@@Debora-s3f No she’s not and your immediate defensiveness and reaction means you feel insecure about something within yourself. The point of this video and her series is for women who are interested in the aesthetic of “elegance” in doing so she gives tips and explains what is considered elegant and what it isn’t. Not that every woman should or shouldn’t do this or that. If she did a video on Goth aesthetic and she thumbs down a pink frilly dress with pearls that’s not her saying it’s something wrong with that but we can all agree it’s not Goth. Same concept. If you’re not interested in being “elegant” that’s perfectly fine. It’s not for everyone and that’s ok. If you are though, here are some guidelines to achieve it.
@@Debora-s3f no she isn't she's just trying to help people know basic life things for what they might need at a every special event or something , she's not forcing people
”the quality of being graceful and stylish in appearance or manner” not sure where you got humility and compassion from. go google ”elegant definition”
@@gaia7240exactly. If you've whittled elegance down to its aesthetic, you have entirely missed the point. Elegance is not what you wear, its a temperament, clothes are one small symptom of it and it varies. This woman is trying to teach people to superficially appear elegant.
@@minaswetmir7091first of all she’s helping thoses who want to learn how to dress and she doesn’t have a filter and shes not telling you thats ugly so dont be offended so shit up
How you treat others, especially those that you can't benefit off, is the measure of class and elegance. If you look down on people/animals and misstreat them forget all else. No amount of linen clothing, or contrived style rules will help you.
Exactly. People here have no idea what they're talking about. There is not only one way to be elegant. Elegance comes in MANY styles and isn't simply the neutral esthetic like many think. They obviously have never heard of flamboyant elegant style.
@lolab6770 💯 I've seen someone up and down these comments trying to contrast goth and elegant, as if one cannot be 100% elegant while being fully goth. The whole elegance / femininity / whatever thing is frankly beyond ridiculous.
You should! Pink nails aren’t bad, they’re cute, well I think lots of colors are cute, but neutral colors are usually the colors that fall best under “elegant”
@@infinity3834Okay? that’s not a bad thing. you wanna be described as “amazing, elegant, pretty, smart, beautiful, graceful” just because they are good qualities. you only see them as qualities, not actual descriptions for real behavior. you can still be pretty and amazing without being elegant. being elegant is a style. she even hearted the OP’s comment.
The only things I think are important are good manners and compassion… if people are going to judge me on my hairstyle, manicure or anything else… they’re the kind of people I keep out of my life. Why bother with people who are looking and judging. Are you ever going to feel comfortable in that persons company?? Not my thing. My hair is long and thick, my nails are pink with a speckle of glitter, I hold my glass the way I choose… and I am always complimented…more so because I’m told I’m just a good wee person. I think I’ll stick with the values taught by my mummy and not a RUclips short!
Why are you getting so defensive she didn’t say you can’t do all those things she just said what looks better with the elegant aesthetic if that’s not your aesthetic then scroll away. If she was goth and was talking about what is and isn’t goth this video wouldn’t get as much hate so why when she talks about being elegant people get defensive and mad. Not everything is elegant and that’s ok.
@@Madiiiiiiiii316I don’t speak for every one but here’s my take; Because the labels ‘elegant’ and ‘inelegant’ have been used to champion and berate women for centuries. The social connotations of being deemed inelegant are ‘less desirable’ and ‘lower class’ etc it’s not simply an aesthetic. Elegance extends to a persons character and value as other comments have pointed out. The implication here therefore, is that the things this lady seems as inelegant are inferior and of lower value, and so are the women who choose them. So these videos are far more judgemental than simply explaining an actual aesthetic like goth which has social connotations of electing to be rebellious and stand out for non conformity. Women haven’t been pressured to appear goth in order to feel accepted and respected. A video explaining goth aesthetic is not comparable to what this lady is doing with judging elegance. And others are rightly pointing out that she doesn’t even conform to her own standard.
Elegance is a style type. Just because you like something that’s not elegant doesn’t mean you’re horrible or ugly. Other fun style choices and chic, edgy, natural….elegant comes along with them
@@ArijitBiswasMakeupits hard to cut this kinda content off when yt shorts is the equivalent of a septic tank of terrible content and everything passes including sexual content
She wasn’t saying those colors are “bad” but they do not classify as “elegant” could you wear pink polish and be elegant? Maybe, but generally lighter more neutral colors best fall under an “elegant” classification, not bright colors like hot pink.
I normally don’t get so irritated over stuff like this but girl, this is posh-rich-British-family ridiculous. What this will get you is a man who reduces your value down to only your outward appearance, and once you get old and crusty like everyone does, said man will leave you for the new trophy wife he’s probably been sleeping with for the last half decade. It’s a sad existence. And you don’t want that. Value is far deeper than the colors we wear on our nails or the beauty we have in our youth. Learn to love what’s inside and you’ll radiate elegance and beauty for as long as you live.
I feel bad for you. Maybe you're speaking from personal experience or simply just pure ignorance when you categorize all men as being shallow or cheaters. Not every man is like that. Majority of married couples divorce because one party or the other cheats. Predominantly, the woman does. If she cannot maintain high value and not play victim when it comes to being married to a high-value man, she is not a high value woman. However, I do agree with you on one thing. Beauty lies beyond the surface. The rest is simply just a matter of unfair statements.
@@lilybean6635 um that is not even close to what I was saying. I said this is what this mentality will get her. Nowhere in there does it even remotely imply all men are like this. You look stupid now because you didn’t even take the time to read what I said and then out of context gave me backhanded pity, and insult when my original comment literally had no animosity but instead told the truth about what a toxic mindset like this will attract. Instead of what loving yourself inside and out will attract and not basing elegance on what color your nails are. Read and think before you speak. And statistically men cheat more. So you go and say that I’m generalizing men but then say that mostly women are the cause of infidelity. No. Do your research, there’s been plenty of research on which sex is most likely to cheat, and it isn’t women.
Elegance is personal and it depends which class you belong to and the country you belong to . If I'm from the south asian countries , beige , neutral colors make me look like i came out from the hospital . Also if you want to marry into the new money , you'll be called grandma when you have this neutral style. But if you want to marry into old money or orthodox rich family , this elegant style perfectly works . It all depends on preference and choices you make in your life. There are families and classes with their own set of rules and its fine. Lastly , people with wealth definitely like to have fun with colors and style. Be like an Italian . Look sexy but never cross the line of vulgarity.
@@rachelbegmusic yeah you just proved my point that these people put themselves on a higher pedestal so you can marry into money. It’s not fine to look a certain way so you can cop a man’s wallet, it’s not okay to tell another woman she isn’t elegant, and it’s not okay to believe you are better than everyone when you still eat, sh*t and die like the rest of us. Elegance is personal in the eyes of rich upper class people who base all their worth on their looks. Sad.
Y'all need to understand that not everyone is elegant and that's fine, if you don't fit the elegant style then don't get too offended as well. It's just the way it is
Bright colors can't be labeled as not elegant. Those nails with bright pink color looked, well groomed, well taken care of, not too long, not tacky, quite hygenic. Bright colors could be used tastefully in an elegant outfit, makeup look, or on nails. Also, you have way too much fillers on your face to the extent where your face looks extremely puffy. Not graceful or beautiful. Please accept aging. Excessive layeres of makeup don't help with elegance either.
My thoughts exactly! Wearing color is not a lack of elegance, it's a lack of variety!! The overall look of being clean and well groomed creates elegance.
Y’all are taking this is such a personal attack lmao. Being “elegant” isn’t a requirement to display femininity, nor does it make you a better person. It’s just an adjective. It’s okay to not be elegant, you can’t be all the positive adjectives at once.
Who defines elegant? Other people thinking their taste is superior, therefore it's elegant. Ladies, if you want to wear bright pink nailpolish, you wear it. It's elegant. You define your own elegance. No one was put on earth with their taste as the benchmark for the rest of us.😅
@@MayaHendsenmayajs19442 who decided that? Other humans? They decided their taste is superior therefore anyone else who deviates is tacky 😂 That's systemic elitism. Don't be a sheep. Decide for yourself, set your own benchmark.
@@Anamillio I did set my own benchmark, and I still think that bright colored nails are super tacky. Why does elegance trigger you? If you prefer to stay basic then you do you.
@@Anamillio bc it’s a style omfg. Why are you offended. Bright things don’t classify as elegant, like how bright colors don’t classify as grunge. They aren’t saying you have to be elegant, it’s tips if you want this style
@@MayaHendsenmayajs19442 in ancient egypt they wore bright red nails and it was considered elegant because only the rich could afford it. You're ignorant at best
Nobody is judging anyone for their fashion decision here. As a man I follow the Gentleman’s Gazette, a similar channel but for men. This kind of content is for people who want to learn how to be classy, how to dress better. People who enjoy it. If you don’t like it move on. No one is judging you.
@@gaia7240 Theres different types of ways one can be “elegant.” For example, the nails. The nail color doesn’t have to be a neutral shade of pink but it can be just as elegant if one were to have their nails painted black. As not only does black suit all shades of people skin tones but black is the most elegant color of them all. Or someone can have scarlet painted nails and be elegant. Elegance, historically speaking, has appeared different throughout the decades and centuries, as well as differing styles and different people. So yes, one can have a different “style” or “aesthetic” as people refer it, and still remain elegant.
some of these comments aren’t it. she isn’t necessarily judging people. lots of women WANT to learn how to have more elegance and clearly these videos are for them and not you. she’s just showing the difference between what’s considered elegant and what isn’t, it’s not that deep.
think the difference with the hair is not that one is thin, it’s that the bleached hair is fried to a crisp, practically dead there’s not much left. that doesn’t happen naturally or with careful styling which is shown on the other side.
God people are so insecure. She's not talking about a person's characteristics, she's talking about fashion!! Just like "Goth" and "Formal" are a type of fashion, "Elegant" is also another more in-depth fashion concept, and she's right! Elegance particularly caters to more soft and less-detailed fashion mostly relying on decors and accessories like jewelry, scarves, and handbags to accentuate the outfit. Your personality and person can still be elegant if you dress in gothic clothing, but that wouldn't be "elegance" as a *FASHION* category; that would be "Goth." You can also merge different categories like "Elegant Goth" etc. Your person or characteristics can still 100% elegant. **Not everything in life is personal.**
Incorrect. Shorter hair isn't necessarily more elegant than longer hair... the video is toxic and promotes elitism and disapproval towards choices made. Don't defend nonsense...
Real elegance is how you were taught from an early age on how to represent yourself with poise, grace, eloquent speaking and how you carry and represent yourself. Not someone telling you how to be elegant. Things have really changed but elegance will always be a true and real class.
bruh its funny how offended people are getting when she is clearly just showing the people who want to achieve an elegant look-NOT JUDGING PEOPLE WHO DONT- how to look more neat and put together.and not gonna lie she is right about alot of things in the vid. im sure people would agree or be ok if she was showing whats goth or whats cottage core.
What she is displaying here is her preference has nothing to do with elegant or not both looks can be elegant depends on if it makes you feel good and which one makes you more confident
I believe she's just showing things that are preferred to look elegant. She's not forcing it upon everyone. What is with this generation getting triggered so easily.
Finally, an accurate tutorial on how to be inelegant. I think I'm going for a combo of both nail types, they'll look great while I'm burping the alphabet
She is literally teaching us about elegant appearance, why are you talking about judgements😭 I’m going back to TikTok the comment section here sucksss y’all get offended about everything
Yeah my hair is EXACTLY like the last one except longer and it's naturally blonde.. like wtf am I meant to do?! And surely 'natural' is more elegant than me wearing extensions or a wig?! Also the 2nd hairdo is giving "beachy waves" vibes which there's nothing wrong with but all I can think of now is HRH Collection Alex ranting about them now 😂😂😂😂
Oh I just paused it on the hair video again I guess you could say the dark roots / greasiness makes it inelegant. But thin hair in and of itself is not inherently inelegant
Omg why r people in this comment section getting so pressed. Shes just giving advice to people who WANT to be elegant and these are what look elegant to the eye. If you don’t like the elegant style or don’t care for it, then scroll and move on with your life. This woman hasn’t done anything wrong, shes just giving advice.
I don’t know why people are being so cruel in the comments. I think it’s all about embracing a more natural and clean look. You don’t *need* any fake nails, fake tan, fake hair, fake anything to look beautiful. You can totally rock it if you want, but your natural beauty is your most elegant look. ❤
Gatekeeping things and judging others is the least elegant thing here. Elegant people mind their own business and keep their opinions to themselves (especially when it’s something that doesn’t matter much, like clothes).
lol. This cs is hilarious. I don't get why people are so mad with this video. It's like a masc woman showing what is considered masc and not and people going "Well if I want to wear a pink tutu and consider that masc,it is!" Even you yourself can see it. Audrey Hepburn is elegant and Kesha during her tick tock days is not - more like a wild party girl aesthtics. Ya'll mad over nothing XD
Why do all these RUclips “elegance” coaches dress and carry themselves EXACTLY like call girls in Washington DC? Same duck lips, “classy” French nails, clothing , etc. Why spend so much money when at the end of the day you still look like you’re putting yourself on sale for men? Just be natural and frugal and stop worrying so much about appearances. Spend that energy on your health and education. If you have the money to splurge, dress yourself in clothes that are made ethically and sustainably. That is true wealth and class.
Totally agree 💯 people don't know what elegance means. It's not judging. Elegance is a style of dress that defines specific colors, cuts. They are not elegant so I don't know why they have a problem about judging? It's like i would create a video what is old money style. This is old money this is not old money. The same with elegance.
Why do you hate on her? Because she's right? 😂 I mean I'm not falling into her elegant description but at least I have self awareness and not being butthurt about it
Shes is not judging NOBODY SO SHUT UP shes telling those who actually want to be elegant how to dress for those who need tips and if you don’t want to be elegant thats your opinion
Also take into consideration skin color. Darker skin looks more elegant with certain colors that don’t suit lighter skin. So take her makeup slathered advice with a grain of salt
Who are you to tell people what is elegant and not. Just because you don't like it dose not make it wrong! You can share your views on what you prefer , but to say its not elegant is a binded self opinion
I’ve never liked bright nails. But after watching this excuse for advice I’m tempted to get some. Here’s better advice: get to know yourself and practice making decisions from that knowing - not from what your environment says you “should” do. Your environment wants you to be mediocre. Go be amazing.
No it’s the style. Look up anything elegant this is what you will see bc it’s a STYLE, I’d you don’t like it don’t dress like it, why are all of you complaining
The comment section surprised me. Gosh! Its just a conceptual perspective, she's not judging or trying to tell what to do. Take a closer look, she somewhat has a point even if it's her opinion. It's just like telling my girlfriend she'd look better in a ponytail considering her dress design. Or look prettier wearing a nude/red/pink lipstick considering the entirety of her makeup. You guys slamming at her in the comments are the ones judging
You’re the only one who came to her rescue. If you know what shade of lipstick or what kind of hairstyle your “girlfriend” would suit - you need to alpha up.
Elegance is wearing the style that matches you. Nude colors and short hair are only flattering for some people. And for some people it's the long hair and bright colors that matches more elegantly. You have to take a lot of things into account to decide which matches you like your skin tone, body and face shape, the occasion and so on. You should educate yourself better before making these kinds of videos, rather than just posting your personal opinions about these kinds of topics...
elegant ladies dont judge people and tell them what to do.
You are 1000%right
She’s not telling you what to do
@@kristenthomas3985 she's basically judging people for how they eat and what they do which will make them feel bad about themselves.
@@Debora-s3f No she’s not and your immediate defensiveness and reaction means you feel insecure about something within yourself. The point of this video and her series is for women who are interested in the aesthetic of “elegance” in doing so she gives tips and explains what is considered elegant and what it isn’t. Not that every woman should or shouldn’t do this or that. If she did a video on Goth aesthetic and she thumbs down a pink frilly dress with pearls that’s not her saying it’s something wrong with that but we can all agree it’s not Goth. Same concept. If you’re not interested in being “elegant” that’s perfectly fine. It’s not for everyone and that’s ok. If you are though, here are some guidelines to achieve it.
@@Debora-s3f no she isn't she's just trying to help people know basic life things for what they might need at a every special event or something , she's not forcing people
Elegance isn't an aesthetic.
It's an attitude. It is the quality of being graceful and humble.
No one with neon acrylic nails looks elegant 💀 there’s many things that just aren’t elegant and are 100% appearance based
@@pingu3984 you can still look elegant. I'm tired of people pretending appearance don't matter at all
Jesus loves you❤️
Wrong. Elegance is a type of beauty which is mainly prominent in visuals.
@@user-us1ce9cs3sexactly. Part of it is the way you present yourself appearance wise.
Judging others also isn't elegant
oooo THAT PART LOL
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Yes,fr
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Elegance is humility and compassion. Not judging people by how they speak, dress or sit.
”the quality of being graceful and stylish in appearance or manner” not sure where you got humility and compassion from. go google ”elegant definition”
Real elegance is your energy , you can have both French tips but trust me your energy will make you stand out no matter what you’re wearing .
The 1st French tip doesn't have the right proportion.
We are talking about dressing
@@gaia7240exactly. If you've whittled elegance down to its aesthetic, you have entirely missed the point.
Elegance is not what you wear, its a temperament, clothes are one small symptom of it and it varies.
This woman is trying to teach people to superficially appear elegant.
Fr
@gaia7240 yes but the energy you put off can play a key role as well. Like confidence for example.
Elegant ladies don't need to use a heavy filter while judging others appearance
THIS
nice copying
FR😂
@@minaswetmir7091first of all she’s helping thoses who want to learn how to dress and she doesn’t have a filter and shes not telling you thats ugly so dont be offended so shit up
Cheri, elegant ladies don’t fucking cuss😊
Heavy makeup also isnt elegant
U are correct lol
😂😂correct
Sure..its so looks so good on camera but so stupid in natural light.
You hit the nail 😂
Hehe yes
Elegance does not only come from clothes, but also from behavior.
Intellegence is the real elegance.
Confidence, you look elegant if you own what you wear and not the other way . Trying be elegant is not elegant,
How you treat others, especially those that you can't benefit off, is the measure of class and elegance. If you look down on people/animals and misstreat them forget all else. No amount of linen clothing, or contrived style rules will help you.
@@mariaaballi-gonzalez3716yes!!!
So is style .
@@luckystone2293well said :)
A bold colour is elegant if it's nice made. I love people with dark skin and bright tones. 💅🏿
Black people in bright yellow is THEEEEE most beautiful combo on the planet!!
Exactly. People here have no idea what they're talking about. There is not only one way to be elegant. Elegance comes in MANY styles and isn't simply the neutral esthetic like many think. They obviously have never heard of flamboyant elegant style.
I know? Paring a bright nail color with a matching heel and a cute outfit? Super elegant! This lady has no idea what she’s talking about.
@lolab6770 💯 I've seen someone up and down these comments trying to contrast goth and elegant, as if one cannot be 100% elegant while being fully goth. The whole elegance / femininity / whatever thing is frankly beyond ridiculous.
Same!
Elegant or not, I love my pink nails
Her heavy make up is not elegant at all .
You should! Pink nails aren’t bad, they’re cute, well I think lots of colors are cute, but neutral colors are usually the colors that fall best under “elegant”
@@infinity3834Okay? that’s not a bad thing. you wanna be described as “amazing, elegant, pretty, smart, beautiful, graceful” just because they are good qualities. you only see them as qualities, not actual descriptions for real behavior.
you can still be pretty and amazing without being elegant. being elegant is a style. she even hearted the OP’s comment.
Me too ❤
As you should ❤
The only things I think are important are good manners and compassion… if people are going to judge me on my hairstyle, manicure or anything else… they’re the kind of people I keep out of my life. Why bother with people who are looking and judging. Are you ever going to feel comfortable in that persons company?? Not my thing. My hair is long and thick, my nails are pink with a speckle of glitter, I hold my glass the way I choose… and I am always complimented…more so because I’m told I’m just a good wee person. I think I’ll stick with the values taught by my mummy and not a RUclips short!
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Why are you getting so defensive she didn’t say you can’t do all those things she just said what looks better with the elegant aesthetic if that’s not your aesthetic then scroll away. If she was goth and was talking about what is and isn’t goth this video wouldn’t get as much hate so why when she talks about being elegant people get defensive and mad. Not everything is elegant and that’s ok.
@@Madiiiiiiiii316I don’t speak for every one but here’s my take; Because the labels ‘elegant’ and ‘inelegant’ have been used to champion and berate women for centuries. The social connotations of being deemed inelegant are ‘less desirable’ and ‘lower class’ etc it’s not simply an aesthetic. Elegance extends to a persons character and value as other comments have pointed out. The implication here therefore, is that the things this lady seems as inelegant are inferior and of lower value, and so are the women who choose them. So these videos are far more judgemental than simply explaining an actual aesthetic like goth which has social connotations of electing to be rebellious and stand out for non conformity. Women haven’t been pressured to appear goth in order to feel accepted and respected. A video explaining goth aesthetic is not comparable to what this lady is doing with judging elegance. And others are rightly pointing out that she doesn’t even conform to her own standard.
You are fine pink is very feminine...
@@irisheyes7815 you act like you're being stripped off your rights and be forced to listen to a RUclips short. Nobody told you to.
Girl who made you the boss of what is or isn’t elegant
Exactly
Elegance is a style type. Just because you like something that’s not elegant doesn’t mean you’re horrible or ugly. Other fun style choices and chic, edgy, natural….elegant comes along with them
@@nicolevaniderstine7304 yeah but why does she - or anyone else for that matter get to say what Is Or ISNT those choices?
Thats what I've been wondering
Lol😂
judging people isnt elegant either but here we are
And a face full of filler is hardly what you’d call elegant… but here we are
So true ❤️
Lol😂
yesss
Ooooooooh 😂😂😂😂❤
The person in this video is presenting as someone named Antonia. It’s a fake name.
I want to block her for rest of my life 💀
Vocês sairam todos do Twitter ou simplesmente têm uma pedra no lugar do cérebro?
Same
Still you are here commenting and committed.
@@ArijitBiswasMakeupits hard to cut this kinda content off when yt shorts is the equivalent of a septic tank of terrible content and everything passes including sexual content
For speaking truth? Okay
Fillers aren’t elegant
And silicone isn’t elegant either
Elegant women don't fill their lips.
Look at princess Kate. Period!!
Elegant women also don't spend their entire youth chasinf after a prince as per their mother's instructions, so that's (non)princess Kate out.
Who ever that would be is probably great!😴
Exactly.
Kate look old as a fart
@@luckystone2293😂😂😂😂
How is brightly coloured polish not elegant? Don't let anybody tell you what colour nails you 'should' have!
Cuz it’s not 🤷🏻♀️
Girl you can do whatever you like , these are just her tips.. neutral is always classier.. bright colors are usually tacky sorry 😬
@@Faithh.222 exactly
Seriously 😐 as I’m staring at my bright pink nails 😅
True👍🏻
She wasn’t saying those colors are “bad” but they do not classify as “elegant” could you wear pink polish and be elegant? Maybe, but generally lighter more neutral colors best fall under an “elegant” classification, not bright colors like hot pink.
Elegance truly eludes this woman.
I normally don’t get so irritated over stuff like this but girl, this is posh-rich-British-family ridiculous. What this will get you is a man who reduces your value down to only your outward appearance, and once you get old and crusty like everyone does, said man will leave you for the new trophy wife he’s probably been sleeping with for the last half decade. It’s a sad existence. And you don’t want that. Value is far deeper than the colors we wear on our nails or the beauty we have in our youth. Learn to love what’s inside and you’ll radiate elegance and beauty for as long as you live.
I feel bad for you. Maybe you're speaking from personal experience or simply just pure ignorance when you categorize all men as being shallow or cheaters. Not every man is like that. Majority of married couples divorce because one party or the other cheats. Predominantly, the woman does. If she cannot maintain high value and not play victim when it comes to being married to a high-value man, she is not a high value woman. However, I do agree with you on one thing. Beauty lies beyond the surface. The rest is simply just a matter of unfair statements.
The girl who makes these videos is just a caricature of what a sophisticated elegant woman should be.
@@lilybean6635 um that is not even close to what I was saying. I said this is what this mentality will get her. Nowhere in there does it even remotely imply all men are like this. You look stupid now because you didn’t even take the time to read what I said and then out of context gave me backhanded pity, and insult when my original comment literally had no animosity but instead told the truth about what a toxic mindset like this will attract. Instead of what loving yourself inside and out will attract and not basing elegance on what color your nails are. Read and think before you speak. And statistically men cheat more. So you go and say that I’m generalizing men but then say that mostly women are the cause of infidelity. No. Do your research, there’s been plenty of research on which sex is most likely to cheat, and it isn’t women.
Elegance is personal and it depends which class you belong to and the country you belong to .
If I'm from the south asian countries , beige , neutral colors make me look like i came out from the hospital .
Also if you want to marry into the new money , you'll be called grandma when you have this neutral style.
But if you want to marry into old money or orthodox rich family , this elegant style perfectly works . It all depends on preference and choices you make in your life.
There are families and classes with their own set of rules and its fine.
Lastly , people with wealth definitely like to have fun with colors and style. Be like an Italian . Look sexy but never cross the line of vulgarity.
@@rachelbegmusic yeah you just proved my point that these people put themselves on a higher pedestal so you can marry into money. It’s not fine to look a certain way so you can cop a man’s wallet, it’s not okay to tell another woman she isn’t elegant, and it’s not okay to believe you are better than everyone when you still eat, sh*t and die like the rest of us. Elegance is personal in the eyes of rich upper class people who base all their worth on their looks. Sad.
Y'all need to understand that not everyone is elegant and that's fine, if you don't fit the elegant style then don't get too offended as well. It's just the way it is
Thank you somebody is finally being mature about it
Bright colors can't be labeled as not elegant. Those nails with bright pink color looked, well groomed, well taken care of, not too long, not tacky, quite hygenic. Bright colors could be used tastefully in an elegant outfit, makeup look, or on nails. Also, you have way too much fillers on your face to the extent where your face looks extremely puffy. Not graceful or beautiful. Please accept aging. Excessive layeres of makeup don't help with elegance either.
My thoughts exactly!
Wearing color is not a lack of elegance, it's a lack of variety!! The overall look of being clean and well groomed creates elegance.
Y’all are taking this is such a personal attack lmao. Being “elegant” isn’t a requirement to display femininity, nor does it make you a better person. It’s just an adjective. It’s okay to not be elegant, you can’t be all the positive adjectives at once.
Your makeup is the thing that’s not elegant!
Cry
Neither is that outfit but yet she's wearing it
I’m not a women but I definitely felt the shade on this one lol😂
Who defines elegant? Other people thinking their taste is superior, therefore it's elegant.
Ladies, if you want to wear bright pink nailpolish, you wear it. It's elegant. You define your own elegance. No one was put on earth with their taste as the benchmark for the rest of us.😅
Elegance means sophistication, simplicity and modesty. Bright colored nails look tacky
@@MayaHendsenmayajs19442 who decided that? Other humans? They decided their taste is superior therefore anyone else who deviates is tacky 😂
That's systemic elitism. Don't be a sheep. Decide for yourself, set your own benchmark.
@@Anamillio I did set my own benchmark, and I still think that bright colored nails are super tacky. Why does elegance trigger you? If you prefer to stay basic then you do you.
@@Anamillio bc it’s a style omfg. Why are you offended. Bright things don’t classify as elegant, like how bright colors don’t classify as grunge. They aren’t saying you have to be elegant, it’s tips if you want this style
@@MayaHendsenmayajs19442 in ancient egypt they wore bright red nails and it was considered elegant because only the rich could afford it. You're ignorant at best
Nobody is judging anyone for their fashion decision here. As a man I follow the Gentleman’s Gazette, a similar channel but for men. This kind of content is for people who want to learn how to be classy, how to dress better. People who enjoy it. If you don’t like it move on. No one is judging you.
I'm the opposite of elegant and yet I liked this video, people rally are offended by everything
Not judging but snubs the poor girls hairstyle as if she's a prize to us low life's
elegant ladies dont cover up their natural self with filters
It’s more classy than elegant but good tips.
Totally. But what ever makes you happy . That is personal style.
Elegant is a style you know
@@gaia7240 Theres different types of ways one can be “elegant.” For example, the nails. The nail color doesn’t have to be a neutral shade of pink but it can be just as elegant if one were to have their nails painted black. As not only does black suit all shades of people skin tones but black is the most elegant color of them all. Or someone can have scarlet painted nails and be elegant. Elegance, historically speaking, has appeared different throughout the decades and centuries, as well as differing styles and different people. So yes, one can have a different “style” or “aesthetic” as people refer it, and still remain elegant.
some of these comments aren’t it. she isn’t necessarily judging people. lots of women WANT to learn how to have more elegance and clearly these videos are for them and not you. she’s just showing the difference between what’s considered elegant and what isn’t, it’s not that deep.
Elegance comes in many different forms not on how you think it should..
The pink shades are both elegant
Just do whatever makes you happy guys!!!!
Not with silcione they shouldn’t
I'm literary wearing Wedding dress while i'm going with my Longboard and everyone throw eyes, not in a good way lol.. xD
Those bright pink nails are pretty. And my hair is thin, can’t help I’m not “elegant “
think the difference with the hair is not that one is thin, it’s that the bleached hair is fried to a crisp, practically dead there’s not much left. that doesn’t happen naturally or with careful styling which is shown on the other side.
It’s about the colour of the highlights and quality of the layers.
I agree with all of this. Elegance isn’t for everyone and that’s okay. Find your own style if this doesn’t suit you and your tastes.
I love the pink nail polish. Who needs to be elegant if you're fun and carefree.
Authenticity is elegant 😊
God people are so insecure. She's not talking about a person's characteristics, she's talking about fashion!!
Just like "Goth" and "Formal" are a type of fashion, "Elegant" is also another more in-depth fashion concept, and she's right! Elegance particularly caters to more soft and less-detailed fashion mostly relying on decors and accessories like jewelry, scarves, and handbags to accentuate the outfit.
Your personality and person can still be elegant if you dress in gothic clothing, but that wouldn't be "elegance" as a *FASHION* category; that would be "Goth." You can also merge different categories like "Elegant Goth" etc. Your person or characteristics can still 100% elegant.
**Not everything in life is personal.**
Thank u
@@TheeLerato ikr 🖐️😭
RIGHHTTT😂😂😂
Incorrect. Shorter hair isn't necessarily more elegant than longer hair... the video is toxic and promotes elitism and disapproval towards choices made. Don't defend nonsense...
@@onlyweatherlol93 when did she say “shorter hair” isn’t or is more elegant
Real elegance is how you were taught from an early age on how to represent yourself with poise, grace, eloquent speaking and how you carry and represent yourself. Not someone telling you how to be elegant. Things have really changed but elegance will always be a true and real class.
bruh its funny how offended people are getting when she is clearly just showing the people who want to achieve an elegant look-NOT JUDGING PEOPLE WHO DONT- how to look more neat and put together.and not gonna lie she is right about alot of things in the vid. im sure people would agree or be ok if she was showing whats goth or whats cottage core.
Is it just me that was looking up crochet patterns
Living your life on social media: NOT ELEGANT. Living a private life like it’s 1995 & not having to make TikTok’s : elegant ❤
EXACT!!
Both look nice tbh. It just depends on your style and what's works for you.
One of the 4 Agreements-don’t take anything personally. I almost failed with my pink nails.😂🤣
What she is displaying here is her preference has nothing to do with elegant or not both looks can be elegant depends on if it makes you feel good and which one makes you more confident
I believe she's just showing things that are preferred to look elegant. She's not forcing it upon everyone. What is with this generation getting triggered so easily.
Elegance doesn’t come with judging people’s appearance
Ladies just cause y’all offended doesn’t mean to be mean to her in the comments. She has her way and opinion disagree and move on. Dang y’all rude
Finally, an accurate tutorial on how to be inelegant. I think I'm going for a combo of both nail types, they'll look great while I'm burping the alphabet
She is literally teaching us about elegant appearance, why are you talking about judgements😭 I’m going back to TikTok the comment section here sucksss y’all get offended about everything
WE ARE NOT FOREVER YOUNG. THATS LIFE.
i cannot take It seriously from somebody Who can barely do make up and has botox all over and tells women what to do
I will decide what is elegant!
She's not judging y'all omfg she's just showing a different kind of style or way of doing things
Er no.
@@onlyweatherlol93Thank you for your very well thought out and extensive reply. You’ve really made a change by hating on someone
Yo, why are you getting defensive 😂
@@allisonwhetzel1661 finally someone with common sense
Elrgance is how you carry and conduct yourself.Its not always about fashion and following the trend.
I agree, except for the last one, since some girls have thin hair and they can't help it
Yeah my hair is EXACTLY like the last one except longer and it's naturally blonde.. like wtf am I meant to do?! And surely 'natural' is more elegant than me wearing extensions or a wig?! Also the 2nd hairdo is giving "beachy waves" vibes which there's nothing wrong with but all I can think of now is HRH Collection Alex ranting about them now 😂😂😂😂
Oh I just paused it on the hair video again I guess you could say the dark roots / greasiness makes it inelegant. But thin hair in and of itself is not inherently inelegant
Duno why my first comment didn't post how mad
bruh she isnt pointing out the thin hair she is pointing out the tacky highlights like cant you agree the hair dye job aint the best
In the picture it looks like she used some gel? Better natural
I only agree on the hair.
I love how pressed everyone is 😂👏🏼
KEEP UP THE MEDS!!
Omg why r people in this comment section getting so pressed. Shes just giving advice to people who WANT to be elegant and these are what look elegant to the eye. If you don’t like the elegant style or don’t care for it, then scroll and move on with your life. This woman hasn’t done anything wrong, shes just giving advice.
More like Maturity & Wise choices make good elegant combos! Elegant means neat and clean.
Yea when I was yourger I like big hoop earrings and bright pink nail paint 😂 now smaller earring & neutral nails
not elegant: judging other people
elegant: let people look however they want
I don’t know why people are being so cruel in the comments. I think it’s all about embracing a more natural and clean look. You don’t *need* any fake nails, fake tan, fake hair, fake anything to look beautiful. You can totally rock it if you want, but your natural beauty is your most elegant look. ❤
bruh this is the song they use for scribblenauts unlimited
Its all abt Fitting the **aesthetics**
Judging other people also doesn't make you elegant
Your name isnt even yours
Just do you. And remember, you don’t have to be elegant, you just have to be intelligent.
“Let’s be honest, she’s not gonna see this” girl you sure about that 😅 negative reviews of hers on tik tok seem to disappear like magic 👀😹
Y’all- not every lady has to be elegant she’s just showing what’s fancy and what’s not don’t get so offended 😭😭
Gatekeeping things and judging others is the least elegant thing here. Elegant people mind their own business and keep their opinions to themselves (especially when it’s something that doesn’t matter much, like clothes).
Elegant ladies don't condescend other ladies on the internet ❤
She wasn’t condescending anyone. If you don’t like it, scroll. She’s not forcing you to do anything, do what you want
Elegant: letting people just exist
Not elegant: this bullshit
lol. This cs is hilarious.
I don't get why people are so mad with this video.
It's like a masc woman showing what is considered masc and not and people going "Well if I want to wear a pink tutu and consider that masc,it is!"
Even you yourself can see it.
Audrey Hepburn is elegant and Kesha during her tick tock days is not - more like a wild party girl aesthtics.
Ya'll mad over nothing XD
Why do all these RUclips “elegance” coaches dress and carry themselves EXACTLY like call girls in Washington DC? Same duck lips, “classy” French nails, clothing , etc.
Why spend so much money when at the end of the day you still look like you’re putting yourself on sale for men?
Just be natural and frugal and stop worrying so much about appearances. Spend that energy on your health and education. If you have the money to splurge, dress yourself in clothes that are made ethically and sustainably. That is true wealth and class.
For the people in the comments. Something can be not elegant and you can still like it, relax.
Opinions are like assholes Sweetie. Everybody's got one. These are yours.
God, I guess I am the definition of the lack of elegance. 😢😢
Totally agree 💯 people don't know what elegance means. It's not judging. Elegance is a style of dress that defines specific colors, cuts. They are not elegant so I don't know why they have a problem about judging? It's like i would create a video what is old money style. This is old money this is not old money. The same with elegance.
People really don't mature anymore growing up, some of the comments are grown up women
Whats wrong with the dark pink nails?
Why do you hate on her? Because she's right? 😂 I mean I'm not falling into her elegant description but at least I have self awareness and not being butthurt about it
I don't want to be elegant but I want to be a natural human being.. 🙂😌
Y'all do what makes you happy. We all have our own opinions on what is and isn't elegant. ❤
Exactly
Shes is not judging NOBODY SO SHUT UP shes telling those who actually want to be elegant how to dress for those who need tips and if you don’t want to be elegant thats your opinion
Also take into consideration skin color. Darker skin looks more elegant with certain colors that don’t suit lighter skin. So take her makeup slathered advice with a grain of salt
Who are you to tell people what is elegant and not. Just because you don't like it dose not make it wrong! You can share your views on what you prefer , but to say its not elegant is a binded self opinion
I’ve never liked bright nails. But after watching this excuse for advice I’m tempted to get some. Here’s better advice: get to know yourself and practice making decisions from that knowing - not from what your environment says you “should” do. Your environment wants you to be mediocre. Go be amazing.
Being able to hold your head high and be happy with whom you are is 'graceful'. Elegance left the building when you told others how to be..."darling".
ys everyone pissed, she aint telling u to do this like???
Darling, elegance is not embodied within one's choice of nail colour.
Spot on 👌
Thank you my dear!
Not at all , in all the recomendaciones
A lot of these women just need to accept that's they're not elegant lol. But that doesn't mean they're not beautiful. It's a matter of style
OK so these are your standards of being elegant.
No it’s the style. Look up anything elegant this is what you will see bc it’s a STYLE, I’d you don’t like it don’t dress like it, why are all of you complaining
@@wisteria_asmr_ Not complaining just stating our views🤷♀️
Being an idiot by judging other’s personal choices while being smug is not elegant
imma have hot pink nails if I freaking want to elegant or not
Well yes that’s the point, she’s not trying to force you to do anything
Real ladies do wtf they want. Bout to pain my nails neon green and be elegant af.
And I took that personally.
The comment section surprised me. Gosh! Its just a conceptual perspective, she's not judging or trying to tell what to do. Take a closer look, she somewhat has a point even if it's her opinion. It's just like telling my girlfriend she'd look better in a ponytail considering her dress design. Or look prettier wearing a nude/red/pink lipstick considering the entirety of her makeup. You guys slamming at her in the comments are the ones judging
You’re the only one who came to her rescue. If you know what shade of lipstick or what kind of hairstyle your “girlfriend” would suit - you need to alpha up.
Why does this girl remind me of charity shop sue
Elegance is wearing the style that matches you. Nude colors and short hair are only flattering for some people. And for some people it's the long hair and bright colors that matches more elegantly. You have to take a lot of things into account to decide which matches you like your skin tone, body and face shape, the occasion and so on. You should educate yourself better before making these kinds of videos, rather than just posting your personal opinions about these kinds of topics...