Chris is great. His philosopher style is very suited to acolyte questions in particular. The Ne hero tackling down possible problems and covering every base, while still having the Te that makes it naturally digestible and structured. Generally I love csj's style, probably the most, because I like getting every bit of information out of every "tangent", esspecially because the tangents are more related to the topics than some people realize because the Ne is linking everything up with multiple threads each explored fully to create more depth or understanding, or it is a legit tangent and it's just bonus information lol.
I perfer chris than csj. A teacher knows what to teach and when to teach. Chase knows what to teach but doesnt know how to articulate or make it relevent.
@@pinklasagna8328 I mean, that's not an unpopular opinion, but for what it's worth my entp brain can follow it pretty well. It probably helps that I've gone full fanatic and I enjoy the lectures so my Si can pay attention and retain easily.
@@urquanoverlord2538 its quite the opposite for me. I cant pay attention when there isn't coordination in the information i am receiving, and what ends up happening is i am organising it myself which takes time and takes away my attention. Chase is good to read but not to listen for me. Maybe its a Te thing as i am an infp.
@@urquanoverlord2538 Yeah I can follow too being an Enfp and all, but I actually miss Cj's rants about people he knew that brought things into perspective in a pretty fun way
Hello! Extroverted sensing is our 7th function which is 2nd from the bottom so our awareness of giving experiences (when you put on an outfit you are technically giving an experience) is pretty awful. That on top of Si child means our comfort is incredibly important to us and fashion is inherently not comfortable. Now compared to INTPs we do care about what people think of us so we are more motivated to learn about fashion. Our Si child can remember things so we have to have previous experience and have people teach us about it or take maybe a course of some kind in order to learn how to properly dress ourselves.
I think generally speaking, INFPs dress better than INTPs. It's unique and presentable and not too quirky or too weird or too off or too bland which are the tendency of INTPs imo. ISFPs tend to dress up uniquely as well AND tasteful. It's the influence of TE gateway to aspirational, I guess. Perhaps there's a difference between or among genders? Like, I think and INTP/INFP girl has a better grasp of what looks good to other people than INTP/INFP boy.
@@talwyn_cc I’m an INFP guy and I’m terrible with fashion 😅 Well, I just prefer things that are simple and comfortable. If going somewhere where I want to dress to impress I’ll just copy whatever a mannequin or online store model is wearing My eye for coordinating outfits is not good 😂
Can you give some advice for INFP who is starting a new job? I always have problem with learning new responsibilities. And you were right in another video - as an INFP I have bad short term memory and I have to note everything.
First question, nah, I'm staying at home sadly. I once tried to go out in a park and went to mall alone for a whole day, I love the thrill but at the same time it's so SO awkward. Outside entertainment just proves me that they are for groups not for solo wanderer. I did went out often with my bestfriend- an INTJ cuz she's eager to hang out always so my company is always her. Second question, am I approachable? Nah, I don't think so. They said I have this cold "don't care" aura surrounding me that might keep people to approach me. What can I do about that? That's me 😒 Am I desirable? Face, check. Clothes? Just so-so. I wear what I'm comfortable but still in the sense of fashion. I'm not pertaining to the sexy revealing clothes that can perhaps attract more people, cuz those are not comfy to me. Casual/formal blouse, dress, shirt are my go to. Do I want to initiate or approach especially someone I'm attracted to? Nah, I can't. I get paralyzed around them so how can I? What about friemdships? I do. Approaching someone for friendship is easy for me. I'm assertive, usually though they come to me hehe.
I kinda hate going out to other places alone, I've gotten nothing but bad experiences and it's very hard to know if I'm wanted with my shadow? Doesn't matter how well dressed or weight wise etc..etc.. Calculated with other things that people are biased about. I've been taught by my mother what "looks" nice, but it's still hard to know if people want you or use you. Every time I have started a new job , I'm bullied. ( Which I'm used to but just a thought. So it's like am I really wanted?) The thing about initiating first, how can you initiate first if Estps will think you're taking their choices? xnfj are "judging" from afar.( It's easier with them since you're more compatible.) Ntjs treat you like "servants" and just obligate you to "hang out". Also from a overall templars are never there long term to hang out with. If you're not in front of them then you might not exist long term. Sorry for the long paragraphs it's just long term friendship just doesn't seem like it exist. And yes you can be in your shadow consider other people's feelings cater to them , but do they truly care about you long term? Edit: I do appreciate this video Chris and your response! Edit: I would like to say this is more of a rant, I don't dislike the other types if it comes off that way I don't. There's just patterns I dislike. ( I have my own hiccups that I'm working on.)But it's the feeling of "being" alone. And knowing and questioning, "how long will you be here"? "You won't be here for long, but I will remember you for the happiness and memories you brought."
As a templar I really don't think those out of sight are out of heart, I actually fear people will treat me like this, but you have to understand the 4 of us need intimacy, you still have to exist !
@@malakashraf2801 As an after thought we exist, but long term we don't. No initiating with calling or texting. If the person has moved on to another job or place. I will guarantee you , you will get no call or txt from the other person. I can only say maybe one templar I know who sometimes will txt but that's from old age and possibly learning from their past. I honestly don't know any templars who have texted me first other than a elder and my sibling. I'm hidden in the back of your thoughts lost. Along comes a new friend the old is forgotten and you move along.
I am also an infp. I agree with you regarding being bullied initially by a few people in a job however after persevering and persisting in a job, I find that people get to know me and realise that I have flaws and weaknesses that I am working on but also strengths. First accept your weakness and that will always make you shine in the end. Everyone has insecurities and weaknesses but theirs are more hidden then an infps. Don't have victim mentality, learn to accept that you have flaws and that you will annoy people sometimes without intentions. Once I accepted that, I became less paranoid, more at peace and focused on the things that make me shine! You have a lot to bring to the table including your smile, warm accepting nature and your open-mindedness. People crave to be around those type of people. Trust me, focus on your strengths and accept your flaws and you will find others will also do the same for you ☺️
@@fitra99 @Sabeen I don't have a victim mentality. There's one thing if people gossip. But people intentionally trying to get you in trouble by telling supervisors your every move , while just trying to get work done is another. As for the flaws and weaknesses I get it and have told people that I have flaws just like everyone else. But people tend to let jealousy corrode their hearts( I'm speaking of a esfp,estj and isfp..) But I do get what you're saying. I appreciate the kind words and advice. Thanks!
people need to figure out what their greatest fear is and then go do that thing, if youre lucky you might have a friend or set of circumstances that push you to confront your fears. as for the men ln the group, all men are born without utilitarian value and you must build your value to others and this will change from person to person.
I don´t think that INFPs should be afraid of keeping bad company, it will give an insight to why these people value what they do. This will be great if you are going to read littirature, like My Battle (translated to German). Suddenly it is not the book that makes you bad, but H was definitely in a very unhealthy place, that led him on his dark path. What can the society do, to not let it happen again. We have to know the parts of history we wanna change, even if it feels as unbearable as looking down a loaded gun.
Personally I hate all gossip that is too personal and/or isn’t neutral. Sure update me about someone, but don’t tell me things that they wouldn’t want shared. People should be able to have some privacy and respect. besides, speculation doesn’t really show the whole story and gossip can be so destructive. The other advice I thought was pretty straightforward, stuff I’ve kind of worked out over the years. Being extra mindful of other’s comfort can’t hurt though
yeah but you can't keep a friendship with an si negative person if you are INFP. You just can't, they are kinda always uncomfortable about stuff and always expect you to care for it, now how the fuck can i care for it with SE trickster. i can find it better with si optmistic but pessimistic god no. An example is ENTP x INFP interaction, that's just toxic
Hi Chris, I see you’re still doing an excellent job always look forward to listening to your podcast… Got a question do even high SI users have the ability to change and grow and become better? I know that sounds like a dumb question but because you said SI users can change earlier I heard that it’s harder for an SI hero or parent to change… Also does SE change?
Problem with us infps is our friendships and relationships end before they start
I don’t enjoy how emotional just reading that made me lol
Chris is great. His philosopher style is very suited to acolyte questions in particular. The Ne hero tackling down possible problems and covering every base, while still having the Te that makes it naturally digestible and structured. Generally I love csj's style, probably the most, because I like getting every bit of information out of every "tangent", esspecially because the tangents are more related to the topics than some people realize because the Ne is linking everything up with multiple threads each explored fully to create more depth or understanding, or it is a legit tangent and it's just bonus information lol.
I perfer chris than csj. A teacher knows what to teach and when to teach. Chase knows what to teach but doesnt know how to articulate or make it relevent.
@@pinklasagna8328 I mean, that's not an unpopular opinion, but for what it's worth my entp brain can follow it pretty well. It probably helps that I've gone full fanatic and I enjoy the lectures so my Si can pay attention and retain easily.
@@urquanoverlord2538 its quite the opposite for me. I cant pay attention when there isn't coordination in the information i am receiving, and what ends up happening is i am organising it myself which takes time and takes away my attention. Chase is good to read but not to listen for me. Maybe its a Te thing as i am an infp.
@@urquanoverlord2538 Yeah I can follow too being an Enfp and all, but I actually miss Cj's rants about people he knew that brought things into perspective in a pretty fun way
@@pinklasagna8328 same. Csj goes on irrelevant tangents. Its usually just angry rants and gossip stories too lol.
FIRST! Yasss infp video 🥰🥰
My favorite type -INTJ
You did a great job articulating this answer for INFPs, I personally want more of your content
I’m an infp and I love fashion (why do ppl say infps dk how to dress?? 😑) and yes your right about the reputation thing lol
Hello! Extroverted sensing is our 7th function which is 2nd from the bottom so our awareness of giving experiences (when you put on an outfit you are technically giving an experience) is pretty awful. That on top of Si child means our comfort is incredibly important to us and fashion is inherently not comfortable. Now compared to INTPs we do care about what people think of us so we are more motivated to learn about fashion. Our Si child can remember things so we have to have previous experience and have people teach us about it or take maybe a course of some kind in order to learn how to properly dress ourselves.
Even se trickster can overcome it with practice and study. The problem is when se tricksters *dont* study fashion and rely solely on se trickster
Same, I'm an infp as well and I've always loved fashion and knew how to dress. I've never understood this saying about the infp. It's way off imo.
I think generally speaking, INFPs dress better than INTPs. It's unique and presentable and not too quirky or too weird or too off or too bland which are the tendency of INTPs imo. ISFPs tend to dress up uniquely as well AND tasteful.
It's the influence of TE gateway to aspirational, I guess.
Perhaps there's a difference between or among genders? Like, I think and INTP/INFP girl has a better grasp of what looks good to other people than INTP/INFP boy.
@@talwyn_cc I’m an INFP guy and I’m terrible with fashion 😅 Well, I just prefer things that are simple and comfortable. If going somewhere where I want to dress to impress I’ll just copy whatever a mannequin or online store model is wearing My eye for coordinating outfits is not good 😂
Can you give some advice for INFP who is starting a new job? I always have problem with learning new responsibilities. And you were right in another video - as an INFP I have bad short term memory and I have to note everything.
You'll do well to learn by doing instead of watching (Se Trickster). Keep taking notes to refer to.
First question, nah, I'm staying at home sadly. I once tried to go out in a park and went to mall alone for a whole day, I love the thrill but at the same time it's so SO awkward. Outside entertainment just proves me that they are for groups not for solo wanderer. I did went out often with my bestfriend- an INTJ cuz she's eager to hang out always so my company is always her.
Second question, am I approachable? Nah, I don't think so. They said I have this cold "don't care" aura surrounding me that might keep people to approach me. What can I do about that? That's me 😒
Am I desirable? Face, check. Clothes? Just so-so. I wear what I'm comfortable but still in the sense of fashion. I'm not pertaining to the sexy revealing clothes that can perhaps attract more people, cuz those are not comfy to me. Casual/formal blouse, dress, shirt are my go to.
Do I want to initiate or approach especially someone I'm attracted to? Nah, I can't. I get paralyzed around them so how can I?
What about friemdships? I do. Approaching someone for friendship is easy for me. I'm assertive, usually though they come to me hehe.
I kinda hate going out to other places alone, I've gotten nothing but bad experiences and it's very hard to know if I'm wanted with my shadow?
Doesn't matter how well dressed or weight wise etc..etc..
Calculated with other things that people are biased about.
I've been taught by my mother what "looks" nice, but it's still hard to know if people want you or use you.
Every time I have started a new job , I'm bullied. ( Which I'm used to but just a thought. So it's like am I really wanted?)
The thing about initiating first, how can you initiate first if Estps will think you're taking their choices?
xnfj are "judging" from afar.( It's easier with them since you're more compatible.)
Ntjs treat you like "servants" and just obligate you to "hang out".
Also from a overall templars are never there long term to hang out with. If you're not in front of them then you might not exist long term.
Sorry for the long paragraphs it's just long term friendship just doesn't seem like it exist. And yes you can be in your shadow consider other people's feelings cater to them , but do they truly care about you long term?
Edit: I do appreciate this video Chris and your response!
Edit: I would like to say this is more of a rant, I don't dislike the other types if it comes off that way I don't. There's just patterns I dislike. ( I have my own hiccups that I'm working on.)But it's the feeling of "being" alone. And knowing and questioning, "how long will you be here"? "You won't be here for long, but I will remember you for the happiness and memories you brought."
As a templar I really don't think those out of sight are out of heart, I actually fear people will treat me like this, but you have to understand the 4 of us need intimacy, you still have to exist !
Can I ask how you make others uncomfortable, I can't imagine it ?
@@malakashraf2801 As an after thought we exist, but long term we don't.
No initiating with calling or texting. If the person has moved on to another job or place. I will guarantee you , you will get no call or txt from the other person. I can only say maybe one templar I know who sometimes will txt but that's from old age and possibly learning from their past.
I honestly don't know any templars who have texted me first other than a elder and my sibling. I'm hidden in the back of your thoughts lost. Along comes a new friend the old is forgotten and you move along.
I am also an infp.
I agree with you regarding being bullied initially by a few people in a job however after persevering and persisting in a job, I find that people get to know me and realise that I have flaws and weaknesses that I am working on but also strengths.
First accept your weakness and that will always make you shine in the end.
Everyone has insecurities and weaknesses but theirs are more hidden then an infps.
Don't have victim mentality, learn to accept that you have flaws and that you will annoy people sometimes without intentions. Once I accepted that, I became less paranoid, more at peace and focused on the things that make me shine!
You have a lot to bring to the table including your smile, warm accepting nature and your open-mindedness. People crave to be around those type of people.
Trust me, focus on your strengths and accept your flaws and you will find others will also do the same for you ☺️
@@fitra99 @Sabeen I don't have a victim mentality. There's one thing if people gossip. But people intentionally trying to get you in trouble by telling supervisors your every move , while just trying to get work done is another.
As for the flaws and weaknesses I get it and have told people that I have flaws just like everyone else. But people tend to let jealousy corrode their hearts( I'm speaking of a esfp,estj and isfp..)
But I do get what you're saying. I appreciate the kind words and advice. Thanks!
people need to figure out what their greatest fear is and then go do that thing, if youre lucky you might have a friend or set of circumstances that push you to confront your fears. as for the men ln the group, all men are born without utilitarian value and you must build your value to others and this will change from person to person.
Greatest fear comes from the inferior function
I don´t think that INFPs should be afraid of keeping bad company, it will give an insight to why these people value what they do. This will be great if you are going to read littirature, like My Battle (translated to German). Suddenly it is not the book that makes you bad, but H was definitely in a very unhealthy place, that led him on his dark path. What can the society do, to not let it happen again. We have to know the parts of history we wanna change, even if it feels as unbearable as looking down a loaded gun.
This was super good!
Personally I hate all gossip that is too personal and/or isn’t neutral. Sure update me about someone, but don’t tell me things that they wouldn’t want shared. People should be able to have some privacy and respect. besides, speculation doesn’t really show the whole story and gossip can be so destructive.
The other advice I thought was pretty straightforward, stuff I’ve kind of worked out over the years. Being extra mindful of other’s comfort can’t hurt though
What about more positive gossip: like "did you see George's soccer match yesterday" or "damn Tracy is a great artist"?
yeah but you can't keep a friendship with an si negative person if you are INFP. You just can't, they are kinda always uncomfortable about stuff and always expect you to care for it, now how the fuck can i care for it with SE trickster. i can find it better with si optmistic but pessimistic god no. An example is ENTP x INFP interaction, that's just toxic
Hi Chris, I see you’re still doing an excellent job always look forward to listening to your podcast… Got a question do even high SI users have the ability to change and grow and become better? I know that sounds like a dumb question but because you said SI users can change earlier I heard that it’s harder for an SI hero or parent to change… Also does SE change?
Hello mr cs joseph, thanks for everything, I have a question, can you tell a example to find who is affilative and who is ptagmetic?
Do they ask for permission ahead of time or forgiveness afterwards?
@@CSJoseph Thanks Chase! Your gun example is good too! But this example is better.
Where is the fashion section on the server?
in the Sexuality Sig
Thanx🙂
Where's the INTP version of this video?
Waiting for an Acolyte member to ask it!
Bro where did CS Joseph go??
I’m still here, the demand for videos and content is very high, so Chris is assisting me
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