Not only are your tutorials well-shot and informative, but the holistic approach you take to knitting is so positive and healthy! Thank you for all the hard work that you put into your videos.
you are very welcome Sophie. Knitting means a lot to me. Sometimes I believe it's the only reason I am still sane, lol. So I thought, hey, why not sometimes share more than just how to knit a knit stitch. :)
My husband set me free one day with the words, "It doesn't have to be perfect." I've been lighthearted about my projects (and other life areas) ever since.
The message you impart in this video is very important in both knitting and how to you live your life in general. To have character traits of being positive, encouraging and sensitive to others is truly a worthwhile goal. You must be treasured by the people in your life!
I’ve only been knitting for 3 weeks, I’ve only learnt the knit stitch, I will learn the purl eventually but I’m having fun just knitting that stitch, I want to be perfect at it, plus I like the way it looks. I was taught to knit 31 years ago when I was 10, didn’t pick it up till recently, I’m just thankful for RUclips, as the lovely woman that taught me, died a good few years ago, I like to think she’s looking down on me smiling and saying about time lol. You are probably noticing that I’m commenting on ur older videos, I just found ur videos a couple of weeks ago, I’m loving ur videos, u are very good at explaining things, so thank you
This reminded me soooo much of my ex-husband's grandmother!. I have been crocheting for my entire adult life & i have always used the knife-hold, it just worked for me. Ex's grandma also crocheted most of her life, she used a pencil hold...so instead of being able to bring my yarn & hooks along to family get-togethers & share crocheting tips or tricks, i got to hear from her how i was "doing it wrong!". I finally told her "as long as it turns out looking the way i intended it to, i don't really care if i'm "doing it wrong!" :)
Someone said that to me once too! Well, I may do it "wrong", but I do Irish work! Poo to that nasty woman. I hold my yarn the same way knitting and crocheting.
6:48 I'm enjoying sharing my super flawed and wonky pieces with my family. We get a chuckle together since they've seen my very nice and tidy crochet work, and it's fun to compare that to my ladders and holes and drops and too-loose and too-tight etc. initial attempts at knitting a simple dishcloth. I'm sure you've seen that "distressed" knitted sweaters and accessories are all the rage, with big designers selling complete trash, full of holes, barely wearable tops for $2000+. So it's super amusing that my pieces look ratty like that too. I'm going to miss this stage when I get neater and more consistent. I do recall that when I was learning crochet, my family cared little that the gloves and hats and cowls I made for them were uneven and a little wonky. They loved the work anyway and I loved making and gifting it. It's really the best thing about being a maker of any kind. So, long story just a little longer: I agree 100%. Don't belittle your own work. Making ANYthing is an act of creation and that should always make us happy and proud.
Thank you for such a wonderful uplifting message. I wish I had seen it 20 years ago. The first time I joined an in-person knitting group, I heard lots of negative comments. At age 5, I learned how to knit from my left-handed and blind grandmother. I developed a unique style that works well for me. It took a long time to realize that I didn’t need to change just to meet someone else’s idea of the “right way” to knit.
absolutely! How idiotic would that be if we all knitted the same thing and the same way. I mean..knitting is a hobby (so no stress to begin with, right) and an extension of your personality on top of that. So, in fact, I would say it's the other way round. You understood something at a very early age that other knitters yet have to understand.
I am a nervous new knitter and this has made me realise hell yeah I can do this and I can do it my own way! My first projects were headbands with bows, and ear savers for the local hospitals where staff wear masks up to 14hr a day. They were all in the knit stitch though. I have now learnt how to purl (eventually) I now knit basic baby hats for the babies in hospital. I have tried baby mittens, I need more practice with them though. Booties well I kid you not. I was spending up to 12hr days and after 60+ more attempts I finally got it and knitted some, a few mistakes but not really jump out visible. I am struggling with the sewing part I never know which stitch I should be working with. I keep practicing to no avail yet. I can’t believe how patient I am with myself I normally have a short concentration span and get fed up. I live in the u.k and I bought second hands needles from 2mm-6.5mm. Really good quality still in the slot packing. You can tell that the previous person looked after them really well even though they are 25/30 year old. I love you and your channel and I am more motivated not to be scared to try something new and to stay confident. Take Care & thank you
Yes, of course you can do it! And sometimes you or your body needs a bit more time to learn something. and that's just okay as well. And hey...it sounds like you are a wonderful soul, knitting all those items for those who need it. So, that already puts you ahead of so many. You don't only have a hobby that brings you joy, you share it. How amazing is that
What a lovely story! If this is the sort of thing you're doing already, you're really going to love this knitting thing. I've been knitting for the best part of 40 years on and off, more on in the last ten years as I'm not so able bodied now. I'm still learning new things and new techniques but the most important lessons are the ones I've learned from this wonderful guy. I wish you nothing but joy in what you do, including the mistakes because they're little lessons in themselves. All the very best xx
I'm a sewer first, Not a knitter, but I can say that it shouldn't matter which stitch you choose to sew through. It also doesn't matter how inconsistent you are with where your sewed stitches are placed, so long as they average out to be a fairly straight line and you don't end up with fabric that's too small for whoever you're knitting for. I hope you have a great knitting journey!
Your first attempts were greatly appreciated too. Trust me. I work in a hospital ICU and during covid surge those little knit and crochet bands saved our ears from lots of pain.
@@susanboyd6592 aww thank you so much. I am glad they bring relief to yourself and others who have to wear them. I didn’t forget others that work in the hospitals as well. I dropped them off at the catering, cleaning, reception, physio, o.t, porters, labs, absolutely every department including the morgues and chaplains. The ones some people forget about. I can’t imagine what it must be like for workers to have to work in them for hours at a time. I have been stricken with ill health and have been diagnosed with another “new” condition hyper mobility which is affecting my joints mainly hand, wrists, elbows and is blooming painful at times. My hubby has just bought me a lovely set of lightweight needles so I can carry on knitting! I’m looking at different yarns to buy which could be even softer for you. Maybe mohair or a soft 4 ply yarn. So if you OR ANY OTHER KNITTERS know what yarn to buy it will be much appreciated. Thank you to everyone in the health service and your kind words. EDIT..Me again! I was wondering if it would be more helpful to sew two buttons on each side so they could be more adaptable with head size.
I've been a closed-hand Continental knitter since 1987, and the way I learned to purl didn't quite work for me, but it's all I knew until recently. This year, I found out there are at least four other ways to purl, and the one that works best for me is, of all things, the Norwegian purl. I use it exclusively, and it's restored my faith in my own abilities. I never would have known the Norwegian purl existed until I looked into the matter. And that's what I love about knitting, there's always something to learn. I don't care how long a person has been doing this, there's more to know and to do. How can anyone get bored doing this?
What a lovely story you share there. I do have to say that the advent of the internet changed things for me as well. Before it was just the people in my village, my relatives and books. ANd suddenly I learned that things I came up myself weren't crazy! And you are absolutely right...knitting has a lifetime of learning for you in store. And how amazing is that!
I agree, there is always something new to do and think about under the umbrella of knitting. I remember my own mother spending her very small amount of spare time occupied with long skinny knitting needles and wool yarn. I asked her to help me make my first sweater for her friend’s new baby when I was 8 years old. That was 60 years ago, yikes! 😂 I remember holding a red strand and a blue strand of mohair together and using large needles to make an airy fabric. It didn’t take long to make a baby sweater with that combo. I have only taken up knitting sporadically throughout my adulthood. But, I didn’t really start learning until 2014 with the miracle of RUclips. It really is fabulous. I had to laugh at your comment in the video about knitting and the people around us not really interested or caring about our hobby. The internet has been wonderful for connecting to other people from around the globe that are just as fascinated with this craft as I am and it is reassuring. Being stuck at home during the pandemic in 2020/21, these videos are a breath of fresh air. Thank you, Norman! Thank you to you too, 3rd and 10. I didn’t know I would write so much on your post.
Before the interwebs, my grandmother taught me to knit… and I trained my self to wrap my purl ‘backwards’… I didn’t know that was a thing til a friend pointed out they could tell my work because my purls were always twisted. I decided that I like how it looks, but I have also noticed that I hated purls b/c they were too tight and it was harder to stitch and doing it ‘right’ was easier.
I love your philosophy on knitting and appreciate the emphasis of doing what works for me. Doing creative crafts generates a lot of negative feedback in my own head (and everyone else) but I push on to completion. I learned from a sewing course I took the saying: "done is beautiful". I repeat that to myself often now when I approach any craft knowing that it is not always smooth sailing and often the challenge makes the completion that much more satisfying. If you get pleasure out of it hang in there and don't be hard on yourself.
I also struggled with trying to make things perfect in sewing too. I have finally realized at the age of 79 years that my makes only need to be presentable and as close to perfect as I can make them. This applies to my knitting as well. We all make mistakes from time to time and just need to correct and continue on. I derive great joy in my sewing or knitting with this in mind.
I taught myself to knit and crochet as a child from books. My Mum taught me to sew and embroider, and that was the focus of my creative side from age 9 on. I recently went back to knitting and crochet to help calm my Mum in the evenings when her Alzheimers ramped up. I have used my "Covid Time Out" learning how to knit 3 or 4 different cables, 8 new crochet stitches, and improving my confidence and speed on the basics. Sadly my Mum has passed, but I feel like she is sitting beside me still as I find peace in the rhythm on my stitching. Your videos are so helpful, and I wish I had found you earlier.
sounds similar to my journey. while i learned crochet and knitting at an early age...sewing and embroidery was my main focus. My great-grandma loved embroidery and even today I still have to think of her every time I do it.
So nice to hear someone give all knitters a reminder that we are all different. Very supportive and positive message. Keep up the GREAT work and kind soul.
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Great message. Thanks for posting. Too often I see direct negative messages posted in comments. And I hear and see bloggers preemptively apologizing for their method or opinions because of it. I worry that this will reduce the sharing of all these wonderful people’s knowledge and ideas. Please don’t stop sharing. Thank you for what you share with us.
I love this video. I’m a long term knitter and I, too, see knitters apologize for their knitting or compare themselves unfavorably with other knitters. I love your messages here. We all need to be less critical of ourselves and our knitting. There’s no knitting police so relax no enjoy knitting.
This video was inspired. I always compare my work to that of others, usually to my own detriment. Thanks for the pep talk. Also your voice is very soothing.
You're so correct. This should be called '5 important things every PERSON needs to hear' because it applies to life and the challenges we face. This same advice could apply to anyone learning to drive, sew, get fit, etc. It's really about appreciating who you are, not being overly critical of yourself, and lending a helping hand.
Amen. This advice is spot on. I am an experienced knitter but remember when I was learning and was so intimidated by other knitters. After many years, I have learned that as long as I am having fun and like what I am making, that is all that matters.
right? When I was younger, all the local women..i mean..they were crazy. Even today I still sometimes feel a bit like an imposter because they were just soo good and I'm like "they should be doing the teaching, not me". But of course, I realized, that's no valid argument at all :)
I love your positive, affirming message. You nailed it! As I watched the video I was reminded of an incident at a LYS in Tucson, AZ years ago. A gentleman came into the store with a project in a paper shopping bag. He asked for some help correcting an error in his afghan. He pulled the project out of the bag and it was the ugliest, messiest piece of knitting imaginable - full of holes, dropped stitches and knots. No one in the store reacted with smirks or eye rolls. The store owner asked the gentleman to show him what it was it was he needed help with. He said that he thought he had dropped a stitch somewhere. She identified the closest dropped stitch to his live needle and repaired it for him. When she handed back the project he glowed with pride and told everyone in the store that he had an old, arthritic dog and he was knitting a warm blanket for his dog's bed. Customers and staff in the store affirmed him with comments about his kindness to and love for his dog and watched him leave the store with a smile on his face and his head held high. That's the magic that can happen when we take pride in our own work and affirm the work of others in our knitting family. Thank you for the part you play in promoting the joy in our chosen hobby.
Hi Norman, I just recently picked up knitting again, I'm only 2 projects new...lol. I have become obsessed or so my husband tells me and I just wanted to tell you that you have become my new RUclips Knitting Guru, I really enjoy your videos and how clearly you explain the techniques and that you give so many options. Plus you are quite funny. Thank you so much for taking the time to make these videos, they are greatly appreciated and your positivity is a breathe of fresh air. Much love to you.
This video was so helpful! I've often felt so defeated while knitting, because I think that I'll never be as good a knitter as my nana was (she taught me how to knit when I was 7 or 8) - and I've stuck to crocheting for a long time because I've never known anyone who crocheted and had less of a problem with comparing myself. But I've started my first knitting project in some years, and the points made in this video are really going to help. Being able to knit (or craft/create in general) should be a source of pride, regardless of one's skill level or ability!
So true, so true. No 2 knitters, democrats, blacks, Germans, English, Americans, Japanese, Catholics, Jews, Muslims, Iranians alike!!! Goes for knitters, too. This is such valuable advice. Not just for knitting but for life. Do what works for you and try not to push other people around. Be kind I think is your message. And it is such an inspiration to hear you say that we can make our own patterns. You really inspire us to be creative.
Thank you soooooo much for this video, Norman! I have been knitting for over 35 years, English style, preferring circular needles over DPNs (I am still very clumsy with them!). While I feel I am knitting at a decent speed, watching so many other tutorials using DPNs and the Continental method always made me feel inadequate. This video is a much-needed affirmation that we are good enough! You are a blessing to this knitting community. I am always looking forward to your tutorials, because I love the many options you present, the thoroughness and the clarity. ❤❤❤
I love your word "wonky"! Then I can fix my mistakes with confidence! I'm so proud of myself. Today I fixed a hole in my practice work with just the knitting needles. I did a great job, because you said not to be afraid to fix dropped stiches. Picked up all but one! I love the way you explain how to knit. So many things I never knew, being self taught years ago. I'm enjoying learning from you! Thank you for sharing and encouragement!
These points are helpful for many other hobbies or endeavors, aren't they? I ageee with you about pointing out flaws. When I taught school and students presented projects to the class, I always cautioned them about pointing out flaws before they even began. That does one thing ... alert the audience to look for the error instead of paying attention to the content of the presentation. With adults I notice from comments of others that it's often a plea for praise or attention.
I love how you are the opposite of a gate keeper. Instead of going into a hobby and getting berated for not doing something the preferred/“correct” way, you are welcoming and knowledgeable! Thank you. I appreciate your videos.
I absolutely love that you always emphasize that the method/tool/style/color that is right for the individual is the one that is right!! Years I was teaching a knitting class and had a student who constantly doubted herself. She would suddenly stop and say, "I can't do it." I would look at her and say, "You just did." She would brighten and so, "Oh," and go on with her knitting.
I am happy I found your channel. Thank you for the positive message. My sister taught me beginning knitting 35 years ago and I am still a beginner, learning and enjoying. Thank you for encouraging knitters.
As someone who tight knits, and always feels awkward about how much I need to go up in needle size to hit gauge, the message of 'there's no best, just what is best for you' is really great to hear.
Thank you so much for your words of wisdom and encouragement. Truly words to live by and apply not only in knitting but other areas in life. You are Blessing so glad I found your channel! Thank you for taking the time to make this very inspirational video! God Bless you!
Thank you Angela. And you are absolutely right. A lot of the things we learn and live by in our hobbies, can be applied in life in general (and vice versa). We just need to apply them and realize the fact (which took me ages myself!). Also, glad to have you here on my channel :)
Great video, Norman. You're a great knitter (and so am I)! Love that t-shirt! Thank you for acknowledging process knitters--that's me! One piece of advice I wish I had as a knitter is that when a knitter gifts a handknit item to a non-knitter, it is common for the non-knitter to not understand how much work (not just in the knitting, but in choosing yarn, choosing the pattern, etc.) went into that gift. So, expecting them to appreciate it like a knitter would is simply not a realistic expectation. Don't be disappointed. I started viewing it as a gift for both of us -- the gift of joy I get in making the item, and then the gift to them in the end.
Hey Mae. That'S a very important point you raise there. It's also a difficult one...because when you put so much love into something..you kind of come to expect it to be loved in return. But as you say, that's often not the case. Thx for adding that!
The demands of some gift recipients could only be exceeded by gift recipients who choose their own yarn, of course only the cheapest, but expect a result like that of cashmere, alpaca or i. e. hard-wearing sock wool. I recommend that such recipients show their limits.
Norman! As a brand-new knitter, I'm grateful for the opportunity to listen to this message. Thank you for sharing such a profoundly encouraging message.
Excellent advice, not just for knitting. We are often hardest on ourselves, and most generous with others. It's important to remember that we are all just human & cut each other a break, but also, cut ourselves a break, too. There's a pattern on the yarnspirations website - the official website of the Bernat, Caron, Patons, etc., yarn brands - for which the sample garment was stitched wrong on one side by their expert! It wouldn't be so noticeable, except the left side is done correctly, so it's obvious the entire right side is wrong. It's been like that for several years now. You definitely do not want your finished piece to look like the example! But it's proof that even the professionals get things very wrong sometimes. Sometimes I wish I could knit faster, but that's my impatience at wanting to both make the item myself, and also have a finished product in hand already. When that happens, I just have to remind myself that what I want more is to make it myself, and it'll be done when it's done. Warts & all.
ha...well...i wish I could knit faster as well. lol. even though i am already super fast. But i'm so terribly impatient and always knit with super small needles so...when i knit a shawl or traditional socks, a single row can sometimes ake more than 30minutes
Thank you so much for making feel like my knitting is a journey, not a race. I'm new to knitting and I have made mistakes in my knitting. I'm learning I will do better the next time. I not getting caught up in making it perfect for me. Now, if I am making a gift for someone I will definitely make ever effort to make it perfect. Thanks again.
no, knitting is no race. You are a beginner, you are totally allowed to make mistakes..and as you said, if you use them to do it better next time, you are on the right path!
I used to find mistakes frustrating but then a non-knitting friend asked me "the" question -- can you fix it or is it ok the way it is? That lead me to a journey of how to fix or determine if there was a need to fix, could I learn to love my mistakes, or could I learn to be ok with ripping back to fix? Now each time I discover a mistake it becomes of "mystery" to solve -- to fix, to leave, how to do, is it worth the trouble to fix, will it compromise the piece if I leave it, and so on. So, chin up, take pride in your work and decisions about your knitting. Every project you accomplish will teach you something new about knitting and maybe even yourself and it is so worth it. I have to say that 99% of my projects are for others either as gifts because they commented about something or by request. That my knitting that provides me joy then brings joy to another is such a bonus!
I understand that Navajo blankets ALWAYS contain an "irregularity" purposefully called a "SPIRIT LINE." This can be quoted as a "grace" for any such imperfection in one's creations....no matter what the media. Quilters will point out their errors, but another quilter in the group will jiggle the work up and down, asking, "Can you see it now?" Laughter always ensues. My Great Grandmother, who taught me to knit, crochet, and sew always brushed minor errors aside with the comment, "It won't be seen on a trotting horse." Just thought I'd share this with you. Thank you, too, for your thorough, concise, and informative videos. Continued Blessings in your knitting tutorials and your life. Karen
Thank you Norman, for your wonderful informative videos! I've been knitting for years, but I always learn something new and useful from you! Recently at a family reunion I taught 4 of my family members to knit. Since I don't live near any of them, I gave them a link to your RUclips channel and said "If you have any questions or problems, or if you want to learn a new technique then Norman will take over where I left off and help you." 😉 💕 Keep up the great work. It is so appreciated!
I have picked up the Norwegian style knitting. Love the purl, but can revert to another style on a moments notice. Speed is not an issue, but it has to be fun for me. Carlos, of 'Arne and Carlos' says, "It's only knitting." So far, I like the bamboo needles; both straight, and circular. I want it to be fun, so try not to be negative. You're right about being older. No time like the present... lol.
Thank you for this enlightening episode. We are all unique creators! Just a quick hint: when knitting socks or sleeves - I place my ball of yarn inside the establishing tube (if it fits comfortably of course) that way when I am using dpns, I can rotate and the yarn tail doesn’t get in the way. Use a pin to close the open end so the ball doesn’t fall out.
I once read an article in a "woman's magazine about doing a thing just for the fun or joy of it. The author was talking about her mediocre talent on the piano, but her joy at doing it. One of her children told her she should take lessons so she got better at it. She said that taking lessons would take her joy out of playing. I feel that way about many things. Bowling, for instance...we used to bowl every New Years Eve with a group of very competitive people, who were very eager to make me a better bowler. They were dumbstruck when I explained that I was having lots of fun and didn't need to "get better". I told them to watch my reaction when I hit any pins, much less got a strike...pure joy...compared to their reaction when they didn't get a strike...angst and despair, even little tantrums. I have things I strive to improve my skills for, such as my crafts...all else ceases to be fun if we feel we must be the best at it.
Imagine this comment in a handmade card and sent with beautiful handwriting. Thank you so much for your helpful video and willingness to share your knitting experiences and skills. As a long time knitter I would often limit myself to very simple straightforward patterns (which were also often my taste anyway) but turn away from challenging myself too much. But I now have been having so much fun knitting birds, small toys, cabled beanies etc to try different stitches and techniques. I will keep watching you and learning.😊
You know..i always tell myself: Before you judge something at least try it. If it's not your thing, well then you don't need to continue. And I do this with everything in life but also with knitting. I helped me a lot so far :)
As well as loving your content and enjoying your personality! I really appreciate that you don't insult our intelligence with rubbish background sound. Thank you!
I discovered your channel two days ago and immediately subscribed. At 62 years old, I decided to start knitting after a pause of about 45 years as I couldn't find a sweater that could fit my long and lean Bedlington Terrier dog. I love your channel and your amazing energy. Thank you from Toronto.
I once studied sewing and pattern drafting, and one of my favorite teacher's told us that if we ever make an unexpected mistake, it's best to call it a new design. What a lovely way of embracing the unexpected things that happen as we are practicing our new field, and finding joy in the very process of going from a brand new beginner to a higher level of experience and skill< And she always said it with a smile< A garment made from pattern drafting for a specific body is what she called a couture garment, which is, literally one of a kind< The same goes for every single knitted item
Thank you for your perspective 😊 I’m so enthusiastic about knitting that I do get lonely if there is no one around who appreciates the excitement I feel about a project or a new technique I’ve learned. Advice I would share with others like myself is to seek out a yarn shop, get in the car, and visit it. You will meet some very interesting knitters, spinners, dyers - and perhaps make new friends ❤️
that's a nice piece of advice. There are some super lovely yarn shops and most shop owners truly care about this hobby. Sadly, things were a bit more difficult in the past 18 months :(
This is a great video! I struggled with comparing myself for years. I knit fairly slow, and I taught myself from videos so I don't have a proper knitting "style". I used to try really hard to learn continental because that's what all the "cool kids" did, but it doesn't work for me. I would also be frustrated if everyone was knitting with fancy hand dyed yarn, and all I could afford was Cascade or Patons on sale. Now I am so much happier because I stopped worrying about what everyone else was doing, and instead I'm focusing on what I love about my knitting and just enjoy the process. That being said I am a Chiaogoo fan girl because they work the best for me, but I'm a big advocate for people trying several single needles of different brands before investing in a set because everyone knits differently. Thanks again for a great video!
good for you. I am an experienced knitter, and I love to use yarn and needles reclaimed from the Op Shop. Currently my favourite things to make are blankets aimed at our local homeless people and kids in Foster Care - using these products means I can make as many as I like and each one is a different style. It does take practice, but every achievement is so satisfying
I’m allergic to wool (and can’t afford it), going to yarn shops and seeing all the hand dyed yarn I can’t touch always makes me envious. My plan is to try dyeing my own plant based yarns.
What a sweet episode! It reminded me of a personal story that I'd like to tell you. My mother taught me how to knit when I was a kid; she learned how to knit from her mother, who was from Eastern Europe, so I am a lifelong Continental knitter. Quite a while ago, knitting in my local yarn store, the owner looked at me knitting and said "why don't you learn to knit properly." For a very, very long time I believed I didn't knit "properly." It was only a couple of years ago when I was browsing Craftsy classes that I learned that there were people out there who wanted to learn Continental! Silly yarn shop owner...silly me for taking her snide comment to heart. Thanks for your great advice and your wonderful tutorials.
Thank you. As a crocheter of 50 years and a new continental knitter ( it's easier for me) I really learned a lot from this video. I've been focusing on getting my garter stitches without holes. Now I will branch out.
Oh my goodness.....where have you been all my life? I've been a knitter for almost 60 years, and your approach to knitting is music to my ears. I could listen to you all day.....❤❤❤
Thank you for sharing these, I just finished your vanilla sock recipe the other day, and I'm super proud of myself for tackling socks for my second knitting project ever! Your videos are always so informative and clear, they've definitely helped me improve my knitting!
first of all, great job finishing your first pair of socks. I know how intimidating it can be, so do be proud on yourself! And happy to hear you like my videos
I believe you are right. We should let people know when they have made us happy, made us think or even are just like a friend who steps by to knit with. When I see your videos and my RUclips cue, it makes me smile because I enjoy your videos so very much. It's like time spent with an old friend that likes to knit too. They give me a smile for the rest of my day. I've only recently found your videos and I'm working my way through your video history. Each one gives me something to think about, something to which I have a different position and something to giggle about. For this, I say that you have done a wonderful thing. Please don't stop. And thank you for all you have done. Not just for me, but for all those just haven't said thank you or haven't met you yet. Have a Wonderful Day!
ah..and like I made you ponder or giggle...you just painted a big smile on my face with your kind comment. And so it goes full circle. Isn't that amazing?
Thank you so much for your clear, comprehensive tutorials. I’ve learned from you how to knit continental and many other techniques, joins, etc. For the most part, knitting is a solitary activity these days and your positivity and inspiration are very helpful. So glad I found you!
"Most people do not struggle with knitting but instead struggle with themselves"! THOSE ARE TOTALLY UTTER TRUTHFUL WORDS THAT YOU SPOKE! I am your UK follower that told you before ..."I more than adore the fact that you are always so straightforward and truthful to yourself whether others accept it or not". I love the way we are...NEVER CHANGE AS YOU ARE TOTALLY FABULOUS! Plus I more than agree with everything that you said in this video🥰🥰🥰. I can not stand people that love to follow like sheep!🤣🤣🤣
Thank you Norman for sharing your expertise with us. It's most appreciative. I've just finished a beautiful shug that can also be worn as a scarf. I made a mistake and one of my cables is reversed. Well this created a snake like effect. I was so proud of the mistake as it gave me an idea for using it as a design for another project. My family has challenged me that my yarn stash will outlive me. So I have to move forward working on my projects. This project is my Christmas gift. I always knit a gift for me for Christmas. I've created a project knitting hats for homeless vets who are in the process of transforming their lives. I say to everyone to knit/crochet a gift for someone or an organization that you have a passion for. Even if it is only 1 hat. I'm sure it will make their day. 🙂
Love this video! I started out holding (tensioning) my yarn one way and as a thrower. More recently I worked to retrain myself to be more of a flicker. Now I tension my completely different from my early years of knitting. Thank you for reminding me that I started knitting to relax and have something I can enjoy.
oh yeah...i changed the way I hold things multiple times as well because I was just not satisfied with the way I was taught (which made purling painful, lol). But hey, always learning new things is what makes this hobby so great, no? :)
Exactly this!!! I may have come here only knowing one cast-on, one cast-off, two-three joins & a stocking stitch, but even then it's fun making simple items for my miniatures (dolls & Pony toys if you're curious) I figured out how to make miniature hats, jumpers, & capes for them, as well as thin scarves (like 3-4 stitches wide in DK yarn on 4mm needles). And when I showed some of these things to other collectors of the same things, they loved them, & one of them even started watching you because of me!!! I followed too. One other thing I want to add is the following: do not fear!!! Try, fail, unravel, try again, do some more, look up various hints & tips, & try them all out, then once you start feeling comfy with certain methods, keep going & have fun!!! I'm rather pleased with my first successful 2x2 ribs, & am a bit less afraid to go for a 1x1 next time. What I most love about this channel is you don't tell us we MUST do a thing this way or that way. For example, stitch alignment on the needles. I have the stitches aligned one way for knits, the other for purls, & go into the knits in particular differently from most modern techniques shown, because it's how I learnt to knit as a child & my default now. Others will have a different default, & as you said, that's fine!!!
I just found your station. Love your videos they are great resources. I agree with preferences being subjective and it is hard to avoid jumping on the podcasters’ bandwagon for new tools,bags and yarn. Cheers from Canada!
O! M! G! You. Are. Fantastic!. I cannot believe you hesitated to make this video. It is just what every single knitter needs to see, no matter how long they have been knitting or if they are just trying to learn. I am 73 years of age and have been knitting for a few decades and still learning new things, whether it be about techniques, supplies and/or yarn. You really hit the nail right on the head with every single one of your points here. I am now a dedicated subscriber and will come back to this video if/when I ever feel discouraged or frustrated. Thank you so much.
Hi! With this video you just made me realize how lucky I am for having a sibling with the same hobby. We can share our thoughts and excitement over yarns and patterns. I never understood why people share their yarn colour palette on Instagram - maybe they don"t have that immediate help as I do. Thank you for raising awareness! (Btw, nice hair!)
aw...quite jealous their. Ironically, the people in my family who thought me knitting, stopped long ago and i can only talk with them on a very basic level. Like they appreciate it and know how much effort goes into it. but that's about it. (and thank you...someone finally got to see a hairdresser again *Grin*)
What you said about commenting on videos is really touching. I never realized how much someone might need that kind of feedback or at least benefit from it. Not everyone has influencer-like status and regularly receives all that much validation.
Thank you Norman. I am a new knitter. One of my first projects was a sweater for my newborn grandchild. I didn’t do a gauge swatch because I was impatient. When finished it was far too wide - my grandson slipped straight through. 😂. My son and I laughed and laughed. Learnt a lot that day. 😅
I am fairly new to knitting, having started at the beginning of Covid, so about 3 years. In the beginning, I had a friend and a helpful local yarn shop. Since moving a year ago, I have had to turn to videos with my problems. I recently discovered your videos, and must say you have helped me so much-with my knitting but also my attitude! Especially your comments in this video and the “How to Become a Master Knitter” video, helping me to relax and enjoy the process and completed “but not perfect” projects. I needed to hear someone else say, it’s ok if the work isn’t perfect, maybe no one’s work is. Also, I know I learn from each project-and that counts for something, too. Thank you so much for all of your hard work in producing your videos, but also all of your kind and encouraging words!!
"Most people don't struggle with knitting, they struggle with themselves." So true! Thanks for making this video. It helped me to pick up knitting again. I'd been so down on myself-I'm not as fast as other knitters I know, and I don't enjoy following complicated patterns... these kinds of self-criticisms had completely smothered the feelings of joy and satisfaction I used to feel about knitting. Thank you for reminding me that it's okay to enjoy knitting at my own pace and to have my own preferences!
As a clinical psychologist I wish more folks would apply these principles to the rest of their lives. But some lessons are harder to learn. I get it and obviously you do too. One thing I would like to add is that when we get frustrated we need to take a break, rest for awhile, BUT don’t quit. Finish what you start and you will feel better about yourself because you finished what you began. I do this when I sew, crochet, or just need a time out. Life is a challenge and so are a lot of our hobbies. So enjoy what life brings you, learn from it and move forward! Happy knitting!
That's an excellent addition. I too have to force myself to finish certain things..but it doesn't get better when they r lying around and u get reminded everytime u walk past 😅
Norman, I'm really trying to learn knitting (although years ago a former teacher sarcastically discouraged me). I watch many knitting tutorials yet I continue to return to you. You're a good teacher and holistic coach. We learn technical skills . Further you provide positive encouragement and support. I don't know that I'd be persevering with knitting if it weren't for you. Many thanks!
Norman, please know that you have given me so much! I have been trying to learn to knit for over a year, yet your instructions are the ones that have made sense to me. I am getting ready to go sit in a hospital room with my Dad for a week while he recovers from surgery, and knowing that I can have soothing knitting with me makes me feel so much better. Thank you for all you have done!
This message about giving not only ourselves but also others the generosity of being individual goes so far outside of knitting. A heart felt message we would all do better for taking our knitting and that message with us into our lives beyond.
I love the focus on "how does this bring joy!" A friend once told me that comparison is the thief of joy. I've been trying to relish the process as much as the outcome since I'm a very end product driven person. It's been a good practice to lean into the idea that this shawl might take me a year to finish but that's OK and try instead to enjoy the stitches and journey in between.
I don’t know how I’ve missed your videos all these years but I’ve found you now! Love your videos and I’m so enjoying listening and watching today. Thank you for being here and sharing your knowledge of and love for knitting! Your kindness shines through and your tips are so helpful. Thank you! ❤️
Thank you for stating the 5 things a knitter needs to hear! It all makes sense! I used to point out flaws on my knitted projects but I have learned to be proud of my work. Flaws are a part of life.😃 I try to always compliment others knitting. I see so many criticize others, it is sad to see. I enjoy seeing others work. I aspire to knit more intricate patterns but just am not ready yet. I will one day and people like you are the ones who incourage me! Thank you!
yeah...i know those people who just criticize. But hey..it's their way of trying to appear superior. But superiority over what? Kindness goes so much farther - especially as it's not a solitary path.
Great advice. I taught myself to knit 45(!) years ago and I love to see the amount of information and sharing that there is available today on channels like yours. Different knitters have different abilities, different interests, different budgets and different reasons to knit. I know that I do not like to knit in the round, make cables or steek. My advice is to find out what you enjoy knit and then relax and be proud of your accomplishments.
Needed to hear this!! I just finished a scarf I was so excited to make. I did nothing but knit this scarf in my free time for a week and a half. I started to not like how it was turning out halfway through and then I finally finished it yesterday. I keep going back and forth on whether I like it or not. The edges are wonky, I used two stitch patterns that don’t compliment one another, the colors I chose look funky together, the color transitions could be neater, and I used yarns with different weights to them 😂 I wanted to start another scarf and told myself “this time I’ll make it better!” But I started to get discouraged and all caught up in making it perfect. Choosing the right selvedge technique, not liking the colors together, choosing the right stitch patterns, and deciding how many stitches to cast on… I’ve spent so many hours trying to prep for something as simple as a scarf when all I wanted was to just be knitting it. I finally started this morning and I’m worried about how it’s going to turn out. But after watching this video, I’m just focusing on how I’m having fun knitting my funky scarves and not worrying about how it’ll look. Sometimes I feel like what’s the point of spending so many hours knitting a project when it turns out ugly and i might just frog the whole thing later… but embracing the mistakes makes me want to wear my funky projects anyways. This response was longer than I thought it was going to be and feels more like a journal entry at this point 😂 but I really needed the encouragement. I’ve been knitting on and off for years but I’ve finally really started to get into knitting more than before and I don’t want to get discouraged out of it!
Your words are really important. I know only a few fellow knitters (or crocheters) in person, but it always makes me sad if people start with their „I wished I was as good/as fast as XY“ tirades since it is almost impossible to change their perspective. Maybe that other person has nothing but their hobby to spend time on (which is rather sad, if you ask me) of course, they are faster and with more time at hand, probably way more experienced. Never assume or take things out of context and turn it around to make it something negative against yourself. In fact, not everything needs to be about ourselves - it is way more easy to just say „I admire XY for this“ than let sour thoughts like „they are always better than me“ sink in. In fact, everyone is good at something, and life is not a competition 🙂
As far as mistakes go, I subscribe to the Amish principle that only God can create something perfect so everything we make must have a flaw either by accident or on purpose. Or, just call it an artistic/design decision 😋 I'm one of those chronic shawl knitters you spoke about. I just love knitting lace shawls, they're a reasonably quick project that always look impressive. For anyone thinking about knitting a lace shawl but feel it's too difficult for them, pleas, just give it a go. If you can knit, pearl, k2t and ssk, then you can make a lace shawl - they're mainly about counting, counting, counting but the stitches themselves are not complicated. Just remember to lifeline every 10 rows so if you need to frog it (and you will!) you only have to rip out 10 rows, not the whole thing. Actually, lifelining is a great habit to get into whatever you're making.
I'm a continental knitter who comes from a crocheting background. I really struggled with moving my yarn back and forth while doing k1 p1 and with purling generally I almost gave up on knitting for the umpteenth time, then searched youtube and come across Norwegian purling. COMPLETE game changer for me.
I am brand new to knitting. I am so glad you are here for me. You have a gift of clear explanations and your close ups on your stitches and work are so clear it’s like peering over your shoulder.You are a talented knitter with an exceptional gift for communication. Nice combination for your viewers! Thank you for the time you put into teaching us.
I love Nimble Knitter. He explains WHY he thinks this works better. I can decide if I care, if the extra effort is worth it to me to make it 10 to 20% , but if it is a hat for an 8 year old girl who loves the color, maybe I do not try to be perfect but just try to finish it
that's the perfectway to approach things, Eastlyn and the way I feel about most of this. I show you what is possible but it's up to you to discard it, improve it or take it as it is
@@NimbleNeedles yes you and I think that way, but for some there is this line between the artistic designer and the knitter and they do not dare cross that line, even to go as far as on a simple knit project to change stitches per inch or number of rows to fit in with the knitter's gauge rather than to try to knit to the gauge the pattern says to knit to. And for reasons no one can explain to me, the same beginning knitters who are afraid to do the math starting from their own gauge will have an astounding courage to substitute in a different yarn, and very tentatively ask will it still work if I add 5 stitches here. This observed behavior of others only proves that your average human thinks differently from Eastlyn. And I understand that there is some math that could be scary or challenging but once that math is mastered, doors are opened. This is the concept--> The knitter is trying to make a flat fabric or a tube of fabric of a certain size and to do that the number of rows and number of stitches per row needs to be calculated based upon the actual gauge of the knitter, not the knit gauge printed on the label or even the knit gauge the designer says you should be knitting to to get the results promised in the pattern. I believe the simpler projects have to be and should be figured out from a standpoint of the knitter's actusl gauge, like the size of the bricks used, and everything is based off that. You said (and most knitting teachers do not say this) you should not be trying to force a gauge onto yourself as a beginning knitter. I learned to crochet as a child and to knit as an adult and I say most knitter's and crocheters can not change their gauge znd make thst work, because they will be sliding back into your natural gauge and the bigger or smaller needles is not a magic cure for their sliding back into ghdur natural gauge. Instead you should be, if needed, changing the number of stitches and the number of rows. For a scarf or a neck muff, good beginner projects, having a different gsuge is not going to wreck the project. For a sweater or vest, yes you do need to be knitting the gauge the pattern says will work. And I am not fussing at anyone or trying to pooh look like a smart person, but I am typing out what I wish some one had said to me. Here's the sum up Nimble Knitter and others are asked those impossible to answer questions. And what I typed above is true and might be possible to convey to them. However, maybe what we should say is it is like bricks and making a wall or whatever you are making. You want me to tell you how many whatever and what size needle but since every knits differently if I do not know how you will knit with that yarn, it is like how many bricks do I need and what size are the bricks. We find out what size your bricks/stitches are by doimg a swatch. Hopefully the beginning knitter's life experience with walking in brick pavements and seeing brick walls is going to help them mentally grasp what Nimbke Knitter said and what I typed. I also know I did not want to swatch. And now I swatch. This yarn I hate looks good in this other stitch pattern or in this larger or smaller needle size. Now, finally understanding that swatching is not a total waste of time (and is not a useless thing smarty pants teachers are telling you to do like the boring useless stuff we did in school 'busy work homework'), I will swatch and I will modify that pattern and I will use a yarn that acts like what the yarn specified in the pattern acts like. And maybe when helping the confused one say bricks. If you read this far, I will do no harm by sharing this funny story. Out on a blanket, i have balls of 4 ply worsted weight Red Heart supersaver yarn, crochet hooks of different sizes. I have softer yarn but I think this is the easiest to learn on for my young girl student. I show chaining which is like casting on and one kind of stitch. I do the first row or two and let her work on a piece that is not floppy. I show, she copies me. We switch pieces of work. I explain the first 3 rows rows the hardest. The first 6 rows might be hard znd then it gets easy (because then it is a real fabric not a floppy worm like thing, this bit I do not say because she sees that) She then wants to try my crochet hook and my piece of crochet. Trade she says. I do. And I start a 3rd piece, maybe more than 3 pieces are being used. She keeps wanting to trade crochet hooks/needles with me (something like lucky dice), znd I trade every time she asks. We now have maybe 5 crochet patches bring worked on with a crochet hook/needle in each one znd they are color cided by size. Try to picture that and i finally understand her mindset and I let her trade with me. I have now proved it works with slightly fatter and slightly softer yarn and with different sizes of hooks. And she says that hook works better. I say OK trade. This color might be easier tomsee I am thinking but but saying aloud. And she finally says you have the better crochet hook and I say OK let's trade and she is now determined fo learn, but frustrated and mildly mad at me. And asks me why the crochet hook in her hand works better for me than it does for her (like a dog minding the husband better than the wife)? And i softly gently say my old wrinkled stiff kneed grandma taught me. I was bad at this before I was good at this. And I have more years practice than you have been alive (the words look harsh here naked without the voice tones and facial expressions znc I gently laughedthen got serious) and I Promise You IF YOU do not quit, the crochet hook will do it for you as good or even better than it does for me. So my point here is not just children think the gold needke or the purple needle or the whatever has some kind of magic. Humans are just wired that way, I think. She repeatedly traded work with me because I had thd good one or the better one or that one works better. Uhh no but the beginner in any craft is susceptible to the magic hook thinking. No the hook in Eastlyn's hand is not magically doing better. This is not laziness she was showing; do not mistake my meaning. She just saw the hook in my hand acting differently than it did in her hand and that annoyed her. And if we can get beginners to understand why we swatch and to understand what i proved to her not just told her, they wil learn and improve faster than we learned and improved znc rhrybsill develop trucks and techniques we will adopt, if only we can help them see those two points.
@@eastlynburkholder3559 thank you for sharing your story and this very elaborate feedback. Happy to know that someone is on the do math, learn how it work side :)
This is really a video that all the knitter need to watch! I just started and I made so many mistake at the beginning. Sometimes I’m worried I don’t get the right tools and yarn in a weird way, but I do have fun doing so! Thank you for letting me know that I’m not the weird one 😊 I like to watch people who knows how to really knit, and I know they learned it while making a lot of mistakes and figured out how to fix it too! I also had a lot of time just suddenly figured out a way to fix a process and now I will never forget it. How nice it is!😊
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Not only are your tutorials well-shot and informative, but the holistic approach you take to knitting is so positive and healthy! Thank you for all the hard work that you put into your videos.
you are very welcome Sophie. Knitting means a lot to me. Sometimes I believe it's the only reason I am still sane, lol. So I thought, hey, why not sometimes share more than just how to knit a knit stitch. :)
Love this pep talk, Norman, thank you
I think I have watched more of your ‘chatting’ videos than your actual tutorials 😄
What is your take on Shetland knits???
My husband set me free one day with the words, "It doesn't have to be perfect." I've been lighthearted about my projects (and other life areas) ever since.
My Sip n Paint instructor said to me, we turned it into a Hashtag;
#ExpressionNotPerfection
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The message you impart in this video is very important in both knitting and how to you live your life in general. To have character traits of being positive, encouraging and sensitive to others is truly a worthwhile goal. You must be treasured by the people in your life!
I’ve only been knitting for 3 weeks, I’ve only learnt the knit stitch, I will learn the purl eventually but I’m having fun just knitting that stitch, I want to be perfect at it, plus I like the way it looks. I was taught to knit 31 years ago when I was 10, didn’t pick it up till recently, I’m just thankful for RUclips, as the lovely woman that taught me, died a good few years ago, I like to think she’s looking down on me smiling and saying about time lol.
You are probably noticing that I’m commenting on ur older videos, I just found ur videos a couple of weeks ago, I’m loving ur videos, u are very good at explaining things, so thank you
This reminded me soooo much of my ex-husband's grandmother!. I have been crocheting for my entire adult life & i have always used the knife-hold, it just worked for me. Ex's grandma also crocheted most of her life, she used a pencil hold...so instead of being able to bring my yarn & hooks along to family get-togethers & share crocheting tips or tricks, i got to hear from her how i was "doing it wrong!". I finally told her "as long as it turns out looking the way i intended it to, i don't really care if i'm "doing it wrong!" :)
Someone said that to me once too! Well, I may do it "wrong", but I do Irish work! Poo to that nasty woman. I hold my yarn the same way knitting and crocheting.
6:48 I'm enjoying sharing my super flawed and wonky pieces with my family. We get a chuckle together since they've seen my very nice and tidy crochet work, and it's fun to compare that to my ladders and holes and drops and too-loose and too-tight etc. initial attempts at knitting a simple dishcloth.
I'm sure you've seen that "distressed" knitted sweaters and accessories are all the rage, with big designers selling complete trash, full of holes, barely wearable tops for $2000+. So it's super amusing that my pieces look ratty like that too. I'm going to miss this stage when I get neater and more consistent.
I do recall that when I was learning crochet, my family cared little that the gloves and hats and cowls I made for them were uneven and a little wonky. They loved the work anyway and I loved making and gifting it. It's really the best thing about being a maker of any kind.
So, long story just a little longer: I agree 100%. Don't belittle your own work. Making ANYthing is an act of creation and that should always make us happy and proud.
Thank you for such a wonderful uplifting message. I wish I had seen it 20 years ago. The first time I joined an in-person knitting group, I heard lots of negative comments. At age 5, I learned how to knit from my left-handed and blind grandmother. I developed a unique style that works well for me. It took a long time to realize that I didn’t need to change just to meet someone else’s idea of the “right way” to knit.
absolutely! How idiotic would that be if we all knitted the same thing and the same way. I mean..knitting is a hobby (so no stress to begin with, right) and an extension of your personality on top of that. So, in fact, I would say it's the other way round. You understood something at a very early age that other knitters yet have to understand.
I've been knitting for 60 years. I still learn new things from you and others. Thank you.
I am a nervous new knitter and this has made me realise hell yeah I can do this and I can do it my own way!
My first projects were headbands with bows, and ear savers for the local hospitals where staff wear masks up to 14hr a day. They were all in the knit stitch though. I have now learnt how to purl (eventually) I now knit basic baby hats for the babies in hospital. I have tried baby mittens, I need more practice with them though. Booties well I kid you not. I was spending up to 12hr days and after 60+ more attempts I finally got it and knitted some, a few mistakes but not really jump out visible. I am struggling with the sewing part I never know which stitch I should be working with. I keep practicing to no avail yet. I can’t believe how patient I am with myself I normally have a short concentration span and get fed up. I live in the u.k and I bought second hands needles from 2mm-6.5mm. Really good quality still in the slot packing. You can tell that the previous person looked after them really well even though they are 25/30 year old. I love you and your channel and I am more motivated not to be scared to try something new and to stay confident.
Take Care & thank you
Yes, of course you can do it! And sometimes you or your body needs a bit more time to learn something. and that's just okay as well. And hey...it sounds like you are a wonderful soul, knitting all those items for those who need it. So, that already puts you ahead of so many. You don't only have a hobby that brings you joy, you share it. How amazing is that
What a lovely story! If this is the sort of thing you're doing already, you're really going to love this knitting thing. I've been knitting for the best part of 40 years on and off, more on in the last ten years as I'm not so able bodied now. I'm still learning new things and new techniques but the most important lessons are the ones I've learned from this wonderful guy. I wish you nothing but joy in what you do, including the mistakes because they're little lessons in themselves. All the very best xx
I'm a sewer first, Not a knitter, but I can say that it shouldn't matter which stitch you choose to sew through. It also doesn't matter how inconsistent you are with where your sewed stitches are placed, so long as they average out to be a fairly straight line and you don't end up with fabric that's too small for whoever you're knitting for. I hope you have a great knitting journey!
Your first attempts were greatly appreciated too. Trust me. I work in a hospital ICU and during covid surge those little knit and crochet bands saved our ears from lots of pain.
@@susanboyd6592 aww thank you so much. I am glad they bring relief to yourself and others who have to wear them. I didn’t forget others that work in the hospitals as well. I dropped them off at the catering, cleaning, reception, physio, o.t, porters, labs, absolutely every department including the morgues and chaplains. The ones some people forget about. I can’t imagine what it must be like for workers to have to work in them for hours at a time. I have been stricken with ill health and have been diagnosed with another “new” condition hyper mobility which is affecting my joints mainly hand, wrists, elbows and is blooming painful at times. My hubby has just bought me a lovely set of lightweight needles so I can carry on knitting! I’m looking at different yarns to buy which could be even softer for you. Maybe mohair or a soft 4 ply yarn. So if you OR ANY OTHER KNITTERS know what yarn to buy it will be much appreciated. Thank you to everyone in the health service and your kind words.
EDIT..Me again! I was wondering if it would be more helpful to sew two buttons on each side so they could be more adaptable with head size.
I've been a closed-hand Continental knitter since 1987, and the way I learned to purl didn't quite work for me, but it's all I knew until recently. This year, I found out there are at least four other ways to purl, and the one that works best for me is, of all things, the Norwegian purl. I use it exclusively, and it's restored my faith in my own abilities. I never would have known the Norwegian purl existed until I looked into the matter. And that's what I love about knitting, there's always something to learn. I don't care how long a person has been doing this, there's more to know and to do. How can anyone get bored doing this?
What a lovely story you share there.
I do have to say that the advent of the internet changed things for me as well. Before it was just the people in my village, my relatives and books. ANd suddenly I learned that things I came up myself weren't crazy! And you are absolutely right...knitting has a lifetime of learning for you in store. And how amazing is that!
Yup...I really disliked purling until I learned the Norwegian way of purling as well....made me fall madly in love with knitting
I’m a continental knitter and I typically purl using Norwegian Purl method. I find my purl stitch tension is better. I enjoy trying new methods.
I agree, there is always something new to do and think about under the umbrella of knitting. I remember my own mother spending her very small amount of spare time occupied with long skinny knitting needles and wool yarn. I asked her to help me make my first sweater for her friend’s new baby when I was 8 years old. That was 60 years ago, yikes! 😂 I remember holding a red strand and a blue strand of mohair together and using large needles to make an airy fabric. It didn’t take long to make a baby sweater with that combo. I have only taken up knitting sporadically throughout my adulthood. But, I didn’t really start learning until 2014 with the miracle of RUclips. It really is fabulous. I had to laugh at your comment in the video about knitting and the people around us not really interested or caring about our hobby. The internet has been wonderful for connecting to other people from around the globe that are just as fascinated with this craft as I am and it is reassuring. Being stuck at home during the pandemic in 2020/21, these videos are a breath of fresh air. Thank you, Norman! Thank you to you too, 3rd and 10. I didn’t know I would write so much on your post.
Before the interwebs, my grandmother taught me to knit… and I trained my self to wrap my purl ‘backwards’… I didn’t know that was a thing til a friend pointed out they could tell my work because my purls were always twisted. I decided that I like how it looks, but I have also noticed that I hated purls b/c they were too tight and it was harder to stitch and doing it ‘right’ was easier.
I love your philosophy on knitting and appreciate the emphasis of doing what works for me. Doing creative crafts generates a lot of negative feedback in my own head (and everyone else) but I push on to completion. I learned from a sewing course I took the saying: "done is beautiful". I repeat that to myself often now when I approach any craft knowing that it is not always smooth sailing and often the challenge makes the completion that much more satisfying. If you get pleasure out of it hang in there and don't be hard on yourself.
I also struggled with trying to make things perfect in sewing too. I have finally realized at the age of 79 years that my makes only need to be presentable and as close to perfect as I can make them. This applies to my knitting as well. We all make mistakes from time to time and just need to correct and continue on. I derive great joy in my sewing or knitting with this in mind.
I taught myself to knit and crochet as a child from books. My Mum taught me to sew and embroider, and that was the focus of my creative side from age 9 on. I recently went back to knitting and crochet to help calm my Mum in the evenings when her Alzheimers ramped up. I have used my "Covid Time Out" learning how to knit 3 or 4 different cables, 8 new crochet stitches, and improving my confidence and speed on the basics. Sadly my Mum has passed, but I feel like she is sitting beside me still as I find peace in the rhythm on my stitching. Your videos are so helpful, and I wish I had found you earlier.
sounds similar to my journey. while i learned crochet and knitting at an early age...sewing and embroidery was my main focus. My great-grandma loved embroidery and even today I still have to think of her every time I do it.
So nice to hear someone give all knitters a reminder that we are all different. Very supportive and positive message. Keep up the GREAT work and kind soul.
I definitely plan to do that David because I feel it is just such an important message!
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Great message. Thanks for posting. Too often I see direct negative messages posted in comments. And I hear and see bloggers preemptively apologizing for their method or opinions because of it. I worry that this will reduce the sharing of all these wonderful people’s knowledge and ideas. Please don’t stop sharing. Thank you for what you share with us.
@@gdboone thank you for your feedback Gwen. And I know what you mean and it sometimes makes me sad. But i promise, I won't stop recording videos soon
Great message and something that has to be said to counteract the toxic pseudo perfection of modern social media
I love this video. I’m a long term knitter and I, too, see knitters apologize for their knitting or compare themselves unfavorably with other knitters. I love your messages here. We all need to be less critical of ourselves and our knitting. There’s no knitting police so relax no enjoy knitting.
@@witatter1 well said!
This video was inspired. I always compare my work to that of others, usually to my own detriment. Thanks for the pep talk. Also your voice is very soothing.
I'm very sure your work is beautiful the way it is Marcia!
You're so correct. This should be called '5 important things every PERSON needs to hear' because it applies to life and the challenges we face. This same advice could apply to anyone learning to drive, sew, get fit, etc. It's really about appreciating who you are, not being overly critical of yourself, and lending a helping hand.
Amen. This advice is spot on. I am an experienced knitter but remember when I was learning and was so intimidated by other knitters. After many years, I have learned that as long as I am having fun and like what I am making, that is all that matters.
right? When I was younger, all the local women..i mean..they were crazy. Even today I still sometimes feel a bit like an imposter because they were just soo good and I'm like "they should be doing the teaching, not me". But of course, I realized, that's no valid argument at all :)
I love your positive, affirming message. You nailed it!
As I watched the video I was reminded of an incident at a LYS in Tucson, AZ years ago. A gentleman came into the store with a project in a paper shopping bag. He asked for some help correcting an error in his afghan. He pulled the project out of the bag and it was the ugliest, messiest piece of knitting imaginable - full of holes, dropped stitches and knots. No one in the store reacted with smirks or eye rolls. The store owner asked the gentleman to show him what it was it was he needed help with. He said that he thought he had dropped a stitch somewhere. She identified the closest dropped stitch to his live needle and repaired it for him. When she handed back the project he glowed with pride and told everyone in the store that he had an old, arthritic dog and he was knitting a warm blanket for his dog's bed. Customers and staff in the store affirmed him with comments about his kindness to and love for his dog and watched him leave the store with a smile on his face and his head held high. That's the magic that can happen when we take pride in our own work and affirm the work of others in our knitting family.
Thank you for the part you play in promoting the joy in our chosen hobby.
What an amazing story u shared there! ❤
I loved your story Elvira. How I wish more people practiced the same kind support in everyday life
Hi Norman, I just recently picked up knitting again, I'm only 2 projects new...lol. I have become obsessed or so my husband tells me and I just wanted to tell you that you have become my new RUclips Knitting Guru, I really enjoy your videos and how clearly you explain the techniques and that you give so many options. Plus you are quite funny. Thank you so much for taking the time to make these videos, they are greatly appreciated and your positivity is a breathe of fresh air. Much love to you.
This video was so helpful! I've often felt so defeated while knitting, because I think that I'll never be as good a knitter as my nana was (she taught me how to knit when I was 7 or 8) - and I've stuck to crocheting for a long time because I've never known anyone who crocheted and had less of a problem with comparing myself. But I've started my first knitting project in some years, and the points made in this video are really going to help. Being able to knit (or craft/create in general) should be a source of pride, regardless of one's skill level or ability!
So true, so true. No 2 knitters, democrats, blacks, Germans, English, Americans, Japanese, Catholics, Jews, Muslims, Iranians alike!!! Goes for knitters, too. This is such valuable advice. Not just for knitting but for life. Do what works for you and try not to push other people around. Be kind I think is your message. And it is such an inspiration to hear you say that we can make our own patterns. You really inspire us to be creative.
Thank you soooooo much for this video, Norman! I have been knitting for over 35 years, English style, preferring circular needles over DPNs (I am still very clumsy with them!). While I feel I am knitting at a decent speed, watching so many other tutorials using DPNs and the Continental method always made me feel inadequate. This video is a much-needed affirmation that we are good enough! You are a blessing to this knitting community. I am always looking forward to your tutorials, because I love the many options you present, the thoroughness and the clarity. ❤❤❤
I love your word "wonky"! Then I can fix my mistakes with confidence! I'm so proud of myself. Today I fixed a hole in my practice work with just the knitting needles. I did a great job, because you said not to be afraid to fix dropped stiches. Picked up all but one! I love the way you explain how to knit. So many things I never knew, being self taught years ago. I'm enjoying learning from you! Thank you for sharing and encouragement!
As always you’re an inspiration to all of us knitters. Every time I listen to you I learn something new. Thank you.
These points are helpful for many other hobbies or endeavors, aren't they? I ageee with you about pointing out flaws. When I taught school and students presented projects to the class, I always cautioned them about pointing out flaws before they even began. That does one thing ... alert the audience to look for the error instead of paying attention to the content of the presentation. With adults I notice from comments of others that it's often a plea for praise or attention.
yeah...that sort of behavior is sadly well ingrained in our society..for all the wrong reasons :(
Love this video! And not just for knitting, it applies to life in general too!
Thank you xx
I really like all the different points you make here, and appreciate the time, effort, and caring involved in putting your videos together.
I love how you are the opposite of a gate keeper. Instead of going into a hobby and getting berated for not doing something the preferred/“correct” way, you are welcoming and knowledgeable! Thank you. I appreciate your videos.
I absolutely love that you always emphasize that the method/tool/style/color that is right for the individual is the one that is right!! Years I was teaching a knitting class and had a student who constantly doubted herself. She would suddenly stop and say, "I can't do it." I would look at her and say, "You just did." She would brighten and so, "Oh," and go on with her knitting.
This is Great Advice for life in general, bruh!
I am happy I found your channel. Thank you for the positive message. My sister taught me beginning knitting 35 years ago and I am still a beginner, learning and enjoying. Thank you for encouraging knitters.
and I'm happy to have you hear Rebecca. tho, with 35 years of knitting it sounds like you are more than just a beginner :)
As someone who tight knits, and always feels awkward about how much I need to go up in needle size to hit gauge, the message of 'there's no best, just what is best for you' is really great to hear.
I am a rather tight knitter as well, and I personally think that's a good thing :)
Thank you so much for your words of wisdom and encouragement. Truly words to live by and apply not only in knitting but
other areas in life. You are Blessing so glad I found your channel! Thank you for taking the time to make this very inspirational
video! God Bless you!
Thank you Angela. And you are absolutely right. A lot of the things we learn and live by in our hobbies, can be applied in life in general (and vice versa). We just need to apply them and realize the fact (which took me ages myself!). Also, glad to have you here on my channel :)
I feel the same way.
@@NimbleNeedles r
This is not only for knitting, this advices are for LIFE!
Thank you so much for your kind words!
Great video, Norman. You're a great knitter (and so am I)! Love that t-shirt! Thank you for acknowledging process knitters--that's me! One piece of advice I wish I had as a knitter is that when a knitter gifts a handknit item to a non-knitter, it is common for the non-knitter to not understand how much work (not just in the knitting, but in choosing yarn, choosing the pattern, etc.) went into that gift. So, expecting them to appreciate it like a knitter would is simply not a realistic expectation. Don't be disappointed. I started viewing it as a gift for both of us -- the gift of joy I get in making the item, and then the gift to them in the end.
Hey Mae. That'S a very important point you raise there. It's also a difficult one...because when you put so much love into something..you kind of come to expect it to be loved in return. But as you say, that's often not the case. Thx for adding that!
The demands of some gift recipients could only be exceeded by gift recipients who choose their own yarn, of course only the cheapest, but expect a result like that of cashmere, alpaca or i. e. hard-wearing sock wool. I recommend that such recipients show their limits.
Norman! As a brand-new knitter, I'm grateful for the opportunity to listen to this message. Thank you for sharing such a profoundly encouraging message.
I love my mistakes it makes the piece mine and gives it character. Also it’s fun to look back because there might be a great story behind the mistake.
that's a great way of looking at it!
Excellent advice, not just for knitting.
We are often hardest on ourselves, and most generous with others. It's important to remember that we are all just human & cut each other a break, but also, cut ourselves a break, too.
There's a pattern on the yarnspirations website - the official website of the Bernat, Caron, Patons, etc., yarn brands - for which the sample garment was stitched wrong on one side by their expert! It wouldn't be so noticeable, except the left side is done correctly, so it's obvious the entire right side is wrong. It's been like that for several years now. You definitely do not want your finished piece to look like the example! But it's proof that even the professionals get things very wrong sometimes.
Sometimes I wish I could knit faster, but that's my impatience at wanting to both make the item myself, and also have a finished product in hand already. When that happens, I just have to remind myself that what I want more is to make it myself, and it'll be done when it's done. Warts & all.
ha...well...i wish I could knit faster as well. lol. even though i am already super fast. But i'm so terribly impatient and always knit with super small needles so...when i knit a shawl or traditional socks, a single row can sometimes ake more than 30minutes
Thank you so much for making feel like my knitting is a journey, not a race. I'm new to knitting and I have made mistakes in my knitting. I'm learning I will do better the next time. I not getting caught up in making it perfect for me. Now, if I am making a gift for someone I will definitely make ever effort to make it perfect. Thanks again.
no, knitting is no race. You are a beginner, you are totally allowed to make mistakes..and as you said, if you use them to do it better next time, you are on the right path!
Preach!😍😍😍
I used to find mistakes frustrating but then a non-knitting friend asked me "the" question -- can you fix it or is it ok the way it is? That lead me to a journey of how to fix or determine if there was a need to fix, could I learn to love my mistakes, or could I learn to be ok with ripping back to fix? Now each time I discover a mistake it becomes of "mystery" to solve -- to fix, to leave, how to do, is it worth the trouble to fix, will it compromise the piece if I leave it, and so on. So, chin up, take pride in your work and decisions about your knitting. Every project you accomplish will teach you something new about knitting and maybe even yourself and it is so worth it. I have to say that 99% of my projects are for others either as gifts because they commented about something or by request. That my knitting that provides me joy then brings joy to another is such a bonus!
I understand that Navajo blankets ALWAYS contain an "irregularity" purposefully called a "SPIRIT LINE." This can be quoted as a "grace" for any such imperfection in one's creations....no matter what the media. Quilters will point out their errors, but another quilter in the group will jiggle the work up and down, asking, "Can you see it now?" Laughter always ensues. My Great Grandmother, who taught me to knit, crochet, and sew always brushed minor errors aside with the comment, "It won't be seen on a trotting horse." Just thought I'd share this with you. Thank you, too, for your thorough, concise, and informative videos. Continued Blessings in your knitting tutorials and your life. Karen
Thank you Norman, for your wonderful informative videos! I've been knitting for years, but I always learn something new and useful from you! Recently at a family reunion I taught 4 of my family members to knit. Since I don't live near any of them, I gave them a link to your RUclips channel and said "If you have any questions or problems, or if you want to learn a new technique then Norman will take over where I left off and help you." 😉 💕 Keep up the great work. It is so appreciated!
oh wow. Thank you for sharing my work with others Stacie. That's much appreciated!
I've been recommending Nimble Needle too! You are getting viewers from Montana! I swear we are knitting twins!
I have picked up the Norwegian style knitting. Love the purl, but can revert to another style on a moments notice. Speed is not an issue, but it has to be fun for me. Carlos, of 'Arne and Carlos' says, "It's only knitting." So far, I like the bamboo needles; both straight, and circular. I want it to be fun, so try not to be negative. You're right about being older. No time like the present... lol.
Thank you for your valuable advices.
I would add that yarn and pattern and knitter combine in each project to create a different “best” selection for needles.
great additon Suzanne!
Thank you for this enlightening episode. We are all unique creators! Just a quick hint: when knitting socks or sleeves - I place my ball of yarn inside the establishing tube (if it fits comfortably of course) that way when I am using dpns, I can rotate and the yarn tail doesn’t get in the way. Use a pin to close the open end so the ball doesn’t fall out.
that's actually a new tip for me...great! I will definitely try that for sure! thx for commenting sue.
I once read an article in a "woman's magazine about doing a thing just for the fun or joy of it. The author was talking about her mediocre talent on the piano, but her joy at doing it. One of her children told her she should take lessons so she got better at it. She said that taking lessons would take her joy out of playing. I feel that way about many things. Bowling, for instance...we used to bowl every New Years Eve with a group of very competitive people, who were very eager to make me a better bowler. They were dumbstruck when I explained that I was having lots of fun and didn't need to "get better". I told them to watch my reaction when I hit any pins, much less got a strike...pure joy...compared to their reaction when they didn't get a strike...angst and despair, even little tantrums. I have things I strive to improve my skills for, such as my crafts...all else ceases to be fun if we feel we must be the best at it.
Imagine this comment in a handmade card and sent with beautiful handwriting. Thank you so much for your helpful video and willingness to share your knitting experiences and skills. As a long time knitter I would often limit myself to very simple straightforward patterns (which were also often my taste anyway) but turn away from challenging myself too much. But I now have been having so much fun knitting birds, small toys, cabled beanies etc to try different stitches and techniques. I will keep watching you and learning.😊
You know..i always tell myself: Before you judge something at least try it. If it's not your thing, well then you don't need to continue. And I do this with everything in life but also with knitting. I helped me a lot so far :)
As well as loving your content and enjoying your personality! I really appreciate that you don't insult our intelligence with rubbish background sound. Thank you!
wouldn't do to insult anyone, right? :P
I discovered your channel two days ago and immediately subscribed. At 62 years old, I decided to start knitting after a pause of about 45 years as I couldn't find a sweater that could fit my long and lean Bedlington Terrier dog. I love your channel and your amazing energy. Thank you from Toronto.
I once studied sewing and pattern drafting, and one of my favorite teacher's told us that if we ever make an unexpected mistake, it's best to call it a new design.
What a lovely way of embracing the unexpected things that happen as we are practicing our new field, and finding joy in the very process of going from a brand new beginner to a higher level of experience and skill< And she always said it with a smile<
A garment made from pattern drafting for a specific body is what she called a couture garment, which is, literally one of a kind< The same goes for every single knitted item
well said, Susan!
I like how you give a lesson on knitting and it’s a lesson in life. They should call you the wise knitter. Keep Calm and Knit On. Love it.
Thank you for your perspective 😊
I’m so enthusiastic about knitting that I do get lonely if there is no one around who appreciates the excitement I feel about a project or a new technique I’ve learned. Advice I would share with others like myself is to seek out a yarn shop, get in the car, and visit it. You will meet some very interesting knitters, spinners, dyers - and perhaps make new friends ❤️
that's a nice piece of advice. There are some super lovely yarn shops and most shop owners truly care about this hobby. Sadly, things were a bit more difficult in the past 18 months :(
I love the common sense and how to accept mistakes as a pathway to success! ❤️
This is a great video! I struggled with comparing myself for years. I knit fairly slow, and I taught myself from videos so I don't have a proper knitting "style". I used to try really hard to learn continental because that's what all the "cool kids" did, but it doesn't work for me. I would also be frustrated if everyone was knitting with fancy hand dyed yarn, and all I could afford was Cascade or Patons on sale. Now I am so much happier because I stopped worrying about what everyone else was doing, and instead I'm focusing on what I love about my knitting and just enjoy the process. That being said I am a Chiaogoo fan girl because they work the best for me, but I'm a big advocate for people trying several single needles of different brands before investing in a set because everyone knits differently. Thanks again for a great video!
First of all, i love your user name! :)
good for you. I am an experienced knitter, and I love to use yarn and needles reclaimed from the Op Shop. Currently my favourite things to make are blankets aimed at our local homeless people and kids in Foster Care - using these products means I can make as many as I like and each one is a different style.
It does take practice, but every achievement is so satisfying
I’m allergic to wool (and can’t afford it), going to yarn shops and seeing all the hand dyed yarn I can’t touch always makes me envious. My plan is to try dyeing my own plant based yarns.
@@juniperraven1386 oh..i'm sorry to hear that! But in recent years some amazing plant based alternatives have emerged. I kind of love hemp!
What a sweet episode! It reminded me of a personal story that I'd like to tell you. My mother taught me how to knit when I was a kid; she learned how to knit from her mother, who was from Eastern Europe, so I am a lifelong Continental knitter. Quite a while ago, knitting in my local yarn store, the owner looked at me knitting and said "why don't you learn to knit properly." For a very, very long time I believed I didn't knit "properly." It was only a couple of years ago when I was browsing Craftsy classes that I learned that there were people out there who wanted to learn Continental! Silly yarn shop owner...silly me for taking her snide comment to heart. Thanks for your great advice and your wonderful tutorials.
Thank you. As a crocheter of 50 years and a new continental knitter ( it's easier for me) I really learned a lot from this video. I've been focusing on getting my garter stitches without holes. Now I will branch out.
Yeah, continental is often much easer for crocheters as you do tension the yarn in a similar way after all. :)
Oh my goodness.....where have you been all my life? I've been a knitter for almost 60 years, and your approach to knitting is music to my ears. I could listen to you all day.....❤❤❤
Wow, thank you! (ps.. /shameless plug/...there's tons of videos in my archive...soo..you could watch all day *smirk*)
Thank you for sharing these, I just finished your vanilla sock recipe the other day, and I'm super proud of myself for tackling socks for my second knitting project ever! Your videos are always so informative and clear, they've definitely helped me improve my knitting!
first of all, great job finishing your first pair of socks. I know how intimidating it can be, so do be proud on yourself! And happy to hear you like my videos
I believe you are right. We should let people know when they have made us happy, made us think or even are just like a friend who steps by to knit with. When I see your videos and my RUclips cue, it makes me smile because I enjoy your videos so very much. It's like time spent with an old friend that likes to knit too. They give me a smile for the rest of my day. I've only recently found your videos and I'm working my way through your video history. Each one gives me something to think about, something to which I have a different position and something to giggle about. For this, I say that you have done a wonderful thing. Please don't stop. And thank you for all you have done. Not just for me, but for all those just haven't said thank you or haven't met you yet. Have a Wonderful Day!
ah..and like I made you ponder or giggle...you just painted a big smile on my face with your kind comment. And so it goes full circle. Isn't that amazing?
Thank you so much for your clear, comprehensive tutorials. I’ve learned from you how to knit continental and many other techniques, joins, etc. For the most part, knitting is a solitary activity these days and your positivity and inspiration are very helpful. So glad I found you!
happy to have you hear on my channel Cynthia
"Most people do not struggle with knitting but instead struggle with themselves"! THOSE ARE TOTALLY UTTER TRUTHFUL WORDS THAT YOU SPOKE! I am your UK follower that told you before ..."I more than adore the fact that you are always so straightforward and truthful to yourself whether others accept it or not". I love the way we are...NEVER CHANGE AS YOU ARE TOTALLY FABULOUS! Plus I more than agree with everything that you said in this video🥰🥰🥰. I can not stand people that love to follow like sheep!🤣🤣🤣
I was never a sheep. but never a wolf either. I think i was a unicorn jumping crazily all over the meadow. haha :P
@@NimbleNeedles Unicorns are the best!😁🥰
Beautiful message. Thank you for your amazing content and encouragement!
it's a pleasure with all you lovely people here! :)
Thank you Norman for sharing your expertise with us. It's most appreciative. I've just finished a beautiful shug that can also be worn as a scarf. I made a mistake and one of my cables is reversed. Well this created a snake like effect. I was so proud of the mistake as it gave me an idea for using it as a design for another project. My family has challenged me that my yarn stash will outlive me. So I have to move forward working on my projects. This project is my Christmas gift. I always knit a gift for me for Christmas. I've created a project knitting hats for homeless vets who are in the process of transforming their lives. I say to everyone to knit/crochet a gift for someone or an organization that you have a passion for. Even if it is only 1 hat. I'm sure it will make their day. 🙂
Love this video! I started out holding (tensioning) my yarn one way and as a thrower. More recently I worked to retrain myself to be more of a flicker. Now I tension my completely different from my early years of knitting.
Thank you for reminding me that I started knitting to relax and have something I can enjoy.
oh yeah...i changed the way I hold things multiple times as well because I was just not satisfied with the way I was taught (which made purling painful, lol). But hey, always learning new things is what makes this hobby so great, no? :)
@@NimbleNeedles absolutely 🙂
Exactly this!!! I may have come here only knowing one cast-on, one cast-off, two-three joins & a stocking stitch, but even then it's fun making simple items for my miniatures (dolls & Pony toys if you're curious) I figured out how to make miniature hats, jumpers, & capes for them, as well as thin scarves (like 3-4 stitches wide in DK yarn on 4mm needles). And when I showed some of these things to other collectors of the same things, they loved them, & one of them even started watching you because of me!!! I followed too.
One other thing I want to add is the following: do not fear!!! Try, fail, unravel, try again, do some more, look up various hints & tips, & try them all out, then once you start feeling comfy with certain methods, keep going & have fun!!! I'm rather pleased with my first successful 2x2 ribs, & am a bit less afraid to go for a 1x1 next time.
What I most love about this channel is you don't tell us we MUST do a thing this way or that way. For example, stitch alignment on the needles. I have the stitches aligned one way for knits, the other for purls, & go into the knits in particular differently from most modern techniques shown, because it's how I learnt to knit as a child & my default now. Others will have a different default, & as you said, that's fine!!!
This channel is so helpful. I love your content.
Thank you Vinassa. Very happy to hear that you like my content :)
If I had to choose one knitting channel ,it would be yours. You are a positive,loving force . Thank you
I just found your station. Love your videos they are great resources. I agree with preferences being subjective and it is hard to avoid jumping on the podcasters’ bandwagon for new tools,bags and yarn. Cheers from Canada!
Welcome to my channel! And yeah..i mean..sometimes it's hard to resist and I guess that's fine as well..sometimes *smirk*
O! M! G! You. Are. Fantastic!. I cannot believe you hesitated to make this video. It is just what every single knitter needs to see, no matter how long they have been knitting or if they are just trying to learn. I am 73 years of age and have been knitting for a few decades and still learning new things, whether it be about techniques, supplies and/or yarn. You really hit the nail right on the head with every single one of your points here. I am now a dedicated subscriber and will come back to this video if/when I ever feel discouraged or frustrated. Thank you so much.
Aww..thank you Mary! And sure..do come back to my channel whenever you feel the need...and also feel free to ask any questions you might have
Hi!
With this video you just made me realize how lucky I am for having a sibling with the same hobby. We can share our thoughts and excitement over yarns and patterns. I never understood why people share their yarn colour palette on Instagram - maybe they don"t have that immediate help as I do. Thank you for raising awareness!
(Btw, nice hair!)
aw...quite jealous their. Ironically, the people in my family who thought me knitting, stopped long ago and i can only talk with them on a very basic level. Like they appreciate it and know how much effort goes into it. but that's about it.
(and thank you...someone finally got to see a hairdresser again *Grin*)
You are so lucky. No one in my family knits. It can be very lonely. I spend way too much time considering color and/or yarn choices.
@@victoriad882 same here. it's my no1 obsession, lol! :P
What you said about commenting on videos is really touching. I never realized how much someone might need that kind of feedback or at least benefit from it. Not everyone has influencer-like status and regularly receives all that much validation.
Thank you for these reminders. Knitting brings me such joy and I want others to feel that joy, too.
Thank you Norman. I am a new knitter. One of my first projects was a sweater for my newborn grandchild. I didn’t do a gauge swatch because I was impatient. When finished it was far too wide - my grandson slipped straight through. 😂. My son and I laughed and laughed. Learnt a lot that day. 😅
well...they will grow faster than you can count to 10 and then it will fit :)
I am fairly new to knitting, having started at the beginning of Covid, so about 3 years. In the beginning, I had a friend and a helpful local yarn shop. Since moving a year ago, I have had to turn to videos with my problems. I recently discovered your videos, and must say you have helped me so much-with my knitting but also my attitude! Especially your comments in this video and the “How to Become a Master Knitter” video, helping me to relax and enjoy the process and completed “but not perfect” projects. I needed to hear someone else say, it’s ok if the work isn’t perfect, maybe no one’s work is. Also, I know I learn from each project-and that counts for something, too. Thank you so much for all of your hard work in producing your videos, but also all of your kind and encouraging words!!
"Most people don't struggle with knitting, they struggle with themselves." So true! Thanks for making this video. It helped me to pick up knitting again. I'd been so down on myself-I'm not as fast as other knitters I know, and I don't enjoy following complicated patterns... these kinds of self-criticisms had completely smothered the feelings of joy and satisfaction I used to feel about knitting. Thank you for reminding me that it's okay to enjoy knitting at my own pace and to have my own preferences!
it's not only okay..I guess it's best practise to follow your own preferences and at your own pace!
As a clinical psychologist I wish more folks would apply these principles to the rest of their lives. But some lessons are harder to learn. I get it and obviously you do too. One thing I would like to add is that when we get frustrated we need to take a break, rest for awhile, BUT don’t quit. Finish what you start and you will feel better about yourself because you finished what you began. I do this when I sew, crochet, or just need a time out. Life is a challenge and so are a lot of our hobbies. So enjoy what life brings you, learn from it and move forward! Happy knitting!
That's an excellent addition. I too have to force myself to finish certain things..but it doesn't get better when they r lying around and u get reminded everytime u walk past 😅
Thank you for reminding all of us we don’t need to be professional knitters to enjoy ourselves or bring encouragement to others
Thank you for your feedback 🙂
Norman, I'm really trying to learn knitting (although years ago a former teacher sarcastically discouraged me). I watch many knitting tutorials yet I continue to return to you. You're a good teacher and holistic coach. We learn technical skills . Further you provide positive encouragement and support. I don't know that I'd be persevering with knitting if it weren't for you. Many thanks!
Norman, please know that you have given me so much! I have been trying to learn to knit for over a year, yet your instructions are the ones that have made sense to me. I am getting ready to go sit in a hospital room with my Dad for a week while he recovers from surgery, and knowing that I can have soothing knitting with me makes me feel so much better. Thank you for all you have done!
you are very welcome. And I do hope your knitting will be able to distract you and maybe even etertain your dad a bit.
Thank you for your upbeat feedback!
I'm guilty of some doubt to my work, but I have learned that I can think back and fix them which makes it look better
This message about giving not only ourselves but also others the generosity of being individual goes so far outside of knitting. A heart felt message we would all do better for taking our knitting and that message with us into our lives beyond.
Thanks for these worthwhile thoughts, Norman. 60 years of knitting and I'm still learning something new.
I love the focus on "how does this bring joy!" A friend once told me that comparison is the thief of joy. I've been trying to relish the process as much as the outcome since I'm a very end product driven person. It's been a good practice to lean into the idea that this shawl might take me a year to finish but that's OK and try instead to enjoy the stitches and journey in between.
I don’t know how I’ve missed your videos all these years but I’ve found you now! Love your videos and I’m so enjoying listening and watching today. Thank you for being here and sharing your knowledge of and love for knitting! Your kindness shines through and your tips are so helpful. Thank you! ❤️
welcome to my channel, then!
I feel like this is about not only knitting, but life in general! ❤️
Thank you for your kind words of encouragement and support. This video just popped up on my feed and I’m very happy to see it.
Thank you for stating the 5 things a knitter needs to hear! It all makes sense! I used to point out flaws on my knitted projects but I have learned to be proud of my work. Flaws are a part of life.😃 I try to always compliment others knitting. I see so many criticize others, it is sad to see. I enjoy seeing others work. I aspire to knit more intricate patterns but just am not ready yet. I will one day and people like you are the ones who incourage me! Thank you!
yeah...i know those people who just criticize. But hey..it's their way of trying to appear superior. But superiority over what? Kindness goes so much farther - especially as it's not a solitary path.
Thank you so much! I love the support you give us orphan knitters!
Great advice. I taught myself to knit 45(!) years ago and I love to see the amount of information and sharing that there is available today on channels like yours. Different knitters have different abilities, different interests, different budgets and different reasons to knit. I know that I do not like to knit in the round, make cables or steek. My advice is to find out what you enjoy knit and then relax and be proud of your accomplishments.
Needed to hear this!! I just finished a scarf I was so excited to make. I did nothing but knit this scarf in my free time for a week and a half. I started to not like how it was turning out halfway through and then I finally finished it yesterday. I keep going back and forth on whether I like it or not. The edges are wonky, I used two stitch patterns that don’t compliment one another, the colors I chose look funky together, the color transitions could be neater, and I used yarns with different weights to them 😂
I wanted to start another scarf and told myself “this time I’ll make it better!” But I started to get discouraged and all caught up in making it perfect. Choosing the right selvedge technique, not liking the colors together, choosing the right stitch patterns, and deciding how many stitches to cast on… I’ve spent so many hours trying to prep for something as simple as a scarf when all I wanted was to just be knitting it. I finally started this morning and I’m worried about how it’s going to turn out. But after watching this video, I’m just focusing on how I’m having fun knitting my funky scarves and not worrying about how it’ll look. Sometimes I feel like what’s the point of spending so many hours knitting a project when it turns out ugly and i might just frog the whole thing later… but embracing the mistakes makes me want to wear my funky projects anyways.
This response was longer than I thought it was going to be and feels more like a journal entry at this point 😂 but I really needed the encouragement. I’ve been knitting on and off for years but I’ve finally really started to get into knitting more than before and I don’t want to get discouraged out of it!
I love your positive, kind, suportive approach to knitting, It's really how one should look at life - forget the negative, embrace the positive.
yep...that's my motto. Why waste time dwelling on the negative. It's just gonna spoil your day and you won't be able to change the past anyway.
Norman, your work is an amazing gift to the knitting community, and to me personally. Thank you for this and for all of your videos and blogs. 👏🙏
Your words are really important. I know only a few fellow knitters (or crocheters) in person, but it always makes me sad if people start with their „I wished I was as good/as fast as XY“ tirades since it is almost impossible to change their perspective. Maybe that other person has nothing but their hobby to spend time on (which is rather sad, if you ask me) of course, they are faster and with more time at hand, probably way more experienced. Never assume or take things out of context and turn it around to make it something negative against yourself. In fact, not everything needs to be about ourselves - it is way more easy to just say „I admire XY for this“ than let sour thoughts like „they are always better than me“ sink in. In fact, everyone is good at something, and life is not a competition 🙂
As far as mistakes go, I subscribe to the Amish principle that only God can create something perfect so everything we make must have a flaw either by accident or on purpose. Or, just call it an artistic/design decision 😋 I'm one of those chronic shawl knitters you spoke about. I just love knitting lace shawls, they're a reasonably quick project that always look impressive. For anyone thinking about knitting a lace shawl but feel it's too difficult for them, pleas, just give it a go. If you can knit, pearl, k2t and ssk, then you can make a lace shawl - they're mainly about counting, counting, counting but the stitches themselves are not complicated. Just remember to lifeline every 10 rows so if you need to frog it (and you will!) you only have to rip out 10 rows, not the whole thing. Actually, lifelining is a great habit to get into whatever you're making.
I'm a continental knitter who comes from a crocheting background. I really struggled with moving my yarn back and forth while doing k1 p1 and with purling generally I almost gave up on knitting for the umpteenth time, then searched youtube and come across Norwegian purling. COMPLETE game changer for me.
awesome! it's always a good reminder that if you are struggling with something..look for alternatives and don't force it :)
I am brand new to knitting. I am so glad you are here for me. You have a gift of clear explanations and your close ups on your stitches and work are so clear it’s like peering over your shoulder.You are a talented knitter with an exceptional gift for communication. Nice combination for your viewers! Thank you for the time you put into teaching us.
Thank you so much, Sheila. And indeed, I toyed around a lot with the camera position and now it does rest (almost) ontop of my shoulders.
I love Nimble Knitter. He explains WHY he thinks this works better. I can decide if I care, if the extra effort is worth it to me to make it 10 to 20% , but if it is a hat for an 8 year old girl who loves the color, maybe I do not try to be perfect but just try to finish it
that's the perfectway to approach things, Eastlyn and the way I feel about most of this. I show you what is possible but it's up to you to discard it, improve it or take it as it is
@@NimbleNeedles yes you and I think that way, but for some there is this line between the artistic designer and the knitter and they do not dare cross that line, even to go as far as on a simple knit project to change stitches per inch or number of rows to fit in with the knitter's gauge rather than to try to knit to the gauge the pattern says to knit to. And for reasons no one can explain to me, the same beginning knitters who are afraid to do the math starting from their own gauge will have an astounding courage to substitute in a different yarn, and very tentatively ask will it still work if I add 5 stitches here. This observed behavior of others only proves that your average human thinks differently from Eastlyn.
And I understand that there is some math that could be scary or challenging but once that math is mastered, doors are opened. This is the concept--> The knitter is trying to make a flat fabric or a tube of fabric of a certain size and to do that the number of rows and number of stitches per row needs to be calculated based upon the actual gauge of the knitter, not the knit gauge printed on the label or even the knit gauge the designer says you should be knitting to to get the results promised in the pattern. I believe the simpler projects have to be and should be figured out from a standpoint of the knitter's actusl gauge, like the size of the bricks used, and everything is based off that.
You said (and most knitting teachers do not say this) you should not be trying to force a gauge onto yourself as a beginning knitter. I learned to crochet as a child and to knit as an adult and I say most knitter's and crocheters can not change their gauge znd make thst work, because they will be sliding back into your natural gauge and the bigger or smaller needles is not a magic cure for their sliding back into ghdur natural gauge. Instead you should be, if needed, changing the number of stitches and the number of rows. For a scarf or a neck muff, good beginner projects, having a different gsuge is not going to wreck the project. For a sweater or vest, yes you do need to be knitting the gauge the pattern says will work. And I am not fussing at anyone or trying to pooh look like a smart person, but I am typing out what I wish some one had said to me.
Here's the sum up Nimble Knitter and others are asked those impossible to answer questions. And what I typed above is true and might be possible to convey to them. However, maybe what we should say is it is like bricks and making a wall or whatever you are making. You want me to tell you how many whatever and what size needle but since every knits differently if I do not know how you will knit with that yarn, it is like how many bricks do I need and what size are the bricks. We find out what size your bricks/stitches are by doimg a swatch. Hopefully the beginning knitter's life experience with walking in brick pavements and seeing brick walls is going to help them mentally grasp what Nimbke Knitter said and what I typed.
I also know I did not want to swatch. And now I swatch. This yarn I hate looks good in this other stitch pattern or in this larger or smaller needle size. Now, finally understanding that swatching is not a total waste of time (and is not a useless thing smarty pants teachers are telling you to do like the boring useless stuff we did in school 'busy work homework'), I will swatch and I will modify that pattern and I will use a yarn that acts like what the yarn specified in the pattern acts like. And maybe when helping the confused one say bricks.
If you read this far, I will do no harm by sharing this funny story. Out on a blanket, i have balls of 4 ply worsted weight Red Heart supersaver yarn, crochet hooks of different sizes. I have softer yarn but I think this is the easiest to learn on for my young girl student. I show chaining which is like casting on and one kind of stitch. I do the first row or two and let her work on a piece that is not floppy. I show, she copies me. We switch pieces of work. I explain the first 3 rows rows the hardest. The first 6 rows might be hard znd then it gets easy (because then it is a real fabric not a floppy worm like thing, this bit I do not say because she sees that) She then wants to try my crochet hook and my piece of crochet. Trade she says. I do. And I start a 3rd piece, maybe more than 3 pieces are being used. She keeps wanting to trade crochet hooks/needles with me (something like lucky dice), znd I trade every time she asks. We now have maybe 5 crochet patches bring worked on with a crochet hook/needle in each one znd they are color cided by size. Try to picture that and i finally understand her mindset and I let her trade with me. I have now proved it works with slightly fatter and slightly softer yarn and with different sizes of hooks. And she says that hook works better. I say OK trade. This color might be easier tomsee I am thinking but but saying aloud. And she finally says you have the better crochet hook and I say OK let's trade and she is now determined fo learn, but frustrated and mildly mad at me. And asks me why the crochet hook in her hand works better for me than it does for her (like a dog minding the husband better than the wife)? And i softly gently say my old wrinkled stiff kneed grandma taught me. I was bad at this before I was good at this. And I have more years practice than you have been alive (the words look harsh here naked without the voice tones and facial expressions znc I gently laughedthen got serious) and I Promise You IF YOU do not quit, the crochet hook will do it for you as good or even better than it does for me.
So my point here is not just children think the gold needke or the purple needle or the whatever has some kind of magic. Humans are just wired that way, I think. She repeatedly traded work with me because I had thd good one or the better one or that one works better. Uhh no but the beginner in any craft is susceptible to the magic hook thinking. No the hook in Eastlyn's hand is not magically doing better. This is not laziness she was showing; do not mistake my meaning. She just saw the hook in my hand acting differently than it did in her hand and that annoyed her. And if we can get beginners to understand why we swatch and to understand what i proved to her not just told her, they wil learn and improve faster than we learned and improved znc rhrybsill develop trucks and techniques we will adopt, if only we can help them see those two points.
@@eastlynburkholder3559 thank you for sharing your story and this very elaborate feedback. Happy to know that someone is on the do math, learn how it work side :)
This is really a video that all the knitter need to watch! I just started and I made so many mistake at the beginning. Sometimes I’m worried I don’t get the right tools and yarn in a weird way, but I do have fun doing so! Thank you for letting me know that I’m not the weird one 😊 I like to watch people who knows how to really knit, and I know they learned it while making a lot of mistakes and figured out how to fix it too! I also had a lot of time just suddenly figured out a way to fix a process and now I will never forget it. How nice it is!😊
I'm watching this video feeling like Norman is talking about more than just knitting. Thanks for such a useful discussion