As a girl, I don't necessarily need someone who's funny (even though that'd be a plus), but I definitely need someone who gets my sense of humor. I don't mind being the funny one as long as they match my energy.
If they don't understand your humor then they won't be funny to you. So a man who isn't funny to you is a man who doesn't understand you. You really have to be down bad and settling if you're going with a dude that doesn't entertain you.
These collabs with DKDTV always awesome. David is on point with dating from the guys perspective so happy he was included here. Truthfully dating norms are the same no matter where you go. The chemistry between all of you is fun to watch.
Anna and Danny's advice is so relatable. If you flirt and the person doesn't flirt back, definitely tone it down because they might feel uncomfortable but stop worrying if they're into you :) they still might be. There's too many people in the world to worry if everyone likes you, so flip your perspective and think if you actually like them. If you enjoy flirting and it makes you feel good, then maybe you don't vibe with them. You have to experience passionate, "lip-biting", rip-your-clothes-off energy atleast once, so don't choose vanilla if you like mint choc chip 😉 I do the same when meeting new friends, they might be a nice person but if they're not my cup of tea I'll not bother seeing them again. That means I have less friends but better friendships... and I don't dread socialising anymore (which I used to do, even as an extrovert) because I felt like I had no time for myself or people that matter. Sorry for the tangent! Love your videos Kelsey, they're always so entertaining x
I LOVE seeing you all in one space! You guys make me smile! I wish this was an hour long. I appreciate Danny/ Donald. Still not used to the name change…I like ‘Danny.’
Thanks for this video. Always fun when you guys collab. Observing (only through video) the way Korean guys flirt has helped me in my American dating life. I heard they don’t touch girls they like which is kinda close to what Danny said about not going crazy with flirting as they ultimately are trying to not accidentally offend and show respect. I think the guy you like likes you back but he is nervous. But since you are are more assertive and like assertiveness think about if you accept that approach even if it means he likes you.
I don’t know if I agree with ‘romance is ambiguity’ because I feel like (and have see it happen) if people are not on the same page then it is more likely that people could get hurt; maybe one of them just wants s3x but the other actually thinks there is love between them, you know? There could be room for manipulation and hurt. Moreover, there are oblivious people (me lol) who do not notice when someone is interested or flirting; I honestly find it much more attractive if someone outright tells me they want to be my boyfriend because he knows what he wants and isn’t scared of voicing his feelings. I have been left in the dark (ambiguous) in the past and got played every single time so I think it is better to be clear and honest
as a people pleaser who seeks validation, I will 1000000% send memes to friends and family and offer to make their favourite foods and stuff like that. not even remotely flirting just just want people i look up to or respect to tell me i'm funny or that i'm actually good at cooking and stuff like that to counter act my crippling sense of self doubt. I also just don't actually know how to flirt too. but even if i did, i'd still send memes to friends and family and make food because i just like making the people in my life smile no matter what kind of interpersonal relationship i have with them.
Why is it important to be respectful, respect boundaries and not make a woman uncomfortable only if you want to date her and not if you're just into her physically?!
This was so funny, thanks guys - love these collabs 💜💜 For me, you can usually tell if a guy is interested, if you don’t know it’s usually because he isn’t keen 😂😂🤷♂️ But I don’t know any Korean guys…I don’t think I’d like to be kept guessing, it seems somewhat childish - finding a guy I’m keen on is rare, so I want to spend time with him and get to know him when that connection happens, not be messed around and left hanging - I’m not into those kind of games 🤷♂️🥰🥰
Just tell them if you like them and you want to date...don't wait. But Danny, the girls will now be leary of you🤣🤣uncomfortably happy for stranger touching.
From my observation,Koreans are all in their mind and do not rely on the vibes,chemistry and feel of the moment so they loose a lot of what is really important
Oh my Gawww I LOVE LOVE LOVe this so much so entertaining and funny. I am a subscriber of all of you and I had no idea you guys knew each other can you all do this again.
I guess if I had a guy flirt with me in the way to ask stupid question, I'd assume after a few times that he's either stupid or too lazy to look it up. Those also feel like forced conversation, so the chemistry on a date would be anyway shit.
Have a friend dating a Korean guy he says he loves her. She thinks it's just a way of show affection. Do Korean men say they love u when they just dating?
Agrred it's a human thing. What if the guy is nervous or the girl is super shy. You never know and it's definitely not about where they are from. Love to you guys so funny ❤
ok i have the similar question as kelsey.... there's this one guy and we were together in middle school and recently he suddenly dm'ed me on insta and we did started talking and he talk a lot like seriously a lot...he talks about his life, his ex, his family, his issues, sometimes just some random talks.... so what is this?? is he tryna get close to me? or he's flirting??
As a woman its absolutely critical for me that someone has a sense of humour and effortlessly makes me laugh, its so attractive honestly. BUT it has to be natural, effortless and just part of his personality. I don't need someone to google jokes trying to make me laugh just for the sake of it, thats just cringe when its forced.
Yeah!! David doesnt seem the type of guy who would be succesfull at joking..😅 I love his personality, what we see at least, but to me he seems more like the type who is always on the verge of being awkward, and thats Exactly what makes him so cute and likable. Wow. Donald here.. on fire!👌😂
As a girl, what would you say tho? It’s kind of “okay” if a guy makes first step, even if is cheesy, kind of it’s ok - but how does a girl stay mysterious (?!) and desirable but makes the first step?!
The way they kept interrupting the girl on the left was hurting my spirit ... Male Korean Daria, is that you? ... Fr, bragging about being good at sex is not a flex 😂
I find the guy annoying. He keeps picking at kelsey's statements. I'm not saying to Blindly agree but he seems offended on anything against korean men, he's not the average Korean man so stop covering for them.
I guess foreigners are way more conservative than I realized. If a guy was just constantly trying to get in your pants it would be kind of cringe and extremely immature. This also seems like a channel where fun is shopping and movie f*** time. Personally I would want someone with deeper interests like art, culture, scenic walks, tea culture....etc.
I need a Korean man whom is like Michael Jackson with have caring and understanding personality or whom is easy to talk with like open minded because i am a introvert type ... I don’t need a Korean man whom is like Wonho like don’t reply me back or left me behind ....I need a Korean man whom is done a military and can fight for his girlfriend ...
What about a 45 year old Korean man who texted you everyday from morning 'til night? Well, at work he still does text if not busy. I mean this literally happens for 9 straight months now. Do you think he is flirting? 🤣🤣
What if I said on the 3rd date "Can I meet your parents?" Would that would be a good way to separate the guys who want a fling from the guys who are serious. Might as well know if I'll get nice or horrid in-laws straight away before I bother to properly like or love their son right? :p
In Korean culture, if you’re meeting the parents, then it means you’re getting married. In American culture, you might be ok, but it might still be considered premature depending on the current status of the relationship.
@@bkdsignature doesn’t necessarily mean your getting married (although a lot of times it does mean that) it just means that the relationship is serious although i do agree 3rd date is way to soon to ask that for Korean culture
I don't know why a lot of people think that Korean guys are shy or not flirting. They do, and they not shy at all, maybe it depends we're are you from, so your perspective changes. But from my point of view and experience they are not shy, and they know very well how to flirt .
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I hope you are ok Kelsey, terrible thing on Haloween :(
@@elinab22 We all feel likewise
As a girl, I don't necessarily need someone who's funny (even though that'd be a plus), but I definitely need someone who gets my sense of humor. I don't mind being the funny one as long as they match my energy.
Ugh yess, say it louder!
I agree this is so tru!
If they don't understand your humor then they won't be funny to you. So a man who isn't funny to you is a man who doesn't understand you. You really have to be down bad and settling if you're going with a dude that doesn't entertain you.
Yes.
Kelsey x DKDKTV collabs are the best!!!
You know it!
@@KelseytheKorean Thanks for uploading a new video Kelsey Danny says the f word too much. 🌺🌹💐💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜
I love these three together.
These collabs with DKDTV always awesome. David is on point with dating from the guys perspective so happy he was included here. Truthfully dating norms are the same no matter where you go.
The chemistry between all of you is fun to watch.
Lol thats Danny aka Donald...💪
Guy perspective? Women hate men like him. You shouldn't behave like him, he show to be a player
@@Mariajbh2yeah I was getting real uncomfy listening to him 😭
I wish this would have been at least an hour. You guys are so fun together.
Anna and Danny's advice is so relatable.
If you flirt and the person doesn't flirt back, definitely tone it down because they might feel uncomfortable but stop worrying if they're into you :) they still might be.
There's too many people in the world to worry if everyone likes you, so flip your perspective and think if you actually like them. If you enjoy flirting and it makes you feel good, then maybe you don't vibe with them.
You have to experience passionate, "lip-biting", rip-your-clothes-off energy atleast once, so don't choose vanilla if you like mint choc chip 😉
I do the same when meeting new friends, they might be a nice person but if they're not my cup of tea I'll not bother seeing them again. That means I have less friends but better friendships... and I don't dread socialising anymore (which I used to do, even as an extrovert) because I felt like I had no time for myself or people that matter.
Sorry for the tangent! Love your videos Kelsey, they're always so entertaining x
I love Kelsey's honesty and fun personality.
I LOVE seeing you all in one space! You guys make me smile! I wish this was an hour long. I appreciate Danny/ Donald. Still not used to the name change…I like ‘Danny.’
Thanks for this video. Always fun when you guys collab. Observing (only through video) the way Korean guys flirt has helped me in my American dating life. I heard they don’t touch girls they like which is kinda close to what Danny said about not going crazy with flirting as they ultimately are trying to not accidentally offend and show respect. I think the guy you like likes you back but he is nervous. But since you are are more assertive and like assertiveness think about if you accept that approach even if it means he likes you.
These collabs are the best, I would watch you three just talk for hours lol it's so funny
I miss David on the collabs, he makes it even funnier lol try to bring him to the next one? 🤣🤭 love the chemistry with Danny and Anna too
I don’t know if I agree with ‘romance is ambiguity’ because I feel like (and have see it happen) if people are not on the same page then it is more likely that people could get hurt; maybe one of them just wants s3x but the other actually thinks there is love between them, you know? There could be room for manipulation and hurt. Moreover, there are oblivious people (me lol) who do not notice when someone is interested or flirting; I honestly find it much more attractive if someone outright tells me they want to be my boyfriend because he knows what he wants and isn’t scared of voicing his feelings. I have been left in the dark (ambiguous) in the past and got played every single time so I think it is better to be clear and honest
Exactly straightforwardness over everything
yes agreed
I definitely agree with you. I can't tell when someone's flirting with me. I need to know directly :D
Romance is not ambiguity, he is the typical player ambiguous
The Dream Girl Team did it again! and Danny😁
Kelsey needs to talk about sugarbabies in Korea, like I wanna know what the game is like over there
I fucking love the gems of wisdom Dan spits
I think someone raided Cosmo articles from 10 years ago to make up this list 😂😂😂
as a people pleaser who seeks validation, I will 1000000% send memes to friends and family and offer to make their favourite foods and stuff like that.
not even remotely flirting just just want people i look up to or respect to tell me i'm funny or that i'm actually good at cooking and stuff like that to counter act my crippling sense of self doubt.
I also just don't actually know how to flirt too. but even if i did, i'd still send memes to friends and family and make food because i just like making the people in my life smile no matter what kind of interpersonal relationship i have with them.
Kelsey you look amazing!! Heeeeyyy..and…you’re definitely in that 1% of the population who have a fun personality!! 😉
😂😂😂as an American I find this funny
Omg the subtitles said you graduated from Beyonce University 😂😂😂
8:37 The fact that even Kelsey finds Danny extra 🤣
I love seeing the gang all together so funny and entertaining!
4:42 I've never needed to be funny 🤷♂
Dayum!!
Girls like a sense of humour, so good luck with that.
Wow I love the confidence💜 Also David is funny, sweet and handsome 😂 I think he dated a model before too.. but.. can i date you?!??🥰
Tell 'em!
Why is it important to be respectful, respect boundaries and not make a woman uncomfortable only if you want to date her and not if you're just into her physically?!
Exactly…
Lol what a trío 🤣😭 I'm dead💀
This was so funny, thanks guys - love these collabs 💜💜
For me, you can usually tell if a guy is interested, if you don’t know it’s usually because he isn’t keen 😂😂🤷♂️ But I don’t know any Korean guys…I don’t think I’d like to be kept guessing, it seems somewhat childish - finding a guy I’m keen on is rare, so I want to spend time with him and get to know him when that connection happens, not be messed around and left hanging - I’m not into those kind of games 🤷♂️🥰🥰
Just tell them if you like them and you want to date...don't wait. But Danny, the girls will now be leary of you🤣🤣uncomfortably happy for stranger touching.
Fav trio is back! Hahahha! Danny is too tired to care.
"Romantic is ambiguity..." I deadass chocked on my noodles. 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Wow you and Danny had me in a fit of laughter. Great topics and different views were good. I enjoyed this a lot Kelsey. Cheers😃👍
I've known korean and chinese men and most of them are handsome smart and have a fun sense of humor❤
From my observation,Koreans are all in their mind and do not rely on the vibes,chemistry and feel of the moment so they loose a lot of what is really important
My fav collaboration 🥰🎉
Wait has Danny broke up with his girlfriend??? She's not in his insta anymore. When and why????
lol st8 up revealing himself at least, he went full mask-off eww lmaoooo
I LOVE this I was laughing
My brain can not handle "romance is ambiguity" Like I have no idea what's happening here, what do I do?
The best group of friends I could have asked God for. You guys are awesome
That's why i like danny! Straight up honest and funny. 😂 🇵🇭
Danny is fucking HILARIOUS 😭
alsays enjoy seeing dkdktv on your channel
This was funny.😆
Kelsey has me rotf 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 "oh you also go to that school I study there"
Oh my Gawww I LOVE LOVE LOVe this so much so entertaining and funny. I am a subscriber of all of you and I had no idea you guys knew each other can you all do this again.
Omg kelsey you're so fucking funny like the way u ask its next level hahahahhaahha
I neeeeeed a funny guy. I love guys with fun personalities who can make laugh. I'll choose that over a super handsome guy every time!
I guess if I had a guy flirt with me in the way to ask stupid question, I'd assume after a few times that he's either stupid or too lazy to look it up. Those also feel like forced conversation, so the chemistry on a date would be anyway shit.
Have a friend dating a Korean guy he says he loves her. She thinks it's just a way of show affection. Do Korean men say they love u when they just dating?
Agrred it's a human thing. What if the guy is nervous or the girl is super shy. You never know and it's definitely not about where they are from. Love to you guys so funny ❤
Them thinking only incels are not superficials is the most korean thing I have ever seen.
Thank you
brilliant kels i loled in the cafe! also i am hete in seoul in hongdae and i really want to hang out with i got no one here 😭
Isn’t Danny married?
No
ok i have the similar question as kelsey.... there's this one guy and we were together in middle school and recently he suddenly dm'ed me on insta and we did started talking and he talk a lot like seriously a lot...he talks about his life, his ex, his family, his issues, sometimes just some random talks.... so what is this?? is he tryna get close to me? or he's flirting??
LOVING this trio. 👍 PS: Danny is an uncover freak. Okay maybe not under cover. Hes pretty open with his freakiness. 😂
I think the flirting becomes more obvious based on the age and experience of the guy.
The thumbnail had me..🙂
Same girl same 😂
I'm over here dying 🤣🤣🤣
As a woman its absolutely critical for me that someone has a sense of humour and effortlessly makes me laugh, its so attractive honestly. BUT it has to be natural, effortless and just part of his personality. I don't need someone to google jokes trying to make me laugh just for the sake of it, thats just cringe when its forced.
Yeah!! David doesnt seem the type of guy who would be succesfull at joking..😅 I love his personality, what we see at least, but to me he seems more like the type who is always on the verge of being awkward, and thats Exactly what makes him so cute and likable. Wow. Donald here.. on fire!👌😂
14:25 OMG this moment 🤣
Sense of humour is a must
As a girl, what would you say tho? It’s kind of “okay” if a guy makes first step, even if is cheesy, kind of it’s ok - but how does a girl stay mysterious (?!) and desirable but makes the first step?!
Is it offensive for a korean guy when you tell him youre friends? Huhu i hope I get an answer
i beg u guys to make a podcast together!
Danny wants to burn that article
I click the vids because of Jin’s face😅😂
Who is Donald? And why?
I'd rather be funny and friend zoned, but he wife me up, so I'm good either way. Korean men are quick. I like that😊
16:09 Anna speaks the truth
As one of my bestfriends says (and here in Spain I find it very true): If you sleep with a girl and you don't have sex, it will never happen.
for me everything is flirting because I'm ENFP XD
Anna is so cute and sweet!
Amazing video 👌
Damn this is a dream team 😭🤣
Wtf did I just heard “ I don’t do that in the first date. “ I don’t swallow on the first date” omg 😂😂
Guys, I would love to sit down and drink with you 🥃
an oyster ? or rather an abalone? 🙈🤣🤣🤣
Oh god😂
Not true David. My ex was the only one that bragged in the beginning and he was the best 😁
The way they kept interrupting the girl on the left was hurting my spirit ... Male Korean Daria, is that you? ... Fr, bragging about being good at sex is not a flex 😂
Hello Kelsey, We've learned of the tragic events in Korean. Would you kindly let us know that you're OK? Thankyou so much for all you do
I love when guys comma nice a lot I think its attractive but if he doesn't text much I assume he's not interested
I find the guy annoying. He keeps picking at kelsey's statements. I'm not saying to Blindly agree but he seems offended on anything against korean men, he's not the average Korean man so stop covering for them.
I guess foreigners are way more conservative than I realized. If a guy was just constantly trying to get in your pants it would be kind of cringe and extremely immature.
This also seems like a channel where fun is shopping and movie f*** time.
Personally I would want someone with deeper interests like art, culture, scenic walks, tea culture....etc.
Oh Anna
I need a Korean man whom is like Michael Jackson with have caring and understanding personality or whom is easy to talk with like open minded because i am a introvert type ... I don’t need a Korean man whom is like Wonho like don’t reply me back or left me behind ....I need a Korean man whom is done a military and can fight for his girlfriend ...
😂😂😂😂😂😂 so funny
What about a 45 year old Korean man who texted you everyday from morning 'til night? Well, at work he still does text if not busy. I mean this literally happens for 9 straight months now. Do you think he is flirting? 🤣🤣
Wow😂
"If I'm not interested I will get physical on the first date" WHAT a crappy guy!!! Shame on you to treat ANYBODY like that.👎👎
😮
why do they have to shallow????? i guess i will be single. I'm nasty but not that nasty. I love the honest part
What if I said on the 3rd date "Can I meet your parents?" Would that would be a good way to separate the guys who want a fling from the guys who are serious. Might as well know if I'll get nice or horrid in-laws straight away before I bother to properly like or love their son right? :p
In Korean culture, if you’re meeting the parents, then it means you’re getting married. In American culture, you might be ok, but it might still be considered premature depending on the current status of the relationship.
@@bkdsignature doesn’t necessarily mean your getting married (although a lot of times it does mean that) it just means that the relationship is serious although i do agree 3rd date is way to soon to ask that for Korean culture
Donald woohoo🤠
I don't know why a lot of people think that Korean guys are shy or not flirting. They do, and they not shy at all, maybe it depends we're are you from, so your perspective changes. But from my point of view and experience they are not shy, and they know very well how to flirt .
Omg, Danny is just súper funny. I dont know if he does it on purpose or not, but he ends up being funny. "Dont subscribe to dkdktv"
Everything for notti 👌
Why do ppl write these articles? 😅😂 it be the cringiest stuff
Thr way yall kept talking over the girl on the left and not letting ha speak irritated me during the whole video🥴🥴
Ι guess all my male friends who send me memes everyday are into me. not
the guy sounds so boring...