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I feel the heartache of ate. My husband once told me that his co workers keep on bugging him to some girls. That time me and my daughter is away. And he said this " how can i replace my wife and my daughter for some girl for lust?? Mag kamay na lang daw siya. And it hit me that no matter na malayo kami o malapit if your partner will cheat on you he will cheat. And i love my husband so much. Dahil kami ng anak ko ang mundo niya.
Ate maawa ka naman sa sarili mo, at sa mga anak mo. Masyado ka naman sinauna ate. Respeto sa sarili mo, kahit gusto mo kung yong sarili mong asawa,wala ng malasakit sayo. Manindigan ka naman! Hindi lang naman ikaw ang nagkaganyan! Alisin mo na ang pagka madrama mo,mahalin mo sarili mo para sa mga anak mo. Hindi lang sau nangyari na trinaydor ng minahal,kinupkop kasama sa trials mo in life, kaya mo yan, hindi yan ebibigay sau ng Tadhana kung hindi mo kaya. Pakatibay ka! Damihan ng dasal sa Dios. Pagmamahal sa Dios ang pinakamatibay,hindi mula sa tao,kaakibat ng pagmamahal sa tao ay pasakit.
Tama ung advise sa kanya kung ang guy na fall out of love nah e let go mu tlg kasi imbalance na yong love sa family nila. At sa anak nya magtatanim ng puot sa puso yon gawa ng nakikita nya mama nya na nasasaktan. Magka depression din ang bata. Lalaking puno ng puot sa ama nya.
Single mom din ako at nandito pa ako sa abroad nong nagkaroon ng iba ang X ko, it helps yung seminar sa OWWA sa pag conditioned ko sa isip ko na i have to expect the unexpected and expect the worst situation that i might encounter, ma pa pamilya man or ma pa trabaho. It motivated me a lot to get over the pain and the stress. Sobrang sakit nyan ate, tapos yung lahat ng mali sayo binabagsak. Pero huwag mo kalimutan na ikaw yung asawa mo, at si higit sa lahat ang DYOS ang nakakaalam ng lahat ng katotohanan at lahat ng bagay na nangyayare at pinagdadaanan mo. Lift it all up to God. Sa kanya ka sumandal sa kanya ka humingi ng patnubay at gabay. And believe me ate magi get over mo yan. Hindi ang pagtitiis at pagtatago ang makakalutas nyan. Kundi ang pag let go, ang pagtanggap ng sitwasyon. At pag realize ng worth mo as a mother as a woman. At ang pag move on ang makakatulong sayo for you to he better again. For you to be happy. Mahirap ang proseso pero believe me it is worthy.
Second chance deserves for someone who deserves it... Giving second, third chance to someone who doesn't deserve it will ALWAYS squander that chance.. Learn to give respect to yourself..
I remember myself kay ate. Nasa taiwan yunh ex ko sinundan ko para magmakaawa dahil mahal na mahal ko sya that time. Pero pag hindi para talaga kayo para sa isat isa hindi ilalaan ni lord sayo. God will give you away para pakawalan mo ang taong sinaktan ka. Now i get married sa taong mahal na mahal ako at mahal na mahal ko 🥰 wait for the right time ❤
SA MGA ABANGERS JAN NG HINATI PART 3 TAAS KAMAY JAN MS. JAY SANA MAPANSIN MO PO NA MADAME KAMENG NAG AABANG LAGE NG UPLOAD NYO SANA PO LAGING MAY SUBTITLE
Sumakit dibdib ko dito. Yung iyak nya halatang masakit ang nararamdaman nya. I pray that this woman will find real happiness and peace in her heart. God bless po
LET GO ATE LET GO sinasaktan mo sarili mo you deserve better ate Sa Lord your precious comeback to him andoon ung totoong happiness wla po sa tao ang kaligayahan mo ate. Need mo lumapit ng councilor ate to motivate you for better and will equip person.
ang sakit nmn neto sa part ng babae, once a cheater is always a cheater...mag babago lang yan pag may nangyari na sknya na hnd maganda...pero ang panget nmn nun ipipilit mo pa yung sarili mo sa taong isinusuka ka na te, buo nga kayo ng pamilya mo pero patuloy ka prin nmn niloloko or lolokohin...
Ahh grabeng sakit..😭😭 ramdam ko kung anong sakit na lokohin ng taong mahal mo.. sana maging ok lang si ate.. at mga babaeng nasaktan ng dahil sa love😊😊 fight lang tayo..❤❤
I've been in this kind of situation...&super sakit😭😭😭but one thing I've learned is hwag mong ipagpilitan ang sarili sa taong ayaw na sayo....mas lalo Ka lng masasaktan...
Nagwork aq ng 10 yrs. Sa taiwan noon, my chinese filipino aq ka close. Nagkwento sya sa akin ung bff nya nya nkapatong sa asawa nya, nagkataon naiwan nya susi sa kwarto eh d ni lock un nahuli tuloy. Wag tiwala kht knino.
" nakakapagod magmahal "....😓😥 i feel you teh. Nakakapagod tlaga pg ginawa mo na lahat pro tini take for granted ka lng 😥😥. Mas mabuti pa walang partner kesa ganyan sakit lng sa ulo.
If u love someone set him free, if it is comeback it is yours if it doesnt it never was..pag binitawan mo siya ngayon someday mas marerealize mo na sana non mo pa ginawa mas luluwag pakiramdam mo mas masarap gumising at matulog ng walang heartaches... Gods always give us strength para malampasan mga pagsubok sa buhay. naranasan ko yan kaya relate ako.
"Binasahan ko noon, may jowa na ngayon" ang una kong napanood, ngiting ngiti pa ako sa mga reaksyon ni Ms. Jay. Tapos after ng ngiti ko napalitan ng iyak dahil sa video na'to. Marami talaga ako natutunan sa mga videos ni Ms. Jay, makikita mo talaga kung ano ang difference ng dalawang ate. Si ate na swerte sa pag-ibig at si ate naman bigo sa asawa.
I have the same principle in life as Miss Jay. I'd rather raise my kids fatherless than let them live a life where their father shows them that he chooses someone else over them, their mother and the life they have built together. Pero shempre to each his own. Karma is waiving. Ate be strong.
Yes ate u need to face or accept things for ur own sake, give ur self a respect..una s lahat kapit lng po with the help of the Lord, pra s mga anak mo, live ur life without ur husband
Relate ako rito. Pinsan ko rin maging kabit ng asawa ko noon. Pinakawalan ko na sya matagal na kasi ilang beses ko naisipang tumalon sa bldg ng tinirhang bahay ng mga amo ko dati. Yet nanaig ang takot ko sa Dios at awa sa mga anak kong dati ay maliliit pa na nasa pangangalaga ng mahal kong ina na nasa heaven na habang nag tatrabaho ako bilang isang OFW. Ate, nakipaghiwalay ako sa kanya kaysa ma stress at ma depress ako rito sa malayong bansa. Naging INA - TAY (INA TATAY) ako sa 4 kong mga anak na ni piso walang sustento. Sa Awa ng Dios lumaki sila ng maayos. 2 nalang ang college ko. Kaya lumaban ka Ate. Tama ang sinabi mi Madam Jay, di bale walang ama na makakasama ang anak mo kaysa tuloy2.ka nilang sasaktan. Happiness is our choice, so why not choose to be happy. First time ko nag comment. Nag subscribe ako dahil kay Idol Raffy. Amping Madam. God bless
Tama po...napaisip ako bkit lumapit p sya kay Miss jay kung gusto nia mgkaayos cla ng asawa nya.nasa asawa nya ang susi kung gusto talaga sya makasama masakit mangyare satin ang gnyan pero nasa lalake parin ang desisyon kung magbabago. kumpleto nga cla d nman sya masaya niloloko parin sya
I am a single mom and i felt the pain what you’re feeling ate. Focus on your kids especially on yourself. Tama na pagpapaka martyr kasi tayo dapat ang makitang strong ng mga anak natin dahil tayo ang nilo-look up nila. Be strong to let go. Yes masakit pero yun ang tama. Trust me, it will give you peace and a better life. Karma na ang sasalo sa kanila.
Same here, single parent wd 3kids nag loko cia at ang masakit nag karelasyon cla ng kumare ko.. pero hnd pala yun ang unang pag tataksil niya.. nakipag hiwalay ako sa kanya at duon ko nalaman na mayroong siyang anak na 1yr lng ang pagitan ng anak nmin.. kaya nag kakaroon ako ng instuition na nag loloko cia kaya lng wala ako evidencia.. to cut the story short napag tagumpayan ko sa awa ng Panginoon.. ngaun ang balita ko sa kanya lugmok cia pero pinatawad ko na cia.. sa ngaun happily married na ako..
Super relate po ako dyan. Nakakapagod magmahal at umunawa sa taong sarili lang ang inuunawa. Tama ka po Ms. Jay, mahalin muna natin ang sarili natin. Mas kailangan tayo ng ating mga anak. More power po sa inyo Ms. Jay. And always keep safe po. Marami pa po kayong matutulungan 🥰😍😘
Tama mas mgnda msktan ka ng husto at makalaya kna. Kysa magksma nga kyo. N niloloko. M. Lng nmn sarili m kht mskit na paulit ulit nlng. Wag e reason na kelamgn para sa anak kht wlang tatay anak m. Atleast masya kna wla ng skit Huhai naawa ako ky ate subra ramdam ko sakit lahat tayo nagmamahal Pero kong minahal. M. Nga cia tpos pilitin m. Tanggapin mksma lng at buo pamilya pero ikaw nmn nasasaktan at maalala. M. Mkita m. Ang Tao kasma m. Katabi m. Sa pagtulog na ginago kna. Panu ka mging masya na ang puso. Mo. Puno ng glit at skiit ako mas piliin ko masktan at magdusa hanggat sa matanggap ko na wla. N tlga kmi kysa paulit ulit nlng at mksma m. Pa. Sa buhay diosko. Mhrap tanggapn mwla ang isang Tao n mhal m. Ng subra pero kong gnyn lmg din piliin ko nlng msktan at makalaya na.
YOU DONT BEG FOR LOVE, LOVE IS GIVEN FREELY WITH OPEN MIND AND HEART...BUT IF THINGS DONT WORK OUT ANYMORE NO MATTER HOW YOU TRIED... LET IT GO, THERE'S NO USE OF HOLDING ON AND BELIEVING THOSE THINGS YOU USED TO BELIEVE IN... TIME CHANGED SO WITH PEOPLE ... FOR NOW, JUST FEEL THE PAIN ,I KNOW ITS NOT EASY😭 BUT ITS JUST A MATTER OF TIME... TIME HEALS ALL WOUNDS🙏 JUST KEEP HOLDING ON AND PRAY ATE, I KNOW YOU'LL GET THROUGH THESE💪💪💪
Let go of the past Wala ng respito partner mo sayo kaya magtira ka na lang ng respito sa sarili mo,ibuhos mo ang iyong buhay sa iyong mga anak at wag kalimutang magdasal at makakamit mo ang pagmamahal na walang hanggan
Sobrang tiwala ko kay miss jay costura sobra naniniwala ako na kaisa isa syang physic na tunay at totoo manghuhula sa pilipinas...i love u po miss jay ....
"Everyone deserves a second chance" its true but not to the point of being martyr. Its still not healthy. What's the use of giving him second chance for the sake that your kid will have a father if he's not into you anymore?...Im not judging her its her decision but I hope she also finds it in her heart to let go and learn how to love herself.
Ilang beses kana pala niloko..ngayon alam niyo na...pakawalan mona si mr... Mababaliw ka niyan.. Ma depress ka...... Kaya mo nman sarili mo buhayin.... Bitawan mo na yan...... Kisa mgsama kayu.. Iba nman sa isip ng mr m0...
ate,huwag niyo pong isakripisyo ang feelings ng anak niyo sa nararamdaman mo towards ur partner...mismo anak niyo na po ang gusto mag let go kasi nasasaktan na po sila...tinotorture niyo po anak niyo ate...huwag niyo po iparamdam sa anak niyo ang sakit na iyong nararamdaman... how sad naman
Ate kaya mo yan, yakapin mo ang lahat ng pain ramdam ko yung situation mo na pinagkaisahan. Ikaw pabumohay sa kanila. 3yrs din ako nagluksa sa sakit oo andon yung mahal mo ang tao. Peru kung ginawa muna lahat ate lahat ng energy mo magdasal ka ky lord ipaubaya mo sa kanya lahat. Dati nilapit ko ky lord ang nararamdaman ko kasi halos mamatay na ako sa lahat oneday pag gising ko biglang lumiwanag ang buhay ko. Gumaan ang puso at isipan. At ngayon masaya na ako pinatawad ko ang mga taong nagkasala sa akin ito ako ngayon masaya na ang buhay at nakahanap na din ako ng bago.
move on n ate! there’s still plenty of fish in the sea.. let go of that man, he dont deserve your love!.. d n yan mgbago. listen to Ms Jay’s advice she’s absolutely right.. galing mg advice n Miss Jay pwd gawing LOVE GURO.
u deserve to be happy coz u have a good heart, pray hard...ask God for His guidance whatever decision u'll choose to make hope for the best, try to move on if the guy is not worth loving for, think for the better future of ur children, maybe someday the right men will come along the way! i've always admire how ms jay costura give advice with compassion on her clients, sincere thoughts whatever come across to her mind...goodluck and God bless!
We can give MILLION chances and more but not everyone deserves it. If by giving another chance you lose yourself, then let go. You deserve more because you are worthy to be loved and cared for the way you give yourself up wholeheartedly. I pray for your healing and that you gain more strength and courage to understand everything.
11yrs kami ng tatay ng anak ko...ilan beses niya ako niloloko i was forgive him dahil ayoko ma broke ang family namin at diko kaya mawala siya sa buhay ko dahil mahal ko siya at pamilya nmin...nag dasal ako walang tigil na kaka dasal ate alam mo po dinasal ko di magbago ang asawa ang dinasal ko kay lord mawala lahat ng pagmamahal ko sa kanya and one day i wake up diko na siya mahal na pagod na ako...kaya ate un po ang ipagdasal ninyo po...sana malagpasan ninyo po ang depression sobrang hirap ramdam po kita ate... 😭😭😭
tz ngayon narealize mo na sobrang tanga mo sa part na pilit mong binubuo yung pamilya mo para lang sa isang walang kwentang lalake. db? goods yan te naka move on ka na.
Makakahelp po s atin ang pagbabasa ng bibliya like psalms at proverbs para s mga taong nakasakit s atin huwag po natin gayahin ginwa s atin ang Lord ang kikilos pra s atin magtiwla lang s kanya
My god. Ansakit... Ipatulfo mo ate... At huwag mong pagbigyan just incase humingi ng annulment si mister para makabawi ka naman kahit papaano. Kawawa ang mga anak ninyo.
Dios ko po humihiling po Ako lord, Tulongan mo nman c ate sa harap ni madam Aj,Sobrang naiyak 😢Ako sa story ni ate, Ina dn Ako. Prayers lang tayo lagi KY God Ate, Wg tayo bibitaw, pgsubok lng lng Yan, God bless you always
Girl u want him 4ever ? Lumpuhin mo sya...other side of a coin parang mas Mahal mo asawa mo kysa sa mga anak mo..parang gusto mo lng ipakita sa pinsan mo na ikaw ang magwawagi at the end...but your in a wrong move girl.
Napakasakit😢 but if i were ate, i will leave and live my life with love for children and let the other woman think she wins. Alam nmn natin na may karma, wrong relationship will always end up wrong. Not easy ofcourse pero kaya yan with faith in God.
Tama saka oo Hindi madali Pero mas isip nya Anak niya. Sa una masakit madaming mag judge at advice Hindi talaga pakikinggan it's hard Sa una but slowly ma okay din
Agree! Mukhang pera lang ang habol sa kanya ni lalake. Kung talagang mahal ka niya ate hihingi yan ng tawad sayo pero anong ginawa? Nilayasan ka at ikaw pa itong naghahabol na parang kasalanan mo pa. Gising ate! Di mo deserve ang toxic relationship. Move on! "You'll be mad at yourself a year later for staying when things are not better." - Oprah Winfrey
Ate, You dont need to tell anybody na completo kayo.. tama c miss Jay.. di mo deserve yan po.. very soon ma open up ka sin sa situation mo.. remember. nasa huli ang pagsisi ate,,
Once a man tells you "You are cheating on me, you have another guy" it means he his afraid that you will do the same thing on him.... Woman should not bow on man, only to God. Wag maging martir.. Hiwalayan agad, having a child is not an excuse to stay in that kind of relationship. 🤧
Bago lang ako nka panood nito pero nagustuhan q agad ang mga episode nyo . Lalo n itong topic na to relate much ako dito ..ate mag isip k ng mabuti ...love your self God is be with you.🙂
I'm praying that the husband is just discontented, gaya ng sinabi ni ate, at hindi na-fall out of love. Kasi ang discontentment; maayos pa 'yan e, mapupunuan pa. But, falling out of love is a firm choice. Sobrang scary ng buhay, one-day we'll realize nalang na falling out love is just part of a cycle called life. Sending love and support kay Ate💕
Love yourself first before other's. Sa ngayon panahon, mahirap tlaga mgtiwala sa isang tao. Lalo sa kmag anak at sa ibang tao. Bakit uso ngayon ang third party, buti na lng hndi ko sinagot ang ex bf ko mgpakasal sa knya. Yung lalaki may sekreto sayo, talagang kusang malalaman mo. Ksi prang gnagabayan ka sa taas na mlalaman mo ang lahat, pra pag dating sa panahon hindi ka magsisi. Kya lge ko pnag dasal sa panginoon na gbayan ako sa araw-araw. Ngayn focus ako sa sarili ko. Bhala maging matandang dalaga ako,. Bsta ako peace of mind at happy to be single.
i cant help myself from crying while watching this video. i can feel the pain that the wife is going through. Praying that she will have the LOVE that she truly deserve. Just Keep on PRAYING to GOD. Godbless Ms Jay.. Thank you for ur inspiring videos... NOSTRANATICS here...
Ate napapagod kng mg mahal pro bakit ka mgpakatanga? Pano kng ikaw ang bibigay dmo kakayanin dahil lng s pangarap mong buong pamilya which is malabo na, isipin mo karibal mo 24 yrs.old?syempre un ang pipiliin nya ate
Some people believe holding on and hanging in there are signs of great strength. However, there are times when it takes much more strength to know when to let go and then do it.
WHEN PEOPLE CAN WALK AWAY FROM U LET THEM WALK! YOUR DESTINY IS NEVER TIED TO ANYBODY THAT LEFT! DO NOT TRY TO TALK ANOTHER PERSON INTO STAYING WITH U, LOVING U, CALLING U, STAYING ATTACHED TO U! PEOPLE LEAVE U BECAUSE THEY ARE NOT JOINED TO U. AND IF THEY ARE NOT JOINED TO U, YOU CANNOT MAKE THEM STAY! LET THEM GO!!! YOUVE GOT TO KNOW WHEN ITS DEAD YOUVE GOT TO KNOW WHEN ITS OVER STOP BEGGING PEOPLE TO STAY LET THEM GO!!!
Ramdam na ramdam ko yung sakit na nararamdaman ni ate😭 ate let go mona kahit sobrang hirap ako nga 10yrs di ko kaya na mawala siya kahit paulit ulit nakong ginagago pero sinabi ko sa sarili ko na di kona deserve ung ganito then one day ibigay kona lang kay lord lahat ng pain unti unti nakong naging okay halos lahat ng kaibigan ko pamilya ko tuwang tuwa na naka recover ako sa past ko.Kapit lang ate pray lang 🙏🏻
#inaymaria a.k.a Mary Ann Faustino victoria yung nanay nanayan ni Toni Fowler at yung girl na sinasabi niya is Toni fowler minanas mukha kaya nagparetoke tapos iniingatan daw ang anak.
Everything happens for a reason. Cry all you want now after that move on and happiness will reign in your life. Let him go. Don't be a martyr maam. You don't deserve this kind of pain. Your children will give you the happiness you deserve.
@@floramansueto1077 tama po kayo cguro s mga panahon n ganyan wala nkikilalang iba si ateh kya focus nia lang s asawa nya pero kung meron man siguro matagal nia ng pinakawalan asawa nya
I feel your pain girl. God is on your side. Jay is right that you dont deserve these kind of ppl in your life. God is on your side. Leave the rest to Him.
Ate Adviced Lang po once a cheater always a cheater. Tama si miss Jay Hnd mo deserve masaktan. Pag usapan mong Mabuti ang pag bibigay ng second chance sa asawa mo.
I remember when I'm at the same situation of ate, I give everything to him but still he cheated on me but thanks God I manage to let him go. yes it's difficult because he is my world but when he said to me to leave him alone and he is happy to his woman I realize that I need to give up. what is the sense of fighting when your partner didn't want to stay. I'm still grateful that I have to kids to step forward and move on and I have my family to support me. at least I try my best to understand and fight for my love. thanks Ms Jay for this video, I felt the pain of ate but I know she will overcome that💜💜💜
I've been in that situation not once but twice so hard really hard but at the end of the day you have to survive not only for your self but for you children's through prayers be strong ate 🙏
Ito ung mas masakit kc pamilya mo mismo sisira ng buhay mo, At inalaagan mo sakit subra . God bless you ate isipin mo khit gaano kasakit hndi ikaw nawalan kundi mr. Mo pkatatag ka po,. Alam ko mhirap piro kaya mo yan😊😘
Only I can say ms jay “Paubaya”🙏🙏 so sad 😞 god knows why this happened to her “everything happened to a reason” “Malay mo after this happened Mas May higit pa guy with the good heart darating sayo “just pray and faith to god 🙏
Minsan kinakalabit na tayo ng Panginoon eh. Minsan tinatapik na tayo at pinioigilan o pinapakita na sa atin ang sitwasyon pero madalas pinipilit pa rin natin ang gusto natin when it should be “Lord, your will be done.”. I pray for your complete healing ate. 🙏🏼
That cry feels like miserable, and it's so sad.. Been through tears just like melting in pain. But prayer is everything. And the courage to let go, will even more put you in the right place. I am now more than happy than I was before when I decided to let go. And another thing, tama ka Ms. Jay! Ang lalaki nman would never make a move unless nilandi, nagbigay ng motibo at nagpa impress at nilason ang Isip ng lalaki. I felt exactly how that pain she feels, but she can relax easy.. kasi karma is real! Hindi man eksakto yun reason ng pain, but karma strikes in many ways. Lalo na sa ganong kapait na luha.
Always choose to be happy with or without that person. Love yourself more coz you will never be enough for that kind of person. Don't make your children as excuse to be with that person. I myself grew up witnessing a horible relationship of our parents. They stayed and lived together for their children's sake. Me and my siblings has been praying na mghiwalay nlng sila. Pero never nangyari. This caused unresolve issues sa akin and I am continously battling with my inner demons. I am living with chronic depression and suicidal thoughts since I was 10. Lately, nag open-up ako sa close friends ko and siblings and I was shocked that my sisters too have the same mental health issues. 💔 Sa mga mothers out there, kahit di kayo sinasaktan physically eh hindi na kayo inaabuso. Abuse comes in other/different forms. My father is abusing my mother psychologically, financially, and emotionally while my mother is just a willing victim! Wag tularan. Be brave enough to let go for your children's sake.
This happen to me. And my child is beghing me to let go of her father. Knowing na nromal sa pinky ang buo ang pamilya at ito ang tama i stayed. Pero i guess theres a time na marerealize mo na di na talaga tama. And letting go is the best answer. If a peroson love someone he/she will not hurt the other one instead they will help eachnother grow.
you can choose your decisions but you cannot choose your consequences. May our dear Heavenly Father comfort you ate esp.in this time na kailangan moh ang Guidance NIYA.
I been a broken relationship I gave All my best just to protect the family I build but my partner surrender everything.i think God gave me a chance to stand again on my way I my happiness...yes everybody deserve a second chance until I found a man a real man. Loves me and my kids... Ate kaya mo yan lahat iikot Ang sitwasyon we done need sacrificing for the man not deserve us.we need to he happy also not only the kids we had erase the love we gave to that person cause gods know how we love how much we gave the love . Kaya mo yan te. The more oain we had the more tayong nasusurvive and nagiging powerful..hod is always us.just hold on your kids and Gods heart
i feel u ate.... be happy ate.. u deserve to be love....acceptance is the key.ipakita mo na kaya mong tumayo ng ikaw lng.. u can find happiness n your children
Sakit sa dibdib ang episode nato. Ramdam mo tlga ang pain ni ate sa pag iyak nya. I wish you all with the happiness and thanks for sharing your story. God bless!
One of the hardest story that i've ever watched😭😭it's really heartbreaking for ate to sacrifice everything just for the sake of her family be strong ate God is always with u and ur family
Grabehhhh sa mga iyak pa lng nya tulo na luha ko, lalo pa akng napagulhol nung cnab nya kay Ms Jay na gusto nyang yakapin. Ohhh my goshhh, d ko napigilan sarili ko. Ang saaaakittttt saaaaakkkittttt😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭
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Alway po ako nanunuod ng mga videos neo mam jay ..
hello po ms jay sana makita ko po kiya sa personal , at mabasahan mo rin ako ❣️❣️❣️❣️
We love u miss Jay.
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Attendance tayo.
Mga supporters at nagmamahal kay Miss Jay.
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Present po ako jn
abnormal ka sa subra mo pagmamahal mo sa asawa ikw nabuang na sa pagmamahal nya hahhha gurl move on kana kasi niloko ka lang nya pa ulit ulit
@@esteladompor8050 wala papo akong asawa either jowa sorry HAHAHA .
@@esteladompor8050 saka wala pong nanloloko saki'n kaya dko po need mag moveon. Mahal po kita hahaha
@@ronerjosephantonio2842 ♥️♥️
sino po dito while watching nagbabsa ng mga comments same here may aral din makuha sa mga videos ni Ms Jay baguhan palang po ako dito sobrang afik na ako araw Gabi pinapanuofkona in Jesus name Amen Mag ingat kayo palagi Ms Jay.sana marami kapa matulungan na mga Tao
“The pain you have been feeling can't compare to the joy that is coming.” - Romans 8:18
Amen!...
Amen 💖👍👌
Amen🙏
Amen
Amen!
Never Beg for a friendship or a relationship with anyone．If you don't receive the same efforts you give, cut them off...
Sana ganon kadali
INDEED
Big check
I feel the heartache of ate.
My husband once told me that his co workers keep on bugging him to some girls. That time me and my daughter is away. And he said this " how can i replace my wife and my daughter for some girl for lust?? Mag kamay na lang daw siya. And it hit me that no matter na malayo kami o malapit if your partner will cheat on you he will cheat. And i love my husband so much. Dahil kami ng anak ko ang mundo niya.
Everyone deserves a second chance. But give that to the people who is willing to do anything for that second chance.❤️
Agree po
agree ako jan ate 😊
Agree💯%
True.
Be wise for giving second chances, based on my experience hindi po naging maganda yung result kaya eto ako ngayon sobrang nasasaktan. 😢
Ate maawa ka naman sa sarili mo, at sa mga anak mo. Masyado ka naman sinauna ate. Respeto sa sarili mo, kahit gusto mo kung yong sarili mong asawa,wala ng malasakit sayo. Manindigan ka naman! Hindi lang naman ikaw ang nagkaganyan! Alisin mo na ang pagka madrama mo,mahalin mo sarili mo para sa mga anak mo. Hindi lang sau nangyari na trinaydor ng minahal,kinupkop kasama sa trials mo in life, kaya mo yan, hindi yan ebibigay sau ng Tadhana kung hindi mo kaya. Pakatibay ka! Damihan ng dasal sa Dios. Pagmamahal sa Dios ang pinakamatibay,hindi mula sa tao,kaakibat ng pagmamahal sa tao ay pasakit.
Masakit man Pero Tama lahat ang sinabi mo.IKA nga,DO NOT BEG FOR LOVE at KNOW YOUR WORTH.
Totoo never beg for any mans love or bow down to any man kahit asawa mu pa yan. Women Empowerment!
indeed....
nabuisit ako..useless lang ang advice sa kanya kung pinapairal nya ang kahinaan nya! hay naku
Tama ung advise sa kanya kung ang guy na fall out of love nah e let go mu tlg kasi imbalance na yong love sa family nila. At sa anak nya magtatanim ng puot sa puso yon gawa ng nakikita nya mama nya na nasasaktan. Magka depression din ang bata. Lalaking puno ng puot sa ama nya.
Such a selfless love ❤️
No one deserves to sleep at night, thinking they're not enough 💔
💔💔💔
Korek kajan sis. Ramdam ko ung sakit na nararamdaman ni ate. 😢
The real evidence was finally proven in the hands of Ms. Jay Costura !
Kudos to you Ms. Jay
Root of all heatbreaks is because you choose the person who does not choose you.
CoRrect Po
Let him.go ate kaya mo yun
Single mom din ako at nandito pa ako sa abroad nong nagkaroon ng iba ang X ko, it helps yung seminar sa OWWA sa pag conditioned ko sa isip ko na i have to expect the unexpected and expect the worst situation that i might encounter, ma pa pamilya man or ma pa trabaho. It motivated me a lot to get over the pain and the stress. Sobrang sakit nyan ate, tapos yung lahat ng mali sayo binabagsak. Pero huwag mo kalimutan na ikaw yung asawa mo, at si higit sa lahat ang DYOS ang nakakaalam ng lahat ng katotohanan at lahat ng bagay na nangyayare at pinagdadaanan mo. Lift it all up to God. Sa kanya ka sumandal sa kanya ka humingi ng patnubay at gabay. And believe me ate magi get over mo yan. Hindi ang pagtitiis at pagtatago ang makakalutas nyan. Kundi ang pag let go, ang pagtanggap ng sitwasyon. At pag realize ng worth mo as a mother as a woman. At ang pag move on ang makakatulong sayo for you to he better again. For you to be happy. Mahirap ang proseso pero believe me it is worthy.
Agree ako says mam
Second chance deserves for someone who deserves it...
Giving second, third chance to someone who doesn't deserve it will ALWAYS squander that chance..
Learn to give respect to yourself..
Yeah, a womanizer is always a womanizer.
I remember myself kay ate. Nasa taiwan yunh ex ko sinundan ko para magmakaawa dahil mahal na mahal ko sya that time. Pero pag hindi para talaga kayo para sa isat isa hindi ilalaan ni lord sayo. God will give you away para pakawalan mo ang taong sinaktan ka. Now i get married sa taong mahal na mahal ako at mahal na mahal ko 🥰 wait for the right time ❤
SA MGA ABANGERS JAN NG HINATI PART 3 TAAS KAMAY JAN
MS. JAY SANA MAPANSIN MO PO NA MADAME KAMENG NAG AABANG LAGE NG UPLOAD NYO SANA PO LAGING MAY SUBTITLE
Same here lagi ko comment yan part 3 ng hinati hope ma upload na
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True po pag may part na hnd maintindhan dpat po may subtitle
BAKA NEXT YEAR NA....YUN PA NAMAN INAABANGAN KO
Pati yung dugo
Grave nmang pgmamahal yan ate nkakaloka..martyr lang ang peg
Sumakit dibdib ko dito. Yung iyak nya halatang masakit ang nararamdaman nya. I pray that this woman will find real happiness and peace in her heart. God bless po
True ramdam ko din sa mga hikbi plng nya nppaiyak din ako kc naranasan ko ding mabigo at lokohin
You don't deserve the love that comes back ate, You deserve the love that STAYS 😭😭😭
A cheater is always a cheater 💯
Kisses Its that you ☺️☺️💜
Sakit
Hindi rin ako naniniwala s kasabihang once a cheater always a cheater, pwede nmng natukso lng sya at pag nag bago sya di nya n un uulitin
@@um_Ali4467 agree 👍.
People have chance to change naman. .. ❣️❣️ my pag asa pa para magbago. ❣️❣️❣️❣️👍🥰
LET GO ATE LET GO sinasaktan mo sarili mo you deserve better ate Sa Lord your precious comeback to him andoon ung totoong happiness wla po sa tao ang kaligayahan mo ate. Need mo lumapit ng councilor ate to motivate you for better and will equip person.
ang sakit nmn neto sa part ng babae, once a cheater is always a cheater...mag babago lang yan pag may nangyari na sknya na hnd maganda...pero ang panget nmn nun ipipilit mo pa yung sarili mo sa taong isinusuka ka na te, buo nga kayo ng pamilya mo pero patuloy ka prin nmn niloloko or lolokohin...
Totoo, sana maisip din nya na hindi lang sya ang naloko dito, pati yung anak nila.
Break na nya un kc uulitin yan parin.
@ ice Asia nakakabaliw napagdaanan q din to...pinsan q din sumira sa pamilyang binuo q
Yaan nyu..yung mga babaeng ganyan..yung kaluluwa nila..alam na nila dapat kung saan papunta pag namatay na cla..Hades lang ang kalalagyan nila..
I know someone na babaero may nangyare na nga sa knyang di maganda pero ganun pa din. Di nadadala. Kapal mg mukha
I feel the pain of the woman. . Magpakatatag po kayo. . Just call the name of the "Lord",and shout your pain unto Him and you'll be Healed!amen!
Ungpatulfo mismo kpatid nya inahas ung asawa nya. Oh no.pinsan pa kaya.
Ahh grabeng sakit..😭😭 ramdam ko kung anong sakit na lokohin ng taong mahal mo.. sana maging ok lang si ate.. at mga babaeng nasaktan ng dahil sa love😊😊 fight lang tayo..❤❤
I've been in this kind of situation...&super sakit😭😭😭but one thing I've learned is hwag mong ipagpilitan ang sarili sa taong ayaw na sayo....mas lalo Ka lng masasaktan...
Nagwork aq ng 10 yrs. Sa taiwan noon, my chinese filipino aq ka close. Nagkwento sya sa akin ung bff nya nya nkapatong sa asawa nya, nagkataon naiwan nya susi sa kwarto eh d ni lock un nahuli tuloy. Wag tiwala kht knino.
Same tau sobrang sakit ung lokohin ka danas ko.din paano lokohin
" nakakapagod magmahal "....😓😥
i feel you teh. Nakakapagod tlaga pg ginawa mo na lahat pro tini take for granted ka lng 😥😥. Mas mabuti pa walang partner kesa ganyan sakit lng sa ulo.
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13:39 Grabe nangyare History repeats by itself. Nangyare sa mga lolat lolo tapos nangyare sa apo. Kasaklap,,,,☹️☹️☹️
If u love someone set him free, if it is comeback it is yours if it doesnt it never was..pag binitawan mo siya ngayon someday mas marerealize mo na sana non mo pa ginawa mas luluwag pakiramdam mo mas masarap gumising at matulog ng walang heartaches... Gods always give us strength para malampasan mga pagsubok sa buhay. naranasan ko yan kaya relate ako.
Agree sis. Relate much
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GRABE ANG SAKIT NAMAN NANG SINAPIT MO! YOU DON'T DESERVE THAT KIND OF TREATMENT! CHEER UP ATE! I'LL PRAY FOR YOUR HARMONIOUS LIFE🥺❤️
"Binasahan ko noon, may jowa na ngayon" ang una kong napanood, ngiting ngiti pa ako sa mga reaksyon ni Ms. Jay. Tapos after ng ngiti ko napalitan ng iyak dahil sa video na'to.
Marami talaga ako natutunan sa mga videos ni Ms. Jay, makikita mo talaga kung ano ang difference ng dalawang ate. Si ate na swerte sa pag-ibig at si ate naman bigo sa asawa.
I have the same principle in life as Miss Jay. I'd rather raise my kids fatherless than let them live a life where their father shows them that he chooses someone else over them, their mother and the life they have built together.
Pero shempre to each his own. Karma is waiving. Ate be strong.
Wag mag paka martyer, time welcome maka move on ka narin.
Yes ate u need to face or accept things for ur own sake, give ur self a respect..una s lahat kapit lng po with the help of the Lord, pra s mga anak mo, live ur life without ur husband
"Ang dami-dami kong problema pero hindi nya hinahawakan ang kamay ko" 😭😭😭😭 ang sakit ate
Relate ako diyan.
Relate ako rito. Pinsan ko rin maging kabit ng asawa ko noon. Pinakawalan ko na sya matagal na kasi ilang beses ko naisipang tumalon sa bldg ng tinirhang bahay ng mga amo ko dati. Yet nanaig ang takot ko sa Dios at awa sa mga anak kong dati ay maliliit pa na nasa pangangalaga ng mahal kong ina na nasa heaven na habang nag tatrabaho ako bilang isang OFW.
Ate, nakipaghiwalay ako sa kanya kaysa ma stress at ma depress ako rito sa malayong bansa. Naging INA - TAY (INA TATAY) ako sa 4 kong mga anak na ni piso walang sustento. Sa Awa ng Dios lumaki sila ng maayos. 2 nalang ang college ko. Kaya lumaban ka Ate. Tama ang sinabi mi Madam Jay, di bale walang ama na makakasama ang anak mo kaysa tuloy2.ka nilang sasaktan. Happiness is our choice, so why not choose to be happy.
First time ko nag comment. Nag subscribe ako dahil kay Idol Raffy. Amping Madam. God bless
IREGALO MO SA SARILI MO ANG MAKALAYA SA SITWASYONG HINDI MO DESERVE!!
Tama po...napaisip ako bkit lumapit p sya kay Miss jay kung gusto nia mgkaayos cla ng asawa nya.nasa asawa nya ang susi kung gusto talaga sya makasama masakit mangyare satin ang gnyan pero nasa lalake parin ang desisyon kung magbabago. kumpleto nga cla d nman sya masaya niloloko parin sya
Tama po mahalin mo muna ang sarili mo at surrender to our almighty God.
I am a single mom and i felt the pain what you’re feeling ate. Focus on your kids especially on yourself. Tama na pagpapaka martyr kasi tayo dapat ang makitang strong ng mga anak natin dahil tayo ang nilo-look up nila. Be strong to let go. Yes masakit pero yun ang tama. Trust me, it will give you peace and a better life. Karma na ang sasalo sa kanila.
Same here, single parent wd 3kids nag loko cia at ang masakit nag karelasyon cla ng kumare ko.. pero hnd pala yun ang unang pag tataksil niya.. nakipag hiwalay ako sa kanya at duon ko nalaman na mayroong siyang anak na 1yr lng ang pagitan ng anak nmin.. kaya nag kakaroon ako ng instuition na nag loloko cia kaya lng wala ako evidencia.. to cut the story short napag tagumpayan ko sa awa ng Panginoon.. ngaun ang balita ko sa kanya lugmok cia pero pinatawad ko na cia.. sa ngaun happily married na ako..
Ayaw npo yun sayo ate mahirap pagpinilit mo p yun sayo lalo k lang po masasaktan ate .
Super relate po ako dyan. Nakakapagod magmahal at umunawa sa taong sarili lang ang inuunawa. Tama ka po Ms. Jay, mahalin muna natin ang sarili natin. Mas kailangan tayo ng ating mga anak. More power po sa inyo Ms. Jay. And always keep safe po. Marami pa po kayong matutulungan 🥰😍😘
truth... hurts
yes, forgiveness is love
letting go is acceptance
being strong is loving yourself
Your right i agree
@@ardyisipka-tropapips6593 i agree
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I agree
hello po sainyu.... 👋👋👋 kmusta po kau? and nice meeting u here❤🙏
SOMETIMES WE NEED TO LET GO IF THE PERSON HURT YOU SO MUCH.. MAHIRAP KUMAPIT SA TAONG AYAW NANG KUMAPIT,
Tama Po Kayo
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Tama mas mgnda msktan ka ng husto at makalaya kna. Kysa magksma nga kyo. N niloloko. M. Lng nmn sarili m kht mskit na paulit ulit nlng. Wag e reason na kelamgn para sa anak kht wlang tatay anak m. Atleast masya kna wla ng skit
Huhai naawa ako ky ate subra ramdam ko sakit lahat tayo nagmamahal
Pero kong minahal. M. Nga cia tpos pilitin m. Tanggapin mksma lng at buo pamilya pero ikaw nmn nasasaktan at maalala. M. Mkita m. Ang Tao kasma m. Katabi m. Sa pagtulog na ginago kna. Panu ka mging masya na ang puso. Mo. Puno ng glit at skiit ako mas piliin ko masktan at magdusa hanggat sa matanggap ko na wla. N tlga kmi kysa paulit ulit nlng at mksma m. Pa. Sa buhay diosko. Mhrap tanggapn mwla ang isang Tao n mhal m. Ng subra pero kong gnyn lmg din piliin ko nlng msktan at makalaya na.
Panahon ang maniningil sa ginawa nila
Prayer is powerful ate. Just give to God. Everything.
YOU DONT BEG FOR LOVE,
LOVE IS GIVEN FREELY WITH OPEN MIND AND HEART...BUT
IF THINGS DONT WORK OUT ANYMORE NO MATTER HOW YOU TRIED... LET IT GO, THERE'S NO USE OF HOLDING ON AND BELIEVING THOSE THINGS YOU USED TO BELIEVE IN... TIME CHANGED SO WITH PEOPLE ...
FOR NOW, JUST FEEL THE
PAIN ,I KNOW ITS NOT EASY😭
BUT ITS JUST A MATTER OF TIME...
TIME HEALS ALL WOUNDS🙏
JUST KEEP HOLDING ON AND PRAY ATE, I KNOW YOU'LL GET THROUGH THESE💪💪💪
Nice comnent😊
8 years nyang tiniis..sobrang martir or lets say (sorry for the word)katangahan na yan.
I agree 100%.you don’t beg for love,
Saket saket
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Let go of the past Wala ng respito partner mo sayo kaya magtira ka na lang ng respito sa sarili mo,ibuhos mo ang iyong buhay sa iyong mga anak at wag kalimutang magdasal at makakamit mo ang pagmamahal na walang hanggan
Sobrang tiwala ko kay miss jay costura sobra naniniwala ako na kaisa isa syang physic na tunay at totoo manghuhula sa pilipinas...i love u po miss jay ....
"Everyone deserves a second chance" its true but not to the point of being martyr. Its still not healthy. What's the use of giving him second chance for the sake that your kid will have a father if he's not into you anymore?...Im not judging her its her decision but I hope she also finds it in her heart to let go and learn how to love herself.
true....
Same thought here..
Martyr still exists in this darn age? 🤔🤔🤔
Tama
Katangahan na yan. Kahit ba binaboy ka na bigyan pa ng second chance?
Ilang beses kana pala niloko..ngayon alam niyo na...pakawalan mona si mr... Mababaliw ka niyan.. Ma depress ka......
Kaya mo nman sarili mo buhayin.... Bitawan mo na yan......
Kisa mgsama kayu.. Iba nman sa isip ng mr m0...
you can't force someone to stay when they already choose to leave you .. self respect lng po ate no need to beg .. love yourself ..
Agreed
ate,huwag niyo pong isakripisyo ang feelings ng anak niyo sa nararamdaman mo towards ur partner...mismo anak niyo na po ang gusto mag let go kasi nasasaktan na po sila...tinotorture niyo po anak niyo ate...huwag niyo po iparamdam sa anak niyo ang sakit na iyong nararamdaman... how sad naman
Ate kaya mo yan, yakapin mo ang lahat ng pain ramdam ko yung situation mo na pinagkaisahan. Ikaw pabumohay sa kanila. 3yrs din ako nagluksa sa sakit oo andon yung mahal mo ang tao. Peru kung ginawa muna lahat ate lahat ng energy mo magdasal ka ky lord ipaubaya mo sa kanya lahat. Dati nilapit ko ky lord ang nararamdaman ko kasi halos mamatay na ako sa lahat oneday pag gising ko biglang lumiwanag ang buhay ko. Gumaan ang puso at isipan. At ngayon masaya na ako pinatawad ko ang mga taong nagkasala sa akin ito ako ngayon masaya na ang buhay at nakahanap na din ako ng bago.
move on n ate! there’s still plenty of fish in the sea.. let go of that man, he dont deserve your love!.. d n yan mgbago. listen to Ms Jay’s advice she’s absolutely right.. galing mg advice n Miss Jay pwd gawing LOVE GURO.
u deserve to be happy coz u have a good heart, pray hard...ask God for His guidance whatever decision u'll choose to make hope for the best, try to move on if the guy is not worth loving for, think for the better future of ur children, maybe someday the right men will come along the way!
i've always admire how ms jay costura give advice with compassion on her clients, sincere thoughts whatever come across to her mind...goodluck and God bless!
ang sakit grabii 😭 thank you miss jay Godbless po
Ang inilalaban ate yung dapat ipaglaban..Nagbabago ang tao kung gusto niya..Hindi yan magbabago dahil lang sa iyo ate.
We can give MILLION chances and more but not everyone deserves it. If by giving another chance you lose yourself, then let go. You deserve more because you are worthy to be loved and cared for the way you give yourself up wholeheartedly. I pray for your healing and that you gain more strength and courage to understand everything.
This. I badly need this right now. Thanks for this, Ate! ❤️
@@faithdevelunza9253 You’ll get through your storm, brave heart ♥️ You’re welcome! Praying for you! ✨🙏🏼
Love yourself ate. Give him lesson. Set him free. Someday marerealize nya yong worth mo.
Ang iyak ko sa istorya ni ate... tibayan mo ang loob mo kaya mo yan ate... lawakan mo pananaw mo ate....
11yrs kami ng tatay ng anak ko...ilan beses niya ako niloloko i was forgive him dahil ayoko ma broke ang family namin at diko kaya mawala siya sa buhay ko dahil mahal ko siya at pamilya nmin...nag dasal ako walang tigil na kaka dasal ate alam mo po dinasal ko di magbago ang asawa ang dinasal ko kay lord mawala lahat ng pagmamahal ko sa kanya and one day i wake up diko na siya mahal na pagod na ako...kaya ate un po ang ipagdasal ninyo po...sana malagpasan ninyo po ang depression sobrang hirap ramdam po kita ate... 😭😭😭
Relate much sis
tz ngayon narealize mo na sobrang tanga mo sa part na pilit mong binubuo yung pamilya mo para lang sa isang walang kwentang lalake. db? goods yan te naka move on ka na.
Jasmine same tayo..yan din pinagdasal ko n sana mawala n pagmamahal ko sknya
Im suffering from depression now dahil sknya
Makakahelp po s atin ang pagbabasa ng bibliya like psalms at proverbs para s mga taong nakasakit s atin huwag po natin gayahin ginwa s atin ang Lord ang kikilos pra s atin magtiwla lang s kanya
Mahal mo pa din sya sis pero mas lumamang na un galit kaya mas ggustuhin mo na wala n lang sya kesa kasama mo.
My god. Ansakit... Ipatulfo mo ate... At huwag mong pagbigyan just incase humingi ng annulment si mister para makabawi ka naman kahit papaano. Kawawa ang mga anak ninyo.
hnd sila kasal yata,so anu isasampa ..ung habulin ung sustento lng ,ok na! db..hiwalayan na nya.
Dios ko po humihiling po Ako lord, Tulongan mo nman c ate sa harap ni madam Aj,Sobrang naiyak 😢Ako sa story ni ate, Ina dn Ako. Prayers lang tayo lagi KY God Ate, Wg tayo bibitaw, pgsubok lng lng Yan, God bless you always
Girl u want him 4ever ? Lumpuhin mo sya...other side of a coin parang mas Mahal mo asawa mo kysa sa mga anak mo..parang gusto mo lng ipakita sa pinsan mo na ikaw ang magwawagi at the end...but your in a wrong move girl.
Napakasakit😢 but if i were ate, i will leave and live my life with love for children and let the other woman think she wins. Alam nmn natin na may karma, wrong relationship will always end up wrong. Not easy ofcourse pero kaya yan with faith in God.
Un din ang napansin ko paulit ulit nia sinasabi pra sa mga anak nia ayaw png drechuhing di nia kyang mawala asawa nia dhil sobrang mhal nia to,,
Naku MARTIR!! Ikaw lang ang may gusto sa Kanya!
You will suffer Forever kundi ka kkalas sa ganyang klase ng Lalaki.
Tama saka oo Hindi madali Pero mas isip nya Anak niya. Sa una masakit madaming mag judge at advice Hindi talaga pakikinggan it's hard Sa una but slowly ma okay din
Wala gamot marter
Ako duha anak ko wala ama ako mg esa
Big YES!....MARTIR si ate...nawala n self respect nya
Agree! Mukhang pera lang ang habol sa kanya ni lalake.
Kung talagang mahal ka niya ate hihingi yan ng tawad sayo pero anong ginawa? Nilayasan ka at ikaw pa itong naghahabol na parang kasalanan mo pa. Gising ate! Di mo deserve ang toxic relationship. Move on!
"You'll be mad at yourself a year later for staying when things are not better." - Oprah Winfrey
Omg ramdam ko ang sakit na nararamdaman ni ate.. napaiyak talaga ako miss jay..😪ipaubaya mo kay Lord lahat ng sakit ate.kapit lang sa knya.
Naiyak ako 😭💕 “To survive the relationship that you have” 😭🙏
32:42 “Hanggang kaya pa laban lang” 💕🙏
Kung nasasaktan ka Ng dahil saknya , hnd mo na kailangan lumaban pa .
Ate, You dont need to tell anybody na completo kayo.. tama c miss Jay.. di mo deserve yan po.. very soon ma open up ka sin sa situation mo.. remember. nasa huli ang pagsisi ate,,
Grabe ahas ung babae at salamat sa katotohanan .Thanks miss Jay sa tulong God bless u.
Once a man tells you "You are cheating on me, you have another guy" it means he his afraid that you will do the same thing on him.... Woman should not bow on man, only to God. Wag maging martir.. Hiwalayan agad, having a child is not an excuse to stay in that kind of relationship. 🤧
So hurt😭😭
Hindi lahat,.. my mga iba't ibang sitwasyon bawat isa, 🥴
Bago lang ako nka panood nito pero nagustuhan q agad ang mga episode nyo . Lalo n itong topic na to relate much ako dito ..ate mag isip k ng mabuti ...love your self God is be with you.🙂
I'm praying that the husband is just discontented, gaya ng sinabi ni ate, at hindi na-fall out of love. Kasi ang discontentment; maayos pa 'yan e, mapupunuan pa. But, falling out of love is a firm choice. Sobrang scary ng buhay, one-day we'll realize nalang na falling out love is just part of a cycle called life. Sending love and support kay Ate💕
Mam, hnde po nya deserve ng second chance...Pride lang cguro nairal sa iyo, pero yung pambababoy na ginawa nya hinde pwedeng patawarin
Wow. NakakaHanga naman si Ate. Napakadalang ng ganyan ang opinton kase ako po parang diko kaya tanggapin kapag ganyan po. Kaya nakakaHanga po talaga.
MISTAKES ARE MEANT FOR LEARNING, NOT FOR REPEATING.
True! There is no use of the word "sorry" kung lalabas lng sa ilong tapos uulit nmn.
Tama ka po!!!
Love yourself first before other's. Sa ngayon panahon, mahirap tlaga mgtiwala sa isang tao. Lalo sa kmag anak at sa ibang tao. Bakit uso ngayon ang third party, buti na lng hndi ko sinagot ang ex bf ko mgpakasal sa knya. Yung lalaki may sekreto sayo, talagang kusang malalaman mo. Ksi prang gnagabayan ka sa taas na mlalaman mo ang lahat, pra pag dating sa panahon hindi ka magsisi. Kya lge ko pnag dasal sa panginoon na gbayan ako sa araw-araw. Ngayn focus ako sa sarili ko. Bhala maging matandang dalaga ako,. Bsta ako peace of mind at happy to be single.
i cant help myself from crying while watching this video. i can feel the pain that the wife is going through. Praying that she will have the LOVE that she truly deserve. Just Keep on PRAYING to GOD.
Godbless Ms Jay.. Thank you for ur inspiring videos... NOSTRANATICS here...
Ate napapagod kng mg mahal pro bakit ka mgpakatanga? Pano kng ikaw ang bibigay dmo kakayanin dahil lng s pangarap mong buong pamilya which is malabo na, isipin mo karibal mo 24 yrs.old?syempre un ang pipiliin nya ate
Some people believe holding on and hanging in there are signs of great strength. However, there are times when it takes much more strength to know when to let go and then do it.
WHEN PEOPLE CAN WALK AWAY FROM U LET THEM WALK!
YOUR DESTINY IS NEVER TIED TO ANYBODY THAT LEFT!
DO NOT TRY TO TALK ANOTHER PERSON INTO STAYING WITH U, LOVING U, CALLING U, STAYING ATTACHED TO U!
PEOPLE LEAVE U BECAUSE THEY ARE NOT JOINED TO U. AND IF THEY ARE NOT JOINED TO U, YOU CANNOT MAKE THEM STAY! LET THEM GO!!!
YOUVE GOT TO KNOW WHEN ITS DEAD
YOUVE GOT TO KNOW WHEN ITS OVER
STOP BEGGING PEOPLE TO STAY
LET THEM GO!!!
korek
Exactly
Naku gurl wag na.. Respect and love urself po.. Di na po pagmmhal yan.. Mahalin mo sarili mo
Ramdam na ramdam ko yung sakit na nararamdaman ni ate😭 ate let go mona kahit sobrang hirap ako nga 10yrs di ko kaya na mawala siya kahit paulit ulit nakong ginagago pero sinabi ko sa sarili ko na di kona deserve ung ganito then one day ibigay kona lang kay lord lahat ng pain unti unti nakong naging okay halos lahat ng kaibigan ko pamilya ko tuwang tuwa na naka recover ako sa past ko.Kapit lang ate pray lang 🙏🏻
Sana ako din soon mging ok.
#inaymaria a.k.a Mary Ann Faustino victoria yung nanay nanayan ni Toni Fowler at yung girl na sinasabi niya is Toni fowler minanas mukha kaya nagparetoke tapos iniingatan daw ang anak.
Sana ganun din ako maging okay makalaya na sa pain
Everything happens for a reason. Cry all you want now after that move on and happiness will reign in your life. Let him go. Don't be a martyr maam. You don't deserve this kind of pain. Your children will give you the happiness you deserve.
Pag tiis in mo Mr mo, lalo klng masasaktan ate oi,,
Alaga an mo nlng anak mo,,marami pang lalaking deserving Sa mundo,,,
You dont need to be a martyr with the wrong person.. First you need to love yourself, and embrace yourself.
Tama
INDEED 👏
Mga taong katulad ni ate they really deserve to be happy...💜
So touching 😭😭😭😭😭😭 Isa Kang mabuting ina ate gagawin ang lahat para s mga bata ...god bless you po sainyong lahat 🙏🙏🙏
Hnd ako naiiyak, naiinis ako kasi gnun n nga pero sige ka parin
Pariho tayo naramdaman
Ako rin po nainis s knya dami nya cnsv
Dami lalaki if gusto mo....babaero always babaero.
@@floramansueto1077 tama po kayo cguro s mga panahon n ganyan wala nkikilalang iba si ateh kya focus nia lang s asawa nya pero kung meron man siguro matagal nia ng pinakawalan asawa nya
I feel your pain girl. God is on your side. Jay is right that you dont deserve these kind of ppl in your life. God is on your side. Leave the rest to Him.
Grabe ang iyak ko dito ...hope someday mameet din kita miss Jay Costura ...gusto ko din malaman un present at yun future ko....
When Ms.Jay Said: IbabaLik Ko Sya Sayo😭
NakakaTouch Sobra Much Cry😭
Pero napansin nyo mata nya after nya sabihin yun
Ate Adviced Lang po once a cheater always a cheater. Tama si miss Jay Hnd mo deserve masaktan. Pag usapan mong Mabuti ang pag bibigay ng second chance sa asawa mo.
I remember when I'm at the same situation of ate, I give everything to him but still he cheated on me but thanks God I manage to let him go. yes it's difficult because he is my world but when he said to me to leave him alone and he is happy to his woman I realize that I need to give up. what is the sense of fighting when your partner didn't want to stay. I'm still grateful that I have to kids to step forward and move on and I have my family to support me. at least I try my best to understand and fight for my love. thanks Ms Jay for this video, I felt the pain of ate but I know she will overcome that💜💜💜
Ate... Its your choice... To be like that.... Kung palalayain mo si kuya magiging masaya kana ksamanmga. Anak. Mo
I've been in that situation not once but twice so hard really hard but at the end of the day you have to survive not only for your self but for you children's through prayers be strong ate 🙏
True, pray lang po.
Ito ung mas masakit kc pamilya mo mismo sisira ng buhay mo, At inalaagan mo sakit subra . God bless you ate isipin mo khit gaano kasakit hndi ikaw nawalan kundi mr. Mo pkatatag ka po,. Alam ko mhirap piro kaya mo yan😊😘
Ok Choices mo yan magpakatanga ka go!!! Kaya mo yan ...😁😁
kaya nga napakatanga
Only I can say ms jay “Paubaya”🙏🙏 so sad 😞 god knows why this happened to her “everything happened to a reason” “Malay mo after this happened Mas May higit pa guy with the good heart darating sayo “just pray and faith to god 🙏
Ate ipaubaya mo na lang sa iba asawa mo.
Minsan kinakalabit na tayo ng Panginoon eh. Minsan tinatapik na tayo at pinioigilan o pinapakita na sa atin ang sitwasyon pero madalas pinipilit pa rin natin ang gusto natin when it should be “Lord, your will be done.”. I pray for your complete healing ate. 🙏🏼
That cry feels like miserable, and it's so sad.. Been through tears just like melting in pain. But prayer is everything. And the courage to let go, will even more put you in the right place. I am now more than happy than I was before when I decided to let go. And another thing, tama ka Ms. Jay! Ang lalaki nman would never make a move unless nilandi, nagbigay ng motibo at nagpa impress at nilason ang Isip ng lalaki. I felt exactly how that pain she feels, but she can relax easy.. kasi karma is real! Hindi man eksakto yun reason ng pain, but karma strikes in many ways. Lalo na sa ganong kapait na luha.
Always choose to be happy with or without that person. Love yourself more coz you will never be enough for that kind of person. Don't make your children as excuse to be with that person. I myself grew up witnessing a horible relationship of our parents. They stayed and lived together for their children's sake. Me and my siblings has been praying na mghiwalay nlng sila. Pero never nangyari. This caused unresolve issues sa akin and I am continously battling with my inner demons. I am living with chronic depression and suicidal thoughts since I was 10. Lately, nag open-up ako sa close friends ko and siblings and I was shocked that my sisters too have the same mental health issues. 💔
Sa mga mothers out there, kahit di kayo sinasaktan physically eh hindi na kayo inaabuso. Abuse comes in other/different forms. My father is abusing my mother psychologically, financially, and emotionally while my mother is just a willing victim! Wag tularan. Be brave enough to let go for your children's sake.
This happen to me. And my child is beghing me to let go of her father. Knowing na nromal sa pinky ang buo ang pamilya at ito ang tama i stayed. Pero i guess theres a time na marerealize mo na di na talaga tama. And letting go is the best answer. If a peroson love someone he/she will not hurt the other one instead they will help eachnother grow.
you can choose your decisions but you cannot choose your consequences. May our dear Heavenly Father comfort you ate esp.in this time na kailangan moh ang Guidance NIYA.
Letting go means love.
Grabe pag ka. Marter ni ate
I been a broken relationship I gave All my best just to protect the family I build but my partner surrender everything.i think God gave me a chance to stand again on my way I my happiness...yes everybody deserve a second chance until I found a man a real man. Loves me and my kids...
Ate kaya mo yan lahat iikot Ang sitwasyon we done need sacrificing for the man not deserve us.we need to he happy also not only the kids we had erase the love we gave to that person cause gods know how we love how much we gave the love . Kaya mo yan te. The more oain we had the more tayong nasusurvive and nagiging powerful..hod is always us.just hold on your kids and Gods heart
i feel u ate.... be happy ate.. u deserve to be love....acceptance is the key.ipakita mo na kaya mong tumayo ng ikaw lng.. u can find happiness n your children
You're right Po Ms Jay,sakit sa dibdib Ito.I feel the pain po para ky Ate..
Tumulo Ng subra Yung luha ko, Godbless you ate..Stay strong Po.❤️❤️❤️🙏
Jay Costura, thank you for Sharing tagging this with me/us love watching ur Vlog/Blog Channel...
I wish I could have a reading from u one-day Jay Costura thank you so much for Sharing/Tagging CHEER'S though....
Ang galing galing mo p0 talaga ms jay godbless you p0 ❤🙏
Nice Advice
“We have choices in life”
Ms Jay
Right
Absolutely right ♥️♥️🙏
Sakit sa dibdib ang episode nato. Ramdam mo tlga ang pain ni ate sa pag iyak nya. I wish you all with the happiness and thanks for sharing your story. God bless!
Grabeee!! Payalap din po Ms. Jay.. Ang galing nyo pong mag advise... Relate much.. more power Ms jay and ur team!!and godbless ate.. stay strong..
Time heals all wounds 😭 na feel ko si ate…sana maging malaya at masaya kana soon 🥺
Nakapasarap sa feeling na araw2 may post si ma'am Jay. ♥️♥️ Mahal mo talaga kami. Maraming salamat po
Nakiapid nagsinungaling nagpalaglag . Doble doble kasalanan SA langit .ipaubaya mopo SA taas ate ipagtadasal mo sila🙏💞
One of the hardest story that i've ever watched😭😭it's really heartbreaking for ate to sacrifice everything just for the sake of her family be strong ate God is always with u and ur family
Grabehhhh sa mga iyak pa lng nya tulo na luha ko, lalo pa akng napagulhol nung cnab nya kay Ms Jay na gusto nyang yakapin. Ohhh my goshhh, d ko napigilan sarili ko. Ang saaaakittttt saaaaakkkittttt😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭
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