
6.9k likes. Nice.
Well if the last sentence is true then lemme ask you a question. I’ve been friends with a colleague for about 2 and a half years now, and I previously had asked her out about six months after we met (she declined). However, 2 years later we’re pretty much best friends and she knows everything about my life, including the toxic people I’ve dated and most of the details of that. I’ve basically shown her who I am. I want to wait another half a year before I make a move again (If I do choose to). However, tbh with all the toxic girls I’ve ended up dating, I’m not sure if after I opened myself up completely that she would consider me. What would you think? Again she knows how I was heartbroken by a previous girlfriend who I was in love with and had trauma from how toxic it was, and how my last girlfriend was a neglectful jackass, but also how I acted very good in those relationships, and how (at least in my and her perspective) I was a good boyfriend (she literally commented to me “man I wish I’d find a guy who’d talk so good about me behind my back”)
@@Uvuv6969 well its either she is afraid and doesn't want to hurt you like your exes or she just sees you as a friend and that's fine , know matter how amazing someone is, if they don't fall in love with you its okay . I hope you move on if she unfortunately reject you since you can't force someone to love you :)
@@Uvuv6969 I think there's nothing to worry about, I don't think your history of being open with her is something that would make her uninterested. If anything, you guys have a head start on a stable foundation of sharing/trust.
Indeed! I mean that graby thing just makes me jump, very close to what the girl wanted to do in the first bit. Not romantic at all!!!! Scary!!!
@@unicorngirl237 well yeah I mean I asked her out two years ago so it’s clear that there’s a good chance she still won’t want to go out with me, which clearly there’s nothing I can really do about that.
I will say on pine apples comment that I am one of the very few people she trusts, so you’re probably right.
I’ve learned that when men like him say a woman is being passive aggressive, they actually mean that shes making them uncomfortable by calling them out in their bs😅
or just being upset when they talk to him, its like he doesn't think women should show any emotion when they speak to him about, oh ya know, treating women like shit
"Hey can I smash that??"
"Wtf asshole?? This is a grocery store"
"No one want you anyway!! Females these days. So hormonal and passive aggressive!"
that’s how men and incidentally right wingers argue. they say something totally uncalled for and inappropriate and when met with a very warranted upset response, u are crazy and triggered. it’s so bonkers to me that i just don’t engage anymore. it doesn’t matter what u do or say they aren’t hearing u they’re just waiting for their turn to criticize you personally and not ur argument or anything u said.
🤥
@@cicelypatterson3927 🤦🏿♂️
literally everything he criticized about that dude’s profile is what makes him attractive. I love guys who are clean shaven, have a good smile, wear glasses, etc.
Tell the women on the dating app that cause he's the one who asked to have his page rated in the the first place lol
@@oakwood06 women are either oblivious or dishonest when it comes to dating advice
Same he can be my buddy holly if he wants lol
@Vanta i assure u that it's definitely ain't minority. since i would be more likely to go on a date with someone who has a safe and positive vibe than someone who gets pressed over the preference of meeting up in daylight. Red flags r everywhere on this man, no woman would like that
@Vanta 8:40 he just made the account, ofc he's not getting matches
Two minutes of listening to this man and I've never been dryer before in my life. I could absorb the fluid out of a raisin at this point.
Lmao so true. Like, I seriously doubt this dude is actually getting any girl over, he gives off narcissistic creeper vibes 🤢
Dry as a bone 😭
He reads his phone so close to his face it blocks his mic like it's ok, wear your reading glasses we can tell ur _CLEARLY_ over 40.
I am a guy and even I get dry when he opens his mouth.
Like how tf does he even have an audience?
@@compa6251 😂😂😂
Imagine getting dating tips from someone whose bad breath you can smell over the internet.
for real. his voice grinds my gears and i dont know why
His one of those ppl with that white spit in the corners of their mouths and you can't stop staring at it.
@@linksey He sounds kind of shitfaced with a small sock lodged in one of his back teeth, giving this fucking weird slurry-drunk sound.
It's weird af.
ftfyudryjdgdcf im cackling lol
That rancid coffee breath
Fellas, I don’t know much, but I know this: the perfect bio will never start by addressing women as “females.”
Nor girls either
These females are hypergomy ! Take the red pill
Found the triggered female /s
@wowzersfyi it’s a joke relax
@@RichardsGaySonno one laughed
I'm starting to think that dating coaches give horrible advice on purpose, so that they have less competition.
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I think you're onto something!
Oh, yea? So whats ur dating advice?
@@DiaeAr369 cool bait bro.
@@peartry you might say that the bait got frozen.
That hallway scenario was insane. Just power walk to practically chase down a lone woman and suddenly appear right next to her. Excellent advice. Will absolutely set you in good stead for a great conversation and not at all induce panic.
If i saw a cute girls i wouldnt wanna miss that encounter if i waited the next day i wont see them again its like a skyrim or fallout encounter
@@wiyebonrostro6507 sure i guess but regardless doing what he did is a good way to get pepper sprayed in the eyes.
basically just don't suddenly approach women with no one around in a closed space
@@wiyebonrostro6507 you'll lose her anyway if you do that. Don't be a creep
yeah, yell at them from down the hall instead.
@@wiyebonrostro6507 is a girl being cute your only metric for attraction or something? get real
2:30 IMMEDIATELY a no from me as a woman.
One of the single most frightening experiences I've had with a man was him approaching me from behind while I was walking and only making me aware of his presence when he was right next to me
This was on a side street when it was dusky and no one else was around
Genuine advice for men: Don't do that shit
That's what I said that's an ick. I get startled really easy and if I turned to see this shriveled onion I be checking my escape routes
@@SaintShion i feel like it’s not an ick, it’s genuinely terrifying. an ick is when a date like chews w his mouth open or wont stop showing you snowboarding vids or smth lol
Scares the shit out of me. Like don't approach me at all lmao
I have habit of getting irritationally angry when i got startled, and im sure im not the only one. Dude have high chance to get punched in the face if he keep doing that.
Seriously, great way to put a person into fight/flight, regardless of gender. I don't think a lot of men would be comfortable with someone just _appearing_ beside them. Sure maybe you'd hear their footsteps, but if you did hear someone running up behind you (which isn't guaranteed, do not assume the other person has heard you unless they turn to look), it would still be unsettling. Especially given how the space between her and the wall was fairly tight, no matter how he did that he was going to invade her personal space.
I second the advice of: just don't
At least these kinds of guys are upfront about being misogynistic. Easy to walk away after hearing them speak for a minute.
Good point.
Makes them easy to ignore 😊
I've accidentally gone on a date with a few of them. I pretty much faked emergencies and bailed on them. Some are a safety risk like one of my exes that freaking stalked me.
@@coffeegirl18 So glad that you got away from all that and I hope that you are with someone nice now and are safe. 👍👍
Luckily for any girl he tries pursuing, there is PLENTY of evidence online about how much of a douchebag he is. Some predatory guys are smart enough NOT to publicize it.
It's funny, because dating coaches are supposed to know how to be charismatic and attractive, but I think this guy has perfected the art of the exact opposite. I look at him, I listen to him for a few seconds, and I get an overwhelming feeling that he's someone I don't want to have anything to do with.
His voice is literally Jared the pedo from subway. 🤮
Same
to be fair, i have never seen a dating coach who hasn't triggered that exact feeling
He's mostly mouth
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Oh good Dating coaches! I always wanted to know what I was doing wrong when approaching women in the unlit empty hallways of my condo 2:28
Honestly either one would scare me and I make noises when startled. I just relaized im basically a guinea pig.
@@SaintShion lol same
I know right?!? girls would always back away from me for no reason!
u do know that girl is a actress and they are filming a video in empty hallways
I love how Chad Chad always finds a way to incorporate her own little stories into whatever video she makes lmao, they make my day sometimes
Agreed, she’s relatable
fr, it's the thing keeping me alive lol
@@xs4geo same
Fr!!
DAWN
I can't believe he tore that guy on tinder to shreds, despite the fact that: he's alone in almost all of his photos (meaning he's comfortable in his own company, probably will actually talk to you instead of at you/ignore you), every photo has a different setting (meaning he either travels for work [well off financially or can budget] or he frequents the outdoors/local area rather his room/basement/bar), he's smiling in every photo (probably means he's an optimistic person, and probably a blast to hang out with) and also dog. Can't believe the most unattractive man tried to roast the most attractive man on tinder
He was insecure and needed to tear down the man he wishes he was.
@@nortmellypillTbf considering how pissed he was at him SMILING it's probably true, he must be miserable
Dude isn't getting matches on Tinder, stop the cap.
I would much rather go out with the guy with a genuine smile and a kind face who takes selfies with his mom than this creepy ear grabber who is chasing women down hallways...
Too bad your advice isn't helpful as the guy made a reddit post seeking help because he wasn't getting any matches on dating apps. This is why men need to ignore female dating advice as you have no clue what it takes for a man to attract women.
No, no you would not
@@unseen2880 why are you telling someone what they think as if you could see into their mind lmao
@@4evahodlingdoge226 i cant tell if this is a satire or not but if its not then good lord i cant believe ur a real person 😭 so what ur saying is u want a women, but doesnt listen to what a women want. and instead u listen to a man because apparently they know what women want?
@@unseen2880 ah yes, that’s right, tell someone else what they want. That makes sense.
It must be exhausting to be this hyperfocused on dating. There's nothing wrong with wanting to be in a relationship, but to make it your entire personality? Chill out dude
I really don't think a relationship is the endgame for him. Hookups, most likely, "spinning plates", as these types put it.
Nobody is this focused on 'dating' unless they suck at it, so it makes perfect sense it's his whole personality.
You realize this is his business right? He obviously has to make it his entire personality
It’s his job! As for other men who obsess over it, it’s like starving. If you have no food it’s all you’re going to think about until you get satisfied and then you can move on
just let a nigga be shit
When he was doing the segment where he was asking the woman about her job I naively thought that the criticism he was going for was that most of the questions he was asking were yes or no questions rather than open ended ones that can actually start a conversation and help you get to know someone...but no, the criticism was that he didn't make a joke about being a male stripper :/
no, you see, asking open ended questions would have been _good_ advice.
I thought that he might also give the tip that talking about yourself a little can open people up to talk about themselves because they feel less vulnerable when they know more about you but yeah no that wasn’t it either :(
also when he made the male stripper joke didn't he say he takes clothes off people? "you take money off people, I take clothes off people" or something like that? I don't think he's a very good stripper either
@@graciespaceycakes3714 reverse stripper
@@graciespaceycakes3714 He meant he takes other people's clothes off, yes, but he phrased it poorly so it sounds like he takes his own clothes off. Which is somewhat funnier, honestly.
“Take of the glasses take off the smile” do you think a girl would love a guy who look’s like hes ready to kill her? Or do you think she would go for a guy who’s nice and looks caring.
Thete is difference between being attractive in real life and being attractive in dating apps. In person personality matters but on dating apps looks are everything.
The guy looks nice if you met nice in person but on dating apps there is nothing particularly striking about him for girls to accept him on a dating app. Alex's advice was quite good when it comes to getting more Tinder matches.
@@randomhuman2595 So he should look like a generic macho man? I’d take the common goofball over the copy/pasted “alpha” male.
@@Hewasnumber1 You have to be "alpha" to successful on Tinder
@@randomhuman2595 No, you just have an awful personality and probably broadcast your misogyny. Which is repulsive
@@randomhuman2595 No, not really, I think you're overselling how attractive anyone thinks men like these are, I think the most love they've ever gotten is from other men with an equal amount of insecurity
Mugshots aren't attractive, demanding and entitled personalities aren't attractive, you might as well stop yourself from falling into that lie if you still have the chance
The guy who "smiled too much" seemed sweet!
My first thought was "hes cute, nice having a guy who can enjoy life"
Too the constant smilers: keep spreading your happiness! ♡
I would choose him over all those "alpha" anytime
you can tell that mf is bitter as hell by the fact he thinks smiling is bad thing
@@juliepepin3988 exactly
This is poor advice. Studies already proven that women are more drawn to men who don’t smile.
@@ilikepancakes2368 source?
The guy he tore to shreds for smiling too much is literally my type. Clean shaven, glasses, dog-lover, and generally a happy person. I feel sorry for this guy who thinks that a scary looking tiktoker is going to get him a date when he literally just needs to get off dating sites and find girls elsewhere that aren't looking for the stereotypical Alpha male with facial hair, bulky bodies, and brooding personalities.
The guy he made fun of looked adorable and kind. Like, who wouldn’t want to be in a relationship with someone like that?
Fr i wouldve given the guy with the glasses a chance while this dating coach would be blocked
@@offsewingdragons9142 most women seeing how he got no matches😂
It seems only ugly liberal women on the internet like guys like that.
The girls on the dating sites aren't even looking for "Alpha males". That's why they don't get matched.
9:41 “you wanna be persistent without being needy”
* immediately shows an example of the neediest text convo I’ve ever seen in my life *
with one of the worst openings ever, the phrase "ruin you" used like that makes me feel like physically gagging every time I hear it. Very few things you could say that would turn me off dating or hooking up with you faster than that. 🤢
@@emmao6578 ikr, the only thing “ruined” here are any of that guy’s chances of getting a date 😬
Needy would be those 4 text messages sent within minutes to hours after each other. Theyre literally spread out over a few weeks which is the difference
@@lanikinlywalker4596 Good point! Now that you mention it, needy isn’t quite the right word, so he’s right about it being persistent instead of needy. But sending the same thing over and over feels kinda stubborn and childish. It wouldn’t have been bad advice if he at least switched things up, known when to stop, and said something less weird than… whatever that was
@@axuwu6939 Who's to say he wasn't just trolling at that point. The reality is, online dating is a dumpster fire the majority of the time and men and women alike are toxic on those platforms.
I know this will be anecdotal but I wasn't getting any success with dates until I followed Alex's advice. I went from 0 dates in months of trying to dates consistently every week, so for me it's hard to argue against the results
Chad Chad putting a timer for her sponsor time is what heroes do
It's a chad move
He is the most awkward, unattractive, creepy dude. There’s no way he “picks up chicks”
Yeah, he looks like he has never had consensual sex or made a woman cum, ever.
Don't underestimate "chicks" lol!
@@IsaacLungu This is what happens when patriarchy has normalized the monsters it creates a la "beauty & the beast" that most wom3n were blind to all the Frankenstein m3n.
He is so terrifyingly repulsive.
He seems slow too..like he's mentally disabled. Men have such low intelligence in general due to all the violence they encounter from the patriarchal order they are subjugated under especially starting with circumcision as babies, they are more like blindly obedient rage monsters to patriarchal drivel.
I love how every single piece of advice he gives is bad, except for one piece of advice that is so obvious that literally everyone understands.
"if she doesn't drink A, offer her to drink B"
I still can't believe that these men don't realize women dont want a man they just met to suddenly grab them or sneak up on them. Like how hard is it to realize that every woman has things they like about men but number 1 is always "will not fucking murder me"
I would NEVER do that to a woman!!! But how do I get their attention though!
@@ralphwilsin I'm sorry man I don't have any answers I've never even tried getting laid
@@ralphwilsin thank u 🙏. As a certified woman; I would say to seek out those you have something in common with (like a hobby or political views idk) so they can become familiar with you. And personally, I am always attracted to people that have a nice style and carry themselves with confidence. I know it’s really basic advice but that’s what I would say without knowing anything about you personally haha
Yeah what's up with the ear grab out of nowhere? That's asking for getting your wrist broken.
@@ralphwilsin Honestly be nice and understanding. But yeah I would def agree with the confidence part, we like men who know who they are tho without being an ass. If that makes sense. Personally I'm super attracted to eye contact, so if you find someone attractive look AT them and try to find their EYES, then a soft smile. Not too long tho, we don't want to be creepy. If it doesn't work the first time, I'd say try one or two more times. If she smiles back I'd say you can approach her. The most important part tho is to check the vibe.
Not proud to say after a hard breakup I ended up in this pipeline of garbage and actually believed this dude for an uncomfortable amount of time before I actually healed and came to my senses. Glad I eventually ended up on the side of YT that calls ppl like this out
glad we got you back on the sane side of things! we've all been in dark places, and it can be a learning experience as long as you can look back from a distance later. hope you find a special someone soon if you haven't already~
good on you bro, happy you aren’t in that state of mind anymore
I see he followed his own advice on taking off the glasses.
My man is about 6 inches away from his phone when reading those texts
Honestly 💀 I thought he was trying to use speech to text Lmfao
Thank you this is what I said. Hes like The Community meme of Chang trying to read the tiny note but it's his phone.
Thank you, it reminded me of my dad trying to use his phone
That's too far away for me to read without my glasses even. With them I'll have my phone resting on the table or some shit.
Remember, you can’t smile in photos for dating apps like a soyboy. So instead, you have to look constipated to show how you’re on your sigma grindset.
Constantly flex every fiber in ur sad little body and that will get the girls
noooo stop lol why is this spot on
I got anxiety whenever he approached her. I've been with my partner for 13 years but it still bring me triggers when guys approach like he did. Like don't touch or get close without consent. He gives me the creeps.
The way he looks through her as he talks to her too, thinking only of how to get laid. I hate that so fucking much. Dead giveaway for why they're asking dumbass questions, regardless of if you touch you.
For me it was both videos where he whispered in her ear and when he touched her ear. I reflexively wanted to swat him away. Please no!
@user-bx4ti6ig3i How your partner approached you back then?
As someone who has dealt with and witnessed/intervened in a lot of these kinds of interactions (men leaning too close to say something right in your ear, approaching you from behind and asking for your number, moving too quickly and attempting to touch you/invade your space, etc.) I promise 9 times out of 10 this won’t be taken well. And unfortunately in one of these many instances, I was followed by a man who didn’t like that his awful and self-serving tactics didn’t work and I had to take out a self defense weapon and warn him not to follow me. Men who see these videos really do think it works and it actively puts women in very uncomfortable and potentially dangerous situations.
What type of self defense weapon was it? I’m thinking of getting one for myself but I don’t know what would be the best to buy and actually work in dissuading men from trying anything
@@humantoon I had a knife/switch blade that I held up very clearly for him to see. I also had raised my voice when I told him not to follow me, as we were in a busier part of town (at night, though, so it’s still good to be cautious) I can’t guarantee this would have worked if we weren’t within earshot of other people, but he seemed to immediately back off when I switched the blade out for him to see
@@humantoon I also carry pepper spray alongside the knife as a first resort! The knife was just what I had on hand at the time. Pepper spray will probably work better to keep someone from getting too close to you. Tasers also work well if you’re forced at close range with the assailant
@@humantoona little late but most of my friends who are more femme presenting carry pepper spray and they seem happy to have it just in case
"Throw away the glasses", he says mockingly, while holding the phone about 3 inches from his face because he clearly needs glasses himself, but is too "alpha" to wear them.
Good vision? Hell no, the alpha will provide me with sight far beyond your mortal contraptions.
Yet too beta to try contact lenses 😂
the fact that his chat was roasting him after the "passive aggressive" woman left is hilarious
"I think there's a reason that all of chat is saying you're being passive aggressive" Like yeah, the reason is that you intentionally cultivate an audience of dudes who are exactly like you
Also this dude's resting expression is "some nobleman's leering predatory failson in a medieval horror movie"
Debate him
@@gjjijji hellyea logic fight
I feel like he is the kind of person it is hard not to get annoyed with, if you are talking with them about a topic that you are informed about (women for example) because he is obviously ignorant about it.
It is like having a debate with a piece of toast, but the toast is trying to shame you and also saying that it knows more about humans than u because it's predecessor was eaten by one...
@@gjjijji he's brainless, can't
@@cookiesnomnom they are called somatic narcissists and larp as the cerebral variety sometimes like this guy
"you wanna be persistent and not needy, show no emotions really be stoic and dont give a fuck"
*texts 4 times days apart without answer the same creepy line over and over*
what a BEAST
I think his methods are extremely effective. Look how perfectly he shows the audience what not to do.
Start a comedy show. That way you’ll realise how unfunny you are 😐
Why is everyone fooling themselves? This shit works. That's why he teaches it.
@@ashwinkrishnanpc7555 nah man as a guy, like 90% of what he said was wrong of plain dumb. Hope he's guided in life
@@ashwinkrishnanpc7555 I think you just don't get any girls lol
yeah you're right. why don't you show us how it's done@@Luzgoishzre?
tell me did you lose your virginity to imaginary hentai characters
or a blow up doll?
her: could you explain it to me how am i being passive aggressive?
him *(an empath)* : i can just feel it
Watcha wanna bet that's his go-to response whenever someone politely disagrees with him? "You're being nice enough, but this conversation still feels confrontational and icky. Obviously this is your fault."
@@eyesofthecervino3366 so he gaslights women
@@onemore4567
I think it's more that he's so lacking in self-awareness his genuine responses are somewhat divorced from reality, but . . . I don't know. Maybe there's more overlap than we realize.
He was so pressed cuz she was calm and not yelling and cursing like the clueless 40 y.o man he is
8:48 this part of the tiktok actually infuriated me, because you’re asking them to strip everything about themselves, and become someone who they aren’t, just so they can get unholy with a woman
Exactly! Like fuck preferences I guess. Fuck expressing yourself the way that makes you feel confident and happy. I guess everyone needs to be carbon copies of each other.
And Jesus, the way the guy said “he needs to stop smiling so *damn* much in these photos” was so fucking bitter. Why is he getting so offended over a smile?
He really should just follow that advice himself about changing everything because that might help him become a decent human being at least
@@SaimDI I guess my question is, why would any man be interested in getting with a woman who does not like seeing him smile? If a woman thinks you are ugly or weak for being happy and joyful and kind, why are you willing to bend over backward to be something you're not just to stick your dick in her? That doesn't show a whole lot of self-respect, in my opinion
He is kinda a hypocrite too because he looks like if someone ran over a fucking mole rat with a skin suit
Imo I’d get dirty with the original for, of himself, I don’t like the “traditional masculine alpha men”
I got an ad before this by that one female dating coach and the first line was “Don’t be nice to women.” Ah yes. Thank you for that advice.
Ah did I’m mention that I’m gay too so I have no clue why RUclips thinks these adds are what I want.
Already been doing that 💯
No joke, this girl is my favorite RUclipsr now, because of all the sacrifices she has made for us. Thank you Chad Chad
@Emotional D what?
@@platypus2141 this is a spam bot, just report it :)
Chad Chad - Not the hero we need, but the hero we deserve.
@@appl3s0ft I think it's the other way around
I love how it's like playfully just ask "you're not a secret fatty are you?"
If someone asked me that I would definitely be like "I'm very obviously a open fatty"
Also I love how he's scripted for her to answer that finance is just the easiest job
Asking that is just negging. It's like saying "your nose isn't that big irl, is it?" like, if you wanna find out a girl's weight, just ask for a full body pic. Many people like "thicc chicks", it's not the 90s where all the clothes were made for an alien species which didn't have the ability to gain fat. By saying "you're not a fatty, are you" you're saying "I only have sex with girls who fit a stereotype most men tailor their preferences to so I can show you off as one of the girls I scored".
@@toxihex876 I mean, people do to have "types", so I'm not going to agree that not being into fatter people is bad or whatever (as long as you keep it to yourself and don't insult people about their body type), it's just personal preference. But you can generally tell someone's build just by looking at their face, so he likely already knows the answer. If he knows the answer, you can safely assume he's not really asking to get the answer.
The other thing here is that's an extraordinarily rude thing to ask, and even if there were a polite way to ask it, this ain't it, chief.
I'm buff but I'd say that too. What a gross thing to say
@@trianglemoebius filters and Photoshop ?
@@trianglemoebius It can be quite difficult to tell sometimes. If someone doesnt have body pics then one might assume theyre hiding something but they could also just not have any body pics (professional reasons or whatever). If shes offended and unmatches then she was either fat or she isnt someone youd vide with anyway
9:17 Smiling is a big turn off for me, I only like people who look constipated 😤
Ikr
I wonder how many times these people get pepper sprayed in a week
Not enough
I love how the newer version of 'a twinge of cringe' sounds like an old and wise woman trying to teach us about the horrible terrible horrors of this world
Isn’t different every video isn’t it?
@@Lex_brooke Chad Chad seems to record each video's title card individually, but she's saying it differently now than she was before. Previously she was styling it in a high pitched voice.
@@Lex_brooke oh is it different in every video? i just remember there being the really high pitched 'twinge of cringe' in older videos, but maybe im wrong
It's always a slightly different delivery but nothing prepared us for this
🤢
this is why i’ve always advised to young guys to never listen to the advice of a mid-30 year old “dating coach,” who’s longest relationship was probably half a year. the best type of people to learn about dating women is well… women! take advice from your friends, family, close-coworkers, etc. and literally see the difference in successfully getting more dates and longer/happier relationships when you’re not just a meat suit that only communicates with pick-up lines to hopefully get action, but a actual human with personality, hobbies, and having actual interest with your date as a person.
"women"...that's funny. Enjoy looking for your balls in her purse!
@@evolutiontail5697 LMAO WHO HURT YOU💀💀
@@pentagon4741 he prob is a fan of that coach
Why not? This is the way of the future! I see no problem!
Women aren’t magical light beings who always give perfect advice. They’re flawed human beings with perspectives limited by their life experiences, just like men.
If you want to sleep around as a straight man, the perspectives of other straight men who have slept around are going to give much more valuable insight than that of, say, a woman who married her highschool sweetheart.
There’s also the fact that women are all different and have varying preferences (also according to the time in their life and period cycle). What this man does well is cast a wide net and then hone in on the subset of women who like macho, domineering men. That’s why I think that Chad Chad’s suggestion that this guy couldn’t have got positive responses from his messages are wishful thinking, unfortunately. The fact that he would turn off most women immediately won’t prevent him from sleeping around as long as he successfully triples down on the ones who are receptive.
Okay wait 2:48 this is topical
Yesterday I, a 27yo woman was walking alone and a salesdude my age followed me and forced me into a convo. I was uncomfy but I tried to be really nice. He was asking questions like where I worked and where I lived where I refused to answer. At the end he said he wanted to keep in touch, I asked for his business card in hopes it'd be enough and never get back in touch but he insisted. I said I wasn't comfy giving out my number and he insisted for my insta. My insta is private so I gave it to him so I didn't have to accept.
He then says he doesn't want to speak business though and i'm visibly uncomfortable. He asked me to go for coffee and I said my boyfriend wouldn't like that. He starts laughing and says "Your boyfriend doesn't need to know"
I got out of the convo asap and then called my boyfriend from the grocery store bathroom crying telling him what happened and he offered to drive an hour over in middle of his stuff to come get me (ofc I got someone else to get me who was closer)
It was awful. Don't do this please.
people reading the comments get urself a man like she has
this comment shows both examples perfectly like it starts with what NOT to do and finally ends with what you SHOULD do, kudos to your bf👆🏽
I'm sorry that happened to you! It's really awful when you're trying to be polite and the other person keeps pushing your boundaries and being horrible and disrespectful. It's scary because you end up feeling cornered because none of the available options seem safe. I would've felt really unsafe in that situation. It's really predatory behavior. I'm glad there are people in your life who were able to give you support after that incident.
Had someone like that on the bus trying to get my snapchat insisting we could be "friends" by basically trapping me in the window seat and keep persisting despite me repeatedly turning him down and having headphones on (which SHOULD be the universal sign of "dont fucking talk to me"). How i had to resist the urge to shove him out of the seat and yell "fuck off". Seriously. Dont corner people and trap them in conversation with you.
There was another guy on the bus tho (separate occasion) who switched seat next to me and asked for my social media but was very polite, accepted it without any fuss when i said i wasnt comfortable giving it out to strangers, moved back to his seat when the conversation was over and stayed there until it was his stop. Be like this guy, not the former.
Ah see, I would have told him to piss off before I stain the pavement with whatever brain matter he has left, in his most likely empty skull. Ya gotta be direct with those idiots.
Great video, my relationship of 5 years ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, Really love her so much, i can’t stop thinking about her. I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated because i literally can't envision my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of her but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss her and just can’t stop thinking about her.
Your feelings are understandable, It's always difficult to let go of someone you love, i was in a similar situation when my wife of 12 years left me, i couldn't just let her go. I did all I could to get her back, I had to seek the help of a spiritual adviser who helped me bring her back.
@@bartholetbay412 Wow, how did you get a spiritual adviser, and how do i reach her?
@@Margart526 her name is MONICA ERLENE MORA, and she is a great spiritual adviser as well as a caster and healer
@@bartholetbay412 Thank you for this valuable information, I just looked her up online. impressive.
Spiritual Advisor? Bro this is a scam in my opinion. If it works for you great, but Honestly there is no way to get over heartbreak. You learn to live with the pain
& it diminishes over time.
God I'm so obsessed with Chad Chad, she's quickly becoming one of the best commentary channels on here. I love her humor and use of sketches. I hope she takes over the entirety of RUclips.
My only criticism of Chad Chad videos is that they are too damn short. I need more :D
@@cerberusxt7012 exactly!
I love that for her too cuz there isn't that many female commentary youtube channels thay are atleast known
I binge watched her whole channel, she's amazing
When I watch a video from a successful RUclipsr I like to go back to their first video and see where they came from. Usually it’s several years old and has a bunch of editing errors and they haven’t settled on a specific style of performing, which is absolutely understandable.
With Chad Chad I see the same thing but she only started a year ago! She’s progressed so much in such a small span of time and is already getting millions of views! I can only fathom what she’ll be like in 5 years time, how her style-which is already incredible-will have improved and elevated her content.
The amount of shock I was in every time he kept reaching for her face or just simple “no no” zones.
STOP 👏 LUNGING 👏 YOURSELF 👏 AT WOMEN 👏
Your claps made me laugh, I just imagine this guy pouncing on random women like a fucking Jaguar and you come in like “SWIPER NO SWIPING” and he’s like “awwww MAN” and leaves lmao
"I'm a male stripper. I take clothes off people."
... Uh....it's been a minute since I've been in a strip club, but last I was there the strippers weren't taking clothes off OTHER people......... Did that change? Is this a covid thing?
I think he was attempting to make a "FBI: Female Boob Inspector" type of joke, except his delivery is absolutely abysmal, so it ended up sounding like he just doesn't know what a stripper is.
Craziest thing is beta male who smiles too much and has to take off glasses is more attractive than the video guy I don't even mean personality I mean just from looks alone lol
I can't stand these cringey dating coaches their so full of themselves🤢, n they couldn't get a date if they were locked in a room full of thirsty ladies !😂, great video thanks!😜💜✌️
8:43 He’s literally telling this guy to LOOK LIKE HIM. That guy in the profile he’s roasting is SO DAMN CUTE HES PERFECT and this guy (who looks like he’d growl at me in a grocery store) is like NAH LOOK LIKE ME. I can’t right now
I know right! Like I’d swipe on him and his smile any day over some muscle dude bro who looks like they suffer from permanent constipation
“You look like you’d growl at me in a grocery store” is a new insult that I will be using LIBERALLY, thank you
i love that the most maidenless men are the ones doing dating coaching. literally always
💀
IKR?? It's so weird that straight single men is the one talking about what women want and how to get women. Honestly it's hard to believe that man who hat3s women actually have a logical reason outside of "I'm bitter that women don't date me" because I never seen a gay person who resents women as much as starlight men do
In the land of the blind, the one eyed man is king...
@@_Gandalf_The_White Thanks Gandalf.
This is actually something an old saying was partly referring to, it goes “Those who can do, those who can’t teach”. It’s not necessarily derogatory or meant to be negative, it’s just that a professor might be better at teaching architecture and engineering rather than building something like the Burj Khalifa skyscraper in Dubai…🤔😏😊
8:57 manliness is when you don't smile
And not wearing glasses 😔
Wait.. Is Patterrz a Chad Chad fan?
Manliness, apparently, is when you are miserable, and you make everyone around you miserable too. Yay.
Smiling is for women only
Pat!
That one guy with the hat and glasses seemed so cute and nice! Those were perfect photos for a dating app- I hope the guy doesn’t try changing them :/
Ikr. He was cute.
I hate when dudes like this try to say what's "hot" to women despite being far from it
With any luck, he'll never see this "dating coach" and won't be pressured to change anything
I love his advice for the guy who's "never going to get any dates", because I know for a fact that the guys who he would approve of, are the guys I would vomit in my mouth over. I'm exaggerating, obv, but I hate guys who are too serious. Massive turn off. Do not talk to me. Granted, online dating doesn't work for me period because everyone looks fake as shit, but that guy who was "smiling too much" and giving "massive nice guy vibes" would actually stand a chance. Unlike this guy, who's chance is so low, its negative somehow. In that, despite being a straight woman, I would rather date another woman then him.
I thought the guy he showed was a cute kid. I was like aww leave him alone!
Right? That guy looked cute and happy! In my opinion he was doing everything right, because those pics make him look like a happy, active, well adjusted person who has hobbies and a cute pet.
And I’ll never understand the argument against smiling. A guys smile has always been among the first things I notice (that and the eyes).
Besides what kind of sociopath doesn’t like a genuine smile? That guy looked like he was having fun, how is that bad or unmanly? In my opinion, it’s actually a very attractive thing, because, and I’m about to drop a HUGE secret here… humans generally want to be around people who seem fun! Who would have thought, right?
And, y’a know, women are humans. Honestly the whole dating coach industry would crumble if all men could wrap their minds around that simple fact.
I’m just gonna repeat what others already said but that guy is really handsome and also looks great in glasses lol, like what was this man even talking about getting rid of glasses and not smiling, the pictures were great
He looks genuinely happy in those pictures!
Yeah ngl that profile he showed was highkey super attractive to me. Guys who seem like geniunely nice and normal are hotter to me than any "alpha chad" could ever be lol
God, even his scripted interactions he exudes pure cringe and insecurity. Imagine how awkward and obnoxious this guy is in real life interactions.
Bro may just be a little awkward. Why are you shaming him for it?
@@ANUKO97 Because he is teaching others to be just as much of a scumbag as he is
🙄
@@THEREALLORDJ Nice user name 🤣🤣🤣🤣 Come to defend your idol?
@@dying2survive298 WHINING WILL GET YOU NOWHERE!!!
omg, A week or so ago a man approached me on the street and told me he had to stop me because apparently I'm just so beautiful wearing sweat pants and a hoodie and now I'm wondering if he got his awful pickup line from these fools. He must have been so confused when I rolled my eyes and said okay bye, before walking away. Scary thing was, I was on a path where you could walk either back or to the front and he walked back again! that guy seriously thought I would be flattered by him following me in a nearly empty pathway so he could interrupt me vibing to music.
this guy can't be the only one recommending that. the other day i had someone interrupt me on my way to the grocery store with earbuds in, he "just had to tell me" i looked cute or something but then tried to continue the conversation, find out my name--like, so the thing about just wanting to compliment me was clearly false. you have to wonder how many women they've done this to and how many have given their number or whatever. i have a guess.
@@davidsolimene5367 sweetheart, approaching and following are WAY different. The person who commented this, clearly WAS NOT interested in the guy's attention. If she had been, it would be okay. But she wasn't, so it wasn't approaching but following and that shit it scary
You're very pretentious.
I feel like someone told him in a sarcastic voice “you should totally give everyone relationship advice” and he took it seriously
7:55 the saddest and creepiest part of the video for me… the lack of empathy of this man is to the point of playing that comment « for jokes » because he genuinely cannot understand what she meant… thanks for the video chad chad, at least you made fun of him :’)
yeah... it's kinda disturbing
I know right, it went completely over his head. Like he has no idea. Dude seems like a sociopath
@@UnusAnnus3 FOUND THE INCEL!!!
It's really the creepiest thing-
Like imagine telling someone that you don't feel comfortable in a dimly lit, mostly empty area with someone you don't really know, and their response is "heheh, anyways!"
watch a guy called HG Tudor and what he said about the wannabe guru types, he is a somatic narcissist trying to be a cerebral type of one
he actually thinks male strippers “take clothes off people” so careful at those bachelorette parties ladies
How are y’all missing the joke. He’s a man that gets women to take their clothes off(supposedly) a male stripper
@@off6848 i like how the explanation of the joke makes even less sense than the actual 'joke'
@@clubafterlife how tho? He’s a male that strips clothes off women
@@off6848 1. His delivery was awful, which is why so many people don't get that he was attempting a joke.
2. The joke is akin to the "I'm an FBI agent: a Female Boob Inspector," except even that is more clever.
3. The joke doesn't make sense because male strippers exist, and they are exactly the same as female strippers, except they're male. So saying, "I'm a male stripper, I strip clothes off people" sounds nonsensical and stupid.
@@GoddoDoggo a play on words can be worth a chuckle the first time someone said FBI the other person likely laughed. Abusing it made it not funny
I'm ashamed of men who think they're "alpha" and disappointed that they exist. I don't think I've met any women who haven't had a negative (and often traumatic) experience with one of these a-holes. Love this channel btw.
I haven’t seen any of them that are single either.
6:35 that activated my fight or flight response. Do NOT do whatever this quick grab motion is to anybody whatsoever
Him: “ I’m not a big fan of drinking either”
His wall: You sure?
My fav part is "if she doesn't drink take her for a walk or bring her back for coffee or tea." Wat? You know cafés are a thing right?
*are you sure about that *
Ikr so many bottles the table is drunk
Alfabrain in action
@@SaintShion Because he doesn't care about tea or coffee, so going to a cafe to make a woman happy is too much effort. Awful.
I pity the women who are forced to interact with him 💀 honestly the tinder profile with the glasses, dog and no beard probably gets more matches than him cause he seems like a genuine and nice person
Yet he’s the one asking for him to rate his pfp 💀
@@ANUKO97 lack of self esteem doesn’t mean that you are a bad person
@@lovejunkie490 But it does mean the guy doesn’t get enough matches so he’s asking for advice
@@gvd72 and he gets really bad advice. I feel sorry for the men who listen to fresh and fit and shit like misogynist pick up artists, that know nothing about women and can’t find a good woman. Tinder is not a place where you will find a high value, quality partner anyway.
Yes I’m sure they are forced and have no own will.
Idk how telling a women she's being passive aggressive isn't the most snowflake triggered thing to say.
In those clips of him "debating" he sounds like a big baby and of course these debates are in his safe space of his youtube channel where most of the live comments support his arguments.
Honestly, judging by the thumbnail titles, he just wants to look like a galaxy brain alpha telling off the triggered feminist. It's pointless to engage with that nonsense. It should had left to rot back in 2016.
It's hilarious people still use unironically words like red pill, blue pill, triggered, SJWs, ect this day and age. It's so childish.
He was being pretty passive aggressive all by himself he almost started crying
It's been like 6 years since the stupid "triggered SJW compilation get owned by facts and logic!1!!" era and I can't believe some people never grew out of it. It's so cringy and embarassing it makes me die inside
We can't get upset or we're raging bitches. We can't be level headed or we're passive aggressive. I'm starting to think that MAYBE they just don't want to hear us talk. 🤔
Nothing gets me drier than hearing someone unironically use "SJW" or "Snowflake" in the present day. Most of the time they even act exactly like the people they hate, getting "triggered" over the smallest things. It's insane. And they say us women are emotional when these men constantly look like they're about to pop a blood vessel any moment now.
@@Fumbann i personally only search up mgtow cringe or incel cringe/niceguy cringe xD
The robotic dummy movement and lack of eye contact in this guy is so unnerving he is like an AI generated pick up artist
it’s so amazing to see a youtuber sharing about the struggles of being a chad… chad chad, your sacrifices do not go unseen on how hard it must be to have everybody constantly wanting to date you #JUSTICEFORCHADCHAD
#JUSTICEFORCHADCHAD
6:45 that was so hilarious. Seriously why did he grab her ear awkwardly like that 💀 is that man even capable of doing basic human interactions
It looks like he's trying to pet a cat on the ear
My man somehow found the only woman in the literal backrooms and still couldn't up his self awareness enough to come off as someone who isn't an actual serial killer
He is the mike monsters out to get her. That's how they lure you in, through language that sounds human and then they snatch you. This girl needs to leave quick.
“stop smiling so damn much” one of the reasons i deleted tinder was the amount of dead faced empty eyed selfies. it freaked me the fk out and makes them all look so scary god damn. like are you human? 😭
Smiling definitely made a difference for me on who I liked. Idk what this “coach” is on about
Yeah, that's definitely the reason
The fact that he uses incel terminology as a "dating coach" makes it even more hilarious
Hahaha so hilarious to make fun of incels that feel the need to improve their dating life… so funny!😂
Imagine following the dating tips of a guy that looks like his day job is playing a villager extra on a medieval show.
THE EXTRA VILLAGER I'M SHITTING TEARS 💀💀
💀 Literally
That peasant look lmao
Well I do. And I have more matches and dates than ever before. So thank you Alex PFW and F U chad chad
Doesn’t that make his advice more valid then, if he has deficient looks but still does well? Do you really think a very handsome man is in a position to give advice to average men. Think about it… kinda funny though
Thank you ChadChad for all your brave sacrifices to bring us these quality videos
He’s telling guys to do everything that people hate. I love you so much. I’m so glad I found you.
This is not how to get a woman
This is how to go to jail
I love these dating coaches, really reducing the supply of good men making the rest of us look so much better
Never thought of it that way cus I'm too busy trying to not be a total creep like these pickup artist dumpster fires lololol. But yes sir you are absolutely correct lol.
Except that it does the opposite by making us avoid the fuck out of all of y’all. 😂
Men like this dude ARE the danger in ‘stranger danger’, and keep us from ever wanting to talk to dudes in the wild.
@@soyborne.bornmadeandundone1342 if you genuinely take every single piece of advice from that guy to heart, BUT pretend it's Opposite Day... it might just work !
They make it so complicated. Have a life you like, get to know women because you like spending time with them, ask a woman on a date because you enjoy her company, not because you want something. The rest is a numbers game.
@@kkuudandere yeah, the only thing is they usually sprinkle a bit of truth in there which makes it seem a bit more reasonable at first glance
I thought this said “tiktok dating cockroaches need to be stopped”
As you can imagine, I am immensely disappointed to learn that this video was not, in fact, about cockroaches dating each other.
I feel like cockroaches have better advice than most dating coaches.
🤣🤣🤣🤣😭😭😭
No, turns out it's about dating cockroaches making staged text convos with themselves. It's a real shame.
Your first impression was pretty close though. It's about a human-sized cockroach giving the worst possible advise in the most condescending tone ever.
Calling this guy a cockroach is still rather accurate
I love these Alpha type videos. They are genuinely a public service because they keep teaching men how to completely telegraph that they are the kind of guy I don't want to meet. It's so helpful to have men out in the world teaching other men new and unique ways to get blocked. 😂
Same! It’s great comedy too 🍿🍿🍿😂😂
The awkwardness in the videos where he "acts out" his little fantasies is truly painful.
6:20 Gosh... why is he talking and leaning on the girl... dude you alright? you forgot how to stand? Shivers. Why his pose is always so awkward? I don't even think is shyness... It's like standing in front of a creature you don't know how to approach... ooooooohhh I got it!
Thank god I wasn't the only one to notice that, it looks so akward
I literally met my husband on tinder and the entire reason I swiped right on him was because of one of pictures in which he had a huge beautiful smile and glasses on. So. 😬
On tinder damn that’s an L
@@ANUKO97 not really if shes in love how else will it happen if women wanna be unapproachable?
@@ANUKO97 bro thats a w
@@nez365 those are the type you wouldn’t want to be with also. As a women who gets attention idk also being on dating apps just seems like you’re doing too much
This gives me more hope now, thank you.
i just find it hilarious and sad how obvious these dudes desperately try to hide the misery and emptiness of their lives. It's sadder how 15-20 year old children who watch them don't notice because they don't know what a depressed alcoholic gaze looks like.
Thisss 🎯💀💀😂😂😂💯💯💯
@LoRd hit a nerve eh? 😂😂😂🤡🍿🍿💀💀
@LORD J. OfDaAlphaKingz LOL truth hurts my brother in christ
18-20 year olds aren't children
He probably doesn't know he is depressed either, because feelings are for women
6:12 this whole conversation makes my skin crawl 😭 she’s an actor and still seems uncomfortable. The way he breaths in her face, talking like 4 inches away and keeps rocking back and fourth like a nervous child.
He just seems like he doesn’t have social skills and he’s masking it very poorly. Wtf is this body language
i had a roommate (only for like 3 days because the guy was such a terrible person) and i tried to take him out to show him the neighborhood and stuff and the guy was literally tryna pick up every single chick that walked past us. it was so embarrassing but thankfully that fool ended up getting kicked out because the guy was obviously psycho
It's like he does these quick motions to make the people he's trying to get with to think he's about to assault them or something to keep them on their toes. Why is he sneaking behind people in a narrow hallway?
shit like this makes me so glad I'm gay, like yeah women can be creepy but I've never met a girl who calls herself an alpha
The same way you wouldn't see someone irl call themselves alpha...? I don't think every male does it I don't same as female they don't we don't
@@LoopsXP I've run into actual men who call themselves alphas unironically
You’re gay cause you find men intimidating lmao
@@spicywaffle_ the industrial revolution and it's consequences: Andrew Tate fans
@@spicywaffle_ oh my gosh i am so so sorry.
i just realized i have a new crush and was feeling kinda self-conscious about my social skills but seeing this cheered me up. while also making me lose faith in humanity, but i'm trying to focus on the positives