knit & rant with me | life feeling repetitive, comparison, awkward moments, etc.
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- Опубликовано: 16 сен 2024
- Comparison and award comments from others are the thief of joy. Join me as I knit and rant so you don't have to do it alone. Don't forget to like, comment, and subscribe. Love you, munchkadees!
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Knitting in bed, talking about existential shit, while wearing that pillow is just an absolute VIBE. I think a lot of people need to hear that life can be mundane and repetitive.
Edit: Ma'am, you're hitting a little too close with the bit about having hobbies as a kid.
Yes, this is so real
I’m 27 and still at home. I live in constant comparison, self doubt, etc. This video hit me in the chest. I was literally having this conversation with my therapist this morning 😭
Im 27 too and lived at home until few months ago. I only moved out because I felt like I have to because of my age 😅It's great having a home for yourself but I realized that my reason to move out was extremely stupid.
Do not compare yourself to others and go at your own pace. The right time will come.
It's your life and no one elses.
I'm 42 and I live at home. There's nothing wrong with me. I'm an artist. 🎉
I’m 27 and exactly the same, I feel like I could’ve written this
21 no money no job and toxic parents
Same same sameeeeeee, so fresh to find others feeling what I feel and I wish we could talk more about it
Shes doing what makes her happy and i think thats amazing
You have no idea how bad I needed to hear this right now. I’m 25, I’m in my last year of college, I took an entire year off first, I just felt so burnt out and tired. I needed the silence, the time to be alone. But now I feel like I’m so boring and I’m not productive or successful. That I’m too old to be in college, I should have a career by now. I needed to be reminded it’s okay to slow down, because that’s how I got here in the first place- I pushed myself so hard for so long
Too old for college? You should be proud of yourself! Whenever people ask me whether I wanna have a career early or study till my 25th, I always tell them I wanna study till my 25th. It's a dream to go to college honestly!! Im 15 btw and I have big dreams for the future!!! It doesn't matter if you spend your early 20s in college studying. I bet others are in that position too. Just remember that everything's gonna turn out fine, really❤❤ I hole you're doing much better now and don't be too hard on yourself!!🫶🫶
Im crying right now. I'm 18 and I look up to you so much. I know that I dont see or know about your whole life, but your videos bring me great comfort and I i always look forward to watching your videos. I used to be in a depressive state and had trouble with my hygiene and self care because of depression, and your get ready with me's and other videos helped motivate me and take confidence in myself to get out that rut. I thank God that you are here and I'm sure that many more people agree with that you are not boring and you change many people's lives everyday. Thank you and love you! ❤ I wish you the best!! I wish to be like you growing up haha 😊
ME TOO! You're just that girl. I wanna be like you!
"I just went to get my bangs fixed not for a roast" hahahahah!
that pillow is insane
cheer up dear there's better days a head & don't say you're not interesting & never call yourself a failure, there's over a million (& counting) of us who would beg to differ.
One of my favorite lessons in life has been learning to sit with myself, as well as slow down and live in the present day. It’s been so hard to do, but genuinely rewarding and has brought me so much peace and introspection.
This video is such a vibe and so relatable. I’ve been focusing on connecting with old hobbies/ passions/ the outdoors and less on social media and it’s refreshing🩷
okay but if you ever want to continue this -- knitting in bed and chatting.
like this is a vibe
Hi um.. This may be an out of place comment but when I watch you're videos/shorts I feel a sense of comfort. You have such a great presence and are truly someone that is a treasure (even tho I don't know you personally lol). I've been having some of the same feelings minus the part where I tell myself that it's ok. Comparing myself to others in both looks and personality and wishing things were different when in reality someone might be thinking the same way about the way I look or my lifestyle. Anyways I love your content and you're absolutely stunning. 💛
Knitting in bed, and talking is so fun and cozyyy ❤❤
Gab, it's okay to have a slower paced life. Many people who have the fast paced crave to slow down a little bit. The thing is, you owe it to yourself to practice your hobbies to figure out what you still like of them, and what you don't like as much anymore. It's okay to change taste in hobbies, and it's okay to have new ones and doing that too. Try out different stuff and see what makes you happy.
Thank you for this video, I needed it too.
watching this while in the state of burnout is just.. honestly i'm motivated to meet my goals, but at the moment i just feel like i wasn't working effective enough and that i was wasting my time 😔
I’m super young 15, but I really enjoy your videos! It’s like a breath of fresh air! You are relatable, funny, and just calming! Thank you for your content and I’m very happy that I found your videos. Hope you are happy and are enjoying just life in general ❤️
I love listening to people rant or talk in general because I myself talk alot and i don’t like when people think they talk to much or think they are annoying that’s also why i always treat other peoples problems like mine to understand them. I love talking and helping people feel good about themselves it makes me happy to know they are confident
Please don't worry about where you stand compared to your age. I'm 27 too turning 28 this year and I don't feel like an adult either. More like a child paying taxes 😅 You seen and done more stuff than many other people. It's your life and you will go your own path in your own pace.
Also keeping your inner child is nothing bad. Keeps life exciting ❤
Omg I love your videos so much you are hilarious 😂😂 You always brighten my day ❤
i watch this once a week i feel like i relate to everything and being told its okay to be boring is nice
Thanks for this, I feel like not enough people talk about these things and I appreciate you being real❤️
Its so crazy because I was feeling so confused and slow last night and just this morning I wake up to this talk. I just want you to know that this really helped me realize that you don't always have to have it figured out. We love you! ❤
Our society also glorifies exhaustion, burnout, sickness, sleep deprivation ect. When we don't have those things we dont feel successful, even though those things are horrid ❤
Needed this, literally crying while watching so thank you ❤. I’m in my final week of uni and I’m so tired and a burnt out I’m struggling to finish my project I have so much to do but last push then I am not doing anything for at least a year. I’m gonna get therapy somehow and take care of me then pursue my art career. I just want to make my weird little stop motions and needle felted work and have cute little art shows and knit at home with a cup of tea or a glass or wine preferably in a garden or balcony with a good view 😂. Sometimes I look at my friends and I get so jealous of how fun they are, they go to parties and raves and are out every night living these wild lives and I’ve tried so many times to do that but it’s not me I like a night out every now and then but with the night people. It’s ok to prefer a chill life we’ve been through a lot in our lives already think we need a worldwide holiday and that hairdresser can bugger off they always make me feel like shit about my hair it’s their job like plastic surgeons, your highlights look fab 🫶
I already loved you for you, but hearing you talk like this makes me love you so much more. Your raw and honest feelings being so thoughtfully expressed is not only so wonderfully refreshing in this world but so relatable. I HATE the quiet too.
I remember I despised being unemployed for eight months (not by choice) and despite living with the most supportive partner, I felt extremely lonely. And I thought I’d finally have to time to restart all the hobbies I lost interest and time for back when I had a job I didn’t realise I hated (loved the people but the job in hindsight was awful). But I never did because I felt so lost and unwanted and silenced. And no matter how much my partner tried to convince me to take up more hobbies on my time at home, I simply didn’t have the interest in my interests anymore. I kept myself busy in attempt to ignore the quiet but it was never what I would call a “beloved hobby or activity”. I simply sank into the quiet and felt awful.
But now I’ve been working at a job I absolutely adore for a year now, like I get excited to go in. And I’ve finally started reading again. I started playing piano again. Having my life be fuller has made me want to ensure that all my free time is full of things I love doing too, things that make me feel human 🩵
sorry, to ramble, I just…. your video kinda made my day. Your content always does. Thank you for being an amazing person in the public for young people to look up to and relate to 🥰
Loved this!! This is what the world and social media need more of. Love your honesty & vulnerability with your audience ❤❤❤
OMG SHES FINALLY BACK
I love your videos ❤❤❤
The music in the background makes this so comforting
Love you and thx for the much needed reminder to slow down ❤❤❤
You are greatly appreciated. Thank you for sharing yourself with us.
Girly you don’t need comfort you need an adventure! Find meaningful adventure it really takes work but is worth it!
Thank you- I needed this. Believe it or not, I would watch your videos feeling like you do in this video, thinking you have everything together and are living an amazing life that I will never have. You never know what someone is going through ❤
4:10 I feel the exact same way I used to be In the music industry for about two years and within those 2 years like you said it was total chaos,loud noises, and uncertainty of what’s going to happen the next day. Their was always something happening and now after crashing out in music industry and getting laid off from my full time job I had to move back in with my mom .( which I’m very grateful and glad for her help) but it just feels like my life is on hold until I get myself together and when I was in the industry it felt like I was actually felt alive and I was doing something that I actually wanted to do for the first time.
Yes girl! I am LOVING ALL OF THIS. Allowing to not feel okay, and that a pregnancy pillow is necessary
I'm literally in the same boat as you gabrielle (we're even the same age) we're simultaneously both mature but we also still feel so childish and like we have so much more to learn and to do it just gets so overwhelming and crazy
Im 17 and I relate. Thank you for the reality check that this is a common experience😂
Awesome Gab 😊🎉😂😂❤
Loved this so much! Please another episode of the knitting session😍🙆🏼♀️
I think it's difficult for many of us to slow down because all we're seeing these days is the glorification of "hustle" culture. To the person reading this (if anyone is): It's not about being productive all the time. Please don't forget that we are human💚 Let your body and mind get the rest that it needs. The world won't end tomorrow just because you decided to take a break today.
My pillow feels inadequate
help why is this so relatable
Man can I cry watching this? 😢❤
Mundane✨ that's a big word for elmo
Love you SM Gab. Keep shining
we need more vlogs we love you
I felt that about being more interesting/interested when younger. I think as we grow up we are overwhelmed by so much that we naturally have to lose some hobbies. Adulting is hard work, we don’t have as much time for them! But it’s amazing to still make time for them!
"Wherever you are in your life, you're doing great" ~Gabrielle. Gabrielle you are just the kindest and sweetest human being 🥰 Thanks for sharing your journey with us.
Thank you for being so real and honest online, it takes courage to be this vulnerable and you are helping a lot of us with thesevideos. Best wishes gab
Comfort in silence. Yes I'll try to find that 😢❤
Thank you so much i needed this!! 😊
Hiiiiiii luv your videos
I whish you all the happiness in the world too you totally deserve it💌 thank you for making me feel like im not alone🎀
I don’t know how I ended up here but this video was extremely relaxing to have on. Have had crippling anxiety the last couple of days and watching this while stretching and doing yoga gave me a breath of relaxation and ease. Thank you. More knitting, venting, and classical music please k thanks.
7 seconds!!! You should do a how to knit video I really want to learn !!!
Luv u ❤ Ty for this. Shining ✨ in the pregnancy pillow btw. Needle work looks lovely
I’m 34 and I still always feel bad about my own actions because I still act like a kid 😢
I feel the way you say you feel drained and not having the interest in doing anything about of the time. ❤
This is the most calming thing I've ever watched! The music just makes it a masterpiece! 🤌😂
I’m very late to this video but this is exactly what I needed to watch because all my friends are going so fast with their lives while I’m going at the speed of a snail
Thank you ❤ I really love you Gabby. I needed to hear that. Sometimes we forget there are other people in the world that feels like us.❤
I watch her videos whenever im down , just makes me feel like taking life chiller
Omg I love this way of hanging out with you, it's so relaxing and I feel like I'm having a chill conversation with a friend. Please make more of these videos, with the calm music and just talking about the things that are on your mind❤
This was so sweet, you are beyond fabulous, never let anyone's stupid words make you think any different (I know, easier said than done👍). I've been told that some people say mean shit to feel better about themselves. I don't understand that at all. I've been taken a back by comments like "do you really like that outfit on yourself because it's not doing you any favors", oooooookay. Or they'd say something so unkind then say " don't you dare cry". It's beyond weird to me how unkind they can be. Last year someone hurt me so bad I stopped trusting everyone, I guess I had to go through the hard stuff because I'm stronger from all that happened and have set boundaries. It's beyond me why people are the way they are but someone told me the other day, you are here, you got to be born which makes you unique/amazing to start with. Nobody has your eyes or smile or heart". I'm so happy you're here, truth gurrrrrl! Happy weekend ✨✨✨❤✨✨✨
I needed this video so bad. I’ve been feeling like my life is so mundane lately and I’m just going through the motions. This video was so refreshing.
I feel just like this and you talking about it made me feel not alone thank you ❤
luv u girl !!!
I adore you❤I relate to this so hard❤I'm 29 and feel like I used to be so interesting and I miss my old hobbies but I have no energy to do them😢we got this, everyone...life goes on
Ily sO much gurl. U make me want to do makeup(usually I’m very lazy and don’t bother cuz I have less patience w it) and deal w myself and the struggles that come my way, lookin up to u. U have a very heartwarming vibe about u, idk if that makes sense but I want u to know that u r strong and very good at putting me at ease by these vids, discussions and advices, this way I don’t feel alone at all and I want u to know that I support u so so so much. Wish u all the very best in life and again love uu! Waiting desperately to see u smile brightly as the sun again in ur next yt shorts ❤❤❤😊
This was so therapeutic ❤❤❤
Love listening to this as I journal ❤ I rarely say this but you should start a podcast, your voice is so nice to listen to
This video was so nice❤ and it was needed😞
SHE IS AN ABSOLUTELY BEAUTIFUL HUMAN BEING ON THE INSIDE AS WELL AS THE OBVIOUS OUTSIDE!!! LOVE HER❤!!!
You are fabulous and hysterical!
Thank you!!! I feel understood 😄
one hearted comment from you would turn my sad day into a very happy day ❤
I been there in my life for the past 2 years. I don't replay know if it's comparaison but I feel so like in a repetitive state and it is not how I want to live my life. But I can't bring myself to have interest for my hobbies anymore. It's so hard but you are not alone.
I see you as my older wise and fun sister and I have no regrets
1:56 you are not boring!!! Whenever I have a bad day i go to your channel and i watch your videos so much!!
Omg hi I love your videos and your hair!❤😊
Thanks for posting this. It’s hilarious & also frank. I think a lot of us grew up with the mentality that you always need to be productive, doing something, doing more. But you also have to allow yourself time for the calm. (Also the pregnancy pillow lmao!)
People who actually stayed 7:42 just to here her rant
i want more of this please😭🫶🏻
That's it. I'll start knitting
i love your long videos sm and youre my favorite influencer
she’s so relatable
To anyone who reads this: you are loved, you are worthy of everything, you are an amazing person, you're not a failure. I bet you clicked on this video to find some comfort from the content creator that seems to have life all figured out because i did too. Oh, and guess what? She hasnt. No one has life all figured out. When we think we got it all figured out, something else hops in leaving us confused. That's normal. That's life. I want you to stop feeling guilty about something you can't control. Life is like a rollercoaster. It has ups and downs. Ups can feel like eternity, but downs can too. It's easy to say that you should stop comparing yourself to others. However, it happens automatically. Even to those who seem like the "perfect person". All i want you to do rn is to just breathe. Let life do its thing. The only thing you need to do is to just live it. Put your phone down and write down a list of all the things you wanna do in this life. It doesn't matter how crazy or boring they are. Just write them down. This will give your life a purpose, something we're all searching for during those times when we think our life is boring.
If you made it this far, congrats! Now go shine, star!!❤❤✨️✨️
why are you so damn amazing and cool and funny and smart and awesome, ALL THE TIME?!?!
So like…this is therapy to me tysm ilym
Omg Gabby you are WAAAAY more interesting than a lot of other “influencers” you are a lot more “real.”
Relatable 🫶🏼
I loved this video! Thank you for being so vulnerable and open, it rly helps!
I would 1,000% forward this to my students but I feel like they’d be so confused since it came from me lol
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Gabrielle you should make a video of you going shopping, I think it would be really cool and it would show us more of your style of clothing! I hope you see this comment!🌷❤️
Love you💞
Your videos make me feel so good💖 you have a lot to offer to the world. 🌿
Love that maternity pillow... Looks comfortable ❤
I adore you.
Gabs is my spirit animal
Someone told me I looked like you so I subscribed ❤
i want more videos like this it made my day