How To Not Be Boring In Conversation [Use These 6 Tips]

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  • Опубликовано: 18 ноя 2024

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  • @thejeffcallahan
    @thejeffcallahan  4 года назад

    I just uploaded part 2 in this series! Watch here: ruclips.net/video/4WNFJHHnwfI/видео.html

  • @jakobtonn6640
    @jakobtonn6640 3 года назад +3

    You just destroyed my whole existence revolving around being a power ranger expert.. Thanks ALOT!

  • @thevikingwolfpack836
    @thevikingwolfpack836 Год назад +1

    Only helps when the people are or understand what your interest are

  • @AuthenticGogetters
    @AuthenticGogetters 4 года назад +5

    Hey Jeff. Being charismatic and a conversationalist are skills that take time develop, and this I understand. But what do I do when I’m out at a party or date and is so overridden by anxiety, I forget to imply things you teach? Because when I leave these events and my anxiety goes away I’m beating myself up “why did I do this and not that?”

    • @thejeffcallahan
      @thejeffcallahan  4 года назад +2

      Hey Jordany, thanks for watching!
      I'd tell you to simplify. Resist the urge to apply a bunch of techniques.
      Focus on apply one thing. Maybe it's listening, maybe it's being interested and present, maybe it's something else.
      Less is often more.

  • @donaldzuramp4404
    @donaldzuramp4404 3 года назад +2

    I just struggle to keep up with convos, like idk what to respond or i just get lost and try to proceed to next topic.

  • @dianabarbu9649
    @dianabarbu9649 4 года назад +1

    excellent episode! really enjoyed it. Thank you!

  • @dnangel4277
    @dnangel4277 2 года назад

    Great video!
    What do you mean exactly by increasing your energy by 10%?

  • @akhilnagapuri2932
    @akhilnagapuri2932 4 года назад +1

    Excited for this one!

  • @morehn
    @morehn 4 года назад +3

    A) I talk more than I listen when I feel anxious.

    • @thejeffcallahan
      @thejeffcallahan  4 года назад +1

      Thanks for sharing Morehn!
      This is fairly common, so it's not just you!
      Asking some of those Dig questions from the video and letting the other person talk will help with this!

    • @morehn
      @morehn 4 года назад +1

      @@thejeffcallahan I watched the video again and I'll watch it a few more times. Good suggestions.
      Check out my friend under Google images Gil Amminadav. I think he's your long lost twin brother.

    • @thejeffcallahan
      @thejeffcallahan  4 года назад

      @@morehn 😂 I see the resemblance!

    • @morehn
      @morehn 4 года назад

      @@thejeffcallahan lol I think about him every time I see your picture

  • @johnsontheophilus7166
    @johnsontheophilus7166 4 года назад +1

    Good morning sir Jeff, please how do I communicate very effectively and how do I buy my audiences?

    • @thejeffcallahan
      @thejeffcallahan  4 года назад +1

      Hey Johnson!
      Could you tell me more about wanting to communicate effectively?
      What would you be able to do if you could communicate more effectively?

    • @johnsontheophilus7166
      @johnsontheophilus7166 4 года назад +1

      @@thejeffcallahan Alright Sir Jeff.
      I am a student of mass communication ND 1 and I want to become a PR Man.
      What I need from you sir, is the techniques and patterns to communicate at ease wherever I am found even before I finish schooling.

    • @johnsontheophilus7166
      @johnsontheophilus7166 4 года назад +1

      @@thejeffcallahan
      What I can be able to do when communicating very effectively are;
      1. Become more compelling.
      2. Sustain the attention of my audiences.
      3. Be outstanding and positive even within my superiors.
      4. Disseminate helpful information's and ideas even when they are not authentic.
      5. Carry majority of my audience along with whatever knowledge in view, etcetera.

    • @johnsontheophilus7166
      @johnsontheophilus7166 4 года назад

      @@thejeffcallahan Please Sir, would it be possible to chat with you on WhatsApp?
      If yes, this is my contact 08162604165.
      Hope to get a feedback from you.
      Good evening.

    • @morehn
      @morehn 4 года назад +1

      @@johnsontheophilus7166 my grandfather was a professional level public speaker.
      He said that among the eight or so public speaking courses he took, the Dale Carnegie one was the best.

  • @joekonrad3138
    @joekonrad3138 4 года назад

    Hey Jeff, great video! I definitely listen more than I talk. Thing is, a lot of the time, the people I'm talking with don't let anyone get a word in edgewise. Any suggestions for dealing with that? (Might be a good topic for a video, if you haven't already made one, I'm just getting into your stuff right now).

    • @thejeffcallahan
      @thejeffcallahan  4 года назад +1

      Hey Joe! I did a video on this! (probably will do a part 2 on this topic.) ruclips.net/video/j3BYitiuClc/видео.html

  • @thejeffcallahan
    @thejeffcallahan  4 года назад +1

    Which tip will you use to be more interesting and less boring in your next conversation? Let me know!!! 💬

  • @yochevedm8925
    @yochevedm8925 Год назад

    gosh i’m so boring

  • @jeanpierre4474
    @jeanpierre4474 3 года назад

    The thing js we re at home so much now we re doing nthing so there s not much to talk about