DEAR SOPHIA… Open Letter to Single Mothers in 2024
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- Опубликовано: 5 сен 2024
- Hello Darlynnsss!!! Hope you’re doing great?
Today’s video is an open letter to single mothers and single parents in 2024. Using the Davido, Sophia Momodu and Tiwa Savage situation as case study. Let’s discuss the role mothers play in the dynamics of coparenting.
From celebrity baby mamas to divorced mothers, single parenthood can happen to anybody. Watch this video and don’t forget to share your thoughts in the comment section.
Love, Asy Darlyn
Asy, you’re too much. The only one that called a spade a spade. You’re a real woman . My mother is still alive but she left when my small sis passed. Till date she have not recovered. Sophia lack good people in her life ,they don’t tell her the truth or she don’t listen. Thank you so much sis for this candid advice. I pray Sophia see this and learn to make amends before it’s late. No the hatred is for Chioma not David, thank you for this advice. I saw the role she’s playing in the whole saga. Pride goes before fall. ❤you loads. Gbam you said it, she don’t have good friends.
Yes Sophia hates Chioma as if Chioma collected her life, when Chioma and David separated for two yrs why didn’t David marry her ? , in her small thinking she thought David will not marry because he has children , Davido likes marriage and he loves Chioma , he has said it several times that if he didn’t marry Chioma he wouldn’t have married any other person . Sophia wants David to marry her but if he didn’t marry her let him not marry Chioma , she prefer him to be sleeping around producing children everywhere then she will be answering president of them all instead of marrying Chioma.
Two yrs ago before the death of Ify May his gentle soul rest in peace , Sophia said that if David didn’t marry her that he will never marry another person, so many evil things she said that year that made people to be calling her when this little angel died .
@@chioma6844 my dear, that lady is foolish , shameless and evil at the same time .
Your point is Valid. Sure some single mums are fond of doing this. They always feel because the man did not marry them they can deprive the man access to his child. This is stale. I am a Proud Single mum and my child is my Priority and i am not emotional with it. I brave up and give him the best. Today i am in Canada with my Son as a PR and we are doing fine. Anytime the father wakes up and wants to see his child he is free i cant stop him. Na 2 people bring the child come this world so no need depriving the father even though i have Legal custody of me child. By Law the father has visiting rights. So Sophia's lawyer should advice her well.
Teebillz just confirmed what many people have been suspecting. Davido has been begging to see his daughter, while Sophia has been using d girl as bargaining chip to make things difficult for David. Now d same woman is the one accusing the guy of abandoning his daughter.
Inside life
Gbam! Exactly
Tibliz just ignorantly proved davido to be a responsible father,who wants to be in his daughter's life, but Sophia has been blocking him.yeye sophia
She really bitter and need to let it go it not like she didn’t see he don’t want her from jump. This man had been show casing chi from many years. I won’t be that dumb to have home on her that lady need mental clarity and help
Sophia is a manipulator, she's the one depriving Davido from seeing Imade and she's the one saying Davido abandoned his daughter. Sophia is the one writing the message claiming it's Imade for emotional blackmail.
@@zainabbusari120if she s yeye Sophia, then you are useless
My darling sister, you have broken everything down.
The first time I have seen you.
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I just subscribed now because of your frankness and Truth I am an old Citizen You are a great lady with wisdom
Same here
Honestly this analysis should be published! So so accurate. Well done! Great counsel for young ladies
My sister you have nail it, good talk
Asy darling, you have brought a different angle to the whole matter, I think he can counter sue them too or get a restraining order to stop them from using the son’s passing to taunt him. Meanwhile they should please consider the sweet little girl in all of this issue.
Dear Asy, you have gained a subscriber as I've been following this story. Thank you for your honesty.I don't know either party but Sophia's anger is directly towards Chioma. You can't force a man to be with you or marry you. Chioma had her own share with David and during their breakup, she never stopped him from seeing their late son through nannies too. That girl didn't utter a single word to the press nor bashed him. Franklin continued to manage her while she did her vlogging, modeling and other business ventures. Davido chased other women but realized that Chioma is the real one. There are countless single mothers out there financially, physically and emotionally caring for their children. Sophia is using I made as her link for cash which was why she trapped him in the first place. The only person suffering in this ordeal is the child. I pray she realizes that she is hurting her daughter and needs to find balance and get to work
Chioma is the one winning here. She got no sense.
@@africanayasmin6210give her from yours, olopolo ayan
She's even lucky. Most men would have abandon this girl by now. I know some men who left because they didn't want to be stressed. She better be careful before he abandon her.
Only foolish men can abandon their blood.
You are very correct.
God bless you my daughter. You are 1oo% on point❤❤❤❤❤❤
Na true talk ooo
This is total bs so a man should be celebrated for being half deadbeat. The standard must be in the gutter 🤦🏾♀️
You are so right, I hope Sophia will see this and apologise to David.
Both Sophia and Tiwa should apologise.
Please tell Sophia, when her daughter turns 18, and said she was going to see her dad.
What will she do.
Chai! Sis. You have so much upstairs. God bless you for saying the truth ❤
Kia you are a woman filled with wisdom,God will protect you, your marriage and your son,you are indeed a woman God bless you, kia,best advice of the year,greetings from here west Orange New Jersey USA 🇺🇸.
You have done a great job 👏 it's so sad that Tiwa of all people will choose to remind Davido of the pain he's been trying so hard to forget!!!! Oh!!!! How could she!! Did she bring David's son back to life by being the first person to visit him at the hospital? Please!!!!! Let that angel of a child rest in peace. May God bless his innocent soul IJMNA. 🙏 You re so full of wisdom. God bless you for being so truthful ❤❤❤ cheers
The whole idea of having a baby for David, so that’s her investment.
She is a very selfish person ❤
Set awon selfishness isonu
Your analysis and advice to women is perfect. God bless you Asy !
How come I just found you yesterday? You are making so much sense❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤.
I really admire your wisdom
You are a virtuous woman
You have said it all.
You are absolutely correct.
Chai I wish I can like this video more than once. U said it all🙌👌❤️
Tiwa was a frenemy to David! They keep bringing up the unfortunate passing of the boy!!!
It seems as though they thought the boy’s passing would destroy David but since it didn’t they keep bringing it up to hurt them!!!!!
My first time watching you and your analysis is top-notch. All your points are accurate. Keep it up 👍
You have said it all, may God bless you for saying the truth
Thank you so much!! You have said it all, this goes to all of us single mothers, stop using your kids as pawns, in the end we are hurting, depriving and destroying our children for our own selfish gains, you cannot come between a daughter and her father, because what we do to teach them about men and the way you are with her father will set her up for future relationship with men. Please be wise.
Asy of Canada your analysis is always too notch. It makes better sense from what you have explained. I pray we all learn.
.Thank you my dear sister for saying the truth, hope she will not learn in a hard way
Asy,Davido married Chioma Davido Adeleke in Court,dat one alone,makes her legal owner of Davido properties,Davido bought her house here in USA to faster Chioma's USA Citizenship, remember Chioma delivered Twins making 5kids now for Davido not 4kids.,God bless ur wisdom.
Its so refreshing to see such a young beautiful lady making so much sense..thank u❤
Perfectly said dear. I love all the points you made, especially setting boundaries.
full of sense as usual Asy is on point
YOU ARE THE MOST INTELLIGENT BLOGGER I HAVE COME ACROSS! BRAVO!!!
Girl, I am a single mother of teenage twin girls........ I have become blind, deaf, and dumb just so my girls would have a relationship with their father...... for the love of my children........ I had, have, and am still doing so.
Thank you my sister! I don’t understand how or why Sophia is feeling and acting so entitled and acting out to the detriment of this same child she has been boasting about taking care of…
You nailed it in your analysis. Wisdom isn't bought. Thank you dear. Davido is known to care for his children with baby mamas.
Hailey's mother is quietly living her life while Davido plays his fatherly role on his daughter. Sophia has lost it all.
Tiwa is fighting for Sophia indirectly.
My dear lovely sister thanks for telling her Sophia the truth, Truth is always bitter sometimes but the end justifies the means. Her friends do not advise her very well because she doesn't have good friends either. She is just an empty vessel without sense. So much love my sister, you are very smart and intelligent, will like to be watching your post
You nailed it!
Miracle no dey tire Jesus. Imagine the damage Sophia would have caused David if she was a US citizen or had given birth to their daughter in America. She obviously would have destroyed David
Their daughter is an American citizen so is Devido what are you talking about?
She is not God. A case of I can’t have him.
Na wah oh, who is older Sophia or Davido
Am in America many her their father don’t pay that
What would have happened?
Asy Darlin , you are such a gem.
Can’t believe I watched this video to the end on a sunday morning! You didn’t lie o! Spoke facts all through! 👏👏
Well delivered. This is a deliverance without come out to Sophia
ASY,i dont usually watch ur videos, i never knew you have such window to dis level,i wanted to sleep b4 resuming my shift,but ur wisdom kept me watching till the end,pls play dat music 😂😂😂, d women dancing is lovely 😂😂.
GOD bless you for saying the truth. You're on point 💯
Why is David begging to see his child?
That’s why I ❤ you Asy!! Your honest is everything to me. Keep up the great work 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
The hatred Sophia has for Chioma is so much , Davido engaged Chioma in 2019 when Chioma was pregnant of Ifeanyi , wicked Sophia hired kemi , and she held Davido with charm ,God delivered Davido , and Davido announced Marriage,to Chioma, Sophia Said over her dead body would she allowed Davido to marry Chioma , , Chioma's room caught fire spiritually, Ifeanyi was killed after his birthday , which Sophia didn't allow Inmande to attend Ifeanyi's birthday , Davido and Chioma were unconsonable over the Ifeanyi, Sophia celebrated over the Death of Ifeanyi , the same Sophia told Inmande to tell Nigerians that she missed Ifeanyi , Sophia posted late Ifeanyi's picture in celebration of Davido's 30th birthday to mocked Chioma , Chioma never attacks Sophia and her employees , Sophia came on social media , and she😮 said Davido abandoned his living daughter , and followed mother of his dead son , Davido relocated Chioma to USA because of desperate Sophia , and desperation is a killer , Sophia kemi , Ladyjee Sophia's employees 😢in attacking Chioma , they got the shocked of their lives , , when Almighty God blessed Davido and Chioma with twins , the same Sophia refuses to let Chioma and Davido be , Sophia' is very wicked , dangerous ,and from pit of hell , Sophia wants Davido to visit Imande in her house , because she wanted to charm Davido again , and she would have come on social media platform and tell her gangs that she gets her husband Davido back , , Sophia and Judith are the most wicked women in Nigeria ,Davido and Chioma should continue to be silent , because silent is best answered to a fool , and they should continue to be prayerful and careful of Sophia , she is from pit of hell , because Sophia constantly on social media claiming victim ,
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She can hate chorma but even if chi nor dae there davido don’t want her period. She need to hate herself for bad character and bad energy that y she the way she is.
Tiwa to me is jealous of Davido.
Gbam ... She wants to knack David but she didn't succeed so she's mad at Him ...
@@fedimbowen3203😂😂😂 yep
@@fedimbowen3203see stupid people collision
@@DiDi-jl5jn your papa and mama na stupid people ... Abi na you bi Tiwa ... Sentiment will kill you ... Ashewo ashawo Tiwa squard na you be ... Ozuo dan
You are speaking the gospel with my friend the daughter could get her anything she want but she wanna be stupid about it Sophia need better friends❤❤🇭🇹
Asy , you no go kee person o. 😂 Your analysis is so on point
My lady you are so real. I love you so much❤
My dear, thank you so much. You're absolutely correct. God bless you. Hope Sophia sees this video and learn.
Girls always blend well with their daddy, as they never tell them off 😂
You’re saying the truth about Sophia. She has reduced her self to ridicule, and zero respect, she will never recover from the mockery she brought to her self. She should just go to look for job since she wants to live lavish life styles, she should respect her self
You have said the bitter truth.
To be honest we can all give advice from where we are but we cannot tell people what to do if we are not in that position. We cannot paint everybody with the same paintbrush when we are not in the matter. We don’t know where they are crying and the pain. 2024 is already teaching us that we really don’t know people totally we don’t know what goes on behind closed door.
Bless you Asy for speaking truth into this matter.The truth is Sophia can’t move on without Davido she is the problem
Sense is like a Roll-on, those that need it, they don't use it! Sophia is very immature 🙄
I totally agreed with your thought on Sophia irrational behaviours.
My dear sister you said it all
See wisdom Wisdom wisdom
Sofia is nobody without davido. That’s the main reason that make her to live all her life under davido wealth. She’s also a greedy woman. Few months ago they brought her SUV but she refused and requested a jeep instead.
She is comparing herself to chioma, so when chioma gets something, thn she wants something almost similar.
For goodness sakes!!! Please let the dead rest, why are they doing this to this family? It’s so painful to lose a child,, you can never get over it, you will learn how to live on, but it’s extremely painful, why are we always trying to bring each other down, that man and his wife are going through it, even though God has bless them with two babies, still no child can replace another. Please let that child rest in peace.
Asy you are simply the best
Sense and sensibility is your second name Asy!
Hmmm! Same Sophia posted that 2023 in less than ONE Month that Ifeanyu passed.
She posted that 2023 was her " happiest year, that she had joy, peace and fulfillment.
Plus she kept Partying, going to clubs and even kept posting them and rejoicing while Davido was seriously mourning.
She was obviously very happy that Ifeanyi passed and she did Not care to show any remorse.
Whereas, Amanda went offline and she even deleted her social media temporarily until David eventually came online.
Besides, Sophia has posted many controversial and annoying stuffs against David . As a human ,Davsi had every right ti be upset with her and face his daughter only.
If you guys remember, when Sophia posted that " The road she has passed before is always easy to pass again"..... Meaning she has slept with David so having her way with him again is an easy thing.. This her nonsense post was immediately after it was rumored that David and Chioma just got married. .And thaf was before David made it known by flaunting his wedding ring at his Uncle Governor Adeleke's inauguration party where he sat with Oni of Ife Oba Enitan
You are absolutely right. Sophia please learn to know that Davison will never come close to you again. He's happily married with his love Chioma.
Asy God bless you. Woman of wisdom. It is well with you
This is why I dnt fast forward ur videos. So spot on. There is alot of selfishness in this generation
Honestly that Wizkids Shola really respects her self.Wiz plsss look after that girl she has respect for you
I love your take on this. We women need more financial awareness.
God bless you my sister 😊😊❤❤
❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤ This is the hard truth that women must hear and uphold because it is high time women begin to value their self worth. We can't be discussing women's rights and still reduce ourselves to door mats.
Geng geng 🎉 2024
Mama desperate needs to move on and find a way to build a brand for herself and stop using the daughter to extort money from the father and also work hard to maintain the high lifestyle Davido has made her get used to before he got married
Absolutely great analysis!!!.
First time chancing on ur page and so much sense 👏👏👏👏👏👏
Thank you they are word of wisdom.
When the boy died sophiara sophiara said that David has other children that need him!!!!!!
Very insensitive of her😢
Very wicked woman
And she declared it her best year. Madness
My dear Sophia is a proud lady she thinks that by being manipulative would get her through. It’s her pride that would make her loose. As you said she was not saving she thought that David would marry her. But you guys have been fighting and blasting each other since pregnancy of Imade that should have made her know that David would never marry her. But she was in a fantasy world. I empathize with her. David has gone Chioma has taken her you move on too .
Love you sis you are smart Hope Sophia listens to your advice let her have sense
My dear you have spoken well God bless you
FANTASTIC analysis!
Very good
My dear sister thank you 🙏 for your clear & honest analysis. You’re blessed
I’m going to subscribe to your channel right away for ur truthfulness God bless you my sister.Greetings from Uk
Sophia is a nuisance . Stop using amade as a pawn .David is not in love with you . He loves his daughter . Stay off side chick !!!
Très intelligente madame
With all this joblesssness in Nigeria people are having philippins nanny
That one tire me
My baby you are too much , full of wisdom.
My first time of listening to you and am very impressed. Subscribed immediately
A time is coming IMADE would decide to live in Her father's mansion which means her mother Sophia would loose her for trying to breach the linkage between Father & Daughter
5 children Hailey Dawson Imade and Chiomas two children
Anything can happen my sister 👌
OMG. Asy where have u been?; jump on this matter already abeg
Sophie wants a second baby from Devido by fire by force that's what I see. That little girl is old enough to spend school holidays with her father ALONE!!!
Asy this is 10000% my daughter is 21year....father has 6 children with 6 different women.
She is 2nd born...but my child wants for nothing.
I refused to be the centre piece in their relationship, so my job was to make sure he was her protector , provider and confidant.
He is the worst husband, but as her father ..he is the most amazing human.
He can be in a board meeting, call him for days he will not respond, only person allowed to interrupt his meetings is my child. Even the wife whom lm friends with for the sake of my child is fearfully respectful of me.
Woman stop using your children they are not your salary check...get a job or come to SA and get a government grant for child care....p.s. it's not $800 it's R350
Subscribing right away!
Me too👏👏👏
Wow, I love your talk my dear
I just subscribed
He has 5 actually..
Twins with Chioma
Imade and Hailey..
Then the son with the American make up artiste..
And my friend is here begging her ex-husband to see and speak to his father.😢.
This life no balance
To be honest, I am saying this now, anyone who knows Davido, should tell him to be careful.
I can see clearly what this woman are up to.
Getting to see his children, will indirectly bring more children.
And Davido gets the blame.
These things has happened before and it will happen again.
See so many people who are not even married have more children from visiting the first child that was born through a baby mama.
This is their kind of jobs, they will go the extra length to get what they want and the men gets the blame.