This week, Deepti and Natalie do a highly requested recap of Love Is Blind Sweden and offer their advice on some seriously juicy listener submitted questions.
Aye if I recall correctly, the couple said that Segio’s secret baby was born just before the wedding, and they only found out afterwards; not that Amanda fell pregnant.
I felt even worse for Amanda at the reunion, she is so nice and beautiful and ended up with that guy. He was angry at krisse-ly for asking about the baby in Barcelona at the reunion when he had a baby in their country. Her being very religious and having his kid it will be very hard for her to get rid of this pos.
No discussion about Oscar and Meira.. I loved them too and were cute and really unexpected marriage because the way they showed their love story as being doubtful.. but they got married was surprising ❤
I get what you are saying about the International versions of Love is Blind but I would've love if you ladies can recap Love is Blind Japan. It's really good.
About Amandas pregnancy. The season was filmed last spring, we see some snippets of some Easter celebrations close to the weddings, so the weddings was probably mid to late April, or very early May. Amanda said that her due date was their wedding date. So she was about 6 months pregnant while filming the reunion. :)
I contemplated watching LIB Sweden, but will probably watch it now after your review. Love listening to the advice line and hearing your perspectives on different situationships.
So Amanda must have gotten pregnant 3 months into the marriage because the reunion was filmed 9 months later and she said she’s due on their wedding day!
Advice story #2: I've been happily married for almost 5 years. Literally yesterday, a friend confessed his feelings and attraction. 🤮 Dude, why? You think I'm going to leave my husband less than 3 weeks after having our baby? I could not have been less interested in that conversation. If you're entertaining the idea of other men, it's time to end your relationship and not waste anyone's time. Pursue the crush and have fun because you don't have what it takes to be in a long-term relationship with your current boyfriend. When you find your forever person, you won't be tempted by anyone else.
The names spelled phonetically as they are pronounced: Krissy Ly = Krissy Lee (this is not a swedish name fyi) Rasmus = Raasmoos Katja = Cutya Meira = Mayrah (not a swedish name) /a swedish lib fan!
You guys didn’t touch on meira or catja relationships but anyways def can relate to the boyfriend with the douche bag friends thing. I literally despise my bfs friends they were so rude and nasty, one in particular but my bf has literally been friends with them since kindergarten and they’re like his only friends so he doesn’t want to drop them. I’m just so happy that I never have to see them anymore since we moved, now they just play their stupid games together and go to the gym!
Two of the things that I feel like are obviously at play in this season is Amanda's Christian upbringing and the fact her dad is a pastor- taught that forgiveness, and possibly public forgiveness, is the ideal type of femininity and faith. Secondly, class plays a huge role in all LIB but is often unacknowledged. These folks are all driven and upwardly mobile swedes. Additionally, in Sweden as in all Scandi countries, there is a comfortable social safety net and cultural beliefs that are behind these individual "characters," for each country. That is part of what makes it so interesting to watch the various countries - the way people date is so so different everywhere. It is easier to be calm and cool when you have confidence in your society like Scandi folks seem to.
None of the cast came for sergio at the reunion but I could see it clearly on their faces that they were silently judging and choosing to avoid that mess out of respect for Amanda and to not come off as messy themselves on TV. Very swedish to not get into conflicts
No deepti why did you interrupted when Natalie was talking about Shane being superficial... she stoped talking about little things we wanted to know 😂 Natalie was telling something to us, we don't care that you already knew that 😅
as two women who have encountered hatred on the internet for being on the show you two should know better! Amandas due date is their anniversary. How many people do you know that are pregnant for 12 months! We swedes rarely take offense to anything you say about us in general but don't #¤% with our sisters. Oskar said in a swedish interview that the whole show is portraing people wrong. His mother is from Iran so he wasn't all that novel on how Meira felt about being a minority as the show seemed to portray it. And Meira was very lovey dovey to him off cameras. She hated the cameras and couldn't relax with them around. Oskar has been on other reality shows before, survivor for example so he knew what was in store. Meira didn't. So maybe Sergio isn't all that bad of a man after all. Maybe he actually didn't know he waited a child! Its common for swedish women to not involve the father if she doesn't feel like it. Maybe we have too big of a cultural gap for some of these things to make sense but swedish women are highly self dependent and marriage is not even for everyone. My aunt and uncle have been together for 38 years now not married and me and my man have been together 18 years coming this spring and we don't plan on getting married either. We are in our 30s both of us and bought or first house 4 years ago. Payed the mortgage off by over 50 % the first year. We spend our money on each other and our future and not on a wedding.
So when it comes to attraction and love… my husband who I love to death and even though we’ve had problems but we still stay together because we love each other. But when we first met we were friends and I want attracted to him. He’s still not my type look wise. We’ve been together for 8 years and I still love him, even though he’s still not my ideal look. We have two kids and I love him so much. There’s times I look at him and I’m like damn he’s good looking and then there’s other times I’m like ugh wtf. But he’s my person and he’s the best dad and we made BEAUTIFUL children. People tell us all the time that our children are model looking because of how beautiful looking they are
No mention of Meira and Oscar, or Christofer? I thought Meira and Oscar were really boring at the beginning, but I've heard a lot of "behind the scenes" material/stuff they cut off, that made them make so much more sense as a couple. Alsooo there's quite a bit of drama/strange rumors with Catja and Christofer. Like Catja making suggestions of Christofer's more violent (?) side, and Oscar and Meira siding with her because she had spent one night with them etcetera. 😳
Catja and Christofer reminded me a bit of Marshall and Jackie from season 4. Criticising him for being too soft, asking him to stand up to her, and then when he gets pushed to the brink and does stand up for himself, gets rejected again and she can publicly insinuate he mistreated her.
You two are an amazing team. My only ask is that you reduce the use of the word "crazy" from your conversation. #IYKYK Otherwise, continued good luck with all your endeavours.
You get thr character of Amanda wrong, in my opinion. She is deeply Christian and her behaviour comes from there. She doesn't have a low self esteem, she is forgiving and selfless, she gives Sergio the love that Christ modelled to us. Even though Sergio sins, she is able to forgive him. They also share their faith and he, even though he is a bad boy, aspires to learn to be like her.
Deepti is so distracting, constantly playing with her hair, laughing at dark points. Trying so hard to not look at her. Hoping she doesn't do it in other videos, because I really like watching these podcasts rather than listening to
Although i felt this LIB had more real people, I can’t relate to how they seem to have 0 emotions, is this a nordic behavior? Omg it was so boring to watch, Catja could not express anything lol iam shocked
So Amanda must have gotten pregnant 3 months into the marriage because the reunion was filmed 9 months later and she said she’s due on their wedding day!
I was hoping you ladies spoke on the Catja/ Christopher dynamic. Big missed opportunity to speak on the “good guy”. The reunion everyone was aware of how Sergio trapped Amanda, but they’re all class acts and didn’t acknowledge it 😂
Yea I got a bit toxic vibes from Christopher but its almost hidden under the "nice guy" persona. There is definitely some aggression there though. Especially comments like "you use your body through sex to show love" to Catja as if that is a bad thing and she is a villain
@@fialalala6903I think men that try super hard in the beginning are huge red flags. They want to give you 200% to convince you they are worthy of relationships but I’ve seen that extreme good emotions also hide extremely bad emotional regulation as well.
@@dierathyit was very cringey, and definitely love bombing. He seems like he’s a great friend but when it comes to dating you should really pace yourself.
Sergio is clearly a Narcissist… He has all the red flags of an emotional abuser. I don’t think it’s an issue of self-esteem for Amanda. When people are raised as “good Christian girls,” they are taught to be nice, turn the other cheek, and see the good in everyone. I know because I used to be one. Girls raised this way are basically live bait for a Narcissist. She KNEW something was off in the pods after he blatantly lied to her and then gaslit her about saying he wasn’t dating other women, but she ignored her better judgement and instead gave him the benefit of the doubt. Now she’s already been trauma bonded to him and she’s trapped by the marriage and a baby on the way. I feel for her so much 🥺
And the saddest part for me in this story - she wouldn’t divorce him because of her belief systems and being raised as the “good Christian girl”. I was so sadden for Amanda in the reunion. She’s such a gorgeous person inside and out. Sergio doesn’t deserve her for sure!
I think both the hosts should get over their exes from LIB. Why do they always keep bringing them up? Those two guys were useless, you hate them & we hate them. So, please move on. It’s been two years now. Try to discuss the show without brining up your stories which we have heard 1000 times now.
Best season ever is crazy 😭My favourite was LIB Brazil season 3 and I totally got whiplash from watching the Swedish version right after Tbh I didn't think any of the couples were great besides Krisse-Ly & Rasmus (who I was skeptical of at the beginning), almost all of them were just really unsatisfying matches lol. It's painful to watch people making (what looks like) really bad decisions again and again
I'm honestly a bit upset about the editing, because based on interviews post LIB, Meira and Oscar had such a sweet love story! They have said that they bonded much more in the pods than what is shown, and in the material that is cut out, there's pretty much this whole side story about a gift Oscar got from Meira, with a love letter in it, that follows them along their whole journey and that is a part of Oscar's speech to Meira at their wedding. 🥹 I honestly think they seem really cute together now. Also started liking them as people more and more throughout the show.
Hello, for sergio i feel like we only get the image the show wants to show us. We do not see how they are together. And i personally watched it dubbed, because i did not want to read but still we go by what was dubbed or wrote, and it's a tv show. We dont know also how much it means for people in Sweden to receive a ring both ways, it seems to be cultural they all got one. I feel its harder to get a good feeling at people when we cant watch in their language especially with production showing what they want to show, the way they want to show it. 😊
Ugh sergio was SO CREEPY!!! I was (and still am) so frustrated that Amanda didn't see what we all see and even is having a baby with this walking red flag 😭. I remember now that sergio wanted to diss her bc of her scoliosis... like WHAT??? You? The most questionable man inside and out? BYE 😭
Just watch with subtitles. If you watch the dubbing it takes away their entire personalities. You can’t translate everything to english from other languages
Wait was this really a recap of LIB Sweden? You guys literally only spoke about Sergio and Amaka and a sprinkle of Rasmus/krissley & Lucas and Amelia. This recap is a 👎 for me.
Yep! LIB Sweden became my favourite season too,and for the same reason,they all seemed more like "real people" idk..
They seemed very hearty with each other, especially in Cyprus and they have been brutally honest and called out on a lot of things.
It is not possible that Amanda felt pregnant during filming. They have been married for 9 months and she was probably 6 months pregnant.
So?
Aye if I recall correctly, the couple said that Segio’s secret baby was born just before the wedding, and they only found out afterwards; not that Amanda fell pregnant.
@@aurelisbDeepti speculated that Amanda got pregnant before their wedding. This person is reminding them of the numbers involved.
Less. She did not look 6m pregnant at that reunion. I'm 2.5 weeks postpartum, and that was not a 6m bump.
@@Martina_horst deepty always talking of what she doesn’t know
I felt even worse for Amanda at the reunion, she is so nice and beautiful and ended up with that guy.
He was angry at krisse-ly for asking about the baby in Barcelona at the reunion when he had a baby in their country.
Her being very religious and having his kid it will be very hard for her to get rid of this pos.
No discussion about Oscar and Meira.. I loved them too and were cute and really unexpected marriage because the way they showed their love story as being doubtful.. but they got married was surprising ❤
I get what you are saying about the International versions of Love is Blind but I would've love if you ladies can recap Love is Blind Japan. It's really good.
the BEST version of LIB
I first watched LIB Japan and then started LIB US but didnt continued watching cause after watching the Japan season it seemed so shallow
Love is blind Brazil is really good too. I recommend watching.
About Amandas pregnancy.
The season was filmed last spring, we see some snippets of some Easter celebrations close to the weddings, so the weddings was probably mid to late April, or very early May. Amanda said that her due date was their wedding date. So she was about 6 months pregnant while filming the reunion. :)
Amanda's due date can't be on her wedding day because Amanda and Sergio said yes to each other at the altar and got married already.
@@mermaidguitarist ah yes. So the date the next year isn't their wedding date. Pardon my English...
I think the phrase is “know how the sausage is made!”
I contemplated watching LIB Sweden, but will probably watch it now after your review.
Love listening to the advice line and hearing your perspectives on different situationships.
So Amanda must have gotten pregnant 3 months into the marriage because the reunion was filmed 9 months later and she said she’s due on their wedding day!
You guys have to watch LIB Brazil!
You are confused. She’s due right around her anniversary - she doesn’t have 12 months gestation period
Did these retrds say that?😂😂😂😂😂
I needed some pictures of the couples while you were talking about them
Please please please try to film more episodes with the both of you in the same room🙏🏽if that's possible of course. Love yall🇿🇦❤
Advice story #2: I've been happily married for almost 5 years. Literally yesterday, a friend confessed his feelings and attraction. 🤮 Dude, why? You think I'm going to leave my husband less than 3 weeks after having our baby? I could not have been less interested in that conversation. If you're entertaining the idea of other men, it's time to end your relationship and not waste anyone's time. Pursue the crush and have fun because you don't have what it takes to be in a long-term relationship with your current boyfriend. When you find your forever person, you won't be tempted by anyone else.
Why don't y'all record in the same room??
The names spelled phonetically as they are pronounced:
Krissy Ly = Krissy Lee (this is not a swedish name fyi)
Rasmus = Raasmoos
Katja = Cutya
Meira = Mayrah (not a swedish name)
/a swedish lib fan!
I would say Kaatja more than Cutya. Cutya sounds more english than swedish
You guys didn’t touch on meira or catja relationships but anyways def can relate to the boyfriend with the douche bag friends thing. I literally despise my bfs friends they were so rude and nasty, one in particular but my bf has literally been friends with them since kindergarten and they’re like his only friends so he doesn’t want to drop them. I’m just so happy that I never have to see them anymore since we moved, now they just play their stupid games together and go to the gym!
Two of the things that I feel like are obviously at play in this season is Amanda's Christian upbringing and the fact her dad is a pastor- taught that forgiveness, and possibly public forgiveness, is the ideal type of femininity and faith. Secondly, class plays a huge role in all LIB but is often unacknowledged. These folks are all driven and upwardly mobile swedes. Additionally, in Sweden as in all Scandi countries, there is a comfortable social safety net and cultural beliefs that are behind these individual "characters," for each country. That is part of what makes it so interesting to watch the various countries - the way people date is so so different everywhere. It is easier to be calm and cool when you have confidence in your society like Scandi folks seem to.
What about Meira and Oskar?
Exactly you forgot them girls.... and a little about Catja & Christofer
As much as I love this podcast, it’s good to give feedback. They should speak on all relationship dynamics represented in LIB.
I was waiting for them to comment on those couples too 😢
Yes- I would have enjoyed hearing you talk about all the couples.
In love is blind Brazil they had a couple that didn’t made it pass the proposal because she was fat.
Which season?
My favourite season of love is blind is Sweden too! it was so good and the locations were awesome 😊
48:06 BEST PART
None of the cast came for sergio at the reunion but I could see it clearly on their faces that they were silently judging and choosing to avoid that mess out of respect for Amanda and to not come off as messy themselves on TV. Very swedish to not get into conflicts
No deepti why did you interrupted when Natalie was talking about Shane being superficial... she stoped talking about little things we wanted to know 😂 Natalie was telling something to us, we don't care that you already knew that 😅
as two women who have encountered hatred on the internet for being on the show you two should know better! Amandas due date is their anniversary. How many people do you know that are pregnant for 12 months! We swedes rarely take offense to anything you say about us in general but don't #¤% with our sisters. Oskar said in a swedish interview that the whole show is portraing people wrong. His mother is from Iran so he wasn't all that novel on how Meira felt about being a minority as the show seemed to portray it. And Meira was very lovey dovey to him off cameras. She hated the cameras and couldn't relax with them around. Oskar has been on other reality shows before, survivor for example so he knew what was in store. Meira didn't.
So maybe Sergio isn't all that bad of a man after all. Maybe he actually didn't know he waited a child! Its common for swedish women to not involve the father if she doesn't feel like it. Maybe we have too big of a cultural gap for some of these things to make sense but swedish women are highly self dependent and marriage is not even for everyone. My aunt and uncle have been together for 38 years now not married and me and my man have been together 18 years coming this spring and we don't plan on getting married either. We are in our 30s both of us and bought or first house 4 years ago. Payed the mortgage off by over 50 % the first year. We spend our money on each other and our future and not on a wedding.
So when it comes to attraction and love… my husband who I love to death and even though we’ve had problems but we still stay together because we love each other. But when we first met we were friends and I want attracted to him. He’s still not my type look wise. We’ve been together for 8 years and I still love him, even though he’s still not my ideal look. We have two kids and I love him so much. There’s times I look at him and I’m like damn he’s good looking and then there’s other times I’m like ugh wtf. But he’s my person and he’s the best dad and we made BEAUTIFUL children. People tell us all the time that our children are model looking because of how beautiful looking they are
You gotta watch love is blind season 3 Brazil!!! TRUST ME
No mention of Meira and Oscar, or Christofer? I thought Meira and Oscar were really boring at the beginning, but I've heard a lot of "behind the scenes" material/stuff they cut off, that made them make so much more sense as a couple. Alsooo there's quite a bit of drama/strange rumors with Catja and Christofer. Like Catja making suggestions of Christofer's more violent (?) side, and Oscar and Meira siding with her because she had spent one night with them etcetera. 😳
Catja and Christofer reminded me a bit of Marshall and Jackie from season 4. Criticising him for being too soft, asking him to stand up to her, and then when he gets pushed to the brink and does stand up for himself, gets rejected again and she can publicly insinuate he mistreated her.
You two are an amazing team. My only ask is that you reduce the use of the word "crazy" from your conversation. #IYKYK Otherwise, continued good luck with all your endeavours.
Ladiess i keep rewatching your podcasts. Can you please do two a week instead!!!
You get thr character of Amanda wrong, in my opinion. She is deeply Christian and her behaviour comes from there. She doesn't have a low self esteem, she is forgiving and selfless, she gives Sergio the love that Christ modelled to us. Even though Sergio sins, she is able to forgive him. They also share their faith and he, even though he is a bad boy, aspires to learn to be like her.
Sergio was cringe frm jump...i was so 🤮 when he kept Amandas attention....i do hope fatherhood changes him for the btr
lol almost everyone in sweden is fluent in english, bring them on!!
Deepti is so distracting, constantly playing with her hair, laughing at dark points. Trying so hard to not look at her. Hoping she doesn't do it in other videos, because I really like watching these podcasts rather than listening to
Although i felt this LIB had more real people, I can’t relate to how they seem to have 0 emotions, is this a nordic behavior? Omg it was so boring to watch, Catja could not express anything lol iam shocked
Drinking corean Soju and listening to you ❤😅
Sergio is just the worst. I hope Amanda opens her eyes
Lucas strung her along because he loved being loved
So Amanda must have gotten pregnant 3 months into the marriage because the reunion was filmed 9 months later and she said she’s due on their wedding day!
I was hoping you ladies spoke on the Catja/ Christopher dynamic. Big missed opportunity to speak on the “good guy”.
The reunion everyone was aware of how Sergio trapped Amanda, but they’re all class acts and didn’t acknowledge it 😂
Yea I got a bit toxic vibes from Christopher but its almost hidden under the "nice guy" persona. There is definitely some aggression there though. Especially comments like "you use your body through sex to show love" to Catja as if that is a bad thing and she is a villain
@@fialalala6903I think men that try super hard in the beginning are huge red flags. They want to give you 200% to convince you they are worthy of relationships but I’ve seen that extreme good emotions also hide extremely bad emotional regulation as well.
@@oval1624 Same! Its those extreme highs and extreme lows. My toxic ex is now hypnotizing women into being "sex slaves" here on RUclips.....
The love bombing he was doing was rubbing me the wrong way
@@dierathyit was very cringey, and definitely love bombing. He seems like he’s a great friend but when it comes to dating you should really pace yourself.
I prefered LiB Japan for the sweetness, LiB Brazil is good for drama lol but there's cute couples from it
Amanda seems co-dependent and she projects her own good qualities onto Sergio.
those are a lot of ads ladies I want you to earn money from it but it is getting a bit annoying with too many ads on the podcast.
Wayyy too many - usually a RUclips video has just one sponsor in total.
Sergio is clearly a Narcissist… He has all the red flags of an emotional abuser. I don’t think it’s an issue of self-esteem for Amanda. When people are raised as “good Christian girls,” they are taught to be nice, turn the other cheek, and see the good in everyone. I know because I used to be one. Girls raised this way are basically live bait for a Narcissist. She KNEW something was off in the pods after he blatantly lied to her and then gaslit her about saying he wasn’t dating other women, but she ignored her better judgement and instead gave him the benefit of the doubt. Now she’s already been trauma bonded to him and she’s trapped by the marriage and a baby on the way. I feel for her so much 🥺
And the saddest part for me in this story - she wouldn’t divorce him because of her belief systems and being raised as the “good Christian girl”. I was so sadden for Amanda in the reunion. She’s such a gorgeous person inside and out. Sergio doesn’t deserve her for sure!
What Deepti said at 51:50 is FACTS 💯 I learned this lesson many times the HARD way. These are words of wisdom I wish I had heard in my 20s ☺️👌🏾
I think both the hosts should get over their exes from LIB. Why do they always keep bringing them up? Those two guys were useless, you hate them & we hate them. So, please move on. It’s been two years now. Try to discuss the show without brining up your stories which we have heard 1000 times now.
These random ads are a little too much. The content changes in a second😂
FYI: Most Swedish people speak perfect English :)
Deepti is the most beautiful person from love is blind honestly
You MUST watch the UK VERSION
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Best season ever is crazy 😭My favourite was LIB Brazil season 3 and I totally got whiplash from watching the Swedish version right after
Tbh I didn't think any of the couples were great besides Krisse-Ly & Rasmus (who I was skeptical of at the beginning), almost all of them were just really unsatisfying matches lol. It's painful to watch people making (what looks like) really bad decisions again and again
I'm honestly a bit upset about the editing, because based on interviews post LIB, Meira and Oscar had such a sweet love story! They have said that they bonded much more in the pods than what is shown, and in the material that is cut out, there's pretty much this whole side story about a gift Oscar got from Meira, with a love letter in it, that follows them along their whole journey and that is a part of Oscar's speech to Meira at their wedding. 🥹
I honestly think they seem really cute together now. Also started liking them as people more and more throughout the show.
I love you both so much but Deeeeeeeps!! The twirling of the hair???????
I know it’s so annoying I couldn’t concentrate with what she was saying because of her hair.
Hello, for sergio i feel like we only get the image the show wants to show us. We do not see how they are together. And i personally watched it dubbed, because i did not want to read but still we go by what was dubbed or wrote, and it's a tv show.
We dont know also how much it means for people in Sweden to receive a ring both ways, it seems to be cultural they all got one.
I feel its harder to get a good feeling at people when we cant watch in their language especially with production showing what they want to show, the way they want to show it. 😊
Ugh sergio was SO CREEPY!!! I was (and still am) so frustrated that Amanda didn't see what we all see and even is having a baby with this walking red flag 😭.
I remember now that sergio wanted to diss her bc of her scoliosis... like WHAT??? You? The most questionable man inside and out? BYE 😭
how is meira not your favorite? she was the realest
Please watch the third season of the brazilian version and do a video for us!!!
I felt bad for Emilia.
I was waiting this episode😂
I tried watching Sweden, the voice over translation to English KILLS me. I can't do it. Its SO bad.
Try subtitles
Just watch with subtitles. If you watch the dubbing it takes away their entire personalities. You can’t translate everything to english from other languages
Wait was this really a recap of LIB Sweden? You guys literally only spoke about Sergio and Amaka and a sprinkle of Rasmus/krissley & Lucas and Amelia. This recap is a 👎 for me.
stop it, at least they talked about it, the other couples were not really that interesting of a topic to be honest
It’s MY opinion not yours babe
@@Freee479 yes and i am responding to your opinion right?
I hope they do another episode on LIB Sweden!
This lib season was the worst it was so boring