It's the confidence for me that men take pictures of themselves in their boxers for tinder. Sir, I can see clearly that you are not packed. No MANDIGO in sight. Why would you show the world that but....your DM's are wild. I am living for the nice/cute ones.
I had to give up on HelloTalk because literally everyone who messaged me was trying to get it. The only helpful learning conversations I had were with women because the men were too creepy!!
@@kclarke421 exactly i also had a lot of good interactions and made 2 real good friends but a lot of ppl dont have the same experience Ig but what helps is not having a of pic tbh cuz otherwise you get all the pervs haha
Black American women have high standards, too! We are beautiful, college-educated and hard working, too! We respect, value and love ourselves, too! We want love, marriage and family, too!
Girl you gotta get off those apps. If you want to find a good guy getting introduced by friends or by someone who can vouch (that you trust) for there character is so important. Also try meeting them in different environments (not a bar, club, concert or on apps), like the library, exhibits, etc. In my personal opinion dating older guys helps.
I agree with EVERYTHING you have said once I stopped going on those apps looking for someone who was “my type” I found a really good guy over the ps4 and we have more in common than anyone I coulda found on a stupid dating app
I would agree but not everyone has access to meet people this way . Some people don’t have friends and some people have a lot of friends . I can assure you that meeting through friends unless In close work group or school or even church or close family friends it’s harder…but not everyone has that lifestyle . A majority of people in American culture use dating apps especially in 2021
I’ve been using online dating apps off and on for 10-15 years and it seems like it’s all still the same agenda... I will give them credit and say at least they’re upfront with it instead of lying about what they want like they use to do.
Relationships are good... if they're real. HOWEVER, those types of messages would have me read them, then block/delete. It's unnecessary and yes, drives me insane too! (that's how you know you gettin' old) haha
12:36 does this happen with korean guys only? Are they racist or what? I didn't expect to hear that from you lol The guy who said "why are you so light, are you lying?" was so funny Lmaoo. Can't koreans tell that you're black? it looks obvious to me
Girl they r funny. It is sad though a girl cant just havena meet and greet without being harassed for sex. Its getting sickening. I feel bad for younger women out in the dating scene. I feel bad for my daughter who is 16. Same thing for them.
I have to say I hate tinder cause I go on to try and make friends and all I get is crazies that all they want to do is hit and quit. I’m tired of the childish hits and quits to be honest now a days a woman never knows what a man can be carrying and willing to pass on to a woman without a care.
Screw Hellotalk. I only wanted to learn korean and make some friends who can recommend me activities and places in Korea. Guys there are scary. I deleted my account. I am so disappointed
So I’ve been meeting people on Clubhouse lately I met a Korean teacher in Japan to teach me Korean and then you can talk to people in Korea too and there’s rooms were some of them want to practice their English.
You should do a video with a guy to compare the kind of messages they get on the same app. I met a guy for coffee who I met on Meeff and he's super normal. He told me that he deleted the app because there were too many weird girls! Itd be cool to compare the creepy messages guys and girls recieve on Meeff. Also welcome back to Korea! Ive been here for over a year and have yet to visit Seoul 😭
That's a really good idea! I'll let u know if I meet a normal guy willing to do it. Guys aren't interested in talking with me or getting to know me lol
I downloaded Tinder once and never again way too many DTF guys on there. I download Upward (a Christian dating app) thinking I wouldn't see too many guys like that I still do or some of the guys are way too conservative for me. There are random nice guys here and there but yeah dating a struggle sis. I do prefer OkCupid I met my ex on there lol so I guess its alright
Hi Isis, thanks for another awesome vid. Don't know why but, I assumed you left Korea for good. I noticed that, accidentally, you included in exhibit A, a 31-year-old Korean guy who is NOT looking for fwb (he says he wants a relationship 2:27). take it from an elder 'sister' who has been through this: what you resist persists... just ignore the 🤡 and focus on the 💎
I really don't know how, except probably through sending messaging. I don't respond to them because LinkedIn is for professional, business connections and expertise. Last year, it happening a lot with me and several females. The guys are mostly from Eastern Europe, Middle East, Africa and a few from Asia. We reported the incidents to LinkedIn; and they stopped for a while. Now, the DMs have restarted again. Still, I don't respond because I am NOT interested; and I do not want to engage. LinkedIn is for professionals and those who are looking for jobs/careers, courses information, advice and expertise.
I've been living in Korea for over 9 years and never ran into another black person this is very cool sorry about your bad experience with those messages lol I plan to visit the united states soon to see my mom
I innocently wanted to try to make korean and japanese friends on Tandem in my freshman year of college to help my social anxiety and to meet new people (mostly guys because I went to an all girl school) and I got ghosted by literally everyone except this one gay korean dude who still talks to me to this day. Most of them wanted something else it seems😅
Lmao. You have me rolling. I love your storytimes and attitude. Girl I so agree with you, I have never used dating sites but wow, these things are quite something.
You always bring interesting content especially when you are there to show what is going on in korea! I thought ths was interesting because it does not matter the years before or after they all seem to try different approaches to catch a fish. It would be nice to get an interview with several korean guys and see what works and does not work when they want to date or meet someone as friends. I think the first step like you said, let's build a friendship first, somehow one by one we need to break this stereotype that foreigners are easy. In many of apps HT, KKT, tandem, people put in there profile they do like (fake) people. Also more mature people will have respect and act different. Unfortunately, I also heard that domestic violence is high there on foreigners versus native koreans. So this is scary in any country but taking a stand to make a change is going to be a challenge but every women in all generations are worth it.❤🌻❤
@@sisilessthan3 girl ppl are gonna hate regardless. It's best not to worry about them and upload things that make you happy. Your followers will follow you on your journey, so don't worry about it
I haven't been watching RUclips lately but as soon as I click on RUclips and seen your notification it really made my whole day so I just want to thank you for that
About your question: Yeah, sometimes it works haha. Because for whatever reasons maybe the girl is also not looking for a serious relationship and just wants to have some fun (of course, this DO NOT excuses unwanted d* pics or something like that) And honestly, for my experience using Tinder, i also prefer when the guy just puts straight into their bio want they want because i know who to avoid if it's not what i'm looking for.
It's the confidence for me that men take pictures of themselves in their boxers for tinder. Sir, I can see clearly that you are not packed. No MANDIGO in sight. Why would you show the world that but....your DM's are wild. I am living for the nice/cute ones.
THE TEA IS HOT!! ☕😌
Sis you did not I-... 💀
@@valie6167 sis is wild
@@shanibrown158 She really called them out!
@@valie6167 sis didnt hold back
I didn't even think your responses were mean. The audacity to assume sex is immediately on the table is the height of arrogance for men.
This is why I’m dating myself and will be marrying to myself
same. it’s called single monogamous apparently
Me too 😊
"Don't call me" playing in the background💃🏾
I literally had to for this video! 😅
I had to give up on HelloTalk because literally everyone who messaged me was trying to get it. The only helpful learning conversations I had were with women because the men were too creepy!!
So true, its ridiculous and weird there.. People only want the same. I only meet one Korean man who was 48 and he was friendly and helped me alot.
Really?
I guess I was really lucky
They're nice korean guys who help out alot, sadly I only talk to 2 now? Since I suck at replying 💀💀😅
@@kclarke421 exactly i also had a lot of good interactions and made 2 real good friends but a lot of ppl dont have the same experience Ig but what helps is not having a of pic tbh cuz otherwise you get all the pervs haha
Oh im so sorry you had to go through that!!! I actually made a really great friend on Hellotalk and I have been besties with him ever since 😁
EXACTLY WOMEN ON THAT APP ARE THE BEST
Black American women have high standards, too! We are beautiful, college-educated and hard working, too! We respect, value and love ourselves, too! We want love, marriage and family, too!
Girl you gotta get off those apps. If you want to find a good guy getting introduced by friends or by someone who can vouch (that you trust) for there character is so important. Also try meeting them in different environments (not a bar, club, concert or on apps), like the library, exhibits, etc. In my personal opinion dating older guys helps.
I agree with EVERYTHING you have said once I stopped going on those apps looking for someone who was “my type” I found a really good guy over the ps4 and we have more in common than anyone I coulda found on a stupid dating app
I have always wished I could meet people through mutual friends, but none of my friends ever know any people of the opposite sex who are single. 😅
I would agree but not everyone has access to meet people this way . Some people don’t have friends and some people have a lot of friends . I can assure you that meeting through friends unless In close work group or school or even church or close family friends it’s harder…but not everyone has that lifestyle . A majority of people in American culture use dating apps especially in 2021
"Why are you so light for a Black person?" Uhm...how does that work!? How is that something you say to someone!?
I was thinking the same. Like WTF is that a wired question
I’ve been using online dating apps off and on for 10-15 years and it seems like it’s all still the same agenda... I will give them credit and say at least they’re upfront with it instead of lying about what they want like they use to do.
Relationships are good... if they're real. HOWEVER, those types of messages would have me read them, then block/delete. It's unnecessary and yes, drives me insane too! (that's how you know you gettin' old) haha
12:36 does this happen with korean guys only? Are they racist or what? I didn't expect to hear that from you lol
The guy who said "why are you so light, are you lying?" was so funny Lmaoo. Can't koreans tell that you're black? it looks obvious to me
Majority are pretty racist. They look for foreign experience as side cheque especially black women and koreaboos and finally marry korean mostly.
I honestly audibly shriek laughed when the guy said he could give you your fortune and you responded to him saying “when?”
I love it. 11/10.
Man I was having a hard time watching this while listening to Dont Call Me and Mhmm playing in the background. 😂
"and I said "When?"" 🤣🙌
Girl they r funny. It is sad though a girl cant just havena meet and greet without being harassed for sex. Its getting sickening. I feel bad for younger women out in the dating scene. I feel bad for my daughter who is 16. Same thing for them.
The hellotalk thing omg! I have it and some guys seem to think it's a dating site.. some don't even know the language I want to learn.. like bye? lol
That bed squeaking meme be taking me out 😭😭
You got me hooked on coryxkenshin's video so thank you for that. He's hilarious 😂
Sameee
Samurai is that you🤧🤧❓
U samurai 😏
Lol I legit just leave people on read I don't even waste my energy 😭 but yessss be picky these men think everyone easy
My face the whole time I was watching this video 🤦🏾♀️😒 but I’m also ashamed because the s’mores line may have worked on me 🙃🙈
Oop, girl nooooo not the s'mores line 😮
God those savage replies......
I was screaming in my pillow 🤣🤣🤣😭🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
I don't have the energy to be nice to fuq boys anymore......its gone lol im running out for men in general tbh 😒
@@sisilessthan3 same here~
You are gorgeous thoo😍
Keep posting i love your videos
I have to say I hate tinder cause I go on to try and make friends and all I get is crazies that all they want to do is hit and quit. I’m tired of the childish hits and quits to be honest now a days a woman never knows what a man can be carrying and willing to pass on to a woman without a care.
Screw Hellotalk. I only wanted to learn korean and make some friends who can recommend me activities and places in Korea. Guys there are scary. I deleted my account. I am so disappointed
So I’ve been meeting people on Clubhouse lately I met a Korean teacher in Japan to teach me Korean and then you can talk to people in Korea too and there’s rooms were some of them want to practice their English.
Every girl need your confidence! That’s how we all should react to them trash messages 😂 can we all stop entertaining stupid 👏🏻
You should do a video with a guy to compare the kind of messages they get on the same app. I met a guy for coffee who I met on Meeff and he's super normal. He told me that he deleted the app because there were too many weird girls! Itd be cool to compare the creepy messages guys and girls recieve on Meeff.
Also welcome back to Korea! Ive been here for over a year and have yet to visit Seoul 😭
That's a really good idea! I'll let u know if I meet a normal guy willing to do it. Guys aren't interested in talking with me or getting to know me lol
I love this channel ❤❤❤
I swear some women get shamed for denying guys that are "interested"...lol not sorry NEXT!
I saw the title and I know this gon be a trip 💀💀
Screw youtube you're trying to get in youporn I AM SORRY BUT IT HAD ME SCREAMING 🤣🤣!! That was funny asf
I downloaded Tinder once and never again way too many DTF guys on there. I download Upward (a Christian dating app) thinking I wouldn't see too many guys like that I still do or some of the guys are way too conservative for me. There are random nice guys here and there but yeah dating a struggle sis. I do prefer OkCupid I met my ex on there lol so I guess its alright
Tinder has always had 1 purpose in all of Asia 😏👿 now you know 🤣
No it hasn't. I met my ex there and my friend met her current husband on tinder
@@sisilessthan3 the lucky 0.001% 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
@@mosesmakon1454 oml💀💀💀💀💀💀🤣
You should just post the messages on r/tinder 🤣🤣🤣 you'd get hilarious comments
Hahahahaha helllll to the NOOOOOO 🤣 it’s the biggest put off ... not sure if girls actually fall for that crap 😐
Hi Isis, thanks for another awesome vid. Don't know why but, I assumed you left Korea for good. I noticed that, accidentally, you included in exhibit A, a 31-year-old Korean guy who is NOT looking for fwb (he says he wants a relationship 2:27). take it from an elder 'sister' who has been through this: what you resist persists... just ignore the 🤡 and focus on the 💎
Be careful with LinkedIn too. Guys are trying to get women there.
On linked in?! Omg how?
I really don't know how, except probably through sending messaging. I don't respond to them because LinkedIn is for professional, business connections and expertise. Last year, it happening a lot with me and several females. The guys are mostly from Eastern Europe, Middle East, Africa and a few from Asia.
We reported the incidents to LinkedIn; and they stopped for a while. Now, the DMs have restarted again.
Still, I don't respond because I am NOT interested; and I do not want to engage. LinkedIn is for professionals and those who are looking for jobs/careers, courses information, advice and expertise.
Damn, you attract some interesting people 😂
Agreedddd
Why is sisi cracking me up so much today🤣🤣🤣🤣 The 'WHEN' part I fell off my seat🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Emotional damage !!!!! 😂😂😂
Yes girl. You have to get off those apps.
I've been living in Korea for over 9 years and never ran into another black person this is very cool sorry about your bad experience with those messages lol I plan to visit the united states soon to see my mom
U know I think you should do a video where you read you’re subscribers messages , cause boy oh boy do I have some weird ones from these menzzz😩
I innocently wanted to try to make korean and japanese friends on Tandem in my freshman year of college to help my social anxiety and to meet new people (mostly guys because I went to an all girl school) and I got ghosted by literally everyone except this one gay korean dude who still talks to me to this day. Most of them wanted something else it seems😅
That's a language exchange app right? I think I heard about it
@@sisilessthan3 omg you replied! Yes it is
Girl same ended up disappointed 😞
lmaooo omg i matched with SJ|25. that just SENT ME 🚀🚀
i don’t even think SJ is his real name and i personally think he’s a catfish
Lol the one at 2:27 said hes NOT into fwb
Lmao. You have me rolling. I love your storytimes and attitude. Girl I so agree with you, I have never used dating sites but wow, these things are quite something.
You always have all the bops as background music 🎶
Before I got hitched I had hellotalk because I had wanted to go to Korea and it was mostly creeps
🤣🤣You really destroyed the fortune teller dude
The edits lol, the only man I trust is Kim Namjoon jk but I feel like I can mean to guys too . So I understand lol these Convos are funny
4:05 had me wheezing lol savage
Omg iu celebrity at the beginning ❤️
You always bring interesting content especially when you are there to show what is going on in korea! I thought ths was interesting because it does not matter the years before or after they all seem to try different approaches to catch a fish. It would be nice to get an interview with several korean guys and see what works and does not work when they want to date or meet someone as friends. I think the first step like you said, let's build a friendship first, somehow one by one we need to break this stereotype that foreigners are easy. In many of apps HT, KKT, tandem, people put in there profile they do like (fake) people. Also more mature people will have respect and act different.
Unfortunately, I also heard that domestic violence is high there on foreigners versus native koreans. So this is scary in any country but taking a stand to make a change is going to be a challenge but every women in all generations are worth it.❤🌻❤
“I’m mean to guys I’d like to acknowledge that. It is what it is” 😭
SHINee! 💎💎💎💎💎❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
Yessssss! Dnt call me is my shit lol
Kai mmmh playing at the end is just perfect
Tinder is literally a sex app …. Like grinder
Middle of the night???😂😂😂😂😂
What does not into ONS and FWB mean? Ons maybe one night stand but fwb?
THE NAKED DUDE ON THE CHAIR THO, NOO JUST NO
Friends with benefit
Is it being mean to guys when they are a bunch of idiots? Nah, it's justice served.
I'm mean to guys too... I hate these unhinged guys that assume you wanna sleep with them...🚮
i respect the honesty at least
Why didn’t you just block them? They don’t deserve any explanations
10:42 SMH MY MOUTH DROPPED. 😐👊
NOT IN THE MIDDLE OF THE NIGHT
dont call me instrumental on the background
It was literally a requirement 😂
Exactly that cory clap was perfect 😆 lol
Am I slow or u guys just get here fast
😅😅
614 who's this dude? I have always seen him or his RUclips in clips only but I never got to get his RUclips name..
OMG Unnie your sides clips are so funny! XD
The way you keep adding random reaction videos 😌✨
I laughed my ass off😂😂😂
I'm a simple girl, I see sisi's post I click, watch and like cuz I know it's gonna be good! Luv you💞💞💞
I literally feel ur love lol thank u!
Finally another vid
Did he just say please trust me?👀
I hope you’re having a lot of fun in Korea!! You should totally make some food videos
You know this channel is dope when you like before watching the video cause you know the video is gonna be dope.
Continue being dope Sis.
I will try lol its hard to tiptoe around ppl who wanna hate and judge and look for something to call "problematic" 🤦🏾♀️
@@sisilessthan3 girl ppl are gonna hate regardless. It's best not to worry about them and upload things that make you happy. Your followers will follow you on your journey, so don't worry about it
I met my wife on hello talk 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Nice earrings
Thanks!
I don’t think it works. But I think some guys are dumb
I love it 😂👏🏼 can you do a video where you talk with korean on azar ? It soule be si funny and see how korean guys react in front of a black girl ✨😂
Damn, people would unmatch me or ghost me because I’m black😭😭😭 I get preference, but that sounds racist😔
Expose Expose Expose Expose lol
Isis, your editing is on point. 10/10. 😁🤣😄
Love the videos! Thank you for the upload.
"been about 3 years since I dated you Why you still talking about me like we together"- lol
This is so funny😂 I actually met my boyfriend on hellotalk but I got super lucky☺️
Your dms are wild
You really remind me of Bonnie from the vampiere diares
She had CoryxKenshin
Your reactions are the best 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
I haven't been watching RUclips lately but as soon as I click on RUclips and seen your notification it really made my whole day so I just want to thank you for that
Yas ma'am!!
About your question: Yeah, sometimes it works haha. Because for whatever reasons maybe the girl is also not looking for a serious relationship and just wants to have some fun (of course, this DO NOT excuses unwanted d* pics or something like that) And honestly, for my experience using Tinder, i also prefer when the guy just puts straight into their bio want they want because i know who to avoid if it's not what i'm looking for.
Still they way they write those messages bothersme so fucking much
Hahahaha, savage ~ I love your responses!!
Yaaay another one
ME VIBING TO TAIL IN THE BACKROUND. YAHHH SUNMI
AHHHH NEW VIDEOOO YESSS!!!
Yay u made a new video😎☺️
why are you good girls taken every time!!!
Men will always stay the say 🤦🏽♀️
I love your Videos!!!