you probably dont care but does anybody know of a trick to log back into an instagram account? I was stupid lost the password. I love any tips you can offer me!
Definitely one of my favorite videos! I’ve watched it several times and it helps to even think of the title when I’m feeling weak or uncertain. Good job, Coach!
Lately, life has been hard and it gots me feeling like I wanted to reach out, tell him how much I miss him but as I was feeling anxious without knowing I started watching this video and I smiled to myself within the first few minutes into it... thanks for the advice! I can do better! :-)
Also, Linus should avoid asking about her/ talking about her to her Friends. This happened to me once. The person asked for "Time and Space", and so I went radio silent. No social media. No talking to people her knows. For 3 months. He came back. and with a renewed respect.
I dont get to hear much success stories , so tell us a little bit more about it Deana . Are u still with that person ?.. it just gives us a little bit more hope
deana K, thank you, just the answer I was waiting for. I guess there us hope for me, although he said it's his 40 Plus yr old daughter who crested so much ruckus, he felt his plate was full, and needed to situate thugs for her. Dumped me for her for the time being! I guess he is clearly too co-dependent???
Are u still with that person? My ex lashed out when I saw her at her job. I tried to get some closure, but it turn out into a heated discussion. Also, she confessed a secrets that broke my heart. I want her back but I didn't communicate that because she doesn't want me.
I’ll admit that my anxiety kicks in at times, but thanks to listening to Craig and Margaret, I’m not going to do anything drastic to hurt my chances of rekindling my relationship.
Im just like Linus i am in love with someone I know is bad for me but it's like im addicted to her. Im doing no contact today she called i went to see her and got treated like shit again. I have to move onbut it's so hard to do so in back to no contact at all
There have been days that I listen to these videos all day long. At home and in my car. Sometimes two or three times just to get it drilled into my head.
Watching and listening to your videos have given lots of insight that I am following. My boyfriend broke up with me August 20th and I last text him on the 28th. I feel like it’s be an eternity. But, I’m sticking to it. Thru the years of having my heart ripped out by guys and me acting desperate in needing them back. Sad to say it never worked for me. So, it’s all of Craig’s counseling strategies that I am banking on. I love my ex very much. But, over all I’m going to be a better person in the end.
Craig, I am loving your videos! I listen to them DAILY! They have provided a positive perspective on change and detecting what is no longer going to last!
I've had massive amounts of discipline, and still failed. With all my ex's. It's been 2 months since the breakup of my current ex and that i moved out. I haven't done any unattractive behaviours during the breakup or to this very day. I haven't reached out to her once. She reached out to me a few times in regards to sorting living arrangements. I kept it brief. I have not agreed to being friends. I told her no friends, but if she wants to see me romantically let me know. If i'm still single we'll sort something. She reached out once just to see how i was, so i tried making a date. I got a "i'll see what i can do" response. So i withdrew the offer and told her to get in touch when she is more available. I basically took your advice from our email coaching Craig. I've been confident, and indifferent. She is now in a relationship with someone new after 2 months. They actually only met a couple of weeks ago i think and the status on her facebook is now that she is in a relationship. My point is, they still move on when you behave confidentally and indifferently, and it sucks. It makes you feel like there is no hope. Especially when their new boyfriend looks like a younger version of Quentin Tarantino with a bigger chin. When you become a better version of yourself and they still don't want you, then you feel like all is lost.
Oh so you think that because you didn't get the result that you wanted in YOUR expected time frame it's a failure??? Not the way it works. Yes it sucks. Keep working on yourself. Just because she started dating some new guy doesn't mean she won't come running back when it falls apart.
Coach Craig Kenneth - Yes this is true Craig. I'm thinking it's over because she is with someone new. It's the wrong way of looking at it i know. their relationship probably will fall apart. I'm still a better version of myself though, and thanks to your advice i haven't made my situation worse. So i've still won in a way. I have a couple of dates lined up anyway. Thanks Craig.
You are phenomenal. Couldnt get a msg in 7 days watched your video and already getting spammed within 4 hours. I know where I went wrong im the suffocator in the relationship over emotional but I stopped
Blimey “bye bye birds eye”, I would never miss a woman like that, p.s Craig been watching yours vids last five months since my break was in relationship for 20yrs, you give me strength I’m following you’re tuition, you make me laugh.
This is pretty good, Craig. I was sort of like this with my very first girlfriend. I was 19 years old she was 16 and she was a knockout. It lasted 4 months. I was devastated when it ended. I called her up on occasion and sometimes at church. I was needy and sappy. She finally said, "why are you like this? Things wouldn't be so bad if you just wouldn't feel this way". I said I didn't know why. I really had to work on myself. Great advice. Thanks. :) You're one of a kind.
I screwed up! and my mindset right now is break no contact because Im thinking about the idea that if you truly love someone, fight for them and put in the work and effort to get them back! the idea that..small efforts build overtime. Does culture also play a part in deciding no contact? Thanks for the help.
My anxiety made my avoidant ex feel smothered and resentful but I didn’t see it when I was in it. Hindsight = 20/20!! If I never get him back, I’m still a better, stronger more self-aware person!
I met someone that put me on a pedastal week one. It was scary. To good to be True. My Mom was transitioning and passed away.. They gave me incredible support. Hence, grieving my Mother felt needy to them.. Why Support me while Moms suffering during her transition and once shes with the lord now my pain and reaching out was to much.? They blocked me??? Why? It seems cruel and not normal...
Hey coach! Have you made a video on what does he want? I saw the video about what does she want, what about what guys want? I'm sure you've covered that here and there in different videos, but have you dedicated a whole video to it? If so, I'd love to watch it
This is one of my favorite episodes of Coach Kenneth. Me and my friend - who is also a huge fan and follower of Craig - were laughing so hard watching this (I know it might sound cruel at first). At 9:29 I literally corrected what Craig tried to say. "If there is one thing I know about Lynus... is that... (here comes my correction) HE CAN'T TAKE AN EFFIN HINT!!!" Jesus, poor guy...
Just my two cents (though you may say it later, i'm onlybat 6:50) - dating a beautiful girl when you don't like the way you look, creates a constant cognitive dissonance of - 'what the heck someone like this is doing with someone like me?' Which increases anxiety.
Agreed on behavior but yet most woman dont even know how to behave especially when they are with their friends but still demand it from their partners....
I'm failing at having discipline. I said something very stupid on the phone tonight. I asked my girlfriend if she missed me. She said to me "is this a hint, no I didn't. " I'm not sure if she really meant that but I covered it up by saying "no it's not a hint I was just kidding. "Stupid stupid stupid. Weak weak weak. In the same Conversation on the phone I told her that I would like to talk more on the phone with her. She asked me if this bothered me. I told her it does a little bit. That would be nice to talking on the phone than text all the time. We only get to see each other on the weekends usually. She says well you can always pick up the phone and call. I said it works both ways. She had the excuse to say" well you know I'm busy all week."She is an alpha female and most the time not very sweet and very defensive. We do say we love each other sometimes. One day she would tell me she wants me , the next day cold. obviously she has some sort of disorder but I don't know which kind. What should I do?
Kk V Her 'disorder' sounds like she's Avoidant. I was with a Fearful Avoidant for five years. Textbook behavior, on her end, that you wrote. Mine was alpha, too. Not fun overall, always, ALWAYS, a challenge to connect.
What about if we lived together for six years and we are splitting..but i still know that love is there the only thing is for now we dont tolerate each other...
8:54, she told me that the day after the break up. Haven't said a thing since, at 2 months of NC and i don't plan on saying a thing. If she wants me, she can reach out lol
My situation is a very strange and weird one to have to deal with, my ex an I broke up about a month an a half ago. Now here's the kicker she's 5 months pregnant, so I don't see how having no contact will help the situation or am I missing something?
Coach Craig you're absolutely right love the knowledge and information the way you explain it ..disipline 👍☝️ keeping it simple! thank you for the videos Man !
I saw my ex on my street on a Monday I didn't see him.but he said something to me but I didn't respond .is he driving on my street to look for me.please tell me I'm still in no contact with him . hurting person
i always fail no contact, i only last 20hrs then contacting her again, that happen everytime, there are times that i feel so down and i miss her and thinking about all the negative things thinking about our memories and she will never comeback she will move on she is happy then my body start moving and texting her again, i really want to do no contact but i have bad anxiety and depression pls help :(
Poor linus,and I just thought my situation was bad..dang bro I know it's easier said than done but holy crap man sounds like you have alot more to offer than she does,pretty on the outside but terrible on the inside
oh , I introduced your video to my ex, for him to know his attachment style... What if we both are doing no contact forever I am anxious right now. LOL
I love your videos is helping me a lot with my anxities. My fiance he left 1 week a go😏 whitout telling me nothing. After 6 years of relationship i don’t think i was happy with him. Always he made me suffer and always he cared about him self hanghing around with his friends. He just droped me a text that he want to see his child but i didn’t replay. I think he just want to use his child just to know what i am doing? I am to stuborn i don’t want to talk to him at all. I will never contact him.
Damn, I feel like I destroyed my chances to get my ex fiance back due to my anxiety. After she left, I called her often, text, and even flew to see her. After that, I only reached out once in a month and a half, but got no response. I feel that maybe we still have hope. But I'm not going to contact her again.
shorfan thanks man. I haven't contacted her in 2 months. I was going to write her a letter, but I go back in forward. The last few months of our relationship was filled with arguing. But what gets me everyday is the anxiety. Painful stuff bro!
This is one of my favorites very important to understand how to have discipline and not let anxiety break you down keep it up coach!
you probably dont care but does anybody know of a trick to log back into an instagram account?
I was stupid lost the password. I love any tips you can offer me!
Definitely one of my favorite videos! I’ve watched it several times and it helps to even think of the title when I’m feeling weak or uncertain. Good job, Coach!
I love this one myself!
I love this video and this womans picture! Very pretty and it actually helps to know beautiful women feel the same things as us men.
Hi Stacey, I see you're comments on a bunch of videos. Do you do coaching in this area as well?
Lately, life has been hard and it gots me feeling like I wanted to reach out, tell him how much I miss him but as I was feeling anxious without knowing I started watching this video and I smiled to myself within the first few minutes into it... thanks for the advice! I can do better! :-)
Also, Linus should avoid asking about her/ talking about her to her Friends. This happened to me once. The person asked for "Time and Space", and so I went radio silent. No social media. No talking to people her knows. For 3 months. He came back. and with a renewed respect.
I dont get to hear much success stories , so tell us a little bit more about it Deana . Are u still with that person ?.. it just gives us a little bit more hope
deana K, thank you, just the answer I was waiting for. I guess there us hope for me, although he said it's his 40 Plus yr old daughter who crested so much ruckus, he felt his plate was full, and needed to situate thugs for her. Dumped me for her for the time being! I guess he is clearly too co-dependent???
deana K How and what do u do to not think and reach out to that person
Are u still with that person? My ex lashed out when I saw her at her job. I tried to get some closure, but it turn out into a heated discussion. Also, she confessed a secrets that broke my heart. I want her back but I didn't communicate that because she doesn't want me.
Well I talked to mutual co-workers about me and my ex and he got really angry at me. I ruined all my chances because of me being so darn stupid
I’ll admit that my anxiety kicks in at times, but thanks to listening to Craig and Margaret, I’m not going to do anything drastic to hurt my chances of rekindling my relationship.
I feel bad for my boy Linus. He's attracted to a woman that's bad for him.
Im just like Linus i am in love with someone I know is bad for me but it's like im addicted to her. Im doing no contact today she called i went to see her and got treated like shit again. I have to move onbut it's so hard to do so in back to no contact at all
Arnt we all!
There have been days that I listen to these videos all day long. At home and in my car. Sometimes two or three times just to get it drilled into my head.
Yes, poor Linus. Move on Linus. You need a better women. Wow, linus likes the trampy women.
@@kenjohnson3795 I know how you feel. It sucks.
I have watch this video 20 times now. I do it, so I keep disciplined.
Watching and listening to your videos have given lots of insight that I am following. My boyfriend broke up with me August 20th and I last text him on the 28th. I feel like it’s be an eternity. But, I’m sticking to it. Thru the years of having my heart ripped out by guys and me acting desperate in needing them back. Sad to say it never worked for me. So, it’s all of Craig’s counseling strategies that I am banking on. I love my ex very much. But, over all I’m going to be a better person in the end.
Craig, I am loving your videos! I listen to them DAILY! They have provided a positive perspective on change and detecting what is no longer going to last!
I feel like having a beer with Linus, he cracked me up!
Ehhh I think Linus is a train wreck and will jinx any chance of you meeting a decent woman lol
Yupp all about dicipline in every aspect in life across the board
Definitely the best coach out there
I've had massive amounts of discipline, and still failed. With all my ex's. It's been 2 months since the breakup of my current ex and that i moved out. I haven't done any unattractive behaviours during the breakup or to this very day. I haven't reached out to her once. She reached out to me a few times in regards to sorting living arrangements. I kept it brief. I have not agreed to being friends. I told her no friends, but if she wants to see me romantically let me know. If i'm still single we'll sort something. She reached out once just to see how i was, so i tried making a date. I got a "i'll see what i can do" response. So i withdrew the offer and told her to get in touch when she is more available. I basically took your advice from our email coaching Craig. I've been confident, and indifferent. She is now in a relationship with someone new after 2 months. They actually only met a couple of weeks ago i think and the status on her facebook is now that she is in a relationship. My point is, they still move on when you behave confidentally and indifferently, and it sucks. It makes you feel like there is no hope. Especially when their new boyfriend looks like a younger version of Quentin Tarantino with a bigger chin. When you become a better version of yourself and they still don't want you, then you feel like all is lost.
Oh so you think that because you didn't get the result that you wanted in YOUR expected time frame it's a failure???
Not the way it works. Yes it sucks. Keep working on yourself. Just because she started dating some new guy doesn't mean she won't come running back when it falls apart.
Coach Craig Kenneth - Yes this is true Craig. I'm thinking it's over because she is with someone new. It's the wrong way of looking at it i know. their relationship probably will fall apart. I'm still a better version of myself though, and thanks to your advice i haven't made my situation worse. So i've still won in a way. I have a couple of dates lined up anyway. Thanks Craig.
How did this turn out
@@cheeseface5843 did ur ex ever come back?
You are phenomenal. Couldnt get a msg in 7 days watched your video and already getting spammed within 4 hours. I know where I went wrong im the suffocator in the relationship over emotional but I stopped
When you realize you have also been Linus.
AJ X rip
Now I understand how this guy feels especially when you wana make things right but it’s not gonna Make things right at all
Your videos are therapeutic!
Blimey “bye bye birds eye”, I would never miss a woman like that, p.s Craig been watching yours vids last five months since my break was in relationship for 20yrs, you give me strength I’m following you’re tuition, you make me laugh.
This is pretty good, Craig. I was sort of like this with my very first girlfriend. I was 19 years old she was 16 and she was a knockout. It lasted 4 months. I was devastated when it ended. I called her up on occasion and sometimes at church. I was needy and sappy. She finally said, "why are you like this? Things wouldn't be so bad if you just wouldn't feel this way". I said I didn't know why. I really had to work on myself. Great advice. Thanks. :) You're one of a kind.
I screwed up! and my mindset right now is break no contact because Im thinking about the idea that if you truly love someone, fight for them and put in the work and effort to get them back! the idea that..small efforts build overtime. Does culture also play a part in deciding no contact? Thanks for the help.
I understand this!
14:20 Best Advice ever.
My anxiety made my avoidant ex feel smothered and resentful but I didn’t see it when I was in it. Hindsight = 20/20!! If I never get him back, I’m still a better, stronger more self-aware person!
This video never gets old! Funny and so educational.
Dammit Linus
One of your best videos for me Coach.
I just love how u talk to the camera🤣 poor linus
I met someone that put me on a pedastal week one. It was scary. To good to be True. My Mom was transitioning and passed away.. They gave me incredible support. Hence, grieving my Mother felt needy to them.. Why Support me while Moms suffering during her transition and once shes with the lord now my pain and reaching out was to much.? They blocked me???
Why? It seems cruel and not normal...
Hey coach! Have you made a video on what does he want? I saw the video about what does she want, what about what guys want? I'm sure you've covered that here and there in different videos, but have you dedicated a whole video to it? If so, I'd love to watch it
does your advice apply to women too?
Tracey Sacco I want to know this too
Yes!!
Debbie Gray i
The heart and mind will play some crazy tricks on you.
Linus needs to watch the video “how to have the upper hand”.
This is one of my favorite episodes of Coach Kenneth. Me and my friend - who is also a huge fan and follower of Craig - were laughing so hard watching this (I know it might sound cruel at first). At 9:29 I literally corrected what Craig tried to say.
"If there is one thing I know about Lynus... is that... (here comes my correction) HE CAN'T TAKE AN EFFIN HINT!!!"
Jesus, poor guy...
This video is a classic
Just my two cents (though you may say it later, i'm onlybat 6:50) - dating a beautiful girl when you don't like the way you look, creates a constant cognitive dissonance of - 'what the heck someone like this is doing with someone like me?' Which increases anxiety.
What if your ex is in a new relationship but keeps contacting you? Should I tell her to stop contacting me?
“You can’t fly, you can help not contacting her” 😂😂😂😂😂
My ex was attractive and treated me poorly. I have been soon 2 months in no contact and obviously she's doing fine without me...
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Agreed on behavior but yet most woman dont even know how to behave especially when they are with their friends but still demand it from their partners....
N0RRE J truth
N0RRE J they get to choose the dynamics a lot more because they are the feminine
I'm failing at having discipline. I said something very stupid on the phone tonight. I asked my girlfriend if she missed me. She said to me "is this a hint, no I didn't. " I'm not sure if she really meant that but I covered it up by saying "no it's not a hint I was just kidding. "Stupid stupid stupid. Weak weak weak. In the same Conversation on the phone I told her that I would like to talk more on the phone with her. She asked me if this bothered me. I told her it does a little bit. That would be nice to talking on the phone than text all the time. We only get to see each other on the weekends usually. She says well you can always pick up the phone and call. I said it works both ways. She had the excuse to say" well you know I'm busy all week."She is an alpha female and most the time not very sweet and very defensive. We do say we love each other sometimes. One day she would tell me she wants me , the next day cold. obviously she has some sort of disorder but I don't know which kind. What should I do?
Kk V I can diagnose her. she is has craziness to the maximum level...lol
Kk V Her 'disorder' sounds like she's Avoidant. I was with a Fearful Avoidant for five years. Textbook behavior, on her end, that you wrote. Mine was alpha, too.
Not fun overall, always, ALWAYS, a challenge to connect.
What about if we lived together for six years and we are splitting..but i still know that love is there the only thing is for now we dont tolerate each other...
Hey Coach , how do you build a communication platform if you haven't had one for two years ? Thanks Coach !
8:54, she told me that the day after the break up. Haven't said a thing since, at 2 months of NC and i don't plan on saying a thing. If she wants me, she can reach out lol
Linus sounds a lot like me. I wonder if there is a correlation between intelligence and anxiety
poor LYNOS !!
I know... he's a mess :(
This story is hilarious lol. I thought my girlfriend was bad just for being picky about my clothes all the time. Lol
My situation is a very strange and weird one to have to deal with, my ex an I broke up about a month an a half ago. Now here's the kicker she's 5 months pregnant, so I don't see how having no contact will help the situation or am I missing something?
Coach Craig you're absolutely right love the knowledge and information the way you explain it ..disipline 👍☝️ keeping it simple! thank you for the videos Man !
I saw my ex on my street on a Monday I didn't see him.but he said something to me but I didn't respond .is he driving on my street to look for me.please tell me I'm still in no contact with him . hurting person
another great video
THanks
hey coach .. what about new yr and Christmas .. should we initiate contact.. a normal message ??
can no contact still work if you reached out many times the 1st 3weeks after the break up ?
i always fail no contact, i only last 20hrs then contacting her again, that happen everytime, there are times that i feel so down and i miss her and thinking about all the negative things thinking about our memories and she will never comeback she will move on she is happy then my body start moving and texting her again, i really want to do no contact but i have bad anxiety and depression pls help :(
Take her number out of your phone. Or compose a text and send it to yourself!!
Keep doing a great job
Good job
Poor linus,and I just thought my situation was bad..dang bro I know it's easier said than done but holy crap man sounds like you have alot more to offer than she does,pretty on the outside but terrible on the inside
Rumor has it that Linus has a Tech Tips channel now.
Oh Linus lmaoooooo 🤦🏾♂️🤦🏾♂️🤦🏾♂️🤦🏾♂️🤦🏾♂️
I would love to have the coaching from lynes :D haha i could really need it :) is there a chance to win one?
How old is Linus? He sounds quite young.
alright Craig is beast
oh , I introduced your video to my ex, for him to know his attachment style... What if we both are doing no contact forever
I am anxious right now. LOL
wrong move
we still talk to each other
@@rightmiss5537 now what
"Do You? Do ya?" hahaahhah love You Craig
Poor Linus. He is just too needy and seems to lack self esteem.
Is this channel only to get a female ex back? What about when a guy dumped you? can you help ?
We want more videos
Please introduce me to lioness
This is so ture. Only if I listened.
You are so lovely!!!!
Thanks Claudia :)
5 of his coworkers 😲. Linus. No. 🤦🏻♀️
It's like you're talking about me. What did you suggest him to do to solve the anxiety problem? What can I do?
Because how can this guy work on himself in a way that helps him as long as he is in a relationship. Not only post break up and no contact?
Anyone know coach's email?
"ill contact you when i'm ready" that's such horseshit...just a tactic to keep you thinking about them and waiting. a control move
Do yah
what if it's her birthday? could I just say happy birthday?
jamal Ausberry No
jamal Ausberry NO CONTACT
jamal Ausberry She will see it as indirect direct contact.
Damn she is trying to piss him off.
I keep thinking this is Linus Sebastián lol
Ohh Linus
She keeps emailing me with no substance. I will not reply.
Wtf I love Linus hahahah
Godzilla's not real?? STOP IT!
this video sound so familiar to me
why do you adress everything to men there are woman watching too
It all works for men and women. The main difference is in the early courtship as far as expectations.
Kim Michaud he does all the time :)
+Thomas Clemens I'm not a les Bian idiot why would I want my ex back if I was gay
***** yes ur right they do I realized that after I said it
+moooocoooow welcome It was a mistake on my part to say it
Godzilla is a God lol And Still! King Of The Monsters! It real bro 😂
I love your videos is helping me a lot with my anxities.
My fiance he left 1 week a go😏 whitout telling me nothing. After 6 years of relationship i don’t think i was happy with him. Always he made me suffer and always he cared about him self hanghing around with his friends. He just droped me a text that he want to see his child but i didn’t replay. I think he just want to use his child just to know what i am doing?
I am to stuborn i don’t want to talk to him at all. I will never contact him.
Damn, I feel like I destroyed my chances to get my ex fiance back due to my anxiety. After she left, I called her often, text, and even flew to see her. After that, I only reached out once in a month and a half, but got no response. I feel that maybe we still have hope. But I'm not going to contact her again.
dayum12 stay strong. Dont contact her, man. We in this together
shorfan thanks man. I haven't contacted her in 2 months. I was going to write her a letter, but I go back in forward. The last few months of our relationship was filled with arguing. But what gets me everyday is the anxiety. Painful stuff bro!
dayum12 I know what you mean bro... I feel it too. Stay strong!
***** I'm completely focusing on me. I don't know why i, but I'm not holding my breath anymore on if she'll return. We went through ALOT!
***** Yes indeed! It's by far the toughest thing I've encountered, but I am going to come out better once I get to the other side.
Oh....... I failed 🤭
Sounds like me lol dag Liness
Coach is so 🤣
Lol linus
Nice👏🏾
thank u
Seems Linus likes the abuse🤦🏻♀️
I wish you the best Linus , Listen to our Coach please ! ##%/\&&##
another great video