Owner Operator Makes A Bad Business Decision

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  • Опубликовано: 13 ноя 2020
  • We are starting our day off in Des Moines Ia and are heading back west. I make a decision that I feel I needed to make, but is not good for the business part of my life.
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    Mapleton, Ia 51034
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Комментарии • 774

  • @DANSHotshotTrucking_Outdoors
    @DANSHotshotTrucking_Outdoors 3 года назад +79

    20 years in the navy and I missed many events, never apologize for caring about family and putting them first.

  • @ew5048
    @ew5048 3 года назад +7

    Not your fault, your out there making a living don't beat yourself up over it. Trucking has it's costs and you can't always be there through the hard times. I have two daughters of my own. Hopes and prayers for you and your family.

  • @JamesBrown-sx8dk
    @JamesBrown-sx8dk 3 года назад +108

    You shouldn't blame yourself. These things happen and you should go home. Family is the most important thing right now. That's just my opinion.

    • @CIorox_BIeach
      @CIorox_BIeach 3 года назад +3

      Most important thing at any time.

    • @munchie3310
      @munchie3310 3 года назад

      I agree James he needs to go home.

    • @imrandavis4031
      @imrandavis4031 2 года назад

      i realize Im kinda off topic but does anybody know of a good site to stream newly released movies online ?

  • @og_gamer_boi2108
    @og_gamer_boi2108 3 года назад +34

    Just started watching the video only a minute or two in, I agree with you go home. Money is only money but your family is everything.

    • @rodneycole7933
      @rodneycole7933 3 года назад

      Rodney in indianapolis. In love your videos surly agree with your down to earth ways. Stay safe motoring there neighbor 🙏

    • @truckingwithschmidt7120
      @truckingwithschmidt7120  3 года назад

      Thank you

  • @chucksgmgarage1116
    @chucksgmgarage1116 3 года назад +24

    If he tests negative then take him with you. My Dad took me out on the road at least 3 times a year since I was 3 yrs old. Best ever memories ever in his old Mack cab over.

  • @robertesposito9871
    @robertesposito9871 2 года назад

    Kids are stronger than us old people, he’ll be fine, you have thousands praying for your beautiful family

  • @mikehamilton4357
    @mikehamilton4357 3 года назад +35

    Don’t apologize all bets are off when it comes to our kids never seems like an easy decisionWhen family is involved

  • @barrystracner8554
    @barrystracner8554 3 года назад +17

    You were 100% correct to go home. God and Family is all that matters in this world. Everything else is secondary. And I am sure they are glad you are back. Enjoy being home. We'll seeya next time.

  • @chrishays3534
    @chrishays3534 3 года назад +22

    I’m not a truck driver, but I’m an airline pilot so I’m always away from home too. 3 kids. I’d be loosing my mind if I had all that going on at home. Good luck to you and your family.

    • @brianburns7211
      @brianburns7211 3 года назад +4

      You said it. I’m a locomotive engineer, so I know all about it.

    • @fuzzybutkus3951
      @fuzzybutkus3951 2 года назад +1

      I’m retired truckdriver and spend my time watching videos about planes.

  • @poseidon5003
    @poseidon5003 3 года назад +1

    Your priorities are adjusted perfectly.

  • @tmckelve1
    @tmckelve1 3 года назад +2

    You do what you have to do, don’t let anything get between you and your family. Don’t beat yourself up to much,be with your family and I will keep all of you in my prayers.

  • @susanrose1967
    @susanrose1967 3 года назад +24

    You shouldn't second guess your decision. You have to do what your heart leads you to do. My husband drove truck for over 40 yrs and I know It's not really safe for you to be driving distracted, worring about your family. Be safe...you are continuously in our thoughts and prayers.

  • @joemoody548
    @joemoody548 2 года назад

    A man's gotta do what a man's gotta do. I like you more each time I watch you, good luck bud.

  • @EllwoodSunnell
    @EllwoodSunnell 11 месяцев назад

    I just came across this two-year-old video. Hindsight? Your thoughts? Two years ago was a soul-searching experience for every one of us. I'm glad, therefore, that you chose the way you did. So much guilt, and subservience to an unknown with respect to a virus infection (called a pandemic). Each of us had to make decisions. Making family decisions were difficult but we made them. I think we all were confronted with what was important. All I can say is this is one hell of a good video. It's an inspiration for me. I built many/most of the Illinois PCS cell sites in Iowa and was based in DesMoines for 9 months to I know the roads you were on well.

  • @justinjones5220
    @justinjones5220 3 года назад

    I would go home too. Kids and family are ALWAYS number 1. Wishing you and yours all the best from way out west. Oregon.

  • @Drew_379
    @Drew_379 3 года назад +5

    I haven't even finished the video yet. That's your family and you know how to take care of your family. 🙏

  • @ronlawson6013
    @ronlawson6013 3 года назад +5

    Our prayers are with you and your family. YOU MADE THE RIGHT DECISION. Hang in there and be proud. Yeah, those wheels gotta roll, but sometimes you gotta follow your ❤️, and your heart is telling you to go home. Godspeed on their recovery and you staying safe.

  • @fodaymacbailey1566
    @fodaymacbailey1566 3 года назад

    I will keep you and your family in my prayers and wish you the best

  • @jannaparks6132
    @jannaparks6132 3 года назад +1

    WOW...I’m a 61 year-old female who has never heard another human being call their mother ‘mommy’...my MOMMY died Christmas eve 2020...I miss her so very much. Talk to her every day. Nobody ever made fun of me for calling her mommy, but especially growing up, when all my friends called their mother ‘mom’, I could sense their thoughts about me. NEVER have I ever called her anything other than MOMMY. GOOD ON YOU. BTW, you were recommended to me by my DADDY (81 year-old Moon/Smith’s Transfer/Carolina/ABF retiree- they were divorced when I was 13), a lifelong trucker, who appreciates your channel.

  • @danbates6285
    @danbates6285 3 года назад

    Once a Trucker ALWAYS a Trucker ! Never Ever apologize for going home. Family is the MOST important thing there is. If you want you can always go back on the road. I have a friend who runs coast to coast he has three little ones and has missed out on Sooooooo Much. He tells me that's what he does sorry but I can't do that. You are doing what is right for you. I will keep you and your family in my prayers 🙏

  • @patwatersvlogs859
    @patwatersvlogs859 3 года назад

    Sending thoughts and prayers to you and your family. Hoping for a speedy recovery for all. 🙏🙏

  • @tomasacea
    @tomasacea 3 года назад +1

    Much respect!! You and you’re family will be in prayers.

  • @jimstewart2625
    @jimstewart2625 3 года назад +16

    God's speed. Prayers to you and the family.

  • @jimmykosko
    @jimmykosko 2 года назад

    Been at this game for 30 long years…one thing that has always keep me going…my family. Brother you know as well as anyone our families always come first. Please be safe.

  • @wesleyperrine127
    @wesleyperrine127 3 года назад

    Family first buddy ALWAYS! Awesome channel hope ur family recovers safely

  • @DeeDee-il4cd
    @DeeDee-il4cd 3 года назад

    Every one in your family hope and prayers get well

  • @bobkat-john1468
    @bobkat-john1468 3 года назад +1

    You had to go home to check on your family. Praying little bud doesn’t have it. Spending my prayer to you all.

  • @eagle1333
    @eagle1333 3 года назад +1

    Be safe Kurt and prayers for the family...GOD BLESS ALL!

  • @patriksjostrom3808
    @patriksjostrom3808 3 года назад

    I think you are doing the right thing , family first and business second. You shouldn´t blame yourself because you are trying to do the right thing. You are a good man and I wish you and your family all the best. Take care .

  • @jamiegriffin5611
    @jamiegriffin5611 3 года назад

    Prayers for you and the family. Your beliefs and action is why I follow and watch your videos. Stay strong and glad you are home with the family.

  • @robertrutherford9057
    @robertrutherford9057 3 года назад +2

    35 years of driving I missed most every holiday, weddings, funerals, high school graduation...... I have zero to show for it
    ... definitely go home.

  • @scottjr6650
    @scottjr6650 3 года назад +1

    As a father of 2 kids myself. Man you have no reason to blame yourself. But on another go home be with them. Family is ALWAYS #1 ALWAYS. Prayers to your family and get well fast.

  • @wraith3168
    @wraith3168 3 года назад

    Brother i hope you and your family come through fine and never apologize for doing what a man need to do for his family

  • @shellbell2730
    @shellbell2730 3 года назад +6

    Be careful with "shoulding" yourself. And that "normal Dad" stuff. There are gobs of men who come home every. Single. Night. And don't give their family 2 minutes of their thought or time.... You be true to yourself and your family always!

  • @dragonheart9013
    @dragonheart9013 3 года назад

    Family is always important. Supporting your family is positive, not your fault they got sick thats out of your control.

  • @ridealongwithunk4055
    @ridealongwithunk4055 3 года назад

    God bless you and your family! Prayers for continued healing for the lady’s and prayers for a negative test for little bud!

  • @landonwarren4507
    @landonwarren4507 3 года назад

    Family is very important you need your family many prayers for you all

  • @SuperChaos002
    @SuperChaos002 3 года назад

    Hope your family made a full recovery and that you're all doing well. Cheers from Canada.

  • @Grumpyjoe1971
    @Grumpyjoe1971 3 года назад

    Hope you and the family are doing well, prayers sent 🙏

  • @henryhinojosa5568
    @henryhinojosa5568 3 года назад

    Prayers to you and your family! Your a good man taking care of your family!

  • @steverhodes467
    @steverhodes467 3 года назад

    Family first always!! Your family will be just fine, and your a good man for always putting them first. This to shall pass. Happy Thanksgiving and God Bless.

  • @harishankarvishnu2541
    @harishankarvishnu2541 3 года назад

    Don't worry man everything will be alright. hope to see your family fully healed from the virus and don't let down your positivity....!

  • @robertesposito9871
    @robertesposito9871 3 года назад

    Your a good dad and you can’t blame yourself, and kids are tuff they can handle it better than us old folk, and by the way your doing the right thing going home

  • @jameshess4023
    @jameshess4023 2 месяца назад

    Sending prayers for you and your family.

  • @toddschumacher2031
    @toddschumacher2031 3 года назад

    You are a good father!!! You are doing the right thing!!! We will pray for you and your family!!

  • @JCA-Z
    @JCA-Z 3 года назад

    Hi Mr. Schmidt, sorry to hear tater tot and warden are still sick but great to hear they're getting stronger. Don't be so hard on yourself i know as parents we second guess ourselves but you made the right decision at the time. Hopefully lil bud will test negative and both of you gentlemen will make some memories together trucking. I'll continue praying for you all god bless stay safe and stay home 😊.

  • @stephenglendenning1475
    @stephenglendenning1475 3 года назад +2

    You look the family first and all thing will be praying for all of you. I'm in kitchener Ontario Canada. Park the truck just with the family. God will look after you. 😇😇😇

  • @johndelgrosso6234
    @johndelgrosso6234 3 года назад

    Great choice...NEVER question family...Enjoy the time with them...You can work anytime...

  • @dustinanderson3201
    @dustinanderson3201 3 года назад

    Thoughts and prayers for your family and yourself! Family first no matter what!! Keep your head up and keep pushing! The big man upstairs has your back always!! God speed!!

  • @MAX999MAX
    @MAX999MAX 3 года назад

    Amazing as always thanks God bless you all
    I will pray for you and your family.

  • @abadmoctezuma6802
    @abadmoctezuma6802 3 года назад

    Hi Mr. Schmidt don´t feel ashamed you must be with your family, because we know that they are the most important part of you life, we are going to be praying for your family and for you. God bless you ever, best wishes from Mx.

  • @marymadalenem2351
    @marymadalenem2351 3 года назад +2

    Oh man when I see those views I miss the road. Great music also.15 years but started in '96 Diesel in the blood. Blessings

  • @mikewood489
    @mikewood489 3 года назад +7

    From one trucker to another! Prayers to you and your family brother! Do not feel ashamed for expressing your feelings. I wish more of us in this profession could follow your lead and be open. You are making the absolute best decision. Family means everything. I would be doing the exact same thing. Once again prayers to you and your family! Stay safe brother!

  • @stephentutko7123
    @stephentutko7123 3 года назад

    As fellow road warrior to another...head up ..plow ahead come what may..family.. faith.. friends....it's what we do... God bless and God speed...

  • @joehunts432
    @joehunts432 3 года назад +2

    Totally agree with your decision Kurt! Would do the same! Hope everyone recovers quickly!

  • @gavinnutting1003
    @gavinnutting1003 3 года назад

    Pray everyone gets better soon

  • @tommymays7781
    @tommymays7781 3 года назад

    My heart and prayers goes out to you and your FAMILY. God Bless you all.

  • @wmgthilgen
    @wmgthilgen 3 года назад

    I drove for Hirschbach back in the earily 70's, hualing meat one way and monkey pickles back. Looking back over all the various companies I pulled for, they were the best.

  • @samuelgagnow5781
    @samuelgagnow5781 3 года назад

    You made the right call to go home, family first. I remember as a kid before cell phones dad would call home every few days when he was on the road to check up on us. There was nothing better than when you see that truck pulling up to the house after a long haul. I will never forget my grandfather and my dad both telling me that they would kick me in the ass if I ever drive a truck, well Apple didn't fall from the tree. Take care of yourself and your family, you did the right thing!

    • @truckingwithschmidt7120
      @truckingwithschmidt7120  3 года назад +1

      As a driver there's no better feeling then seeing the kids come out the door to greet us truckers when we pull up.

  • @tomdalley7422
    @tomdalley7422 3 года назад +20

    As a man of God, you know God can and will provide for the needs of you and your family. Right now He is providing your family with your presence, your love for them, and your care that is all that matters. God will provide for your financial needs He has given the sense of peace which tells that your choice is right.

  • @billbye2427
    @billbye2427 3 года назад

    You do have a good friend to ask for advice; you may not get the answer you wan but you will get the answer you need. All you have to do is ask! my dogs liked the pickles on a cheese burger. they all liked keeping things simple!!!

  • @abrahamjackson6019
    @abrahamjackson6019 3 года назад +1

    Stay strong bro, ill send a prayer out to you and yours. God bless...

  • @chrisellis6832
    @chrisellis6832 3 года назад

    Mate, do what you need to do. I enjoy watching your channel here in Australia & I will miss the video's for a short while. Family is more important than any job. Anyone who tells you that you should stay out working just doesn't get it. Stay safe and more importantly for the rest of your family, get healthy. I am no longer putting in the time behind the wheel for health reasons, so mate don't begrudge your choice to be a good husband and father. The only one who will miss being out on the road for a bit is the truck dog, no macca's at home. Be safe and we will see you when we see you. God bless you.

  • @tedhill7017
    @tedhill7017 3 года назад

    Never regret saying what’s on your mind. God Bless you and your family! Prayers for a speedy recovery for your wife and daughter and prayers your son does not have it.

  • @cajunman2261
    @cajunman2261 3 года назад +1

    Me and my church praying for you and your wonderful family's ...stay safe and God Bless you & Family !!!! 🙏🙏🙏

  • @seaotter1975
    @seaotter1975 3 года назад

    You did the right thing for you and your family. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. Take care of yourselves!

  • @pj5607
    @pj5607 3 года назад

    Just saw your video. I hope everyone is ok and feeling better. God bless. Stay safe. Hope to see you back on the road.

  • @SilverHorse-kx7kb
    @SilverHorse-kx7kb 3 года назад

    a man has to do what a man has to do for his family. Don't beat yourself up you did not know your family did not know the virus was going to knock on your door. Be safe your family is strong they will pull through. Prayers for your family and yourself dude be well be safe

  • @korbinthomas520
    @korbinthomas520 3 года назад

    I’m in the same boat. Kids are all healthy, but school is on partial days and my daughters daycare is shutdown for 14 days. My wife is stuck at home with them, she has to use her sick days from work to take care of them. It’s a helpless feeling, I feel it to. I’m taking all next week off to help relieve her. Family first, the big road can wait. Take care!

  • @jamesstafford9067
    @jamesstafford9067 3 года назад

    Hey brother, I live in Southeast Iowa. Never apologize for what you say or how you feel. This is the life of a truck driver and you're not complaining, you're telling us how you are feeling and we all have to do that regardless if it's praying, talking to mommy (lol) (I thought I was the only one who still calls his mom mommy). Me and my family will be praying for you all with a speedy recovery. Merry Christmas and Happy New Year.

  • @gradysullivan1248
    @gradysullivan1248 3 года назад

    Hope all is well! Take care of your family.

  • @robertjull9851
    @robertjull9851 3 года назад

    As a over the road driver for 25 plus years I can relate with the mental anguish. It will wear you down. I agree with your decision to be home. Without family you have no anchor. I also outlived two four legged passengers who traveled along with me. Your connection to him is one reason I am a subscriber. Be safe. Cheers

  • @kens6437
    @kens6437 3 года назад +1

    Continuing sending prayers and positive thoughts to you and your family.

  • @ericdeth3703
    @ericdeth3703 3 года назад

    Your family is always first. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

  • @vicenterodriguez2277
    @vicenterodriguez2277 3 года назад

    Prayers to you and your family. I personally do thing going home would be a good idea only because of the down time possibilities to even getting you sick as well at least one provider to keep the house going. Prayers to you and your family that he Keeps you all safe and blessed. And don’t let the mind beat you. 😔💪👍👌🙏

  • @jamesfranks4142
    @jamesfranks4142 3 года назад +4

    Prayers for you and your family. I understand going home to the family. Being out here on the road and away from family takes a toll on us. Don’t beat yourself up over little bud. Y’all made the best decision at the time for him. Remember GOD IS GREAT and He is in control.

  • @allendodson9881
    @allendodson9881 3 года назад +1

    Thoughts and Prayers are with You and Your Family......

  • @fiddytreefiddy7931
    @fiddytreefiddy7931 3 года назад +5

    Good for you man. Go take care of buisness and screw the rest! Trucking IS NOT EVERYTHING!

  • @leonardhadley3820
    @leonardhadley3820 3 года назад

    Hope your family is ok. Don't worry it will all work out. Nothing like seeing your family when you come off the road it takes all the stress away.Stay safe

  • @jeremypatton5823
    @jeremypatton5823 3 года назад +1

    Man that's a tuff one. But I can tell you one thing. I can tell you already know. When it comes to that little voice in your heart, especially when it's tugging on you hard, you don't ignore it. Ever. Praying for your family and you.

  • @stevenoliver4928
    @stevenoliver4928 3 года назад

    Good for you man... family first, hope everyone is ok...

  • @grizzlyk10089
    @grizzlyk10089 3 года назад

    DONT take the blame bro !!!!! Always family first as i know i was a long hauler!

  • @davidwilliams6645
    @davidwilliams6645 3 года назад +2

    We praying for lil bud you your whole family Amen.I just finished my Radiation on Friday.still got a long road ahead of me

  • @alexberdoza7374
    @alexberdoza7374 3 года назад

    I just discovered your channel, I have seen a couple of your videos. You seem like a good dude, and I believe going home was the right choice. Being with your family at time like this is exactly where I would want to be if I was in your position. Prayers for you and your family.

  • @jamesjacobson4806
    @jamesjacobson4806 3 года назад

    God bless you and your family. I hope little bud is doing well and feeling better. I myself drive truck and don't blame you one bit for going home to your family. I would have done the same. Stay safe, happy, and healthy my friend.

  • @junkman2758
    @junkman2758 3 года назад

    Family first- do what you think best. Prayers to you and your family

  • @shanespillman2492
    @shanespillman2492 3 года назад

    Complete respect for you, this is the first time I've seen your post. I'm a 4th generation trucker myself. My daughter is a RN nurse and has been working on the COVID patients since the beginning, and my brother is the Director of the Health Department over 8 counties. They have been working 1st hand day in and day out. I would like to thank you for making your family 1st and taking this virus seriously, and posting this video.

  • @kevinerenwick4415
    @kevinerenwick4415 3 года назад

    Sending lots of Prayers 🙏🙏🙏🙏 all of your family -Kevin 💙💙💙

  • @kentuitts6523
    @kentuitts6523 3 года назад

    Kurt I will keep praying for you and your family that they get well soon

  • @craigradford7391
    @craigradford7391 3 года назад

    Mate you do what’s right for you. Hope it all goes well 👍👍

  • @ryanjohnson1416
    @ryanjohnson1416 3 года назад +1

    Family First. Praying for you and your family.

  • @allenlovell2316
    @allenlovell2316 3 года назад

    Well thank you for a brilliant video just like to say don't worry about what you talk about we are family we are your RUclips Family I hope your real family is away ok and you made the right decision but make sure you keep in touch with us all take care and look after yourself in the UK

  • @turnpikestwisties2675
    @turnpikestwisties2675 3 года назад

    Continued prayers for you and your family.
    I know how you feel being gone all the time. I had a real struggle with it for years. Luckily i have an awesome wife and she helped me through it!

  • @donaldsmitson2096
    @donaldsmitson2096 3 года назад

    Take care of the family, and don't second guess it. Prayers and take care. See you soon.

  • @yahvigaylor82
    @yahvigaylor82 3 года назад

    I was always told family first so take care of your family no one should be mad about that .hope everything goes good for you guys!

  • @dannygregg3906
    @dannygregg3906 3 года назад

    Hey brother great video. I feel ya family is#1 T's & P's best of luck. God bless you and your family.

  • @ladyj4011
    @ladyj4011 3 года назад

    Only you can make the decisions for your life. We have been able to watch, but our advice is just speculation since we don’t live with the consequences. Prayers for everyone!
    BTW I recently added an older dog to my journey and the stairs were an inspiration. I got the one with the rubber cover and “board” inside. JD will loudly complain if I don’t put them out for him!!! Too dang smart that one.

    • @truckingwithschmidt7120
      @truckingwithschmidt7120  3 года назад +1

      Lol. Good to hear. We just need to cover the steps with red carpet for they get the red carpet affect.

  • @helpinghandsroadside
    @helpinghandsroadside 3 года назад

    Praying that the family gets well soon

  • @DragonkinMetals
    @DragonkinMetals 3 года назад +3

    Should haves are could haves. Lessons learned is the prize. Best of luck to you and yours. Family is everything. I would have done the same.

  • @jasonwells1471
    @jasonwells1471 3 года назад

    My thoughts and prayers for you and your family 🙏🏻