I have attempted to come out 2 separate times. The first time was when I was 10 and I basically told my mom that I was both “100% straight and 100% gay like how Jesus is both 100% man and God” but my mom basically laughed in my face and told me that I was straight. The second time was when I was 14 and one of my brothers outed me to my mom as bi before I really got the chance to prepare what I was going to say. Since it happened like that, it was a disaster ending with my mom and brother telling me that I was just confused and hypnotized. That interaction in particular messed me up for years and tbh, I’m still not fully over it. I am doing better now and am working on a plan to move out and be fully out by the end of the year (my New Year’s resolution) wish me luck and thank you Chris for helping me give more confidence to be myself since I found your channel.
That hypnotized part really got me honestly. Same was the assumption by my parents. I too wasn't ready to come out but sadly being intensely interrogated by my Father on one dinner night , I teared up and said nothing for 2-3 minutes and it was pure silence across the entire table. Then I told them everything while also bawling my eyes out. They of course didn't took it well and grounded me badly , even took away my phone and deleting all the stuff I had in it that was queer. Few days later I talked to one of the counselors from my school who knew me. I talked ,came out to her and my class teacher and got the support I rather wanted from my parents. We secretly planned a meeting and called my parents and had hours long of counseling. It turned out pretty well. Although they still are icky about it but we don't really talk about it. I also got my phone and privacy back. After that I've had few conversations with my mother and all of them ended with us being in tears and displeasured. I've now just decided to not focus on that thing and rather focus and give all my energy to my goal in career. Rest will set in accordingly. I just wanted share this with you so that you don't feel alone. All The Best Buddy. I hope your coming out go perfect. Do share it too if you could hahaha!❤
@@conlon4332 thank you, I was struggling to figure out a way to come out to my mom because I didn’t know what the term bisexual was yet. I used that metaphor to describe how I felt and it didn’t go over well because my mom thought that you can only be straight or gay, no in between. A lot has happened since this comment so I’ll try to keep it brief as I can: I dropped out of my homophobic university and I had an argument over it with my mom and stepdad once they found out. I told my bio dad what happened and he said to call him but my mom spied on my conversation with him and overheard me saying that my dad wasn’t as bad as my mom claimed he was and kicked me out. My dad let me in and is getting me an apartment. Him, his gf, and their roommate have been so helpful to me alongside my childhood best friend who acted like a therapist for me because I couldn’t afford one. I’m so happy my New Year’s resolution is actually happening.
1. Good advice. 2. AMAZING Heartstopper shirt EDIT: since I saw the shirt i went and put almost all the Heartstopper official merch onto My wishlist 🏳️🌈
I hate how us gay/LGBT people have to come out and be nervous or hide from our family/friends. Being gay or liking the same gender should be normalized by now. Straight people don't have to come out cause it is already modernized, and being Gay has been around for years, It didn't just pop up and became a trend out of the blue. Society needs to change this STAT. Agree or Disagree: 👇 comment
My son's anxiety almost disappeared when he came out to us and his friends. We were so relieved to find out ,that his friends at school were as supportive as we are❤.
@@Elfe628 But straight folks aren't to blame for being born straight and that the vast majority of people are straight. If the vast majority of men are straight it's natural that a persons brain is going to assume he's straight(or at least more likely to be) until told differently or unless they are obviously overtly gay. Even gay people will make assumption like this. This is the way a persons brain works and it's automatic without them even thinking about it. When we meet difference people of different sexes out mind automatically makes assumtions about them. For example, If a woman was walking alone at night and seen a strange looking man she's likely to feel more threatened than if she were to see a strange looking woman. There are certain things that have to happen in order for human beings to interact and communicate with each other, and they happen automatically. The brain has to make certain assumptions, project certain things, and operate along certain lines. basic projection and assumption is necessary for communication. If you couldn't make these basic, primary projections and assumptions, it would be like everyones a space alien, where you could not assume anything meant anything and would need some kind of interpretation for every single thing. The brain makes the automatic assumptions and projections it needs to make in order to facilitate and engage in communication with another human being. Studies have repeatedly demonstrated that this effect is unconscious and unavoidable with machines(the eliza effect), therefore it stands to reason it would be even more unavoidable and more powerful with actual human beings. It happens on a very deep level and is part of the basic programming of your brain. When we talk to animals, we don't usually assume or project the same things we assume or project when we are talking to humans. Our brain sees them differently, therefore it operates differently when dealing with them. Most of the time, basic projection onto others works fine. We are not projecting anything crazy onto other people or anything, usually; just a basic understanding of emotions, perceptions, words, and things like that. Knowledge cannot override this input because it is part of the basic way the brain works. and it's not something that you can educate yourself out of. I understand it can be frustrating for gay people to be a minority group in a mostly straight world, but that's just the way things are. It's like if a person has aspergers, people aren't going to automatically assume they have aspergers because most people don't have aspergers. The aspergers person is going to have to tell new people they meet that they are aspergers in order for them to know. The human mind works on averages and assumptions about all kinds of things or we wouldn't be able to understand other humans or the differences between the sexes at all.
The best thing you can do (if you’re scared) is wait until you have a boyfriend that you think is great enough to bring home. Let your family know “this is my boyfriend” or “by the way, I have a boyfriend”. Somehow it was easier for me to say that I have a boyfriend rather then saying “I’m gay/bi/pan/lesbian/etc”
I’m Soo grateful that you dropped this vid today: ON MY BIRTHDAY! Because I’m bi and don’t really know how to come out to my parents. I’m 15 so it’s hard for me to come out. ❤
Whatever you decide to do, do it at YOUR pace and at a time that's right for you. For what it's worth.. my advice is... if you're unsure about how to proceed, wait until there's someone or something important in your life that justifies the risk of you getting a negative reaction. I hope things go well for you.
When I actually said the word, after 6 years with my partner (who used to travel with Mother and me) she looked at me and said, "Really? Now?" Then she said she had been waiting ten years for me to bring it up.
When I came out to my mom, she cried a lot, but she accepted me because she loves me; we talked, and she told me she cried because of how my life is going to be harder because of me being gay, how I could suffer from a hate crime for example and be murdered. Our parents usually just want what's best for us, so we need to be empathetic with them in situations like that, because they just don't want us to suffer. I love my mom, and she loves me too ❤️
Most parents already know, mine did. I told the parent that was least likely to be accepting so you've already had the worst reaction, from there it was easy. Turns out most people don't give a shit anyway, those that don't accept you don't need to be in your life
Literally went downstairs in a wreck of tears and had a panic attack then told my mum Then she told my dad 8 months later told my bff on text 1 month later told my friends in person at school 4 months later my sister found out after our phones accidentally linked up and she saw me messaging a boy lmao
I found that coming out for me was just living my life I'm not screaming out that I'm gay but straight people don't do that either. If you have pride in yourself and pride in your activities and actions just being your true self and honest with yourself plus your parents probably already know
My mother talked about the cute way I slept from infancy. When I was 50, she still told me how I slept with my hand fallen back. Like a limp wrist backwards. She never figured out that I was gay. You wouldn't want to have told my late mother anything about gay.
My mum always knew I was going to be gay since I was very young and she's my biggest supporter my dad said I would disown you if you turned gay that did not stop me because I knew my mum would support me no matter what so just remember there's always someone who would support you
I have 3 adult sons (31, 28, 21) and a grandson. We've always told them that under no uncertain terms should they ever question our love, loyalty, acceptance, or friendship. Love is 100% unconditional so if they are gay, straight, trans, whatever, not an issue. Currently none have come out, we have no expectations of any particular preference, so if they come out late, or never do because they need not, that's perfectly fine. 💜💜💜
My dad left when I was 6 years old. My mom is a preacher's kid making it more difficult than anything. I asked her in a hypothetical question mind you. This is what I said "Mom. What if I was gay?" Her response was "You're not gay!!!"
Instead of thinking about it as coming out to family and friends think of it as letting them into your life, I heard this from a very smart person one time And if they choose not to be involved with your life, that is their choice and their loss
I never really came out... just out of the blue my mom told me "Do you know X? I think he's a good guy and he'd be a good son in law, just throwing it out there.", when I have 2 older brothers that are already married. Since then I knew she knew and that was her way of knowing I knew she knew.
Number 0: make sure you're financially independent and preferably to live in a first world country that is generally more accepting. I failed miserably this rule
If the parents accept that the person is gay they should accept him/ her for who that person is, if the or any parent is kind of strict, the other parent or friend should try to make that other parent see that the person who is about to come out is the same person regardless, and accept that person instead of treating that person like badly.
My parents know that I am always around older guys, they have no idea why, but I really don’t do the comming out as: “hey parents I am into okder guys” I will just advertise that I am going to visit them with a friend and than casually mention, well btw that is my partner.
Sexuality and orientation is your own business I think (gay) society forgets that u don’t haaave to tell everyone “omg I’m gay” . There’s more to life than just who you love being the same gender as urself [I say that as a gay guy]
I literally came out with a shitpost meme posted on pinterest... But seriously... Unless your parents are really homophobic or extremely religious, I don't think you should plan it or think it's so deep. If they love you, and you're patient enough to answer their questions and help them to understand what it means to you and how thing are from your perspective, they'll eventually understand! It takes time, but that's okay because we don't all have knowledge about that. Hope you understand my shitty excuse of a comment :D
Let me add something, you don't always have to come out. If you are at risk of getting kicked out of your house, beaten up or anything like that, you shouldn't come out for now. I know It sucks but, putting yourself in danger is not a good idea.
😊Keep this up - it’s good advice. Personal note I picked my Mum to tell first - she fainted; said don’t tell your Dad. Picked up courage about 6 gruelling weeks later - always thought you might be, he said. Your Mum won’t like it but I’ll tell her, son.
Question what happens if u get kicked out if u tell them im a 13 year old they all hate lgbt and im the only lgbt in my family but they dont WHAT DO I DO
Or just don’t and let them pick up the pieces for themselves like I did. I mean, straight don’t come out to their parents why should we be expected to?
Generations ago, i.e. 50s and 60s was impossible in my family mainly because of religious beliefs; of which I obviously have strong views against the Bible.
If people are difficult coming out of the closet they should see a clinical psychologist for the best guidance and coping mechanisms. That’s my thoughts. No one should ever make you come out if that happened to me. I would be friend them within a heartbeat. I haven’t seen Brett in quite awhile, have you both broken up, and are you with art now?
Really enjoyed your live video that you did today I’m Rick from Atlanta I said hello to you I don’t want my iPhone is overheating bad joke my humor is not that great
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Let me add a 6th way. Email them a link to your video. :D
😂 haha
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Aww❤
This is something I'll try one day
I have attempted to come out 2 separate times. The first time was when I was 10 and I basically told my mom that I was both “100% straight and 100% gay like how Jesus is both 100% man and God” but my mom basically laughed in my face and told me that I was straight. The second time was when I was 14 and one of my brothers outed me to my mom as bi before I really got the chance to prepare what I was going to say. Since it happened like that, it was a disaster ending with my mom and brother telling me that I was just confused and hypnotized. That interaction in particular messed me up for years and tbh, I’m still not fully over it. I am doing better now and am working on a plan to move out and be fully out by the end of the year (my New Year’s resolution) wish me luck and thank you Chris for helping me give more confidence to be myself since I found your channel.
That hypnotized part really got me honestly. Same was the assumption by my parents. I too wasn't ready to come out but sadly being intensely interrogated by my Father on one dinner night , I teared up and said nothing for 2-3 minutes and it was pure silence across the entire table. Then I told them everything while also bawling my eyes out. They of course didn't took it well and grounded me badly , even took away my phone and deleting all the stuff I had in it that was queer.
Few days later I talked to one of the counselors from my school who knew me. I talked ,came out to her and my class teacher and got the support I rather wanted from my parents. We secretly planned a meeting and called my parents and had hours long of counseling. It turned out pretty well. Although they still are icky about it but we don't really talk about it. I also got my phone and privacy back.
After that I've had few conversations with my mother and all of them ended with us being in tears and displeasured.
I've now just decided to not focus on that thing and rather focus and give all my energy to my goal in career. Rest will set in accordingly.
I just wanted share this with you so that you don't feel alone. All The Best Buddy. I hope your coming out go perfect. Do share it too if you could hahaha!❤
> moving out will help establish your independence ~
@@user-sy9zs5ur6l agreed, that’s what I’m working towards and it’s definitely possible.
I think that is actually a good metaphor for being bi. I'm sorry it wasn't well-received.
@@conlon4332 thank you, I was struggling to figure out a way to come out to my mom because I didn’t know what the term bisexual was yet. I used that metaphor to describe how I felt and it didn’t go over well because my mom thought that you can only be straight or gay, no in between. A lot has happened since this comment so I’ll try to keep it brief as I can:
I dropped out of my homophobic university and I had an argument over it with my mom and stepdad once they found out. I told my bio dad what happened and he said to call him but my mom spied on my conversation with him and overheard me saying that my dad wasn’t as bad as my mom claimed he was and kicked me out. My dad let me in and is getting me an apartment. Him, his gf, and their roommate have been so helpful to me alongside my childhood best friend who acted like a therapist for me because I couldn’t afford one. I’m so happy my New Year’s resolution is actually happening.
I think I’ve been dropping subtle hints since birth 💀💀(good luck to all who are coming out you’ve got this!💙💙💙)
Nah I am part but I have to drop this joke
You mean coming out of the womb
Lmao. Gotta be more direct then. ❤
Chris, you are moving from twink cute to grown man handsome and I like it. You never looked better.
His eyes ❤
#6 Your Mom asks you if you are gay. Stealing the dramatic moment away from you. 😅
I agree
1. Good advice.
2. AMAZING Heartstopper shirt
EDIT: since I saw the shirt i went and put almost all the Heartstopper official merch onto My wishlist 🏳️🌈
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@@alm-e-jamhoorpakistan9470 sorry what?
Straight females like it to
I hate how us gay/LGBT people have to come out and be nervous or hide from our family/friends.
Being gay or liking the same gender should be normalized by now.
Straight people don't have to come out cause it is already modernized, and being Gay has been around for years, It didn't just pop up and became a trend out of the blue.
Society needs to change this STAT.
Agree or Disagree: 👇 comment
My son's anxiety almost disappeared when he came out to us and his friends. We were so relieved to find out ,that his friends at school were as supportive as we are❤.
@@user-wv5vc6yq7ogood stuff
Pleased to hear this
Agree 100%. Straight folks also do not need to tell hey im straight
@@Elfe628 But straight folks aren't to blame for being born straight and that the vast majority of people are straight. If the vast majority of men are straight it's natural that a persons brain is going to assume he's straight(or at least more likely to be) until told differently or unless they are obviously overtly gay. Even gay people will make assumption like this.
This is the way a persons brain works and it's automatic without them even thinking about it. When we meet difference people of different sexes out mind automatically makes assumtions about them.
For example, If a woman was walking alone at night and seen a strange looking man she's likely to feel more threatened than if she were to see a strange looking woman.
There are certain things that have to happen in order for human beings to interact and communicate with each other, and they happen automatically. The brain has to make certain assumptions, project certain things, and operate along certain lines. basic projection and assumption is necessary for communication. If you couldn't make these basic, primary projections and assumptions, it would be like everyones a space alien, where you could not assume anything meant anything and would need some kind of interpretation for every single thing.
The brain makes the automatic assumptions and projections it needs to make in order to facilitate and engage in communication with another human being. Studies have repeatedly demonstrated that this effect is unconscious and unavoidable with machines(the eliza effect), therefore it stands to reason it would be even more unavoidable and more powerful with actual human beings.
It happens on a very deep level and is part of the basic programming of your brain. When we talk to animals, we don't usually assume or project the same things we assume or project when we are talking to humans. Our brain sees them differently, therefore it operates differently when dealing with them. Most of the time, basic projection onto others works fine. We are not projecting anything crazy onto other people or anything, usually; just a basic understanding of emotions, perceptions, words, and things like that.
Knowledge cannot override this input because it is part of the basic way the brain works. and it's not something that you can educate yourself out of. I understand it can be frustrating for gay people to be a minority group in a mostly straight world, but that's just the way things are. It's like if a person has aspergers, people aren't going to automatically assume they have aspergers because most people don't have aspergers. The aspergers person is going to have to tell new people they meet that they are aspergers in order for them to know. The human mind works on averages and assumptions about all kinds of things or we wouldn't be able to understand other humans or the differences between the sexes at all.
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The best thing you can do (if you’re scared) is wait until you have a boyfriend that you think is great enough to bring home. Let your family know “this is my boyfriend” or “by the way, I have a boyfriend”. Somehow it was easier for me to say that I have a boyfriend rather then saying “I’m gay/bi/pan/lesbian/etc”
I’m Soo grateful that you dropped this vid today: ON MY BIRTHDAY! Because I’m bi and don’t really know how to come out to my parents. I’m 15 so it’s hard for me to come out. ❤
Good luck, buddy, honest, just good luck. ❤❤❤.
Whatever you decide to do, do it at YOUR pace and at a time that's right for you.
For what it's worth.. my advice is... if you're unsure about how to proceed, wait until there's someone or something important in your life that justifies the risk of you getting a negative reaction.
I hope things go well for you.
@@bookie5667 Thank you soooo much buddy
@@svn1904 Jesus loves you. Accept him as your lord and savior and you are free.
I told my mom upfront and she figured it out real quick and my dad...I wrote him a letter as we were never close
Good advice, especially the backup friend or family members! There's strength in numbers ❤
When I actually said the word, after 6 years with my partner (who used to travel with Mother and me) she looked at me and said, "Really? Now?" Then she said she had been waiting ten years for me to bring it up.
Understandable tbh
I wrote a letter and left it on their bed they said as long as I’m happy that’s all that matters ❤️
When I came out to my mom, she cried a lot, but she accepted me because she loves me; we talked, and she told me she cried because of how my life is going to be harder because of me being gay, how I could suffer from a hate crime for example and be murdered. Our parents usually just want what's best for us, so we need to be empathetic with them in situations like that, because they just don't want us to suffer. I love my mom, and she loves me too ❤️
This was good advice! 👍😃
i gave my mom a letter. My bf just came out to his parents in Jan. when I introduced myself as his bf. Turns out he hadn't told them yet.
Very helpful information, thanks. But, the Heartstopper sweatshirt would be your 6th suggestion. 😅😂❤
Just love for you and Bret!
Most parents already know, mine did. I told the parent that was least likely to be accepting so you've already had the worst reaction, from there it was easy. Turns out most people don't give a shit anyway, those that don't accept you don't need to be in your life
Thanks Chris, this video really helped me. 🏳️🌈🏳️🌈
Often, at least one of the parents "know" or "suspect"
And also, often, there is a family member already gay.
But i agree with you on the suggestions
Literally went downstairs in a wreck of tears and had a panic attack then told my mum
Then she told my dad
8 months later told my bff on text
1 month later told my friends in person at school
4 months later my sister found out after our phones accidentally linked up and she saw me messaging a boy lmao
I found that coming out for me was just living my life I'm not screaming out that I'm gay but straight people don't do that either. If you have pride in yourself and pride in your activities and actions just being your true self and honest with yourself plus your parents probably already know
Thanks for sharing this.
My mother talked about the cute way I slept from infancy. When I was 50, she still told me how I slept with my hand fallen back. Like a limp wrist backwards. She never figured out that I was gay. You wouldn't want to have told my late mother anything about gay.
My mum always knew I was going to be gay since I was very young and she's my biggest supporter my dad said I would disown you if you turned gay that did not stop me because I knew my mum would support me no matter what so just remember there's always someone who would support you
I have 3 adult sons (31, 28, 21) and a grandson. We've always told them that under no uncertain terms should they ever question our love, loyalty, acceptance, or friendship. Love is 100% unconditional so if they are gay, straight, trans, whatever, not an issue. Currently none have come out, we have no expectations of any particular preference, so if they come out late, or never do because they need not, that's perfectly fine. 💜💜💜
Staying with your parents and helping them in their old age is an achievement.
Hmmmm. Help of a 3rd party. Like in the case of a 3rd party "helping" you without your consent by outing you to your parents behind your back. 🤦♂️
I came out before my 41 st birthday by writing I am gay on a pink cake
But isn't that too long?
@@Love_hunter69 no you can come out at any age
I love that hes wearing a heartstopper shirt❤
Yes you’re all about “subtlety”
My dad left when I was 6 years old. My mom is a preacher's kid making it more difficult than anything. I asked her in a hypothetical question mind you. This is what I said "Mom. What if I was gay?" Her response was "You're not gay!!!"
press if ur not gay
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Oh my god, thank you ❤. I've been struggling to come out to my mun for a while now and this video was so helpful.
Instead of thinking about it as coming out to family and friends think of it as letting them into your life, I heard this from a very smart person one time And if they choose not to be involved with your life, that is their choice and their loss
I never really came out... just out of the blue my mom told me "Do you know X? I think he's a good guy and he'd be a good son in law, just throwing it out there.", when I have 2 older brothers that are already married. Since then I knew she knew and that was her way of knowing I knew she knew.
Number 0: make sure you're financially independent and preferably to live in a first world country that is generally more accepting. I failed miserably this rule
I boldly told my parents that I was gay, things now have been…different
Bro, I've been thinking that I'm gonna come to when I'm 22 or 23 cause I don't have a choice
Greta advice ❤❤ love the heart stopper T-shirt btw🎉
If the parents accept that the person is gay they should accept him/ her for who that person is, if the or any parent is kind of strict, the other parent or friend should try to make that other parent see that the person who is about to come out is the same person regardless, and accept that person instead of treating that person like badly.
That shirt is giving Heartstopper vibes ❤
as someone who spent many years thinking how to do this. Trust me, 70-80% of cases they either suspect or already know
We getting disowned with this onee 🔥🔥🔥
Omg you have a Heartstopper sweater I have one too and I have see Heartstopper 10 times I love Heartstopper it's soo good 🏳🌈❤❤
Mom put me in the Nut house for three weeks
I'm a gay 15 year old boy and terrified to come out and don't know how to start. This video has helped alot but I'm still terefied.
I'd that a heartstopper sweater?? I love teh series I was js wanted to know
Btw I love you're shirt Chris
And thanks for the tips ♡
Is Nobody talking about the Heartstopper scenes?❤
My parents know that I am always around older guys, they have no idea why, but I really don’t do the comming out as: “hey parents I am into okder guys” I will just advertise that I am going to visit them with a friend and than casually mention, well btw that is my partner.
Love your vid...and the heartstopper shirt❤️
I tried number 3. Boy did i regret that lmao
You know the only reason we watch your videos is because you are beautiful, don't you?
This may be true, but he also has a good personality and fun video's to watch. Face if he was boring you wouldn't watch.
The way i'ma do it is turn up with a bf and be like surprise bishes. but tbh it's none of their business imo so they don't need to know
Sexuality and orientation is your own business I think (gay) society forgets that u don’t haaave to tell everyone “omg I’m gay” . There’s more to life than just who you love being the same gender as urself [I say that as a gay guy]
Nah man imma tell my parents I can’t get pregnant when they ask why I say that I’m gay while doing this all on April 1
Coming out to my parents would get me kicked out 😂
Five ways to disappoint your parents 🥸
I hope this's gonna help me!!! PS love ur shirt.
YOU CAN DO IT YO!!!
I literally came out with a shitpost meme posted on pinterest...
But seriously... Unless your parents are really homophobic or extremely religious, I don't think you should plan it or think it's so deep. If they love you, and you're patient enough to answer their questions and help them to understand what it means to you and how thing are from your perspective, they'll eventually understand!
It takes time, but that's okay because we don't all have knowledge about that.
Hope you understand my shitty excuse of a comment :D
My son told me be was bi . I said yes iv known for years
Let me add something, you don't always have to come out. If you are at risk of getting kicked out of your house, beaten up or anything like that, you shouldn't come out for now.
I know It sucks but, putting yourself in danger is not a good idea.
HEARTSTOPPER!!!!!!
Or just walk out of your room with six guys after a night of fun times
I just painted a prideflag and a biflag and hang it up on my wall, to come out to my parents😅🏳️🌈
Erm what the sigma
😊Keep this up - it’s good advice. Personal note I picked my Mum to tell first - she fainted; said don’t tell your Dad. Picked up courage about 6 gruelling weeks later - always thought you might be, he said. Your Mum won’t like it but I’ll tell her, son.
OMG I LOVE THIS STORYYYY
Now I want to make an animation about it... Help...
Hay 🎉🎉🎉🎉 I am Indian 🇮🇳🙏
Heres a funny way. walk in with your boyfriend or girlfriend and just like its whatever 😅
I mean...
I watched Yuri On Ice with my Mom and still nothing
Maybe step 2 isnt for me
Thank you for declaring it. We can learn from it😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
And if none of these things Work it's like a banded just pull it off and say i'm gay.
My mom and dad don’t support me sadly so I’m grounded for the rest of my life🏳️🌈🏳️⚧️
Too many choices. 🤣🤣🤣🤣
My parents are extra homophobes so i dont plan anything yet, but good luck guys who plan to do it ❤ (nice heartstopper shirt btw)
Question what happens if u get kicked out if u tell them im a 13 year old they all hate lgbt and im the only lgbt in my family but they dont WHAT DO I DO
Thanks for the advice ☺️
Good sound advice stan❤😊 yessir
OR, just hear me out bc im just spit balling but don't tell anyone anything thats none of thier business 🤷
Or just don’t and let them pick up the pieces for themselves like I did. I mean, straight don’t come out to their parents why should we be expected to?
Generations ago, i.e. 50s and 60s was impossible in my family mainly because of religious beliefs; of which I obviously have strong views against the Bible.
If people are difficult coming out of the closet they should see a clinical psychologist for the best guidance and coping mechanisms. That’s my thoughts. No one should ever make you come out if that happened to me. I would be friend them within a heartbeat. I haven’t seen Brett in quite awhile, have you both broken up, and are you with art now?
I am a Tim Dillon fan and supporter he funny
You should add: only in west, if you are in middle east, southeast Asia, African. Take your own risk😢
> all good advice ~
I wish it was that easy
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I’m Bisexual and I don’t wanna tell no one
The best friend of a Gay man is another Gay man ❤️🧡💛💚💙💜 Gay men of all the world together forever 🏳️🌈🏳️🌈🏳️🌈🏳️🌈🏳️🌈🏳️🌈🏳️🌈🌎🌍🌏🌎🌍🌏
Amazing tips ❤🎉
I was homeless afterwards
I'm so sorry you went through that... I hope you're doing better now, and I wish you the best luck!
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Repent and believe in Jesus Christ ✝️
the perfect Twink
My parents understand 😂but don't accept
Really enjoyed your live video that you did today I’m Rick from Atlanta I said hello to you I don’t want my iPhone is overheating bad joke my humor is not that great
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Do your famous Barbra Streisand impersonation for a room full of relatives. Saves time and leaves very little doubt.
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