BANKY W HAS BEEN CHEATING ON HIS WIFE & HAS GOTTEN HIS SIDE CHICK, NIYOLA PREGNANT!🤰🏽👀 ALLEGEDLY!

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  • Опубликовано: 27 сен 2024
  • Grab your popcorn 🍿 my loves! Gistlover earlier reported that Banky W was allegedly cheating on his wife, Adesua Etomi with his former signee, Niyola. Since the news of Banky W's alleged affair with singer Niyola broke, numerous videos and images have surfaced. NA WA O!
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Комментарии • 721

  • @litchielitch0323
    @litchielitch0323 Год назад +346

    The way men are cheating, I try not to let it bleed into my relationship, I am scared! It seems like no matter how much you trust someone, this can go left at anytime.

    • @Age_Of_Aquarius84
      @Age_Of_Aquarius84 Год назад +50

      Unfortunately, this degenerate behaviour is commonplace in black men. Praying for you.

    • @elongaabigail8636
      @elongaabigail8636 Год назад +38

      They are born cheaters so love better love God with all your heart and love your parents and children.. take him out of your heart . No love no pain.just be with him out of formality, respect him, remain faithful but don't love him

    • @LittleBirdG
      @LittleBirdG Год назад +42

      Believe it or not, these men don't give a damn who they marry … in their heads, they continue to be single and do whatever the want, however they want 😂

    • @sbusisiweshaba1715
      @sbusisiweshaba1715 Год назад +42

      Trust and love your man and enjoy your relationship, good men still exist, don't let the toxicities of other people's relationships affect you and your relationship.

    • @tpshalom
      @tpshalom Год назад +17

      Not every man is cheating. That is the real truth. Deal with the spiritual under the Holy Spirit. Also, keep your relationship pure, sleeping with a man doesn’t mean he will stay with you.

  • @AyaEgbuho
    @AyaEgbuho Год назад +150

    It's not by force!!!! Please keep doing more videos with pidgen! It is GIVING LIFE to me!

  • @naturallybeautiful9109
    @naturallybeautiful9109 Год назад +271

    These African celebrities man are on a roll this year

  • @misscarol3771
    @misscarol3771 Год назад +34

    Men will leave you in the desert without water

  • @officiallykayanna
    @officiallykayanna Год назад +240

    he made this niyola person have two abortions and then left her for the woman he is married to now, and then still comes back to eat the previous pie? this is a mess. girl get away 😂

    • @yoloti9993
      @yoloti9993 Год назад +25

      It's the low self-esteem for me, and also colorism is at play as well. That ninja knew what he was doing. I feel sorry for the wife though.

    • @lovemezay
      @lovemezay Год назад

      I think it happened while he was married..

    • @meldawilliams1636
      @meldawilliams1636 Год назад +29

      We should blame the Niyola too, a man left you and marry another woman and you still sleep with him, who is the fool now

    • @shirlsshirls8594
      @shirlsshirls8594 Год назад +2

      Wait, what? Wow, all that love talk about his wife. Smh

    • @nellykutana
      @nellykutana Год назад +10

      The lady also should be blamed. A man impregnated you, got you to abort both pregnancies and then he comes back to have his way? It’s so daft on her part.

  • @memeoti6266
    @memeoti6266 Год назад +95

    After the first time he asked her to abort their child, it should have been a wrap.😢

    • @meldawilliams1636
      @meldawilliams1636 Год назад

      Exactly, to me if a grown woman sleeps with a married woman and get pregnant you planned it so if the man does not look at you I have no empathy

    • @wanjiruciru6237
      @wanjiruciru6237 Год назад +1

      Exactly.

  • @Munachifitness
    @Munachifitness Год назад +107

    I don't know if marriage is worth it this days

    • @Ms_buby
      @Ms_buby Год назад +41

      It is. Just pray you get the right person.

    • @Age_Of_Aquarius84
      @Age_Of_Aquarius84 Год назад

      Best thing you can do is date out sis. This degenerate pathology is prevalent amongst men of colour.

    • @elizabethletsoso2558
      @elizabethletsoso2558 Год назад +11

      Say that again sis and Louder 🎤🎤🎤

    • @elongaabigail8636
      @elongaabigail8636 Год назад

      Not Worth it unless they are from another race please not bl@ck

    • @cookie-ey3sg
      @cookie-ey3sg Год назад +6

      It's not.

  • @Meena-op6lm
    @Meena-op6lm Год назад +47

    It's hard to believe this rumour sha😂. Was it when Banky was fighting for his life with cancer that he was sleeping with Niyola? The treatment Banky went through affected his fertility level. Hence, Adesua's lateness to take in. Niyola from her latest video doesn't look pregnant.

  • @olubukolaofoegbu6970
    @olubukolaofoegbu6970 Год назад +155

    The only shred of hope that I am holding on to is the fact that all this is "allegedly". I pray from the bottom of my heart that this is not true. I love that couple!

    • @lydia27xoxo
      @lydia27xoxo Год назад +2

      Me too I don’t want it to be true oo

    • @d.jackson1770
      @d.jackson1770 Год назад +12

      My sentiments exactly... Tears came to my eyes hearing this... I don't idolize anyone but I always cheered for this couple as actors and people in ministry. If this is true- I am extremely saddened for the wife and I pray her strength and even if it's not true- I still pray for her because the stress of rumors about your marriage is just as bad.

    • @amehka5416
      @amehka5416 Год назад +6

      Do you know these people to be spewing nonsense? You love strangers😂😂😂

    • @dumebitemple4029
      @dumebitemple4029 Год назад +6

      @@amehka5416my sister Ehn. The way people idolize strangers is soo shocking

    • @marianakande8326
      @marianakande8326 Год назад

      For some reasons, I believe the story..but it shouldnt shatter what they share

  • @kayd.1755
    @kayd.1755 Год назад +98

    It baffles me why men never want to marry who they truly love/desire. Yet they keep marrying those the public/family/friends prefer. Ladies please always have your own money even still married. That way if anything goes left you can survive.

    • @s_kuku25
      @s_kuku25 Год назад +22

      👏🏽👏🏽👌🏽👌🏽 My thoughts exactly. If you love someone else why marry a different person and put her through emotional trauma🤦🏽‍♀️🤦🏽‍♀️

    • @sidicniy874
      @sidicniy874 Год назад +30

      This is the real issue people don't want to address. When a man says a woman is a wife material, I always think in my head this man did not say he loves the woman but only marry her because the world will look at him as a reasonable man that makes a reasonable decision in picking a wife.

    • @maxineramz4464
      @maxineramz4464 Год назад +21

      I said something like this to someone that men don't necessarily marry the woman they love, but will still go back to 'that one' and sleep with them. The wife is more for stability and image but the other chick pulls his heart strings.. 2baba and Davido has shown us that too. But because women are taught to think that marriage is a prize, they never get it..

    • @AyaEgbuho
      @AyaEgbuho Год назад +5

      ​@@maxineramz4464We never get it. 😂😂😂😂Sigh.

    • @balafama2120
      @balafama2120 2 месяца назад

      He doesn't love anyone but himself.

  • @IVYEKONG
    @IVYEKONG Год назад +36

    Can we give a standing ovation for the dress ✨✨✨✨✨

    • @mwila1879
      @mwila1879 Год назад

      👏👏👏👏👏

  • @heartsandpearls239
    @heartsandpearls239 Год назад +389

    Isnt it funny how he made Niyola abort two kids and he lost the two he really wanted. I pray no woman suffers from another mans karma. Wild!

  • @SpiritLedLisa
    @SpiritLedLisa Год назад +11

    The fact that Adesua didn't post Banky for Father's Day this year was confirmation enough for me. I'm so sorry for Adesua, this is beyond embarrassing.

  • @elizabetha788
    @elizabetha788 Год назад +66

    I rarely comment on RUclips videos but Aunty Fumi is just too much and always fabulous. Loved the pidgin and Yoruba throughout, and you're always speaking 💯 facts! Long live Aunty Fumi❤

  • @priscazigede7325
    @priscazigede7325 Год назад +17

    Everyday I keep praying for a kind partner,a partner that will not bring me shame,a partner that will not curse me pains🙏

  • @doelala6679
    @doelala6679 Год назад +64

    Yes mama we're LIVING for everything 😍😍the fit, the beat, the HAAAIRRRRR😍😍 YOU'RE IT MAMA!!

  • @angelfrancis4600
    @angelfrancis4600 Год назад +123

    We women need to start knowing our worth.. and most of the women that are going through all this are doing well for them, so I don’t understand why they will tolerate all that.. that word for better for worse does not mean being beaten and cheating on.🤦🏾‍♀️ women WAKE UP!!!

    • @mbbo-qr8yt
      @mbbo-qr8yt Год назад

      I think it’s like Fumi said, most of us were raised in a world that doesn’t exist anymore, namely the world of “get married and stay in your husbands house!”. I’m South African and my one married Zimbabwean friends said in reference to cheating and diseases: “Whatever comes will meet me in my husbands house!”. (She was better educated than her husband and financially stable as well).
      Unfortunately this mentality is still prevalent.

    • @nouraclaudina4163
      @nouraclaudina4163 Год назад

      @@mbbo-qr8ytit’s sad

  • @alikazan24
    @alikazan24 Год назад +9

    Btw, I’m new to your channel, listening in Seattle, WA, USA. I visited Lagos, Nigeria as a guest to a very wealthy Igbo family back in the the late 70’s (dating myselF LOL) it was a trip I will never forget. One thing became very clear to me at that young age…men do what they want to do. That’s why women must be SMART about choosing a man, and make sure security is met before giving up your value. The visit also gave me insight into the psyche of African-American Men!
    Let me tell you , I can listen to you all day …love your speaking voice, your fabulousness! Kudos Darling❤🎉❤

  • @sesiajose826
    @sesiajose826 Год назад +31

    The reason some of us love and follow you everywhere is because you are one of the few that speak positivity. Please dont dabble into unconfirmed rumors or gossip

    • @midemartins445
      @midemartins445 Год назад +1

      So till now you still believe is a rumor 😂. Is true o not rumor

    • @blossomblossom8769
      @blossomblossom8769 Год назад

      Lol- sad though , completely rooting for them but guess no r/ship and man is purfect

  • @gbiga
    @gbiga Год назад +37

    You are just soooo good at this, you should do a tedx talk for women.

  • @LocFitnessMama
    @LocFitnessMama Год назад +5

    I pray a special healing over every woman who has been manipulated and abused by their husband 🙏🏽

  • @peejay3826
    @peejay3826 Год назад +28

    "Niyola, you too, odẹ" got me 😂😂💀💀
    Arguably the most Yoruba reaction one can have to such a situation 😂

  • @TaylorJohnson1
    @TaylorJohnson1 Год назад +60

    These women are fit, feminine and friendly and still get dust? Whew, I can’t.

    • @terrijoyce8362
      @terrijoyce8362 Год назад +5

      I know both beautiful women. Makes me wonder. Very sad

    • @SpiritLedLisa
      @SpiritLedLisa Год назад +1

      These men all seem to be dusty at heart. Women will always deserve better. Sorry Adesua. This is beyond embarrassing

  • @AyaEgbuho
    @AyaEgbuho Год назад +85

    Love yourselves more than than your man. You can love them, but love yourself more. How do you know that you love yourself more than them? When they break your non negotiables with impunity, you leave. That's how you know. You can still love them, but you LEAVE. And move on to someone else who reciprocates love and care to you.

    • @rubicon2608
      @rubicon2608 Год назад +13

      Best comment here 👏👏 totally totally agree

    • @eunicejoseph1080
      @eunicejoseph1080 Год назад

      Honestly that is the only solution I see these days n what should be, even God hated adultery I mean!!! But no is Africans will shame the woman for leaving!!!! All in the name of all men cheat…nooo I think u/ women should move on marry the next one then in 7yrs if he cheats move on marry or marry again I mean…only then the men will learn. I think it was Hillary Clinton who said it takes strength to stay but also strength to leave!!! Me I will LEAVE…women need to be stronger n love themselves more, cheating is ABUSE. Ths cheating is my greatest fear than being broke or terminal illness lyk wtf.

    • @ariah457
      @ariah457 Год назад +4

      💯 facts self love is a must

    • @josroberts9069
      @josroberts9069 Год назад

      When you to that someone an they cheat you move on again and again.

    • @terryscoffer
      @terryscoffer Год назад +5

      I learnt this the hard way😊

  • @Sandra.-.
    @Sandra.-. Год назад +28

    Good girls finish last not gonna lie. All this be goodie two shoes to get picked to be a wife only for the men to keep you in the house and run back to the streets for the women they claim aren't wifey material. Hmm, after God, fear men

  • @mpiloumzulu
    @mpiloumzulu Год назад +116

    These couple celebrities are out here embarrassing their wives this is just so unfortunate absolutely devastating!!! I didn’t see this coming Banky W!!!😮💔💔

    • @paralegalkc
      @paralegalkc Год назад +5

      I really hate the fact that he seen as a naughty boy. No, he’s a grown ass man and he is a cheater. He has cheat on his wife and breaking up his family. He is not a boy. He is a grown man.

    • @jacintannani2262
      @jacintannani2262 Год назад

      I know right, shocking

    • @Nombulelo_ace
      @Nombulelo_ace Год назад +1

      Wena heeeeee! never have I imagined Banky as a cheater😢😢😢 kubi

    • @vibrantwoman1323
      @vibrantwoman1323 Год назад

      Every Man gets jock itch, but the real men know how to control it.

    • @sasshil4202
      @sasshil4202 Год назад

      @@vibrantwoman1323have jock itch to one person then kmt. Just nasty.

  • @raae9310
    @raae9310 Год назад +92

    I had to teach my friends what 'wahala' means (and I'm Ghanaian) because that's a lot of what we're getting these days. I now see why Juvia's Place has an eyeshadow palette with that name because it is always SOMETHING!

    • @sandylove7713
      @sandylove7713 Год назад

      Who says Ghanaians don’t know wahala. Are u sure u are Ghanaian?

    • @aboachie1
      @aboachie1 Год назад +5

      ​@@sandylove7713I think she is referring to her non-African friends

  • @Sandra.-.
    @Sandra.-. Год назад +146

    Lovely hair update. I feel so happy when more black women embrace their natural crowns. Our hair is beautiful, we need to learn and teach others to love it and stop hiding it under wigs 24/7. Our hair is glorious in all its kinky coils and curls

    • @krishondandy4221
      @krishondandy4221 Год назад +5

      Mine is going grey and I HATE it!!!😭

    • @ostayzy
      @ostayzy Год назад +4

      ​@@krishondandy4221Why do you hate It? I'm grey too, It hereditary and beautiful!
      Have been natural for 3yrs now!❤

    • @MMSCOTT-mx8dm
      @MMSCOTT-mx8dm Год назад +3

      @@krishondandy4221 Queen embrace it silver/grey hair is stunning, Wear that crown you have overcome, your have survived! Remember many did not LIVE to have grey hair! God brought you this far by faith!💝💖💗❣❤‍🔥❤

    • @MissTeaq
      @MissTeaq Год назад +2

      @@krishondandy4221nooo… do not hate growing older… it is a privilege that many unfortunately don’t receive. Society has made us feel like unless we are free from grey hair and wrinkles, and lines in our faces we are no longer beautiful and worthy to be admired. Embrace your natural beauty at what ever stage you are. If you fear being seen in your natural beautiful state it will create more and more insecurities that will be much more difficult to manage… begin the work of embracing and loving the way our creator naturally made us so you can begin the process of truly loving yourself in your god given state… it’s a freedom unlike anything you will ever experience in life. Self love is the best love beloved!!! Willing you success on your journey of self love and acceptance!!!

    • @loisylove
      @loisylove Год назад +2

      Just thinking aloud why you chose the word *hide 😊 A wig could be used or not.

  • @rachealkadete6141
    @rachealkadete6141 Год назад +44

    What a shame ! This is a bit disappointing 😢

    • @k.sharpe8411
      @k.sharpe8411 Год назад

      I thought they were a great couple. So sad to hear this news.

    • @janeta.1234
      @janeta.1234 Год назад

      Soo disappointing😢 A part of me keeps on hoping it’s not true 😔

  • @s_kuku25
    @s_kuku25 Год назад +28

    Aunty Fumi you are so right. It is such a shame 🤦🏽‍♀️
    And if this alleged story turns out to be true, which so far it is looking that way. I would be so disappointed because this couple has been a beacon of hope for several young couples. He seemed to have changed, or rather settled down, or so we thought. Ah ah men, wuna na something else 🤦🏽‍♀️🙆🏽‍♀️
    And as you said Niyola knew exactly what was going on. She knew their fling or adventure was not going anywhere. This is my issue with some women; you can choose to accept a side position anyday, then later want more, thinking things will change. Now Banky and Adesua are coming out as united front and you dey there looking like a fool.
    Niyola is such a beautiful girl and I am enraged that she allowed herself like Aunty Fumi said to be placed on a shelf.
    There are several Niyolas out here and I pray they learn from this situation. It's not too late, jump down from that shelf, brush yourself up, pick up your pieces and move on and find you a better life you deserve. You should be someone's priority not someone's OPTION. 🤗🥰

  • @gyptianwifeey
    @gyptianwifeey Год назад +12

    They are both so beautiful! They don’t need this guy!!

  • @jae8192
    @jae8192 Год назад +12

    I LOOOOOOVE the tea with the dialect!

  • @AyaEgbuho
    @AyaEgbuho Год назад +96

    Sometimes I think that wife to these men means the woman who will take all of my bad behavior, no questions asked. Now, I don't think that, so please don't come for me in the comments! I'm just saying that when SOME men say wife material, I feel like what they mean is do whatever I want you to do and submit to all my bad behavior, and love me with no conditions even though I clearly do not care about your feelings. This wife material thingy is starting to be come suspect to me! 🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂

    • @chipmunkred1519
      @chipmunkred1519 Год назад +21

      I totally agree with you, most of the time this is the case.
      They want someone who will , shut up and listen, look good in public, and turn a blind eye to everything that they do.

    • @thee_joyce
      @thee_joyce Год назад

      @@chipmunkred1519 l

    • @blessed_one_
      @blessed_one_ Год назад +3

      ​@@ursamajor6347lol if he's a cheater he'll be thankful that you 'understand', and there'll be no need to hide his escapades anymore.

    • @yesSofia
      @yesSofia Год назад +3

      Never fall for the 'wife material' that's exactly what it means!

  • @Sekhere
    @Sekhere Год назад +22

    At first I didn't believe it because I love Adesua and kind of end up liking her with her husband as a couple. It's sad and sincerely feel bad for Adesua and hope she finds peace moving forward. As for Banky I don't think he ever truly loved Adesua if it's true. Because I feel like he's not in love with neither of them but himself in a selfish way. Because a man will only do to you what you allow him do to you and if faithfulness is not in his character it's a wrap. Babes shine your eyes in these streets. After that I love you Aunty Fumi 🥰🥰 you inspire me to be fabulously confident in my womanhood! I love it ❤. I laugh when you said Oga wants to blend the two 😂

  • @mandyasare816
    @mandyasare816 Год назад +21

    This may not necessarily break someone's home because the foundation of that relationship may be different from what the public feeds on

  • @silsgirl
    @silsgirl Год назад +9

    The fact that as a Jamaican I understand your pidgin perfectly. Love from the diaspora ❤

  • @DaraKFulton
    @DaraKFulton Год назад +6

    I've been to Nigeria 🇳🇬 and loved it ! I love to hear u speak in Nigerian accent Aunty Fumi mi! Mo Nife ❤❤❤

  • @peaceudoka9889
    @peaceudoka9889 Год назад +11

    Aunty Fumi really went Naija this episode 😅😊. Her broken on point 🇳🇬

  • @lindao.ezenwammadu7056
    @lindao.ezenwammadu7056 Год назад +19

    if it’s true then let undeniable evidence come out
    If not, i will take it as mere gossip and attack on their marriage .

  • @miraglass5158
    @miraglass5158 Год назад +7

    I enjoy your Nigerian commentary very honest, lively and authentic...Thank you Aunty Fumi

  • @pPrincessL
    @pPrincessL Год назад +58

    I'm fighting the next person who tries to pressure me into marriage I keep responding to them with respect but is this what they're tryna force me into?I have never seen a marriage where both are faithful to each other! Even when there's some semblance of fidelity there's some kind of abuse going on. So at the end of the day what does marriage serve for if people can not truly appreciate each other? Ridiculous !

    • @s_kuku25
      @s_kuku25 Год назад +2

      😂😂😂😂
      It is well, there are still good men out there. Just have an open mind and heart to find love in any place or anyone and not restrict it to color, tribe or religion. You never know where your soulmate may be if you keep looking in one place.

    • @pPrincessL
      @pPrincessL Год назад +2

      @@ot4625 when I said I have never seen a good marriage I meant it. My parents' marriage included. The pain both my sisters went through always with bruises on their bodies, having to deal with side chick trouble, my neighbor getting embarrassed by her alcoholic of a husband, always screaming in pain when ever her husband is around?. You can see the pain and the fear in their eyes!

    • @pPrincessL
      @pPrincessL Год назад

      @@ot4625 and no I don't look up to celebrities for anything I don't even like them, anything I know about them is when I'm bored n watch videos like these

    • @royaldiadem8660
      @royaldiadem8660 Год назад +4

      @@ot4625 oh pls majority of marriages are trash.celebrity or not. Let's call a spade a spade.most African men aren't good for African women. Our culture we hold in high esteem is also going to be our downfall. There's this married man on my neck everyday talking about how he wants to marry me,I said I'm not interested and he tells me then let's have a kid together. I asked if he thinks that's fair to his wife, he says " I married my wife,she didn't marry me, I take care of her and provide all her needs, what more does she want.so long as I provide, she should be happy with that. She can't complain ". To tell you I was shocked will be a lie, cos here in ghana, that's the mentality of majority of men. I'm a woman, a human being ,not an objects.if you can't commit, don't waste my time. It's simple

    • @Sashyalove
      @Sashyalove Год назад +1

      I get you princess I've also never seen positive representations of marriages in my life but I believe discernment is important if you desire marriage but then again if it's not for you noone can force you 😊

  • @valeo3508
    @valeo3508 Год назад +9

    Wow, what is going on with men, Aunty fumi!! This is crazy this woman stood beside you when you were facing your cancer sickness😮

    • @rubicon2608
      @rubicon2608 Год назад +2

      @valeo3508 these are men that still have some growing up to do. Not all men are this confused and cheat on their spouses. This is what happens when a man doesn't crucify his flesh, temptations do come but a man who has crucified his flesh in christ Jesus doesn't fall to these types of temptations even though they do come, cos they always remember the overall consequence. For allowing the flesh to lead you, brings nothing but shame and disgrace. I pray beautiful Adesowa finds the needed strength going forward.

  • @erenyeager8838
    @erenyeager8838 Год назад +31

    Your make up is on point. You must do a tutorial on that look. Elegant but simple.
    If the allegations are true, I feel sorry for his wife. She resisted his advances initially due to his reputation. To go through all of that then to be betrayed.

    • @Adaobi874
      @Adaobi874 Год назад +1

      Fr. I remember Adesua saying that before, she never wanted to marry someone in the entertainment industry or a politician.

  • @paralegalkc
    @paralegalkc Год назад +4

    Both women are beautiful. He on the other hand is not. Jesus help them.

  • @MMSCOTT-mx8dm
    @MMSCOTT-mx8dm Год назад +14

    So proud of you for returning your hair to it's natural state! Bravo!❤Cut that relaxer out of your life! I went "Natural" back in 2005 (for good) after my Father passed away, and I wish I would have done it sooner. I then choose to loc my hair and baby my hair has grown down to my tailbone several times (has been so long I had to cut it because it was so heavy my neck and shoulders hurt). Yes Sis wear that crown, you are becoming more you every day! Blessings!🥰💋❤🖤❤‍🩹❤🤍💯

  • @beautifulirawo1900
    @beautifulirawo1900 Год назад +8

    Anti Fumi love your pink dress. As someone with natural hair it’s a lot of work, but hair integrity is best when natural!

  • @happilliciousbabillio5676
    @happilliciousbabillio5676 Год назад +9

    You are so lovely Miss Fumi. Love from South Africa 🇿🇦.

  • @nike9769
    @nike9769 Год назад +4

    You will LOVE your natural journey! You are GORGEOUS!!!!

  • @ST-fh2vd
    @ST-fh2vd Год назад +5

    I am loving the Nigerian celebrities' talk.😂😂

  • @mybakingaisle
    @mybakingaisle Год назад +1

    My most authentic youtuber! I'm m loving your pigin English.

  • @lenahmoyi3458
    @lenahmoyi3458 Год назад +5

    Men can humble n embarrassing you at the same time

  • @ToriOfTheNile
    @ToriOfTheNile Год назад +4

    All I heard in my head when I read the title was that audio “how are you- I’m fine sir- how are you?- I’m getting fine sir…… Your a bad boy, your a badddd boy, you are a veryyyy bad boy” 😭

  • @carolokoli7874
    @carolokoli7874 Год назад +19

    Surefire way of testing your spouses fidelity, just ask to see their phone's if they get defensive they are cheating!

  • @NJ_1315
    @NJ_1315 Год назад +8

    I enjoyed hearing you speak the Nigerian Pigeon dialect! Lovely!

  • @titinigirlo
    @titinigirlo Год назад +4

    I like that... "our parents have raised us in a world that doesn't exist "

  • @bitsandpieces6457
    @bitsandpieces6457 Год назад +9

    Auntie fumi your yoruba and pidgin is too sweet oo

  • @VivienNwandu
    @VivienNwandu Год назад +9

    Great videos as always. You took the words out my mouth. If the story is true his heart actually belongs to Niyola and Adesua is for show off. I also think Adesua must have gotten a hint somehow..though.

  • @heyitsbecca11
    @heyitsbecca11 Год назад +5

    I would never marry a certain nationality 😭😭Abeg I’m too weak for such drama

    • @Sashyalove
      @Sashyalove Год назад

      Loool girl we hear you loud and clearly 😂

  • @omoleyeesan-ojuri8807
    @omoleyeesan-ojuri8807 Год назад +1

    I never knew that your pidgin English is fluent and smooth like this. Highly impressed!

  • @Beyondme7700
    @Beyondme7700 Год назад +1

    Wut?? My "will we still be in luv in heaven" singer oh my😮

  • @cecetn3383
    @cecetn3383 Год назад +8

    Another one! In my DJ khaled voice!

  • @amarachiobasi9091
    @amarachiobasi9091 Год назад +6

    This episode sweet me 😂😂😂. Aunty Fumi oooooo❤❤❤

  • @mariakeaton9380
    @mariakeaton9380 Год назад +3

    These guys have the best women, theses women are beautiful, talented and amazing and yet these men cheats on them. These women need to set boundaries and other things but the women need to appreciated &and loved. He is a preacher, shame on his behaviour.

  • @flibutterfli
    @flibutterfli Год назад +3

    Fumi Nation Jamaica understood 99.9% also. Totally agree. Time is on men's time. We women need to learn at a younger age not to allow them to waste ours.

  • @ItsDeniseRenee
    @ItsDeniseRenee Год назад +5

    I love listening to you speak. Your tone and cadences sound just like my family from the Caribbean. (I was born Yankee! I literally grew up in walking distance from Yankee Stadium in The Bronx, New York! 🤣) We speak English with that same sing-song like tones as West African languages. I love the face that we (Black women in particular) are who we are no matter where in the world we are!

  • @IfeoluwasimipoAdemuyiwa-oo3uw
    @IfeoluwasimipoAdemuyiwa-oo3uw Год назад +1

    Abi ooooo I just pray it is not true . I will be praying for strength for Adesua. That woman is worthy of emulation and a role model to many .

  • @reginatabb4068
    @reginatabb4068 Год назад +40

    Unfortunately a lot of our African Celebrities are also doing shady things our American celebrities doing. The Fame has gone to their head..❤

    • @Age_Of_Aquarius84
      @Age_Of_Aquarius84 Год назад +17

      They've always been doing this though, it's not new.

    • @yoloti9993
      @yoloti9993 Год назад +2

      I'm African and my sister I can guarantee you that THEY'VE BEEN DUSTY BEFORE dawn of time (look at our STD stats). Why you think African women swirl as much? . Dusties are not just in America

    • @traceyjennings1769
      @traceyjennings1769 Год назад

      All the room African society gives the men perpetuates their infidelity ways ,polygamy infidelity, 3 or 4 wives in your face lying cheating abuse its horrendous 😢😮

    • @amehka5416
      @amehka5416 Год назад

      Stop trying to blame everything on Americans...cheating has been around since the beginning of civilization.

    • @wandanderisha
      @wandanderisha Год назад

      People are people... regardless of the nationality, this kind of behaviour is common especially in religious societies because of the idea of patriarchy and toxic masculinity it glamourizes.

  • @alikazan24
    @alikazan24 Год назад +4

    Your hair is looking thick and healthy! Congratulations 🍾🎉🎈 As my grandmother used to say, you’re hair is your crowning glory! Get your self love “ON” Baby!!!❤🎉😊

  • @faithfullivingwithEmezy
    @faithfullivingwithEmezy Год назад +8

    I've been laughing hard. Aunty fumi says, " I go carry am to finish point " 😂whahala dey here ooo

  • @Ms_buby
    @Ms_buby Год назад +11

    Wow, so this story is true? I feel so bad for both ladies.

  • @andru596
    @andru596 Год назад +7

    I know Banky W from his song Yes/No on Spotify. I liked that song so much but i can't support someone who can do that to two women. 😢 Why are some men like this?

    • @janewawira9829
      @janewawira9829 Год назад

      Me too. I came to know him when he released that song😅

  • @juliannesharpe3066
    @juliannesharpe3066 Год назад +2

    Both women are physically beautiful!!

  • @QueenMufasa552
    @QueenMufasa552 Год назад +20

    Oya aunty fumi, we dey fine. How you dey???
    Na Nigerian men dey shock me...dey scatter my head🤦🤷
    P.S: please excuse my pidgin.. I am Zambian😂😂😂

  • @Christinekehindemusic
    @Christinekehindemusic Год назад +2

    It's the pidgin for me 😊❤

  • @lydia27xoxo
    @lydia27xoxo Год назад +2

    I really don’t want to believe this. Pls do we have evidence of this ? Because I don’t want to believe this oo

  • @tamarwilliams3792
    @tamarwilliams3792 Год назад +1

    God Daam the accent is killing me but In here for it

  • @patriciaallen6241
    @patriciaallen6241 Год назад +1

    Damn Fumi, you went straight to your mother tongue 😊....but I got the gist of what you were saying. Wow I agree with you that both women were taken advantage of by this Banky person.

  • @Molly_finds
    @Molly_finds Год назад +25

    I love you Funmi but you need to verify this story.. some of gistlover’s stories are not true… I don’t think hanky is that heartless.. I really doubt it ..

    • @eunicejoseph1080
      @eunicejoseph1080 Год назад +2

      Men will SHOCK you…no one is safe..esp these celebrities it is a very SCARY world.I think it’s true, it can’t just come out of nowhere, the most is Adesua n Banky will try to shut it down to make their marriage work but my friend the facts, history just makes sense. It is very brutal what he did n it has blown in his face cs he thought Niyola will never keep his baby now she has gone WILD n doesn’t care n hence ths is wat u get.

    • @josroberts9069
      @josroberts9069 Год назад +2

      Very surprised with Fumi judgment of davido and banky when you didn't verify.

    • @adesewaadeyeni2257
      @adesewaadeyeni2257 Год назад +5

      How many gistlover' stories have turned out not to be true over the years? Zero, even after debunking the truth always comes out.

    • @chiomaobinna8638
      @chiomaobinna8638 Год назад

      What are you saying? A very big true story ..watch out.

  • @melvinagdavis6870
    @melvinagdavis6870 Год назад +1

    Fumi your accent in the video was phenomenal!!!!!

  • @Nombulelo_ace
    @Nombulelo_ace Год назад +2

    Not
    Banky Wellington cheating... I never imagined him as a cheater ... what a disappointment 😢

  • @currydiamondcurls
    @currydiamondcurls Год назад +1

    It’s literally the same song on repeat with different voices. These men will never learn the risk is not worth losing everything you love.

  • @MsAjoa
    @MsAjoa Год назад +2

    The dark skin girl is whoaa this skin is très jolie . Love her beauté ❤❤

  • @cassitathomas4359
    @cassitathomas4359 Год назад +5

    Hi Fumi I had colored my hair n it fell out so I started spraying my hair with clove water day n night n now it’s so thick n it grow so fast

  • @cessbaby131
    @cessbaby131 Год назад +3

    I hope and pray this is an allegation because I keep asking myself ‘how can a man use his hands to destroy his matrimonial home?’ This makes me sick to my stomach, playing with the emotions of 2 women and psychologically destroying them is unacceptable. Man of God and an aspiring politician what a negative example to set…but like ar tok I de pray se na lie o…chai, some men eh😢😢😢

  • @clairebaichoo2263
    @clairebaichoo2263 Год назад +5

    Fumi, WHEN WILL THESE MEN GROW UP??!! Niyola has nothing but the baby. she should NEEEVER take him back At least, his wife could have the property & money. Plus, SUE HIM FOR EVERYTHING HE HAS!! I HATE BOYS WHO THINK THEY ARE MEN!!

  • @nachy883
    @nachy883 Год назад +1

    God where did we go wrong as women

  • @Tam974eva
    @Tam974eva Год назад +2

    Are there any Naija men out there who actually aren't tempted easily or cheat?

  • @ladyestherjay
    @ladyestherjay Год назад +1

    I pray this is not a true story. I am not going to believe this until it is officially confirmed by either of the three people. 😭😭

  • @ruginatarimobo-otobo5761
    @ruginatarimobo-otobo5761 Год назад +4

    Aunty Fumi, your pidgin English is fun to listen to😅😅😅

  • @grandmaspecial7775
    @grandmaspecial7775 Год назад +10

    The words you speak of are for everyone. It is not just for an area. Women have to open their eyes and see what is right in front of them. Men will do whatever they want and you have to look out for yourself. The mothers have to start teaching their girls how to conduct themselves in this world of wolves.

  • @evemwila4563
    @evemwila4563 Год назад +2

    u are a wise woman,sending hugs from Zambia 🇿🇲

  • @lisamariee1316
    @lisamariee1316 Год назад +1

    Naturally beautiful, skin and hair popping.

  • @ngozidibia7278
    @ngozidibia7278 Год назад +1

    I had to sit up when you said you think Banky never stopped loving Niyola & if possible, would like her merged with Adesua. I had not looked at the situation from that angle.

  • @2012loveyourself
    @2012loveyourself Год назад +3

    We will start using condoms in marriage . Trust is very risky these days.

  • @rifode17
    @rifode17 Год назад

    You and your hair are GLOWING 😍!

  • @cupcake1065
    @cupcake1065 Год назад +1

    Hmm, men should marry who they truly love instead of worrying about optics. Avoid heartbreak for all involved.

  • @WhatMummyLoves
    @WhatMummyLoves Год назад

    I always thought there was something up with this Banky W guy. Adesua dey see something for that house. She just doesn’t want to talk.

  • @jacintannani2262
    @jacintannani2262 Год назад +6

    I just love how you analyze stories, and you look gorgeous as always. Banky and Adesua are two people I thought would never have a problem of infidelity in their marriage. To say that I am shocked is an understatement, and he is a pastor? Men are really funny. I agree with you, he loves Niola's wildness and probably she's fulfilling his sexual fantasies in bed but not good enough for marriage. On the other hand, his wife might not be fulfilling his sexual fantasies or desires. But that's selfish, he wants the best of both worlds. I feel bad for Adesuwa, but I don't think she would leave him. I hope they work it out, but he will cheat again with another woman.

  • @mandyasare816
    @mandyasare816 Год назад +1

    Our homes are different so are desire

  • @WhittyHutton
    @WhittyHutton Год назад +1

    Ms Fumi! When I saw the title of this video I hollered! I remember watching this couple get married on tv. This is so so sad my God!