Changing Asher's Name. A lot of people were angry. Clearing up some Misconceptions

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  • When we told everyone the reason why we would be changing Asher's name, we got a LOT of feedback. We answer some of your questions and explain in more detail our reasoning behind it. This should clear up some stuff with some people.
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Комментарии • 1 тыс.

  • @jessirae757
    @jessirae757 3 года назад +234

    Some people are so miserable in their own life they have to hate on a wonderfully happy and beautiful family.. love you guys. NEVER CHANGE PLEASE!!!!

  • @DominikaKnox
    @DominikaKnox 3 года назад +172

    I just don’t get why people think someone else’s kid’s name is their business! Asher’s name is only your family business and as long as you are happy with it, that’s it. I loved the name before, I love it now. Hope Cara will be better soon! ❤️

  • @lowcarbkitchen
    @lowcarbkitchen 3 года назад +69

    I swear some people have no other purpose in life but to judge, criticize, and tear others down. One reason I quit making videos. Glad you guys don't let it get to you.

    • @authorlydiagreen1862
      @authorlydiagreen1862 3 года назад +1

      True

    • @beans9499
      @beans9499 3 года назад

      RUclips is definitely not for the faint of heart the way people come at you so reckless.

  • @kimarnette9318
    @kimarnette9318 3 года назад +210

    Hi from Colorado. Whatever your children's names, they are so lucky to have such loving, awesome parents. Feel well soon, Cara. God bless.

  • @dameeralte_94
    @dameeralte_94 3 года назад +60

    How times flies.....i've joined the family right after the triplets were born....and now they are growing so healthy and cute....love Asher and Gemma too....my favorite YT channel. 💜💚💛💜💜

  • @janeschmidt9611
    @janeschmidt9611 3 года назад +80

    Wouldn’t it be a nicer world if everyone chose kindness? 🥰

  • @ginenice4185
    @ginenice4185 3 года назад +71

    People who send hate and discriminating comments are insecure and jealous, they don’t have a life. Glad you guys are learning to ignore those kinds of comments. I think you both are cool parents with beautiful childrens

    • @tamfur
      @tamfur 3 года назад

      I agree!

  • @trismama1290
    @trismama1290 3 года назад +44

    I literally know so many Ashers and no one to my knowledge has ever cared. As a practicing Christian I can assure you no Christian cares 😂 it’s a common name now

    • @mami11420
      @mami11420 3 года назад +3

      The name Asher isn’t the one they’re wanting to change tho, it’s his middle name they want to change as soon as they have one picked out.

    • @aalynnodell9809
      @aalynnodell9809 3 года назад

      They are the epitome of give me views for this topic. They chose the name. To change it is cowardly.

  • @deidreruth6673
    @deidreruth6673 3 года назад +51

    This is literally why I can’t have social media. I’m 34 and people think I’m crazy for deleting it all, but the mental aspect and judgment is waaaaay too much for me. And that was just from friends and family. Not complete strangers. You both are amazing. If I’m lucky to have children in this life I can only pray I’m half the parent you both are. 🤍 feel better Cara. 🙏🏼
    My hell, you both are literally showing the world it’s cool to be in love with your little family when we live in a time where it’s not common anymore. Hooooow could anyone hate on that? 😩

    • @dammar117
      @dammar117 3 года назад +1

      Good for you for deleting social media. I never had any. Now, I see what it's doing to the younger generation. It's so toxic.
      But I enjoy following this beautiful family.

    • @deidreruth6673
      @deidreruth6673 3 года назад

      @@dammar117 ♥️♥️ thank you. I know, it’s hard. I think social media can be such a positive thing, but humans seem to not play as nice on the internet as we can see. Definitely grateful I’m old enough that it didn’t exist while I was in high school. I wouldn’t have survived.

    • @LaurenVR.
      @LaurenVR. 3 года назад +4

      I deleted every one of my social media accounts when I was 23(I’m 27 now) people my age and all my family didn’t get why a someone young in their early 20’s wouldn’t have it but they just didn’t understand how toxic of an environment it was and how draining it can be for a young woman to seem like she has to live up to certain expectations. It has its reasons for being good as well don’t get me wrong but it was honestly the best decision I could’ve made for myself at the time!

    • @abialabama
      @abialabama 3 года назад

      Really good comment. I also am
      not on social media and people are always taken aback; I just don’t want to deal with it and I know how badly it would affect me. I was on FB briefly nearly twenty years ago (I’m 40!), and after a short while realised what it was gonna be like and I just had to get outta there…. Huge kudos to this gorgeous family for giving us so much joy and handling the downsides so gracefully. X x big love

    • @dammar117
      @dammar117 3 года назад

      @Rachael Nelson Not sure I understand. Do you mean that because I'm on RUclips? Sure, RUclips counts in the definition of social media, but I watch selected videos and make very few comments. I don't engage in the frenzy. Most other social media don't allow that.

  • @emerald637
    @emerald637 3 года назад +68

    Asher is one of the most beautiful babies I have ever seen. In my opinion, he appears to resemble his older sister Reese, more and more especially, in his profile. God bless you, baby Asher.

    • @juliajohnson5276
      @juliajohnson5276 3 года назад +1

      I think Asher is a carbon of Darik’s father, but going to be much bigger....love his big, blue eyes.

    • @priyankeebhuyan215
      @priyankeebhuyan215 3 года назад

      Rightly said, he resembles Reese the most, though i occasionally see glimpses of both Gemma and Wren in him..Adorable boy he is😘

    • @shereeirish6682
      @shereeirish6682 3 года назад

      Such a cutie, biggest smiles ever!

  • @joterry123
    @joterry123 3 года назад +176

    Ignore the negative nellies , people are just jealous because you’re getting it right ! Xxxxxx 💖💕🌸💖💕🌸💖💕🌸💖💕🌸

    • @letitbe7108
      @letitbe7108 3 года назад +8

      100% agree and almost guarantee the loudest are the biggest losers who have no right to judge others

    • @ctgctg1
      @ctgctg1 3 года назад +3

      I agree. Life is already tough enough without attacking people.

    • @nelliebly6616
      @nelliebly6616 3 года назад

      Do You meen Nellie Olson? Nellie Bly was af great journalist travelling around the world🤗

    • @sueheck-dibble6131
      @sueheck-dibble6131 3 года назад

      Exactly!! Well said Jo!! 💖💞😇💐

  • @ellelorraine3540
    @ellelorraine3540 3 года назад +5

    A) I'm glad you're changing Asher's name because of how Cara feels.
    B) I'm super glad your viewer reached out to you and her husband, the Rabbi, made it clear you were not doing anything wrong.
    C) God bless you and your family. You are doing a great job!! I love your channel.❤🙏👶✌

  • @debbiekingston5166
    @debbiekingston5166 3 года назад +82

    I am so angry that people think it is alright to pass judgement on anyone’s life choices. Feel better Cara. Darik hang in there your a wonderful person so is Cara who wear many hats. I admire and love you both.❤️

  • @milkienay
    @milkienay 3 года назад +8

    Guys, for me you are role models. I wish I could be such a good parent and kind human being. I have been watching your channel a while and you are always so strong, and so united. It's heart warming.

  • @vanessavanderkramer6588
    @vanessavanderkramer6588 3 года назад +13

    Hi Cara, I feel for you getting recurring mastitis. I’m a mum of four and have experienced mastitis and did much as you are doing. The only thing which seemed to prevent it for me was totally emptying each breast every feed. I learned to really appreciate pumping. It’s sad that you sometimes get negative messages as you are such a really lovely family. Don’t change! Xxxxxx

  • @carolehankinson4969
    @carolehankinson4969 3 года назад +93

    You do NOT have the worst names for your children, they are beautiful names, don't listen to nay-sayer's. People like that project their sadness on other people. You all are beautiful people. ❤️🥰❤️🥰❤️🥰❤️🥰

  • @suedoyle4526
    @suedoyle4526 3 года назад +14

    I’m Irish and seeing his mammy has a beautiful Irish name (Cara) meaning friend, Asher Rían, (pronounced Ree en) might be an option meaning little king 💙
    First time watching your channel, your kids are absolutely beautiful with gorgeous names ❤️

    • @CannabrannaLammer
      @CannabrannaLammer 3 года назад +2

      I'm Irish too and my daughter is Ríonach Marie after our Blessed Mother the Queen of heaven and earth 💖

    • @suedoyle4526
      @suedoyle4526 3 года назад +1

      @@CannabrannaLammer Beautiful name 💕

  • @suefrantom6355
    @suefrantom6355 3 года назад +1

    Daddy D , Asher looks a lot like your dad, awesome. Don’t change you’re family are a wonderful ray of sunshine. 🥰🇬🇧🥰

  • @rebeccaivester3996
    @rebeccaivester3996 3 года назад +39

    Wren just wouldnt be Wren without all those bruises!😁

    • @nancycolbert2703
      @nancycolbert2703 3 года назад +1

      I wonder if she has a vision or balance problem?

    • @rebeccaivester3996
      @rebeccaivester3996 3 года назад +2

      @@nancycolbert2703 Probably not. She's just all over the place and has no fear!

    • @kaitert
      @kaitert 3 года назад

      @@rebeccaivester3996 my son was and still is the same way as Wren. He has no fear and sometimes it’s amazing and sometimes it’s terrifying!

    • @samg873
      @samg873 3 года назад

      @@nancycolbert2703 no. Some people are just so active it happens

    • @carolannelunan8331
      @carolannelunan8331 3 года назад

      Forgot to say I hope you get better quickly! Asher is doing so well with your milk. Glad you found a quick way to heal and Darik could give you a chance to rest while you heal. Loved the Pia story ... I got very distracted with that blue nail. I also overtalk and always feel bad when I do it. Glad you just roll with it!

  • @sandyb2391
    @sandyb2391 3 года назад +16

    mom and dad love their kids and their kids love their mom and dad. that's what counts love love love your videos and how happy life is. yes ignore the negative. you will always have positive and unfortunately negative. some people judge others for what ever reason but are not entitled too. social media makes that happen. keep loving.

  • @bunnynut
    @bunnynut 3 года назад +4

    I love the smiles on all your children! Anyone watching can tell they are all happy!

  • @ronnie-lynn
    @ronnie-lynn 3 года назад +11

    I don’t have a middle name. I say if you can’t find one you love, let him just be Asher 😊

    • @kita3256
      @kita3256 3 года назад

      No. If his siblings have middle names and he doesn’t it will be just weird. My siblings have middle names except me. Very weird.

  • @juliedoherty6894
    @juliedoherty6894 3 года назад +33

    It’s very Irish to talk over each other. Especially when telling a story. So just say you’re part Irish 😉 🇮🇪😂

    • @katiewise4737
      @katiewise4737 3 года назад +1

      Wow my entire life makes sense now

  • @annmurray2832
    @annmurray2832 3 года назад +2

    Kentucky here! GOD NAMED ALL MY KIDS!seriously they've all lived up to them ,So prayfully approach and hear what the Spirit of God says!What a witness that would be ,for him and you,to God be the Glory

  • @sharonpendleton6549
    @sharonpendleton6549 3 года назад +14

    Do not give up your right to name your baby, I’ve never heard of such a thing,it’s people like that who are trying to change the world to their liking! This is why we’re having problems in this world, everybody trying to put their beliefs on everyone else. If he is built anything like his dad,y’all won’t have to worry about anybody messing with him,he will hold his own. Please ignore these yahoos, they need to not voice their opinion if it’s negative, Y’all know who you are, so change for anyone!

  • @lavanyasundaram3086
    @lavanyasundaram3086 3 года назад +1

    Royal pushing Wren on the chair is just the cutesttttttt. Bless your family

  • @gmamose9152
    @gmamose9152 3 года назад +5

    First time here, also. Thank God for husband's like this who take up where Mom needs it, plus handling the whole breast info like a champ. My ex couldn't have cared less. Asher was the name you chose, and I believe there is a reason why we choose the names we choose, and no, it shouldn't be changed.

  • @UrMcLovinIt
    @UrMcLovinIt 2 года назад

    I think y’all are a beautiful family and whatever name you decide on will be perfect. Keep doing what your doing. You put so many smiles on people’s faces!!

  • @laurahackett7045
    @laurahackett7045 3 года назад +11

    When we were deciding on names for our oldest daughter we were going to name her Amelia and someone told me about the medical term Amelia. Like you said, it put a bad taste in my mouth and we ended up naming her Juliana instead. We've gotten a lot of comments about our youngest daughter's name. It's Magnolia (Maggie for short). It's different from our older daughters' more traditional names but it has sentimental meaning to us. I just wish people would mind their own business.

    • @XOChristianaNicole
      @XOChristianaNicole 3 года назад

      My pain management doctor, named his new daughter Flora.
      At first, I thought it was a bit odd - him being a doctor; obviously aware, of what “gut flora” is.
      Though, perhaps it’s such a beneficial thing, for the human body to function - that’s why him and his wife, chose it? Lol

  • @abby-vq1xv
    @abby-vq1xv 3 года назад +40

    so sorry for all the hate you guys are getting. The judgement from complete strangers online is crazy. love you guys and your fam🤍

    • @taciehutchins111
      @taciehutchins111 3 года назад

      Don't do it! Your children's names are beautiful and seem to fit them so well. They are YOUR babies and it is your decision. You are precious parents and your children are proof of that. So blessed, I wish you a happy, wonderful life and thank you for sharing it.

  • @Ann-xj6qy
    @Ann-xj6qy 3 года назад +4

    Feel better soon Cara. People have no right to pass judgment on other people’s choices. Darik you’re a great husband and Dada. 💜

  • @nevermind19700
    @nevermind19700 3 года назад +7

    Poor Cara , when I had mastitis the doctor who was a naturopath, and MD. recommended 15min of sunlight ( to dry out areola ) twice a day . So find a room with direct sunlight ( where you can open the window ) and air out your breasts. I guarantee this will work. You can also buy the heat lamps but natural sunlight is best. Please try , it also prevents mastitis. Good luck, and feel better. 🙏

  • @mirelilovehordiner9920
    @mirelilovehordiner9920 3 года назад +20

    I am Jewish orthodox and personally I think the people that are giving you negativity, are just not happy with there family’s. You guys are amazing keep doing what you are doing!!! Love you guys

  • @patriotsgirl1112
    @patriotsgirl1112 3 года назад +5

    With this new intro song, I somehow find myself doing a little dance to it everytime 😂😂. It’s annoying how much y’all have to explain it, y’all are such sweet people and it stinks that y’all gotta go through this. Its like in this world you just can’t win, people complain about everything lol. Always stay positive and do what is best for your family and what you want. ♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️

  • @teresareed8985
    @teresareed8985 3 года назад +19

    Please, please don't worry about what people say, I love his name ,he has the name that you and your husband choose for him ,please don't change his name 💕

  • @katiek4249
    @katiek4249 3 года назад

    I just want to say BRAVO to both of you!!! This is YOUR baby and it is Totally YOUR business what you choose to name your baby!! I applaud you for being forthright in sharing those things that are happening in your life but like you are doing ~ discard all negative and ugly spirits that 'try' to attack you....
    Both of you are strong in spirit and have to be by putting things out there that many would like to attack you for! Hey, I am one of 14 children my mother had (#12 down the line),,,,, She wanted my name to be Kaye, but she could NOT think of a name that she liked that went with that name. The day she was going home the "Nurse" came in and said to my mom, "Cora did you think of another name to go with Kaye" and she said, no I couldn't, well the Nurse said, "You know Cora 'Rhonda' is a pretty name", and at that my name was Rhonda Kaye, I'm 73 now and have always loved Rhonda as my name~ though she never called me Rhonda or even one of my siblings, I have always been known outside the family as Rhonda (a name of which I absolutely LOVE),,,,,,
    Just focus on the "Good & Positive Spiritual Vibrations" that came through to you, and I'll be praying for you.
    The Bible tells us: "There is Life or Death in the tongue",,,,, Speak LIFE always even to your enemies!

  • @hollyncamille6300
    @hollyncamille6300 3 года назад +7

    I think Cara and you have done such a great job with choosing your kids name I think they are all beautiful

  • @Djhikes63
    @Djhikes63 3 года назад

    Y'all are beautiful people. Your children are fabulous. Y'all do whatever you feel is right. No one else's opinion matters. We respect and admire you both.

  • @susanrnbc
    @susanrnbc 3 года назад +46

    Good grief! It is YOUR baby, YOUR choice to do what you feel is best with his name! And I love your kids names! (Gemma might be my favorite name!) And get better soon, Cara! Sorry you’ve been so miserable!

  • @EhG93
    @EhG93 3 года назад +1

    Bless your feed with positivity ❤️
    I havnt been frequently watching your videos in the last year but I have been with you from the beginning! Do what feels right, follow your heart and own it!! Xoxo

  • @conniebarnes7987
    @conniebarnes7987 3 года назад +4

    You guys are a wonderful family, good father and mother. 🙏❤️

  • @lace1245
    @lace1245 3 года назад +4

    If you’re changing it, Asher Cole would be a cute combination and isn’t that huge of a change 💙

  • @beverlysboutique
    @beverlysboutique 3 года назад +10

    I love when babies are learning to talk and get LOUD!! LOL So much fun.

  • @marinemom351
    @marinemom351 3 года назад

    I used to get mastitis a lot. I did antibiotics and that became an issue. Eventually my doctor told me to change the baby’s position a lot while nursing and never nurse while lying down. I loved snuggling my baby in bed and nursing first thing in the morning but had to give that up. It did help though. I was very careful to make sure he drained every duct and I nursed him a long time. I wish I knew about the garlic option.

  • @yvette1379
    @yvette1379 3 года назад +4

    Hi from New Zealand! For what it’s worth I had to share an age old remedy for mastitis used successfully many moons ago when having my family was putting a chilled cabbage leaf in bra. Extremely soothing for symptom relief and draws out toxins. Might sound strange but believe me it was tried and tested many times over. All the best Cara, rest up!

    • @embro2.0
      @embro2.0 3 года назад +1

      I’ve heard of this!

    • @quincystucki
      @quincystucki 3 года назад

      Cabbage leaves also are used to dry up your milk…?

  • @TheDoconnor1266
    @TheDoconnor1266 3 года назад

    Don’t worry about what people say. Its your kids. Your baby. Cara I hope you feel better with the mastitis. I had it several times too. What helped me was taking showers and massaging my breast in the shower to break up anything clogged up frequently. It happens when they are pinching and not eating properly. Is he nursing a lot?
    Btw there are garlic capsules you can pick up at Whole Foods or Sprouts if you have one near you. Amazon has them online also. Praying for you guys!

  • @sondrasmith50
    @sondrasmith50 3 года назад +8

    How about Asher Cole? It’s one syllable and anything monogrammed will still be good. Also, Derek can still call him Asher Co. 😂

    • @corpselizzy
      @corpselizzy 3 года назад

      Or you couldve said don't change it

    • @sondrasmith50
      @sondrasmith50 3 года назад

      @@corpselizzy Cara wants his name changed. She just said she was changing it no matter what anyone thought.

  • @pamarabenton2329
    @pamarabenton2329 3 года назад +1

    I love seeing your family. Darik, and Cara, you are both great parenting roll models. Glad you both have thick skin.

  • @Kelly-qf8cf
    @Kelly-qf8cf 3 года назад +8

    Giving name is parent's right, no one else should give any negative comment. Pray for Cara to feel better.

  • @bellaleu7782
    @bellaleu7782 3 года назад +2

    The Chatwin’s are such a beautiful family inside and out ❤️
    Why are people heartless? Is it envy, jealousy? Or just miserable in their own lives? My husband says I can find the good even in bad situations, so I’ll do my best: It must be difficult to read unnecessary, negative comments full well knowing they wouldn’t be nervy enough to say in person. Yes, easier said than done to ignore it. I have no idea how YT algorithms work, but if they’re commenting, they’re watching the videos which hopefully helps in the long run.
    Sorry it doesn’t take away the sting but please know & remember, the vast majority LOVE YOUR FAMILY! Continued Blessings, Belinda
    (Asher BAY Chatwin 😉)

  • @clarelockwood6018
    @clarelockwood6018 3 года назад +13

    How about Ray! ? Asher Ray Chatwin. A Ray of sunshine. Love you guys!

    • @et8603
      @et8603 3 года назад

      ARC are cool initials

  • @MLBlaque
    @MLBlaque 3 года назад

    I take garlic supplements as an antibiotic. I take turmeric with ginger every day. I have for over 20 yrs and I haven't even had a cold in 20 yrs. No joke! I put my garlic gel cap supplements in my freezer so there's no after taste or any of that. Mastitis is the worst! Moist heat really does help! Love you guys! If every child had parents like you two, this world would be such a beautiful place!!!

  • @BAFarls
    @BAFarls 3 года назад +12

    I have been thinking give Asher Hunter. Tradition to Darik. All boys in your home have same middle name. BTW I don’t think you should change Ashers name. But if you change it or not change it. It’s none of our business. The missing Pia story is so funny. Ha, “go to bed” hilarious.🤣🤣🤣🤣 Love your new intro. As Cara says “you do you” . Thanks for sharing. Have a great weekend. Asher votes. You invited.
    I still say keep original. It weird to rewrite a birth certificate. . But none of our business. And if you change it. Fun to rhyme or mimic Derik’s first name. And name him Asher Erik. Or honor Royal and Derik by all your boys have same middle name. Derik Hunter, Royal Hunter, and Asher Hunter. But bottom line “you do you” as Cara says.❤️

    • @samg873
      @samg873 3 года назад

      That's royal's middle name

    • @BAFarls
      @BAFarls 3 года назад

      @@samg873 YES I’ve seen famiky matching middle names. Since Darij and Dylan have Hunter as middle names ( I think???) why can’t Royal, Dario AND Asher have matching middle names. It’s really none of our business. It’s really honorable to have his two boys match him. I see it’s a no or able noble to match their Dad. Look at it as an honor. I think the Grandpa Chatwin also has Hunter. I think but I’m not sure. If Grandpa chatwin and Dario and royal and Asher same middle name it’s family honor.. I’m just explaining my reasoning it’s like Cara says “you do you”. But they opened up for suggestions.❤️ Really I first think it’s weird changing birth vitrification it’s legal document. It’s really big deal to change.. but it’s possible to do. It’s m kind of excited for the announcement. Remember it was “us” the Chatham who suggested Wren’s name. So this is great anticipation.

    • @samg873
      @samg873 3 года назад +1

      @@BAFarls true. Just never heard of all boys having same middle name

    • @dammar117
      @dammar117 3 года назад +1

      @Barbara Farley. This is a great idea.

    • @BAFarls
      @BAFarls 3 года назад

      @Rachael Nelson I agree because changing a birth certificate is actually a legal document. It’s kind of a pain in neck a real hassle legal steps to do.

  • @carliebess1400
    @carliebess1400 3 года назад

    Mix the minced garlic with a spoonful of honey and take it that way! I do this a few times a week just for health prevention. My 11-year-old does it too! Sometimes we will put turmeric in there just for added anti-inflammatory.

  • @amya9597
    @amya9597 3 года назад +9

    I think parents pick a name that they like. Period. Why research the name, if you like it, go for it! 💕

  • @jonesblorraine
    @jonesblorraine 3 года назад

    I cannot believe that some people can never happy unless they are making others unhappy, please take no notice, they are your children you do you. Your family look happy and the children are lucky to have you both has parents. Take care much love from the uk. Xxxxxx

  • @maciestokes878
    @maciestokes878 3 года назад +6

    all of Reese's faces during tumbling class were just the cutest thing ever.

  • @kimberlykennedy4247
    @kimberlykennedy4247 3 года назад

    Y'all are the parents, its your right as said parent to choose the name you think is best for your child! People need to stop the hate, and find something constructive to do with their time.

  • @minahilkhokhar6922
    @minahilkhokhar6922 3 года назад +4

    M sorry but u do what makes u happy and what satisfies u 🥺🥺

  • @caseyhoschouer7153
    @caseyhoschouer7153 3 года назад +1

    At the end of your video, Darik held Asher up to the camera and his eyes are an amazingly beautiful blue! So, I was thinking about a middle name and I just said "Asher Blue. Asher Blue Chatwin. His initials would be A.B.C!" I love it! Little Asher B.! Love your videos, your kids, and your family!

  • @rbjensen76
    @rbjensen76 3 года назад +4

    Have you thought about naming him Asher Darik? Then both boys would have dads name. Love you guys!

  • @teschchr122
    @teschchr122 3 года назад +1

    First timer to your channel. I can’t believe anyone would disparage such a healthy, beautiful family. I think the kids names are wonderful ( fun fact, I was adopted and had my name changed very late from Georgia to Christine, middle names changed too!) but you do you. You guys are great, use your judgement and do what all parents do: your best! Much love.

  • @Mycaii
    @Mycaii 3 года назад +35

    Those people don’t represent the Jewish community, as an Israeli Jewish I think that what those people have said is horrible!!!
    Love you’ll from Israel 🇮🇱❤️

    • @nima8128
      @nima8128 3 года назад +15

      @Atiye Pirbudak please don’t bring politics into this….

    • @shekinahzion5500
      @shekinahzion5500 3 года назад +2

      @Atiye Pirbudak nope, Israel !

    • @DMomsFan1
      @DMomsFan1 3 года назад +1

      @@brookem.5359 sorry not believing in injustice and inhumane conditions is childish …?? Its not political its HUMAN RIGHTS

    • @brookem.5359
      @brookem.5359 3 года назад

      @@DMomsFan1 chill out lady I wasnt talking about Michals comment.

  • @darleneoshea8431
    @darleneoshea8431 3 года назад

    You are an ADORABLE Couple, with ADORABLE, BEAUTIFUL kids. All happy, lovable kids. You all should be so PROUD. It’s a lot of work raising 5 little Happy, Beautiful Munchkins💖💖💖💙💙

  • @Tomsgirl88
    @Tomsgirl88 3 года назад +6

    Don’t go down to anyone’s level make them rise up to yours was a saying left by my daddy nice to see it in action in a world where you can be anything be kind

  • @stephaniebarrett6921
    @stephaniebarrett6921 3 года назад

    Please do what you want to do with his name. What matters most is all your kiddos have love! And that you all are happy!! Please just take care of yourselves. What a beautiful family!🌻

  • @bethaniekenworthy3179
    @bethaniekenworthy3179 3 года назад +5

    I am saddened every single day by people being nasty to others. You are a lovely couple, fantastic parents and you are so loving to everyone.
    My opinion probably doesn't matter but I think your children and their names are beautiful.
    Please shrug off the hate, and dont let it upset you.
    Sending your whole family hugs ❤

  • @cynthiaesquivel274
    @cynthiaesquivel274 3 года назад

    You can use garlic for tooth infection or ear infection also. Works so fast...

  • @vickie9633
    @vickie9633 3 года назад +4

    Don’t know if you got my recommendations Ashers middle name - they are Lane or Alden! I love them both! I really love watching your videos! Your children are so precious - I adore all of you! Thank you for sharing so much of your family!

  • @danamama6766
    @danamama6766 3 года назад

    Cara that is wonderful you are eating fresh garlic to help the mastitis. It really is a miracle food. I have used it for years and especially pump it up when huge virus bugs floating around....one trick I do if taking a largish amount. I put it into a spoonful of something that I like and creamy based and it really helps when I swallow that spoonful to dull the burn. I use good quality homemade type salad dressings even caesar sometimes but my favorite homestyle ranch. Or cottage cheese if on hand. If you do not like cream based even a spoonful of Salsa would really help. Done that too. Many options. And if you are really wanting to change his middle name it is perfectly fine and no ones business. I was shocked anyone even said all the things that were said. I am sure it will not be the first time in history that someone decided to change a babies name. And people even change their names when they are adults sometimes as well. hugs

  • @liyawillow
    @liyawillow 3 года назад +22

    The Jewish community shouldn't put down a family for liking name from their culture. When half of Western names used are literally of Jewish origin. So should we damn every non New for using so many Jewish first names. It's just a name. Be kind to others. Think beyond yourselves and your culture. Life is much more bigger, beautiful than you are aware.

    • @samg873
      @samg873 3 года назад

      I love the name Damien. It's associated with Satan. I'm not a Satan worshipper. People will find offense in anything

    • @heather4180
      @heather4180 3 года назад

      @@samg873 you are so spot on. My sons name is, Trever. People still, 19yrs later, get angry because of the spelling. People have way too much time on their hands.

    • @samg873
      @samg873 3 года назад +1

      @@heather4180 way you spell it is more like how it's pronounced

  • @elizabethoniel5706
    @elizabethoniel5706 3 года назад

    If you didn't see my suggestion from last time, it's Beau, which is keeping the short middle name that you like so much!

  • @trish2256
    @trish2256 3 года назад +39

    Such a happy family. Cant understand why people are so nasty. Keep playing the new intro song. Just love it. I play it over and over. Love you guys

  • @tinatalks
    @tinatalks 3 года назад

    I love you guys!!! You are incredible and always stay true to yourselves. God bless you Cara with all your problems with mastitis! You are such a warrior! Keep your lights shining, it’s such a lift in this world of ours today! ❤️ from TINA in Bradenton, Fl!

  • @DandyBeingTandi
    @DandyBeingTandi 3 года назад +7

    I run a blog on Holocaust Education, and I did poll in a private group on this topic. Surprisingly, 79% voted that Cohen bothered them. However, 99% said they would never comment on it or give hate towards a non-Jewish family that named their child Cohen. I think as long as you are both happy with his final name, that is all that matters! ❤️

  • @shyanfunny1596
    @shyanfunny1596 3 года назад

    Derik you are a great guy and father I think you should show your piano skills more‼️ Cara feel better soon You are a great mom and business woman I’ve been here almost from the beginning and I’m still here‼️‼️🇺🇸💙💖💗💕💕💙💞

  • @ossier2796
    @ossier2796 3 года назад +5

    Ignore ignorant people. They don’t know you so what they say doesn’t matter. Their names are beautiful and different take it from a person with a different name.

  • @reneeritchie-gazarkiewicz9644
    @reneeritchie-gazarkiewicz9644 3 года назад

    Cabbage leaves help sooth & calm breast infections. If your weaning they also help while drying up. It sounds funny but line your bra cups with them. I did this, 2 of my sisters, one of my daughter in-laws did it, & so did my daughter.
    But prayers & hugs that your infection clears up & doesn't come back.
    🙏🙏❤

  • @luciekatcher8666
    @luciekatcher8666 3 года назад +22

    Leave his name as it is please don’t give in to the haters they are just jealous of your beautiful family

  • @lindalowhigh2928
    @lindalowhigh2928 3 года назад

    what ever you name or rename your child is your decision, your choice. i think alot of people just thought you were being attacked , and got upset and angry, and were trying in there own way to stick up for you and your family. i heard you say in the last video about this . that you were thinking about changing his name any ways. any ways God bless the people who think they have to stick up for you !!!! even though they dont have to. what ever you choose to name or rename your child is your choice. GOD BLESS YOU AND YOUR FAMILY !!!!! LOVE WATCHING YOUR CHANNEL and WATCHING YOUR CHILDREN GROW, DID YOU DECIDE ON A MIDDLE NAME YET ? cant wait to hear , no matter what it is. LOVE YOU GUYS !!!!! xo xo xo

  • @tinahills3697
    @tinahills3697 3 года назад +15

    Cohen is actually orginates from Ireland spelt Cohan and the Hebrew spelling is Cohen. He does suit the name Asher Cohen but if yoy don't want to use the spelling of Cohen change the spelling to Cohan.

    • @tinahills3697
      @tinahills3697 3 года назад +2

      @Rachael Nelson Wrong Rachel Cohen orginates from the Irish. Cohan is a surname of Irish origins. It is a variant of Cohane, which itself is an Anglicized form of the Irish Ó Cadhain. Cohan is also a variant spelling of the Hebrew surname Cohen. This version of that name is commonly found among Jews in France

  • @sandrahughes5178
    @sandrahughes5178 3 года назад +1

    Nobody can tell you what you should name your children their names are original and makes them individuals in their own right, you are the loveliest family I have followed, Asher is more than ever like his Grandfather sweet family , all the live from England x

  • @mindyaston7379
    @mindyaston7379 3 года назад +3

    Reese really is a whole mood 🤣🤣

  • @WantToGoHomeSoon
    @WantToGoHomeSoon 3 года назад +1

    Prayer. Prayer will help. God can do Anything. Believe girl!❤ we love y'all!!!

  • @sammyocallaghan1999
    @sammyocallaghan1999 3 года назад +6

    I love all your kids names
    Gemma
    Reese
    Royal
    Wren
    Asher

  • @karenphillips6801
    @karenphillips6801 3 года назад

    I think your children have unique names. Your great parents and it shows how happy they are.

  • @jenninehaas3995
    @jenninehaas3995 3 года назад +8

    Awe poor pia!! She's so tiny I would definitely be keeping her on a leash!! Every time I see her walking around I have the worst anxiety!!! Love u guys!!!🥰

  • @GramaB5
    @GramaB5 3 года назад

    I am a fan of Blake, it's also my son's name! So to avoid the ex issue ya mentioned, use Lake instead! Another natural antibiotic that I swear by; manuka honey & turmeric, with a dash of black pepper. Manuka honey is exceptive but worth it!! Love all ya'll, take care!!

  • @Amw507
    @Amw507 3 года назад +9

    I know it sounds weird but cabbage leaves. I would put them in the freezer for about 10/15 minutes then apply them to the breast and wear a sports bra :)

    • @organic-artistic
      @organic-artistic 3 года назад +1

      Natural healing is the best! Thanks for this tip

  • @pamjarvis9322
    @pamjarvis9322 3 года назад +1

    Little reccie is doing alot more without being afraid good for her love you all feel better soon cara ♥️

  • @letitbe7108
    @letitbe7108 3 года назад +3

    Please know thinking people love, admire and respect your family 🙏💞 it's a blessing to see a happy family and we're all grateful that you share your exceptional children with us❣

  • @judycoulter4556
    @judycoulter4556 3 года назад

    I am so sad you are sick again. I love your darling family. You make having five kids look so easy. I had five boys and it was fun but hard. Get feeling better Cara.

  • @elizabethlevine4263
    @elizabethlevine4263 3 года назад +3

    Darik, you have such a great, outgoing, huge personality, full of love, kindness and empathy. I’m glad you’re thick skinned, most people love you!

  • @judithzoppelt9385
    @judithzoppelt9385 3 года назад

    Awe gosh poor Cara!!! That’s gotta super frustrating. Hope you feel better soon 🙏💕.
    Anyone who takes their time out of their day to put others down have to super sad in life. Don’t lose your joy from all of that nonsense. You guys literally make my day every time. Always a good day when the Chatwins upload a new vid. Love you guy and your family is so so adorable and such a joy to watch. 🤍💕

  • @kimberlyprice2
    @kimberlyprice2 3 года назад +17

    You have every right to name your cuties anything you want to. I love their names! I am not a fan of naming kids "apple or hammer" but....your names are perfectly fine.

  • @lornab2555
    @lornab2555 3 года назад +2

    You guys are amazing and don’t let any one or other knock you! The children are delightful and thank you for sharing your vlogs!

  • @israelbensinger-barnson8690
    @israelbensinger-barnson8690 3 года назад +9

    I am a rabbi. Your choice is your choice. Period. You're not Jewish so it's completely irrelevant. You are not accountable to anyone. Be happy. Be yourself. Don't worry about what other people think.

  • @TNMountaingirl
    @TNMountaingirl 3 года назад

    I’ve told you before I’ll tell you again LOL take a cabbage leaf and put it on it will completely take down the swelling. I had severe mastitis with all of my children and it works! It is an old wives remedy

  • @jessicaorosco3109
    @jessicaorosco3109 3 года назад +4

    It's sad that the time we live in people can't just let others be happy they want to create a problem that's just not there. Stay true to yourselves good people are harder to find then they should be.
    Just a suggestion but Asher Cole is cute too.

  • @Peggy_Neale
    @Peggy_Neale 3 года назад +1

    There is nothing wrong with the name Cohen imo...just sayin😉 The Moffats have a Cohen(first name), and I love it!! I love All your kids names! They’re unique, and that makes them special. You are all so blessed❤️ Please continue to stay true to who you are. You are one amazing family. Much love from British Columbia😘😘😘😘😘😘