Remarrying after being widowed young | Rebuilding our lives together

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  • Опубликовано: 22 май 2016
  • Steve and Paula’s story of being widowed young and how finding each other at a Care for the Family’s Widowed Young Support weekend they were able to start supporting others.
    Steve and Paula Smart are Care for the Family’s Widowed Young Support Co-ordinators they head up the team that now offers a range of support to those who are widowed young. If you would like to access our support for those who are widowed young please connect with us at www.careforthefamily.org.uk/f...
    Care for the Family is a national charity which aims to promote strong family life and to help those who face family difficulties. Find out more: www.careforthefamily.org.uk

Комментарии • 19

  • @susanyates4233
    @susanyates4233 9 месяцев назад +4

    I have been widowed twice. The first time after almost seventeen years, the second time after twenty seven years. The pain and trauma never disappear.

    • @ChrisJohnson-lh9qb
      @ChrisJohnson-lh9qb 9 месяцев назад

      I'm very sorry about your husband, trust me I completely understand how you feel, I felt the same way when my wife past away June 4th 2018 grief is hard to deal with but we learn to live with it, where are you from..?

  • @jicjicmers631
    @jicjicmers631 3 года назад +7

    Nice story, God bless you both...

    • @tonyliman8402
      @tonyliman8402 3 года назад

      Hello jic this is a wonderful day in anyone life.

  • @stephendare942
    @stephendare942 4 года назад +3

    I am very pleased for these people may God bless them.

  • @manichairdo9265
    @manichairdo9265 3 года назад +2

    Excellent, heart-warming story.

  • @lovejoypeace7288
    @lovejoypeace7288 Год назад

    So beautiful! ❤

  • @princessyoung8791
    @princessyoung8791 Год назад +7

    One thing I can't understand is if you loved your spouse with all your heart ♥️ how could you ever think about getting married or involved with anyone. I lost my husband 8 years and I will never get involved with another man. There's no man in this world who could make me feel like my husband did. I wish I had die with him.my joy of life is over.

    • @rawvoice8316
      @rawvoice8316 Год назад +3

      Life always gives u a second chance

    • @MrsRWFoon
      @MrsRWFoon Год назад +1

      I understand exactly how you feel. I can't think of anyone replacing my husband.

    • @CalvinGomes
      @CalvinGomes Год назад +3

      It can happen. Not everyone is the same and one can love with all their heart and give until the end...and then, it is possible to find another to give love to. These people are not cheating on their spouse, who they were faithful to in sickness and in health. If you are still grieving, it is your journey and ai wish you well. Though some people heal differently.

    • @silverdale3207
      @silverdale3207 7 месяцев назад +1

      While I understand how you feel as I don't feel like it's right for me to date either after 4 years as she is still very much on my mind and will always love her, I think it is possible to love someone else while still loving your late partner, as they say Grief is just love with nowhere to go. We both may get there one day who knows. I took leftovers from xmas lunch and rode miles into the wilderness yesterday just so I could sit in peace and quiet and spend some time remembering our time together without distractions, it's hard carrying that kind of love and not having someone to pass it on to, we should feel happy for those who have found a second chance, I don't think their original love has diminished they've just found another outlet . Hopefully you can have one in the physical world as well as the spiritual world (am not religious by the way), best of luck.

    • @RoyallyHis
      @RoyallyHis 6 месяцев назад

      My husband died 9 years ago after our 36 year marriage. I've had no desire whatsoever to remarry. Not even a boyfriend, or whatever they're called these days. Mine was an amazing husband & father...and human.

  • @mnjuki1071
    @mnjuki1071 3 года назад

    I'm encouraged...

  • @nancyschaefer9748
    @nancyschaefer9748 8 месяцев назад

    I understand ❤

  • @petegregoire7567
    @petegregoire7567 11 месяцев назад

    Am a widow man this woman i met is divorced after 25
    Years want to ask about marriage what is your suggestion