Qualities of the divine feminine energy is she is ruthless to those who are incompatible to her. She won't put up with games. She will leave. She rather dies alone than chasing a man or to settle with something less than she deserves. She is ruthless when it comes to incompatible people. She will never make the people who hate or dislike her to like her. She is fine with being disliked or hate. She vibrates as the highest feminine energy and that same energy attracts many best things for her. This is the power of the divine feminine energy. It will attract things that are meant to you. Divine feminine energy also allows you to give a strong discernment. You will have a strong intuition and you inevitable are going to make people jealous effortlessly. Miserable people will be jealous of you because they can't be you. The wielder of a feminine energy is called a goddess. Remember, the divine feminine energy is a power.
one thing I remember is children have no problem speaking their mind and saying no before they got shut down later in life. Being in my feminine energy means I'm allowed to be an adult version of my child self. and I'm big now, I have money, resources and God + the law on my side. Nobody can MAKE me do anything I don't want. And if they try, I have full permission to ignore them theyll either get over it and learn or they will leave. which is good for me. That allows MY kind of people to be let in. God always has my back and doesn't let any injustice slide when it comes to anyone.
I love when you include tips for the young ladies who still live at home. Makes my inner child feel warm to know that girls in a similar position to mine when I was a kid, can still find peace and guidance in your videos as well. And to any young girls watching these, I promise you’re on the right track just hold on. ❤
I’m so grateful God brought me to this channel, these videos contain such transformative wisdoms. I so so appreciate this high vibe space. Love and light to all! ❤
Faced that drama at 26, yes. At 26. Can you believe. But i feel my soul needed to understand that i can't please everyone and living alone is actually fun.
My first therapist gave me a sheet with a similar list titled personal bill of rights! My mind was completely blown! I was codependent, people pleasing with zero boundaries so much so that I was falling apart mentally and physically. I read that sheet every morning over and over. I proceeded to set boundaries and eliminated 5 highly toxic narcissistic people in my life and I've never been more healthy in all areas of my life : )
@@mimawarigumi3406 It's a whole list! Google personal bill of rights images. There's a ton and all similar. My therapist helped me believe I had the right to all of it. That was the mind blowing part! Good luck to you ❤️
I think the same about a friend that uses sarcasm and “jokes”. You did the right thing ! Congruence and loyalty is so hard to find. You’re brave for speaking your truth. I’m glad I found you 💜
Thank you very much for this! I am new to the channel and have already found your knowledge and experiences enlightening. I enjoy the inner work questions you share and learn a lot about myself from each one. Book: The Art of Everyday Assertiveness by Patrick King Personal Bills of Rights at timestamp 14:05- 18:58- These are worth writing down for sure! Key Takeaways 1. Heal survivor mode so you can learn to feel safe expressing your boundaries 2. Remember your Personal Bill of Rights 3. Act as if you are in a role, life is a movie you get to choose how you show up 4. Your inner child deserves for you to set boundaries to protect I am in charge of my boundaries!!
Where were you when I was in high school or college? You're so beautiful. Hearing you preach is so nice. I had to learn to rest the hard way and didn't know it was okay to until middle 20's
I’m an aspiring artist and don’t have any support from my mom whom I love very much. I know I don’t “need” her support but, it truly stings because of the overextended love/support I give her. But she can’t see my pain or at least try to understand.. I’m trying my best to get through the ache of feeling alone, thank you Alexis for all you do 💕
When you said you grew up with strict parents. I said whew she is speaking to meeee. My mom was superrrrrr strict and my dad was less judgmental but he was a super Christian meaning I could feel his energy when I didn’t meet his standards
This video literally changed my life basically. Like no jokes. I asked a question that I really needed the answer to and Alexis answered it with such grace.
@@awwlexis My question was: it is hard to change the people around me; where you said had to let go of control. You literally dropped a gem in my mind and just within days, I’ve been able to see things clearly and basically see people for who they are and pick my struggles. I always say this. I feel blessed to know of you❤
I feel like I’m coming to church this Sunday and you have an amazing message! I’m here receiving. Thank you beautiful soul for all of your help I cannot express how comfortable it is to hear any message you give. Thank you for sharing that energy and for teaching it!
Alexis, I would also Love a video how to be feminine, clean, organized and „luxurious“ on any budget.🥰❤️ Especially when it comes to creating a safe place and a sanctuary for my feminine energy to bloom and thrive 🥰
Omgg Alexis, I just got to you answering questions on live and I’m currently going through the same thing you did with your previous friend. My best friend who I deeply claimed as my sister for 5 years, we just ended our relationship. It wasn’t easy but I was the one to walk away and finally close that door. There were too many times I allowed her to overstep my boundaries and treat me indifferently. When we began to argue (right before our “break up”) it showed a lot of our dynamic, and I had to face the fact that she didn’t respect me like how I did her. This happened a week ago and even though it’s not easy, I truly feel lighter and believe that I am exactly where I need to be. God is good ❤ thank you for sharing Alexis, love you always 🫶🏾
Starting my morning with your videos is bliss! 💗✨ You instantly make me so inspired for my day. My partner has even taken a notice to the shift in me! Saying I recently got this new energy/glow that he can't explain but he's loving it! I've been so much more conscious and self aware this year, ready to receive healing and positive change 💗 your content jumpstarted this journey for me and continue to help me discover new parts of myself and feel safe in embracing my feminine nature. Ive said it before but you are such an angel!!!! 🥹 Thank you.
My beautiful girl I am SO happy hearing this! Absolutely love this for you. This is all you, deciding to connect to your feminine energy and have the best life possible. Sending you so much love ♥️
Gratitude 4 sharing the example of how your former/ex BF disrespected you. *You’re absolutely correct…, a “high-quality friend” would do NO such thing. 👏🏽👏🏽 👍🏽👍🏽 God/Creator will send you “high-quality friends” once you eliminate the weeds in your garden.
I wanted to say that I have a class reunion in about 5 weeks. I was seriously thinking about not going due to self doubt and the childhood emotional trauma I thought I had already dealt with in therapy a long time ago. I have been watching your videos daily and I'm feeling more comfortable in my feminine energy, in loving and taking care of myself, and in not comparing myself to others. I have a brand new outlook with even more love and gratitude now and I know better how to respond in my highest self. I'm keeping an open mind about the reunion. I made a hair appointment, got some new clothes because I shrunk out of my old ones, I am feeling more empowered from all the inner work I've been doing the past few years and how it has excellerated since watching your videos and putting these concepts into practice, and I'm going to enjoy this event. How you explain things just makes sense and it is from a place of love and it is a wonderful feeling too. I intend to make better friends this time around. Even if I don't succeed in making new friends at this then it is practice for other social events when I will. So, thank you!
hi i'm brazilian and i'm watching this video, from my country, that came to me as a suggestion, thank you for that your divine feminine energy welcomed me and i'm relaxing in my safe place now, thank you, i love you and your channel. 🇧🇷
You have great energy! Such good information on boundaries, which is something I have struggled with all my life. Interesting point with respect people pleasing and control. It absolutely makes sense that if one is living in survival mode, one cannot also be in their feminine energy. Great information awwlexis! Thank you! Sending Love from Vancouver 🇨🇦
I just found your channel and I'd so grateful I did. Been working on healing my traumas and feeling like a ball of anxiety. Watching your videos is giving me things I can work on and is also helping to soothe my anxious thoughts. Thank you!
Thank you Alexis for this video, for opening your heart to share your experiences with us🥰. So inspiring. I like the examples you gave on setting boundaries. I actually first learned about dark and light feminine energy concepts through watching one of your videos. ❤🌟
Dude I am snapping and going mmmmmm like I am in church! After watching the Raising your Standards video, I ordered The Art of Everyday Assertiveness without hesitation and now I’m so glad I did!! Thank you Alexis. You’re my new favorite person! This is all coming just at the most perfect time. 🙏🏽♥️
Love you Alexis! Your videos have changed my life and everyone connected to me! My mom has changed too 🙏 God bless your obedience to your calling and purpose ❤🎉
You are so amazing, i loooove to get inspired by you!🩷 You literally make me feel beautiful. My divine feminine energy is currently blooming inside of me, my whole body and skin glow!🥹Thank you for being here🩵🦢
I love the things you shared. I have a hard time standing up for myself when people disrespect me and my space. Thank you for this. This is what all women should hear and know.
Your videos and energy have really helped me improve tremendously over the past months and I’m really thankful for your existence✨💗 One thing that it’s hard for me to understand is how to stop victimizing myself and it would make me feel more optimistic if I could 💕
Alexis Thank you for all the videos that you’re making for us! You are a true blessing! It has such an impact on my life! Only one thing is little distracting is the poor microphone quality. Lots of love from Israel 🇮🇱🩵
Is there a way you can guide us on texting with a guy, and how to rule him in or out for a first date, and dating etiquette while staying in our feminine energy? I know you mentioned how to handle a guy placing his hand on our knee on the first date, but what can we do to decide if we want to accept the date in the first place? Thank you!
I love that you are doing this video! Thank you!! I have been binge watching your videos for a couple weeks, doing one or two a day. Can you do one on first dates and how to weed someone out or decide to give it a green light before we even consider going on one? Thank you!
Many times I heard from psychologists (and I agree with that) that we won’t take somebody’s joke seriously if we deeply know it’s not about us, if we are self-confident about anything we do/we are. It won’t trigger us. But if it triggers you, that means this doubt is already within you. Don’t you think that to cut off the relationship with your best friend just because she sent you a joke about your way of living/earning is a rational decision and it’s more about you, not her? If you know 💯 that what you do helps girls, would you react this way?
I do agree with that, however I was not offended or taking it personally what she said. I felt a deep knowing within me that her intention was not to build me up or support me, and that it came from a negative space. It was this along with many other small signs from her that led me to end the friendship. I know that the healthiest, most confident version of me would not have a friend who would make fun of a career I had
Alexis, it kinda bothers me that one of my closest friends rarely compliments me. I know she's capable of complimenting because I've seen her do it with others. It's not that I need her approval, but I believe that true friends should hype each other up- especially when they're clearly looking fly or have accomplished something noteworthy. I have no problems giving her genuine compliments, so I'm kinda confused. I do believe she really likes me, but at the same time, it feels like she views me as competition. I don't want to be quick to jump to conclusions. Any advice would be appreciated! And fellow viewers, feel free to comment as well.
I think you need to cut your presence from their life for a while , as Alexis said in her pervious video about Setting boundaries, she addressed practicing absence/no accessibility , if they truely care/think about you they'll be worried abt your absence. You can also open up w them if not directly, pull out an act , Wear your favourite dress and send them a picture of you in it , ask them about their opinion , if they compliment you as you expected they would , congrats She's not seeing you as a competition She's just bad at showing emotion and actually loves you.
Hi alexis.. ive been watching your videos from past couple of months and it has helped me alot to reduce my anxiety and set boundaries.. i follow every single tip you share here and i am really really thankful for you. I feel like my partner is traumatized as well like from his childhood he has this trauma and thus he's unable to express his emotions like fears etc. Can you advice something for him too??
Hi! I love your videos! Thanks for your insight. What are your thoughts on choosing a man that you like instead of being chosen by a man that likes you? Do you have any tips on this?
Hey Alexis! Love your content! I could listen to your voice all day! This may me off topic but do you think it’s inappropriate for men to ask me to smile at work? I absolutely hate it when men do this it triggers me so much, especially because I hate my job and don’t like being there at all. ( but im not like walking around looking angry all the time, I do my best to try and think about good things). So is it me who has the problem or is it wrong for men to do this? It’s always middle aged or older men too😅 and I’m pretty young looking What’s an appropriate way to react to them saying such a simple yet annoying thing to me?
I think it’s very normal to feel triggered by this. To me it feels controlling and gross when men ask you to share your radiance without permission. I would respond with “no”, “no thank you” or ask him what he means (example “you’re asking me to smile for you? Why?”)
@@awwlexis thanks so much for the advice! Usually I just smile to be polite but then I feel my energy sucked away cause they’ll usually say “there it is” or “atta girl” and I wish I never did. This is a way better response! ❤️
Mere bare mein bola na kya hua thoda bolata jyada hun mysterious people ko sad mein rakhta hun pata chalna kisko Doon hai main kis Ko nahin donon kaun sa boxer abysmal Ganda
girl if you’re teaching people about survival states, you need to know more than just fight or flight!! there’s also freeze, fawn, flop - if you’re only teaching what you said in this video about survival mode, then your work could be going so much further. if you want to help people with severe, more complex trauma to come out of survival states and activate feminine energy, you need to do some more research. i highly recommend the youtuber irene lyon to learn about deep nervous system healing. THAT is what unlocks long lasting, sustainable, psychospiritual level feminine energy. no hate at all btw, i just think that you could go way deeper in some areas and find some really magical results ❤
The best thing I can do for myself and those around me is be the happiest I can be❤
Qualities of the divine feminine energy is she is ruthless to those who are incompatible to her. She won't put up with games. She will leave. She rather dies alone than chasing a man or to settle with something less than she deserves.
She is ruthless when it comes to incompatible people. She will never make the people who hate or dislike her to like her. She is fine with being disliked or hate.
She vibrates as the highest feminine energy and that same energy attracts many best things for her. This is the power of the divine feminine energy. It will attract things that are meant to you.
Divine feminine energy also allows you to give a strong discernment. You will have a strong intuition and you inevitable are going to make people jealous effortlessly.
Miserable people will be jealous of you because they can't be you.
The wielder of a feminine energy is called a goddess. Remember, the divine feminine energy is a power.
one thing I remember is children have no problem speaking their mind and saying no before they got shut down later in life. Being in my feminine energy means I'm allowed to be an adult version of my child self. and I'm big now, I have money, resources and God + the law on my side. Nobody can MAKE me do anything I don't want. And if they try, I have full permission to ignore them theyll either get over it and learn or they will leave. which is good for me. That allows MY kind of people to be let in. God always has my back and doesn't let any injustice slide when it comes to anyone.
I love when you include tips for the young ladies who still live at home. Makes my inner child feel warm to know that girls in a similar position to mine when I was a kid, can still find peace and guidance in your videos as well. And to any young girls watching these, I promise you’re on the right track just hold on. ❤
♥️🙏🏽
I’m so grateful God brought me to this channel, these videos contain such transformative wisdoms. I so so appreciate this high vibe space. Love and light to all! ❤
Faced that drama at 26, yes. At 26. Can you believe. But i feel my soul needed to understand that i can't please everyone and living alone is actually fun.
My first therapist gave me a sheet with a similar list titled personal bill of rights! My mind was completely blown! I was codependent, people pleasing with zero boundaries so much so that I was falling apart mentally and physically. I read that sheet every morning over and over. I proceeded to set boundaries and eliminated 5 highly toxic narcissistic people in my life and I've never been more healthy in all areas of my life : )
♥️🙌🏽
If you don't mind, please share what was on the sheet? I struggle with the same thing!!
@@mimawarigumi3406 It's a whole list! Google personal bill of rights images. There's a ton and all similar. My therapist helped me believe I had the right to all of it. That was the mind blowing part! Good luck to you ❤️
I think the same about a friend that uses sarcasm and “jokes”. You did the right thing ! Congruence and loyalty is so hard to find. You’re brave for speaking your truth. I’m glad I found you 💜
Thank you very much for this! I am new to the channel and have already found your knowledge and experiences enlightening. I enjoy the inner work questions you share and learn a lot about myself from each one.
Book: The Art of Everyday Assertiveness by Patrick King
Personal Bills of Rights at timestamp 14:05- 18:58- These are worth writing down for sure!
Key Takeaways
1. Heal survivor mode so you can learn to feel safe expressing your boundaries
2. Remember your Personal Bill of Rights
3. Act as if you are in a role, life is a movie you get to choose how you show up
4. Your inner child deserves for you to set boundaries to protect
I am in charge of my boundaries!!
Thanks for your notes 📝 ☺️
Where were you when I was in high school or college? You're so beautiful. Hearing you preach is so nice.
I had to learn to rest the hard way and didn't know it was okay to until middle 20's
Your intro song is like a big hug ❤
This makes me so happy to hear 🥹
I’m an aspiring artist and don’t have any support from my mom whom I love very much. I know I don’t “need” her support but, it truly stings because of the overextended love/support I give her. But she can’t see my pain or at least try to understand.. I’m trying my best to get through the ache of feeling alone, thank you Alexis for all you do 💕
When you said you grew up with strict parents. I said whew she is speaking to meeee. My mom was superrrrrr strict and my dad was less judgmental but he was a super Christian meaning I could feel his energy when I didn’t meet his standards
Beautiful, so well put together, radiant, respectful of herself, glowing, growing. These are the words that come to my mind when I look at you Alexis❤
Aww my sweet girl, thank you SO much! 🥹
This video literally changed my life basically. Like no jokes. I asked a question that I really needed the answer to and Alexis answered it with such grace.
That's amazing 🥰
Aww my sweet girl! Which question was it that you asked? I’m so happy to hear this! ♥️
@@awwlexis My question was: it is hard to change the people around me; where you said had to let go of control. You literally dropped a gem in my mind and just within days, I’ve been able to see things clearly and basically see people for who they are and pick my struggles. I always say this. I feel blessed to know of you❤
I feel like I’m coming to church this Sunday and you have an amazing message! I’m here receiving. Thank you beautiful soul for all of your help I cannot express how comfortable it is to hear any message you give. Thank you for sharing that energy and for teaching it!
Aww I’m just leaving Church now, so funny you say this! Thank you for the love, so happy to be with you ♥️
Alexis, I would also Love a video how to be feminine, clean, organized and „luxurious“ on any budget.🥰❤️ Especially when it comes to creating a safe place and a sanctuary for my feminine energy to bloom and thrive 🥰
I CANNOT CONTROL MY LEVEL OF EXCITEMENT; this is such a hot🔥topic for many, including myself!!!!!!!!!!! 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👍🏽👍🏽
♥️🙏🏽
Omgg Alexis, I just got to you answering questions on live and I’m currently going through the same thing you did with your previous friend. My best friend who I deeply claimed as my sister for 5 years, we just ended our relationship. It wasn’t easy but I was the one to walk away and finally close that door. There were too many times I allowed her to overstep my boundaries and treat me indifferently. When we began to argue (right before our “break up”) it showed a lot of our dynamic, and I had to face the fact that she didn’t respect me like how I did her. This happened a week ago and even though it’s not easy, I truly feel lighter and believe that I am exactly where I need to be. God is good ❤ thank you for sharing Alexis, love you always 🫶🏾
Starting my morning with your videos is bliss! 💗✨ You instantly make me so inspired for my day. My partner has even taken a notice to the shift in me! Saying I recently got this new energy/glow that he can't explain but he's loving it! I've been so much more conscious and self aware this year, ready to receive healing and positive change 💗 your content jumpstarted this journey for me and continue to help me discover new parts of myself and feel safe in embracing my feminine nature. Ive said it before but you are such an angel!!!! 🥹 Thank you.
My beautiful girl I am SO happy hearing this! Absolutely love this for you. This is all you, deciding to connect to your feminine energy and have the best life possible. Sending you so much love ♥️
Gratitude 4 sharing the example of how your former/ex BF disrespected you. *You’re absolutely correct…, a “high-quality friend” would do NO such thing. 👏🏽👏🏽 👍🏽👍🏽 God/Creator will send you “high-quality friends” once you eliminate the weeds in your garden.
your hair looks amazing! love your videos so much. thanks for all your wisdom
Thank you so much! ♥️
I wanted to say that I have a class reunion in about 5 weeks. I was seriously thinking about not going due to self doubt and the childhood emotional trauma I thought I had already dealt with in therapy a long time ago. I have been watching your videos daily and I'm feeling more comfortable in my feminine energy, in loving and taking care of myself, and in not comparing myself to others. I have a brand new outlook with even more love and gratitude now and I know better how to respond in my highest self.
I'm keeping an open mind about the reunion. I made a hair appointment, got some new clothes because I shrunk out of my old ones, I am feeling more empowered from all the inner work I've been doing the past few years and how it has excellerated since watching your videos and putting these concepts into practice, and I'm going to enjoy this event. How you explain things just makes sense and it is from a place of love and it is a wonderful feeling too.
I intend to make better friends this time around. Even if I don't succeed in making new friends at this then it is practice for other social events when I will.
So, thank you!
13:28 You gets more gorgeous every day sis
hi i'm brazilian and i'm watching this video, from my country, that came to me as a suggestion, thank you for that your divine feminine energy welcomed me and i'm relaxing in my safe place now, thank you, i love you and your channel. 🇧🇷
You have great energy! Such good information on boundaries, which is something I have struggled with all my life. Interesting point with respect people pleasing and control. It absolutely makes sense that if one is living in survival mode, one cannot also be in their feminine energy. Great information awwlexis! Thank you! Sending Love from Vancouver 🇨🇦
I just found your channel and I'd so grateful I did. Been working on healing my traumas and feeling like a ball of anxiety. Watching your videos is giving me things I can work on and is also helping to soothe my anxious thoughts. Thank you!
Thank you Alexis for this video, for opening your heart to share your experiences with us🥰. So inspiring. I like the examples you gave on setting boundaries. I actually first learned about dark and light feminine energy concepts through watching one of your videos. ❤🌟
Aww you are so welcome! ♥️
@@awwlexis 🥰
im so grateful for this video because this comes just perfect
Dude I am snapping and going mmmmmm like I am in church! After watching the Raising your Standards video, I ordered The Art of Everyday Assertiveness without hesitation and now I’m so glad I did!! Thank you Alexis. You’re my new favorite person! This is all coming just at the most perfect time. 🙏🏽♥️
You are SO welcome love! I can’t wait for you to read that book! So happy to have you in this community ♥️
I love friendship videos girl keep it out. It never gets old to me
YES!!
Thanks, gratitude for everything you give us. Love from Switzerland ❤
That is definitely an insult masked as a joke! A friend should never do that. She was trying to make you doubt your self
Love you Alexis! Your videos have changed my life and everyone connected to me! My mom has changed too 🙏 God bless your obedience to your calling and purpose ❤🎉
My amazing girl. Thank you so much for sharing this with me. I am honored to be with you and your mama 🥺♥️
I love all your videos you are amazingggg❤️
You are so amazing, i loooove to get inspired by you!🩷 You literally make me feel beautiful. My divine feminine energy is currently blooming inside of me, my whole body and skin glow!🥹Thank you for being here🩵🦢
This makes my day to hear ♥️ So happy to have you here love
Can’t believe i’m here first! Love you alexis 💖
Welcome in love! 🥰
Can you make one about improving your spirituality with feminine energy?
This is my new favorite video I’ll be listening to a few times over!! I didn’t know I needed this!
Aww thank you beautiful! ♥️
Omg---the acting confused part. I do that as well. I act like I don't know what they're talking about so they sound dumb explaining it
I really love this community sm ❤
Me too. Love you girls so so much ♥️
Thank you for sharing your friendship story 🙏🏾💖
You are changing my life, thnk you so much !
I love the things you shared. I have a hard time standing up for myself when people disrespect me and my space. Thank you for this. This is what all women should hear and know.
♥️🙏🏽
amazing point: survival mode
Alexis, I love you. I can't wait to see how much you grow by the end of this year.
Thank you beautiful. So happy to have you here 🥹
I love your channel so much ❤❤❤❤❤❤
Thanks!
Your videos and energy have really helped me improve tremendously over the past months and I’m really thankful for your existence✨💗
One thing that it’s hard for me to understand is how to stop victimizing myself and it would make me feel more optimistic if I could 💕
Alexis Thank you for all the videos that you’re making for us! You are a true blessing! It has such an impact on my life! Only one thing is little distracting is the poor microphone quality.
Lots of love from Israel 🇮🇱🩵
Boundaries are important if we respect ourselves ❤️🔥
You are a goddess 😊 I am loving the content and learning so much. Thank you ❤ would love to have you as a coach, I am manifesting it 🙏
How do you deal with people who accidentally cross boundaries because they're survivors of abuse themselves?
Still setting my boundaries and giving them extra space until they take the opportunity to heal and work on themselves ♥️
@@awwlexis Thank you
Is there a way you can guide us on texting with a guy, and how to rule him in or out for a first date, and dating etiquette while staying in our feminine energy?
I know you mentioned how to handle a guy placing his hand on our knee on the first date, but what can we do to decide if we want to accept the date in the first place?
Thank you!
Ouuuu yes please
Such a good video I really needed it right now❤❤
I love this!
Being on thee outskirts socially is easier because you can make decisions without thee group's approval value your freedom most that's youth!
Hey there beautiful! Could you please drop the hair routine? Your hair is gorgeous :-) Love you!
So beautiful ❤
Thank you love 🥰
I love that you are doing this video! Thank you!! I have been binge watching your videos for a couple weeks, doing one or two a day.
Can you do one on first dates and how to weed someone out or decide to give it a green light before we even consider going on one? Thank you!
How would feminine woman react to being friendzoned by a guy?
See my previous video “Rejection = Redirection” 😉
Alexis please do a video on why it is not in our DNA to handle rejection
Many times I heard from psychologists (and I agree with that) that we won’t take somebody’s joke seriously if we deeply know it’s not about us, if we are self-confident about anything we do/we are. It won’t trigger us. But if it triggers you, that means this doubt is already within you.
Don’t you think that to cut off the relationship with your best friend just because she sent you a joke about your way of living/earning is a rational decision and it’s more about you, not her?
If you know 💯 that what you do helps girls, would you react this way?
I do agree with that, however I was not offended or taking it personally what she said. I felt a deep knowing within me that her intention was not to build me up or support me, and that it came from a negative space. It was this along with many other small signs from her that led me to end the friendship. I know that the healthiest, most confident version of me would not have a friend who would make fun of a career I had
@@awwlexis I know what you mean now..
Then yes, you cleaned your space ✨
Thank you for this ❤
Alexis, it kinda bothers me that one of my closest friends rarely compliments me. I know she's capable of complimenting because I've seen her do it with others. It's not that I need her approval, but I believe that true friends should hype each other up- especially when they're clearly looking fly or have accomplished something noteworthy. I have no problems giving her genuine compliments, so I'm kinda confused. I do believe she really likes me, but at the same time, it feels like she views me as competition. I don't want to be quick to jump to conclusions. Any advice would be appreciated! And fellow viewers, feel free to comment as well.
yupp - this
I think you need to cut your presence from their life for a while , as Alexis said in her pervious video about Setting boundaries, she addressed practicing absence/no accessibility , if they truely care/think about you they'll be worried abt your absence.
You can also open up w them if not directly, pull out an act , Wear your favourite dress and send them a picture of you in it , ask them about their opinion , if they compliment you as you expected they would , congrats She's not seeing you as a competition She's just bad at showing emotion and actually loves you.
Thank you a lot Lexis. You help me a lot to stay on koers.❤
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Hi alexis.. ive been watching your videos from past couple of months and it has helped me alot to reduce my anxiety and set boundaries.. i follow every single tip you share here and i am really really thankful for you. I feel like my partner is traumatized as well like from his childhood he has this trauma and thus he's unable to express his emotions like fears etc. Can you advice something for him too??
Hi hun, what are your thoughts about practicing celibacy until finding the right man who commits?
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@@awwlexis Hi lovely, could you make a full vid on this? I think it would be really useful especially for the younger sisters out there
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Hi! I love your videos! Thanks for your insight. What are your thoughts on choosing a man that you like instead of being chosen by a man that likes you? Do you have any tips on this?
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Hey Alexis! Love your content! I could listen to your voice all day! This may me off topic but do you think it’s inappropriate for men to ask me to smile at work? I absolutely hate it when men do this it triggers me so much, especially because I hate my job and don’t like being there at all. ( but im not like walking around looking angry all the time, I do my best to try and think about good things). So is it me who has the problem or is it wrong for men to do this? It’s always middle aged or older men too😅 and I’m pretty young looking
What’s an appropriate way to react to them saying such a simple yet annoying thing to me?
I think it’s very normal to feel triggered by this. To me it feels controlling and gross when men ask you to share your radiance without permission. I would respond with “no”, “no thank you” or ask him what he means (example “you’re asking me to smile for you? Why?”)
@@awwlexis thanks so much for the advice! Usually I just smile to be polite but then I feel my energy sucked away cause they’ll usually say “there it is” or “atta girl” and I wish I never did. This is a way better response! ❤️
Hey beautiful❤can you make a video on how to get over a break up ?
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Awwlexis, how old are you if you don't mind?
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@@ipsitaray1644 23? Damn.. She's young and experienced teacher
Yup. So wise at such a young age. That's rare
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girl if you’re teaching people about survival states, you need to know more than just fight or flight!!
there’s also freeze, fawn, flop - if you’re only teaching what you said in this video about survival mode, then your work could be going so much further. if you want to help people with severe, more complex trauma to come out of survival states and activate feminine energy, you need to do some more research. i highly recommend the youtuber irene lyon to learn about deep nervous system healing. THAT is what unlocks long lasting, sustainable, psychospiritual level feminine energy.
no hate at all btw, i just think that you could go way deeper in some areas and find some really magical results ❤
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