No, no, no. A stay at home spouse is a job title. You take care of the kids, you make the meals, you do the majority of the heavy lifting at home. It's a full time job. What your wife did, how do I put this delicately, was a parasite. I did the stay at home thing for two years while getting a degree. My spouse brought home the bacon. I did at least 70% of the chores, and most of the child care. Once the lil' one was at school, I'd go to school myself. Now that I work full time I'm lucky if I can manage 50% of the chores. If this story is true, this man was both parents. The wife was an overpaid baby sitter at best, barely looking after her own kids. Making the lunches, making the diner, helping with homework, ect. Man was doing 80% of the parenting and adulting. That's too much.
i feel like the STBX is having an affair edit: she was having an affair. i’m devastated for OP. honestly, when she was trying to get them to go out, it screamed “she has someone on the side”
Wowowowowowowowowow I remember this story. I can't believe this update, she's much much worse than I thought. I just thought she had untreated depression but turns out she's just a very big AH that took advantage of him
Weaponized incompetence, a concept I'm unfortunately well acquainted with, was exactly what I came down here to comment on. She appears to be even more skilled at it than my spouse of over 40 years.
I don't know how laws/divorce are handled in his country, but I hope that her lies, deceit, and secret income and onlyfans get her raked over the coals by the courts.
The wife is disgusting, but Karma will get her in the end. I'm hoping that she'll realise that a 36 year old on OF won't be desired or earning as much as what she would want, and with no help from her family or ex-husband, she'll live a devastating life. I hope OP pulls through, and continues to be a great father and live a good life.
Where do i even start.. It doesn't sound like a coincidence that every time she was supposed to get back to work they kept getting new babies. It sounds like she was doing it on purpose. The time where she cut him out at the doctor appointment? Immediate red flag. Also, i can't help but wonder why exactly she had a fall out with sister (I'm only 8 minutes in and i hope we get an explanation). My bet is that sis was not ready to put up with wife's bs
You know there was a time. Where I would say anyone who is a SAHM should get priority on breaks.... But now, even in some of the better options, you have to put in tons of hours to benefit that lifestyle in work. And if you're a smart person, you're also helping out with the child care when you're not working. It's getting to a point where I genuinely believe it's not possible for either to get proper rest.
In most cases I would argue SAHM is a 24/7 job and harder than any daytime job because there are no breaks. This guy was a SAHM and a working father at the same time. She doesn't do crap.
It sounds like it was always her intention to become a SAHM which would explain why she refuses to go back to work and she fabricated some bs story about not being able to work while pregnant and that’s why she got mad when confronting her doctor.
7:22 "I got a vasectomy" and then at 21:40 "and our third daughter was born" .....i am so confused like he didn't even question about the child not being his? (I'm only 7.48 minutes in)
Idk why people feel guilty, to check their partner's mobile, after they hav reasonable doubt. Its okay to do it once in while... STOP feeling guilty for cheating partner's.
Postpartum depression can last for years. But she's gotta get back to doing the hard stuff in life. Counseling. Counseling. And more counseling. Cognitive behavioral therapy more so than psychotherapy. Just speaking from experience.
So she does maybe 40 min to an hour cof work a day and demands op pay for her vacation instead of a hard earned one for himself. Selfish, self-centered entitled ass.
She was having an affair. If she was doing drugs she wouldn’t want to go on a vacation for that long, Cause she’d be worried about being sick in an unknown place. 🙄
Wow wish I received this treatment as a samh I wash/dry plus fold and put away all laundry, I do all cooking plus dishes, I feed/water my 4 dogs and I take out trash, do all sweeping/mopping and anything involving the 5 babies was on me. I do more but seriously what is she complaining about WTF sir please tell me you see she is using you.
THE WIFE NEEDS A BREAK FAR MORE THAN THE HUSBAND BEING A STAY AT HOME MOTHER IS FAR HARDER WORK THAN HE DOES MEN ARE CRYBABIES WHEN IT COMES TO CARING FOR THIER OWN KIDS WOMEN ARE SICK AND TIRED OF BEING USED AND ABUSED BY MEN THE WIFE SHOULD DIVORCE OP GET CUSTODY OF THE KIDS GET CHILD SUPPORT AND ALIMONY OP ONLY CARES ABOUT HIMSELF NOT HIS WIFE OR KIDS WHEN MEN TAKE A BREAK ITS OK WHEN A WOMAN DOES IT ITS CONCIDERED A GREAT SIN😢
Good for you on defending a cheating wh*re with an OF account (Which one of the kids was exposed to that by finding out when she was making content) that had 2 kids outside the marriage. Slay queen
The dogs don't like her was all I needed to know.
Mhm i agree✨️
I immediately raised an eyebrow at that
SAMEEEEE I HEARD THAT AND WAS LIKE 🫣
“She was mean, rude, and a little physical.”
My guy you were being abused holy fvck!
No, no, no. A stay at home spouse is a job title. You take care of the kids, you make the meals, you do the majority of the heavy lifting at home. It's a full time job.
What your wife did, how do I put this delicately, was a parasite.
I did the stay at home thing for two years while getting a degree. My spouse brought home the bacon. I did at least 70% of the chores, and most of the child care. Once the lil' one was at school, I'd go to school myself. Now that I work full time I'm lucky if I can manage 50% of the chores. If this story is true, this man was both parents. The wife was an overpaid baby sitter at best, barely looking after her own kids. Making the lunches, making the diner, helping with homework, ect. Man was doing 80% of the parenting and adulting. That's too much.
I like how he calls her “partner” then proceeds to describe the person as a non-partner.
I love how caring his in-laws are
Hard to believe they ops narcissistic wife is their daughter
Normally in this storys even own family betray them
@@razofdead exactly! It's so refreshing to see this
@@missycakess tbh i wouldnt be surprised if later on ex confeses the OF thing was one of her divorced friend's idea
i feel like the STBX is having an affair
edit: she was having an affair. i’m devastated for OP. honestly, when she was trying to get them to go out, it screamed “she has someone on the side”
what the hell is a stbx
@@kurosaki7199 soon to be ex
It's possible. Plus, my heart hurts for OP's kids;
Wowowowowowowowowow
I remember this story. I can't believe this update, she's much much worse than I thought. I just thought she had untreated depression but turns out she's just a very big AH that took advantage of him
Called it Honestly
Knew she was never home
Lol she's using weaponized incompetence and using pregnancy as a way to not go back to work😂😂
Weaponized incompetence, a concept I'm unfortunately well acquainted with, was exactly what I came down here to comment on. She appears to be even more skilled at it than my spouse of over 40 years.
I don't know how laws/divorce are handled in his country, but I hope that her lies, deceit, and secret income and onlyfans get her raked over the coals by the courts.
I hope he gets alimony lol :v
I clicked on this video fully expecting to be enraged, and I was. Just not at the person I had expected
The wife is disgusting, but Karma will get her in the end. I'm hoping that she'll realise that a 36 year old on OF won't be desired or earning as much as what she would want, and with no help from her family or ex-husband, she'll live a devastating life. I hope OP pulls through, and continues to be a great father and live a good life.
Same here.
Not to defend her but bruh do you know how many people watch porn of MILFs
Where do i even start..
It doesn't sound like a coincidence that every time she was supposed to get back to work they kept getting new babies. It sounds like she was doing it on purpose.
The time where she cut him out at the doctor appointment? Immediate red flag.
Also, i can't help but wonder why exactly she had a fall out with sister (I'm only 8 minutes in and i hope we get an explanation). My bet is that sis was not ready to put up with wife's bs
[Whistle] Whew! Oh boy, that "Wife" was quite the piece of work!
You know there was a time. Where I would say anyone who is a SAHM should get priority on breaks.... But now, even in some of the better options, you have to put in tons of hours to benefit that lifestyle in work. And if you're a smart person, you're also helping out with the child care when you're not working. It's getting to a point where I genuinely believe it's not possible for either to get proper rest.
The last update was not at all what I expected, but glad OP is doing better now and people are supporting him
In most cases I would argue SAHM is a 24/7 job and harder than any daytime job because there are no breaks. This guy was a SAHM and a working father at the same time. She doesn't do crap.
Damn! This one proves you'll never get to 100% know who you're marrying into 😮😢
Wow, she had a cushy life and destroyed it all. What a horrible person
Funny how she claims to be a SAHM yet HE is the mother
She definitely was purposely getting pregnant every time her going to work is brought up and especially when he got the promotion and the vasectomy
Ahh yes a stay home mom that does nothing like a stay home mom should do, hell is she even a mom
It sounds like it was always her intention to become a SAHM which would explain why she refuses to go back to work and she fabricated some bs story about not being able to work while pregnant and that’s why she got mad when confronting her doctor.
7:22 "I got a vasectomy"
and then at 21:40 "and our third daughter was born"
.....i am so confused like he didn't even question about the child not being his? (I'm only 7.48 minutes in)
Y'all shouldn't have never had kids in the first place.
Why?
Should not have never
They aren't all his and this looked like her plan all along
Cuz the mother sucks @@nilou-wanter8623
Literally only one of those kids was op’s
Idk why people feel guilty, to check their partner's mobile, after they hav reasonable doubt. Its okay to do it once in while... STOP feeling guilty for cheating partner's.
Postpartum depression can last for years. But she's gotta get back to doing the hard stuff in life. Counseling. Counseling. And more counseling. Cognitive behavioral therapy more so than psychotherapy. Just speaking from experience.
So she does maybe 40 min to an hour cof work a day and demands op pay for her vacation instead of a hard earned one for himself.
Selfish, self-centered entitled ass.
Gonna call it shes been using drugs
She was having an affair. If she was doing drugs she wouldn’t want to go on a vacation for that long, Cause she’d be worried about being sick in an unknown place. 🙄
If only we knew her name so that we could go after her.
FED
Dude couldnt pull out a driveway
she purposefully deceived him so she could get pregnant
Only one of the kids was his
Did you even listen to the whole thing?
And for that matter, do you even know how condoms or vasectomies work?
Enabler-in-chief
Did you really need all that dead weight if you basically did everything on your own?
Wow wish I received this treatment as a samh I wash/dry plus fold and put away all laundry, I do all cooking plus dishes, I feed/water my 4 dogs and I take out trash, do all sweeping/mopping and anything involving the 5 babies was on me. I do more but seriously what is she complaining about WTF sir please tell me you see she is using you.
OF mommy 👀
Wat else you would expect !!
Wish he could get half of everything the B earned on OF.
Sorry what does the wife do then??
Am l the only one who thinks she spiked his drink?
It could be
How could he think he can have a child after vasectomy he is enabling her
sometimes vasectomies fail
Vasectomies fail sometimes, it’s possible
@@denisecrane9688 ik they do but it's a pretty rare thing anyways op should have asked for an paternity test
I was going to go off on you until I realized that you did and still doing your fair share
At least you listened to the entire context. Most people in this comments sectioned heard a single part and are going off on the dude
Why cant u both go together ?
Did you even pay attention?
First pin pls ❤
THE WIFE NEEDS A BREAK FAR MORE THAN THE HUSBAND BEING A STAY AT HOME MOTHER IS FAR HARDER WORK THAN HE DOES MEN ARE CRYBABIES WHEN IT COMES TO CARING FOR THIER OWN KIDS WOMEN ARE SICK AND TIRED OF BEING USED AND ABUSED BY MEN THE WIFE SHOULD DIVORCE OP GET CUSTODY OF THE KIDS GET CHILD SUPPORT AND ALIMONY OP ONLY CARES ABOUT HIMSELF NOT HIS WIFE OR KIDS WHEN MEN TAKE A BREAK ITS OK WHEN A WOMAN DOES IT ITS CONCIDERED A GREAT SIN😢
Good for you on defending a cheating wh*re with an OF account (Which one of the kids was exposed to that by finding out when she was making content) that had 2 kids outside the marriage.
Slay queen
Bruh what you on about?
Nice rage bait(but if it’s not, you’re wrong and ignorant and definitely didn’t listen to the story)