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  • Опубликовано: 4 сен 2024
  • Salsha Betty, a fabulous radio journalist has, for the first time ever, spoken up about how she walked out of her toxic marriage.
    The mom of one posted a picture of her face covered in blood just two years ago seeking for help to report domestic violence.
    Total strangers from social media rallied help and she was able to stand again.
    Today on Candid with Yvonne, she shares the story of her healing journey, and why she is so passionate about empowering women to walk out when things don't work.
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  • @Tuko
    @Tuko  Год назад +16

    What message do you have for Salsha Betty? You can reach her through her business number 0725276766.
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  • @sonyia7521
    @sonyia7521 Год назад +155

    Who else thinks that Betty is so beautiful ❤️?

  • @mercymukanda320
    @mercymukanda320 Год назад +47

    Do not introduce your child/children to men... Do not change your child's surname .... Do not force a man to be responsible

    • @robertkenyanchef
      @robertkenyanchef Год назад +3

      I agree with you

    • @sadelshiko7210
      @sadelshiko7210 Год назад +2

      I agree with you

    • @lucyaisha424
      @lucyaisha424 Год назад

      So true

    • @alesobecky8079
      @alesobecky8079 Год назад +1

      Ichanged my sons name and even got another birthcerti the moment his father told me that because he gave birth to him its not amust he calls him afather and that he can still have other kids having a surname is nothing having a caring surpotive father who minds is more important

    • @leenleen644
      @leenleen644 Год назад

      Strong points

  • @ruthwanjiru1736
    @ruthwanjiru1736 Год назад +15

    I like how she is real... also her vibe is on top... thank Salsha. All Women should watch this story both young n old ,very informative

  • @dikolizaskk5847
    @dikolizaskk5847 Год назад +11

    The interviewer has improved so much

  • @beller9304
    @beller9304 Год назад +35

    Through this lady story, I have come to realized am also depressed 😔 because sometimes I just cry for nothing, quarrel all the time and in the end I started regretting

  • @juliawangui777
    @juliawangui777 Год назад +4

    Why did I like this lady....she looks friendly, wonderful and approachable... May God bless her with a Godly marriage n better opportunities in life.💝

    • @salshabetty
      @salshabetty Год назад

      Thank you so much and Amen 🙏

  • @DeeDee-lc5et
    @DeeDee-lc5et Год назад +9

    Betty you are beautiful and you just nailed it💪💪💪 Lakini umenichekesha Ati nikarudi tena 😁😁 you kept going back until you were almost killed though 😭😭 Great woman

  • @dolckinetsumba102
    @dolckinetsumba102 Год назад +13

    I learnt from my mother, that once you move out .....nenda express......don't look back......And then how a man treats you while pregnant itakuwambia kama ghaidi is on board ama alishukia Sultan Hamod......sasa unashtukia umefika samburu solo.....😂😂🤣🤣😂😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣

    • @evawangari2417
      @evawangari2417 Год назад

      Hapo mwisho ni ukweli though umeexplain In a funny way 😄 😆 🤣 😂

    • @peggy5838
      @peggy5838 Год назад

      😂😂😂😂😂

    • @nelaswanjiru1209
      @nelaswanjiru1209 Год назад +1

      @ Dolckine.Are you aware there are so many who are"married but still single?"

    • @dolckinetsumba102
      @dolckinetsumba102 Год назад

      @@nelaswanjiru1209 really sad 😔

  • @jasiryfamtalks
    @jasiryfamtalks Год назад +21

    She is cute and I love her maturity and the fact that she was able to come out and speak about her ordeal shows she is getting closure. I love listening to such stories.Namnipe
    Support pia

  • @ananciataodindo7044
    @ananciataodindo7044 Год назад +13

    Very beautiful lady meno meupe ❤️🙏🏿

  • @la-ry1ms
    @la-ry1ms Год назад +22

    A girl this cute,good hearted and smart won't take long Kwa soko

  • @likxyjones
    @likxyjones Год назад +12

    May God give strength to single mothers

  • @dolckinetsumba102
    @dolckinetsumba102 Год назад +11

    I'd rather bring up children solely at peace than to bring them up broken and traumatised......heeeh!!! Salsha I agree 👍🏾 💯

  • @kamaafaye1264
    @kamaafaye1264 Год назад +18

    I just love how she is explaining everything in details... I love you gal

    • @enjoyfullifenatural.cultiv8441
      @enjoyfullifenatural.cultiv8441 Год назад

      lack of self respect, reality awareness, etc.

    • @kamaafaye1264
      @kamaafaye1264 Год назад

      @@enjoyfullifenatural.cultiv8441 are you okay upstairs

    • @enjoyfullifenatural.cultiv8441
      @enjoyfullifenatural.cultiv8441 Год назад

      @@kamaafaye1264 Knowing Real - Original truth is the gist of life than thinking the existing man made truth is the real. Original is like cherry on life and men made; destroys life.
      Long back the jeopardy started in before Common Era or after creation only

  • @esthernjoki5182
    @esthernjoki5182 Год назад +2

    I just Love this woman. Cheers mama. Our kids come first.

  • @tecmediake
    @tecmediake Год назад +10

    She's beautiful, well done mama

  • @Jane-fi8on
    @Jane-fi8on Год назад +5

    You are right, you were clinically depressed without knowing. Milk disappearing was a key indicator as a lactating mother

  • @sharonmbithe74
    @sharonmbithe74 Год назад +4

    An educative story with so many lessons. I wish that you would somehow work on that platform for women. Women have so much in their minds and heart that they would feel relieved after sharing. I can relate your story to mine in a way😅. Quilting, coming back requiting repeatedly till your friends start calling you"Kathi no Kakoka" like a matatu enroute Machakos Kalawa road😅😅😅. Funny, right?

  • @sandraogake3687
    @sandraogake3687 Год назад +3

    Ooooh my God....I can't stop crying. Gal, you ensured alot. May God give bless you

  • @pendoonyango6676
    @pendoonyango6676 Год назад +2

    Wow so inspiring and I love how Betty Salsha is touching the areas that touches my heart ,you speaking the bitter truth that many doesn't want to admit and many doesn't understand . 🙏

  • @priscillandungi3958
    @priscillandungi3958 Год назад +26

    Wakamba hukuwa warembo Sana jameni!!

  • @marymaina9090
    @marymaina9090 Год назад +4

    Kube tuko wengi I always find it like am the only one who keep on parking

  • @abbiemumbi
    @abbiemumbi Год назад +4

    Men should support their children period. It's not a choice.
    Their choice is not have a child if you are not responsible enough to be a father.

    • @shikuliz4134
      @shikuliz4134 Год назад

      Ngoja watalipa Tu..let them make them suffer ni shauri yao

  • @ichooseviolence2532
    @ichooseviolence2532 Год назад +3

    'Women think if they deny the father access to the child, they are punishing the man'... Two sides of a coin sis

  • @rosemwiti6295
    @rosemwiti6295 Год назад +1

    Betty is a vibe... thanks for sharing this

  • @KingTrevo614
    @KingTrevo614 Год назад +4

    Yes Betty is beautiful in and out go gal the sky is the limit ❤

  • @gracembaabu3754
    @gracembaabu3754 Год назад +2

    She is a beautiful soul and honest😊

  • @alexngaomuthui
    @alexngaomuthui Год назад +1

    I met a toxic woman while we were as young as at teenage,,we married for 12years but the first five years we were good but the seven years were hell,,I was providing for her but she started cheating so we parted ways this year July but the marriage turned to be an hell before we parted

  • @periskamenju3715
    @periskamenju3715 Год назад +1

    i feel you girl,breaking down as a single mom is there,and when it happens is bad!! all in all God is good

  • @mercyamagove8354
    @mercyamagove8354 Год назад +4

    Wow she is so beautiful 🥰

  • @prophetjanekimani987
    @prophetjanekimani987 Год назад +6

    Being single lady… no matter how indepedent you are … its not easy… thanks

    • @lucymukuya4211
      @lucymukuya4211 Год назад +5

      not easy but peaceful

    • @philiswanjiru2328
      @philiswanjiru2328 Год назад +1

      @PJK..... Not easy especially kama uko na watoto, but that peace matters alot, it's all about mindset...

  • @risperwambui8369
    @risperwambui8369 Год назад

    She's such a beauty. Thanks for sharing.

  • @francymutua7022
    @francymutua7022 Год назад +4

    I like your courage n faith ur strong

  • @shikuliz4134
    @shikuliz4134 Год назад +1

    Similar story with mine being depressed and don't know ..lack of milk .. mmmmh 🤔 aki women we pass through alot.

  • @hildahsmith3927
    @hildahsmith3927 Год назад +3

    Indeed he will change if he wants to. No other thing will.

  • @irenekanyi1125
    @irenekanyi1125 Год назад

    Ngai Ekwo Kelitu,I thought am the only one who used to pack leave go back,but depression is real.
    You are a beautiful woman with an amazing soul.

  • @christineochuchi7448
    @christineochuchi7448 Год назад +1

    This beauty cannot be ignored - The maturity mama ! esh , yes do not ignore the red flags and most importantly your child's well ness should take a big part in which ever situation

  • @Joyyapmc
    @Joyyapmc Год назад +1

    Apply for full custody of the kid so that it will be easier to go abroad

  • @Bena932
    @Bena932 2 месяца назад

    My fellow men. If it's not working please let go. Violence is not the way.

  • @braniceadisa8401
    @braniceadisa8401 Год назад +4

    Beautiful human

  • @faithkisilu7984
    @faithkisilu7984 Год назад +6

    She is so pretty 😍

  • @phelgonarachilo6098
    @phelgonarachilo6098 Год назад +2

    Betty, you're strong gal. ❤️❤️

  • @ginamusyoka754
    @ginamusyoka754 Год назад

    Go and shine betty. Very great advice

  • @virginiamutisya6216
    @virginiamutisya6216 Год назад +3

    i did the same 6 months no tok i eat and sleep untill he left the house why i dont tok or answer questions bad sign so ra away fearing my silence🤣

  • @thezielonkafamily
    @thezielonkafamily Год назад +3

    Beautiful soul

  • @marthawachira2501
    @marthawachira2501 Год назад +4

    Beatiful girl with a pretty smile

  • @serahjendeka1692
    @serahjendeka1692 Год назад +3

    Salsha you look pretty

  • @mercywambui1872
    @mercywambui1872 Год назад

    Looking the beautiful cute mama,kwani wat men need aki.this my stroy my man married me wit one daughter l use to see the red flag but l was still there. He was think that l can't move on wit my daughter but happy now 8years now as u said there not 12.but been single not easy

  • @naomykelly4057
    @naomykelly4057 Год назад +1

    She is so beautiful

  • @augustinekavivya5914
    @augustinekavivya5914 Год назад

    Well done Mammaa.. Itu yii yi Ngai

  • @shikuliz4134
    @shikuliz4134 Год назад

    Don't blame yourself gal .. narcissist behaviour is to mask up , love bombing, gaslighting, manipulation , he was just trying to make you trauma bond with his abuse but little did they know not everyone will bond and choose to love themselves ..iyo baby many women have that expectation and it's the worst thing that shock us ..I have went through so much until now it's hard for me to love again.

  • @eunicekingoo4510
    @eunicekingoo4510 8 месяцев назад

    Nilitoka na watoto wawili na nika change jina juu sina time ya ku consult mtu aliacha watoto wake akaenda kulea watoto sio wake .

  • @chelangatdaizy737
    @chelangatdaizy737 Год назад

    You are very beautiful sister

  • @bikoflavious2903
    @bikoflavious2903 Год назад +2

    God will bless you

  • @kikuyumugithi9396
    @kikuyumugithi9396 Год назад +1

    You are blaming him but you said you moved in his house coz yon needed msada,so there was no love

  • @samondieki1656
    @samondieki1656 Год назад +1

    Very Good!

  • @likxyjones
    @likxyjones Год назад +4

    Run away from toxic r/shps men always take advantage if they Know u still want them back.Women love urselfs being single isn't a sin. Ur the most pple who suffer n the kids. Men have some humanity please.

  • @agnesnthakyo1934
    @agnesnthakyo1934 Год назад

    Mine have my middle name as there sur name and I have no apologies. They are grownups and very proud of it💃💃💃

  • @lucillea-r9568
    @lucillea-r9568 Год назад +5

    One part o will disagree with you is you HAVE to take a deadbeat dad to court, support is a child's right if you make a baby you support them by choice or by force ergo court

    • @waridim9249
      @waridim9249 Год назад +2

      Lucille: Yes! It takes two to make a baby; both should contribute to the raising of the child they bring into the world together. Why are they allowed to abscond their responsibilities? Shame!

    • @africanawang2674
      @africanawang2674 Год назад

      There is no shame in seeking child support. Laws are there to help us.

    • @shikuliz4134
      @shikuliz4134 Год назад

      Have done all that but this idiot hugogana kila mahali it drains emotionally, financially and spiritually I understanding her ..she went through the same with me

  • @sue.7494
    @sue.7494 Год назад

    Iam so sorry Betty i wonder why people with great personality and values somehow fall in the hands of very careless man.

  • @abbiemumbi
    @abbiemumbi Год назад

    You can get full custody. Even then taking them off the country is an issue.
    Seek legal advice

  • @charlesmwikali3419
    @charlesmwikali3419 Год назад +4

    my gal didnt kno u passed through all this

  • @blessedangie1847
    @blessedangie1847 Год назад

    Beautiful lady

  • @Chiwoful
    @Chiwoful Год назад +1

    Wueeeeh! Haki pole sana Betty.

  • @favournganga4258
    @favournganga4258 Год назад +1

    a very beautiful girl.

  • @VivianAlshehhi
    @VivianAlshehhi 10 месяцев назад

    I love u dear sister

  • @virginiamutisya6216
    @virginiamutisya6216 Год назад +1

    that coming back will finish you am telling you

  • @mamaprisdebs8215
    @mamaprisdebs8215 Год назад

    Hii topic imekuwa poa kabisa but sauti ilikuwa chini sana

  • @lucymaina2869
    @lucymaina2869 Год назад +2

    Salsha is beautiful and full of wisdom.The men who abandon their children do so knowingly,to punish the mother.If a woman has to take him to court,let it be when one is strong mentally and ready financially.

  • @bethtoox9435
    @bethtoox9435 Год назад +1

    WOW!!! Amazing show

  • @nimo3493
    @nimo3493 Год назад +2

    She must have gone through what is known as “Post-puturm depression “

    • @robertkenyanchef
      @robertkenyanchef Год назад

      It could be

    • @halimahhajarah972
      @halimahhajarah972 Год назад

      True

    • @dolckinetsumba102
      @dolckinetsumba102 Год назад +2

      Not necessarily........hata wewe....missing that support system during pregnancy and after giving birth is just alot......especially from your partner.

  • @kalukielizah9847
    @kalukielizah9847 Год назад

    Wow ..betty my highschool mate

  • @Lucky-xh2xd
    @Lucky-xh2xd Год назад

    Gal she beautiful ❤️

  • @user-wp2gf5pz6i
    @user-wp2gf5pz6i 6 месяцев назад

    Sorry darling

  • @kibuenganga4268
    @kibuenganga4268 Год назад +1

    Strong in Lord God Almighty

  • @antoninahesatia1677
    @antoninahesatia1677 Год назад

    So educative.....
    Great job Yvonne

  • @anastaciakatz7054
    @anastaciakatz7054 Год назад +4

    We Betty hapo sikubaliani na we we ati mama watoto hasiende kusue baby daddy sio kila mama ako na pesa kama wewe

    • @mercygakuo6002
      @mercygakuo6002 Год назад

      Please don't responsibility is not force.

  • @homeoffavours
    @homeoffavours Год назад

    Aki what is happening, women are really going through hell, what do we do?

  • @abbiemumbi
    @abbiemumbi Год назад

    Your are not legally allowed to change your baby's surname.
    Children can change their names when they are 18 years and above.

  • @annitachirie7836
    @annitachirie7836 Год назад

    Some decisions are necessary.

  • @marymakokha5777
    @marymakokha5777 Год назад

    Let the child retin the name unless she wants to change it herself in adulthood like mine did

  • @kikuyumugithi9396
    @kikuyumugithi9396 Год назад +1

    This woman is not smart and this what many think
    She said that men think they are doing single women a favour, but what does a men gain from that child the single mother have nothing,and why would a man take a single mother when he can get a girl without a child

    • @salshabetty
      @salshabetty Год назад +3

      Because single mothers make each other pregnant right? If women are that bad why can't you men marry each other then instead of getting someone with a child? Enda sikia vibaya uko.

    • @roseesham6356
      @roseesham6356 Год назад

      Umekuja sana

  • @forwardforever254
    @forwardforever254 Год назад

    Find these husbands and get their side of the story.

  • @virginiamutisya6216
    @virginiamutisya6216 Год назад +1

    kelitu eka kuia ngai ekwo.

  • @sandraogake3687
    @sandraogake3687 Год назад

    Tuko I have a story to share as well....how can I reach you please

    • @YvonneKawiraTuko
      @YvonneKawiraTuko Год назад

      Hey Sandra please share your story on my email address that is pinned on the comment section. Looking forward to hearing from you.

  • @marygathigiagithinji1425
    @marygathigiagithinji1425 Год назад +1

    Inside from qatar

  • @irinemugambi2048
    @irinemugambi2048 Год назад +1

    U are beautiful my dear move on

    • @safiamunir2137
      @safiamunir2137 Год назад

      ...but thick !

    • @DavTec1
      @DavTec1 Месяц назад

      @@safiamunir2137beautifully thick !!!!!! ❤

  • @sakasonkamaufootballchanne9225

    The host is not audible enough

  • @mumcounty
    @mumcounty Год назад

    The sir name remains because the child belongs to him and when she grows up she will want to know her father's name

  • @emilychepkoech798
    @emilychepkoech798 Год назад

    you are beautiful

  • @phylliswanjiku3886
    @phylliswanjiku3886 Год назад

    shes cute

  • @virginiamutisya6216
    @virginiamutisya6216 Год назад

    is that blood Jesus

  • @virginiamutisya6216
    @virginiamutisya6216 Год назад +1

    after birth women we go depression depending with the environment

  • @bayusuf1338
    @bayusuf1338 Год назад

    The content was good from the beginning only to finish with feminism

  • @schirhj3078
    @schirhj3078 Год назад +1

    Repressed thoughts always come out as neuroses. Sigmund Freud

  • @deemuema
    @deemuema Год назад +8

    Yvonne why do you talk like you’re shy or nervous?

    • @sandraraini6195
      @sandraraini6195 Год назад +1

      Why dont you start your channel

    • @deemuema
      @deemuema Год назад

      @@sandraraini6195 already did hun… sorry

    • @eveww
      @eveww Год назад +1

      @@sandraraini6195 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

    • @koicamelia2649
      @koicamelia2649 Год назад +1

      Its humility sio shyness!

    • @sharleenjj8548
      @sharleenjj8548 Год назад

      And what's wrong been shy,we are different

  • @marynjwri7409
    @marynjwri7409 Год назад +2

    Men men why

  • @bobogitau5383
    @bobogitau5383 Год назад

    Aki mapenzi wewe 🙉🙉

  • @kikuyumugithi9396
    @kikuyumugithi9396 Год назад

    She went back coz she didn't have a job coz of cov19. Then she got another job thing changes.
    She is a bad woman