Honestly, being vanilla is what makes you stand out ( In the best way)! Your family seems truly genuine which is a breath of fresh air. There is enough drama in the world. Just watching the way your kids have thrived being in such a loving and emotionally mature home is inspiring. My word for the year: Genuine.
I wasn't even a little bit bored! I love watching your life with the animals and the kids, both in town and at the farm. I love seeing your extended family and friends too.
As a new viewer, I don’t know if you’ve discussed your attitude toward including the kids (how much, when, etc). I love seeing your kids and appreciate how naturally they come in and out of the videos. You are some of the rarest vloggers who do not capitalize on your kids (selling products or themselves). One thing I love to watch is family time interaction on trips, on the farms, etc, because then one can see the learning and sharing that’s going on.
I first started following your family a few months ago and your family has became such an inspiration to me and my bf. We’re very young (19&18) and you inspire us to grow and have a family together one day. We’d love to see more daily normal family activities. You guys have such a wonderful family and you should be very proud of yourselves! A good word of the year could be “gratitude”!
awww!!! LOVE to see people of all age groups following along. it means so much, so thank you! and thank you for weighing in. we appreciate your feedback!! love to you and your boyfriend xoxo
I like that you commented about being 'Vanilla'. Thank you! Not all gay couples/families have to be 'out there'. Those kids and you guys make my day sometimes. They are adorable and they appear to be very well adjusted to family life with you. How refreshing. Keep it up. You are setting an example to be proud of.
I've been following you guys for many many years now, so very glad to see you back on the youtube vlog. I had missed you guys so much when you were away. I always watch the vino and vent, but I've never been able to watch it in real time.
I’ve enjoyed your videos for years! A few ideas - I love when Thomas reviews books/shows - so maybe a few videos dedicated to what your watching/reading? Favorite things videos or top 10 videos of topics like - home decor or improvements from PJ. ❤
Your daily life is the content we want to see; your family brings us JOY. That’s my choice for word of the year. JOY❤❤ Richard and Craig, celebrating 40 years together this February. All love & JOY!
I'll try to make this comment concise because I feel like I have a lot to say haha. I started following you guys when I was 17 and now I'm 23 (24 in Feb) and as a gay guy who struggled with coming out, your channel and you guys were both a beacon of hope in my life. I've read various comments below this video and I think we all share the same feeling: your authenticity, the sense of peace and joy and let's be honest...sincerity that you guys share with us is what makes your family so special. As of now I can't think of a specific video I would like to see, but I wanted to say that being yourselves and not losing who you both are in the name of social media is what makes me want to keep following your journey. In this day and age of fakeness and "positivity-only" channels, you guys make me feel at home and seen. Maybe you could do more in-depth videos discussing married life, little things that you both still cherish from each other and the kind of stuff that gives insight into the building blocks of your relationship (I'm aware you have done similar stuff to this, but I think there's a lot of themes that could be explored). So much for trying to be concise lol, thank you for being you and sharing parts of your life with us. ✨️
literally about to cry. thank you SO much for this valuable feedback, sweet friend. we can't tell you what it means to us to have you here all these years!!! xoxo
I am not sure you two understand how much comfort your presence provides for many. Both straight and Gay. There really is SOMETHING you two do. I am not sure exactly. Buy you both are really appreciated and loved by many.
I've only been following you for a few months and i was hooked straight away, by how natural and honest you both are and how much love you have for each other, your family and your friends. It always feels like a warm hug whenever i watch you🤗 I love to see your daily life, life with your kids, on the farm and with your friends❤ i love to see you both cook too, gives me inspiration. Just carry on being the most beautiful, wonderful men that you are. The ones that are here watching are here because they love what you post. ❤ much love Jo xx
I would LOVE to see the process of settling in to Holiday House (maybe even a mini-series of setting up your room, each of the kid rooms, the living room, kitchen, baths, etc.).
SOOO proud of you guys! You always being excellent content and never sway away from your morals and values for likes and subs! You have always kept it real and now everything is coming to fruition!! Congrats!!!!!
I love it when you show the Tennessee country side. All through the 70's and 80's my dad flew me on the redeye from San Francisco to Atlanta - then the sunrise flight to Knoxville over the blue ridge mountains was stunning. The world is a beautiful showing yours is always wonderful especially when you use your music and camera technique's.
Please, more everyday life videos. I love watching the kids grow up, occasional recipes, and your small town lifestyle. I don’t mind hearing about your various partnerships, especially how they position a gay parented family into their campaigns. I’m 74 so back in my 20s there were lots of gay bars but few gay families. By my 30s in the 80s we were battling AIDS. For me your family (and many like yours) is a miracle. I could watch your ‘typical day’ videos forever. They melt my heart. My 2024 word for you boys is breath. Love you all, Brian in Florida❤️❤️🩵💚🩷
The word is: for sure. Use the beach houses as investment properties and receive the income from them! This is how you build wealth. Property management organizations can take care of the upkeep. There's no stress in that! Now is not the time to sell with mortgage interest rates so high unless you have cash buyers.
You guys are never boring! LAIDBACK & SIMPLIFIED. As we mature we cull the unnecessary things from life. And certainly children & real estate will quickly highlight what is ESSENTIAL and what is extraneous. As a new RUclips viewer at some point l would like a recap as to the evolution of Holiday House and the Farm. Love all the farm animals. Question : when you are more settled in to a routine at the farm, would tree farming or just Christmas Tree farming be something you would consider doing? Philip Weisman
Your second vlog was not boring AT ALL! Loved it don’t second guess yourselves, the authenticity of your day to day life is so interesting because it’s a peak into a different life which isn’t 9-5 office work. Keep being yourselves we love it!
Honestly, the video was fine. What I'd expect from a vlog video. I enjoy your simple, peaceful, everyday videos. Thank you for continuing to share your lives with us.
Word for the year: Hometown! I would love to see videos set all over your hometown with your family interacting with the local community. Themes of buy local and sustainability. Of course the farm is part of this, but also downtown, school sports, farm to table restaurants, local community activities. 😊
Okay, one idea I would enjoy seeing is a cooking video. Since you often put recipes on the blog, it would be nice to see you demonstrate one or more of your favorite recipes from beginning to end. (I would certainly love to see how Thomas’s mother makes her famous baklava!) I would also enjoy a video where you showed us some interesting places to visit in Cleveland and the surrounding area, including state parks and other sites that people might not know about.
I don't know I am so happy to just watch you guys and your family, and the segue into the vanilla vlog was very well done. Maybe a small series on the farm and it's final touches to make it a home, the work you do around the farm with maybe one suggestion - start clearing out the storage, I could not believe how much stuff you have put away - the 5 second rule could become the 5 week/month rule for the storage. Enjoying the vlog from downunder.
Someone probably already said it, but a word for 2024 could be “reflection “. I love it when you guys tie what’s in your videos into your heart, or the bigger picture of your lives. And your vanilla is absolutely perfect 😊
I’m glad to hear that you guys are looking at going back to the RUclips format and creating videos. I must admit I do miss the old videos of updates on your projects, you guys having fun with each other and the kids. PJ being funny and silly and farting. The Vino and vents are nice, but I have to admit I have not really been tuning in as much lately as they tend to always be about the same questions or Taylor Swift. I might suggest the Vino and vents go to once a month instead of weekly, might make them a bit more special. I have a husband and kids, so family wasn’t the thing that drew me to your videos. At the beginning it was your projects. Your family came later. I loved watching everything from, redesigning and building your houses to just small projects that you work on for the house or the property. These days I tend to feel like you give us a small update, and then we never really hear about it again for a long time. Aside from projects I do love seeing all the animals. I follow you on Instagram and I think Twitter as well, so I think the videos should be more in-depth and let the Instagram be the quick bites to prepare us for the next video. I remember you guys talking about hiring someone to help you, because the videos were so time-consuming. Whatever happened with that? We have an RV, so we actually stayed in your neighbourhood recently at a KOA on our way to Florida. I have to admit it was kind of cool to see some of the area that you guys are always talking about. As far as a word, how about communication or follow through. We can all do better with those. Good luck with whatever you decide.
I started shortly after you wed. Love when you show us the kids growing and seeing how you parent and just how normal it is for 2 dads or 2 women to adopt and keep siblings together. ♥️ You've been doing such a good job giving your children a happy childhood.
As a long time viewer you guys are not boring l enjoy seeing your family and friends and your lifestyle. And the vlog PJ thought was boring wasn’t it you guys be a family and what your everyday life is about we need more like you guys. My words of the day are: be happy in life!!!
Well now that the boring part is over! I can say that your videos have never been boring, and have always been absolutely enjoyable to watch. I’ve been watching regularly since you two got back together after your short breakup. You both have excellent personalities that blend together so well that come to enhance your videos. Your word for this year is in-depth. If you do something, to not be superficial but do it in-depth. Planning, projects, travel, meet-ups, whatever it is, delve into it!😊
I enjoy watching what you guys have already been releasing, so there isn’t anything particular I could ask for. The vlogs make me happy and think about how I want my life to be like your guys in the future with a husband (hopefully)!
Pj I am a bit behind at the moment, but it is never boring. Remember what you think is boring is not necessary the same for others 😄 For me living in denmark, I find it so interesting to hear about school, seeing you shop for clothes and groceries, driving and seeing the houses and areas, your renovation, painting, compare prices on different things, cooking, your buys on marketplace, the children growing up, every day life, getting ready, seeing your family, cleaning, decorating for holidays I love it all 😍😘🥰🤩
I love all your videos -- your relationship with each other, your kids, family, friends, homes, the farm, Dixie, the animals, travels, etc. You're so honest and living in the real world. You are an amazing and beautiful family and not at all boring! ❤
Watching the kids run around at the farm was sweet. I like vanilla way to much drama in the world already. The love you two share love with each other and the kids comes through and brings me a comfort, my children are grown and gone and it brings me sweet nostalgia.
Seeing you guys, happy, healthy, in love and your babies thriving.. Can't ask for than that... You and PJ do so much between home and Holiday House, and we just love you guys so much♥️🏳️🌈🤗🥰
The first home improvement show I ever watched was This Old House with Bob Vila. I loved the weekly episodes where they showed the nitty gritty of what went into renovating an old house. They showed how to correct problems, undo previous bad renovations/repairs, and use proper materials and procedures to achieve a new look while staying in character with the time period of the house. I loved the how to and why of what was being done. Norm Abrams was a joy to watch when it came to woodworking and tool usage. Maybe that’s boring to some people. We’re so used to instant gratification. A six or twelve month project done in one hour gives us unrealistic expectations for what and how things should be done when it comes to our own homes. I love Home Town and Fixer Upper but they aren’t realistic time wise. So, I guess what I’m trying to say is if you were to do vlogs showing the weekly progress of fixing and renovating a home, I would be very interested in watching. What’s the process for evaluating whether the home is worth fixing? What’s going on with the foundation, electrical, plumbing, HVAC? How do you deal with contractors? What sweat equity is worth it and when should you hire out and why? How do you find reliable contractors? What trends will become classic and which will date the home? How do you choose finishes? Finally, please show us how you lay out a gallery wall. What is worthy of display? How do you choose your decor and where do you find it? Do others feel this way? I don’t know but this is my opinion. I’ll watch you because I think you’re both great and I love your kids and extended family. Maybe that’s boring but it’s real life to me.💕
Appreciate the small moments! Spontaneity, create, purpose. Just to name a few. I have been following your channel since 2020, I cannot believe it's been almost 4 years already!
I have been watching you guys for a couple of years. I really enjoyed the videos you did at the farm with the kids along with the remodeling of the farm house.
Your vlogs are awesome, ‘just’ showing your family lives. I put just in quotes because it’s so generous of you to share your lives; it’s so interesting for an old guy like me in my different country, stage of life and - sadly - stage of health that keeps me from travelling now. I really love you all. One of my three top RUclips follows! 🥰🥰😍😍 My word of the year is: focus. I need to be present more and be clear about who I will let in and who I will keep at arms length. Vanilla rocks! Drama is way too tiring and stressful.
More about design choices, sourcing materials, process for choosing materials (even if just taking us along), your design inspiration, thrifting, other home tours, etc. May be fun to spend the next few months taking us along as you finish up and decorate Holiday House. Linda Vater just did this over the last year as she settled in to her new house. Also everything farm, animal, and gardening related! I love all of your content, but love ya’ll most when you’re simply showing us glimpses into your life and your thought process behind your work and life. ❤
Please come back to RUclips regularly, at your own pace of course. Instagram, TikTok, etc. are not substitutes. As for words for 2024, REGULARITY would be appropriate. For videos, “day in the life” fun segments are my favorite as long as they are balanced (not too much of kiddos, not too much of you two working). Relatedly, another word here is BALANCE. Have a happy and healthy New Year🎉
When we were young my parents had a summer house in the Virginia mountains.my sister and I were reminiscing about the hiking, fishing, wonderful times we had there. Some of our fondest memories. We're both in our 60s.😊
I 100% love vanilla and I don’t think of it as boring. I love the everyday videos of cooking, cleaning, working on the farm or houses and just hanging out because that’s real life. I like watching videos that make me feel like I’m hanging out with friends. If you guys were always on vacation or doing outlandish things, I would probably feel jealous 😂 and would not be able to relate. Just keep being the sweet lovable silly family that you are! It’s getting harder and harder to find good videos like this in the RUclips world. Kay Alligood
There are always something to do together with the kids, science experiment, farming, cooking. When we were kids we always have our own things from sewing to cooking, to eachother have a little greenhouse to grow different types of plants to compete with eachother. It teaches the kids to value the hard work of labour and help them build patience.
A vlog of what the family eats in a day would be cool. From Prepping school lunch to making breakfast to dinner. Always nice to get new ideas for meals :) love your vlogs!!
I feel like if you were to do any TV stuff they would expect you to be or do things that would put pressure on you both and cause issues with the kids as well. Your life as it is just what your kids need. As far as what I would like to see is just more family stuff with the kids. Love seeing their excitement when you are off doing stuff with them
I’ve watched y’all for about seven or so years and for the most part enjoyed seeing you and your family grow. I know most of the players from parents, siblings, relatives, friends and your children. It’s so nice to see a “normal” gay family work. I hate vino and vent. I tried it a few times but found it was a constant battle getting my thoughts across, sitting through some really dumb questions and really just attempting to be a valued member of the group. I don’t participate any more feeling it’s a cop out so you don’t have to do a full length video. There. That’s my thought on it. Me? I’m now a gay 80 year old retired Canadian psychologist having had two husbands in my life who had the audacity to die on me. I have a group of ever decreasing numbers of friends and watch you for normalcy. I will keep watching you until my last day, or heaven forbid, you cancel all of this. I am a big fan who wishes nothing but the best for y’all. Big hug and lots of love from Colin. xxx
Colin!!! hi friend!! it feels like forever since we've talked to you, and we've definitely noticed your name missing from Vino & Vent. but we totally get it. V&V is not everyone's cup of tea, trust me. but for us, it's our way of talking with this lovely, wonderful community instead of it being one sided with comments from only the viewer's side. we love catching up with everyone each week, but also love releasing the vlogs, so we hope to see you at at least one of them :). sending you so much love, and thank you for being here with us all this time. you don't know how much it means.
Tbh I just wanna see Thomas take his shirt off more. PJ runs around half naked 24/7, but we rarely ever get to see Thomas which is such a shame cause he’s got such a great body. I know y’all are hitting the gym more now and I just know Thomas is hotter than the sun ☀️ under that black shirt 🥵 Don’t be afraid to show off your hard work 😏 All thirst aside, I just want to see the authenticity continue with you guys. I’ve been watching you guys since the very beginning when you had your pilot Down To The Studs on HGTV (What a great name btw) Your relationship with each other is SO SO beautiful. It is so comforting and such a joy to watch, even if you’re not doing anything particularly groundbreaking/super entertaining. ❤
Couple things I don't think your boring, second i could seeing doing a Chip and Johanna type show from Magnolia network. I always look forward to the vlogs so glad to see them back. Wishing your entire clan all the best in the new year.❤
you guys are basically an inspiration and are positive role models, I hope I am lucky enough to build a family like you guys have done. All the best for 2024.
Your videos are perfect as they are. More day in the life vlogs, Q&A vlogs, videos of kids on the farm with the animals, definitely more farm videos, Family trips etc..I love watching your videos, feels like I am hanging out with friends for those 15-20mins. Happy New Year again PJ and Thomas! ❤
I could watch you livestream all day, you guys are just fun to hang out with! but the 15-20 mins hits the sweet spot. The perfect amount of time to watch in between switching from one chore to the next! ❤
Word suggestions-authenticity: being aware of how you feel and what you mean and expressing that productively (a good reminder for everyone); small moments: it’s the in-between times we take for granted, and what may seem insignificant for you may be significant for someone else. Sometimes seeing the mundane in others helps ourselves feel seen; and last, adventure: cultivate curiosity about new experiences and look for ways to weave a new perspective into old routines. This list also reflects my recommendation for 2024. Be you, continue to embrace growth and challenges, and remember what good you might be doing for someone just by letting us tag along virtually.
I mentioned a while back that if you could do a tour of all of your book collection, that would be great! Tell us which ones are your favorites, which are the oldest ones, etc.
It’s always a pleasure to watch something of you family life, almost never boring. I don’t need a report every week, that’s would stress me too. Maybe you should consider to find a rhythm not on such hard fixed schedule, to bring more wellbeing in your obviously stressful allday life. Greetings from Berlin, Germany ❤❤❤
It's always nice when you film the farm animals. Especially the young ones you're caring for, like the sweet little black lamb. I'd love to see more of that.
I love good recipes and good books. I would LOVE a book club sort of thing (like one every 2 or 3 months) or real time live cooking/baking would spark so much joy!
You guys live a type of life that I will never experience. That’s ok because I love my life it’s just very different from yours. I really enjoy looking in on you and your family and seeing you on your adventures. I would like to see more of your projects in detail. Don’t feel you have to put everything in the one video. You can show PJ doing something and you can make the whole video about that project. Just a thought. It does my heart a whole world of good to know that, there are families like yours out there everywhere. I don’t interact with people as often as I would like so you guys and your videos are helping me with that. I feel like I’m a part of your community. Thank you for that. 🙂👋🏻
I've only found you within the past 2 weeks, so I have been going through past videos so personally not yet sure what all i want to see more of but 2024 word should be "Growth" if only to have the channel grow more, lol. but of course also spiritual, mental, physical growth and of horizons etc.
I’ve been following you guys since the very beginning ❤❤ As gay Dads as well we can so relate to all of your content but our children are all grown now and we are about to be granddads 🥰🥰 You guys are amazing and we love all of your content ❤🥰🏳️🌈
I don't have a word, but I do have a saying that a little Nigerian lady I used to work with told me. When she saw I was having a bad day at work, she would always tell me, "Don't let people take your JOY". There are so many people that are more than ready to do this. Besides it's giving your power away. I'm not one of those people who gets mad because you guys aren't posting content that I want to see. Keep posting what you've been posting. I love seeing what you are accomplishing in your lives. So, you won't ever hear any complaining from me.
Another idea… “who knows me better?” One of you sits between the other and your mother, you think of questions to see who answers the question correctly. You have the answers written down so can’t change your answer after hearing their responses. Have seen many people doing this, lots of fun to watch!
hey you PJ + Thomas + the kidos fair dinkum some of the baby animals are so darn cute keeping up with the Makays is terrific we love watching the energy the shenanigans to n from school @ the farm n holidays the kids are so comfortable with you it's a great family dynamic thanks for being there ....... free to air is boring you guys on you tube are definitely not 😮 so really love what you do how ur lives have changed and the children now have the best shot at a future with love as a basis 🎉keep up the exceptional work
Happy New Year guys. I have to admit I'm a little bored with Vino and Vent, maybe shorten to 1/2 hr. In summer, it would great to show farm life and give a weekly update of how the week went. Keeping my word "minimalize" for this year. Like you, need to find another one. Heard a catchy phrase this morning. "Do more in 2024". Look forward to more content. Happy days ahead.
I love your current content but since you’re looking for specifics…would love to see more routine videos. Like weekday morning routine with the kids or Sunday morning. I also love seeing y’all cook with the kids. I recall a video where PJ made brownies with the kids and I thought it was so adorable. They were covered in chocolate at the end.
I love seeing your videos and the kids and what you do on the farm, and the cooking recipes that you guys show time to time, about the saying be kind to others was you like someone was kind to you, and show how you put a garden in at the farm.
I’ve been keeping up with y’all since 2016 and have loved watching your life grow and all your adventures unfold. As a fellow interior design lover…cannot wait to see the full holiday house reveal! ❤
I love seeing you hang out with family and friends, so either at the farm or traveling. I've been using minimize and enjoy life. How was the lone lamb? I love it when you have dinner and prepare the food.
For 2024, self-care is a focus. Last year I was diagnosed with ADHD…any tips on how to set-up successful morning routines or how to stop misplacing items?! Keep up with the great videos! Watching them has become part of my weekly self-care routine 😊
From Washington State: I was coming out when I first discovered you guys. 2019... I found your database of the early videos about gay (the real everyday) living and relationship stuff very helpful. Also some of the helps you have made which are good for people is sharing successes and failures of things with the farm / real-estate / budgeting / cooking / child care and challenges / fitness ..... what works for you (keeping your private life still private).....
I love when you show us home remodeling and purchasing property for flipping. I also enjoy your traveling videos. You have come a long way with your peronal lives and your family. Love you both and your children. Happy New Year
Thank you for wanting to go back to having a regular schedule for Utube. Love seeing the farm and the animals and the interaction with your kids. When you went on break last year, I selfishly felt abandoned. Love you guys. ❤🎉❤😊
1. How we met: PJ and Dixie edition 2. Q&A with other same sex couples living in southern US 3. What do you look at/for when deciding to buy a flip house?
Thanks Men for sharing! As you enjoy more with the farm…explore with the kids about exploring opportunities in 4 H! Raise animals for the county fair, demonstrations or even cooking or other projects.
I wasn’t bored at all. You guys have a contemporary arctic style. You know the word that goes with music I can’t say it right but I believe that’s what it is. But I love the video as always I missed you guys doing vlogs
Hey, you guys are good the way you are. Happy New Year! Don't want this to come off negative in anyway, don't feel pressured/anxious about how you look/are, you're cool for being you. You don't have to change to what others might think desirable. You guys are good
Enjoyed the video you folks are not boring, your real, I know what I'm talking about after and still am in a relationship since 1980, and married now, so keep on keeping on,
Would love see another renovation project those past projects are amazing :) even you're not doing it yourself but vision come to life is nice to watch. Goodluck and looking forward to more Mckays in 2024. :)
Would love to see more of the farm and the kiddies. What have you decided to do with the pond on the farm? Tbh I love whatever you post PJ is hilarious and Thomas face well just love it and love seeing the kiddies just coming and going in the video's. Anyway guys take care oh by the way our kids went back to school last week in good old England. ❤
Happy New Year!! I hope 2024 is great for you and your sweet family. Please keep doing what you are doing. I LOVE your vlogs and SO look forward to each one. And--YOU ARE NOT BORING!!!!! Have followed you for years and look forward to following you for years to come. Love to you all
I like your videos. I love seeing the kids playing with the animals or anything else they're doing. Some travel vlogs would be great because I enjoy seeing other neat places. The farm brings back memories of going to friend's farms when I was younger. You could go light on the house reno stuff but still have some of it. I do appreciate your effort since I know vlogs take time.
Honestly, being vanilla is what makes you stand out ( In the best way)! Your family seems truly genuine which is a breath of fresh air. There is enough drama in the world. Just watching the way your kids have thrived being in such a loving and emotionally mature home is inspiring. My word for the year: Genuine.
thank you so much 😭❤😭❤😭❤😭
Thanks for being honest and real and the best ❤
awww thank you!!!!
I wasn't even a little bit bored! I love watching your life with the animals and the kids, both in town and at the farm. I love seeing your extended family and friends too.
aww thank you!!
I feel the same way! You both are very likable, you don't have to do anything crazy, I just enjoy seeing you and your family being yourselves.
I agree, I don't find this video even remotely boring. I like the day to day, it makes them soooo much more relatable.
As a new viewer, I don’t know if you’ve discussed your attitude toward including the kids (how much, when, etc). I love seeing your kids and appreciate how naturally they come in and out of the videos. You are some of the rarest vloggers who do not capitalize on your kids (selling products or themselves). One thing I love to watch is family time interaction on trips, on the farms, etc, because then one can see the learning and sharing that’s going on.
I hope they will never do it
thank you for this, Toni. yes, we discuss all the time how much we want them in the videos/photos, especially as they get older. appreciate you xoxo
I agree, I love seeing you guys interact with your kids in different areas of your life
I first started following your family a few months ago and your family has became such an inspiration to me and my bf. We’re very young (19&18) and you inspire us to grow and have a family together one day. We’d love to see more daily normal family activities. You guys have such a wonderful family and you should be very proud of yourselves! A good word of the year could be “gratitude”!
awww!!! LOVE to see people of all age groups following along. it means so much, so thank you! and thank you for weighing in. we appreciate your feedback!! love to you and your boyfriend xoxo
I like that you commented about being 'Vanilla'. Thank you! Not all gay couples/families have to be 'out there'. Those kids and you guys make my day sometimes. They are adorable and they appear to be very well adjusted to family life with you. How refreshing. Keep it up. You are setting an example to be proud of.
thank you sooooo much, love!!!
I've been following you guys for many many years now, so very glad to see you back on the youtube vlog. I had missed you guys so much when you were away. I always watch the vino and vent, but I've never been able to watch it in real time.
I’ve enjoyed your videos for years! A few ideas - I love when Thomas reviews books/shows - so maybe a few videos dedicated to what your watching/reading? Favorite things videos or top 10 videos of topics like - home decor or improvements from PJ. ❤
Your daily life is the content we want to see; your family brings us JOY. That’s my choice for word of the year. JOY❤❤ Richard and Craig, celebrating 40 years together this February. All love & JOY!
awww happy early anniversary guys!!!! 40 years is AMAZING!!!
Word of the year : GRATIFICATION. finding gratitude in a kk circumstances, when it is easy and especially when it is hard
I'll try to make this comment concise because I feel like I have a lot to say haha.
I started following you guys when I was 17 and now I'm 23 (24 in Feb) and as a gay guy who struggled with coming out, your channel and you guys were both a beacon of hope in my life.
I've read various comments below this video and I think we all share the same feeling: your authenticity, the sense of peace and joy and let's be honest...sincerity that you guys share with us is what makes your family so special.
As of now I can't think of a specific video I would like to see, but I wanted to say that being yourselves and not losing who you both are in the name of social media is what makes me want to keep following your journey. In this day and age of fakeness and "positivity-only" channels, you guys make me feel at home and seen.
Maybe you could do more in-depth videos discussing married life, little things that you both still cherish from each other and the kind of stuff that gives insight into the building blocks of your relationship (I'm aware you have done similar stuff to this, but I think there's a lot of themes that could be explored).
So much for trying to be concise lol, thank you for being you and sharing parts of your life with us. ✨️
literally about to cry. thank you SO much for this valuable feedback, sweet friend. we can't tell you what it means to us to have you here all these years!!! xoxo
I am not sure you two understand how much comfort your presence provides for many. Both straight and Gay. There really is SOMETHING you two do. I am not sure exactly. Buy you both are really appreciated and loved by many.
awww Gary!! thank you SO much!! taking this to heart. xoxo
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I like the word Present. To be present in situations and enjoying that time and trying to not be so distracted by other things at that time.
love this. thank you Tim!
I've only been following you for a few months and i was hooked straight away, by how natural and honest you both are and how much love you have for each other, your family and your friends. It always feels like a warm hug whenever i watch you🤗 I love to see your daily life, life with your kids, on the farm and with your friends❤ i love to see you both cook too, gives me inspiration. Just carry on being the most beautiful, wonderful men that you are. The ones that are here watching are here because they love what you post. ❤ much love Jo xx
thank you SO much, Jo!!! means a lot that you're here with us :) : )
I would LOVE to see the process of settling in to Holiday House (maybe even a mini-series of setting up your room, each of the kid rooms, the living room, kitchen, baths, etc.).
yes!! so cute!!
SOOO proud of you guys! You always being excellent content and never sway away from your morals and values for likes and subs! You have always kept it real and now everything is coming to fruition!! Congrats!!!!!
thank you love!!!!
I love it when you show the Tennessee country side. All through the 70's and 80's my dad flew me on the redeye from San Francisco to Atlanta - then the sunrise flight to Knoxville over the blue ridge mountains was stunning. The world is a beautiful showing yours is always wonderful especially when you use your music and camera technique's.
awww yes!!! thank you! will definitely show more of that, then
Nothing here is boring - I loved all of it. Thank you soooooooo much love to all of you. wonderful 2024.
Please, more everyday life videos. I love watching the kids grow up, occasional recipes, and your small town lifestyle. I don’t mind hearing about your various partnerships, especially how they position a gay parented family into their campaigns. I’m 74 so back in my 20s there were lots of gay bars but few gay families. By my 30s in the 80s we were battling AIDS. For me your family (and many like yours) is a miracle. I could watch your ‘typical day’ videos forever. They melt my heart. My 2024 word for you boys is breath. Love you all, Brian in Florida❤️❤️🩵💚🩷
oh Brian! you just put the biggest smiles on our faces. thank you for your comment. more daily videos to come, then :)
I loved "the boring " one. Blessings from Buenos Aires
The word is: for sure. Use the beach houses as investment properties and receive the income from them! This is how you build wealth. Property management organizations can take care of the upkeep. There's no stress in that! Now is not the time to sell with mortgage interest rates so high unless you have cash buyers.
we have discussed this as well. most of the buyers in that area are cash (thankfully)
You guys are never boring! LAIDBACK & SIMPLIFIED. As we mature we cull the unnecessary things from life. And certainly children & real estate will quickly highlight what is ESSENTIAL and what is extraneous. As a new RUclips viewer at some point l would like a recap as to the evolution of Holiday House and the Farm. Love all the farm animals.
Question : when you are more settled in to a routine at the farm, would tree farming or just Christmas Tree farming be something you would consider doing? Philip Weisman
Your second vlog was not boring AT ALL! Loved it don’t second guess yourselves, the authenticity of your day to day life is so interesting because it’s a peak into a different life which isn’t 9-5 office work. Keep being yourselves we love it!
Honestly, the video was fine. What I'd expect from a vlog video. I enjoy your simple, peaceful, everyday videos.
Thank you for continuing to share your lives with us.
thank you for continuing to watch :)
Togetherness should be your word of the year.
love this
Word for the year: Hometown!
I would love to see videos set all over your hometown with your family interacting with the local community. Themes of buy local and sustainability. Of course the farm is part of this, but also downtown, school sports, farm to table restaurants, local community activities. 😊
Okay, one idea I would enjoy seeing is a cooking video. Since you often put recipes on the blog, it would be nice to see you demonstrate one or more of your favorite recipes from beginning to end. (I would certainly love to see how Thomas’s mother makes her famous baklava!) I would also enjoy a video where you showed us some interesting places to visit in Cleveland and the surrounding area, including state parks and other sites that people might not know about.
oooo yes!! thank you Lane! need to do a cooking vlog asap
I don't know I am so happy to just watch you guys and your family, and the segue into the vanilla vlog was very well done. Maybe a small series on the farm and it's final touches to make it a home, the work you do around the farm with maybe one suggestion - start clearing out the storage, I could not believe how much stuff you have put away - the 5 second rule could become the 5 week/month rule for the storage. Enjoying the vlog from downunder.
okay GREAT idea Robert!! thank you! and thanks for watching :)
Someone probably already said it, but a word for 2024 could be “reflection “. I love it when you guys tie what’s in your videos into your heart, or the bigger picture of your lives. And your vanilla is absolutely perfect 😊
I’m glad to hear that you guys are looking at going back to the RUclips format and creating videos. I must admit I do miss the old videos of updates on your projects, you guys having fun with each other and the kids. PJ being funny and silly and farting. The Vino and vents are nice, but I have to admit I have not really been tuning in as much lately as they tend to always be about the same questions or Taylor Swift. I might suggest the Vino and vents go to once a month instead of weekly, might make them a bit more special.
I have a husband and kids, so family wasn’t the thing that drew me to your videos. At the beginning it was your projects. Your family came later. I loved watching everything from, redesigning and building your houses to just small projects that you work on for the house or the property. These days I tend to feel like you give us a small update, and then we never really hear about it again for a long time.
Aside from projects I do love seeing all the animals. I follow you on Instagram and I think Twitter as well, so I think the videos should be more in-depth and let the Instagram be the quick bites to prepare us for the next video. I remember you guys talking about hiring someone to help you, because the videos were so time-consuming. Whatever happened with that?
We have an RV, so we actually stayed in your neighbourhood recently at a KOA on our way to Florida. I have to admit it was kind of cool to see some of the area that you guys are always talking about.
As far as a word, how about communication or follow through. We can all do better with those. Good luck with whatever you decide.
I started shortly after you wed. Love when you show us the kids growing and seeing how you parent and just how normal it is for 2 dads or 2 women to adopt and keep siblings together. ♥️ You've been doing such a good job giving your children a happy childhood.
As a long time viewer you guys are not boring l enjoy seeing your family and friends and your lifestyle. And the vlog PJ thought was boring wasn’t it you guys be a family and what your everyday life is about we need more like you guys. My words of the day are: be happy in life!!!
thank you love!!!! xoxoxo
Well now that the boring part is over! I can say that your videos have never been boring, and have always been absolutely enjoyable to watch. I’ve been watching regularly since you two got back together after your short breakup. You both have excellent personalities that blend together so well that come to enhance your videos. Your word for this year is in-depth. If you do something, to not be superficial but do it in-depth. Planning, projects, travel, meet-ups, whatever it is, delve into it!😊
thank you so much!!! so sweet Jim!
I enjoy watching what you guys have already been releasing, so there isn’t anything particular I could ask for. The vlogs make me happy and think about how I want my life to be like your guys in the future with a husband (hopefully)!
Pj I am a bit behind at the moment, but it is never boring. Remember what you think is boring is not necessary the same for others 😄 For me living in denmark, I find it so interesting to hear about school, seeing you shop for clothes and groceries, driving and seeing the houses and areas, your renovation, painting, compare prices on different things, cooking, your buys on marketplace, the children growing up, every day life, getting ready, seeing your family, cleaning, decorating for holidays I love it all 😍😘🥰🤩
I love all your videos -- your relationship with each other, your kids, family, friends, homes, the farm, Dixie, the animals, travels, etc. You're so honest and living in the real world. You are an amazing and beautiful family and not at all boring! ❤
thanks for making our entire day!!
Watching the kids run around at the farm was sweet. I like vanilla way to much drama in the world already. The love you two share love with each other and the kids comes through and brings me a comfort, my children are grown and gone and it brings me sweet nostalgia.
Seeing you guys, happy, healthy, in love and your babies thriving.. Can't ask for than that... You and PJ do so much between home and Holiday House, and we just love you guys so much♥️🏳️🌈🤗🥰
The first home improvement show I ever watched was This Old House with Bob Vila. I loved the weekly episodes where they showed the nitty gritty of what went into renovating an old house. They showed how to correct problems, undo previous bad renovations/repairs, and use proper materials and procedures to achieve a new look while staying in character with the time period of the house. I loved the how to and why of what was being done.
Norm Abrams was a joy to watch when it came to woodworking and tool usage. Maybe that’s boring to some people. We’re so used to instant gratification. A six or twelve month project done in one hour gives us unrealistic expectations for what and how things should be done when it comes to our own homes. I love Home Town and Fixer Upper but they aren’t realistic time wise.
So, I guess what I’m trying to say is if you were to do vlogs showing the weekly progress of fixing and renovating a home, I would be very interested in watching. What’s the process for evaluating whether the home is worth fixing? What’s going on with the foundation, electrical, plumbing, HVAC? How do you deal with contractors? What sweat equity is worth it and when should you hire out and why? How do you find reliable contractors? What trends will become classic and which will date the home? How do you choose finishes? Finally, please show us how you lay out a gallery wall. What is worthy of display? How do you choose your decor and where do you find it?
Do others feel this way? I don’t know but this is my opinion. I’ll watch you because I think you’re both great and I love your kids and extended family. Maybe that’s boring but it’s real life to me.💕
you are so sweet, Dianna. thank you!! taking what you said to heart, and yes, we loved TOH, too!!
Appreciate the small moments! Spontaneity, create, purpose. Just to name a few.
I have been following your channel since 2020, I cannot believe it's been almost 4 years already!
I have been watching you guys for a couple of years. I really enjoyed the videos you did at the farm with the kids along with the remodeling of the farm house.
Your vlogs are awesome, ‘just’ showing your family lives. I put just in quotes because it’s so generous of you to share your lives; it’s so interesting for an old guy like me in my different country, stage of life and - sadly - stage of health that keeps me from travelling now. I really love you all. One of my three top RUclips follows! 🥰🥰😍😍 My word of the year is: focus. I need to be present more and be clear about who I will let in and who I will keep at arms length. Vanilla rocks! Drama is way too tiring and stressful.
you are just wonderful. you always are. thank you for being here with us all these years, friend! sending you love xoxo
I don't think you guys are boring, you're comforting, comfortable, comfort TV.
honestly the best thing you could have ever said. we love being comfort TV!!
The vlog is great! 😅 I like to see the renovation, the building site, how do you guys choose colors and all the things about your work. 😘❤️
More about design choices, sourcing materials, process for choosing materials (even if just taking us along), your design inspiration, thrifting, other home tours, etc. May be fun to spend the next few months taking us along as you finish up and decorate Holiday House. Linda Vater just did this over the last year as she settled in to her new house. Also everything farm, animal, and gardening related! I love all of your content, but love ya’ll most when you’re simply showing us glimpses into your life and your thought process behind your work and life. ❤
aww thank you!! so many great ideas here. thanks for watching :)
Please come back to RUclips regularly, at your own pace of course. Instagram, TikTok, etc. are not substitutes. As for words for 2024, REGULARITY would be appropriate. For videos, “day in the life” fun segments are my favorite as long as they are balanced (not too much of kiddos, not too much of you two working). Relatedly, another word here is BALANCE. Have a happy and healthy New Year🎉
When we were young my parents had a summer house in the Virginia mountains.my sister and I were reminiscing about the hiking, fishing, wonderful times we had there. Some of our fondest memories. We're both in our 60s.😊
I 100% love vanilla and I don’t think of it as boring. I love the everyday videos of cooking, cleaning, working on the farm or houses and just hanging out because that’s real life. I like watching videos that make me feel like I’m hanging out with friends. If you guys were always on vacation or doing outlandish things, I would probably feel jealous 😂 and would not be able to relate. Just keep being the sweet lovable silly family that you are! It’s getting harder and harder to find good videos like this in the RUclips world. Kay Alligood
thank you sooooo much :)
There are always something to do together with the kids, science experiment, farming, cooking. When we were kids we always have our own things from sewing to cooking, to eachother have a little greenhouse to grow different types of plants to compete with eachother. It teaches the kids to value the hard work of labour and help them build patience.
we shall film it all, then!!
A vlog of what the family eats in a day would be cool. From Prepping school lunch to making breakfast to dinner. Always nice to get new ideas for meals :) love your vlogs!!
oooo great ideas, thank you!!
I feel like if you were to do any TV stuff they would expect you to be or do things that would put pressure on you both and cause issues with the kids as well. Your life as it is just what your kids need. As far as what I would like to see is just more family stuff with the kids. Love seeing their excitement when you are off doing stuff with them
Definitely don't do TV stuff. If the past 50+ years of entertainment are anything to go by, fame can easily - and sadly, ruin childrens' lives.
such a good point. thank you!!!
I’ve watched y’all for about seven or so years and for the most part enjoyed seeing you and your family grow. I know most of the players from parents, siblings, relatives, friends and your children. It’s so nice to see a “normal” gay family work. I hate vino and vent. I tried it a few times but found it was a constant battle getting my thoughts across, sitting through some really dumb questions and really just attempting to be a valued member of the group. I don’t participate any more feeling it’s a cop out so you don’t have to do a full length video. There. That’s my thought on it. Me? I’m now a gay 80 year old retired Canadian psychologist having had two husbands in my life who had the audacity to die on me. I have a group of ever decreasing numbers of friends and watch you for normalcy. I will keep watching you until my last day, or heaven forbid, you cancel all of this. I am a big fan who wishes nothing but the best for y’all. Big hug and lots of love from Colin. xxx
Colin!!! hi friend!! it feels like forever since we've talked to you, and we've definitely noticed your name missing from Vino & Vent. but we totally get it. V&V is not everyone's cup of tea, trust me. but for us, it's our way of talking with this lovely, wonderful community instead of it being one sided with comments from only the viewer's side. we love catching up with everyone each week, but also love releasing the vlogs, so we hope to see you at at least one of them :). sending you so much love, and thank you for being here with us all this time. you don't know how much it means.
Thanks for your reply. You have not lost me😘
You guys have really settled into your family life.❤ I love seeing your renovations, you’re both very creative and have a great style and vibe👍
thank you love!
Word of the year: INTENTIONAL!!
YES!!!! love it.
Tbh I just wanna see Thomas take his shirt off more. PJ runs around half naked 24/7, but we rarely ever get to see Thomas which is such a shame cause he’s got such a great body. I know y’all are hitting the gym more now and I just know Thomas is hotter than the sun ☀️ under that black shirt 🥵 Don’t be afraid to show off your hard work 😏
All thirst aside, I just want to see the authenticity continue with you guys. I’ve been watching you guys since the very beginning when you had your pilot Down To The Studs on HGTV (What a great name btw) Your relationship with each other is SO SO beautiful. It is so comforting and such a joy to watch, even if you’re not doing anything particularly groundbreaking/super entertaining. ❤
Couple things I don't think your boring, second i could seeing doing a Chip and Johanna type show from Magnolia network. I always look forward to the vlogs so glad to see them back. Wishing your entire clan all the best in the new year.❤
you guys are basically an inspiration and are positive role models, I hope I am lucky enough to build a family like you guys have done. All the best for 2024.
I love to watch you both entertaining with the kids ! Your good daddy and working together makes it easier ! Keep up the good work !
Your videos are perfect as they are. More day in the life vlogs, Q&A vlogs, videos of kids on the farm with the animals, definitely more farm videos, Family trips etc..I love watching your videos, feels like I am hanging out with friends for those 15-20mins. Happy New Year again PJ and Thomas! ❤
perfect, thank you! so you like the 15-20 min length?
I could watch you livestream all day, you guys are just fun to hang out with! but the 15-20 mins hits the sweet spot. The perfect amount of time to watch in between switching from one chore to the next! ❤
Word suggestions-authenticity: being aware of how you feel and what you mean and expressing that productively (a good reminder for everyone); small moments: it’s the in-between times we take for granted, and what may seem insignificant for you may be significant for someone else. Sometimes seeing the mundane in others helps ourselves feel seen; and last, adventure: cultivate curiosity about new experiences and look for ways to weave a new perspective into old routines. This list also reflects my recommendation for 2024. Be you, continue to embrace growth and challenges, and remember what good you might be doing for someone just by letting us tag along virtually.
I mentioned a while back that if you could do a tour of all of your book collection, that would be great! Tell us which ones are your favorites, which are the oldest ones, etc.
yes!!! okay will do!!
It’s always a pleasure to watch something of you family life, almost never boring. I don’t need a report every week, that’s would stress me too. Maybe you should consider to find a rhythm not on such hard fixed schedule, to bring more wellbeing in your obviously stressful allday life. Greetings from Berlin, Germany ❤❤❤
For me , i came across ur channel two months ago. Nothing boring please keep ur weekly vlogs , fun aventures, i just love it
aww! this means so much. thank you for watching and for being here with us. more to come!
It's always nice when you film the farm animals. Especially the young ones you're caring for, like the sweet little black lamb. I'd love to see more of that.
I love good recipes and good books. I would LOVE a book club sort of thing (like one every 2 or 3 months) or real time live cooking/baking would spark so much joy!
so cute!!! noted!
You guys live a type of life that I will never experience. That’s ok because I love my life it’s just very different from yours. I really enjoy looking in on you and your family and seeing you on your adventures. I would like to see more of your projects in detail. Don’t feel you have to put everything in the one video. You can show PJ doing something and you can make the whole video about that project. Just a thought. It does my heart a whole world of good to know that, there are families like yours out there everywhere. I don’t interact with people as often as I would like so you guys and your videos are helping me with that. I feel like I’m a part of your community. Thank you for that. 🙂👋🏻
thank you for this!!!
Love the renovation projects and when you have been baking and cooking.
we need to do a cooking one asap!!
I've only found you within the past 2 weeks, so I have been going through past videos so personally not yet sure what all i want to see more of but 2024 word should be "Growth" if only to have the channel grow more, lol. but of course also spiritual, mental, physical growth and of horizons etc.
well, welcome!!! glad you're here. and thanks for the feedback! it's noted!
I’ve been following you guys since the very beginning ❤❤ As gay Dads as well we can so relate to all of your content but our children are all grown now and we are about to be granddads 🥰🥰 You guys are amazing and we love all of your content ❤🥰🏳️🌈
I don't have a word, but I do have a saying that a little Nigerian lady I used to work with told me. When she saw I was having a bad day at work, she would always tell me, "Don't let people take your JOY". There are so many people that are more than ready to do this. Besides it's giving your power away. I'm not one of those people who gets mad because you guys aren't posting content that I want to see. Keep posting what you've been posting. I love seeing what you are accomplishing in your lives. So, you won't ever hear any complaining from me.
I enjoy watching your vlogs and content - nothing about you is boring. ❤❤❤
Show more of the kids and day to day family life. I love your videos! Thanks!
thank you!!
Another idea… “who knows me better?” One of you sits between the other and your mother, you think of questions to see who answers the question correctly. You have the answers written down so can’t change your answer after hearing their responses. Have seen many people doing this, lots of fun to watch!
hey you PJ + Thomas + the kidos fair dinkum some of the baby animals are so darn cute keeping up with the Makays is terrific we love watching the energy the shenanigans to n from school @ the farm n holidays the kids are so comfortable with you it's a great family dynamic thanks for being there ....... free to air is boring you guys on you tube are definitely not 😮 so really love what you do how ur lives have changed and the children now have the best shot at a future with love as a basis 🎉keep up the exceptional work
Happy New Year guys. I have to admit I'm a little bored with Vino and Vent, maybe shorten to 1/2 hr. In summer, it would great to show farm life and give a weekly update of how the week went. Keeping my word "minimalize" for this year. Like you, need to find another one. Heard a catchy phrase this morning. "Do more in 2024". Look forward to more content. Happy days ahead.
I love your current content but since you’re looking for specifics…would love to see more routine videos. Like weekday morning routine with the kids or Sunday morning. I also love seeing y’all cook with the kids. I recall a video where PJ made brownies with the kids and I thought it was so adorable. They were covered in chocolate at the end.
aw thanks for the ideas!!
I love seeing your videos and the kids and what you do on the farm, and the cooking recipes that you guys show time to time, about the saying be kind to others was you like someone was kind to you, and show how you put a garden in at the farm.
I’ve been keeping up with y’all since 2016 and have loved watching your life grow and all your adventures unfold. As a fellow interior design lover…cannot wait to see the full holiday house reveal! ❤
ahhhh thank you for being here all this time!!!!!
I love seeing you hang out with family and friends, so either at the farm or traveling. I've been using minimize and enjoy life. How was the lone lamb? I love it when you have dinner and prepare the food.
Love me some Q & A’s!!! Also love seeing you interact with your families and Matt and Beau!
For 2024, self-care is a focus. Last year I was diagnosed with ADHD…any tips on how to set-up successful morning routines or how to stop misplacing items?! Keep up with the great videos! Watching them has become part of my weekly self-care routine 😊
The most hilarious quote yet:
PJ: we are just not entertaining enough
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From Washington State: I was coming out when I first discovered you guys. 2019... I found your database of the early videos about gay (the real everyday) living and relationship stuff very helpful. Also some of the helps you have made which are good for people is sharing successes and failures of things with the farm / real-estate / budgeting / cooking / child care and challenges / fitness ..... what works for you (keeping your private life still private).....
Joy and fulfillment are great words of the year, please give us more kids/family contest. Looking forward to more farm footage as well.
You got it!
I love when you show us home remodeling and purchasing property for flipping. I also enjoy your traveling videos. You have come a long way with your peronal lives and your family. Love you both and your children. Happy New Year
aww thank you!
Thank you for wanting to go back to having a regular schedule for Utube. Love seeing the farm and the animals and the interaction with your kids. When you went on break last year, I selfishly felt abandoned. Love you guys. ❤🎉❤😊
aww! we are so sorry! we're back and loving it!!!
would be great to see more of your routine time
like how do you communicate with the kids and stuff
would be very interesting!!
thank you!! noted
1. How we met: PJ and Dixie edition
2. Q&A with other same sex couples living in southern US
3. What do you look at/for when deciding to buy a flip house?
ooooo these are great. especially love the how pj and dixie met idea!
Thanks Men for sharing! As you enjoy more with the farm…explore with the kids about exploring opportunities in 4 H! Raise animals for the county fair, demonstrations or even cooking or other projects.
I think PJ's fam did 4H growing up!
And your children are so adorable and how you really love and care for them xxx❤ love Rhys from the UK 🇬🇧
I wasn’t bored at all. You guys have a contemporary arctic style. You know the word that goes with music I can’t say it right but I believe that’s what it is. But I love the video as always I missed you guys doing vlogs
Wow, thank you! we love you Julius!!!
Hey, you guys are good the way you are. Happy New Year!
Don't want this to come off negative in anyway, don't feel pressured/anxious about how you look/are, you're cool for being you. You don't have to change to what others might think desirable. You guys are good
thank you, friend. so sweet. xo
I love seeing a gay family in a super conservative State because it gives people hope for the future
yes! one of the biggest reasons we've stayed here.
Enjoyed the video you folks are not boring, your real, I know what I'm talking about after and still am in a relationship since 1980, and married now, so keep on keeping on,
aww thank you :) means a lot that you're tuning in!
Would love see another renovation project those past projects are amazing :) even you're not doing it yourself but vision come to life is nice to watch. Goodluck and looking forward to more Mckays in 2024. :)
we should be posting more of Holiday House here soon!! we're so close!!!
I like seeing you being parents and when you are romantic.
ooooo okay love it
Would love to see more of the farm and the kiddies. What have you decided to do with the pond on the farm? Tbh I love whatever you post PJ is hilarious and Thomas face well just love it and love seeing the kiddies just coming and going in the video's. Anyway guys take care oh by the way our kids went back to school last week in good old England. ❤
More animal, plants, decorating, small town, Fall vibes, investing videos. Love your content
Happy New Year!! I hope 2024 is great for you and your sweet family. Please keep doing what you are doing. I LOVE your vlogs and SO look forward to each one. And--YOU ARE NOT BORING!!!!! Have followed you for years and look forward to following you for years to come. Love to you all
aww we love you! thank you!
I like your videos. I love seeing the kids playing with the animals or anything else they're doing. Some travel vlogs would be great because I enjoy seeing other neat places. The farm brings back memories of going to friend's farms when I was younger. You could go light on the house reno stuff but still have some of it. I do appreciate your effort since I know vlogs take time.
thank you!! will definitely be posting our travels this year so stay tuned!
Come back to Palm Springs! The best city for our community in the USA!
would love to go one day!