My husband and I went to Siem Reap in December 2022 and highly recommend getting a guide when you explore the temples of Angkor Wat. Our guide was not only informative, he was an amazing photographer as well, and took some amazing photos of us at this 8th Wonder of the World, that we now cherish. We look forward to going back to Cambodia and exploring the rest of this amazing country.
Sounds like you had a really great time! So glad you’re planning on returning to Cambodia 😍🥰 I am totally with you on getting a guide. I think the Scottish lady was on a group tour (which also can be nice) but getting a local to guide you in this area adds so much value 😊
Tourists must need tour guides. Even me, myself as a Cambodia also need a tour guide. Over Enjoying the views, listening to the tour is something we should experience.
This grandma didn't know that, in Cambodia it is a sin for not respect the elderly people. They didn't call the elderly by name but by the status. Ie. Grandma, grandpa, etc. This grandma should have learn about custom and culture of the country.
About the TukTuk, if they were several of them around, I would get the lowest bargain ride. Most of the Western people forgot their old day in their country. Thus, they felt seeking for customers is annoyance to them but that was the same as in the west as well. They shall watch the oldies movies about their own country.
Laura misinterprets Cambodian culture; calling someone older “ grandma or mom ” actually it is a very respectful word for senior people there. I think it’s different world.
@neakchorn - I agree with you. In most Asian cultures, it's common to address someone older than you as brother/ sister, uncle/ auntie, dad/ mom, grandpa/ grandma - depending on the age of the person you're addressing. It's sometimes considered impolite to call them just by their name. Sometimes, they're called sir/ ma'am, just to be safe.
I think she has a self image that is younger than her appearance and she therefore has trouble accepting the age she presents. She definitely has the appearance (and age) of a grandma. And most people love grandmas.
The khmer culture and traditions highly respect the elderly generation. So, being called granny and mama is a way of showing great respect for you. Respect the culture and remember you are a guest in the actual country you visit. Before you judge, make sure you're qualified to make judgements.
she did mention that it's a cultural thing, but probably it's a bit hard for her to filter in coming from a culture that doesnt tolerate that at all. so yes, it's just a cultural thing. and yes, for khmer women at her age, if not being called grandma, they would get offended too. so, it's the complete contrast.
@@briantravelmanYou are sensitive. Why can't she say something she doesn't like? She isn't moving there so she voiced her opinion. Try not to be so sensitive.
Went to Cambodia on my own (32year old woman) in October/ November and travelled around the country It was absolutely beautiful, people were super nice and helpful. Cried my eyes out when I had to go back home. Definitely going back next year. Dreamed of going there for over 15 years, was the best trip I've ever had. I love Cambodia ❤️
Foreigners need to understand in the khmer culture we dont address each other by our given names.. we call each other sister brother uncle aunty grandma grandpa... even though we are not related, it's a form of respect for one another.
I came to Cambodia on a three-four week scouting trip to see if it could be a good fit. About 2-3 weeks in, I realized I didn't want to go back to the rat race in the U.S.. I called work, thanked them for all they've done for me, and said I'm not coming back. The next day I signed a 6-month lease, upgraded to the 1 year ER (retirement) visa, and I've been living in Siem Reap for almost 4 months now. My lease expires in March, and I'm thinking about moving to Kampot, at least for the hot season.
@bushputz - congrats on your retirement. I think Kampot will be a nice change for you. It will be slightly cooler (1 to 2 degrees) because of the sea breeze. I've been to SR in May and it was very hot & humid. Good luck on your move!
@@dennisstoichkov8233 The longer I stay, the more comfortable I get with my decision. I have family back in the U.S., and of course I miss them. A couple of my siblings are thinking about coming out to visit me, and I plan to go back to the States on occasion. I still don't know if my move is permanent, but right now, it feels good. Thanks!
laura seems highly sensitive. considering she’s traveled the world i expected her to be a little more open minded about the cultural differences and not bring her own european cultural idea into how things are. what she considered disrespectful in actuality, was respect and not meant to be offensive or rude. as someone who loves history and studying artifacts, etc. going to angkor wat is definitely up there and it’s best to get a tour guide who are knowledgeable about what you are looking at.
I think the Cambodian guy described it best. Keep an open mind and just use your best judgement common sense when you’re out and about. And that applies to every country you visit. I used to live in San Francisco and got mugged in the best neighborhood (Nob Hill), getting off from work at 11 o’clock at night. What can I say I let my guards down, thinkin I was safe. Thank you Chai for keeping it real. I love all of your videos from all different countries
In Khmer culture, we do not call elderly people by there names; it's offensive and disrespectful. We, as young people, when we feel close to elderly people, call them "Mea" (Mom) out of respect and closure. Even if they are the same age, if they meet for the first time, we call each other "Bong" (Brother or Sister) out of respect; we don't want to offend someone by miscalling them. I guess this is a culture different . btw good content this the way that we can openly to understand each other.
Calling someone grandma is considered as respectful and polite act in Cambodia. She misinterpreted it, but it is okay. You can learn from this as culture is different from one country to another.
It is always good to get a mixture of experiences whether they be good or not so good. Well done Chai. As the Cambodian guy toward the end made quite clear travelers can come across problems wherever in the world they visit. Being alert and keeping possessions safely tucked away out of sight, most importantly respecting others and their culture, always being polite and smiling and being aware of places not to go at nighttime that may have a bad reputation. Everyone should do their own research in any case. Having said that you cannot get much better information than that provided from actual real life experiences. These videos provide exactly that. Great work Chai 🤩
Always a pleasure Steven! I agree, still I feel a little responsible when people don’t have a good time in South East Asia. I hope people lower expectations, go with an open mind, and be a bit street smart. They will have the best time
After living in this beautiful country for the past 7 years, it's great to hear that people are enjoying it here. Cambodia and the Khmer people are the sweetest. It takes some time to get used to certain things, of course, but if you open your mind and try to understand their situations, it's the best thing you can do. Thank you, Cambodia and the Khmer people, for making my life so much happier!
The lady said she has travelled a lot, but seems like she has not learnt anything about cultural difference. She feels disrespected by a word that locals use to respect people. She should adjust to the local culture, not vice-versa. Yet she mentioned she didn't experience that in other SE ASIA countries, as if Cambodia were the same as their neighbour countries. Complaining about the crowds in Angkor Wat? Oh well, maybe she has been a solo traveller for way too long.
When I first arrived to the US, I used to call older people not by their names but by their status. They weren’t happy until I had explained my Khmer culture and traditions to them. My parents always tell me to be respectful to the elders. We do not address them by their names.
Thank you for advocating for Cambodia. I just subscribed to your channel. I'm sure your valuable work or video is very much appreciated. I'm a Khmer person by the way.
Dope video man! As a Cambodian American, it's great to see stuff like this! Keep the vibes 🤙🏾 *to my opinion, that Scottish lady shouldn't be traveling anywhere with an attitude like that lolll
Yes, you should go to Mondulkiri Province. I felt in love with the province when I went there in 2023, beautiful scenery, less tourists, a lot of beautiful hills and forests, water falls and awesome people.
Luv the follow up interviews in Phnom Penh ✔️ - the Scottish lady’s claims were interesting 🤩 , everyone speaks well , particularly the Cambodian guy - great work again my friend ✔️👋👌👍🙏
My mother would slap my mouth hard if I dared to call an elder by their name instead of addressing them as Aunt, Granny, or Sister. And for those Cambodians who called her Granny or Grandma, I believe they had the same experience as me back home 😂😂
@@Ccb88888 That's why Khmer people are known for being friendly and kind. I'm Khmer, living in the countryside of Battambang, and I almost always call every old lady "Ma." I just feel connected, and we both cherish this kind of word. The words "Ma" or "Grandma" don't mean they want to be your son or grandson. These are words we use to respectfully refer to an elderly woman, similar to how you might use "you" in English. For example, my grandma's name is Ray. In Cambodia, we don't call her Ray or Grandma Ray; we simply call her Grandma. In fact, "Grandma" in Khmer essentially replaces "you" in English when addressing an elder, as calling an elder "you(អ្នក=neak)" would be considered disrespectful in Cambodia.
@@Ccb88888In Cambodia, it is impolite to call someone by his/ first name. They call each other little brother/sister, big brother/sister, aunt, uncle, grandma or grandpa
It's remarkable how well the country functions given a 1/4 of their population was wiped out in the 70s and before that, the US bombed the shit out of them for shits and giggles basically. And then, a civil war up until 1998. The resolve of the people is immense. Pnomh Penh was better than I even expected. Historically fascinating, and even the 'tourist' areas like Bassac Lane were just so safe and didn't feel cheap or sleazy at all.
If people watch your videos before going to Cambodia, they should watch many videos and do a lot of research - not just depend on what one person reports. Great interviews
Absolutely agree, I always suggest that people watch a variety of different videos (not only Chai Travel :p) and do their own research 🙂 Thanks again ❤️
I'm a 67 year old American that's spent the last 5 years worrying about retirement. My SS benefits and 401K would get me a shoe box apartment in the States, and I'd end up with a fast food / cat food diet. For the past year or two, I've watched hundreds of videos of people extolling the virtues of this country or that for retirement. The more I watched, the more I realized that SE Asia would be my best bet. I narrowed my search down to Thailand, Vietnam, Malaysia, and Cambodia. The Visa situation is what really clinched it for me. My nephew lived in Thailand for 3 years, and married a Thai woman. I thought about retiring there until I saw the visa restrictions - 90 day check-ins and minimum balances on a savings account. Too much hassle. I've been living in Siem Reap for almost 4 months now, and the longer I stay, the more I like it. It's a beautiful country, very affordable, and the people are just wonderful. Plus, I can get a great meal for just a couple of bucks (or less!).
Cambodia is a perfect place for expats and digital nomads. It is a well-organized country with hospitable people. Cambodia has a good balance of affordability, intrigue, food culture, openness, variety, development, safety, low crime rates, amenities, and ease of immigration. Good infrastructure and best health care system are also key factors. You can live a peaceful and convenient life in Cambodia. 🏡
It all depends on personal views a d expectations. I lived 1 year in PP. Love the country and the people....but I need little bit more structure , balance...I will come back and have Cambodia foreverin my heart. Living in Thailand now
Welcome back to Cambodia . Good that you interview some tourists . I like to hear some little thing about Litters and Cleanliness . Good luck and be safe 😊
That old lady did not find one good thing about Cambodia, not even Angkor Wat. Definitely went to Cambodia with a biased attitude to make sure she doesn’t enjoy Cambodia at all. She can now go back to her son in Vietnam and tell him and his family the horror stories of her experiences in Cambodia and that they were right to warn her not to go.
Brian, the first guy, had such a good perspective. I've been living in Phnom Penh for 6 years, Siem Reap and Kampot are still my favorite places (also Mondulkiri and the islands) but just understand that the cultures are different
2:39 I agree with this. I’ve noticed in PP the other foreigners aren’t very friendly which I find strange? as he said, I will try to make eye contact and smile but it’s never reciprocated
@matt55592 Yeah , I noticed from watching many vlogs that they are not as friendly as Khmer people, and I have also experienced unfriendly behavior from some foreigners. I'm not used to it, and I find it difficult to live like that. I just love how we Khmer people make eye contact and smile at each other.
The lady misunderstands completely the Khmer people and culture (they aren't allowed to call elders by their first names but grandpa, grandma, mummy, uncle, brother, etc...)! I'm pretty sure it's not only in Cambodia as she mentioned. In many Asian countries, this is the way.
Look. I've lived in Asia off n on since 1970, 9 years old to 64 years old. I'm in Vietnam living currently. I Speak Korean. Westerners, please understand Asian languages use titles when addressing u. Otherwise it's rude. Asia rarely uses "you". Its rude! So, uncle, aunt, older brother, older sister, grandma are respectful titles to address u. If you don't get it, ask a question and leave the western assumptions behind. But, yesterday returning to Vietnam from 0:08 Thailand, I had to really light up some rude grab ride drivers at the airport. But that's different. I'm surrounded by 5 guys hammering me. It happens and it happens everywhere! Nothing is perfect. But each place is unique and an opportunity to expand.
It Cambodia, if we call you Bong, Mama, or Granny, it is a respectful manner and you should be happy because we think of the elderly highly. Hoping she has a better experience in her next visit.
I agree. It's a form of respect. Does she want to be called you? That's highly disrespectful in the Khmer culture. Sad she got so offended by something like that. She can stay out if she is offended. Better to not stress at that advanced in age.
Just spent 16 days in Siem Reap, bought the 7-day pass, and couldn't get enough! Toured and visited 29 different sites in the Angkor Archaeological Park. I'm going back again in 2025, and want to spend a week in Phnom Penh as well. Last year when I was researching PP actually picked the exact same hotel where you stayed. Now I know I want to stay there!
Hi I would like to add my two cents. I'm 55 yr old retired lawman in MA. I was born in battombong Cambodia. I know this for a fact, the term grandmother isn't reserved for relatives like the western culture. So please advise the older woman not to feel bad. It's just different culture. Like your video, thanks.
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I go to Cambodia once a month. It is friendly, safe, hot, cheap, slow paced. It would not be for everyone. A lot of poverty, poor health system and still developing.
I feel sad for the old lady from Scotland because she seem grumpy and didn’t like visiting Cambodia and it’s too bad because it’s a beautiful country and nothing in Scotland that want to make me go visit there. Angkor Trump anything in Scotland as a ecological site
Grandma or mama is a very respectful word for south east Asia. They don’t have the word Granny. Just different culture. For south East Asia are respectful for senior. Every country have good and bad people.
hi there! love your content. planing on visiting in few weeks. i do have the Bakong Tourists app setup ready to go. can it be use everywhere even small vendors ? is it effective to use when paired with travel cards like wise,revolut ? thanks!
Thank you! I’m not familiar with Bakong Tourist App. Small venders are happy if you carry small bills. Paying contactless with Revolut works perfectly places where you can pay with card. I’d recommend to always carry some cash (80USD) with you just in case.
Almost all local vendors now have KHQR which you can scan to pay via the Bakong app even small vendors. If you don’t want to link your bank card to the Bakong app you can top up by going to any bank especially the bank that available at the airport and giving them cash. They will transfer the amount to your account. Anyway I recommend you to exchange a small amount of local money just in case you have problem with internet here or they don't have the KHQR.
Hi , The Bakong app is now available nationwide, offering a seamless and convenient cashless payment solution. As a new innovation launched this year, it is not yet widely known, so we encourage tourists to explore and use it during their time in Cambodia. This modern alternative helps avoid challenges associated with cash transactions, such as currency discrepancies with USD. Enjoy the ease and efficiency of going cashless while experiencing the best of what Cambodia has to offer. Wishing you all the best!
Nice street interview❤ Chai and maybe because of old age laura granny doesn't like to be called mommy or granny i understand.. I know some people even i encounter one incident in front of me..
@Chai_Travel I spent 7 years dealing with immigration to bring my Khmer wife to the U.S, they are very tough with couples that are not married. I don't say it to be rude about Brian doing this, but immigration especially from Cambodia is not easy. He needs to make sure he has a lot of proof of their relationship and constant communication. My wife it took 3 interviews at the embassy over a 7 year period to finally get her approval visa. I've debated making some videos of us talking about our experience, but not sure if anyone would really be interested. I feel our knowledge of the process could be helpful for many other Khmer/American couples.
As a first time single male traveller,50+ retired foreigner from Canada, I’ve been in Phnom Penh for almost 3 months and I’ve really enjoyed my time here, the Khmer people are very friendly ,I use the tuktuk every day and I’ve not had a problem with the drivers ..eventually I will retire here.
In Cambodia, we like to refer you are older as a respectful hierarchy thing. Cuz when u older, the pronounced and verb that we used on you may change to increase the respectfulness level. Lol, even I am at work, I am younger , but the other Cambodian ppl call me bong (older sister or brother) and I call them bong back .
Calling old generation as a granny or Grandpa ,mama aren’t bad at all as a Cambodian that’s culture for respect not being rude. Respect other country culture.
Chai, I was just there 3 months ago. i am kinda sad about what happening in Sihanouk vill these days, What Koh Rong can offer now # the relaxation experience on the island # is what Sihanouukvill had to offer back 13 years ago. It's kinda sad that i had to go that far to the island to just experience the exact same feeling that main land had before the Chinese, and all the development and Ghost building . I had a great time on the island though. I just want to stay there as well man Minnesota is too cold, LOL. Peace
Aw haha thanks for your comment! I’m glad you went there and yes I feel pretty much the same about this. Hopefully after a while things will start to look a bit better. I mean, over time there will always be changes 🙏 greeting ❤️
Cash and bills don´t cause you any problems in Cambodia, if you pay everything in Riel. Only bigger dollar bills will sometimes still be rejected. But the cambodian government gave out a directive that dollar bills with minor issues should be accepted by everyone. Not everyone knows that yet. But the banks are already taking 100$ bills with marks and cracks. Just a few months ago you would have had to pay them 5$ to take your damaged 100$ bill. That means more and more vendors are going to accept those bills too, because they can cash them in at their bank without loosing 5%.
If that lady thinks it is lack of respect to called her grandma or momma. We should called her "mi yeay kajass", now that's respect for her! She don't realize that if you're in Hawaii and you're older the locals will call you uncle, aunty, mamma, and papa too. It's respect for the elders!!
Siem Reap is best(most relaxed , nicest people ,very easy for foregners , Koh Rong Samloem is beautiful , Sihanoukville is full of chinese and not best place to stay anymore. Battambang is nice and safe to visit . Phnom Penh is cool to visit if you like big cities but have to keep eye on your staff there .Kampot is really chill and nice also .
I hated my first trip to Cambodia 25 years ago. I returned to live in SR in 2023-2024 and I loved it. Im back in Australia now and thinking of returning to Cambodia or Thailand.
I point out to Americans afraid to travel that we're already in a dangerous country. At least statistically. After traveling Central America of most my life then going to live in SE Asia I had to learn to let my guard down and relax. Guatemala and Cambodia may look similar in poverty but are different worlds in safety. Philippines may be a slight exception. If Central America had a baby with SE Asia = Philippines lol.
Just by a word granny or mommy, uncle or aunt! it doesn't mean that they are lacking of respect!! Its traditions highly respect to the elderly generation. Did you expect Asian people to call you by name in your age? Mama
I think here you can see how tricky it is learning a foreign language. You are simultaneously adapting to a new culture in your speech too. In most English speaking countries calling someone you don't know 'grandma' is not respectful. Whereas in many Asian languages it is.
When is Brian coming back to seattle? next time i want to come too! How many people is Brian coming with??? We should b new friends with his family too, since we r very close by!!! city wise lol
Actually, it's rude to call your elder by their name in Cambodia. So we call them either granny, grandma, grandmother, or in Khmer (Mak yy). Hope that clear your misunderstanding.
In Cambodia, it is impolite to call someone by his/ first name. They call each other little brother/sister, aunt, uncle, grandma or grandpa according to their age and relationships .
Laura needs to Chill out, how dare someone ask if you are ok to do something. She would be complaining if she fell down and hurt herself. Cambodians are extremely respectful, younger people will bow their heads if they walk in front of you. Some of the nicest people I have ever met. ❤❤❤❤❤
I've had largely lovely experiences in Cambodia in my six or seven visits over the last 8 years. But I have been assaulted twice in Phnom Penh by locals, and violently robbed once by a tuk tuk driver and his accomplice. I made the fatal error of hopping in a random tuk tuk instead of using the Grab app, relying on the good faith of the driver instead of my own vigilance. I live in Vietnam. These are simply not situations that you need to worry about as readily in Vietnam. Basically, I've determined that I can feel very safe and comfortable in Vietnam, but that I need to exercise slightly more caution in Cambodia (especially Phnom Penh), because it's just objectively more dangerous. I don't have stats to back this up, it's purely anecdotal, but of course my train of thought is going to be shaped by fairly traumatic personal experience like what's happened in Phnom Penh. Anyways, like I said: beautiful country, and largely wonderful people. It just needs to be treated with a bit more caution and vigilance than places like Vietnam or Thailand.
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My husband and I went to Siem Reap in December 2022 and highly recommend getting a guide when you explore the temples of Angkor Wat. Our guide was not only informative, he was an amazing photographer as well, and took some amazing photos of us at this 8th Wonder of the World, that we now cherish. We look forward to going back to Cambodia and exploring the rest of this amazing country.
Sounds like you had a really great time! So glad you’re planning on returning to Cambodia 😍🥰 I am totally with you on getting a guide. I think the Scottish lady was on a group tour (which also can be nice) but getting a local to guide you in this area adds so much value 😊
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Tourists must need tour guides. Even me, myself as a Cambodia also need a tour guide. Over Enjoying the views, listening to the tour is something we should experience.
This grandma didn't know that, in Cambodia it is a sin for not respect the elderly people. They didn't call the elderly by name but by the status. Ie. Grandma, grandpa, etc. This grandma should have learn about custom and culture of the country.
About the TukTuk, if they were several of them around, I would get the lowest bargain ride. Most of the Western people forgot their old day in their country. Thus, they felt seeking for customers is annoyance to them but that was the same as in the west as well. They shall watch the oldies movies about their own country.
Laura misinterprets Cambodian culture; calling someone older “ grandma or mom ” actually it is a very respectful word for senior people there. I think it’s different world.
I didn’t wanna diss agree with her at the time but yes I agree with you 🙏
Exactly
@neakchorn - I agree with you. In most Asian cultures, it's common to address someone older than you as brother/ sister, uncle/ auntie, dad/ mom, grandpa/ grandma - depending on the age of the person you're addressing. It's sometimes considered impolite to call them just by their name. Sometimes, they're called sir/ ma'am, just to be safe.
In India we called ( Maaji, Maasi, Daadi, Naani) ❤ to our elders and respect them a lot.
I think she has a self image that is younger than her appearance and she therefore has trouble accepting the age she presents. She definitely has the appearance (and age) of a grandma. And most people love grandmas.
The khmer culture and traditions highly respect the elderly generation. So, being called granny and mama is a way of showing great respect for you.
Respect the culture and remember you are a guest in the actual country you visit. Before you judge, make sure you're qualified to make judgements.
she did mention that it's a cultural thing, but probably it's a bit hard for her to filter in coming from a culture that doesnt tolerate that at all. so yes, it's just a cultural thing. and yes, for khmer women at her age, if not being called grandma, they would get offended too. so, it's the complete contrast.
She spoke bad about Ankor wat. She has a bad spirit. Hopefully she never returns to Cambodia
Being from the West, she interpreted it as being ageist. She has a complex of being older. :)
She's overly sensative. Who is she to lecture people on how to address her in THEIR country?
@@briantravelmanYou are sensitive. Why can't she say something she doesn't like? She isn't moving there so she voiced her opinion. Try not to be so sensitive.
Went to Cambodia on my own (32year old woman) in October/ November and travelled around the country It was absolutely beautiful, people were super nice and helpful. Cried my eyes out when I had to go back home. Definitely going back next year. Dreamed of going there for over 15 years, was the best trip I've ever had. I love Cambodia ❤️
Amazing! I’m so happy you had such a great experience there. Thanks for sharing ❤️🙏
Thank you for having me ❤
Man, thank YOU for being on the show! Hopefully we stay in touch 😊 cheers! 🍺
I really like your feedback/input for Cambodia.
@Bring chai to your podcast. He's experienced in Cambodia many times. He always promoted Cambodia with a positive vibe.
I really love explaining this bong. It is way so fantastic and true
I see u👀
Foreigners need to understand in the khmer culture we dont address each other by our given names.. we call each other sister brother uncle aunty grandma grandpa... even though we are not related, it's a form of respect for one another.
She was negative when she stepped off the plane. So I'm sure she is complaining about everywhere she goes.
In some cultures not calling someone by their name is disrespectful….
That's ok. She isn't obliged to like everywhere.
I came to Cambodia on a three-four week scouting trip to see if it could be a good fit. About 2-3 weeks in, I realized I didn't want to go back to the rat race in the U.S.. I called work, thanked them for all they've done for me, and said I'm not coming back. The next day I signed a 6-month lease, upgraded to the 1 year ER (retirement) visa, and I've been living in Siem Reap for almost 4 months now. My lease expires in March, and I'm thinking about moving to Kampot, at least for the hot season.
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Wow! Any regrets, or are you confident that you made the right decision?
Wow that's amazing! So glad you found your home 😊 and hopefully the next one soon in Kampot 😍
@bushputz - congrats on your retirement. I think Kampot will be a nice change for you. It will be slightly cooler (1 to 2 degrees) because of the sea breeze. I've been to SR in May and it was very hot & humid. Good luck on your move!
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The longer I stay, the more comfortable I get with my decision. I have family back in the U.S., and of course I miss them.
A couple of my siblings are thinking about coming out to visit me, and I plan to go back to the States on occasion.
I still don't know if my move is permanent, but right now, it feels good.
Thanks!
laura seems highly sensitive. considering she’s traveled the world i expected her to be a little more open minded about the cultural differences and not bring her own european cultural idea into how things are. what she considered disrespectful in actuality, was respect and not meant to be offensive or rude.
as someone who loves history and studying artifacts, etc. going to angkor wat is definitely up there and it’s best to get a tour guide who are knowledgeable about what you are looking at.
Agree with you.
Yeah true. I didn’t wanna argue here as she was nice enough to talk to me about her experiences and feelings 🙏 Thanks again
I respected her honesty.
I think the Cambodian guy described it best. Keep an open mind and just use your best judgement common sense when you’re out and about. And that applies to every country you visit. I used to live in San Francisco and got mugged in the best neighborhood (Nob Hill), getting off from work at 11 o’clock at night. What can I say I let my guards down, thinkin I was safe.
Thank you Chai for keeping it real. I love all of your videos from all different countries
Thanks so much :) it’s great to have you on board ❤️🙏
In Khmer culture, we do not call elderly people by there names; it's offensive and disrespectful. We, as young people, when we feel close to elderly people, call them "Mea" (Mom) out of respect and closure. Even if they are the same age, if they meet for the first time, we call each other "Bong" (Brother or Sister) out of respect; we don't want to offend someone by miscalling them. I guess this is a culture different . btw good content this the way that we can openly to understand each other.
Calling someone grandma is considered as respectful and polite act in Cambodia. She misinterpreted it, but it is okay. You can learn from this as culture is different from one country to another.
I thought that too .. I have been told that many times
It is always good to get a mixture of experiences whether they be good or not so good. Well done Chai. As the Cambodian guy toward the end made quite clear travelers can come across problems wherever in the world they visit. Being alert and keeping possessions safely tucked away out of sight, most importantly respecting others and their culture, always being polite and smiling and being aware of places not to go at nighttime that may have a bad reputation. Everyone should do their own research in any case. Having said that you cannot get much better information than that provided from actual real life experiences. These videos provide exactly that. Great work Chai 🤩
No wonder grandma Scotland had a terrible time - she’s got a terrible attitude!
Always a pleasure Steven! I agree, still I feel a little responsible when people don’t have a good time in South East Asia. I hope people lower expectations, go with an open mind, and be a bit street smart. They will have the best time
The Mon-Khmer people also invaded Burma and my brother in law is Mon. .They brought so much culture and education into Burma. Respect Cambodia.
After living in this beautiful country for the past 7 years, it's great to hear that people are enjoying it here. Cambodia and the Khmer people are the sweetest. It takes some time to get used to certain things, of course, but if you open your mind and try to understand their situations, it's the best thing you can do.
Thank you, Cambodia and the Khmer people, for making my life so much happier!
The lady said she has travelled a lot, but seems like she has not learnt anything about cultural difference. She feels disrespected by a word that locals use to respect people. She should adjust to the local culture, not vice-versa. Yet she mentioned she didn't experience that in other SE ASIA countries, as if Cambodia were the same as their neighbour countries. Complaining about the crowds in Angkor Wat? Oh well, maybe she has been a solo traveller for way too long.
Maybe, I still really respect her the way she was happy to have this conversation on camera:)
I've been to Cambodia for 11 days and love it. The foods, friendly locals, and historical sites brought me back many times😂😂😂😂🤣
Glad you enjoyed it! It is a truly amazing country! 😁
Of course, you’re Cambodian 🧐
Nice Video, Chai. The last guy name is Rean Thort, a very famous Khmer RUclipsr. Glad that you met him.
That’s right! He a very nice guy 🤩❤️
Laura from Scotland is an inspiration to me. I enjoyed her dialogue with you! I am so motivated to experience Cambodia.
Thanks so much! I think Laura is awesome too! 🙏You’ll love it here 🥰
When you are called Grandma or Aunty is a sign of respect in Cambodia culture.
If you are called Mother, mama, or granny by the local people it show respect and love.
Best street interview ever ❤Nicely done Chai.
Thank you ❤️
When I first arrived to the US, I used to call older people not by their names but by their status. They weren’t happy until I had explained my Khmer culture and traditions to them. My parents always tell me to be respectful to the elders. We do not address them by their names.
Love your channel Bradda! 🫶🏾🇰🇭
Appreciate you watching my channel! Stay champ 🏆
Welcome and thank you for helping spread the word about Cambodia. Cambodian love you ❤🥰
Thank you for advocating for Cambodia. I just subscribed to your channel. I'm sure your valuable work or video is very much appreciated. I'm a Khmer person by the way.
Thank you so much! It means a lot to me! Stay in touch 🙏
Dope video man! As a Cambodian American, it's great to see stuff like this! Keep the vibes 🤙🏾 *to my opinion, that Scottish lady shouldn't be traveling anywhere with an attitude like that lolll
Thanks for watching! Haha she was ready to go home. But I really appreciate her input regardless.
She was very entitled
Excellent! Great video!
Glad you liked it! 🤩
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Nice video! I'm visiting Cambodia tomorrow for about 3-4 weeks, lets see😁
That’s so exciting! Have the best trip 😍 be open minded and hopefully you also visit some places with less tourists 😊
If you want real smiles from people and real warmth. I dare say Cambodia is the best. If you come and the people don't welcome you, you can blame me.🥰
Yes, you should go to Mondulkiri Province. I felt in love with the province when I went there in 2023, beautiful scenery, less tourists, a lot of beautiful hills and forests, water falls and awesome people.
Mondulkiri is beautiful, especially exploring nature accompanied by a Bunong guide. 👌🏻
Thank you for compliments about my beautiful Cambodia 🇰🇭.
Luv the follow up interviews in Phnom Penh ✔️ - the Scottish lady’s claims were interesting 🤩 , everyone speaks well , particularly the Cambodian guy - great work again my friend ✔️👋👌👍🙏
Thanks again mate. Glad you enjoyed the interviews. Happy days!
My mother would slap my mouth hard if I dared to call an elder by their name instead of addressing them as Aunt, Granny, or Sister. And for those Cambodians who called her Granny or Grandma, I believe they had the same experience as me back home 😂😂
If someone doesn’t know my name, they shouldn’t be presumptuous and call me grandpa or pa. I am not a father or grandfather….
@@Ccb88888 That's why Khmer people are known for being friendly and kind. I'm Khmer, living in the countryside of Battambang, and I almost always call every old lady "Ma." I just feel connected, and we both cherish this kind of word.
The words "Ma" or "Grandma" don't mean they want to be your son or grandson. These are words we use to respectfully refer to an elderly woman, similar to how you might use "you" in English.
For example, my grandma's name is Ray. In Cambodia, we don't call her Ray or Grandma Ray; we simply call her Grandma.
In fact, "Grandma" in Khmer essentially replaces "you" in English when addressing an elder, as calling an elder "you(អ្នក=neak)" would be considered disrespectful in Cambodia.
@@Ccb88888In Cambodia, it is impolite to call someone by his/ first name. They call each other little brother/sister, big brother/sister, aunt, uncle, grandma or grandpa
@@Ccb88888okay grandpa
@@usaguru1 I guess this is just cultural difference.
Brian is a real one. He has a local experience every time.
🙏🙏🙏 thank Chai for the video ❤❤❤
Thank you too for watching again🙏
Thank you for interviewing them which allowed me to comprehend. more about Cambodia
It's remarkable how well the country functions given a 1/4 of their population was wiped out in the 70s and before that, the US bombed the shit out of them for shits and giggles basically. And then, a civil war up until 1998. The resolve of the people is immense. Pnomh Penh was better than I even expected. Historically fascinating, and even the 'tourist' areas like Bassac Lane were just so safe and didn't feel cheap or sleazy at all.
If people watch your videos before going to Cambodia, they should watch many videos and do a lot of research - not just depend on what one person reports. Great interviews
Absolutely agree, I always suggest that people watch a variety of different videos (not only Chai Travel :p) and do their own research 🙂 Thanks again ❤️
I'm a 67 year old American that's spent the last 5 years worrying about retirement. My SS benefits and 401K would get me a shoe box apartment in the States, and I'd end up with a fast food / cat food diet.
For the past year or two, I've watched hundreds of videos of people extolling the virtues of this country or that for retirement. The more I watched, the more I realized that SE Asia would be my best bet. I narrowed my search down to Thailand, Vietnam, Malaysia, and Cambodia.
The Visa situation is what really clinched it for me. My nephew lived in Thailand for 3 years, and married a Thai woman. I thought about retiring there until I saw the visa restrictions - 90 day check-ins and minimum balances on a savings account. Too much hassle.
I've been living in Siem Reap for almost 4 months now, and the longer I stay, the more I like it. It's a beautiful country, very affordable, and the people are just wonderful. Plus, I can get a great meal for just a couple of bucks (or less!).
The last guy was interesting to have a more of a deepdive with on his backstory. Thanks Chai for keeping it real
For sure 😊 hopefully we’ll see more of him in the future 🙏
Cambodia is a perfect place for expats and digital nomads. It is a well-organized country with hospitable people. Cambodia has a good balance of affordability, intrigue, food culture, openness, variety, development, safety, low crime rates, amenities, and ease of immigration. Good infrastructure and best health care system are also key factors. You can live a peaceful and convenient life in Cambodia. 🏡
It all depends on personal views a d expectations. I lived 1 year in PP. Love the country and the people....but I need little bit more structure , balance...I will come back and have Cambodia foreverin my heart. Living in Thailand now
Poor transportation, a lot of scammer call center, lots of Chinese who do grey business
@@PuppyP40 talking about Vietnam? 😂
Welcome back to Cambodia . Good that you interview some tourists . I like to hear some little thing about Litters and Cleanliness . Good luck and be safe 😊
Thanks! Its unfortunate but littering and pollution is still quite a big challenge 🙏
That old lady did not find one good thing about Cambodia, not even Angkor Wat. Definitely went to Cambodia with a biased attitude to make sure she doesn’t enjoy Cambodia at all. She can now go back to her son in Vietnam and tell him and his family the horror stories of her experiences in Cambodia and that they were right to warn her not to go.
Brian, the first guy, had such a good perspective. I've been living in Phnom Penh for 6 years, Siem Reap and Kampot are still my favorite places (also Mondulkiri and the islands) but just understand that the cultures are different
2:39 I agree with this. I’ve noticed in PP the other foreigners aren’t very friendly which I find strange? as he said, I will try to make eye contact and smile but it’s never reciprocated
That’s such a shame. Hopefully I’ll be able to make my fellow travelers aware to smile a bit more :)
@matt55592 Yeah , I noticed from watching many vlogs that they are not as friendly as Khmer people, and I have also experienced unfriendly behavior from some foreigners. I'm not used to it, and I find it difficult to live like that. I just love how we Khmer people make eye contact and smile at each other.
@@Chai_Travel Yeah, just smile along the way and look at them-Khmer people won’t waste even a second to return your smile.😁
The lady misunderstands completely the Khmer people and culture (they aren't allowed to call elders by their first names but grandpa, grandma, mummy, uncle, brother, etc...)! I'm pretty sure it's not only in Cambodia as she mentioned. In many Asian countries, this is the way.
Look. I've lived in Asia off n on since 1970, 9 years old to 64 years old. I'm in Vietnam living currently. I Speak Korean. Westerners, please understand Asian languages use titles when addressing u. Otherwise it's rude. Asia rarely uses "you". Its rude! So, uncle, aunt, older brother, older sister, grandma are respectful titles to address u. If you don't get it, ask a question and leave the western assumptions behind. But, yesterday returning to Vietnam from 0:08 Thailand, I had to really light up some rude grab ride drivers at the airport. But that's different. I'm surrounded by 5 guys hammering me. It happens and it happens everywhere! Nothing is perfect. But each place is unique and an opportunity to expand.
It Cambodia, if we call you Bong, Mama, or Granny, it is a respectful manner and you should be happy because we think of the elderly highly. Hoping she has a better experience in her next visit.
Granny needs to lighten up a bit.
Interesting comment. She’s saying she finds it offensive to call her that way
@ I know, mate.
I agree. It's a form of respect. Does she want to be called you? That's highly disrespectful in the Khmer culture. Sad she got so offended by something like that. She can stay out if she is offended. Better to not stress at that advanced in age.
Calling senior people by their name is kinda disrespect for Khmer culture.
She explicitly asked them to stop but they just ignored her request and continued on.
Thanks from Cambodia for sharing 🇰🇭🇰🇭❤️❤️❤️❤️🙏🙏
My pleasure 😁
Granny needs to stay home.😂
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Thanks chai ❤love u
Thanks for watching! 🙏
Just spent 16 days in Siem Reap, bought the 7-day pass, and couldn't get enough! Toured and visited 29 different sites in the Angkor Archaeological Park. I'm going back again in 2025, and want to spend a week in Phnom Penh as well. Last year when I was researching PP actually picked the exact same hotel where you stayed. Now I know I want to stay there!
Wow! That’s a lot of exploring! I can only imagine how amazing your trip was! 🤩 and you’d love the hotel 😍 cheers!
Hi
I would like to add my two cents.
I'm 55 yr old retired lawman in MA. I was born in battombong Cambodia.
I know this for a fact, the term grandmother isn't reserved for relatives like the western culture. So please advise the older woman not to feel bad. It's just different culture.
Like your video, thanks.
Thanks so much for watching 🙏 I hope many people can learn from the videos I make and also read your comment 🙂
We value all visitor feedback regarding their experiences, both positive and negative, to ensure our nation is optimally prepared for the tourism sector and national development.
I go to Cambodia once a month. It is friendly, safe, hot, cheap, slow paced. It would not be for everyone. A lot of poverty, poor health system and still developing.
Thanks for your input and watching!
I feel sad for the old lady from Scotland because she seem grumpy and didn’t like visiting Cambodia and it’s too bad because it’s a beautiful country and nothing in Scotland that want to make me go visit there. Angkor Trump anything in Scotland as a ecological site
Great time in Cambodia,
Now we’re in Siem Reap Chai
Nice! I wish we were there too 🤩
enjoy your trip around the small world of Cambodia
Love the couple from Argentina.
If you can survive Los Angeles, Oakland, San Francisco, New York, or other shitholes in the USA, Cambodia would be a walk in the park.
❤Really love them❤🙏
Cambodia is awesome.
Good for sharing
Thanks for watching 🙂
That’s funny that when Cambodian called granny or mamma. It’s very a respectful words, and honorable in Cambodia cultures. We respect our elders.
Grandma or mama is a very respectful word for south east Asia. They don’t have the word Granny. Just different culture. For south East Asia are respectful for senior. Every country have good and bad people.
Granny needs to chill and have a few beers
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hi there! love your content. planing on visiting in few weeks. i do have the Bakong Tourists app setup ready to go. can it be use everywhere even small vendors ? is it effective to use when paired with travel cards like wise,revolut ? thanks!
Thank you! I’m not familiar with Bakong Tourist App. Small venders are happy if you carry small bills. Paying contactless with Revolut works perfectly places where you can pay with card. I’d recommend to always carry some cash (80USD) with you just in case.
Almost all local vendors now have KHQR which you can scan to pay via the Bakong app even small vendors. If you don’t want to link your bank card to the Bakong app you can top up by going to any bank especially the bank that available at the airport and giving them cash. They will transfer the amount to your account.
Anyway I recommend you to exchange a small amount of local money just in case you have problem with internet here or they don't have the KHQR.
@ thank you 🙏
Hi , The Bakong app is now available nationwide, offering a seamless and convenient cashless payment solution. As a new innovation launched this year, it is not yet widely known, so we encourage tourists to explore and use it during their time in Cambodia. This modern alternative helps avoid challenges associated with cash transactions, such as currency discrepancies with USD. Enjoy the ease and efficiency of going cashless while experiencing the best of what Cambodia has to offer. Wishing you all the best!
Nice street interview❤ Chai and maybe because of old age laura granny doesn't like to be called mommy or granny i understand.. I know some people even i encounter one incident in front of me..
Thanks Muhammad Ali 🙂
This guy getting sent over to Cambodia and not getting married is going to get a reality check at the embassy if they are not married.
Why do you say that?
@Chai_Travel I spent 7 years dealing with immigration to bring my Khmer wife to the U.S, they are very tough with couples that are not married. I don't say it to be rude about Brian doing this, but immigration especially from Cambodia is not easy. He needs to make sure he has a lot of proof of their relationship and constant communication.
My wife it took 3 interviews at the embassy over a 7 year period to finally get her approval visa. I've debated making some videos of us talking about our experience, but not sure if anyone would really be interested. I feel our knowledge of the process could be helpful for many other Khmer/American couples.
Thanks for clarifying 🙏 man, I hope the US is easing the visa requirements from people coming from another continent.
As a first time single male traveller,50+ retired foreigner from Canada, I’ve been in Phnom Penh for almost 3 months and I’ve really enjoyed my time here, the Khmer people are very friendly ,I use the tuktuk every day and I’ve not had a problem with the drivers ..eventually I will retire here.
That’s great to hear! I hope you have a safe and enjoyable time there 😊 and hopefully your dreams come true 🤩
@@Chai_Travel thank you my friend, if you’re ever back in Cambodia, I’d love to chat with you over a coffee☕️
Love Cambodia.. no country is perfect… there are criticisms from all kinds of tourists for every country… I live in USA and travel to many countries…
scotish lady is absolute nuts
That’s not very nice of you is it?
Laura has travelled everywhere except the old folks home
Omg
ពូ រៀនថត interview Very nice❤❤ @reanthort
In Cambodia, we like to refer you are older as a respectful hierarchy thing. Cuz when u older, the pronounced and verb that we used on you may change to increase the respectfulness level. Lol, even I am at work, I am younger , but the other Cambodian ppl call me bong (older sister or brother) and I call them bong back .
Calling old generation as a granny or Grandpa ,mama aren’t bad at all as a Cambodian that’s culture for respect not being rude. Respect other country culture.
❤❤❤❤ your video
Thanks you ❤️
Thanks you ❤️
wow pu @reanthort was there too !
You better believe it 🤩
Please go to Koh Rong samloem this time
Coming up! 🤩
i like how cambodian answered the all question well
Chai, I was just there 3 months ago. i am kinda sad about what happening in Sihanouk vill these days, What Koh Rong can offer now # the relaxation experience on the island # is what Sihanouukvill had to offer back 13 years ago. It's kinda sad that i had to go that far to the island to just experience the exact same feeling that main land had before the Chinese, and all the development and Ghost building . I had a great time on the island though. I just want to stay there as well man Minnesota is too cold, LOL. Peace
Aw haha thanks for your comment! I’m glad you went there and yes I feel pretty much the same about this. Hopefully after a while things will start to look a bit better. I mean, over time there will always be changes 🙏 greeting ❤️
6 months ago the Cambodia government ordered all Banks they must accept US dollars at face value even if damaged
That’s right! I wasn’t aware of that order the moment I made this video 🙏 Thanks Peter
Cash and bills don´t cause you any problems in Cambodia, if you pay everything in Riel. Only bigger dollar bills will sometimes still be rejected. But the cambodian government gave out a directive that dollar bills with minor issues should be accepted by everyone. Not everyone knows that yet. But the banks are already taking 100$ bills with marks and cracks. Just a few months ago you would have had to pay them 5$ to take your damaged 100$ bill. That means more and more vendors are going to accept those bills too, because they can cash them in at their bank without loosing 5%.
I like your tshirt, I want one 😊
Thanks! Haha you’re able to check some designs right here: chai-travel.creator-spring.com/?nohelpkit=1
If that lady thinks it is lack of respect to called her grandma or momma. We should called her "mi yeay kajass", now that's respect for her! She don't realize that if you're in Hawaii and you're older the locals will call you uncle, aunty, mamma, and papa too. It's respect for the elders!!
Siem Reap is best(most relaxed , nicest people ,very easy for foregners , Koh Rong Samloem is beautiful , Sihanoukville is full of chinese and not best place to stay anymore. Battambang is nice and safe to visit . Phnom Penh is cool to visit if you like big cities but have to keep eye on your staff there .Kampot is really chill and nice also .
Cambodia have most amazing and sweet people you meet anywhere in the world
I hated my first trip to Cambodia 25 years ago. I returned to live in SR in 2023-2024 and I loved it. Im back in Australia now and thinking of returning to Cambodia or Thailand.
That’s good to hear 🤩 greetings :)
@@Chai_Travel Keep up the great content.
Cambodia is best country in south EastAsia 🇰🇭🇰🇭🇰🇭🇰🇭🇰🇭🇰🇭
At least one of the best
I point out to Americans afraid to travel that we're already in a dangerous country. At least statistically. After traveling Central America of most my life then going to live in SE Asia I had to learn to let my guard down and relax. Guatemala and Cambodia may look similar in poverty but are different worlds in safety. Philippines may be a slight exception. If Central America had a baby with SE Asia = Philippines lol.
Calling someone grandma is a sign of respect.
It is a cultural norm in a formal way to address an elderly person as Grandfather, Grandmother, father , mother, uncle, auntie ...etc.
Just by a word granny or mommy, uncle or aunt! it doesn't mean that they are lacking of respect!! Its traditions highly respect to the elderly generation. Did you expect Asian people to call you by name in your age? Mama
I think here you can see how tricky it is learning a foreign language. You are simultaneously adapting to a new culture in your speech too. In most English speaking countries calling someone you don't know 'grandma' is not respectful. Whereas in many Asian languages it is.
What camera you're using please
This is filmed with a iPhone 13Pro clicked into a DJIOM 4 stabilizer 🙏 hope it helps
When is Brian coming back to seattle? next time i want to come too! How many people is Brian coming with??? We should b new friends with his family too, since we r very close by!!! city wise lol
Actually, it's rude to call your elder by their name in Cambodia. So we call them either granny, grandma, grandmother, or in Khmer (Mak yy). Hope that clear your misunderstanding.
My mother would slap my mouth hard if I dared to call an elder by their name instead of addressing them as Aunt, Granny, or Sister.😂😂
In Cambodia, it is impolite to call someone by his/ first name. They call each other little brother/sister, aunt, uncle, grandma or grandpa according to their age and relationships .
Laura needs to Chill out, how dare someone ask if you are ok to do something. She would be complaining if she fell down and hurt herself. Cambodians are extremely respectful, younger people will bow their heads if they walk in front of you. Some of the nicest people I have ever met. ❤❤❤❤❤
🙏 I think she misunderstands the way of communicating towards the elders in Cambodia
I've had largely lovely experiences in Cambodia in my six or seven visits over the last 8 years. But I have been assaulted twice in Phnom Penh by locals, and violently robbed once by a tuk tuk driver and his accomplice. I made the fatal error of hopping in a random tuk tuk instead of using the Grab app, relying on the good faith of the driver instead of my own vigilance.
I live in Vietnam. These are simply not situations that you need to worry about as readily in Vietnam. Basically, I've determined that I can feel very safe and comfortable in Vietnam, but that I need to exercise slightly more caution in Cambodia (especially Phnom Penh), because it's just objectively more dangerous. I don't have stats to back this up, it's purely anecdotal, but of course my train of thought is going to be shaped by fairly traumatic personal experience like what's happened in Phnom Penh.
Anyways, like I said: beautiful country, and largely wonderful people. It just needs to be treated with a bit more caution and vigilance than places like Vietnam or Thailand.
Thanks for sharing your experiences 🙏 I hope things are improving in Phnom Penh