What Should You Do When Your Husband Ignores You? | Paul Friedman
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- Опубликовано: 18 сен 2024
- What should you do when your husband ignores you?
Paul Friedman, founder of The Marriage Foundation speaks about what should you do when your husband ignores you and then offers truly useful marital knowledge. We revitalize marriages that most “experts” think is beyond saving. We scientifically guide you to the love and joy you rightfully expected when you said, “I do”.
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This was so good and gave great perspective ❤
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In the beginning, I was the one pursuing him. I was quiet, I was there to listen to him sort through his issues and just be a companion to him. Do things he wanted to do. I put my personal issues on the backburner. Put him first as best as I could. Now that I'm trying to sort myself out, I don't get the same kind of treatment. I am still expected to do it all. All the housework, all the pursuing. I think I am just burned out after 12 years of giving SO much. I cherish him, and I think I deserve that in return. But he's never been the initiator unless it was to have sex, and then afterward he just goes back to letting me do everything. I just feel really used and taken advantage of. Not treated like a queen. He seems to not care what I want unless I give complete silence and no affection. Then all of a sudden he is able to do things for the marriage and for himself. Not fair. I'm starting to think he doesn't like me, and never really did to begin with. I was just really convenient for him.
This mistake you speak about, is where you behaved not from the heart but as a pursuer is not very unusual and now that you have changed your mind he is naturally questioning your authenticity. It is time for you to learn to open your heart rather than do things to get him to "love" you. He is not at fault for expecting you to be who you showed him you were, but weren't.
It's not that I've changed my mind at all or wasn't authentic from the get go. Our first conversation was about as honest as one could get, that's how I knew he was different and special and was "the one".
Everything I do for him I have done from my heart, because I really like him. I just wish he would do the same for me. And I have told him this during calm, reasonable conversation a handful of times over the years, and he even agrees. However, he chooses not to. That's why I say, I don't think he really likes me.
I don't think it's wrong to expect to be loved by your partner. 🤷♀️
Thank u
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