getting over the worst breakup

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  • Опубликовано: 2 ноя 2024

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  • @aliyevaalbina
    @aliyevaalbina  5 месяцев назад +1

    follow my main channel here
    ruclips.net/channel/UCnnxJMmo7WGU8i1WMTnwUXw

  • @blessingdomingo7985
    @blessingdomingo7985 Год назад +33

    “Im an IT you cannot play me” 😂

  • @thereisa
    @thereisa 5 месяцев назад +31

    What an incredible story. I always thought to myself, "if I had better parents, I wouldn't have allowed myself to be treated so horribly in some of my relationships," but I see that also is not a guarantee. When I was young, it was easy to think, "I didn't have this education, that kind of love, or another kind of recourse to prepare me for this," but as an adult I see that the first experience is what prepares you for the next one and you will never be fully prepared for anything, you just have to collect the skills and knowledge along your path as they happen. You're an amazing story-teller.

    • @aniesulistyorini6839
      @aniesulistyorini6839 3 месяца назад +1

      " You just have to collect the skills and knowledge along the way " -- i couldn't agree more, what a reminder. Thanks for saying this❤

  • @mygenshinrecording9623
    @mygenshinrecording9623 3 месяца назад +6

    It’s one sign that you’re totally over the other person when you’re able to wish them the best.. you’re such a nice person

  • @fleursdesel
    @fleursdesel Год назад +24

    I felt this on so many levels.. :(

  • @yanezash
    @yanezash Год назад +7

    you’re so sincere i love it

  • @melinda11111
    @melinda11111 Год назад +19

    Of the topic, but you are such a good speaker,I love hearing you talk, that is such a valuable skill !

    • @aliyevaalbina
      @aliyevaalbina  Год назад +1

      I am so happy to hear that, thank you so much🫶🏻

  • @azmodanpc
    @azmodanpc 5 месяцев назад +4

    Misha really is a solid friend (and his solution is on brand)

  • @PIPIA.
    @PIPIA. Год назад +6

    I’m truly admire you for this😭❤️ The level of self awareness and self accountability is crazy, Albina. Thank you for this video.

    • @aliyevaalbina
      @aliyevaalbina  Год назад

      Thank you for watching and your kidness💜

  • @wissemamrouche3306
    @wissemamrouche3306 Год назад +4

    Oh wow Albina, i went through the same experience, i was not cheated on but i experienced the same set of emotions with my EX, ignoring all the lies/ red flags and BS he was telling me
    The days after our breakup was one of my worst days but im deeply grateful this happened to me because oh boy it forged a new woman with higher standards,boundaries and awareness, im doing so much better on all levels and iam in a relationship with the best man in the world our RL is so healthy peaceful calm and comforting
    We all have been naive at some point, this is due to our low self esteem as women and our agreeblness due to our biologic nature also it is very important to work on our attachement styles
    Thank you for telling your story and i hope you.

    • @aliyevaalbina
      @aliyevaalbina  Год назад +3

      i am sorry you went through similar feelings and I am happy to hear that this experience is over for you.
      The funny thing is, i always had a great self-esteem, yet this still happened to me. We live and we learn❤‍🩹

  • @anna_reginius
    @anna_reginius Год назад +4

    Got into my third relationship to get over the second one, which was ended because of the war... Btw I was also cheated on in the second relationship, and also forgave. Idk why... Now I realize all the three hurt me so bad. And I feel you sooo bad
    But that is true, every fucked up relationship makes us stronger and we learn from this a lot

    • @aliyevaalbina
      @aliyevaalbina  Год назад +1

      Girl, I am so sorry you had to go through this. I hope you heal and meet amazing people on your way🫶🏻

    • @anna_reginius
      @anna_reginius Год назад

      thank you 🫂 i'm single and fine

  • @AyeshaExotica
    @AyeshaExotica 4 месяца назад +5

    Ur videos are so inspiring to me pls keep going

  • @zlatazubv3876
    @zlatazubv3876 Год назад +5

    Thank you for sharing and being real ! I feel so much support

    • @aliyevaalbina
      @aliyevaalbina  Год назад

      i am so happy you feel supported 💜 that was the main goal of sharing this - to make other girls know that they are not alone :)

  • @ts_k36515
    @ts_k36515 5 месяцев назад +5

    I'm so glad i found your chanel today. Many videos of yours are so relatable to what I've been experiencing lately. Thank you for being sincere here. You're also a good story teller. Didn't realized that this vid is almost an hour long until almost the end 😂

  • @sab_xyz
    @sab_xyz Год назад +1

    Thank you so much for sharing your story. I ended my toxic relationship a few months ago so I can relate to your story very well. Your conclusion is amazing and I was able to learn and reflect even more on my own behavior. So keep up the good work. Sending you lots of love xxx

    • @aliyevaalbina
      @aliyevaalbina  Год назад

      I am so happy you are no longer in this toxic place🫶🏻 rooting for your healing and happiness and thank you so much for your support!

  • @Lady_kirigakure
    @Lady_kirigakure 2 месяца назад

    Idk, Numbertwos have this thing, this charm where they make your whole world revolve around them and then poof, off they go. I dated this guy for like six months and I had to go to therapy for a whole year to get over this relationship because I was so messed up. Looking back and hearing your story, they both shared some things, like setting everything up so the relationship would end anyway. Then you play this game of cat-and-mouse where you're hooked up on them until you decide enough is enough of them playing you.

  • @joycechua559
    @joycechua559 Год назад +2

    Hi Albina thank you for sharing this story. Again I can relate to your messages hahah. You are the ambassador for our generation! 💕

    • @aliyevaalbina
      @aliyevaalbina  Год назад

      I am so honored and touched by your words. Thank you from the bottom of my heart 🫶🏻

  • @rue8847
    @rue8847 2 месяца назад

    this hit home .... thank you for the advises

  • @riddhiksr
    @riddhiksr Год назад +2

    Totally relate to this video. I just stumbled among your channel, and I’m obsessed. Great, great things are coming your way, I feel it. Get ready for your dreams to come true; I’m so inspired by you.

    • @aliyevaalbina
      @aliyevaalbina  Год назад +1

      you are so kind, thank you for such an amazing support and words of encouragement 💜 since you could relate to this video, i hope you are healed and in a way better place now

  • @beatrizrojo774
    @beatrizrojo774 4 месяца назад +3

    It really is true that some people can bring out traits that you didn't even know you had. No matter how confident you are, surrounding yourself with the wrong partner/ friends can turn you into the most unconfident, self-disrespecting version of yourself. So pls girls be careful about who you sorround yourself with and if you feel like those people are doing you no good, run from there as fast as you can. The longer you stay the harder it will be to get away .

  • @JulianaRodrigues-yl6bs
    @JulianaRodrigues-yl6bs Год назад +1

    I really appreciated this video a lot. Thanks for sharing your story, Albina!

  • @abbqk
    @abbqk Год назад +3

    Another 52 minutes and 13 seconds of a brain massage

    • @abbqk
      @abbqk Год назад +2

      Ok after watching the video my comment feels like an assault, please think only positive of it

    • @aliyevaalbina
      @aliyevaalbina  Год назад

      Hahahaha ily🫶🏻

  • @KimberlyAttwood
    @KimberlyAttwood 3 месяца назад

    Just a thought... in my experience, any time I felt uncomfortable around someone's friends it is usually because: 1. He says bad things behind my back 2. He wasn't serious about me and his friends knew 3. They met too many of his other girlfriends / fbuddies or

  • @tasia383
    @tasia383 Год назад

    Your friend who was there at the park with is such a good friend!! What about when me and my bf have had problems and fights daily and he wants us to have a couple of days to recharge alone so we don’t fight? Is that bad?

  • @Elizabeth-jb1ii
    @Elizabeth-jb1ii Год назад +2

    Sameee story w my chinese ex and I saw him in fucking IKEA w another girl holding hands also about 2 weeks after break up lmao
    And it was also my 2nd relationships ever

    • @aliyevaalbina
      @aliyevaalbina  Год назад

      Canon event 🫠 I hope you are okay, love🫶🏻

    • @Theveganlaowai
      @Theveganlaowai 5 месяцев назад +3

      we all dated the same Chinese guy or what? lmao

  • @mahithareddy4053
    @mahithareddy4053 5 месяцев назад

    I love it when women yap.
    I love that all your videos are just you yapping.
    Very nice content albina

  • @Redberylprincess
    @Redberylprincess 3 месяца назад

    Most girls and FBIing 😂🤝.

  • @lamyyartifex
    @lamyyartifex 5 месяцев назад

    Been there, done that 🥲
    Such a great story telling 💛💙