Hey guys! So in some clips I had to turn off the audio because of copyright. Here are some timestamps in case you don't understand what people say: 1:07 Lady says: "Uncomfortable with your body check" 11:04 The Lady says: "If I can do it then celebrities can too"
okay quick PSA. everyone always geta mad at the skinny person when they say they're fat. most of the time, when they say that, it means they have body dysmorphia and/or are insecure. so fun fact, when you say things like "then what does that make me" or "no you're not" THAT DOES NOT MAKE THEM FEEL ANY BETTER. So stopp
I get that but they need to realize that they still have skinny privilege and do not deal with even a fraction of the bullshit actual plus sized people have to deal with on a 24/7 basis. I'm not saying this out of spite, but simply as a fact.
@@zesty9721 god same, it makes it so difficult. No matter the circumstances, hearing someone smaller than me go "oh wow I'm so fat" just makes me feel 1000x times worse about myself.
@@maxskellington910 wow that's actually disgusting. someone brings up a mental health issue people face and all you have to say is that they have to recognize their privilege? news flash, most people with body dysmorphia don't think of themselves as skinny or pretty, they think they look ugly and/or fat. that's why it's called body 𝗱𝘆𝘀𝗺𝗼𝗿𝗽𝗵𝗶𝗮
How does one make them feel better though? Because I have a friend who is soo skinny, and she still wants to be skinnier. Like, so that she can can touch all her fingers around her waist type of skinny. That is very unhealthy unless your body is just naturally very thin, and generally you wouldn’t be thin enough to do that. So what should I do?
Something I have noticed is so many people use the term body dysmorphia as a way to say self conscious or poor body image. (Not these vids) while disliking your appearance sucks it’s not hating something so much that your brain literally tricks you into seeing yourself incorrectly and creates an obsessive preoccupation. It’s like when people say “I’m so OCD” but they just like to organize. 😐
why am i literally questioning if i have body dysmorphia when im a few pounds above underweight and STILL think im fat and need to starve myself i need a doctor 😐
Also remember that body dysmorphia isn’t only exclusive to people feeling fat. I have body dysmorphia and I feel too skinny all the time. I’ve been skinny shamed my whole life and even after gaining weight I still feel like a toothpick and don’t feel good enough. I obsess over my appearance and face wise as well.
I dont like talking about my body much, because i think it makes other people think i want compliments. But no matter how many times people tell me "you're fine!" "You aren't fat" "you're perfectly fine and beautiful no matter what size you are!!" It makes me feel even worse about myself. Like people are just telling me that so I don't get upset. Do I wanna lose weight? Yes. Do I know how? No. Do I wanna be alive, here, right now writing this comment? No. I've hated my body for as long as I can remember, there isnt one thing I like about myself other than my eyes. Everything is wrong with me, and I'll never be normal. Sorry for wasting your time...
You didn't waist my time at all! I think it's completely fine to feel this way, and not everyone will understand unless they're experiencing the same. I suggest you to go talk to a professional before you can do anything. Stay safe and good luck bud!
I literally could have written this. You've summed up exactly how I feel. When I've tried to talk how I feel through with friends without BDD, they don't understand and can even become frustrated with what I'm saying (as though I'm saying things for attention/to get a reaction), when I'm just genuinely trying to explain how I see things. You are not alone. Your comment has really helped me. Thank you.
Stuff with Alex don’t worry I feel the same way. You can talk to me and I won’t give you compliments. If you look at my videos I am tucking in my stomach and letting my bottom lip out to look pretty. I also suck in my cheeks. These things I do unconsciously sometimes. Talk to me. If you are around 12 you can get my phone number. I’m a girl
My body dysmorphia has given me this ridiculous FEAR of my thighs. They genuinely terrify me and I don't understand why, wearing shorts in summer feels like the equivalent to walking on a tightrope with a fear of heights. I don't understand it lmao
Im the same about my boobs. I had a reduction last year and still think theyre too big and make me look fat. Im a slim person but my boobs are not proportionate. Everyone tells me im crazy. I obsess over it morning and night. I wish I could have them removed altogether because they litterally and figuratively make me sick. When i first had the surgery I was so happy but then they started to drop back to their original shape.. even though they are much smaller now Im still so unhappy... and I dont think I can have the surgery for "free" again (im Canadian btw so the surgery was covered)
I had a lot of trouble with my self-image because my family always told me I was fat when I was a kid (I actually wasn't I looked like a normal 8yo), so I grew up thinking i'm fat. Some weeks ago my brother and I were watching our family album, there was this picture of 11yo me and he goes "You weren't fat, why did we told you that?" And I was like YOU TELL ME THAT 8 YEARS LATER????#*$#^*#/@*#
THANK YOU FOR THIS. i was searching everywhere for body dysmorphia videos a few months ago for the exact same reason and there weren’t ANY :( thank you so much
9:00 is exactly my problem. I started working out after changing my diet after two years and I got bigger. I cried when realized because I pretty much avoided everything bad, worked out, forced myself back into a healthy sleep schedule and still _gained_ weight
didnt realise i had body dismorphia literallt went to parties with family and stuff and theyd all tell me how i got rlly skinny and that i should stop. literally thought i was fat asf and still did even after gaining weight until recently i saw a photo of myself back when i was skinny asf and i was like bro.. i rlly looked great tf
People: "omg I wish I had a fast metabolism you're so lucky that you're skinny" _sigh_ Me: cant sit normally in a chair without feeling my spine rubbing against the back of it and it in constant discomfort because of how boney I am 👁👄👁
I think it is pretty normal, just depends on the severity. Everyone hates and overreacts to something about their body (heaight, weight, skin, shape of their eyes or nose wtvr)... Nobody loves their body 100% but if these thoughts are being intrusive and it interferes with your normal everyday functioning then yes, you should probably seek help.
Oh god I think I have body dismorphia (I think it's caused by me being fat when I was little) when I just assumed I am insecure I don't know if I'm ready for this revelation tbh
BRUH ITS NOT JUST THE MIRROR THAT BE FUCKED UP IT'S THE FAMILY TOO. I GOT MY GRANDMA TELLIN ME I LOOK TOO SKINNY, MY SIBLINGS CONSTANTLY FAT SHAMING ME, AND MY MOM CALLING ME PETITE, ALL AT AGE 12. THIS FUCKED ME UP FOR LIIIFE.
Shouldn't avoid food. Maybe go talk to someone professional. They even have apps to where you can just text professionals if you don't feel comfortable talking to someone face to face. What helps is to cut ties with social media. That stuff is so poisonous.
Same, but I do not avoid food. U should never avoid food, u deserve the world. Ur body NEEDS it. I know that eds cannot be cured with paragraphs but I just want to say u understand you, hear you, and wish the best for u. I understand u bc I myself have struggled w eds and bad body image for most of my life, and it sucks. Not worth it at all. Pls promise me to try and eat at least 3 meals everyday. Start off by easy foods (for U) and slowly try and begin to listen to ur body. Eds are not worth it, it can help to think that no one is gonna let u starve. No matter how much weight you lose u will end up being hospitalized (which literally sucks, u cannot see ur friends, family or go to school. The rules there are super strict and weird) please try
i always hype ppl up no matter what body shape they are cause to me really everyone is beautiful but i can't fucking apply it to myself because i only see a goblin in my mirror 😍😍😍 combine that with add and anxiety and woow what a life😍😍
I have something similar, I started about 6 months ago, I unintentionally try to like shape my nose to make it smaller, more upturned, I also try to make my nostrils smaller but I tend to do it without even thinking to the point where my skin starts complaining (I have sensory processing disorder and, I can tell if someone's hand is dirty - like if they haven't washed their hands in a while - just by touching me and it's really annoying - same applies to me though) Wait, doesn't everyone habitually suck it in? I've been doing that for as long as I can remember - which should be when my sister used to make fun of my baby fat and said I had a pot belly and a large forehead (I was 3 she was like, 11 idk) so I started sucking it in when I went to kindergarten. I think she meant well but my mind didn't get that. Now I hate her, not because she gave me some serious trauma about my body and some s3xU4al stuff, but because she's a homophobic piece of shi
@@nitya2039 we all should. I try not to define myself by what I look like but rather my weird flexes. For example, I'm currently in the living room and my mom is streaming christian songs she likes. What am I doing you may ask? Well, I'm reading Sangwoo smu
Same. My mom used to tell me to suck in my stomach at times. I started realizing it made me look better and do it all the time. In school, with friends, beaches, pool, family members and even in the shower some times. Sadly.
I used to struggle bad with body dysmorphia, I hated even going outside because I thought people would see my fat rolls, I was 10! I’m 13 now and after 3 years I realized... I’m not fat I’m fluffy! I’m 13, 5.2 or 5.3 and I’m 130 pounds with a 35 inch waist, but guess what? I don’t care! My waist looks relatively tiny, and my stomach is really soft, it’s mostly just skin, my stomach is relatively flat, my love handles have shaped themselves to look like they’re a part of my hips so I finally feel good about those, my hip dips and stretch marks never bothered me, the size of my rib cage never bothered me. The only thing that still bothers me Is my chest. I hate that I have boobs. I’ve always wanted to be flat chested and then when I was like 11 puberty decided “LETS GIVE THE BITCH ONE B CUP AND ONE C ALMOST D CUP!” and another thing that sucks is that my binder is dirty and doesn’t work very well so I’m on the search for a new, better one
Im the same about my boobs. I had a reduction last year and still think theyre too big and make me look fat. Im a slim person but my boobs are not proportionate. Everyone tells me im crazy. I obsess over it morning and night. I wish I could have them removed altogether because they make me sick. After I had the surgery I was so happy but then they started to drop back to their original shape.. and even though they are much smaller Im still so unhappy... and I dont think I can have the surgery for "free" again (im Canadian btw so the surgery was covered)
I was bullied about my appearance pretty heavily by my family and in school for the longest time and everyone tells me I'll look better if I loose more weight but my brain has convinced me that I will look weirder if I lost weight but i also hate myself the way I am rn and i really wanna loose some weight but in also scared that I won't look better even after i lost weight
the amount of relatability that these TikTok's give to me is S C A R Y dude like- I can't remember what I look like without changing even the smallest features about myself- and my fat doesn't help :')
Literally I thought I could laugh at this with these people but damn I'm just triggered. LOVE MENTAL ILLNESS SO GREATTTTT. But love the video, good job
Your eyes already have a filter. You're simply not very much aware of it. You're not seeing yourself like everyone else does, you're looking at yourself in a more downgrading and harsh way than everyone else ever would. So pls consider that you have indeed a 'image may be destroyed by society's beauty standards" filter going on in your head and maybe try seeing yourself from the eyes of someone who loves you 😉
The girl that said instead of weighing herself she takes photos has to remember that the camera adds ten pounds. And no matter what size we are we’re all beautiful.
It makes me so sad not knowing what i actually look like- It makes me so sad when people tell me you're losing weight... It makes me so sad when people call me fat... It makes me so sad when I'm trying but see no difference 😔
@@angelbb6847 but heres the thing, in the middle of the night I fucking hate myself and wonder why I don't just starve myself. I try but I end up just giving up. I've lost 10 lbs but I weigh 250 lbs. I need to loose atleast 100 more. Sorryfor that weird vent, I had a fucked up dream and its the only thing I can think about. Sorry about that.
Yes, I know. I may have phrased it bad. But please don't starve yourself, there are so much better alternatives that you may not know about. I'm no specialist about it, but I think it's best for you to see one, everyone deserves to be happy in their own body!
Tbh I also suck in my belly sometimes when I’m around people. I also let my bottom lip out a bit and suck in my cheeks to look better. Like, when I look in the mirror I look fine but when I see the camera I hate it.
I also do the stomach sucking thing as one of the videos and 7:44. Even with baggy cloths I do it unintentionally. The only thing is I actually have fat there lol
im wearing a size xs in pajama pants for christmas when i usually wear a size m in pajama pants and it’s got me messed up. i can’t tell if its my mind confusing me or if it’s the actually brand of pants that have weird sizing...🙂
People with bdd: doesnt see their body as ir actually is* Me who sees my body as it actually is and as other does (overweight) and still hate the way it looks: so i dont have bdd?
Oh no honey. I'm sorry if this video may have triggered you, I suggest you to go talk to a specialist before it gets too serious! You deserve to feel happy in your own body.
There are a lot of free virtual support groups. It’s so helpful. It might be something to look into. Even if you just listen to others. It’s nice to have people relate to you.
Boys dont get as much recognition and support. Many dudes se with bdd, whethernits their height, weight, skin, size of their unit. Its sad because women can talk to eachother much more openly about these issues. Thats why the "sewer slide" rate is higher among men.
I don’t care how pure the message or that you’re doing a makeup video. If you jump cut every-single-word, you’re actively trying to rob ppl of their sanity. Please-just-stop-okay?
Hey guys! So in some clips I had to turn off the audio because of copyright.
Here are some timestamps in case you don't understand what people say:
1:07 Lady says: "Uncomfortable with your body check"
11:04 The Lady says: "If I can do it then celebrities can too"
okay quick PSA. everyone always geta mad at the skinny person when they say they're fat. most of the time, when they say that, it means they have body dysmorphia and/or are insecure. so fun fact, when you say things like "then what does that make me" or "no you're not" THAT DOES NOT MAKE THEM FEEL ANY BETTER. So stopp
I get that but they need to realize that they still have skinny privilege and do not deal with even a fraction of the bullshit actual plus sized people have to deal with on a 24/7 basis. I'm not saying this out of spite, but simply as a fact.
@@maxskellington910 just about to say that. as a "fat" Kid it makes me feel sad but also very insecure about myself and I already am. Lol
@@zesty9721 god same, it makes it so difficult. No matter the circumstances, hearing someone smaller than me go "oh wow I'm so fat" just makes me feel 1000x times worse about myself.
@@maxskellington910 wow that's actually disgusting. someone brings up a mental health issue people face and all you have to say is that they have to recognize their privilege? news flash, most people with body dysmorphia don't think of themselves as skinny or pretty, they think they look ugly and/or fat. that's why it's called body 𝗱𝘆𝘀𝗺𝗼𝗿𝗽𝗵𝗶𝗮
How does one make them feel better though? Because I have a friend who is soo skinny, and she still wants to be skinnier. Like, so that she can can touch all her fingers around her waist type of skinny. That is very unhealthy unless your body is just naturally very thin, and generally you wouldn’t be thin enough to do that. So what should I do?
Something I have noticed is so many people use the term body dysmorphia as a way to say self conscious or poor body image. (Not these vids) while disliking your appearance sucks it’s not hating something so much that your brain literally tricks you into seeing yourself incorrectly and creates an obsessive preoccupation. It’s like when people say “I’m so OCD” but they just like to organize. 😐
Yes! Like you can share symptoms of that specific mental illness and NOT have that mental illness. Idk if it's understandable!
Oh no, I might have body dysmorphia or I could just overanalyzing for no reason.
why am i literally questioning if i have body dysmorphia when im a few pounds above underweight and STILL think im fat and need to starve myself i need a doctor 😐
I love all the men that are included❤️
Also remember that body dysmorphia isn’t only exclusive to people feeling fat. I have body dysmorphia and I feel too skinny all the time. I’ve been skinny shamed my whole life and even after gaining weight I still feel like a toothpick and don’t feel good enough. I obsess over my appearance and face wise as well.
Exactly. I get dysmorphic about how skinny my legs are and how flat my bum is.
I dont like talking about my body much, because i think it makes other people think i want compliments. But no matter how many times people tell me "you're fine!" "You aren't fat" "you're perfectly fine and beautiful no matter what size you are!!" It makes me feel even worse about myself. Like people are just telling me that so I don't get upset. Do I wanna lose weight? Yes. Do I know how? No. Do I wanna be alive, here, right now writing this comment? No. I've hated my body for as long as I can remember, there isnt one thing I like about myself other than my eyes. Everything is wrong with me, and I'll never be normal. Sorry for wasting your time...
You didn't waist my time at all! I think it's completely fine to feel this way, and not everyone will understand unless they're experiencing the same. I suggest you to go talk to a professional before you can do anything. Stay safe and good luck bud!
I literally could have written this. You've summed up exactly how I feel. When I've tried to talk how I feel through with friends without BDD, they don't understand and can even become frustrated with what I'm saying (as though I'm saying things for attention/to get a reaction), when I'm just genuinely trying to explain how I see things. You are not alone. Your comment has really helped me. Thank you.
Stuff with Alex don’t worry I feel the same way. You can talk to me and I won’t give you compliments. If you look at my videos I am tucking in my stomach and letting my bottom lip out to look pretty. I also suck in my cheeks. These things I do unconsciously sometimes. Talk to me. If you are around 12 you can get my phone number. I’m a girl
Me too...
My body dysmorphia has given me this ridiculous FEAR of my thighs. They genuinely terrify me and I don't understand why, wearing shorts in summer feels like the equivalent to walking on a tightrope with a fear of heights. I don't understand it lmao
Im the same about my boobs. I had a reduction last year and still think theyre too big and make me look fat. Im a slim person but my boobs are not proportionate. Everyone tells me im crazy. I obsess over it morning and night. I wish I could have them removed altogether because they litterally and figuratively make me sick. When i first had the surgery I was so happy but then they started to drop back to their original shape.. even though they are much smaller now Im still so unhappy... and I dont think I can have the surgery for "free" again (im Canadian btw so the surgery was covered)
I had a lot of trouble with my self-image because my family always told me I was fat when I was a kid (I actually wasn't I looked like a normal 8yo), so I grew up thinking i'm fat. Some weeks ago my brother and I were watching our family album, there was this picture of 11yo me and he goes "You weren't fat, why did we told you that?" And I was like YOU TELL ME THAT 8 YEARS LATER????#*$#^*#/@*#
Also that's horrible you had to go through that, I hope that now you are healthy and happy with your body image!!!
@@insertname478 i'm trying, thank you
Thank you for this, it helps so much knowing that other people struggle with the same things I do and we’re all in this together ❤️
I have extreme body dysmorphia and had tried to eat healthy one time to loose work but didn’t have the mental stability to eat healthy ✨✨
THANK YOU FOR THIS. i was searching everywhere for body dysmorphia videos a few months ago for the exact same reason and there weren’t ANY :( thank you so much
9:00 is exactly my problem. I started working out after changing my diet after two years and I got bigger. I cried when realized because I pretty much avoided everything bad, worked out, forced myself back into a healthy sleep schedule and still _gained_ weight
Its not always something you can do anything about 🤷♀️
@@HeresAbigOne I know but I'm still gonna keep trying
All of a sudden my feelings are making a lot of sense
The thing is i know im not attractive but at the same time i love myself so its always a struggle between two sides
Same!!
these tiktoks have helped me so much im crying
didnt realise i had body dismorphia
literallt went to parties with family and stuff and theyd all tell me how i got rlly skinny and that i should stop. literally thought i was fat asf and still did even after gaining weight until recently i saw a photo of myself back when i was skinny asf and i was like bro.. i rlly looked great tf
4:36 ok but this is why i panic when viewing pictures of myself years ago i feel like i was so much pretteir and ill never go back to that
People: "omg I wish I had a fast metabolism you're so lucky that you're skinny" _sigh_
Me: cant sit normally in a chair without feeling my spine rubbing against the back of it and it in constant discomfort because of how boney I am 👁👄👁
Hi! I see you have what I'm looking for, would it be possible for us to trade?
4:42 i’ve never related to something more like when i go home my abs feel like they’re going to ✨implode✨
i always thought that its actually normal and everybody is like this and now im like damn i should seek help
I think it is pretty normal, just depends on the severity. Everyone hates and overreacts to something about their body (heaight, weight, skin, shape of their eyes or nose wtvr)... Nobody loves their body 100% but if these thoughts are being intrusive and it interferes with your normal everyday functioning then yes, you should probably seek help.
Oh god I think I have body dismorphia (I think it's caused by me being fat when I was little) when I just assumed I am insecure
I don't know if I'm ready for this revelation tbh
“Ready for this revelation?”
It doesn’t change anything, and it doesn’t give you an excuse to think your body looks shitty.
BRUH ITS NOT JUST THE MIRROR THAT BE FUCKED UP IT'S THE FAMILY TOO. I GOT MY GRANDMA TELLIN ME I LOOK TOO SKINNY, MY SIBLINGS CONSTANTLY FAT SHAMING ME, AND MY MOM CALLING ME PETITE, ALL AT AGE 12. THIS FUCKED ME UP FOR LIIIFE.
I'm glad they show men in this. Men go through similar issues as women and should be talked about more to stop the stigma around it.
Ikr?
No idea what I look like and everyone in my life is tired of it so I'm watching these to cope and avoid food lol
Shouldn't avoid food. Maybe go talk to someone professional. They even have apps to where you can just text professionals if you don't feel comfortable talking to someone face to face. What helps is to cut ties with social media. That stuff is so poisonous.
Same, but I do not avoid food. U should never avoid food, u deserve the world. Ur body NEEDS it. I know that eds cannot be cured with paragraphs but I just want to say u understand you, hear you, and wish the best for u. I understand u bc I myself have struggled w eds and bad body image for most of my life, and it sucks. Not worth it at all. Pls promise me to try and eat at least 3 meals everyday. Start off by easy foods (for U) and slowly try and begin to listen to ur body. Eds are not worth it, it can help to think that no one is gonna let u starve. No matter how much weight you lose u will end up being hospitalized (which literally sucks, u cannot see ur friends, family or go to school. The rules there are super strict and weird) please try
i just wish i could replicate myself and then step back and see what i really look like from someone’s perspective it would help so much
3:45 i felt this on a whole different level
11:47
Woah, I had no idea he was based off of that! And a TON of people simp for him 🤠
i always hype ppl up no matter what body shape they are cause to me really everyone is beautiful but i can't fucking apply it to myself because i only see a goblin in my mirror 😍😍😍 combine that with add and anxiety and woow what a life😍😍
4:43 this is me and it's sooo sad. and the sad part is i am 12..
I have something similar, I started about 6 months ago, I unintentionally try to like shape my nose to make it smaller, more upturned, I also try to make my nostrils smaller but I tend to do it without even thinking to the point where my skin starts complaining (I have sensory processing disorder and, I can tell if someone's hand is dirty - like if they haven't washed their hands in a while - just by touching me and it's really annoying - same applies to me though)
Wait, doesn't everyone habitually suck it in? I've been doing that for as long as I can remember - which should be when my sister used to make fun of my baby fat and said I had a pot belly and a large forehead (I was 3 she was like, 11 idk) so I started sucking it in when I went to kindergarten. I think she meant well but my mind didn't get that. Now I hate her, not because she gave me some serious trauma about my body and some s3xU4al stuff, but because she's a homophobic piece of shi
@@ellenchi2967 its ok you should love yourself...
@@nitya2039 we all should. I try not to define myself by what I look like but rather my weird flexes. For example, I'm currently in the living room and my mom is streaming christian songs she likes. What am I doing you may ask? Well, I'm reading Sangwoo smu
Same. My mom used to tell me to suck in my stomach at times. I started realizing it made me look better and do it all the time. In school, with friends, beaches, pool, family members and even in the shower some times. Sadly.
I also started kind of putting my bottom lip out a to make them look better. That’s something I do all the time unintentionally
I used to struggle bad with body dysmorphia, I hated even going outside because I thought people would see my fat rolls, I was 10! I’m 13 now and after 3 years I realized...
I’m not fat
I’m fluffy!
I’m 13, 5.2 or 5.3 and I’m 130 pounds with a 35 inch waist, but guess what? I don’t care! My waist looks relatively tiny, and my stomach is really soft, it’s mostly just skin, my stomach is relatively flat, my love handles have shaped themselves to look like they’re a part of my hips so I finally feel good about those, my hip dips and stretch marks never bothered me, the size of my rib cage never bothered me. The only thing that still bothers me Is my chest. I hate that I have boobs. I’ve always wanted to be flat chested and then when I was like 11 puberty decided “LETS GIVE THE BITCH ONE B CUP AND ONE C ALMOST D CUP!” and another thing that sucks is that my binder is dirty and doesn’t work very well so I’m on the search for a new, better one
I will never understand women who want flat chests unless they’re looking to be transgender...
@@trixieagustina6163 I just never saw myself as a big booby bitch
@@trixieagustina6163 hey, trans dude here, i don’t understand why you felt the need to make this comment. binding isn’t exclusive to trans people.
Im the same about my boobs. I had a reduction last year and still think theyre too big and make me look fat. Im a slim person but my boobs are not proportionate. Everyone tells me im crazy. I obsess over it morning and night. I wish I could have them removed altogether because they make me sick. After I had the surgery I was so happy but then they started to drop back to their original shape.. and even though they are much smaller Im still so unhappy... and I dont think I can have the surgery for "free" again (im Canadian btw so the surgery was covered)
I was bullied about my appearance pretty heavily by my family and in school for the longest time and everyone tells me I'll look better if I loose more weight but my brain has convinced me that I will look weirder if I lost weight but i also hate myself the way I am rn and i really wanna loose some weight but in also scared that I won't look better even after i lost weight
the amount of relatability that these TikTok's give to me is S C A R Y dude like- I can't remember what I look like without changing even the smallest features about myself- and my fat doesn't help :')
Great video
Literally I thought I could laugh at this with these people but damn I'm just triggered. LOVE MENTAL ILLNESS SO GREATTTTT. But love the video, good job
Omg is that why I can't look at myself in the mirror and literally hate pictures of myself without a filter? Wish my eyes had a filter
Your eyes already have a filter. You're simply not very much aware of it. You're not seeing yourself like everyone else does, you're looking at yourself in a more downgrading and harsh way than everyone else ever would. So pls consider that you have indeed a 'image may be destroyed by society's beauty standards" filter going on in your head and maybe try seeing yourself from the eyes of someone who loves you 😉
Me too. I feel very awful seeing my body with the barrier of baggy clothes
The girl that said instead of weighing herself she takes photos has to remember that the camera adds ten pounds. And no matter what size we are we’re all beautiful.
It makes me so sad not knowing what i actually look like-
It makes me so sad when people tell me you're losing weight...
It makes me so sad when people call me fat...
It makes me so sad when I'm trying but see no difference 😔
Same I wish I knew how I looked like
@@squirm8272 me too
@@hesperia-177 on your profile pic you don’t look fat. You actually look like those cool tik too guys with abs and things. I’m fat sadly
I honestly think I'm fat I really dont know what I look like ): but being fat isnt a bad thing (:
#bodypositivity #selflove 🧸
9:57-10:05 Bruh that like me too tho
And that's completely fine! Being fat doesn't mean you're ugly. Own your fatness and be proud of who you are!
@@angelbb6847 but heres the thing, in the middle of the night I fucking hate myself and wonder why I don't just starve myself. I try but I end up just giving up. I've lost 10 lbs but I weigh 250 lbs. I need to loose atleast 100 more. Sorryfor that weird vent, I had a fucked up dream and its the only thing I can think about. Sorry about that.
@@angelbb6847 plus i wouldnt say they're "fat"
Bc did you read the title YOU made?
Yes, I know. I may have phrased it bad. But please don't starve yourself, there are so much better alternatives that you may not know about. I'm no specialist about it, but I think it's best for you to see one, everyone deserves to be happy in their own body!
How do I know that I have body dysmorphobia or if I'm just overreacting about everything😃🤙
Tbh I also suck in my belly sometimes when I’m around people. I also let my bottom lip out a bit and suck in my cheeks to look better. Like, when I look in the mirror I look fine but when I see the camera I hate it.
this lowkey reminded me I feel like a potato
but aside the video was lovely
I also do the stomach sucking thing as one of the videos and 7:44. Even with baggy cloths I do it unintentionally. The only thing is I actually have fat there lol
Same
Honestly I just desperately wanna know if I’m fat or skinny
im wearing a size xs in pajama pants for christmas when i usually wear a size m in pajama pants and it’s got me messed up. i can’t tell if its my mind confusing me or if it’s the actually brand of pants that have weird sizing...🙂
You know ever since I was agender people ask me if I have body dysmorphia 🤧😭
People with bdd: doesnt see their body as ir actually is*
Me who sees my body as it actually is and as other does (overweight) and still hate the way it looks: so i dont have bdd?
I’ve gotten back into the habit of starving myself again, so here we are
Oh no honey. I'm sorry if this video may have triggered you, I suggest you to go talk to a specialist before it gets too serious! You deserve to feel happy in your own body.
@@angelbb6847 yeah, I’m getting into a specialist soon, dw. And thanks
There are a lot of free virtual support groups. It’s so helpful. It might be something to look into. Even if you just listen to others. It’s nice to have people relate to you.
where are all the boys whos struggling with bdd? lets unite heroes 💙🥺
Boys dont get as much recognition and support. Many dudes se with bdd, whethernits their height, weight, skin, size of their unit. Its sad because women can talk to eachother much more openly about these issues. Thats why the "sewer slide" rate is higher among men.
I don't own a mirror so I can't body check honestly it doesn't even help
8:25 literally me yesterday
4:06 same
I don’t care how pure the message or that you’re doing a makeup video. If you jump cut every-single-word, you’re actively trying to rob ppl of their sanity. Please-just-stop-okay?
When I look in the mirror..
I see a fat girl.
And to other people
*im still fat*
3:44 - 4:06 exactlyyyyyyyy
So much copyright lol no audio
3:55
body dysmorohia and body dysmorphic disorder aren't the samr thing
Healthiest advice? Stop fucking looking at social media.